sup legbutts
my gf is trans (gay male here)
I dunno why but I stole 1mg of her estradiol and one of her spiros and just took them to see if I "feel different"..... I'm not into being trans myself and I've had drug problems in the past.
just want to know how your first time taking hormones / anti-androgens was..... I feel kind of... happy, which is odd as fuck. If I loathed my dick I'd consider getting prescribed this shit
also, she just got her meds upped, so the shit I took was from her old bottle that she doesn't use...
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>>5938527
>>5938551
o god why ;_;
>>5938527
>gay male
Haha nope. You're both filthy transbians.
Has there been gay sex in space yet?
>or lesbian im not picky
Do you actually think guys spend a year on the ISS just doing experiments? No, they're "experimenting".
How are you supposed to get privacy on the ISS? Like even just for a fap or something?
Space sex would be near impossible
http://space.about.com/od/frequentlyaskedquestions/a/Is-Sex-In-Space-Possible.htm
So I'm not sure, but I think one of my long time friends is trans, mostly because of what he's been saying, he says he isn't, and I want to believe him. But I'm so scared that he's like me, and I want to save him a lot of heartache.
So heres my story
>Be 18 year old MtF, just now getting drunk for the first time
>Partying at friends place, with 7 others
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>>5937959
Cont
Skip to a few days later, I talk to him when he's sober, the information I got out of him is:
>He doesn't think he can be trans because he likes girls
>very self loathing, and hates who he is, thinks he is shit at everything
>He thought he would be more comfortable as a girl when he was younger, before puberty
>When he was away in Japan he felt so much better because no one knew him as the "weak, little, shy loser"
>Finds it really hard to get motivation to do anything because the future just looks so shit.
>Also liked TG porn, (as in like turning a guy into a girl, not shemale) but apparently not as a self insert
Look, I want him to be happy, and that's why I'm so scared, because he reminds me so much of myself. All the pain, the self loathing, the anger, it seems so familiar. I'm just worried that if he doesn't transition he'll be filled with regret.
On a side not he would look good as a girl,much better than me at least
>>5938015
ahh, I don't know, I left the conversation basically telling him he needs to do a lot of introspection, and find out who he really is.
Lets get another crossdressing thread. The last one did well.
Ask questions about anxiety when asking for clothes or shopping or something.
Whenever i go buy clothes i usually put on a big smile (a fake one yet still natural looking) so as to divert attention from the awkwardness and to make me look less suspicious of buying the stuff for myself -which is what would happen if i looked nerveous-. If there are male store clerks they usually resort to banter, for example I told one guy that i wanted panties for my gf and after i went to pay he told me "i hope that your girlfriend likes how you look in them, err, i hope you like how they look on your girlfriend". That was pretty funny. When it's a female...
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>>5938176
I never really thought about approaching a different gender for questions. Which is better?
>>5937758
My gf likes it when I crossdress. And I love it. But I know that I don't pass 100% when I do, and that usually makes me not want to do it at all.
I've also gotten to the point though where I don't even consider thigh highs and panties to be girl's clothes because I wear them so much in nonsexual settings. So maybe I'll just wear those.
Is there a way to deal with dysphoria without transitioning? I've been attempting to do everything in my power to pass short of medically doing anything or coming out socially for the past 5 years. Worked great at first but I'm too old now, I look to young when I'm read as male. I know some MtF people take smaller doses of titty skittles so the changes aren't noticeable to the public, but I can't do that with T. Sometimes I can go weeks without being more than acutely uncomfortable, but now when I'm in a bad spell it just gets worse and worse.
>>5937244
So you're not HRT but somehow you look too young to people when you dress as a male? I'm really having trouble understanding you.
>>5937268
theyre FTM and probably dont want to be a twink
>>5937268
My body is female, I'm legally female. I have dysphoria. I used to be able to pass as a guy just by dressing male, but now I'm so old that it doesn't really work because I look like a male child when I do it and I'm in social situations where people are expecting me to be 21+. One thing to look like a high schooler when you're a college student, another thing to look like a high schooler when you're trying to get a beer. So I get read as butch female now or told to GTFO because I'm a minor.
From the POV of a guy, do you find that women or transwomen have more drama when dating them? I've dated about 15-20 people and about half were trans and I feel that despite the difficulties of HRT and transitioning and all that, transwomen were far easier to get along with. Curious if anyone thinks similar and if so, why? Is it as simple as they used to be a guy and guys get along better?
>>5937191
when people who have life effecting issues are taking medication that alters their brain chemistry, it tends to make them more extreme mood swings in the worst of situations.
or in a more snarkily tldr, mtfs are taking chemicals that make them woman, and women are often irrational, moody and insane. FTM are taking medication to 'lower' that, so they often end up 'less' moddy/insane
>>5937227
Your reading comprehension level makes me giggle like a little girl. c:
>>5937191
It's probably a combination of being more humble from the difficulties of transitioning plus having more "guy" personality traits and hobbies.
Known all my life/cross-dressed whole life knowing I want to live as a girl, but too afraid that if I decide to transition I won't pass and will be seem for what I am (a transsexual) as opposed to who I am.
How did you guys finally decide on it or are you still deciding?
20 and me in the pic.
>>5937092
Even if you dont pass wouldnt you rather be clocked as a cute fem boy rather than a ugly old man? atleast you can still get dick as
>>5937092
didn't care about living as a guy but wanted SRS
hoops toward SRS require going on HRT
got on HRT but stayed guy to check out the waters
get ma'am sometimes, got asked by old dudes as fuck buddies, probably as a twink
disphoria hits hard when cis-women thinks i'm wrong in heading into the male changing room at work, while the guys in there would step back and double check the sign at the door
>>5937164
hrt is not going to make a masc guy into a cute femboy, lol
Can a really feminine gay guy really turn a straight guy on? (Keep in mind the gay guy still has a penis)
The straight guy has to have some latent bicuriosity, but yes, it would be possible. History has many examples. Would be easier if he crossdressed tho.
Sure. Become a fishy drag queen. Although even boogers get dick sometimes.
>>5936515
yup but it's not likely to go terribly far
for me personally (a straight man) it would be easy to justify kissing and possibly oral sex (giving or receiving) with a guy if he looked, sounded, and acted fully androgynous
but guys who pass that well as non-ugly girls are rare; mainly it's the trannies that will be attempting that of course (and even they often don't succeed at it)
it's not THAT hard to give somebody a boner, even if they don't want it
Do any of you think that the reasons a lot gay & lesbian relationships fall apart is because they try to push for a full egalitarian relationship/marriage and not a "traditional" leader/submissive relationship?
I think it's the opposite tbqh
>>5936510
>Do any of you think that the reasons a lot gay & lesbian relationships fall apart...
Shut the fuck up, people are bad in relationships despite their sexual orientation, because people are immature and selfish, that's why relationships fall apart.
>>5936533
and its 100% equal in distribution of course. And deviation of this line of thinking would be Wrongthink
Feeling so dysphoric that I can't focus at work. My mom isn't answering my calls. What the fuck do I do?
>>5935490
>break down
>cry
>realize you're crying over nothing
>move on
Just have your panic attack and kill yourself. If this shit is seriously stopping you from functioning, you're doing yourself and the world a favor.
>>5933349
Cook spaghetti
>>5935490
Just leave the building and walk to the nearest secluded place
hey trannies
I'm a pre-HRT MtF who passes pretty well, and I'm going to college next year
I'll be living on campus, which means I'll be with a male roommate because the sex on all my official documents is listed as male.
Can you guys give me any advice?
Fuck your roommate I guess? You're not being very explicit about what you want advice on
>>5935008
secretly feed him hrt
make him tranny
>>5935073
oh, sorry
I meant specifically how I can make shit less awkward between me and this dude
the only idea I have is to pick a god and pray that it's some gay guy who'll be more understanding and not "LOL CHICKS WITH DICKS"
I'll probably be able to change my legal gender pretty easily after I'm there, it's not hard to do in NJ
name changes are a bitch though, largely thanks to that fat fuck Chris Christie blocking any legislation that'd make it easier
>mfw sucked a dude's dick 2 weeks ago and now my lymph nodes hurt and i have a fever
These are the 2 main symptoms of hiv
I dun goofd didn't i?
You almost certainly didn't contract HIV from oral sex.
it's unlikely that you got hiv from oral sex
I like it how straight guys cover their asses when I say I'm bisexual. Like, I get it, you like women and I like both but do you really think I'm going to rip down your pants and fuck you in public after coming out?!
If there's a straight man, can someone explain to me why these guys they're so hot I'd like to fuck them in front of the bar keeper?!
>telling a straight boy you're bi
To what end?
>>5934610
>coming out as bi
>coming out as bi to a straight man
>ever
why are bisexuals such attention whores?
when I came out to a straight friend guy about being bi he managed to pair me off with his gay friend
It's really much easier to meet (normal) gay people through straight friends.
Why the fuck do people mutilate themselves with surgery?
Seriously, you've got to be mentally ill to let someone slice open your leg, cut your tendons, saw your knee off, and jam chunks of metal in there. You're not even human after that, you're some kind of half-machine cyborg freak. All for what, so you can walk around without being in constant pain? Fucking whiners. I get sore after leg day at the gym and I just deal with it.
I'm already a demon
>>5934703
Such a lust for revenge!
please help my ass. i'm 18 and finally independent but stuck in texas. where the hell can i get hormones in dallas? any informed consent providers? pls help me i fucking need to transition now before it's too late.
>inb4 it's too late meme
i'm androgynous as hell but just have a body hair issue so i think i'll be fine thank you very much.
Check here.
http://askanonbinary.tumblr.com/post/72910136802/informed-consent-hormone-providers
If you're in college, it appears that every major school near you offers IC treatment through their health departments.
>>5934608
oh sweet. so wait, i can just go to my school's health department? they cover trans stuff too? fucking hell i never knew. once i start college i'm going straight to it
>>5934614
Seems like it! Best of luck with your transition, Anon, and be sure to have/build a good support network for yourself. It helps a lot.