So im bi and have a "straight" classmate. He is pretty cute and whatever but he has said he isnt attracted to guys which im pretty sure is true. But the other day i was helping him fix his pc when he laid down on his bed and started watching stuff on his phone. I followed him and laid beside him. We then started spooning and i had my arms around him. This seemed strange for a straight guy to allow. Eventually i fell asleep cuddling him. What do you guys think?
>pic related, me asking him if he was gay ages ago
>>5869699
He said he wasn't attracted to men. He never said he wasnt attracted to you, though. Sexuality isnt a hard cut thing, there are lots of little exceptions here and there.
Well if he was uncomfortable with it I'm sure he'd have told you where to go. Don't push him to 'come out' or anything just be normal and see if it goes anywhere.
>>5869919
Thanks for the advice, i just find it strange that he was so comfortable with it. Ill probably just see if it goes anywhere
OP back. Last threat was a success but got derailed. So i decided to make a new fail/pass fail thread with some new "hotties" you are all sure to "love".
Lets kick off our mtf failures with this lovely "lady"! If they haven't already chosen a new name they should consider "Rudolph"!
Our next contestant on "The pass is wrong" is this piece of work with both a bigger gut and double chin than breasts and a sense of fashion that screams "Man"!
In keeping with our naming theme I will dub thee Smough!
Congrats, OP! You learned how to save full-sized images this time.
Make friends and meet up! Discuss /lgbt/-related events in the UK! I'll start
18yo cisboy, looking to make friends or whatever in the London area
also will probably do lewd stuff if ur cute desu
early-transition tranny, Norwich, basically a femmish guy
main fwb is staying with family for easter so I'm alone and cold and miserable
>>5869561
awh poor norfolk-chan :c i'd come cuddle with you if you weren't so far away
Straight guy here. I wouldn't refuse to date or love a woman who was trans if I happened to meet one and we hit it off.
Although I do have a bit of a desire to date a transwoman just our of curiosity. Is it okay to go out of my way to find and date a transwoman or is it typically seen as offensive because many think they're being fetishized solely because they're trans?
Thanks in advance.
>>5869491
>Straight guy
Get out.
>>5869491
Usually it's offensive. I personally think it's a bit silly but I understand where they're coming from. There are some who don't think that way though.
>>5869570
That sucks. I guess there's not an easy way to find a transwoman - just hope that I happen to cross upon one.
How did you first find out you were lesbian, gay etc?
I am currently very unsure of my sexuality - I've always been attracted to women but I am starting to feel something for men too. Does this mean I am bi? Sorry if I'm being ignorant here, I am just very confused.
>>5869482
Went you hit puberty why would you think your brain would be keeping this from you?>
>>5869538
Are you saying I would have known since puberty?
>>5869538
>implying repression doesn't exist
A brewery from Scotland, called 'Black Metal Brewery' is "proud" to be homophobic, sexist and racist. They have been banned from several events for just such bigotry. I hope that a whole world of terrible things happen to these pathetic, horrible, angry, individuals. Please don't buy their beer, oh, and please can someone fill their website with gay porn? :)
>>5869426
So edgy
None of this is true. Nice attempt at viral marketing.
>>5869426
Or or, you can stop caring about edgy fags who have no influence over anything and move on with your life
Sup
MTM (male to male) Reporting in.
Got a question
does the concept of transexualism only serve to enforce gender roles and differences between men and women? I'd like my kids to grow up in a gender-blind society, but you trannies just won't let it happen.
So, who needs to change?
Do you fuckers just need to act and look like however you like, and just accept the gender you are born as is the one you'll die as, and one small chromosone doesn't define who you are...
Or do i need to just accept that my world will NEVER truly...
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So you are a male to male tranny?
>>5869136
Yep born a male, decided to stay male. It was a lengthy personal journey, my family didn't understand at first, but now i have their support.
>>5869152
Oh my god. I think I might be a mtm too! I never realised this before. Tell me, what was the deciding factor for you?
/lgbt/, is this true? pic related.
I've had a few conversations with lesbians and women attracted to men, and the general consensus is yes. Unless a woman is asexual or sexually repressed (usually that factor is religious), then every woman alive masturbates, likes clitoral stimulation, and can achieve orgasm. However, my wife does no masturbate, does not enjoy clitoral stimulation, and cannot achieve orgasm. I know this with relative, but not 100% certainty. I've never caught her masturbating. I've asked her to masturbate while I watched, she's never acceped. Not even when we were long distance. Think this is due to some childhood masturbation shaming? Not likely. Her family is irreligious and she has never admitted to any sexual shaming in her family, I've asked. I've tried incorporating clitoral stimulation into sex, and she almost always asks me to stop. She will say "it's distracting" or "it's too much". Oral seems to be the only time she doesn't say this, and I've never made her orgasm. I've been told that some women can't come from the activity of a partner, only solo, but I've also been told that that is generally untrue in relationships with deep connections and where they are comfortable.
And we used to fuck a lot. Twice in a row, three times in a row when we were both 18. 7 years later, it's once a week, maybe. She claims she enjoys vaginal penetration, and unless she's an excellent faker, she does. But the elusive g-spot orgasm has yet to be reached, except maybe for one time when she lost muscle control (apparently) and she pissed the bed when we were drunk fucking, and since then she's been petrified of total pelvic muscle relaxation in bed.
So I bought a vibrator a while back, to try to throw that in, see if it changed anything. She never touched it, to my knowledge. When I used it during sex, I got the usual response. When I put it in her vagina (since she likes vaginal pen), she REALLY didn't like it. So what gives?
1/2
>>5869050
Could it really be that I have no idea how to please a woman? Seems reasonable, as I've only been with two women, as opposed to 5 men. But I've read books on how to perform oral. Read many an internet page. tried all kinds of things. But nothing.
Is it possible that she enjoys vaginal penetration, but not clitoral stimulation? This contradicts the vast majority of literature on female pleasure out there. Moreover, she does not experience orgasm, which most women I've spoken to are baffled by, and probably secretly assume that she masturbates in secret.
I've considered she's in the closet as a lesbian or bisexual, but while she agrees that women are the prettier sex (just two individuals' opinion, of course), she insists, both sober and intoxicated, that she would feel uncomfortable even kissing another girl. Again, this girl is European, has been to church all of 10 times, and would have no reason that I could think of to be homophobic.
Could it be that she is somehow frigid? She pathologically doesn't enjoy getting drunk or high, has only done it a few times, because she is anxious about losing control of inhibitions, actions, etc. But the contradictory evidence of this is, she used to initiate sex all the time, and occasionally she still initiates it. Again, she used to come on to me all the time, and occasionally she does this to me. Sometimes she even goes so far as to wake me up and try to get me to have sex, and I have once or twice quite forcefully had to tell her to back off because I wasn't in the mood.
So what am I missing? Is this my fault? She's never even flirted with anyone else, to my knowledge. Not at work, not at parties, nothing- and we worked at the same restaurant for almost 2 years. Fuck, this shit is baffling. Why cant she just like vibrators or something.
Yes, I feel inadequate. But I also want her to be as happy as she can, to have the most fun and pleasure as possible. If I'm bored with our sex life, it's probable she is too.
>>5869050
>>5869101
by contrast, I grew up American and Catholic. Lots of masturbation and homo shaming, even if my parents were more progressive about them than some. I didn't lose my faith until after I had this woman, and I wasn't willing to admit being bi until after that, despite my experimenting and the somewhat obvious signs. I'm not sure she would do anything except become jealous and paranoid if I came out to her, and since we're exclusive, it's...
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bump 4 hope
Have there been a lot of tranny-hate threads recently?
I wonder if someone, perhaps, a master race even, is behind this...
>>5868992
1/10 made me reply
Including this one 73 out of 150 threads on this board is trans-related.
>>5868992
the master race have a good relation with the T, the male homos look down on trans, but they usually don't hate it, the lesbians totally hated trans people, they see MtF as males in drag invanding saced womanhood, and FtM as poor butch women who don't know what they are doing, even if most of FtM are filthy bisluts, in fact, the majority of trans people are bisexual's, the B and T have a good relationship, the two have much in common, only the fucking dirty homos hates their's.
I've seen a lot of threads about passability, prettiness, etc in general lately so I'm a bit interested in surveying /lgbt/ to see what your views on these things are over all.
1. At what age is it too late to start HRT?
2. At what height would it be pointless to start HRT?
3. Which race is the most passable? Which race is the least?
4. Who has an easier time passing overall, ftm or mtf?
5. Is being pretty (or handsome for ftms) a requirement for passing?
My answers (mtf obviously)
>25-26
>6 ft and up
>most: asians least: blacks
>I actually think they're roughly equal, with ftms having a slightly easier time because guys can get away with looking somewhat girly
>not necessarily but definitely related
>>5868801
>At what age is it too late to start HRT?
At whatever age you hit puberty
>At what height would it be pointless to start HRT?
24
>Which race is the most passable? Which race is the least?
Asians are the most. Blacks are the least
>Who has an easier time passing overall, ftm or mtf?
FtM
>Is being pretty (or handsome for ftms) a requirement for passing?
No....
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>30
>6'1 +
>Asian/Black
>FTM not even close
>No, but everyone wants it
is 22 too old to start hrt and be passable/pretty?
No. Start now before it is too late.
Careful not to equate being pretty to being passable. You can be passable and ugly, millions of CIS women live that life every day.
also surgery
>>5868699
well it's not like there's a point being a girl if you arent pretty
Why do gays in general tend to have more Reptilian traits?
>>5868630
basically talking about their skin. it has a certain elasticity and sheen to it that looks inhuman. and the muscles in their neck, as well as their energy projections.
>>5868646
wat
>>5868646
We take better care of ourselves than neglectful straighties.
> Bonding with other guys may relieve stress in men, according to media reports of research published in the journal Neuropsychopharmacology last week. Men who are close with each other have higher levels of oxytocin, popularly known as the “cuddle hormone” which makes them better at handling stress.
How stressed are you homosexes hanging around with dudes all the time?
http://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2016/mar/14/are-bromances-good-for-mens-health
>>5868567
This would make sense, but why wouldn't platonic bonding with persons of other genders also have the same results?
>>5868625
Because women are constantly thinking "Ugh, he wants to or will want to fuck me", and women just want to sit around on their fat asses and talk all day rather than get up and DO something unlike dudes.
>>5868567
>How stressed are you homosexes hanging around with dudes all the time?
Are you implying that male friendship wouldn't work the same way for fags?
Could Age Regression and the like be related to the fact of being trans? Like, the first thing I was ever aroused to, and desperetaly "needed" in my life was Age Regression related stuff, like already at the age of 13.
Most recently, I discovered I might be trans, and now, the question has come up today if I still liked Age Regression stuff, and it has never been stronger. I feel like I want to catch up with my childhood, that I lost it and that I want to " go back there " as a girl, as I deserve to be.
I don't know if that made any...
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>>5868561
>Wanting to be a little girl
Are you me?
>>5868561
>>5868623
Stefonknee pls go
>>5868561
I don't know about age regression, but back when I was in elementary school, I really didn't like the idea of growing up. It made me sad the way you might be sad when you imagine dying if you don't believe in an afterlife and are afraid of disappearing.
so let me get this straight
the whole transgender thing, all has i's roots in dysphoria
so basically, being a transgender is a treatment for dysphoria
that's fucked up
normally doctors give you antibiotics or some shit, and yet for dyshpria they give you female hormones, silicone implants, and tell you to cross dress and change your name?
wouldn't it be easier to just make the dysphria go away? shouldn't be that hard right? people can make anxiety or bipolar go away, why not a feeling about one's body? why you have...
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>wouldn't it be easier to just make the dysphria go away?
Maybe early on, but now it's a political identify and will fiercely defend it's 'civil rights'.
>>5868102
It would be the ideal solution, but so far, in all the decades of research there's been on the issue, nobody has found a medication that works to make dysphoria go away. As a result the only possibly care is to cope with it by catering to the feelings as much as possible. Like how they built that whole town just for people with Alzheimer's in Denmark. It's sad, but with no actual cure available, the only care possible is palliative. But yes, if there was a pill to make the dysphoria just stop so we could...
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>>5868102
>wouldn't it be easier to just make the dysphria go away? shouldn't be that hard right? people can make anxiety or bipolar go away,
Except noone knows how and dysphoria may very well have its roots essentially in brain damage. Assuming the neurological aspects of GID that we know are correct, you would literally have to regrow(mtf) or shrink(ftm) brain matter. The only thing psychotropic drugs do is manipulate neurotransmitters which have next to nothing to do with gender identity.
I'm bipolar too and its even less treatable than dysphoria, so that analogy is bad.