Something must be wrong with them.
no, I hate myself
People pretty much everywhere--gay, straight, male female--are narcissists on most levels.
>>1311138
Hardly. Most gays like gays outside of their own body-type. Which is shitty for a skinny guy who likes skinny guys like myself. Maybe I'm narcissistic? Though i don't think I'd want to fuck me so it seems unlikely.
All men dont' look like just as men and women don't.
>>1311160
>Most gays like gays outside of their own body-type
citation needed
>>1311160
>Most gays like gays outside of their own body-type.
In my experience it has been the exact opposite, but that's only my experience, which is why I would never make assumptions about the preferences of all gays.
>>1311166
My love life.
I have daddies, hunks, and bears clamoring at the gate and only about 1 in 10 twinks will respond.
>>1311145
this. i even have a bf and i don't understand why he likes me
>"cant spell hapenis without saying "ha Penis!"
I think we were supposed to get trolled by this thread, but we have like... the most mild and understandable responses, it's kind of hilarious to find that in these boards. Not really a very narcissistic disposition, I'd say.
>>/lgbt/
>>1311146
This is certainly true. The only sense in which gays, males particularly, are more narcissistic than straights is when it comes to looks and scents and a few other bodily matters. But in no sense are their overall patterns of pleasure seeking more costly to others, or less empathetic. The classical definition, based on the myth of Narcissus, and much developed in the poetry of Ovid and Shakespeare, means attraction to someone with similar attributes, good or bad. Unfortunately, the term narcissism has been re-defined by pop psychologists and other puritans as a synonym for evil, mostly to imply that homosexuality, and sex for its own sake, is evil. This kind of thing is always happening in language, in which the name of a benign trait, a little more prevalent in a hated group is, is redefined to mean something malign. It's a bit like calling a rose a poison thorn bush. All forms of pejorative emerge from processes that, in essence, amount to little more than that, and idiots, almost by definition, don't notice that fact.
Maybe the hot ones could be narcissists but I hate myself. A guy flirted with me once and I nearly cried. I would have sucked his dick and bent over any piece of furniture. But he had a boyfriend. I cried when I got home. I'd be a sad fag for the rest of my life. To tall and buff to be a bottom in a land in love with small twinks.
>>1311280
>To tall and buff to be a bottom
DUDE!
Lots of guys like big and tall guys to fuck; you just ain't looking hard enough.
Fucking pony boys is fun, but every so often I need to get hold of a large-and-in-charge man to dominate.
Porking a guy for all I'm worth, WHEN I KNOW that in a fair fight he could well rip off my arms makes for a pretty extreme rush.
Poking a big muscle bro is amazing.
Advertise.Yourself.Better.:
"Tall, handsome buff muscle hunk needs to be fucked silly by Mr. Average Joe...please", then include pictures....
You should probably target 'straight' guys, offering blow jobs and anal, maybe stating that you're 'curious' and want to be used by other straight dudes to fulfill a fantasy.
I've had sex with a lot of 'curious' dudes this way.
>>1311280
What makes you say you're not hot if you're tall and buff? And even if you're still not hot despite that, is that sufficient cause for self-hatred? It must be something else. Tyrannical as the male eye is over its possessor, it's not as powerful as you imagine it to be, either in swaying opinion or conditioning how men prefer to live.
>>1311138
>Are all gay men just narcissists?
what, and straight jocks AREN'T!?
lots of 'straight' jocks have egos that enter the room before they do and think they're the centre of the universe
>>1311138
All gay men aren't narcissists but I'd venture to say most, if not all, gay men are damaged. Growing up and being gay even in today's society is damaging, especially when you have to conceal huge parts of yourself for years at a time during some of the most important years of your lives. Not to mention expressing yourself and your sexuality is a necessary part of the human experience. I find they have a harder time putting their trust and heart on the line than most others.
no, stupid generalization. grow up. ask more intelligent questions. on a different thread. and post more porn.
>>1311304
Too. Many. Periods.
>>1311138
>Are all gay men just narcissists?
just the youtumours--i mean the youtubers
>>1311138
>>1311138
>>1311301
Also, what kind of damage results differs greatly in both kind and degree depending on temperament. Gay men with a comic disposition often become too guarded, and take ironic detachment so far that their sense of humor seems like perfect nonsense to those who have less use for wariness. Gay men with an angry or tragic disposition suffer the most, the former tending to become bitter misanthropes, and the latter cripplingly melancholy. The social and economic standing of one's parents also matters. Money is power, and the esteem of the community confers safety from attack by troublemakers.
>>1311310
lel he suc a deldo
>>1311138
what do you mean by narcissist?
i put lot of effort on appearance and clothes but i'm not the type that likes to show off as i'm very introverted
It's not that they're gay. It's that they're attractive.
Gay men are stereotyped as attractive because the ones who fuck around the most are the ones who are most visible. And obviously you're not going to be fucking around that much if you're not attractive.
>>1311273
you are awesome for explaining it like this
I think I am, I've had a fantasy about switching bodies with an older man and that man using my young lean body to seduce me in his older body
>>1311138
I don't think they're narcissistic in loving themselves, but I often find a really strong pattern of men liking men who they want to be or look like themselves.
>>1311138
>tfw an obvious troll thread gets this many legitimate responses
>>1311160
Nah.
Gay guys got the whole twin-fucking thing because we know what we like, we want to fuck what we like and we want to look like what we like, and also fuck it.
Mostly.
>>1311138
>Are all gay men just narcissists?
That is an outdated Freudian theory.
The term narcissism is derived from clinical description and was
chosen by Paul Näcke 1 in 1899 to denote the attitude of a person who
treats his own body in the same way in which the body of a sexual object is
ordinarily treated—who looks at it, that is to say, strokes it and fondles it till
he obtains complete satisfaction through these activities. Developed to this
degree, narcissism has the significance of a perversion that has absorbed
the whole of the subject's sexual life, and it will consequently exhibit the
characteristics which we expect to meet with in the study of all perversions.
Psycho-analytic observers were subsequently struck by the fact that
individual features of the narcissistic attitude are found in many people
who suffer from other disorders—for instance, as Sadger has pointed out,
in homosexuals—and finally it seemed probable that an allocation of the
libido such as deserved to be described as narcissism might be present far
more extensively, and that it might claim a place in the regular course of
human sexual development.
http://www.sakkyndig.com/psykologi/artvit/freud1925.pdf
>>1312447
How can you say so much yet not say anything?
>>1312439
Agreed. Wanting to personally exhibit the physical attributes of the types of guys you find hot is not weird or surprising for gay guys. Additionally, couples will frequently tend to share a similar lifestyle, and will in turn exhibit similar physical traits associated with those lifestyles. Of course, you also see your couples that are more "opposites attract" style, such as daddies and boys, chubs and chasers, etc.
>>1312642
I think they were being satirical
>>1312642
Welcome to the wonderful world of academia.
>>1312668
>psychoanalysis
>academia
Homosexuals utilize their feminine nature as a surrogate personality trait to make themselves seem interesting to others.
Femininity is a literal cancer. You wont ever find a feminine respectable human being that doesn't act like a self-obsessed fucking childish retard.
The misogyny is strong in this one huh
>>1313479
The social stigma of misogyny is a total spook. Women should be ridiculed for being such emotional self-obsessed babies. They only care about their families because their children are extensions of themselves and so on.
>>1313419
>being so socially ignorant you can't apply the scientific method to humans
>>1311138
Im one of them ugly gays that hates everything because the hand i was delt.
>>1313507
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4fzsDjRvMPc
Youth and beauty is so overrated
News flash honey, you are hated
So lets raise our glasses and make a toast
I hate alot of people but I hate you the most
(course)
I can't believe that I survived
I can't believe I'm still alive
I'm not just old I am old school
Gay is finally so uncool
I can't believe that I survived
I can't believe I'm still alive
When everyone's best friend's a queer, its got to mean the end is near
I hate youth and beauty
So go get a fohawk and shake your booty
Act like a robot, Act like a hetero
Its all been done, everythings retro
(course)
I can't believe that I survived
I can't believe I'm still alive
I'm not just old I am old school
Gay is finally so uncool
I can't believe that I survived
I can't believe I'm still alive
When everyone's best friend's a queer its got to mean the end is near
Lets get one thing perfectly straight
You're the kind of idiot that I hate
YOu whine and pout
And you like No Doubt
I'll give ya something to cry about
Youth and beauty is just plain boring
Drinking, and smoking,humping, and whoring
I've got a secret that I want you to keep
Youth and beauty just put me to sleep
(course)
I can't believe that I survived
I can't believe I'm still alive
I'm not just old I'm old school
Gay is finally so uncool
I can't believe that I survived
I can't believe I'm still alive
When everyone's best friend's a queer its got to mean the end is near
Starbusrts,Kit kat, good and plenty
Some crazy stuff under 20
Gitchy porn read, and kinda nerdy
Some smart stuff under 30
Onion shorts, eyes are sporty
Some light hot stuff under 40
But bald and fat's what I find nifty
So give me old stuff over 50
We hate youth and beauty(x7)
We're gonna kill ya
If you're young and beautiful
>>1313511
Hmm i agree, I do honestly like the normal looking gays i cant stand the sterotype or the feminine ones i just want a nice guy to settle down with.
>>1313520
never liked effeminate gays. they seem so...disgusting
>>1313511
Why are nice, thick dicks like that so rare?
>>1313527
Because there better than just long ones and it would destroy the world if there was to many.
>>1311138
Yes, I am a huge narcissistic fat faggot. Pic related, it's me.
>>1313967
True narcissists have their megapixels boosted to prove their flawlessness. They don't take selfies with a chalupa.
>>1313967
You look like a "bro" mixed with a wannabe gangster.
>>1313494
They don't even teach psychoanalysis in any respected school of psychology any more. You essentially have to go to the arts and humanities to learn about Freud, Jung, and psychoanalysis.
all gay men just want to fuck another version of themselves #trufax
>>1314227
um no. ew.
