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This board needs more stories
I'll start

>go to sauna
>always go naked with just my towel
>wander around for a bit and can't find anyone of interest
>see two guys in the shower talking line their friends
>ask them if they're about to leave
>when they say no I walk off so they follow me as I hoped
>take me into some room and start bending me over, rimming me and sucking my cock
>I grab theirs at any opportunity, not really in the position to suck
>suggest we go to the orgy room because there's more space
>when we get there one starts to lube me up and the other and I begin to 69
>other people have turned up at this point and begin watching, I grab any cock that I can reach
>get pretty close to cumming and have a real thing for having my cock and balls spunked on
>must've been maybe four or so guys at least standing around me
>they all cum all over me
>one of them licks it off
>still fap to it today
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>>1368198
Always wanted to go to gay bath house/sauna, place near me requires people have a recent medical check to even enter so supposedly it's pretty solid
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>>1368293
Do it
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>>1368293
Anon wants aids
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>>1368198
>get drunk in dyke bar downtown
>start making really rude comments about some butch dyke who's giving me the evil eye
>get ejected by a female bouncer who actually has more muscle than i do
>she talks to me outside and turns out she's pretty cool--nicest and most respectful bouncer i ever ran afoul of to be sure
>she says i should sober up and next time be more respectful of 'the ladies'
>apologize to her and say yeah, i just had too much to drink
>friends come outside and say we should go elsewhere
>stupid college thing to do anyway
>marty says we should go to a gay bar
>i start laughing my ass off
>WHY THE FUCK NOT!?
>bar is--literally--right across the street
>there's a fucking line
>turns out some kind of theme party going on
>bouncer out front is one built mother fucker
>takes one look at us and waves us in ahead of everyone
>the way the dude looks at me makes me uncomfortable
>get inside, expecting to see orgy
>instead, just a bunch of young and middle aged guys drinking, dancing
>lots of guys are dressed like a gay guy's idea of what tom-of-finland thinks construction workers should look like
>funniest shit in the world
>have a great time
>every one wants to talk to us and buy us more booze
>have to bust a kidney bad
>clueless me goes to the men's room
>apparently THIS is the orgy room, holy fuck
>me, standing at urinal with super hard on, trying desperately to tap my aching kidneys
>totally turned on by the experience
>next week, ditch the frat party and head out to gay bar by myself
>different theme party going on
>bouncer recognizes me again
>have a great time, close down the bar
>get to make out with the bouncer after hours in the back room
>that's how i figured out i was gay
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>>1370478
I don't feel like that's a sauna story but okay
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>>1368198
Fucking lucky what bath house?
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>>1373319
One just outside of London
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>go to some sauna for the first time
>most of the guys are either super promiscuous or super ugly
>get a 30s blowjob
>2 weeks later i have crabs all over my hairy body
fuck you
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>>1373323
Cool thanks too bad I'm a continent away from that but I'm sure I can find something as good here in the US. Did you ever go back there?
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>>1373328
I've been 4-5 times. Never had a bad experience thankfully although some could have been better
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>>1368198
How sketchy are saunas in general in Western Europe? I know there are two or three in the German city I'm in now. I'm backpacking through Europe and have been really horny lately so they seem really appealing to me at the moment. But, on the other hand, I don't want to get crabs or worse.
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I fucking love saunas/bathhouses. I live in a small town, there's no gay bar for miles and grindr is a wasteland so when I get to go to the city I go on huge binges. I've only been to a sauna three times but every time was better than the previous.

First Time
>Still unsure of myself. Google "Sydney bathhouse"
>Find a place in the cbd with a well designed website that actually seems okay
>decide to go for it
>wander around, try to find my way. Place is dark as shit.
>Old dudes groping me when I pass them in the halls
>Almost everyone trying to get my attention
>Too nervous and scared. Say no to everyone.
>Find a gloryhole. Stick my flaccid dick through it.
>Someone comes along and sucks my dick.
>Feels good but can't get hard. So fucking nervous.
>Eventually a switch flips in my head
>Diamonds.
>Guy sucking me ends up leaving before I cum.
>That's fine, I like sucking better anyway.
>Go to the bottom level of the gloryholes.
>Wait.
>Someone finally sticks their dick through the hole for me
>I chicken out and leave

I'll post no.2 and no.3 later
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>>1373462
>I'll post no.2 and no.3 later
Don't know why you bothered with this limp-dicked prologue.
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>>1373393
Western Europe has some great saunas. Berlin has nice ones, Adonis and Boiler, which I liked. Sun City in Paris is really nice. Kaiserbründl in Vienna is amazingly good and I really like Magnum in Budapest too. I visited quite a few in London too, but I can't really recommend those.
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>>1373470 It's a sauna story thread. I had a sauna story.

Second Time: When I started to actually have some fun.
>Several months later. Second opportunity
>Know myself better. No way I'm chickening out of anything this time.
>I enjoyed the gloryholes last time, go back. Stick with what I know.
>This time mouth on my dick is crazy skilled.
>Deepthroats me easily, 7" thick.
>I don't come from oral but he had me close so many times.
>Stops after what felt like the dozenth time I'd almost come
>Leaves his booth, walks around to mine, opens the door behind me.
>Kneels in my booth and sucks my dick
>Another guy who I think was his boyfriend watches us. Was fucking cramped in there.
>Guy sucking my dick asks if I want to go somewhere with more room.
>Fuck yeah!
>Find a private room, his weirdo bf stays out.
>He sucks me some more until I ask him to fuck me
>My ass takes ages to open up
>Finally feel him work his head in.
>That was all. He had a 3" dick tops.
>Fucks for me ages. Sniffing poppers the whole time.
>It's not awful but the best part was when he finally got his dick in.
>Now that I'm opened up I just want to find a real cock not this chode.
>Get out of there. Weirdo bf was standing at the door.
>Were you there the whole time? Dude wtf?
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>>1374160
Second Time cont.
>This is where my experiences take a turn for the better
>Go back to the gloryholes (I'm a creature of habit)
>Wait a while and someone pokes their own cock through
>9 inches. Put my mouth on it.
>This thing has no give. It's like metal with skin stretched over it
>Just the right size to take balls deep in my throat and make me gag just a little bit
>Fucking love this.
>He takes his dick away.
>I can see someone else is in the booth with him.
>They're making out, I reach through and stroke both their dicks with my hand.
>First guy leaves. I've been swapped to the new guy.
>His dick is the same size, with just a bit more give.
>Tastes amazing.
>Suck him for a few minutes
>Whenever I start to gag too much he kneels down and kisses me
>Has a short scratchy beard. Love it.
>Whispers "Cocksuckers make the best kissers" to me. My knees nearly buckled it made me so horny
>Hear him tell me he's about to cum.
> Want it all! Hold the head in my mouth and stroke the shaft.
>Shoots a load into my mouth. spurts at least six times. It's running down my chin. Swallow all I can.
>He kisses me again with my mouth still full of his cum. So fuckin hot.
>Step out of my booth more horny for cock than I've been in my life.
>Look at the clock, 1am. I had to leave half an hour ago.
>Goddammit. Have to wait until next time.

Third and most recent and by far best (probably) tomorrow
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Any bathhouse or good all guy gay bar in cambridge or kitchener ontario??
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>>1374161
Third Time: When I stop green texting it stops being hot.
>In Sydney a week, got laid twice.
>Not sure if I can be bothered hitting up the bathhouse
>What the hell
>Time in the gym's paying off and I'm getting eyefucked while I'm stripping down to my towel
>Still not feeling it, get in the spa and watch some porn
>Old creeper sits next to me.
>Hand rests on my leg under the water
>Eww, but go with it
>Old dude goes for it
>I keep watching porn.
>Pretend he's not even there while he gives me a handjob
>He whispers "I know where I want you to put this" in my ear
>Gross. Nope. Tell him that's not going to happen.
>Creeper leaves but now I've got a boner and nothing to do with it.
>Get up from spa, go into the sauna
>Feel someone following behind me
>Sit down on a bench
>Within five seconds my followers kneeling on the floor and lifting my towel up
>help him out by taking the towel off
>He takes all of my dick in his mouth.
>Excellent cocksucker.
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>>1375362 cont.
>we start to get an audience
>guys groping both of us while he sucks my dick
>one of the dudes groping him looks hot (hard to tell, was dark in there)
>touch his chin to get his attention
>pull him into me and start to make out.
>audience grows to five or six guys
>some groping us three, some just jerking off.
>one of them gets the balls to join in
>he stands on the bench next to me
>offers his cock
>me and the guy I'm making out with both start sucking it
>still making out with each other
>still getting sucked by the guy who followed me in
>I'm now at the centre of a four dude orgy with an audience
>This is awesome!
>Get clost to coming so many times I'm losing my mind
>Guy who's dick I'm sharing shoots his load
>guy who I was sharing with and I swap it back and forth continuing to make out
>still getting sucked by the same guy
>someone else kneels in front of me
>wants a share of my dick
>once he finally gets a turn with it in his mouth his hand starts to creep up my leg
>open my legs wider to encourage him
>he probes my asshole with his fingers
>I've got three guys all over me AND I'm being penetrated
>keep looking out on the audience I've gathered to savor the moment
>Finally come
>fuck that was incredible
>grab my towel and head back to the spa
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>>1375368 cont.
This is where things go a bit downhill
Relax a bit in the spa
replay the whole thing in my head
can't really believe shit that went down
start to get a bit horny again
head upstairs and wander the halls
don't see anything I like
lock myself in a private room and jerk off for a bit
throw the door open and keep jerking off to invite in the first passerby
Old. Asian. Terrible bj. wants to suck my nips. Shit at that too.
Pay way more attention to the porn playing than to him
he picks up that I'm bored. Leaves.
head for the gloryholes. Because why not?
get offered a huge dick. Fuck yes!
deepthroat it.
Suck the head and jerk the shaft with my hand
seemed he didn't like me using my hand
took his dick away. Arsehole.
After that I decided to leave.
Nothing was going to top the sauna orgy

Might be going again in a month or so. Goals are to replicate the sauna orgy but include some actual buttfucking. But I don't know if there's condoms in that steam room and I'm NOT doing bareback.
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>>1374175
You know Google is a thing right?
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I just come back from a bathhouse. I went over there multiple times but I have been very busy these last months so I didn't have the time.

> Go to the bathhouse
> Get naked
> As I am a young, relatively beautiful man, every time I go there most of the guys start following me, some of them try to grope me
> It's basically sexual harassment, but I'm used to it when I go there
> I alternate between sauna, hammam, and jacuzzi
> At one point when I enter the hammam, there's a huge orgy inside
> 6 or 7 men
> I usually love group sex but I don't like joining in the middle since I don't know who's participating
> Go to the jacuzzi
> See this big bear entering
> Big gut, hair, big beard, big arms
> He sits not far away from me
> I'm hard as a rock
> Masturbating furiously under the water
> After a few minutes, he gets out and goes inside the hammam
> I follow him
> He stand next to the cold shower
> After a moment I pretend I want to take a shower
> I do take a shower, I'm just next to him, never been that hard
> Once the water stop, I stay there, pretending to dry my hair and eyes
> Suddenly he gropes me and moves me against the wall
> He press against me
> I'm stuck between the wall and him with his big gut
> He caress me, our faces are very close, I guess he wants to kiss me but he's not sure
> I give him the greenlight and kiss him
> He has a big, powerful tongue, it's so exciting
> He takes my cock and jack me off
> I take his cock
> WTF
> His cock isn't long but it is fu-cking thick, I barely hold it with my hand
> Always thought it was bullshit when I read this on /hm/
> For ten minutes we kiss, grope each other
> The hammam is dark, warm, and wet
> He gets on his knees and sucks me
> He's sucking me like a pro, gives me deep-throats without me getting hurt
> From times to times he gets up and kiss me
> After like 10 minutes of sucking me, he gets up, kiss me, and makes us crouch
> We still kiss, except that now he's teasing my asshole with his fingers

cont.
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>>1375372

> I still have his fat cock in my hand
> Words cannot describe how I feel at this moment
> Then we get out. A few guys where watching us as we were making out
> We take a shower, then go to the sauna, there's nobody
> He keeps sucking me. I propose him to go to a cab upstairs, but he answers he wants to talk to his boyfriend before
> His boyfriend comes inside the sauna, he's a thin bear
> After a few talks, we quickly get into a threesome
> His boyfriend sucks me, and he's kissing me
> At one point, he stands up in front of my face, and make me suck his thick cock while I'm still being sucked
> I'm in paradise
> Suddenly I feel like coming
> I never had this much feeling without even touching my cock
> I come in his boyfriend's mouth
> He comes on my face
> I wanted this to last longer but I couldn't resist
> We go take a shower, then we split
> Later, just before I leave, the boyfriend tells me my cum tastes weird, laughing
> I laugh too, then leave

Right now I'm still hard, I think I'm gonna jack off.
When I go to gay bathhouses, most of the times I don't have great sex, but a few times I had the most pleasuring times of my life.
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Theres a pool party known for a good amount of sex Im going to later this summer. I'll be sure to post here if the thread is still around then.
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>>1368198
>this porn image board needs moar stories
>i need to try to impress strangers with my slutiness
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>>1375487
Greentext stories are a popular feature of /hm/. Surely you've noticed. Surely you can ignore one thread.
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>>1375492
Sure they are, as are youtube threads, incest threads with no pictures, selfies and all the other "rule-breaking" but in reality board-ruining things that have caused people to leave this site in droves over the years. But by all means keep flaunting your disgusting sauna experiences and keeping the gay community in the aids ridden 80's.
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Be me about an hour ago
>horny and bored
>decide to post Craigslist add
>"jerkin off straight guys"
>nowwewait
>get flooded with messages
>fuckwhodoichoose
>find guy, 24 straight GF never blows him anymore
>shows dick
>JesusTakeMe
>tells me he doesn't like HJ and he wants a BJ
>What the heck
>agree to meet up
>he comes to my place but I can't host
>car play it is
>we find a dark road and he pulls his pants down
>its better then the pics show and its freakin thick
>go down On it
>Can barley deepthroat it
>claims to be 7"
>sucking his thick long Dick for about 10 minutes
>go down and suck his balls (which are godly also)
>he's loving it
>"Your way better then my GF"
>awyea
>keeps blowing him and he's starting to moan louder and louder
>Him- "I'm gunna cum, do you swallow"
>me-"Sure?"
>Shoves my head down and blows a huge load, like 7 or 8 big squirts
>ImDrowningInCum
>swallows like a good fag
>start milking for the last drops
>Him-"Omg that was great"

After we exchanged info and he dropped me off and drove away.
Pic related, Is his dick
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>>1373325
damn
i got crabs from the gym at my last job. those little fuckers are resilient.. luckily i dont have much body hair and they didnt spread.
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>>1368293
wat
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>>1370478
Fanastic story, made me giggle just a bit. You go, man.
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>>1376546

Awesome. Go teach others. This is how its done.
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>>1375369
>>1375373

I like that you guys can relax and have a good time even when things aren't ideal. I've had spontaneous public sex, but regret nothing with groups. I guess I have the mental block you don't. I dont want to be the guy thats too picky to have a good time.

>sexual harassment but Im used to it

To me, thats a lot more male than guys who get catty about getting a squeeze. I wish I could experience it once, even as a spectator. All that raw male sexuality seems fascinating.
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>>1375496

I assure you, whiners and bitches like you are the reason I make it here three times a year before moving on in weary disgust at people who hang here all the time to randomly attack people actually providing content.
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Me and my buddy decided to have sex the other night.
>be me last night
>innawoods with buddy
>spend the day shooting and fucking around outside
>set up the tent and lay there for a little while
>we decide to do the sexuals
>get naked (first time we'd done it naked, usually we at least keep our pants on)
>look at gay furry porn to get hard
>I suck his dick for a while
>I fucking love his cock
>pretty thick, a little longer than mine
>We lay down and keep looking at gfur on /trash/ while we fap
>he says he's getting close
>I ask him to cum on my face
>blows huge load across my face, so warm and thick
>wear his cum on my face while he sucks my cock
>I never came but got pretty close, still enjoyed it
Still don't know why I didn't cum, I did last time he sucked my dick.
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I lost my anal virginity at a sauna to someone id never recognise if I saw again in front of a crowd.

And boy did he fuck the life out of me
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>Alright, here we go. My first experience with a guy
>Look for someone online for a long time, am 24
>A guy in his 40s talks to me, Looks pretty hot
>After a few days of chatting we agree to meet at my place.
>He comes in, definitely hot. I'm nervous as hell.
>He knows it's my first time and asks me what I want to do and willing to go slow
>I want to see his dick so he gets it out. It's probably about 7"-8" long so I'm feeling even more intimidated.
>I start sucking it and he's enjoying it. Giving me a few tips.
>As hot as this is, I can't get hard.
>After a while he asks what I want and I tell him to fuck me.
>I hang my ass over the end of the couch and he gets on his knees.
>Using his spit and mine he slides it in with a bit of difficulty
>I've used makeshift dildos before but this just feels so much better. But I still don't get hard.
>He goes slow then picks up the speed. Fucking me hard. I'm loving it.
>After a while he asks me where I want it and I'm too damn horny to say anything but inside me.
>He cums and I swear I can feel it.
>He comments that it's a good thing I used something on my ass in the past or else he wouldn't have fit.
>After a lot of work I manage to get hard and he sucks me off till I cum in his mouth and he spits it into a towel.
>I apologize for having a hard time getting hard but he says he enjoyed it.
>No one has ever been as good as he was.
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>>1371927
And I quote "this board needs more stories" not "this board needs more sauna stories
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Sauna story fresh from yesterday
>23, asian hairless chest and thighs, usually top twink, 16cm and thick, bubble butt, glasses
>Was supposed to go last week but the sauna had a technical problem
>Anyway
>Enter, strip down, another 20~asian boi is leaving
>I would have, oh well
>grab his butt as I go in the dark corridors
>shower, roam around, take a dip in the jacuzzi but don't see anyone I fancy
>trip to the gloryhole, signal that someone is in
>After a few seconds, get a pretty good blowjob
>An old man appears behind me and starts rubbing me
>Meh, turned off, back to shower then sauna
>Back to gloryhole
>Nobody
>Oh well.jpg
>Suddenly, a wild guy appears from behind and starts rubbing me
>Kinda chubby, at least 2m tall, hairless smooth body, me likey
>Start touching dick
>Alert.exe, this snake is anaconda-tier
>Drop on my knees, slut-mode activate
>Shit was at least 21cm and thick as fuck, ohwow
>Try to give best blowjob of my life, sloppy and slutty as fuck
>Rest my head in a corner and he starts to skullfuck me
>Feelsgoodman
>As I sense his balls tense up, he leaves
>tfw left alone in a dark cabin, covered in saliva
>b-back to shower then
>Roam around, find a qt tattooed twink guy, bit shorter than me (he was 1m70 I guess), short hair, waiting on a cabin's threshold
>"Hey there, you waiting for someone?"
>"Nope, get in ;) "
>Get frisky, he feels so small in my arms
>Go down on his dick
>14cm, curved to the left, big glans but kinda pencildick
>he reciprocates and I see him struggling, bj is meeeh
>Fool around for 10~ minutes
>He cums all over himself, I don't
>Decide to call it off as it's going nowhere
>Back to [spoiler]shower[/spoiler]

Part 1
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>>1380822
>Roam around the corridors again
>Looks like someone is using the sling room and kept the door open
>May as well
>Dom master was fucking his slut in front of two old men, she was moaning pretty hard
>Lookbutdon'ttouch.gif
>She climaxes and they leave soon after
>Interlude
>Time is running out and my balls are still heavy
>Like the previous twink, sit alone in an empty cabin
>30s something guy enters, smooth and balding, yet kinda cute
>"Need a hand... or more?"
>Let him go to town on me, he worships pretty well
>BigDick Dude reappears as we left the door ajar, he enters and closes behind him
>Gay orgy begins
>Dicks sucked left and right
>Baldguy shifts gear
>My slutmode kicks back in, beg for bigdickdude to fuck my mouth
>Fucking bliss, I'm melting
>Hear the slut next door, moaning and getting slapped
>Start outmoaning her from sheer pleasure
>Bigdick cums all over my chest
>Baldguy swallows my huge load
>Stay in the cabin, legs shaking and crossed-eyes from this groundbreaking orgasm
>back
>to
>shower
>slowly, because I feel wobbly
>Then I had to leave
>On the way out, see the slut getting screwed in front of other guys in the open
Grabbed a McD and got back home. Balls feel empty.
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just happened
>be me 18
>teen shit
>think im gay
>then think im pan
>get a girlfriend
>back to thinking im just only into dudes while still have girlfriend
>conflicted because she loves me and I like her romantically, but need cock
>go on grindr just to "browse"
>start talking to hot daddy, big cock, wants to meet
>thinking with dick
>start driving to where he is with intent to suck him off
>really want to, but suddenly filled with guilt / internal conflict
>thinking about pure, sweet, innocent girlfriend
>turn around
>back at home typing this, regret not getting daddy dick, but glad i didnt cheat on my gf
I really need to break up with her and stop leading her on
Did I make the right decision /hm/? Really conflicted
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>>1381544
I'd ask her if she would be into letting you, if only once. But if she's the type who would flip the fuck out and start thinking like she isn't good enough for you sexually in the back of her mind like my ex then don't say anything.

I think you should go for it anyway though, maybe tell her later maybe not. I'm too much of a slut to feel guilt about that shit for that long anyway so who am I to give advice
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>>1381544
>girlfriend
>girl
Ew
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>>1381544
It's pretty simple. If you love your gf and want to be in a relationship with her, keep your dick fantasies to jack off sessions.

If you want to suck dick and experiment break up with her and fuck around.

You can't have your cake and eat it though, it's selfish.
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>>1381583
I love her but more like you would love a sister or something which is why I don't want to make her depressed by breaking up. I'm not being self-aggrandizing either this chick is objectively obsessed with me. I wish I could find a cute boy my age and not have to use stupid shit like grindr.
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>>1381600
Break up with her.

You're doing more damage by leading her on and cheating her than just letting her know that you're nto that into her.

She's a woman it's not like it's hard to find another boyfriend as a woman.
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>>1381544
You did right. You have to break up with her
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>>1381600

There is more to consider than just her. You need to think about what life plan you want. Its fine to have the feelings. And there, or will be, outlets.

But 'coming out' changes your social options in a more or less permanent way. You have zero obligation to anyone to change your life direction so soon for people who will applaud your 'courage' then do fuckall as your paths narrow.

Sexuality is only a part of life. And if you are not in committed relationships, you can very much have your cake and eat it too.

Consider the amount of time most men spend in a relationship. Now think of the stability and social access of family.

These things are bigger than the boner you may sprout for males in your youth. Select a path that feels right, not just enjoyable. You dont have to change anything inside, but you are not compelled to change anything outside either.

Feel no shame in your feelings, whether others would scold you for liking males, or others scold you for not joining an artificial political cult.

It is ultimately just sex. Of what importance you place on how you conduct in you your future is up to you.

I like weed. A lot. I was almost dumb enough to make a 'lifestyle' out of it. And Im glad I didnt.

Dont confuse thrills for peace and happiness, or fun for intimacy. In the end, you wont need either as much as you may think now. But consider carefully the later decades where you may have family to see you to the end. Look around at what 50 year old open gays have, and ask yourself if thats really how you want to end up.

You can do it. Its your choice. But dont bullshit yourself about what the choices are just to get to an easy solution now that handicaps you later.

I want you to have fun, however you like, AND a future of stability & access. And you can. The only pressure is what you imagine from people both like me in my advice & others with the opposite.

It's still your choice. Your only obligation is to your own well being, not just thrills
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>>1368198
>be me
>ima 'consultant' for a fracking company
>definition: sinecure - a paid post with no real responsibilities
>i get paid to loaf and look important and nod my head sagely whenever someone asks me an important question
>"good question; i'll get my 'people' right on that"
(code for, i'll pass it on to the people who really know what the fuck they're doing and maybe you'll get your questions answered)
>i go lots of places
>i talk to people, delivering the party line
>smile a lot, say the right things, dress well
>eat a lot of barbecue
>basically a glorified salesperson
>shit i see and hear starts to bother me
>i make the biggest mistake in the world: i learn shit
>holy fuck what have i been doing!?
>fracking is pure evil incarnate
>one farmer's well actually blew up
>one women actually turned on her tap and took a barbecue lighter and set fire to the water stream
>submitted my resignation
>got threatened with legal death if i ever spoke up
>lawyers are pure evil, too, turns out
>bye bye easy money
>got an evil lawyer of my own to fight their evil lawyers
>my evil lawyer was more evil lol
>got a huge settlement
>became an anti-fracking hacktivist
>turns out not all protestors are libtard limp-wristed, vegan fuckheads
>met a down-to-earth 40-something oilman/engineer/'earth-warrior'
>former gulf-coast platform driller
>guy and i had a spark straight off
>iron-haired, military cut tanned daddy
>body like a navy seal
>iron blue eyes to match
>i'd 'experimented' but no guy had hit my buttons like this
>hit the road together, protest to protest
>shared hotel room
>shared hotel room bed
>lots of hot, heavy action
>total body worship
>i tried to get him to fuck me
>apparently that's where he drew the line
>i tried to get him to let me fuck him
>also over the line
>a fucking oilman who won't oil up or drill
>bummer
>we get caught in the mother of all thunderstorms in rural pennsylvania
>mine pond bursts and wipe-out flood
>a couple small towns get drowned
>>>
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>>1383940
continued
>pitch in with relief efforts
>awful bad shit
>feels good to help but you see a lot of raw human misery
>tears your heart out every single day
>i concentrate on one town
>he sets up with the red cross in the larger town
>not his first rodeo; he knows half the staff
>we're at it for weeks
>FEMA is headed by a new fuckhead hiding behind a bush
>(read between the lines)
>(the fuckhead also fucked over new orleans a year later)
>takes a long time to help these people
>we could never do enough fast enough
>tom and i manage to see each other and hook up occasionally
>suddenly something's different
>encounters are brief
>making excuses to 'get back'
>wtf, we used to have sex all night long?
>hear through the relief grape vine about what's what
>tom has fallen for a woman in the town
>her house was taken out and he was spending a lot of time with her
>it was serious
>confront him: worst fears realized
>guess he missed drilling after all
>this is me with broken heart
>stick with the relief effort another year
>really hurts whenever i see him or hear about him
>can't hate him or her
>met her: pretty, young (my age) and obviously very much in love
>life_happens.jpg
>i'm leaving to start a new life
>being an eco-warrior is tough
>i've done enough and no reason to stay
>he comes to wish me off at the airport
>those blues eyes of his are the last thing i saw when i boarded
>every time i watch a movie or see a story on fracking, i feel like i've been gut-punched even after all these years
>never told my wife about any this part of my life
>still have the carhartt jacket he gave me
>the stains are still there like memories
>he made me a better person
>gave his name to our son
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>>1383950
Well thank god for your wife and kid.
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>>1383950
I'd be pretty fucking pissed if my wife named my kid after her ex lmao.
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>>1383940
I actually someone that knows something about this shit.

Fracking is not, all things considered, bad. Through fracking we can easily extract natural gases. These gases give us an energy source that is much more environmentally friendly than oil or, god forbid, coal. With fracking we might actually bridge the gap until we can use green energy for everything and not destroy life on this planet.
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>>1383981
fracking has enabled us to leverage more of our own fossil fuel resources and wean ourselves away from foreign sources and strengthened the economy, yeah

it's also helped preserve actic wilderness from extreme energy development

1. we cannot go green and expect to stay at high capacity, we have to go to thorium to achieve safe, nuclear power

2. fracking 'can' be safe if done with the right geological substrate and done carefully with much oversight and limited drilling

3. fracking was the 21st century 'gold rush' and has made boom/bust cycles in pennsylvania, ohio, west virginia and many other places (it's the latest rape of appalchia for sure after timber and coal)

4. they gave away licenses indiscriminately and had but little oversight and then went all government strong arm on resisters: it is a racket

5. pumping millions of gallons of hot, toxic chemicals deep underground and somehow expecting nothing but 'clean' extraction of natural gas and petro-sludge for processing is a fool's dream: groundwater contamination, earth shifts and soil contamination are the usual result and are not generally factored in by the boys eager to make us energy self-sufficient

6. i was in southeastern ohio protesting and we actually had a fucking EARTHQUAKE: in.fucking.ohio as a result while we were there, a whole series of them

7. red flags are red flags and you cannot just wish them away

ok, so like i became a green warrior and maybe i'm biased, but fracking is not the answer, but i'm actually in favor of carefully developing surface oil shales out in the arid west because they're right fucking there on the surface and don't involve extensive strip mining or pumping poison down deep wells

i've also seen what unbridled resource exploitation does to the locals, who are the most immediate victims, but we'll have the environmental catastrophe to live with for a long, long time
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>>1383950
my god, this is a bestselling novel

contact me immediately
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