i've been thinking about this a lot lately and i feel like society and the trans community really push you to seek out this ideal of being a woman. you're supposed to identify strictly as a woman, and try everything you can to prove you're just a normal woman at heart. but i don't understand why that would have any appeal or make any sense when i can't think of a single thing that all cisgender women have in common, other than two x chromosomes and being referred to as women. i can't even see a chromosome or talk to a chromosome or anything like that, so i figure it would be weird to care about not having one. and what's the point in needing to be referred to specifically as a woman? i am what i am and no word is going to change that. as far as i'm concerned it doesn't really matter if people think i'm a woman, a man, or a fish. what matters is that i'm comfortable with my body, that i feel free to explore my femininity, and that i can be myself without feeling insecure about it. so why should i try to be anything in particular other than a well-adjusted, well-rounded, kind person?
i'm sorry about the wall of text but i just had a lot of thoughts that i wanted to get out
if you only read the title and respond to that then that's ok. i'm not expecting anyone to trudge through a wall of text when they don't want to
>>5632525
You already said that everyone is different.
I'm just nervous what picture of myself I show if I'm so obviously trans but don't try to fit into a female role at all.
Afterall I very much do want to be seen as female and I feel I got a lot of shortcomings to compensate for.
I think this would be much less of a concern if I pass.
earlier today a guy told me i wasn't trans because i said i don't want to be a woman. he said it doesn't matter that i take hormones, or that i mostly wear clothing for women, or that i wear makeup, or that i'm training my voice to be less resonant/higher, etc. if i don't have a strong feeling that i'm a woman, then i'm not trans. but i don't understand why anyone would try to be a woman when the word doesn't even really mean much of anything. i feel like it actually means a lot more to say that i'm feminine than to say that i'm a woman
Whu do trans people always look depressed? They never look happy no matter what they do.
not depressed porbably just sad
>>5632423
Look pretty miserable to be. Which makes me think its more of a mental illness imho.
>>5632418
Because being trans just sucks in every way?
And you can't give it a break either.
All of you are fags
>>5632187
*most of you are fags
>>5632187
Shit u got me
>>5632187
You're forgetting about the dykes and trannies, OP. But then I shouldn't expect any better from a faggot like OP.
Why are lesbians so jealous of Chad? They seem to be almost offended by them.
>>5632097
Look at those guns! They are clearly afraid they might lose when challenging a Chad to an arm wrestling contest for his ho. :^)
>>5632097
Shit, would fuck the left one in a heartbeat desu
gay general
study more - you know you should
>>5671729
Man I have
I only have accounting exam left
First for body goals.
Second for relationship goals..
I'm so lonely and bitter... Am I Liz lemon?
>masturbate at least daily
>normal cis guy
>stop masturbating
>after a few days i start wanting to be a girl
>masturbate again
>it goes away like before
T-this is normal right guys?
Does it mean that I've got a testosterone deficiency or something?
Like if it is, I'd rather get a suplement or something, cause it's getting harder and harder to fap (no pun pls).
>>5671081
AGP? I understand what you mean, but I've never really had a problem feeling like this. I'm pretty sure that I'm not genuine when I feel it, I'm pretty sure it's just a sexual thing. Maybe you are the same, but you are just dwelling on it heaps?
>>5671081
What do you mean when you say that it's getting harder and harder to fap?
>>5671106
Like I used to be able to fap to literally nothing. I looked at it mostly like a chore, so I would just masturbate doing whatever I was doing before a shower, not even thinking about it.
Now it takes an extremely specific type of pornography before I can even get erect.
>>5671094
I hope not. The two seem sorta independant of each other, but they don't ever happen at the same time.
>physically abusive parents, low self-esteem, hate myself
>wanted to kill myself when I was 15, go to train station late at night
>a trans woman (we'll call her V) comes out of nowhere and talks me out of it
>she holds me and hugs me and comforts me while I'm crying
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>get into community college at 19 (she's 26)
>i'm doing better, no longer an emotional idiot, parents have been to couple's therapy and are being less retarded, everything is better
>email V, no response for next year and a half
>start dating a girl at school
>think I'm over V but she continues to creep into my thoughts
>mutual break up with girlfriend, felt that our relationship...
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>>5631864
>she confesses that the reason that she was at that train station was because she wanted to kill herself too
That was immediately obvious though. What else would a trans woman who sounds like doesn't pass be doing at a train station late into the night? Especially when she immediately stopped someone who seems to have had the same idea.
Also, are you a cis girl or also trans?
Okay so I am completely in love with anal, but it's gotta be done right, you know?
But here's my dilemma. I want to slut around so hard. That means getting pounded all over and being loose all the time.
Will I eventually lose the feeling in my anus because of this?
>>5631823
>I want to slut around so hard
Here's an idea shoot yourself in the head and then have people fuck. It will never get loose and nothing of value would be lost.
>>5631844
u mad
>>5631823
HIV infection
As a RN, the highlight of my nights, are when I get "suggestive"jokes from male patients whom are fully independent, you know, they can walk, shower, get dressed, ect all on their own. Normally they will ask something like, "Oh, will you be giving me a sponge bath today?" but said in a casual way. It goes without saying these are patient that are fully coherent and mentally aware.
If they suggest it, and I know they are sorta hung and are attractive, I'll send the nursing tech to go do other things and offer to "lighten the techs load."
Usually once the patient realizes that I'm actually going to do it, they will shy away, saying they want to wait or just decline it all together. No big deal, I'll let them be. Every so often though, I'll get that one patient that agrees to it.
Obviously I start from top down, working my way from the head to the feet. By the time I get to the stomach area, they usually clam up and start getting uncomfortable or ask to do their own genitals.
However, there are those occasions, about 5 to 6% of them time, that they'll spread their knees/thighs farther apart as I move down.
Last night, I had the best one yet! It has never gotten even kind of close to going this far.
Mr. X was about 6'2, about 250, muscular but chubby. short, almost bald silver hair, a light, neatly trimmed goatee. He was in his mid to late 50's. Married.
Usually I leave the patients completely covered, only exposing what's getting washed at that time, but this man took everything off right away. He stood there for a second before hoping into bed, placing his hands behind his head. I started to wash his face and worked down to this arms and then his chest. As I washed his chest, I looked over and saw that his penis was starting to become semi-hard. I couldn't tell how big it was, didn't look too long but it was pretty girthy, maybe the size of a toilet paper tube. And uncut, which I love.
So, I move my washrag down to his stomach (a small beer belly), as I get closer to the bottom of his stomach, he lefts out a soft moan. I glance at his penis again, still not much more than semi-hard.
He says to me, "Do you wash any lower than the stomach?"
I reply with, "Mr. X, you're completely independent, you really didn't even need a bath in bed."
He replies with, "Ha, I actually took a shower this morning, just thought I'd give you something to do."
Me, "Well I'm happy to help."
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Him, "I get it, I'll finish my self off I guess.
He was so pissed, I thought he was going to turn me in. However, he was discharged this morning. When he left, he dropped off a card to the nurses station address to, "My Nurse."
In side the card it just read, "Thanks for all your help, let me know if I can ever do anything for you." AND HE LEFT HIS BUSINESS CARD IN THERE!!!
I just woke up and had to tell someone! I have the night off, and I'm about to text him, can't wait!
>>5631613
who took that picture?
Why do lots of gay people feel the need to come out?
When I was 16 I told my best friend that I was gay and he just sorta said "oh that's cool, wanna play street fighter?".
In my head I was expecting to lose him and everything to be weird, to the point of having a literal anxety attack. Ever since then, I just introduced my boyfriend and people didn't seem to care.
Is it time to abolish the idea of coming out?
>>5631514
Dating purposes mostly
>>5631514
unless you live in a shitty place, there isn't really much of a need to keep it secret anymore. i came out so i could be open about myself. there really isn't much to it, anon. either do or don't, whatever.
>>5631514
I don't know why I did it to this day
>live in a place where being gay is an abomination
>even liberals in the area aren't comfortable with it
>never occurred to me that I might be gay despite wanting to get fucked by dudes and watched a ton of gay porn
>finally figured out I might be gay
>super concerned and confused about my life
>tell my mother
>she's pissed but tries to control herself
we never talk about it again and we both pretend I'm straight
There is no such thing as homosexuality.
Everyone, every single person is bisexual.
Prove me wrong
>protip: you can't.
>>5631484
>Be me
>Have sex with woman twice
>Feelsbadman.jpg
>zero pleasure
>Frott with male because no anal pls
>feels good man
No attraction to women and attraction to men = Gay.
It's really that simple OP.
>>5633345
>Have sex with woman twice
>Feelsbadman.jpg
iktfb
>>5631484
You and I are bisexual but for some people, an interpersonal relationship involves more than just the 2 involved. Some people are very complicated, have a desire to impress family/friends brainwashed low iq's, anyway whatever who cares. Not everyone's bi.
Did any tv shows, cartoons, or anime give you LGBT related feelings when you were growing up?
I'm ftm and I always liked watching Ranma 1/2 when I was younger because he was essentially a boy trapped in a girl's body at times and didn't enjoy it.
>>5670547
>watch anything with cute girls in it
>oh fuck I want to be her so bad
reading a bunch of uri in 7th grade made me realize i was bi in 8th
>tfw no girlifying ray
https://youtu.be/oPI3qo_G_e8
tl;dw
this isn't for gays
Feeling down about my self. Anyone want to talk?
>>5669810
Nope
>>5669841
will ok?
Sure lol
Is anyone EXTREMELY self-conscious about their height and being around other girls because of it? I'm not even that tall, like pretty sure it's 5 ft 9 in, yet I am usually the tallest "female" in any given group.
>>5631105
I feel the same way and I am 5'7
Ya I am 5'8" and I feel like a giant around girls. I guess I'd feel better if my frame also wasnt thicker and larger than theres, but it is
>>5631105
>>5631122
>>5631234
You're all fine, no one under 6' can really be considered male.