How do you guys dress?
Right now I just started HRT and I'm trying to find ways to "own" being a trans girl rather than just slapping make up and a dress on and saying "I'm a stunning and brave woman shitlords"
Hi everyone. Does it annoy anyone else that all the trans people we see in the media are ugly hons? It would be really nice for the trans community if there were some young, well adjusted, passing trans women (or ftms), in the mainstream media. I feel like all these old hons like the Kardashian fuck aren't really helping trans people by coming out. It gives everyone this idea that trans people are just old men wearing a dress.
The goal is to pass as a woman not socially out myself as trans so I'm labeled as such the rest of my life. I imagine that most passing trans women feel this way.
After you're stealth for a few years you don't really think about being trans (dysphoria aside; srs helps)
There are several trans celebrities that would not be considered "old hon's" well maybe "old" by the juvenile mentality but you really don't see too much of them because they are well adjusted, fitting in, and not really being made a big deal out of because they do not have the "HEY, HEY, LOOK AT ME I NEED ATTENTION" mentality that sadly is so prevalent on here nor the incessant need to compare yourself and be "better" than everyone else.Grow up, worry about yourself...
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>all the trans people we see in the media are ugly hons
Laverne Cox looks pretty good desu. Way better than Caitlyn Jenner.
Can someone tell me why people are so promiiscuous? So I was in gaygen tinychat with people yesterday, they were all talking about the people they've fucked, pulling out their dating apps and stuff. I just can't believe that someone would have sex with someone they don't even know. Am I alone here in thinking that sounds sort of fucked up? I mean I have been wondering about what that scenario would even be like. I feel like I would even get hard, because it would be so uncomfortable trying to fuck someone I don't know.
It really sucks. It grosses me out that these people are having sex with a bunch of people they don't know. For me I find the idea of having sex with a stranger disgusting. At the same time though, it's really difficult to find someone to even talk to me to have a date. I'm not unattractive, it's just that no one is interested in dating. It sucks because I want to have sex, yet all these people are having sex with total strangers and I'm not getting any.
You must live a sheltered life. Straight men are like this. They hook up and talk about girls in the same way. Straight people have started to use Tindr as a hook up app too.
Idk you just sound judgmental. What people do in their private lives has no effect on you. If you're going to pass judgment on gay men, you might as well pass judgment on men as a whole
I have always been kinda confused on it, and no matter who I ask everyone has ha dthe same answers, so I was wondering, how long does it actually take for your body to stop producing spermatozoa? Not as in permanently, but while actively not HRT, how long will it take for your sperm to stop producing.
I've been on it for slightly longer than two months, and my ejaculate is nearly clear if that means anything.
Two months eh? Cute.
I stopped ejaculating alltogether a bit before the one year mark. I'd say as long as someone keeps taking their meds regularly, that's the point at which you are completely infertile - the point at which you don't ejaculate at all. Whether or not it can start back up again if you go off the meds is another story.
Even if it's clear, it's really not worth risking - as long as there is fluid coming out, there could easily be sperm in it. Therefore the only point you can be absolutely sure of infertility is the point at which nothing comes out.
It may seem a long time away, but you'll get there and it'll seem like no time at all. In fact, you'll eventually stop caring about how many months in you are, and lose track all together.
>doesn't identify as male or female
>husband uses all female pronouns
>gr8 b8 m8 I r8 8/8
Long story short, I'm not sure whether I should transition or not.
Ever since I was a kid, I've always felt more comfortable in a female role. I never liked doing the "guy" thing or being "one of the guys". I don't particularly like the male role, image, or really anything about it. Which got me to thinking that I should transition.
As a bit of backstory, I went to college and roomed with someone in the same position as me. Since she finally got away from her parents, she started self medicating HRT and fully transitioning. Now, she's pretty happy with herself.
I, however, am confused for various reasons. Firstly, I live in a relatively small town in New Hampshire. I can't imagine me doing this without everyone else finding out before I'm ready to leave. Secondly, my parents. I have a pretty good relationship with my parents. It's, at the least, civil and somewhat open. I know I'm not the son they wanted but I don't want to lose them completely.
I'm in a real weird spot and I honestly have no one else to talk to about this. halp :<
pic unrelated, have these feet as payment
Just go for it. You'll get to be a hot chick and it'll be fun.
Anyone else technically bisexual but only very slightly so?
Do you have any mental health issues, /lgbt/?
I have pretty severe ADHD and it makes my life really difficult. I can't understand the passage of time, I forget what I'm saying mid sentence, and it takes me an extra 15-20 minutes every time I want to leave the house because I have to find all my things and end up misplacing things I already found in the process of looking for other things.
Bipolar type II and SAD
Its painful to interact in active customer facing roles and engage in mundane interpersonal tasks. I prefer e-mail and avoid phones and direct communication. If I could reasonably get every essential item delivered and work from home I would probably never leave again.
During upward bipolar cycles I will be somewhat more outgoing, but I've also done completely dangerous things and have spent recklessly on shit I don't need. I also find myself unable to concentrate on...
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Anyone that is mtf also has friendship with others mtf? I think it would be adorable to have a sister :3
What was/is your college major, /lgbt/?
> inb4 all the trans girls in CompSci
I'm majoring in biochemistry
banking on the biotech industry boom
Bi man going for an associate's in IT.
Wish I could meet a cute guy on campus, but I live too far away to attend any clubs in my shitty gas guzzler.
>tfw cursed with the gorilla gene
>tfw just want to be a qt twink
>tfw qt guys will never notice me
>tfw like the gorilla gene type
>tfw not qt twink
>tfw YOU will never notice ME
.dude think about it EVERYONE lives this story in one manner or another. It sucks but it is true.
What do you mean with the gorilla gene? Do you think the best version of yourself would be unattractive? If you eat healthy and work out you will be attractive to the majority of people
What it says is what it is
What's lesgen drinking tonight? I've got some vodka and orange soda because that's all I have right now.
I was gonna have this as OP to make weebs happy. But idk if classical bbw japanese girls are anyones interest.
am I straight if I think like 99% of the people on grindr are fucking ugly and I'd never fuck them or find them attractive?
No you're not straight.
You just have standards.
Don't be afraid, it's nothing to worry about.
It just means you won't latch onto the first cock you find.
That's not a bad thing so don't be ashamed for having it.
if you're an FTM, why would you want to get on T? Why wouldn't you just want to keep your natural femboy appearance? I'm a cis male and I wish I was pre-T femboy.
most women aren't as cute as fembois though. femboys are cute because they have that androgynous look that suggests a hint of manliness while still being pretty. its rarer for a female to possess the same qualities.