So I understand coming out of the closet as gay after pressured to be straight, but what does /lgbt/ think about people who identified as gay and "came out" as straight years later?
Pic unrelated.
U dont have to come out, just back to the heteronormativity
Hey /lgbt/, I was wondering what you guys thought of Tinder? I'm a 20yo mtf transgirl and I'm considering maybe trying it out. I'm not specifically looking for hook ups though. I just had a couple of questions
>is it only for hookups or can you make friends/relationships on it too?
>if i'm a semi-passable (mostly androgynous) transgirl do you think I'll get matches? is it even worth it or will i just get left swipes?
>what do i write in my description? i know...
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Most of the people I know use it to go out on first dates. As for what to put, I have no idea, most people have very small profiles and a few selected pictures. Probably a good idea that you want to put that you're trans on it, there's a shit ton of bros on there.
>>5505031
The other thing is that you won't know if someone left-swiped you, the only ones you will be aware of are the ones who you right swiped and they right swiped you back. It's designed to protect precious millennial feelings.
>>5505083
but my millennial feelings are so sensitive that just KNOWING someone swiped left brings little millennial tears to my eyes
WHY DO PEOPLE THINK THIS IS OK?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QNOs9Ngabm4
>>5502241
>gay bullying
>implying it's real
mod plz clean.
>>5502267
> a pack of tough queers stroll up to the school wimp
> "Look at this dweeb, I bet he doesn't even suck dick"
> "Haha, make any babies today, womb raider?"
> "C-c'mon guys, I'm just going to class..."
> "Hey, let's pull down his pants!"
> "Boxers! Straight boy doesn't...
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Get in here lesgen
How's the new year treating you?
>re-watching ORAB
>remember how stunning this gal is
Thinking about going back to school tomorrow makes me kinda sick
But I started watching Lost Girl and it's pretty cool so far so it cancels out
>>5503985
>thinking about going back to school tomorrow makes me kinda sick
Who gets back to school in the middle of the week?
what should i do lgbt? im mtf , i have a cute petite body for a "man" but my face disgust me so much its like ruining everything.
Everytime i get compliments for my body, and my selfesteem gets a bit up i see my face in the mirror and have to almost throw up.
i dont even think average ffs surgieons could fix it but the most expensive and best, wich i will be never able to effort.
learn to take pride in what you think is ugly about you. if i was approached by two versions of you that are both the same physically, the only difference being one confident and proud and the other hating themselves... id probably lean more towards the confidant one. pick that argument apart if you want but the general idea is that and is true. more to it than that buttt
He lives two hours away in my home town....I just got a new job in my [very liberal] city but he is established where he is (very conservative city).
I want it to work and grow. I haven't felt this good about a potential relationship for a long time.
There is no way to do it with 2 hours in between...I feel really happy but also really sad.
purgatory is hell. There is no third position.
What city? Larger cities even in more conservative states or countries are usually more liberal
>>5513559
military plays a role
It all makes so much sense now
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extra firm beam curb boobs
>>5513234
Finn right? I was cheering for them on Tuesday. Great game.
I haven't skated in a while either. I kept walking by a small ice rink last week and wishing I had skates.
there is already one new general on the front page. delete this one, retard
>>5512286
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>>5512317
>no bully
Best edition
give me memes
>>5512317
Too slow.
I'm mtf, and I have no clue why, but ftms make me really uncomfortable. Like I know some personally and they are fine people, I don't dislike them and they've never done anything bad to me, but just thinking about someone being ftm makes my skin crawl. I try really hard to not let it affect how I interact with them or talk about then, but I feel like a huge hypocrite. Am I alone here or is this common?
i thought i was the only one
i talk to them as normally as possible but they make my skin crawl and idk why
I'm ftm and mtfs weird me out, so I know how you feel.
>>5511799
I get where you're coming from. Most of the ftm I know are mainly doing it because they're too fat/ugly to be a traditional girl. One has actually said "I mainly want to be a guy because as a guy I can be this big and noone would bat an eye." told her she'd still be a fat ass as a male, and be made fun of for having as best a small dick. got berated for it and haven't heard from them since.
There are some ftm that actually feel like they should be a guy, but from what I've seen and the ones I've talked to they all pretty much just seem like they're hoping it'll get them to be socially acceptable.
Though I've also noticed this with lesbians.
Most of the mtf and gay guys I know are in shape and actually take care of themselves while the lesbians and ftm are just, to put it bluntly either landwhales or horror scenes.
hey guys , i really dont know how to write that anf i dont even know if im in the right place here but i really dont know if im gay i mean i just for the first time jizzed in my face and swallowed a bit cause i saw a thread in /gif/ about that and thought that i should try it, well the point is that i dont know if im gay or am becoming gay or something like that i cant fap to gay porn only shemale and straight am i turning gay or something lol ?
guys pls what is "wrong" with me ?
>>5510264
is that a yes im turning gay or what dont lol me again pls
>>5510272
lol
Ok I am going to babble here so please excuse grammar, punctuation, spelling, and sentence structure. I dont know what to do, there Is a guy i really like very far away and he is very sweet, but can go days with no communication, he says I need to get used to it (implying he will be around) It is NOT easy, if it does work we wont ( other than a couple of possible vacations, be able to be together for 2 yrs.
I have been alone for 20 yrs now ( not so much as a kiss) and It is killing me. Do I hold on and hope he can work out the issues that I am aware he has (depression got...
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ok wow, thanks but ok I am used to doing this shit alone anyways.
...kind of.
I'll preface this by saying that I'd intended to post this in the trans help general, but opted not to because it's 250 pages long or something. The likelihood of whatever I post there getting buried is pretty substantial, imo. So...apologies in advance!
I really don't know if I'm trans or not, or maybe some kind of AGP shitter. I've always felt some degree of disconnect between myself, my body, and the world around me, which is disconcerting in its own right, but it wasn't until a few years ago at the age of 19 when...
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tits or gtfo
>>5507844
First, I would encourage you to join us on /agpg/
It's difficult to help you, because a lot of us have the same troubles. For me in particular, these are painfully familiar
>Having said that, I've been masturbating to the idea of being a woman for as long as I've been masturbating Self insertion is practically the only way for me to get off.
>I've always felt some degree of disconnect between >I honestly don't know...
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My dad made this weird comment via text about the family dog when I called it a "cunt that wouldn't listen"....
He said "maybe he's confused about his sexuality"...it had no meaning in the context and I am not sure if he was saying it to me. My family is very conservative and I am not formally out to them.
The reality is that I'm in my mid 20's and visiting home, but I have had off and on boyfriends and girlfriends since middle school...that's at least 10 years...also they know me so there is a lot of evidence. I even...
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>>5507426
>There's a lot of evidence
>Surprised that your parents catch on
>>5507426
Just come out if they ask, you're out of the nest now and it seems like they might suspect it.
>>5507426
They probably already know anon. Also it depends on what Kind of conservative they are. They might be the kind that will love you always, no matter what they disagree with you on. I would wait till one more hint though, try bringing another guy over.
Seems like child abuse to me, probably wacko liberal single moms leading their kids to do this for attention due to that munchausens by proxy mental disorder.
>>5505044
I think young children aren't really aware enough to realize that "I like dolls" and "Girls like dolls" does not lead to "I'm more like a girl."
I mean, Jesus, can't we at least wait until they're, say, 11 and have a better understanding of the physical differences between boys and girls?
>>5505072
No you bigot, who are you to deny my three year old girl-son xir medically necessary taxpayer funded vaginoplasty, breast implants, and HRT?
>>5505072
Make trans men wait until the age of 18 to undergo HRT. Test is so powerful it won't make a difference that they haven't gone through male puberty, but taking test before female puberty will permanently fuck your shit up. It's not a good idea.
On the flipside, let trans girls go through transition right before puberty. If they decide they aren't really trans, just let them detransition and let testosterone do it's thing.
Everyone passes, everyone's happy. It's simple as hell.
What are the worst noises or reactions your partner(s) have ever made?
- Virgin guy in obvious discomfort, ruined the mood by groaning and recoiling every time I pushed, but insisted that we keep going, then completely pulled away just as I came
- Crossdresser who kept calling me daddy, and asking "what does daddy want me to do next?" instead of just going with it
- Tranny who tried way too hard to do a female voice, resulting in a screechy grating noise that never stopped
"I haven't been fucked like that since grade school"
>>5504943
>Virgin guy in obvious discomfort, ruined the mood by groaning and recoiling every time I pushed, but insisted that we keep going, then completely pulled away just as I came
Maybe its just me, but shouldnt a good top know how to control some of the discomfort if they know what they are doing?
"I don't think I could commit to living with a man with the rest of my life. But can we still be good friends?"