Howcome I can't keep a boner when putting a condom on guys? I still get crazy morning and daytime wood, fap often, get my dick sucked regularly and im always rock hard, foreplay is great, then the second I put the condom on (in fact, even reach for the packet) i go limp as fuck. I try to maintain whats left during sex but its never better than a semi. Went raw before and it was fine, but gf doesn't want to go on the pill so no more of that.
What do guys? I also tried measuring my dick a couple nights ago, only got it on my 6th try (for circumference). Literally lost my boner within moments of the tape touching my dick. Do I have a subconscious phobia of non-human shit touching my dick? I just want to fuck the shit out of my gf.
Also general sexual health thread or whatever, even though most of you guys aint gettin no poontang.
Her gums are too big
Sounds like a mental thing man. Try getting the girl to put it on for you.
>>37953582
You got ED, lay off dem drugs bruh. Or go easy in the creatine. Over 30% of men get it, sometimes before they hit 25.
KV here.
How the fuck do I learn kissing? When I make out for the first time the girl will notice I'm a horrible kisser, unless I'm magically talented with no experience. I imagine that will be a huge turnoff.
when I was 15 I practiced with my hand
its really simple, you'll find
just be soft and gentle
>>37953612
Be drunk. That's how I kissed my first time.
>>37953612
>How the fuck do I learn kissin
Don't worry bro it'll come pretty naturally. You might hit your teeth against hers at first but you'll get a hang of it quickly.
>>37953637
>You might hit your teeth against hers
That sounds lovely...
>>37953612
>>37953627
Pretty much this. Be drunk so you don't overthink it. It'll come naturally, you must gotta make out and enjoy it instead of worrying about whether you're fucking it up.
>>37953626
Did you just write a poem anon
>>37953612
watch videos on youtube and practice on your hand
>>37953582
Use a condom when you fap. You'll start to associate arousal and condoms after a while.
>>37953582
>I still get crazy morning wood
I don't anymore. WHY
>>37953729
Low test
>tfw cant stay hard when fucking random girls
>tfw not up for a relationship
Is there any way to unfuck my shit without working towards being in a relationship?
>>37953582
Same prob, especially when its a new girl since thats extra anxiety on top of it
Started taking viagra, no more problems, boners a lot more automatic. You don't need a lot of it, try half a pill or even a quarter a pill.
>>37953729
Overexposure to sexual stimuli. Porn has fucked you over
If your girl won't go on the pill for you she ain't worth it. Nothing kills a passionate moment like the fucking condom.
>>37953934
You know that the pill fucks over a girl, right?
>>37953938
How? My girlfriend been on it for 7 months and she's fine.
>>37953959
http://www.emedexpert.com/compare/birth-control-advantages.shtml
>>37953627
Second this, the societal teachings about kissing will mean that when you're drunk you'll know what to do. Plus, you're drunk so have an excuse for mistakes
>>37953938
Literally every girl I know been taking it for years.
>>37953897
I barely watch porn any more, and when I do it's pretty soft or tame stuff. I watched it all the time when I used to get morning wood before. I've done noporn and nofap for periods of time and it didn't make a difference.
I'm only 23 so it's not like my body should be shutting down already.
>>37953612
Training wheels. My first gf was a chunker, but after 3 years of gettin good off of that my current gf is 7/10
>>37953582
I'm sure someone in the thread said it already, but the general advice is to get everything set up and then whip it on as fast as possible
Like I'll even open it, and lay it right down next to me, fool around a bit to make get 110% hard and then roll it on in less than 2 seconds
I'm in sixth form, UK, 18 years old
>got off with a girl at a party
>she actaully said "you're a big guy" (for you)
>I'm literally skelly
>continue speaking too her, get qt gf
>go round her's when parents are out, receive the succ
>probably gonna fugg next time I've got s free house :~~DDD
t-t-thanks /f-fit/
Can anyone give me some pointers on having sex for the first time? She's a virgin as well
>>37953729
I heard that morning wood comes when you wake up during your REM cycle. Maybe you just need better quality sleep
>>37953959
A lot of girls lose sex drive because of it.
Would rather wear a condom in that case.
>>37953934
>make gf take the pill for sex
>gf no longer wants to fuck very often due to lower free test
sounds like fun m8ey
>>37954021
First time is gonna suck (for her mostly). But keep on fuggin and it'll get better.
>>37954021
Dont overthink it. even if its bad who cares, you made it and she'll be just as new. Also dont jack off for atleast 3 days prior and your dick will be diamonds
>>37953688
Hitlerdubs confirm. Fuck
ITT: people who've never heard of nofap andor cialis
>>37954021
last longer than 3 minutes and your golden brah
forreal, it's not that hard. If she's a virgin too she's gonna be just as freaked out about it as you are, so might as well walk into it like you're a fucking stud, not like she'll know the difference
Forreal tho, just remember foreplay, get her all aroused and j00cy before you ram your rod in and it'll make things feel 10x better.
oh btw if her clit is the size of your dick, it's a dude
>inb4 anon is pegged my roided out sheman
>>37954055
Yeah, I heard that it's not always the greatest for her but I assume she won't freak out the first time and not try again
>>37954056
Yeah, I don't really fap that much cos it's a waste of sexual potential, I'll abstain a few days, fap sans-porn on the day in the morning and go over
>>37953649
That doesnt happen unless you are an actual spastic retard
Anxiety. Try to be in the moment with her. Kiss her. Know that she wants to be there with you.
>>37953582
>can't keep a boner when putting condoms on guys
Maybe you aren't a faggot, OP, even though you're trying really hard to be.
>>37953582
theres already a sexual health thread
people like you are why mods delete the semi-off topic thread
>>37954036
Nah she's still horny as Fuck, at least Fuck 15 times a week. I'd have to go through a lot of condoms.
anyone stop giving a shit about all this stuff?
is it worth dealing with girls and their bullshit just for a bit of sex?
honestly I wonder if its worth it
>>37953612
Kissed for the first time at 18 with a qt, we full on made out, lip biting and all literally the first time, and it was pretty great, I had my eyes very slightly open though because it felt like if I closed them that's when I'd fuck up
What I'm trying to say is. If a dumb fuck liked me can go from no experience to hot as fuck make out sessions on the first time, so can you
>>37954021
Just put it in and go wild, you will either last 10 seconds or wont cum at all. She wont really enjoy it untill her 3rd or 4th time, it takes some time for girls to enjoy the feeling. The girl NEVER opens her legs properly the first time, so make sure she spreads them properly or you are in for a hard time.
>>37954137
I will get back to you when I have a sex
but for real though, flirting with a girl who you know is into you feels really good
>>37954137
It's not worth it, but unfortunately the ability to make gainz is significantly related to the biological imperative that is making fuck babies.
If I could have all the anabolic benefits of test and none of the horniness, shit would be so much easier
>>37954166
im just tired of it all
the chasing, the games, the drama
it isnt worth all the effort just to get laid, it feels like
>>37953589
Big gums are a sign of inflated gums which is an issue caused by not brushing your teeth as often as one should. Girls likely to have bad breath.
Source: Dentist Trainee
>>37954163
>The girl NEVER opens her legs properly the first time
Actually yeah this happened to me once, I was super confused because I assumed she wasn't a virgin
After some fumbling I pulled her legs apart and was like what are you doing?
>>37953582
>when putting a condom on guys
Just let him fuck you without one m8, get tested or something
>>37953582
You've already ruled out the physical problems because you are still capable of getting an erection. People will blame anything on this kind of problem, anxiety, porn, drugs, blah blah blah.
The real problem is simply that you aren't turned on enough. This is because your sex life sucks. You probably need to either be more open about your sexual desires and feelings with your partner or get a new partner altogether.
>>37953582
Do you stay hard while doing the coitus without a condom? May be a mental thing.
Have you tried a larger condom? If the condom is too tight it could reduce blood flow to the penis.
I would start doing kegels and the reverse kegels to strengthen your pelvic floor, these often help with erections.
Light jelqing will also improve erection quality.
Consider taking zinc, and, l-arginine or citruline malate.
>>37953897
>be 29
>still get morning wood
>masturbate regularly to vanilla porn
>tfw gf
>tfw having a gf or not does not impact my masturbation ritual
You might just have low test or you just might be a nu-male cuck
>>37954110
10/10 Bantz
>>37954089
pretty sure she ain't shemale but cheers for the warning
>>37954163
cheers for the tips, when I fingered her it took ages to get her panties off and open her legs
not sexual health because virgin but sex related:
How do I move the topic to sex? I'm usually good at conversations and can flow through different subjects but I just can't find a way to talk about sex with a girl that is (probably) interested without feeling like a total creep
>>37955035
You have to be a bit of a creep. You're trying to talk a woman into sex for the sole purpose of enjoying her body. It's a selfish act and you need to become okay with yourself to the point that you can enact a totally selfish action. This may be a challenge as you are probably white, probably male, and have probably been told your entire life in ways both liminal and subliminal that selfishness is never okay and that selflessness is the highest calling.
>>37955195
okay, but when am I far enough in that being that bit of a creep doesn't scare her off?
I obviously can't just tell her what I wanna do to her when I see her on the first date.
Say we're lightly flirting already, complimenting and stuff. How to go from there?
>>37955246
When you're talking to her make eye contact and think about fucking her. She will see it in your eyes.
>>37955035
she isn't. There is a reason you're virgin, most probably because you're not attractive to girls m8.
>>37954217
She has a high smile line you ape not gingivitis.
>>37955272
is this legit?
rapey stares seem like a good way to make girls very anxious
>>37954021
it's gonna be bad.
lick her really well to get in and get a couple of fingers in for good measure before you even think about get the dick in there.
be gentle.
>>37953612
Most girls aren't very good kissers themselves, just do it until both of you ease into it.
>>37953612
Was a KV a few weeks ago too. It's pretty natural actually. When it's time to kiss you will know and you'll instinctively do the right thing, follow what she's doing if you're not sure about what to do.
Virgin here.
When you're about to have sex, is it just that you'll automatically know like you know when to kiss her or how do I know when I should make a move?
Any reason why my dick fucking stings sometimes after ejaculating?
Virgin so lets rule out STDs (or not??)
>>37953582
>fap often
Try fapping less, or fap with a condom.
>>37957002
Try practicing good hygiene.
>>37956848
Great probability that you will be absolute shit at making a move or getting into the act. Just don't try to act all porno pro. You're going to be shit at it. Don't worry about it.
>>37957002
Is it the second or first time you fap? Make sure you always piss after sex/ejaculation. Gotta clean out them there pipes. You could also be gripping too hard and cutting off the flow, resulting in pain.
>>37956848
It just happens. I was 15 and my gf was as well, so shit was weird. I wouldnt call it awkward though. Both being virgins, it was more exciting than anything else. It was less "oh shit what am I supposed to do" and more "holy shit I cant believe im about to bang this qt" and just did what felt natural. We talked and shit to ease concerns about if anything hurt or was uncomfortable etc. Overall it was exciting as fuck. Ended up being with that girl til we went separate ways after highschool. We had all our firsts together, and man I have never had sex as exciting and passionate since her. I would love to meet her again after we finish school. I havent spoken to her in years. If she's still the same person, I'd love to marry her. My current gf wouldnt be too happy about that, but that's life.
>>37953688
you made my day xDD haha
I just found out my dick is 7 in/~17.7 cm and I'm still 19, what does it mean
KV here
>tfw cheated on gf of four years with the only other woman I have ever loved
god damnit matthew was right the flesh is truly weak I thought an extreme interest in western philosophy and academia would put me above this shit but when a half thai/half brazilian chick with a giant ass and pair of titties from deep space starts rubbing on you in a bubble bath all that shit goes out the window except for your own screaming heartbeat
>>37954021
just play around naked and lie together
finger her some and get a good look. play with the clitoris with your tongue.
don't use a condom the first time, but for the love of god try to pull out if you're going to cum. cum on her stomach.
Alright, this is going to need some background but I'll appreciate any advice
>two years ago
>virgin
>meet gf
>come too early on our first time
>we try again a week after that
>I can't get it up
>we don't try having sex
>can tell she wants to try again but I'm too embarrassed
>cut off all contact
>current year now
>call her up to apologize
>we end up seeing each other
>7 dates in now, can sense she wants to fugg
What the fuck do I do?
If I'm fapping I can edge for hours but I'm scared I'll either go limp or come too early like before. Should I take viagra? Can it be bought from pharmacies without a prescription? I'm thinking she's being this patient with me because I eat her out pretty well but I'm not sure how much more patient she can be if I keep at this.
halp
>>37953627
This, i was Kissles virgin untill i went to my buddy's 18th birthday, gut drunk and apparently i've been making out with some chick the entire night.
>>37957879
No, you are just weakminded bruh
>>37957986
not him but why not use a condom?
I'm attracted to chubby chicks (and occasionally the odd fatty if it's stored alright)
is there any way for me to get rid of this degeneracy?
>>37957986
>don't use a condom the first time
I was going to say how stupid this post is but then again anyone coming to /fit/ for sexual advice completely deserves their fate.
I'm a 25 year old kissless virgin and it makes me feel like shit.
Wish they'd ban people with ugly genes from breeding so I wouldn't be born.
Anyways I'm curious to know what kissing 'feels' like and how to be decent at it if I ever do get to that point.
>>37958011
You can't train yourself to be good at sex by masturbating because masturbating isn't sex, retard. The only way you can get good at sex is doing lots of it.
Viagra won't help with PE because it's not a PE drug, it's an ED drug.
In all honesty, if she's willing to fuck you 2 years after pulling what you pulled with her, she's a complete pushover with zero self-esteem and you shouldn't be worried about busting early at all.
I posted in the m4t section of craigslist with dick pics and body pics. some qt t girls replied, but also one dude did.
This dude wants to give me $250 , and in exchange, he wants to blow me and keep my underwear. IDK if I should do it though. I'm not gay and it's weird.
>>37958491
The fact that your parents were able to breed, despite being ugly, proves you can make it.
>>37958549
>I'm not gay
>IDK if I should do it though
If you're okay with being a male prostitute, go for it.
>>37958491
>I'm curious to know what kissing 'feels' like and how to be decent at it
Feels warm, wet and exciting. A bit ticklish or tingly on the tongue. Basically feels really good and you want to do it forever. For me, it's mostly the intimacy with the girl that makes it so exciting, not the actual act of kissing, if you get what I mean.
I was in a similar situation as you, although at 21. Was a total KV when I started hanging out with my to be GF and we were cuddling and she asked me why don't I kiss her. I had to swallow my pride and admit I've never done that before and didn't know what to do. She talked me through it and it was pretty good.
>>37958491
>>37958609
Girls gonna find it weird if you haven't kissed at 25-26 though.
I'd recommend lying as shitty as it sounds.
>>37958626
>Girls gonna find it weird if you haven't kissed at 25-26 though.
I think it's fucking weird if you haven't kissed anyone if you're over 18; I was just lucky to find a girl that was cool about it. Although I think we were both too into each other for anything to matter at that point. I don't think you can fake being experienced at something you have zero reference for. I mean, I watched a shitton of vids on how to kiss and was practicing on my hand as embarrassing as that is, but still didn't know what the fuck to do until she showed me. I mean, yeah, you could probably just go for it but I think it's going to be pretty obvious if you've never done it before.
>>37958660
Hey I agree just trying to give the guy some advice.
Probably easier to just fake being drunk :^)
I don't get how you get to 25 without kissing though, fucking sure alright, but kissing?
>>37953582
>Howcome I can't keep a boner when putting a condom on guys?
>Howcome I can't keep a boner when putting a condom on, guys?
Big difference
>>37953582
Not trolling, maybe your condoms are to thight
>>37953582
youre a faggot and i bet your gf is 6/10 at best
>>37953612
Take it slow. Be calm. Girls enjoy it when you touch/hold their face while being kissed. Do not over use your tongue, and dont just try to shove it in as deep as possible (Just use the tip of your tongue, and if she likes it and goes along u are good to use more of it.)
Kissing is like the easiest thing ever, and bitches love good kisser.
Most important, be calm, stay cool. Dont act like its a big deal, because its not.
I only had sex 2 times and having trouble with the missionary position. Basically I feel like I can't get my dick fully inside my gf because of the angle. Plus I sweat like a mofo after 2 minutes even though I run a few miles every second day. Am I doing something wrong?
Also, has anyone tips on eating pussy?
>>37958813
>Basically I feel like I can't get my dick fully inside my gf because of the angle.
She needs to help you out a bit for you to be able to get in properly. Tell her to round her lower back, not arch it. That should help.
>>37958684
>I don't get how you get to 25 without kissing though
f-fuck you BAKA
>>37958979
>>37958684
I'm 24 KV. I don't think I'm unattractive (?), just emotionally immature growing up. I wasn't even interested in girls until 16. Then the general awkwardness / unhappiness became crippling major depression between 20-23. Overall I wasn't emotionally ready to have any kind of relationship until recently.
I don't think it's that weird, is it? Now I've pulled my head outta my ass (thx /fit/), after a year I'm not insecure about my body anymore (still dyel but w/e), going back to uni (actually top of my class math major, transferring to top10 uni in September), and I have actual goals I can talk about.
The way I see it, the KV status is basically nothing compared to getting my life back on track, and it's going to get itself fixed *very* fast.
Hate the condom. Never use jewcon. Remember kids, your enemys dont want you to know the pleasure of sex and raising a family.
>>37959237
top lel
>>37958684
Some guys are so ugly which in this day and age is a big issue because they'll never learn to man up, and girls are pickier than ever.
I think 'ugly' men will die out though, girls are so selective nowadays.
>>37955246
>>37955272
>>37955195
>>37955035
Don't listen to this retard
I mean yeah it's ok to be straightforward with some girls about sex, and in reality most girls won't actually think you're a creep if you say anything sex related when you're already flirting and such but for fuck's sake the number one thing you need to learn first is how to establish good comfort levels with a girl
Ideally when you're with a girl you don't have to go out of your way to say "I wanna fuck you". Things should naturally go so that you'll transition from making out, to the two of you groping each other, to fingering her and her rubbing your dick and then from then onto fucking. It's not complicated, the main idea behind having sex with a girl is that you both want to do it
>>37955195 This guy is retarded. You don't need to talk a woman into sex, coming from that perspective makes you into a needy little bitch. It's more from the "I'm a man, you're a woman, we're both attracted to each other so why not fuck". But again, if you're not a fucking sperg you don't really have to say any of that. You just physically escalate.
>>37953582
Watch this OP
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wSF82AwSDiU
Honestly speaking, at what age in America nowadays is it weird to be a kissless and virgin.
>>37953582
try a female condom
lube the inside, too
or thinner condoms. polypropylene or lambskin.
>>37959416
Varies alot bro, dont worry about it honestly your not missing much, anywhere between 15-25 is acceptable to be a virgin but the closer you get to 25 the less acceptable it becomes, honestly dont panic about telling girls your a virgin some chicks really dig that, not all but some
>>37953582
Stop joking it for a few days and then try. If the problem persists use tribulus to increase libido to maintain election while using a condom. Once you start associating condoms with sex you won't need a libido booster, atleast if you believe the whole Pavlov dog thing.
>>37959484
>Stop joking it for a few days
I'm 25 and finally got tired of being foreveralone.
Made a tinder, suddenly all sorts of matches.
Go out with a girl a few times. Go back to her place.
Go down on her, finger her
>blood
I fingered her too hard apparently, she pulled out her birth control pills to show me she wasn't supposed to have her period anytime soon.
So no sex.
She blew me, wasn't as good as I thought it would be.
Honestly underwhelmed by the whole thing. Went from handholdless to getting blown in the span of about a week.
Now I hate my life because I couldn't find a hotter girlfriend and I don't really feel any connection to this girl.
Also told her I'd never had sex before, she wants to bone on Wednesday. Now I'm not getting any texts back.
So you're dammed if you do and dammed if you don't. You can just pretend you know what you're doing and fuck up. Or you tell her you don't know what you're doing and she doesn't give you access.
Get your gf to get an IUD
Best thing ever. Either that or drop that slut
>>37959661
You sound like such a pathetic piece of shit lol
Seriously who the fuck goes down on some skank they met on tinder on the fucking first date? You know how many other dicks have been in that hole in the last week? You literally cleaned out a cumdumpster with your tongue.
Fucking idiot. Stop texting her if she's not replying, and stop blaming women for your lack of game. If she's not responding it's because she's either busy (in which case shut the fuck up and wait for her to respond) or you're a beta clingy cuck (which seems more likely)
>>37959698
>>37959842
Good meme. How did sucking the cum out of some random skanks jizzhole taste
>>37959856
Just like kissing your mom
26 years old and I've finally started having sex on a regular basis after losing my virginity three weeks ago. Guys I'm bad at it. The girl wasn't a virgin but she seems really inexperienced and is passive. What do
>>37960021
Get a new girl that is not passive so you can learn to fuck good and be happy.
>>37959698
He obliviously doesn't care. Why display such vehement disgust?
>24 years old kissless permavirgin
>starting masturbating only a few months ago
>masturbate only on weekends, so on saturday I blow a big load and usually I'll fap 3-4 times during the weekend
>have to use lotion to masturbate (i'm cut)
>have to rub the tip of my dick to cum, cannot cum just from rubbing shaft up and down, and have to have a lot of lotion in my hand to finally cum for there to be enough slickness
I'm not sure if these are normal things for guys (not my masturbation age, obviously that is impossibly late) or if it indicates some kind of masturbation problem for me, or what it might indicate about posssible future sex with hookers since I will never have a gf
>>37960164
>starting masturbating only a few months ago
How is this possible? That can't be healthy
>>37960164
How have you gone through life without stroking it even once during seclusion?
>>37960264
>>37960273
I just never cared about it, I dunno. I would have wet dreams but never masturbated. I think it's because I never used lotion.
I more asking about my masturbation technique if it's normal. not the age I startted
>>37960164
aaand that's enough /fit/ for me today
>>37960328
reddit-tier comment
>>37960395
>reddit-tier comment
reddit-tier comment
>>37958763
This.
Also, kissing involves playing off each other. You kinda work with what she gives you
>>37960307
>I more asking about my masturbation technique if it's normal
Sounds about right for a mutilated jewdick.
>>37953582
I'm 29 and never have I been able to use a condom because they don't fit me at all. I have even tried to use what is refered as "king size" or "XXL size" or similar but they all are too small for me. I can force on the bigger ones on but it hurts so much I have to teke it off after a moment and my dick feels strangled and I can see that it's a little blue from the lack of blood flow.
Well my wife seems to like what I have but even she has trouble getting it fit in her because it's thicker than her arm, so we have to be very carefull that I don't hurt her too much.
I have so much bad memories having sex with random girls when they can't even handle it, so we end up only doing oral and stuff. This is one of the reasons that I can eat pussy like a champ now but blowjobs don't turn me on at all anymore because I have had few too many. This whole thing used to make me very depressed before I met my wife, now I'm learning to live with it but I still wish I had a smaller one.
>>37954068
Nofap is pseudo science. No porn is where it's at.
>>37954070
Meant to link>>37954070
not>>37954068
![621[1].jpg](https://i.imgur.com/8DeWPFd.jpg "621[1].jpg")
How do you flirt with women, verbally and physically?
I can have casual conversation but I do not know how to take it to the next level.
>>37953589
it's a sign that she has a big dick
Regular condoms are too right and kill my erection. That's why I wear magnums and it's perfect.
>>37954384
I second taking l-Arginine. I found I haven't gotten morning wood in a long time due to being on SSRIs, but when I started taking it, I was getting morning wood and thicc erections as well.
>>37960964
Search on YT the channel of Todd Valentine
>>37961014
>online PUA dating coach types
>>37953582
It's mental. Also on a biological aspect, we don't like them because they prevent reproduction. Nature is funny that way.
For me, you need to actually enjoy the experience, like feel good about rollling it over your dick, like it's a pleasurable piece of rubber and this feels good. Then enjoy thrusting your rubber covered dick into her. Like it's a fetish or something, part of the fun.
Just find something sexual about it and run with it.
Ultimately though, they decrease the fun of the sex. So if the sex is already meh, then a condom will make it not good.
>>37953729
Not enough cardio.
Good cardio and good boners go hand in hand. All you non-cardio guys need a wakeup call.
>>37953612
it's pretty instinctual. I was a KV til I was 20, when it happened the first time I knew what to do. Don't overthink it man
>>37953582
i'll just leave this here
https://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/
I've never gotten morning wood consistently. Anyone else here like this? It's not had for me to get erections either
>>37954021
the hole is lower than you think
>>37961075
Fucking kill yourself.
>>37958183
>>37958476
you should taste the real thing the first time, even if it'll be shorter
>>37953582
i had this problem when i was a teenager
just put a rubber on while you're alone and then beat off into it
that solved it for me. dont know why it happened though
Most of the time I have morning wood because I have to urinate.
>>37954036
The lies, my chick's been on it for 3 years and her sex drive hasn't changed at any point.
>>37959856
>implying every woman you've had sex with, you were her first.
>>37953582
>gf doesn't want to go on the pill so no more of that.
You poor bastard, I'd honestly break up with my gf if she didn't let me creampie her, not even exaggerating
>>37961203
For some chicks it completely kills their sex drive.
>>37961426
good thing girls only have to sit there and take it, hm?
>>37961434
>t. virgin
>>37961479
no idiot
I mean its not like a physical problem, a guy with no sex drive cant get hard = no sex
a girl still has a functional vag regardless
>>37961230
I didn't imply that you stupid virgin. I don't care if I'm a girls first. What I do care about is knowing them long enough to know if I want to put my mouth on their cunt. She could have been creampied that fucking day for all he knew
>>37957466
Is she filipina?
>>37961230
> have sex with girl
> later, chatting around ask her how many guys she has done it with
> 'only 2 haha, how about you anon?'
> 'only one'
After that, she starts crying because she wasn't my first. Wtf is this shit?
>>37953582
Just use it as an excuse to fuck her in the pooper
>>37961513
Girls are fucking retarded. Also never ask how many people a chick has fucked. Weird as fuck bro.
>>37961513
a girl is like a golf course
many men have been in their holes, but all you should worry about is your round.
>>37961542
She first asked me how many girls had seen my dick , so I thought it was the logical continuation of the conversation. What should I have said afterwards?
>>37953729
Poor blood pressure, low zinc intake
>>37958813
Absolutely no teeth, circular patterns with your tongue (either on the clit or off is up to her) and if she starts guiding your head, let that be an indicator to up the intensity wherever she leads your mouth.
>>37960164
How in the fuck have you not touched your wang in that time span? Are you a monk???
>>37960964
Eye contact and friendly banter are good. Banter in that you're not trying hard to get in her pants, but not so nonchalant that she thinks you're treating her like another dude. Also, if at any point a positive descriptor is used in casual convo (e.g., "that's great/cute/adorable/") say "you're great/cute/adorable." Cheesy as fuck but it at least shows you're interested and better than spilling your linguine.
>>37961513
>ask her how many guys she has done it with
>only 2, how about you anon?
>only one
Thank you syntax.
>>37958446
Yes. An Hero
>>37961601
>how to eat pussy
>nothing about massagingg the g spot
fucking retard incels
I'm in the same boat OP, I worked out that I'm just not turned on by the situation. Anxiety is part of it, but for some reason I can't just relax and lose myself in the moment, I'm concentrating too hard on micromanaging all my movements. Not sure how to solve this problem.
>>37961574
Normally when you're with a woman and she starts asking about other women you've been with she's either A) crazy, B) insecure or C) both.
I would have led the conversation away from the topic of each other's sexual conquests with a joke or something. Or just say why do you care. Being an asshole is good sometimes
>>37961490
>a girl still has a functional vag regardless
So you're saying you condone rape?
>>37961693
Not only do I condone rape I actively encourage and participate in it.
>>37961693
...please try to follow
a girl having a low sex drive doesnt mean she cant have sex
a guy wont be able to get an erection
>she wont be wet
lube exists
honestly, what IS female sex drive? being horny? you dont need to be horny to have sex. its like female viagra, I wonder why that didnt take off.
>>37961713
I'll reiterate then
>t. virgin
>>37958697
Underrated
>28, meet a nice girl after a very long dry spell, so definitely some performance anxiety in play
>Play for what seems like forever
>Break to go get condoms
>Can't get hard again
>Try again the next morning
>Can't stay hard
>Come home with horrible blue balls since I never came
>Eventually come manually in the shower after 15 mins of stroking a semi chub
Until a couple weeks ago I was jerking every day to internet porn
Since then I've moved and have changed my diet pretty drastically
Is this a mental thing or should I see a doctor
>>37961715
cool ad hominem
but you havent disproven what ive said, a girl that has a "low sex drive" is still able to fuck.
a guy has a FUNCTIONAL PROBLEM (his dick wont work)
see the difference?
>>37961760
>Until a couple weeks ago I was jerking every day to internet porn
Wow, I wonder what the issue might've been.
>>37961787
Not >>37961715
Yeah, but lube for a girl is the equivalent to a strap on for a guy, it prevents a functional issue that prevents good sex (you could still put your flaccid or semi erect dick inside a girl, it just wouldn't be enjoyable.) in both cases there's a functional issue and in both cases you wouldn't get off, even if you could 'fuck'.
>>37961817
what prevents a vagina from accepting a dick into it
I mean really, how do you even define "female sex drive"
>>37961828
The muscles being tense
what prevents you from putting your flaccid dick into a girl?
>I mean really, how do you even define "female sex drive"
How easy it is for a woman to be turned on by men, and how easy it is for them to then orgasm during sex. As well as their desire to have sex in spite of being turned on or not.
>>37961788
Yeah I hope that's all it is
>>37961010
is there a recommended l-arginine sup to buy or are any of them gtg?
>>37953934
>>37953938
>>37953959
>>37953961
femanon here
i know its gross but sometimes when i bleed from my bagina i get the worst fucking uncomfortable sick feeling, which is normal i guess. the thing is it fucks up my whole life in the process. i can't stand up, let alone go to university or work or the gym. it'll come in waves and it doesn't go away unless i OD on pain killers, which i have to sometimes or i fail classes or let people i work with down.
anyway my doctor tells me going on the pill will help but i'm scared of the side effects
what do
<3
>>37962093
I'm so, so, sorry in advance for what is about to happen. Trolls are going to come into the thread and they will be saying some very hurtful things about you. They will call you some very hurtful names. But none of those things are true. How could they possibly know? How could they possibly know how beautiful you really are? How sweet and compassionate you are? I'm so sorry about them, please do not let them hurt you.
>mfw thinking about you hurting
I just want to see you shine and flourish. You are so precious to me. I want to write poetry and sing songs about my love and adoration for you and all of your perfections. My name is Brian, by the way. I know that you're tired of all the assholes and jerks. I know how you feel baby doll. I know. I am different. I am the nicest guy you will ever meet, and if anything I'll be the one in the kitchen. I live in London. Please be in London.
>>37961910
the perfect woman
>>37953959
It killed my sex drive and made sex and kissing repulsive to me until I stopped taking it. That won't happen to everyone though.
could be latex allergy, try finding one without
>>37961069
I've only recently started doing cardio since neglecting it for a long time, so I hope it will help. I forget how active you are in your teens when you have gym class twice a week and you bike around with friends, compared to just sitting on your computer and driving to places instead.
>>37961601
>Poor blood pressure, low zinc intake
Blood pressure is normal, measured like a week ago. I've been supplementing 30mg elemental zinc daily for a good while now.
>>37962093
How old are you?
It may take awhile switching across brands but most girls are able to eventually find one with minimal side effects.
>>37962258
Did you try multiple brands before settling on one?
>>37961787
Just because she's able to fuck doesn't mean she wants to. That's what a low sex drive is. Her drive to have sex is low
