I am a male living in NYC in his early 20's and is curious about experimenting with a Trans. Can anyone give me advice on where and how to approach someone Trans to try new things?
>>5668210
trans people are not a thing you just try ffs
>>5668210
>get up
>put some clothes on
>go outside in the middle of a busy street
>yell"I WANT TO FUCK A TRANNY" really loudly until you find someone
>>5668288
>tfw I'd probably even respond
This happens a few times a month. I still live and work as a dude.
Men will hit on me, call me miss, invite me to their table, that sort of thing and I have to act like it's not appreciated and that I am a straight guy.
I get all autistic and retarded and start saying things like "what bro" but I am always beet red and at a loss of words.
It's super fucking awkward. How do I manage this? I am not trying to humblebrag, I look retarded when this happens and I am not trying to get fired for being a "fag" at work. What do?
>>5667997
Have you considered, maybe, living and working as less of a dude, and more of a...?
>>5667997
Just act normal but talk in boy voice so they get confused and question their sexuality
10 seconds to come up with proof that Holly Conrad isn't trans
Bunpm
>>5667943
Oh shut the fuck up.
>>5668184
U shut up
>tfw a passing 10/10 transgirl posts her picture on /lgbt/ and acts like she doesn't realize how pretty she is
You all pass in my heart.
>>5667871
The shittiest lowest tier of passing
>>5667857
trip on kayla
So I'm just curious
A man can be male sex, but female gender, correct?
And that would entail wearing heals, lipstick, bras etc
So do you have to do these things to be a "women" by gender?
But that would exclude "tomboys" who identiy as a women but do none of these things, that can't work. So a man who dresses in dresses and female who wears shorts and singlets have nothing in common whatsoever biologically or aesthetically are both women?
Then what is a women or man? Does those words mean anything at all? If not why not abondon them...
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>>5667721
>A man can be male sex, but female gender, correct?
yes
>And that would entail wearing heals, lipstick, bras etc
no it would entail having dysphoria
>So do you have to do these things to be a "women" by gender?
no
>But that would exclude "tomboys" who identiy as a women but do none of these things, that can't work.
no it wouldnt
>So...
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>>5667842
What you're implying is that having a mental illness that makes you think you're a male/female, makes you a male/female? Is that what you're getting at in the "having dysphoria" statement?
>>5667842
>no it would entail having dysphoria
Since when? Gender is a social construct, I was born as much as a women as a man without dysphoria
>no
Answering the question I answered already
>sex involves physical characteristics and gender involved mental
So there's a mental difference between men and women based on gender?
I thought men and women were the same. How do you tell if someone is mentally a man or women?...
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Why does anal feel really good when I use silicone lube, but when I decide to use water-based it hurts like hell no matter how much I apply?
I understand water-based dries up more quickly, but even when I use it immediately it feels like knives in my ass. Silicone is the perfect opposite though.
Anyone else know that feel?
>>5667636
You're probably using glycerin based lube. Glycerin is also an irritant since it's used in suppositories to pull water into your bowels, but it feels kind of like a slight burning sensation sometimes.
Try non-glycerin based lubes like Sliquid.
>>5667660
Hmm never heard this. I'll look into it.
I just use regular old water, using lubes makes my insides feel all bloated, make sure the guy starts slow though, as long as the guy works his dick slowly deep into my butt everything feels alright and then we can get to pounding, I'm talking about uncut cocks though, not sure if cut dry heads need special lubing
It is well known that lgbt people tend to have a lower life span than straight people.
Lately, I've been really afraid of death for some reason, even though I'm only 21.
Is anyone else afraid of dying at a young age? How do you deal with it?
>>5667430
You just don't think about it. That's literally it.
Also don't think you're going to die early. Those are just statistics but there's probably gay men that live a long time.
Pat patterson old professional wrestler is probably in his seventies.
The only reason I even fear dying is because something in my brain tells me that there is an afterlife, and my life of selfish, faggotry was actually a burden placed onto me to test my faith.I don't think anything in this world will ever convince me that my fear of a Hell-like place is irrational. This life doesn't even make sense to begin with.
Not really. MtF here and i smoke, drink and dont really pass that much. Chances of me dying due to transphobia is huge and i dont really care. Depends on how much you care about your life to worry about your health or if youll die because of some asshole.
mtf here, I want to start hormones but have no idea where to buy them? are there any stores that sell spiro, etc without prescriptions? I could order online but my parents might end up looking through the mail first (I'm 18 but live at home). should I just go see a shrink and get a prescription?
>>5666854
>should I just go see a shrink and get a prescription?
Yes.
>>5666854
Get bicalutamide from alldaychemist. Take one every two days.
>>5666854
Ask in Trans Help General. >>5659468 It can be country specific.
How do you deal with being alone /lgbt/? I'm still in a fit of jealousy over my ex and I need to move on. I was really attached to him and I'm not really well, used to being this alone. Should I try to find someone new or focus on myself? Thanks.
>>5666457
Never even had one to call my ex.
This loneliness is driving me closer to insanity by the day.
How to know if i am transgender?
>gay
>want girly haircut (but short)
>subconsciously thinking of myself as a girl
>people say i have a girl's mind
>never wanted apply make-up or wear a dress
but
>intrested in the military
>dreaming about being a soldier
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>>5666252
Just crossdress. No need to use hormones and go through surgery if you're comfortable in your own skin.
>>5666258
But i dont want to wear skirt or have long hair, even occasionally
Did you really need to make this thread?
I just jacked off to a woman masturbating, a solo woman masturbating in front of her computer. And they all said I was gay, now i know my homosexuality is just a pathological sickness and a novelty seeking behavior. Yet therapists/or people in general don't want to hear that, every time I tell a therapist I feel like I've made myself gay they look at me like I'm a delusional faggot(because I told them I'm questioning my sexuality because I keep jerking off to gay porn.
Everytime I jerk off to straight porn I like to look at the dick, his body, his...
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p-p-please respond...
>>5666004
tl;dr: You're gay, deal with it.
I HOPE this isn't yet another dumb b8 thread.
Who cares? Honestly. Why does it matter what or who you fuck? If your sexuality is all there is to your personality then there is something severely wrong with you.
>San Francisco's tech bros told: quit changing the gayborhood
https://archive.is/EVc8G
Residents of San Francisco’s historically gay Castro district are worried that it’s changing, as speculators come in to flip the few remaining ramshackle old Victorians and the old-timer gay bars shutter.
In a recent small survey,
>77%
of people who have lived in the neighborhood for 10 or more years identified as gay, while only
>55%
of those who moved in the past year did.
“The neighborhood is more
>professional gay
now. Not that it’s less gay, but you gotta have money to move in,” said Hank Cancél, who lives on the corner of 19th and Castro streets, where he keeps a collection of gay erotic dolls in the window.
>“So now it’s Apple gay. Airbnb gay.”
Others worry, though, that as the gay community becomes less concentrated or visible, those who do stand out will feel less safe.
Part of the reason that so many gay bars have closed or turned straight... is that LGBT people have become increasingly comfortable spending time at mainstream bars.
>gay scene is declining because society is more accepting and now gays don't have to turn to people who "have a collection of gay erotic dolls in the window"
thank the lord
>>5665716
>disgusting fucking faggots with aids being replaced by respectable faggots without aids
Barely makes a difference to me. Less gay men creeping on my tranny ass, at least.
>>5665835
Don't worry hon, I won't creep your tranny ass.
What is a really good book that glbt should read, specifically ones having to do with being gay?
Sister and Brother
>>5665703
The Bible...its still time to save your soul from hell
>>5665703
Philosophiæ Naturalis Principia Mathematica
And Greek mythology.
I would like to know what /lgbt/ thinks about Troye Sivan in general, and about his music. Do people like him or has his youtube life ruined himself for many?
>>5665429
I don't know about his Youtube life, but this album is garbage, anon
I was fooled by the pretty art
>>5665429
Ugly and overrated by the very few that care for him
>Troye Sivan
The Guardian is collating the views of people across the globe on whether gender is binary or not. Regardless of what your views are on the topic, here's a chance to make yourself heard and share your experiences. Could be really good.
http://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2016/feb/03/male-female-other-young-people-define-gender
I put down
Where in the world are you living-Antarctica
In which country? -Saudi Arabia
>Please add a picture of yourself
um
triggered
>>5668001