Can someone tell me why people are so promiiscuous? So I was in gaygen tinychat with people yesterday, they were all talking about the people they've fucked, pulling out their dating apps and stuff. I just can't believe that someone would have sex with someone they don't even know. Am I alone here in thinking that sounds sort of fucked up? I mean I have been wondering about what that scenario would even be like. I feel like I would even get hard, because it would be so uncomfortable trying to fuck someone I don't know.
>>5188778
>Can someone tell me why people are so promiiscuous?
Sex is fun.
That and it's kinda expected this day and age.
>>5188813
It really sucks. It grosses me out that these people are having sex with a bunch of people they don't know. For me I find the idea of having sex with a stranger disgusting. At the same time though, it's really difficult to find someone to even talk to me to have a date. I'm not unattractive, it's just that no one is interested in dating. It sucks because I want to have sex, yet all these people are having sex with total strangers and I'm not getting any.
>>5188822
You must live a sheltered life. Straight men are like this. They hook up and talk about girls in the same way. Straight people have started to use Tindr as a hook up app too.
Idk you just sound judgmental. What people do in their private lives has no effect on you. If you're going to pass judgment on gay men, you might as well pass judgment on men as a whole
I have always been kinda confused on it, and no matter who I ask everyone has ha dthe same answers, so I was wondering, how long does it actually take for your body to stop producing spermatozoa? Not as in permanently, but while actively not HRT, how long will it take for your sperm to stop producing.
I've been on it for slightly longer than two months, and my ejaculate is nearly clear if that means anything.
Two months eh? Cute.
I stopped ejaculating alltogether a bit before the one year mark. I'd say as long as someone keeps taking their meds regularly, that's the point at which you are completely infertile - the point at which you don't ejaculate at all. Whether or not it can start back up again if you go off the meds is another story.
>>5188612
Well you can ejaculate without sperm in it.
I just really want to know that if I am taking it, how long will it take for ejaculate to be infertile
>>5188622
Even if it's clear, it's really not worth risking - as long as there is fluid coming out, there could easily be sperm in it. Therefore the only point you can be absolutely sure of infertility is the point at which nothing comes out.
It may seem a long time away, but you'll get there and it'll seem like no time at all. In fact, you'll eventually stop caring about how many months in you are, and lose track all together.
>wife
>her
>she
>doesn't identify as male or female
>husband uses all female pronouns
>gr8 b8 m8 I r8 8/8
>>5188393
>actually whining about random, unsourced text written by a complete stranger on the internet
oh, wait. that's 4chan in a nutshell, isn't it?
maybe she still uses female pronouns
check that privilege m8
Hey /lgbt/
Long story short, I'm not sure whether I should transition or not.
Ever since I was a kid, I've always felt more comfortable in a female role. I never liked doing the "guy" thing or being "one of the guys". I don't particularly like the male role, image, or really anything about it. Which got me to thinking that I should transition.
As a bit of backstory, I went to college and roomed with someone in the same position as me. Since she finally got away from her parents, she started self medicating HRT and fully transitioning. Now, she's pretty happy with herself.
I, however, am confused for various reasons. Firstly, I live in a relatively small town in New Hampshire. I can't imagine me doing this without everyone else finding out before I'm ready to leave. Secondly, my parents. I have a pretty good relationship with my parents. It's, at the least, civil and somewhat open. I know I'm not the son they wanted but I don't want to lose them completely.
I'm in a real weird spot and I honestly have no one else to talk to about this. halp :<
pic unrelated, have these feet as payment
Just go for it. You'll get to be a hot chick and it'll be fun.
>>5188310
Am I just being too paranoid about this?
Wishing I could just self medicate but I'm obviously not brave enough to risk something like that...
bump for desperation
moar feets
Anyone else technically bisexual but only very slightly so?
The majority of the population
Pretty much everybody.
>>5188150
i think that's pretty much how sexuality works
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>>5188070
He's really not that attractive. And that movie blows, too.
>>5188088
this
movie was shit and the guy was a bad actor
>tfw I always go to the movies alone
Do you have any mental health issues, /lgbt/?
I have pretty severe ADHD and it makes my life really difficult. I can't understand the passage of time, I forget what I'm saying mid sentence, and it takes me an extra 15-20 minutes every time I want to leave the house because I have to find all my things and end up misplacing things I already found in the process of looking for other things.
>>5187706
Bipolar type II and SAD
Its painful to interact in active customer facing roles and engage in mundane interpersonal tasks. I prefer e-mail and avoid phones and direct communication. If I could reasonably get every essential item delivered and work from home I would probably never leave again.
During upward bipolar cycles I will be somewhat more outgoing, but I've also done completely dangerous things and have spent recklessly on shit I don't need. I also find myself unable to concentrate on...
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>>5187706
depression and anxiety
JUST
i have ptsd and depression and bpd
i don't sleep. I am scared and unhappy most of the time.
I don't leave the house because of the agoraphobia feels from ptsd.
Anyone that is mtf also has friendship with others mtf? I think it would be adorable to have a sister :3
A friend of a friend of mine came out as trans a bit after me. We don't talk much though since we never really got along
I did, for a few months. The "almost all trannies are batshit insane" was true after all.
>>5187366
god, tell me about it
What was/is your college major, /lgbt/?
> inb4 all the trans girls in CompSci
I'm majoring in biochemistry
banking on the biotech industry boom
Trans girl in Chemistry desu senpai
Bi man going for an associate's in IT.
Wish I could meet a cute guy on campus, but I live too far away to attend any clubs in my shitty gas guzzler.
>tfw cursed with the gorilla gene
>tfw just want to be a qt twink
>tfw qt guys will never notice me
>>5187034
>tfw like the gorilla gene type
>tfw not qt twink
>tfw YOU will never notice ME
.dude think about it EVERYONE lives this story in one manner or another. It sucks but it is true.
>just want to be a qt twink
Start taking estrogen, like all the other trannies do.
>>5187034
What do you mean with the gorilla gene? Do you think the best version of yourself would be unattractive? If you eat healthy and work out you will be attractive to the majority of people
What it says is what it is
old thread
>>5175259
What's lesgen drinking tonight? I've got some vodka and orange soda because that's all I have right now.
>>5186993
Wonderful
I was gonna have this as OP to make weebs happy. But idk if classical bbw japanese girls are anyones interest.
am I straight if I think like 99% of the people on grindr are fucking ugly and I'd never fuck them or find them attractive?
>>5186908
Nah, you're just picky. I'm a married straight guy and I think roughly 99% of the women I see at bars are vapid airheads. This kills the boner.
>>5186908
I'm a bit like that myself, even though I'm bi I still get picky about both genders since they both have really annoying trends that are a bit of a turn off.
>>5186908
No you're not straight.
You just have standards.
Don't be afraid, it's nothing to worry about.
It just means you won't latch onto the first cock you find.
That's not a bad thing so don't be ashamed for having it.
if you're an FTM, why would you want to get on T? Why wouldn't you just want to keep your natural femboy appearance? I'm a cis male and I wish I was pre-T femboy.
Post-T FTMs look like girly guys. Pre-T just look like dykes
>>5186775
you wouldn't unless you have disphoria
>>5186775
most women aren't as cute as fembois though. femboys are cute because they have that androgynous look that suggests a hint of manliness while still being pretty. its rarer for a female to possess the same qualities.
Been noticing some odd things lately, and I'm worrying I might have dysphoria
>Often feel depressed
>Kinda want to be a girl sometimes, not sure
>Remembered that as a kid I always fantasised about becoming a girl
>Pretty gay already
>I like feminine clothes - never had the guts to crossdress but have considered it
>in fact I had a thing for genderswap stories back then, always...
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>I want to be a girl
>What do you guys think, do I want to be a girl?
>>5186678
It's the "not sure" part, didn't word it the best. Meant that I'm curious about it but still unsure,
>>5186695
Well personally I think it's more important to ask "could I tolerate being a man for my entire life?" rather than "do I want to be a girl?"
Should probably work through stuff with a therapist though if you're having any sort of doubts regarding gender identity
>be gay but in the closet
>really nice girl takes an interest in me
>asks me out on a date and says she's single, I agree because I'm too awkward to tell her plus she's cool
How do I handle this? She's also deep in my social circle, and nobody else knows I'm gay. I'm afraid she'll spill the beans because I haven't known her for too long.
How the fuck do I handle this? I don't want to upset her.
>>5186225
Do you plan on marrying her just to not make her uncomfy or come out by accident?
Just tell her you don't see her that way and don't be full autismo going out with straight grills.
Shit's gonna be worse if you lead her on.
Here's a magic trick, so powerful that even the dark arts of necromancy can't compare.
Tell her the fucking truth.
Tell her what you wrote here. If you are too busy being paranoid, i'll make a list:
>You are a cool girl, i really mean it
>Can you keep a secret? (see how she reacts)
>But i'm a closeted gay
>Sorry if i accepted, but i was too nervous/awkward to deny, plus you looked cool.
Unless she's the...
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It's not leading someone on if you take them on a single date, christ.
Just tell her you see her as a friend or some shit, don't want to change things, you aren't ready for a relationship, etc.