>>5397077 Where I am there are way more tops and hardly any exclusive bottoms. online dating is practically impossible for me as a vers since I'm rather twinkish and everyone wants me to exclusively bottom. I think it really depends on where you are.
>>5396836 The masturbating for temporary relief thing is fairly common. Dysphoria is not-good-feel, and masturbation floods your system with good-feel.
Can't tell you how you should feel, or what you should do, but suggests being very sure that the life you've built yourself is incompatible with transitioning (medically, socially, or both) before you write it off as impossible.
Hormones affect people differently, but you can expect within two months:
Physically, you should see clearer skin, slower body hair growth, breast buds, and some muscle loss.
Mood-wise you can expect to have a less stable mood, less energy, and less sex-drive (or more likely an altered one). I usually hear other trans women saying they feel better despite that.
Anyway, I think you're going to want to let go of your hate-on for women. It's absolutely not their fault you were not born female.
>>5396836 Heya guy. I figured out I had a sissy fetish when I was 21(last year), after much self-loathing and anger that I was still a virgin. I then started to develop envy towards women and all of the attention they get and started to desire to become a hot girl.
I also fantasized men for quite a bit, even after only being attracted to women all of my life but this fantasy is seeming to fade now and I'd rather be a Lesbian.
I know how you feel though, being a tranny would cause me to lose my home, my job,... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Is there any way someone could get hormones off the internet while under 18? My "friend" has conservative parents who won't ever let them get hormones, so they are going to have to get spiro and estrogen by themselves, but they only have a paypal account. What website will accept paypal?
Can anyone sum up the history of derogatory terms for gays? Here's what I've got so far:
>Sodomite was the big one back in the day, but fell out use somewhen idk when. >Fag seems too modern, I feel like there must've been something between the two. >Bender/poof seem UK-only, exclusively modern and also semi tongue-in-cheek (can you imagine trying to offend someone by calling them a poof?). >When did queer change its meaning (the first... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Jonathan Swift used the term breeder as early as the 1700s, specifically in "A Modest Proposal". The term was used to liken women more to being livestock instead of wives/mothers. He took issue with families who had too many children and are unable to properly rear them.
The term really picked up again when the gay marriage debate started in the mid 2000s.
Queer again had much earlier usage, first recorded around the 1500s. The word started to shift in the 1890s, most notably when a Scottish nobleman was arrested for accusing Oscar Wilde of being a sodomite,... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>5401441 I'd think it depends on how often you see each other. I'd probably do it after a year or two and maybe start moving in together around that time as well. But I prefer things to go pretty slow.
Also I usually withold sex for like 3-5 dates so I'm a little out of the norm for gays lol
Well guys, my bf and I broke up last night and I'm just afraid that finding a boy who is cool with being a tranny and is also a 4chan edgelord will be tough, but that's honestly just what I need for a relationship to work. Is there somewhere to find people like this? I live in the midwest, which probably makes it worse. Not like it matters. Just need someone to get my mind off of him.
>>5400969 Transitioning is about living as the sex you feel is the real you. If you feel you're a girl then how the hell will being a femboy make you feel complete? Two different things. This is not all a beauty contest. The ugly chick from Maine always wins those anyway.
>defeat this suggested contradiction with your logic I really am curious, I tried wrapping my head around it but got a little murky when my understanding of the difference between sex and gender proved to be inadequate. I'm aware of the concept that gender norms are mostly societal pressure, like girls shaving their legs etc. but transgender stuff has got me all twisted up.
>>5399819 social gender norms, as in what's expected of each gender in our society are mostly socially constructed... but that doesn't mean gender in and of itself is entirely a social construct. there are biological reasons people recognize themselves as a certain gender that have nothing to do with socially constructed ideas of gender like men wearing suits and ties and women wearing heels and lipstick.
I have things like body dysphoria and always looked more to the females in my life for guidance, support, friendship etc. and it was more natural. This resulted in being influenced by things that /are/ pushed onto girls from a young age and have quite little to do with what is probably a wiring issue we aren't close to understanding yet.
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I feel bad for a lot of older transitioners. I think what a lot of younger mtfs here don't realize is that transitioning used to be much harder. You couldn't just click around on the internet to get HRT and you were real fucking lucky if you had access to a medical system that didn't put you through all sorts of bullshit basically trying to stop you from transitioning as hard as possible. Not to mention acceptance and awareness was even worse than it is now. I'm sure a lot of hons would be transitioning in their late teens/early twenties if they had been... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
My father was physically and emotionally abusive alcoholic.
Was raped in teens
>Get groped and molested four separate instances since transition
> Get stalked and laughed at on the street
The non violent ones assume that if they compliment my appearance I owe them sex.
I'm just so bitter, I feel hollow and worn out from the hate, I'm attracted to men physically but I can't stand their attitudes, how's pushy they are, their total lack of respect. I don't want... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
I'm 25 and I'm pretty sure I'm a homosexual, but there's always this doubt in my mind, what if I'm just turning myself gay because I'm never around women or that I've never slept with a woman that's even my own age. I once slept with a woman in her late 40's, after she left I started crying because i've stoubted so low to do some weird middle age woman with fucked up. But at least I wasn't a virgin anymore. I didn't enjoy the sex, I couldn't even cum.
Now... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>5402536 But I just want to know how it feels to have sex with a girl that's around my age(like a regular person). Maybe I flick will go inside me head where I actually can fantasies about having sex with women without having to think about another man in the process.
Sometimes I feel like I've become a bottom cock luster because I'm a weak straight man, a omega man.
Every fantasy i've had about a women involved me scoping out for cocks in the gym to find the hungest men for a girl to fuck... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
It's not gonna be a whole hell of a lot different having sex with a woman who's a little younger, dude.
Things might be marginally tighter, that's p much it.
It's not that fucking out there to be into dudes, Anon. If you try it and you don't like it, well, then you know it was a lack of feminine influence. If you try it and you DO like it, congratulations! You have found a thing you like. Do more of it, be happy, enjoy sex endorphins.
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