Situation:
Me:
>Skinny
>bi
>blonde with a bit longer hair
>havent had sex for some time
>really want to suck some cock
>so far in the closet I can see narnia
Him:
>bi
>skinny but muscular
>top
>always jokes about his dick & gay stuff with close guy friends
>most of the time its just jokes, but sometimes I can feel he really means it, especially when he jokes with one hot friend
Wat do? Should I start to walk in underwear more? Or just ask him? Get him drunk first
Meanwhile, posting gif/webms
>pic related, it would look something like this
>>1253827
>Get him drunk first
Talk about how horny you are. If he says he's horny too, ask him if you can suck his dick. If he doesn't say anything just kneel down in front of him and start slowly rubbing his legs looking up at his face. If he doesn't resist, slowly work your way up to his cock and unbuckle his pants and pull his cock out and suck it.
maybe you want to buy a dildo and practice with it some time when you 'thought he was gone' and he accidentally walks in on you sticking it in your ass.
or just get him drunk and put on some porn and pull your dick out and start wanking and tell him to pull his out and start wanking with you and then offer to suck his dick. this has worked for me several times.
>>1253848
I hope I will be brave enough. I am scared of him refusing and then telling everyone. As I said, i am very far in the closet
>>1253848
I kinda would like for him to do the first step
>>1253853
>I am scared of him refusing and then telling everyone
how long have you known him? are you more like brothers or is there sexual tension? you said he was bi so would it be so bad if he knew you were bi? what would happen if he told everyone? would you lose your job or your place to live? if so, then don't try anything with him. if not, maybe it isn't such a big risk after all. would he physically try to hurt you? if so, then don't try anything.
if you wait for him to do the first step it may never happen. if you want something you have to go after it and get it. it sucks, but bottoms have to do most of the work most of the time.
>>1253861
>>1253827
Agree with this anon
Is it worth it??
If so do everything in your power to make it happen
Really want to suck my best friends cock.
Told him I was bi, nothing changed but he said if anything, maybe a handjob could happen.
Waiting for my moment which may never happen. We rarely see each other :(
>>1253848
This is going a little too far and too risky. Talk about being horny, also walk around the place naked every now and then (like back and forth to the shower) and if he says anything, act surprised like "I didn't think you would have a problem with it--haven't you ever seen another guy naked before?" It could also encourage HIM to be more free about nudity in the room/apartment and that is always a good sign.
beer + porn
>bi
stopped reading there.
>>1253873
and whatever you do, do not take this advice. it's literally the worst you could make a situation.
>>1253888
So what should i do?
>alcohol
Spend a week walking around in boxers, especially in the morning when you still have a bit of morning wood that's noticeable (or just fluff yourself a bit before you walk by him). See if you catch him staring. If he's resolutely NOT looking, then your in for a 50/50 shot. If you constantly catch him checking out your dick, then your chances are pretty good.
If he hasn't started "joking around" with you by this time, the way he does with his other friends, then bust out the alcohol. Pick a movie to watch with a ton of sex and nudity. Not porn, but something close, so that you know at some point he'll be getting horny.
At this point you'll have made sure he's noticed that you are comfortable enough around him to basically flop your cock in his face, you've both gotten drunk and a little loose, and hopefully the movie has you both turned on. If, at this point, he doesn't make any moves (slides closer to you on the couch, has his hand casually laid on his dick, and/or just starts talking about being hard or horny) then nothing is likely to happen.
BUT, as a 30+ guy here, I can say that you'd be surprised at how easy it is to get off with a friend when you are in your early 20's. I can't tell you the number of friends that I found, later on down the line, were completely willing to play around with me back in the day, but my ass was too shy/clueless to pick up on the queues. Good rule of thumb...if you think he's hinting at something, then he is.
Walk around in your underwear. Start off slow, to the shower and back, but increase as time goes one. Really good advice about being a little hard when you do it.
I used to work around pretty much fully hard around my roommate, he never said anything, but I saw him look... You can also to the thing of casually adjusting yourself in front of him... I used to do this to the point where I was almost playing with myself, but I had deniability because I was "only adjusting".
Being fully naked a few times wouldn't hurt either.
>>1253931
>>1254011
I wish I had someone to try this on
>>1253827
>Spend more time in your underwear
>"Accidentally" leave your door open and/or headphones unplugged while you're watching porn
>Find excuses to get physically close to him "Oops, sorry I bumped into you haha"
>When he makes jokes about his cock, make a joke about your own, or work a subtle compliment of his into the conversation.
>Check him out, and make it obvious enough that he notices you're doing it. If he calls you on it, give an innocent little smile and tell him that you have no idea what he's talking about.
>When you make eye contact with him, hold it for an extra few seconds
There's also the obvious thing that everyone in this thread that everyone is overlooking: COME OUT TO HIM. He (probably) won't tell any of your other friends if you ask him not to.
>>1253827
Sauce pls
Touch him more. Easy ways to do so is to brush a non existent thing off of him, or fix his hair, or whatever. Obviously don't do it fifty times a day, but do it enough to where he gets used to making contact. Eventually when you're both in a setting just get close and start touching each other. Ez pz
>>1254104
tim walker, staxus
<3 <3 <3
If he´s bi, then it´s no fuckin problem to come out to him. I´m pretty sure he would be more relaxed about sex stuff with you, if he knew that you like that stuff too.
>>1253827
>>Skinny
>>blonde with a bit longer hair
There's your problem
Bulking up almost never hurts, but get a damn hair cut at least
>>1254142
thx found him
>>1254320
Muscle definition is goood.
Leave a pair of undies on the floor. If he doesn't steal it away to sniff while fappin later then he doesn't want to fuck. If he just returns it or doesn't make a move then move on. Literally. You won't make a good roomie if you're crushing this hard.
why not just joke around about blowing him? especially when he is drunk. you could ask him how he gets people to blow him. ask him what moves work for him and etc it might work
