hey /k/
What are your thoughts on my situation.
My wife doesn't want any guns in the house whatsoever so I started buying parts to build an AR to keep my uncles that way if I ever wanted to use it I can just go pick it up from his place. My wife was not okay with that even the simple idea of spending money on firearms in any way shape or form has left her to the point of becoming a volcano she's now decided when she gets home from work she's moving out to her friend's house and she's going to file for divorce on the 15th July. Find you three days ago we were talking about what I would like to get for Father's Day and she asked if I wanted firearms and said she was okay with us having guns. I'm trying to figure out whether or not I should try to save the marriage but bring her to the dark side and convince her to renew her concealed carry license and get a damn pistol and carry it on her and allow guns in the house. That or let her go through the fucking divorce and just keep firearms in the house regardless. What are your thoughts?
>>30286309
Why the fuck did you marry some schizo bitch in the first place?
>>30286309
She had a concealed carry license but his vehemently against firearms??? What happened? Or is she just against you having firearms because you're a sperg?
>>30286309
If she loved you she would support your hobbies. Tell her that and also to stop watching the view.
>>30286309
Cut losses, divorce, don't give her shit.
>>30286309
>2016
>getting married
Just ban her from using Facebook and watching TV for like three days. Women are idiots, and her little gerbil brain will move on to something else soon enough.
>>30286309
Divorce her first.
Life is too short to be controlled by someone.
Regardless of whether it's about guns or anything else, your wife is asking you to make an unreasonable concession of your personal interests that you came with. Your marriage is doomed either way unless you can differentiate yourselves and allow mutual respect of each other's personal choices and interests.
>>30286341
And she apparently just changed her mind on them, she carried a 9mm her uncle bought her when he put her through the CCW class and she carried it for a week then gave it back and told him to put it in the safe but renewed her CCW last year.
>>30286335
She wasn't like this before we got married.
I'm fucking brain fucked.
She's known since before we got married I'm all about me some guns, and that I plan to eventually get a lathe and mill and to manufacture my own custom firearms as a hobby and possibly get an FFL when I do so I can make one off pieces to sell at request.
>>30286335
>>30286341
This
What's the full story anon?
>>30286376
>She wasn't like this before we got married.
Fucking kek. You probably let her get fat too.
>>30286309
Do you have kids OP? Seems like women go from ridding motorcycles to driving mini vans at the time their biological clock tells them is time to bear offspring.
>try talking to her
>try marriage counseling (seek unbiased counselor with no antifun bs)
>be rational and calm
>never rage in front of her, her friends or to your friends
>appear as the the voice of reason, calm and collective
If she still doesn't want anything to do then divorce, why spend the rest of your life with someone who doesn't accept your hobbies and interests?
>>30286309
I'm dating an anti gun chick. Guess what?
>Allows guns in the house
>Supportive of my hobby
>Loves how passionate I am about guns
>Isn't a bitch even though she supports gun control
The problem isn't a difference of opinion OP. It's her.
>>30286376
>She wasn't like this before we got married.
welp there it is anon. People change for better or worse or simply cause she got mind problems. Cut your losses or make it work. But whatever you do, make sure to blame it on Fienstein
>>30286309
>My wife doesn't want any guns in the house whatsoever
>I'm trying to figure out whether or not I should try to save the marriage
Get control of your woman you fucking cuck. You should have seen the signs that she would act like this when you married her. She's obviously a total leftist who probably reads Salon on facebook in the morning.
You fucked up big time, don't bother saving the marriage because she's already fucking your neighbor Tyrone behind your back anyway. Get a long way away from that bitch and whatever you do DON'T get her pregnant or you're fucked for life, she'll take your half your money and your kids and brainwash them to hate you.
Next time use your head when finding a woman, she may be hot but if she's abhorred by the idea of self defense then she is a psycho and a lost cause.
She probably also has a lesbian relationship with her friend btw.
>>30286406
It's a honey trap, you're gonna end up like OP, making a thread on how everything went south.
>>30286403
oh and this lol
>>30286421
No because if she ever changes, she's gone. I will always choose guns. She knows that, which is why she doesn't make a big deal of it. Actually she wants to go shooting now. OP is just a pussy.
>>30286403
No she was already fat before we got married. I like big girls, I have no idea why so don't ask.
>>30286404
We don't have kids, we've been trying and she's been on chlomid due to reproductive issues on her end. We both got our shut tested and it's her not ovulating. Long story.
And I've been rational and calm. We may need to go back to marriage counseling again. It's been a few months since we went.
>>30286406
It's a trap
>>30286309
Stage a rape, and breaking and entering. Pay some dindu a few hundred to beat her within an inch of her life. Wait till she recovers and tell her "well I guess things would be different if you had a gun you simple bitch" 360 walk away.
>>30286406
This. My wife is the same way, but there's a twist. She really likes puzzles, and what are guns? She likes to watch me break down and assemble my guns, says it's cool how all the pieces are so exact.
She has her things and I have mine. It's integral to a relationship to have things you enjoy doing away from each other. Her femnazi (read-divorced) friend blatantly asked her why she "let" me go innawoods and do "God knows what" with my guns (I camp on a buddies land where we have a range set up) she smiled and said, "I like the way gunpowder smells on him," and winked. I really wish I'd been there for her reaction.
>>30286416
There weren't signs, she's a conservative republican like her entire family.
She even supported trump with me from day 1.
I'm hoping it's the chlomid cause I don't want to deal with the BS and paperwork of a divorce.
>>30286486
Pics? How fat
>>30286486
>We may need to go back to marriage counseling again.
hahahahahahahahahahahaha
The Councilor will advise divorce unless you're fucking like rabbits.
>>30286309
Is she really ending a marriage just over the issue of guns? Are you sure there's not something else going on here and the guns were just the straw that broke the camel's back? Could you compromise and let her do something around the house that she hasn't been able to before?
>>30286520
It could be the drugs. She might be disgusted with the shooting in Orlando because, "what if one of them was my son?GUNS ARE EBIL BAN DEM NOW!!1!" I'm not even joking dude.
>>30286486
>I like big girls
And you let women walk on you too. Low self esteem, I presume?
>>30286513
She already is a rape survivor from when she was 19 in college. Some guy did exactly that.
If I ever saw someone doing that to her I'd kill them.
>>30286520
bullshit
>>30286486
>No she was already fat before we got married. I like big girls
Why not just kill yourself at this point? You're attracted to women with no self control.
>>30286525
No pics. 5'6" and 300lbs.
Mostly in her ass, thighs, and belly.
>>30286517
>I like the way gunpowder smells on him
Lucky cuck.
>>30286545
>she's a rape survivor from college
hahahaha
>survivor
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH
>>30286568
dude please kill yourself I'm begging you this shit is worse than /r9k/
>>30286539
Idk if she's going to go through with it
And she says it was disrespectful that I didn't ask her about such an important decision.
>>30286545
>rape survivor
most rapees aren't killed you know
>>30286543
Idk. Maybe?
>>30286545
>>30286568
>marrying obese damaged goods
>>30286595
Grow a pair. If she's that fugly, she shouldn't be controlling you. You can aleays find someone else. She's fat and therefore low value. She should know this.
>>30286586
>>30286576
Should've put victim I guess. Fuck me for trying.
And I mean actual rape that hospitalized her for a month from the beating she got for resisting.
Not that SJW fucktard you're raping me with your words bullshit
>>30286606
>You can aleays find someone else. She's fat and therefore low value. She should know this.
OP sounds like he may be a low-value beta himself.
>>30286568
>rape survivor
>300lbs
is her hair dyed a retarded neon color too?
>>30286573
Bitches like manly men who do manly things dude, what can I say? I used to be like OP, quit smoking for a girl, never went camping, went shooting very rarely . Then I got fed up with it and found a woman who's panties got damp from smelling smoke and CLP on my clothes. Shits cash.
>>30286309
Is this your wife?
Bait thread.
if not bait, shoot your fat pig wife in the head.
>>30286625
No its natural color.
Do you support Bernie or something? Cause I think you missed the part about her being a conservative republican trump supporter
>>30286622
You're the one using that stupid "alpha" and "beta" terminology. I'm giving the same advice to this guy as I'd give anyone. Stand up for yourself is pretty universal advice.
>>30286627
If I can't convert my wife to that I may end up doing what you did>>30286635
>>30286643
yeah milo is also a "conservative republican trump supporter" but he's also a gay jew who loves black dick
>>30286635
Don't even have a pistol yet, let alone the upper and BCG to finish off my AR build
Holy shit
>>30286663
I thought you were
>implying
My wife is a crazy hair 3rd wave feminist
>>30286486
Do not have children with her
DO NOT
And don't go back to couples therapy either. Leave. Find someone younger, that gives you a bigger boner (whatever you're into) and above all, make sure that you can spend the rest of your life pursuing your interests as you please.
>>30286656
I didn't convert her at all, she hates doing that shit and doesn't like guns. She just likes that I do them. She very prissy, not a pioneer woman at all. She just likes that I drink beer and grunt and have a beard, because she's married to a man and like me to be manly.
Its all about respect man, you have to have it. I don't like shopping or spas or coffee houses and I sure as hell hate puzzles, but I'm glad she does because they make her happy. I surprise her with a day at the spa, she sews my Diamond Dog patches to my field jacket. Its love man.
Alright so the basic consensus on getting and what I'm thinking is stopping a fucking pussy tell her to shut the fuck up and deal with it and enjoy her hobbies as i will enjoy mine or go ahead with the fuckin divorce, but either way stop talking about it and trying to weapon I've my act of buying firearms and use that act against me
YOLO
Divorcing someone just for his hobby isn't normal. Just like mentioned before it's probably a buildup.
You mention going to marriage counseling before, suggesting other problems.
It's probably not the guns, but something else. Go to a marriage counselor and try to work it out. But at the same time prepare for a possible divorce; it's not the end of the world.
Also, make sure she can't screw you over in court somehow.
>>30286309
Sounds like a crazy bitch, why'd you marry this thot
>>30286309
OP, I just lost my GF of 5 years to Orlando. And I'm 36, so dating will be hard.
If you are browsing /k/, then you know what to do.
>>30286810
Grab SKS go inna woods?
>>30286754
Yep. I told my gf if it was ever her or the guns, I wouldn't think twice and I would choose the guns. You don't ask people to give up who they are.
>>30286758
Thanks for the legit advice anon
>>30286770
There's this thing called love anon. Don't listen to it
>>30286376
>>30286309
Sounds like she's using this as a smokescreen to mask some other reason to divorce you. Fresh dick or something. I'd let her go. Hopefully you signed a PMA or something
>>30286810
Do >>30286832
With one of these so called QT3.14 trap /k/ommandos who's wearing tactical silk panties?
I don't know if Im down with that anon
>>30286810
>Posting Slav memes
>The odds she was one of the victims
I think you're full of shit. What was your gf doing at the faggot bar. She was a part time fag hag?
>>30286859
We didn't but I can fit everything I actually care about and need into one of my old G.I. duffel bags from when I was in
>>30286810
>Your "gf" was in a gay club by herself
Holy shit you're worse than OP, too bad you weren't at the club yourself
>>30286893
this
>>30286832
Life's too long to worry and it's too short to cry.
Stick with your guns however you can.
>>30286893
I think he's implying they split over a disagreement on gun control after the shooting sperg.
>>30286893
>Slav memes
Zergface is Chinese
>>30286894
Well yeah but there's a chance that future wages can be garnished from you.
>>30286916
After a 5 year relationship? It would of been something else by then. Virgin.
>>30286758
>just for his hobby isn't normal.
Divorcing someone because they don't recognize your rights is perfectly acceptable however.
>>30286941
Only for as long as we've been married (18 months)
Anywho, thanks again anons.
Gotta go start my shift in the batcave.
There's plenty of hot women out there who love their man to have guns( mine does). Why did you pick a loser?
>>30286953
Nigger I'm married, keep projecting because you got called out for being a retard.
>>30286997
That's what I'm saying. Maybe it's because I live in the South? Where are you from?
>>30287047
I'm in Texas but got hitched with a chink in California. Plenty of local women love guns though.
>>30287035
So am I. Nope, I'm correct.
>She wouldn't know you're pro gun after 5 years
You tell yourself that when she leaves you. It w-was O-olando, not Jerome's BBC she left me for.
>>30287286
Well Western and Southern gun culture is pretty much the same. And hey, that plays right in to the "sexy cowboy" thing Texans have going for you too.
>>30287047
>Maybe it's because I live in the South?
it might just be my neck of the woods but all i ever see is average. though it might just be a perspective thing though.
though desu when you compare any average chick to the hoards of hipster migrants any 5 can turn into an 8.
>>30287340
>implying implications
You're assuming a lot anon. Also, I dont think you have a firm grasp on how much of a frenzy people are in over this shooting.
The left struck quick on this one, crying gun control before the bodies were cold. It's got people riled the fuck up and foaming at the mouth.
>>30287340
Thats a bunch BS. Get your woman a major fuck to get head on straight. Women are just overgrown children.
>>30287392
I don't watch TV and live in a rural area so you're right about that.
But I just can't imagine it ending a relationship of 5 years. I guess I'm lucky my wife likes guns.
>>30287386
NC here my friend, we still have proper southern Belle's as long as you stay out of Raleigh and Charlotte and Asheville (not even Raleigh though really, it's a college town for NC State)
Cute, tan, fit blondes who take great care of themselves and let the men do their thing while they do theirs. Its pretty great.
>>30286309
>getting married
>the current fucking year
found the problem
to answer your question, shes testing you at best and actually willing to divorce you at worst. either way your only option is to let her fuck off, enjoy yourself while shes away, and hope she comes back apologizing. you were pretty much fucked the moment you got legally married
>>30287412
I could see it, as mad as people are about it. Don't underestimate it /k/omrade, this could be worse than Sandy Vag in the long run.
It's fucking scary, best we can hope for (with guns anyway) is that Trump gets elected and just leaves us alone. I dont think he'll do a ton of reform, but I know Clinton will.
>>30287419
Hah. i live on the near Wilmington so That might be the reason.
>>30287451
I have a different theory. Red America voted in a house majority based on Obama's bullshit.
Presidents have limited power. There's a chance she could piss off middle America even more to the right.
>>30287481
It'd the possible SCOTUS appointees that scare me. That's a long reaching and possibly damaging possibility for gun owners for years to come. But this isn't /pol/ so I'm going to stop it here.
But yeah, people are heated about this shooting bruv. More mad than I've ever seen anyway.
>>30286728
This, right here. The moment she gets pregnant is the moment she's going to ream your whole life, and there won't be a thing you can do short of suicide and/or murder.
if guns are a big enough issue for her that she'll threaten to leave you, you need to decide if you love her enough to allow her to control you in that way.
It's not even really a weapons question, but /adv/ is terrible anyway.
>>30287458
Wilmington is ghetto as fuck man, so is Fayettnam. Got to get out in the smaller towns and find you a qt in cutoff denim shorts. Not the Tomboy, I like to hunt and fish girls like pic related, but real actual Southern women who's greatest aspiration is to be a good wife and mother. Some might be dumb, but you might luck out like I did and find an educated one.
Still wants me to keep her barefoot and pregnant, though.
I can't be assed to find it but OP said he was a vet, so I'll bet $20 he married a dependa who's pissed off she's not getting those sweet bennies anymore and is really going to leave OP for another soldier. Any takers?
>>30286309
Just shoot her lol
>>30287555
>Wilmington is ghetto as fuck man
No kidding man. I'm glad i don't have to live in it directly. though living between it and Jacksonville puts you in this weird ass zone where you'll have 500k houses only a few fences away from a meth park.
You see some qts sometimes but you'll also see a bunch of brain scorchers.
>>30286309
your wife is retarded
>>30286309
Let her go. Shits hard but women need to respect the man of the households intent to protect said household.
Maybe if you had a nosy child it could be understandable to be nervous but being batshit crazy like this is not a good sign
Also make sure her problem is the guns themselves, not you spending money. I know a guy who is a firefighter and makes a truckload of money but spends it all on bullshit and gets mad at his wife when she complains about him spending money when they are eating ramen noodles... Don't be that guy.
Sorry bro
>>30286309
>>30286486
>What are your thoughts?
It's a mistake to bring guns into that household, never mind children.
If she doesn't respect you enough to understand that you don't need her permission to make yourself happy, then there isn't really any way to assess what her boundaries are.
If you buy a gun, it's possible she's going to end with her shooting you, or calling the cops and getting a domestic violence charge to ruin your life. If you have children with this woman, you're going to be shackled to her for the rest of your life.
You don't deserve to be treated like that, just get out while you still can and never ever look back.
>>30287806
This is solid advice
