Anyone have a sugar daddy/story's about sugar daddy's?? Older guys keep offering to "help me out" but I have yet to accept. It's getting harder and harder (in both senses of the word ;)) to turn down!
ha! no. I could always do better for myself alone, then under a Sugar Daddy who can impose authority.
I like muh freedom.
I used to blow this married guy when I was in high school, and he'd by me cigarettes and booze in return
To me it seems like the best way to handle a sugar daddy situation is for extraneous cash or smaller gifts, like >>1328740 . Doing it for big bills like rent money or a car note sounds foolish, especially if you lean into it as your main income. The more influence a man like that has on tour life the worse off it can be if he turns crazy/overbearing/stalky.
Be careful about what info you give him. Consider a fake name and not going to your place. Personally I feel far more comfortable not involving money with my sexcapades. It puts us on more equal ground, even when I indulge on my submissive tastes. But I've known people that did it with both positive and negative results.
I never went through with it because the guy wanted to give me money via bankwire and didn't require meeting me. I think it was smart not to get into it.
The idea of getting a little bit of money for just existing sounds exciting though, not gonna lie. It would work best with someone who works a lot and would like to have a weekly fuckbuddy and someone that texts naughty with him every now and then. But these people probably get escorts nowadays.
>>1328956
Forgot to explain the first paragraph. I was active on GayRoyal and the guy wrote me messages about "helping out a young man".
I guess I had a sugar daddy for a while.
Answered an ad from an older married guy looking to hook up with a younger guy. He wanted to be exclusive since he was married and didn't want to bring anything home. I was paranoid about TD's so that sounded good to me.
Start off seeing him but we can never get any privacy. I had two roommates who he didn't want to run into and he had a wife at home. Lots of "car dates", some woods, sometimes he'd spring for a motel.
It wasn't working out the way he wanted so he set me up in an apartment. I paid what I was paying with my roommates, he paid the rest. I contributed to utilities and he picked up the rest.
Unfortunately I felt like I was being bought. With my own place he expected that I was available whenever he wanted. Which I didn't mind to extent but when we used to meet 2-3 times a month it was exciting to sneak off together, steal kisses, BJ's in a parking lot.
Now he'd just come over 2-3 times a week, fuck me, hang around for a beer, maybe get a BJ and then leave.
I'm not saying he wasn't nice. He bought me clothes, paid for a ski trip with my friends and always made sure I had a little spending money but I realized what I needed to do for all that.
I was offered a live in situation with allowance and full paid travel but I am unsure whether or not I really want to do it since I'm only bi and I am also worried even though it's a couple they will end up being very controlling and I would also have to move half way across the country.
Should I go for or not I'm not sure what I should do!
>>1329027
set some ground roles and let them decide whether or not they can live with them.
>>1329027
i did this with a m/f couple.
it was like living with my parents.
they decided everything, including what we ate and i was expected to go along with it.
i never had a choice about anything because they would always break the tie in their favor.
i was with them for nearly 10 years.
was really easy because they paid all the bills and took care of any problems.
the woman cooked and cleaned and i mostly had sex with the man but was good friends with the woman and hung out with her a lot because the man was at work (and out fucking other people) a lot of the time.
we all 'loved' each other and it was like a divorce to break up with them in the end and i was really depressed for a couple of years and really missed them. we had a good family, but i just grew up and wanted to be treated more like an equal and be in a relationship where i was an equal.
I guess I was kind of a whore pretty much.
>Knew I wanted to suck cock since I was 10.
>When 13, i would find guys on guys4men or gay.com or xy.com. Sometimes would even find guys to chat with on WinMX.
>I found a 26yo guy on xy.com and suggested we do some car fun at 3am (in the suburbs, so it was quiet) during some Thanksgiving weekend.
>He sucked me off, I sucked him off.
>No payment this time, but that got me hooked onto sex.
>My account would get reported quite often since I'd be up front about being underaged
>I finally have some 38yo guy message me and was willing to meet with me.
>I wanted some lunch money (lol) cuz what my mom cooked was shit
>I ask him for $300 in return for sex.
>On my 14th bday, I ask my dad to drop me off at some movie theatre.
>I meet the 38yo guy at the Barnes and Noble
>He looked bigger than in pics but w/e. money is money
>We go walk over to a nearby motel where he's been spending for the past few months for a film project. (He was a director)
>He holds me by my shoulders and I get an instant boner.
>Slut mode activated.
>I strip off my clothes and he does the same.
>We make out on the bed while jerking each other off.
>He pushes my head down to his crotch.
>I suck on his 6" cock for like solid 2 min.
>He then tells me that he needs to fuck me or he'll cum.
>He gets his dick ready w/condom and lube.
>It hurts.
>I tell him to pull out.
>We wait a little until pain goes away while we make out further
>Second try, it feels amazing.
>He fucks me really hard.
>Without touching my dick, I cum at the same time he does.
>We shower and get cozy in his jacuzzi tub (lol he had a jacuzzi suite)
>We walk over to the shopping center and eat some Italian food.
>We go back to his room and fuck again.
>He hands me $300. I hide it in my socks.
>I walk back to the movie theatre, and have my dad pick me up. I think I lied and said that I saw The Bridge to Terabithia.
>He messages me again a day later.
cont'd
>I ask for $450, feeling greedy.
>He rejects the offer, saying he doesn't have that much money.
>For the rest of the semester, I ended up spending all my money on lunch food at my middle school lol.
Somehow this whole thing turns me on thinking about it to this day. I've probably gotten paid anywhere from $100 to $250 ever since, with 10 different men after I turned 16, offering my ass. I wish I were a 14yo again though. I knew it was taboo, and that somehow made it more exciting/hot.
I have a few older men who I'd consider sugar daddies but I don't have sex with any of them. I usually just do it for small shit like a movie, dinners/lunches, a few beers and etc. Every once in awhile some small but really essential shit like bus passes and some money for access codes.. which is all for school. They only do this because I've been told that I'm doing good, proud of my major and GPA, really studious and very cute.
They're basically a mentor with some slight intimacies.
I've seen and dealt in the past with some crazy ass muthafuckers to recommend y'all to not go for sugar daddies that give out several bills because at that point, he fucking owns you. Like even though I rarely take money and it doesn't go to me in the end, I'm still very cautious about it.
I used to get on those cam sites a lot when I was 18-19ish. It's weird because I'm not really an exhibitionist. I would mostly just chat and maybe flash every once and awhile. There were a couple of older guys (40-60) that thought I had a charm to me and would be stuff off my amazon wishlist. There was this one guy who would frequently send me money through paypal asking nothing in return, which I thought was shocking. He even offered to fly me out to where he lived for a week and buy me shit and go to all the tourists attractions. Being the pussy I am, I turned it down.
>>1329649
LMAO.
Sorry, I'm not a male model or pathetic fairy faggot so I don't have one but know hefty amount of male models who get pocket money from daddies every week or month due to my old job. It's all give and take + don't ask and don't tell.
Advice? Don't trust your daddies. They can fall "in love" with someone new after a few days with you and ditch you like a used toilet paper.
As if a sad faggot like you actually attractive enough to get a sponsor. You just wanna fap to some made stories.
>>1329829
Are you sure you didn't do it because you were just being smart about the situation? I mean it's incredibly hard to have someone be that generous and not want something in return. Especially if it involves that serious type of cash. I still think you did the right thing anon. Who knows what could have happened.
>>1330420
Although I agree with your underlying message, there's no need for you to be this salty as shit m8. Someone of us are just worth it for others.
