if I ask girls out am I going to get better quality women/success rate than on online dating?
>>37948724
Success yes, the modern woman is swamped with betas writing her poetry on Tinder so she feels in control and can pick and choose as she likes. Do it old school and don't be a pussy
>>37948771
I'm convinced. I just moved to this city and don't know anyone but coworkers. Where the fuck do I go alone? The only person inviting me to stuff is my protestant korean neighbor who goes to church meetings.
>>37948798
Start going to sporting events, start doing rock climbing or swimming. It's a higher chance to find a fit grill and it give you a excuse for why you work out so much.
But if nothing else, you get a talking point for what your hobbies are and why you're fit.
>Or be a Alpha like Zyzz and get totally ripped and go to bars with a v to your dick.
>>37948798
Go out to a bar alone, or club
>>37949107
This. Go to social gatherings, meet new people
>>37948724
Can't stop staring at this photo HNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNGG
>>37948724
Big time yes. In person meets and number grabs are muuuuuuch better.
meetup.com
find things you've never done before or things you're interested in that can be done with other people. hiking shit, wine tastings, board games, DnD, whittling, bad movie watching groups.
I don't know what you like but the bar isn't the only place to people people.
>>37948724
Totally better in real life. You gotta find reasons to leave your house. Go do your laundry at a laundromat for example. Do stuff out and about, walk to places etc... meet girls, get comfortable flirting, get numbers, set up dates and profit
>>37948724
Brehs someone's GOTTA tell me who this fluid druid is
>>37948724
Who's the solid seductress in the pic?
>>37949167
Average/ugly girls with amazing asses hnnnnngg
>>37949272
>>37949260
Are you retarded? Google image search takes like half a second and knows her by name.
>>37949128
>Go out to a bar alone, or club
This is literally the worst thing an autist can do
who is the fine looking female
>>37949307
Why?
>>37948724
Depends. If you can set up an attractive Tinder profile you can choose the girls you are actually interested in. I like screening who I hang out with like that because I like to keep dating the same girl for a while.
>>37949297
Is this bait?
>It's like the Apollo's belt joke.
>>37948724
That arm to leg size ratio
>>37949323
cause it's a horrible time and you should get a hobby
>>37949323
Because a lone autist will stick out since they have no friends with them and have no idea how to act?
Read this/ look up the podcast "the mating grounds"
>>37949459
Why is it a horrible time? Ive gone, danced a bit and gone home whenever I wanted, getting out and being around people isnt bad, I believe you should be able to enjoy yourself alone.
>>37949488
And? How do you act? Stand/lean? Look around people stand all the time, too tired, too drunk, too scared to dance or socialize outside their group. Check out the ratio of people dancing in a club, dancers are the minority, most watch. The more you go the more you will realize they are hotbeds of insecurity.
Try it three times, by yourslef, dance, have a few drinks and talk to people or at least 1 girl.
>>37949430
I know it's horrible. She couldn't even OHP you but could crush your head between her legs
I just wanted to go somewhere I can interact ith people routinely that is not work
>>37949526
I haven't read it yet, but I've listened to most of the podcast episodes. Actually a lot of helpful stuff as far as controlling your autism and what the fuck to actually do re: grills.
It's way better than his shitty blog about fucking skanks. I'll check out the book I reckon.
>>37948724
Oh my god
>>37949541
>I'm not gay enough to prefer skinny thighs over thick delicious ones.
>>37948724
B R E H
gonna hold hands with friend ive had for a good 5 years. Gonna see where it goes
Wish me luck
>online dating
>1000x more beta ugly fucktards spamming her with attention, giving her a ridiculously inflated feeling of self worth
>gotta edit the shit out of your pics and profiles
>even then she probably filtered herself so bad if you met her she's like 30lbs heavier than you think and way uglier
>real life
>far, far less people meaning her bitch levels are much lower
>she sees the real thing, you see the real thing(well, outside of make up)
online dating is absolutely fucking horrible compared to just doing shit in the real world.
>>37948724
The only thin remotely better about online is that you get a larger pool of options in same area. In person is infinitely better for EVERYTHING
Never thought I would see the day when /fit would post a picture of an instagram thot from my old highschool
>on medication that I can't drink with for 3 months
>go to club sober
>thinking about how crowded it is and I'll sure be dead if a Terrorist shoot the club up
>friends are buying drinks and in a blissful ignorance talking to girls
>I'm anxiously looking around the room and chain smoking smoking ciggarettes, I can't hear anything when girls talk to me
>go outside and on the way out the door a qt girl grabs my shirt and tries to pull me in
>keep walking because I don't know her enough to react
>sit outside and smoke a cig, cute girls walk towards me and sit next to me
>pull open WhatsApp to make it look like I'm talking to someone so i don't look like an autist that can't be inside a loud club sober
>stand up, walk away and zip off on my motorcycle
They might think I'm some mysterious James Deen but I'm an anxious wreck. It's getting better than it was the first night I went out sober, just gotta keep the anxiety in check
>>37948798
Go to the church idiot.
>go to a club
> try and talk to a girl
>she laughs
>dance
>girl kinda dancing at me
>edge to her to dance closer
>4 guys all surround her and take her away
nah, going to a club alone is just awful
>>37948798
get a hot Korean church slut m80
>>37951378
What's her name?
>>37951378
lucky man
>>37951445
>>37951473
>fucking girls in a protestant church event
lad
>>37951456
Rekt lol
>>37951491
When I lived in Korea pretty much every slutty girl I met was a church going christian. I don't think they really understand the bible, it's just a fashionable way for Korean elders to try and maintain a patriachal society (which Korean genuinely is, unlike the west)
Jesus Christ you people are fucking fags. Going out to bars/clubs alone isn't that bad. Yes some people will think its weird but if you're not a weirdo about it everything works out. Especially if you're hitting it off with a woman, then suddenly nobody gives a shit you're by yourself
Some of you need to get over yourselves and suck up your pride if you really do want women for real
>>37948798
Badminton.
Depending how big your city is there'll be badminton qts in at least one badminton club. Try to avoid the super good clubs though, they're usually full of assholes. Find the one which has sociable members who go for a beer after a club night. That'll be the club with the best qts
>>37951537
Oh god, are you that guy offering a light to women in the smoking area that doesn't smoke himself?
And you maybe get a sloppy make out with a woman who is so drunk taking her home would be rape.
And then you get drunk because there's nothing else to do?
If you are that guy can you please fucking stop trying to bum a cab ride of me and my mates. We don't want to be your friend, if you want a wingman get your own social circle.
People like you makes nights out shit.
>>37951491
I fucked few church girls in my life, it requires a bit of patience but after they have sex it was always wild. Rimming, choking with my dick, choking, spanking, fisting, lots of playing with their asses. It's hard to get back from there, but you got to love what inhibiting urges does to them.
>>37948771
>she feels in control
Is "DO YOU FEEL IN CHARGE" a good pick up line lads
>>37951631
nice
>>37948724
Personally I prefer the test rush I get out of picking girls irl which I never get online.
>>37951578
What do I do when I take drunk girl to my house or her apartment?
>>37951772
Doink her
>>37951782
I am not from USA, will she than sue me for rape? Is it possible?
Any good input on what to do alone in a new city ? Usually go swimming or gym and make some small talk, but where to pick up chicks ? I am not autist, but even with friends we usually dont go to parties but prefer sports or cinema or etc., so going to one alone will suck bad
>>37948724
I'm sure you'll get much much more success than online, women online have high standards even the ugly ones will be selective.
Approach women IRL, especially if you're a minority don't go online dating.
>>37949526
IDK, listening to one and sounds like a waste of time, what do they have special that hasn't been said already?
>>37951551
Badminton is literally the gayest sport in existence. You won't find qts there
>>37948724
Success rate no.
If you start asking lots of women out most of them will tell u no because
> they might have someone else
> they might not be interested in something right now
>tthey might not like someone who is completely unknown to them to ask them out
> they might not like you
But ur actions will show confidence and u will so be able to to attract a few females who are/were up for it.
It doesnt usually work that way. If u ask a lot u usually get rejected a lot.
>>37948724
That depends on you. You need to be a quality man to get a quality woman.
Reminder that (sadly) the best and most proven way to meet qts is through friends.
Expand your social circle
>>37951874
Also, don't be that guy that hits on EVERY chick at a bar/club. You might be an autist sitting in a corner for most of the night but as soon as you start hitting on one, you can guarantee that most of the chicks around have taken notice.
>>37951921
After 1 rejection , you will be worthless in the same bar/club.
Chicks will think : If that girl didnt want him , why would I do? Even if you are hot af and the reason first one rejected u is because she is a lesbian
>>37951896
Some friends stopped presenting women to me to not pick them
I have a untold rule with other friends to not hunt on each other's hunting grounds
And I got few friends
>>37952115
Yup, so choose wisely
![tumblr_nyn1t5e18h1r5wu3no2_540[1].jpg](https://i.imgur.com/sgX14LO.jpg "tumblr_nyn1t5e18h1r5wu3no2_540[1].jpg")
>>37948724
HHHNNNGGGMMMMM
>>37952130
>Some friends stopped presenting women to me to not pick them
I guess they aren't your friends after all.
>>37948724
id dunk in her donut if u know what im sayin
>>37951807
Don't listen to these morons bars are the perfect place to pick up girls it's where most single people go, try to find some college bars in your area.
>>37952115
>>37951921
You can hit on multiple chicks in the same club tho, depends on how you do it and how social you are.
>>37948724
yea but you need to still should look presentable and be somewhat charismatic and/or handsome
"hey um-mmm y-you want to go out sometime?"
"um I have a boyfriend"
>>37952377
>but you need to still should look
sorry for bad english
>>37951795
Get her to sign a contract and then video the event with multiple cameras.
BRB lads, just gonna return some video tapes.
You definitely will OP, but just bear in mind it might be harder depending on your social opportunities, i.e whether you go to uni and have qts in your class, if your friends have female friends, etc.
>go to bars alone
i've done this a couple of times. every girl is with their friends, including guy friends.
if they're sitting at the bar, at a table or standing around, why would they want a stranger to come up and talk to them?
>three girls standing together, chatting and laughing
i don't see anything that i can say that will make the interaction go well
what do you actually say to these girls?
"hi, how's your night?" is all i can think of. i'm autistic as fuck
>swimming
how do you talk to people swimming. it's a couple of lanes and you swim back and forth as exercise. do you talk to people next to you on the treadmill at the gym?
>>37949526
I've read that book
he literally says multiple times in it that if you have no friends, or you have asperger's, then none of his advice will work for you
what am i supposed to do, when i have no friends and i'm socially awkward as fuck
how do i get a gf?
>>37953319
Don't go to bars alone. You are right on with what you said. Even if you started talking to those three girls and it was going well, it would get weird when they realize you are there by yourself. Your only hope would be to run into another girl that is there by herself, but what kind of hot girl is going to go to a bar alone?
Honestly your best bet is to meet someone at work, or try to get a group of guy friends first and hopefully start hanging out with the girls they are friends with by extension. At least you could go to bars with them and girls would see it as more normal.
Do both ffs
I honestly spent 2 months on okcupid having a profile in a different state and practice on hundreds of girls into I got it right and moved on to tinder.
>>37948798
There's more to life than getting the girl.
You'll want to do something with yourself while getting the girl.
So, do something. Anything social that you enjoy. Can be climbing, like that anon said, can be fucking tabletop games. Doesn't matter. But (for ease of use) it has to be inherently social.
>>37953359
>meet someone at work
do you mean a girl or friends?
>tfw coworkers don't seem to like me that much
>see other coworkers exchanging phone numbers, talking about things they saw on snapchat together, etc.
>>37951537
Exactly this.
I prefer going out alone to going out with friends and there has never been a problem meeting people.
>>37953860
Can you provide any advice to this post >>37953319
What do you even say? Do you ever talk to guys, or solely try to approach girls?
>>37949167
I know right, those donuts look delicious
>>37953903
going to bars alone seems pointless unless you look good enough that girls are interested anyways
no girl wants to be approached by an average guy
>>37951185
Listen Chris, I told you before I'm not interested.
Sincerely, Dave.
>>37953319
>how do i get a gf?
you literally cant
>>37951491
Depends anon.
If you go in Easter Europe to protestant churches you won't be able to fuck them until you marry them. 95% of them are like this but women are women/
t. anon that lives in eastern europe
Just go to church OP, it's only Sunday. Other than that find hobbies you like, we don't know what you like to tell you what to do. Swimming is a good start, also go find sports clubs, go to marathons, cycling, whatever you like. I wouldn't go to clubs or bars though.
>>37953319
jus b urself
>>37951631
I've actually found this to be true as well.
>>37951473
>>37951445
>>37951631
>>37955309
When I go to church, how long do I have to stay so they don't think I see it as a dating service? How do I persuade a girl into premarital sex if she's actually trying to be pure?
>>37951819
First few episodes are a bit on the slow side though that doesn't necessarily man their not worth listening to add a foundation. The more "actionable"material is in later episodes
>Learn to dance
>Dance
>Get pussy
Alfa? Beta? who cares?
>>37955405
No one assumes that ever. Also most younger girls dont believe in that shit anymore
>>37955569
>go to club
>alone
>dance
>no girl approaches you because social norms and you're alone so there's obviously something wrong with you
>stop dancing because masses of people and loud pop music is literally the worst thing in the world
>leave in a shit mood
good idea
>>37955585
anything you have to think about when talking to church girls or are they just as easy as normal ones?
>>37955626
Honestly it depends what age group you are in, if you are in the 18-20 itd be exactly the same. If its older then that you need to be slower about it, unless they are the daughter of a ranking member of the church and in that case there is a 75% chances she's a psycho slut
>>37953319
You get a gf by not trying.
Just make friends with everyone you meet, and ask the qts you get along with out on dates, a gf will come along eventually.
Don't go in looking for one and you'll be ten times more attractive.
>>37955405
well, you have to date them, usually it takes one to three months
it's not fast food, but it tastes heavenly
>>37951537
as long as you not completely ugly and poor
>>37955670
>>37955756
But what do in church? There's usually discussions in the one my parents dragged me to, no idea if that's normal. I'm leaning on the atheistic side and am afraid they'll get offended when I get too critical when we're discussing things in the bible. However it'll be weird if I don't say anything during discussions and only talk to people afterwards.
>>37955837
We want atheists to come to church.
Ask your questions, express your opinions and problems and let everyone come out better informed.
YMMV if you're in the south.
>>37955612
>girl approaches
Good one
even betasv have to approach girl first. girls get off on being noticed and being appraoched. if she thinks your cute, your in, grab er and dance. if not, move on to the next one that catches your eye.
>be 20 year old virgin
>tfw go to club alone, start dancing with 9/10
>has bf
>her 7/10 friend steps in, starts grinding
>ok then
>get 7/10's number
>date and sex for a year
>holy shit this being confident thing works
>>37955545
I listened to the http://thematinggrounds.com/the-mating-grounds-podcast-episode-8-what-is-dating-like-for-women-and-why-does-it-matter-to-you/
And it just stating the obvious.
>>37955837
If you ask genuine questions and aren't trying to be an ass you'll be fine. Also you dont really need to be part of the discussion especially if its your first time or youre not their often.
>going to church just for girls
imagine what it'd be like to be a girl and not having to do all this shit just to date
>>37955928
No offense dude but 9/10 girls dont go to regular people clubs. You were fucking a 5
>>37951578
hater's gonna hate. you're the kind of guy that would say Jesus walked on water because he was too dumb to swim
it takes brass balls to go out alone, feel comfortable, and pick up from such a disadvantaged position. you just could never do it, and can't admit that other guys are more courageous
>>37955864
thanks bro. But legit question, why do you believe in god? I did too until I had evolution in school. It just baffled me that you had to BELIEVE in god while all other theories could back up their claims with evidence. I would love to know there's some big bro up there who loves and cares for you but reading anything about him feels like cold reading to me, too vague to be taken literally, too abstract to feel real.
>>37955837
Is it atheistic to believe that you yourself are a god? I mean the only way for god to be watching everyone and there not to be one "God" is if each of us is a god watching ourselves
>>37955678
>make friends with everyone you meet
how?
>>37956079
Get confident and assume everyone is a nice person.
At least get into that mindset when you're meeting new people, I'm notorious for being pessimistic and hating everything with close friends but I have to switch when trying to meet new people.
See everyone as if they're your friend already, be open to them and open them up with what ever is connecting you two (the class you're taking or what ever). Seem interested and ask more related things. If they say anything you have a relation to too say it, else it will seem like an interview.
>>37949389
You've never heard of a reverse image search? You can literally drag an image to Google and it'll find the sauce. Now you know breh
>>37955979
They do when they are 19 and dont have a sugar daddy yet...
Bars are a legit thing, I've seen women on multiple occasions just standing there waiting to be hit on.
>>37956394
fucking sluts man. Wish I was a girl, just be passive and wait for some attractive guy to do all the moves to fuck me.
Girls will approach it's not the 50s anymore. I never been to a bar by myself but I would have to be pretty drunk to do it successfully.
Online Dating:
>Know most of the deal-breakers/deal-makers already just from reading her stats/profile, before even sending her a message
>Only go on a first date after getting to know her a little better and talking to see if you're compatible
>First date is mainly to get her voice and physical appearance in-person to see if she checks out
>Women are swamped with messages from betas who open with a flood of compliments and knuckle-draggers who can't come up with more than a "Hey, what's up?" or "sup bb want 2 fuck?" for a first message, which, by the way, get auto-blocked by most women due to the sheer numbers of generic "how's it going?" messages, WHICH MEANS that if you have half a brain and half a testicle, you're miles and miles ahead of every other loser on the site.
>Bonus points for also being physically attractive (assuming you're on /fit/ for a reason) without showing it off in your pics. Most girls avoid guys with slutty/shirtless pics because it screams "I AM INSECURE MY BODY IS THE MOST INTERESTING THING ABOUT ME"
>Most people online are honest to a fault, lying and deceit are just as common, if not less common, than women you meet in-person
>Never have to get dressed nice, drive somewhere, spend money to partake in the local watering hole, and put yourself out there just to get repeatedly shot down, end up going home empty-handed with a lighter wallet, and have to try again the next day (or week) JUST for a chance to get a contact with a girl
Basically, to answer to OP's question:
It depends on where your strengths lie. If you're better at interpreting body-language, sending and picking up on non-verbal social cues, and are extremely confident (and let's face it, if you're on /fit/ worrying about your body image, you're probably not that confident), then chatting up girls in-person is probably going to work better, though you will still face the problems of only knowing the things about her that she decides to tell you,
cont...
>>37956536
>cont...
and also having to use the first couple dates just to get to know her, THEN you must determine whether or not she seems good for you.
If your strengths lie in your writing skills, sense of humor, intelligence, and use of the english language, then online dating might yield better results. Especially if you're more concerned about a woman's mind than her body.
That's another thing to consider: You'll find more attractive women dating in-person. They're attractive, their body says it all, they don't need any kind of "online service" to get guys when they have guys petitioning them left and right all day. However, if you want a seriously intelligent woman (because let's face it, you'll be spending more time hanging out and talking to her than fucking her if you're in a relationship), online dating yields slightly better results. Mote intelligent women don't want to waste their time. They want to sift through the heaps of guys who would be bothering them all day in-person, to find the ones they actually want, instead of waiting for the right one to walk up to her out of nowhere. They want to actually get to know the guy in question before wasting her time going on dates with him just to find out he's a liar and an idiot.
So yeah. Hope that helped OP.
>>37956394
I know for a fact they arent waiting to be hit on but to be bought drinks
Girl i used to know and fuck said that she used this tactic alot since guys usually try to open with "can i buy you a drink" so its free drinks
>>37956479
Its better to a degree but enjoy neckbeards and other drooling idiots who smell like old diapers trying to stick their 3'' dicks in you and getting rapey when you say no
Atleast as a dude we can just not hit on unattractive women
>>37956665
Tru dat
>Hot girl winking and trying to get attn
LOL NOPE GAINS GOBLIN. Turn away, don't make eye contact.
>girls will never approach so safe for now
>>37955837
man just have an intellectual discussion about philosophy
you don't have to agree, just be respectful, most religious people are fine with those who even pretend to look for an "answer in life"
the bonus point is that you can come off as a broken man
church chicks love broken man
they think can fix them through God
instead, you fix them with your dickerino
Virgin here.
When you're about to have sex, is it just that you'll automatically know like you know when to kiss her or how do I know when I should make a move?
When I was living abroad I didn't know many people except coworkers so on the weekends I went out by myself quite often and also pulled some girls during these nights.
The key thing is to be comfortable with just yourself and to enjoy being out alone. Before I went out I usually started the night with cooking a nice dinner for myself and having a glass of wine while eating. After eating, relaxing a bit, listen to some music that puts you in a good mood, maybe a joint. Then go outside. ALl in a very relaxed fashion. No pressure. No one is there to rush you. you set the pace.
The idea is to make this night your night. It is there to enjoy and please yourself. Go to places you like, treat yourself nicely. If you wanna talk to people but feel too shy initially just go and talk to someone you have no real interest in talking to, so you don't care if they reject you or not (usually they don't). Have a little conversation to warm up, then say goodbye and move on.
Groups of girls are really good targets. Two girls are even better. If you're interesting and not too creepy the chance is high that at least one of them will like you. The rule (here and in general) is that people being active and leading interactions are seen as attractive and interesting because everyone usually is too lame and boring themselves and just looking for some entertainment and fun without making the effort themselves.
Go to areas where you can bar-hop easily so you can bounce to another venue if the old one gets too boring.General mindset again is to just go around and enjoy the night and see what's going on in the city. If you get any girl or girls to change venue with you, it's a done deal already.
That's all I can say for now. Good luck!
>>37956788
you will know if you are not autistic
you will do it if you have balls
>>37956845
good advice
thanks my man
have some high test girl to boost your gains
Don't know what you guys are talking about but girls approach me almost every time at the bar. Some will have their friends do it for them but normally the more attractive they are the more confident they are with approaching.
>>37956894
>Hips are only 1/3rd of the way up the door
Holy shortstacks Batman, that's a womanlet!
I mean sure she's got a pretty big ass for her frame, but if you stand a regular-sized girl next to her their asses would be the same size.
Remember: Genetics don't discriminate between genders! Mating with a midget WILL drastically lower the height of your potential son. Your manlet son will only be able to pull even shorter womanlets, and then your family name is permanently associated with midgets.
>>37956974
piss off my thread
>>37951378
>thot
kys faggot
>>37951456
Fucking cock blocking faggots
>>37955987
>it takes brass balls to go out alone, feel comfortable, and pick up from such a disadvantaged position. you just could never do it, and can't admit that other guys are more courageous
You also need those to sale real estate.
>>37948798
Don't get club girls, go do a sport or replace leg day with local hiking trails. Will be 100000x better, more responsible, better conversations, etc. Any woman who parties and clubs past 28 is basically broken.
>>37956845
FUCK. This use to be me a year ago.
Thank you giving me my mojo back anon. I've been NEET status for almost a year, but now I'm back working and I've gained a bit of social anxiety, but GOD BLESS YOU for reminding me of the man I use to be.
>>37957289
That webm
That is all I want
>>37957268
but where am I going to meet girls while hiking? most people who go there already have their own groups
the only "sports" here are yoga. I practice bjj and judo but there are no gyms near me. I wanted to practice HEMA too but too far away. FUCK yoga.
>>37957304
It's always great at first anon..
>>37952115
Only if you take the rejection as a little bitch. Just have fun with it, and you won't lose any social value or whatever you kids call it these days.
>>37957330
I dunno, her face has that distant retarded quality to it...
>>37957397
Or that subtle look of despiration. Lemme guess, she's 30+ and desperate for a man and this all an act
>>37951643
4 U
>>37957330
>no woman will ever look at you like that
god damn even if she was just a 5/10 my heart would melt
>>37956845
What's an alpha? That's an alpha.
>get approached by a lot of women
>they're all 6/10's with ugly low test bodies who don't look after themselves
>>37955937
Some guys are that dumb, unfortunately.
Try checking in around episode 20
>>37953319
Just make up something believeable and start a conversation without giving a fuck. They're strangers anyway. Theres a small amount of probability you'll see them again.
Say something like "Hi! Can I stay with you guys for a while, I came here with some friends but my phone died and I cant seem to find them. What are you drinking?"
This wont work if you're ugly/beta/skelly/morbid obese and/or autistic as fuck. Remember to bee urself.
Ask them to take you out, then you actually might get to know them. Until then enjoy your sports they do matter as entertainment placates the madness.
>>37957423
t. beta virgin
>>37957330
>no woman will ever look at me this way
why even live.
Anyone else here act like the shy protagonist from hentai? Can't tell you how aggressive some of these whore's are. I guess you have to be fit and good looking though.
- all you gotta do is make a profile listing your likes and dislikes implying you are capable of giving off strong independent attitude, but only when necessary.
- then, just wait for girls to message you in the app. if none message you then show a bit more of your breast plate in pictures. chicks dig breast plate. also dye your hair rainbow fish colors. always helps with eliminating inner-male competition so you stand out more, implying this will help your mating success rate.
- if the female doesn't message you for 3 hours straight - start to worry that she isn't into you because she should be glued to her phone at all times.
- next, receive the date and go on it. get your free meal and drink and let the girl know that you find her really really nice but you just don't like her... but she's really nice. but only do this after the night is done, through text. cause this is the most effective way of communication.
- and finally, don't forget to gossip about your little dating adventures to your guy friends. cause this is reassuring yourself that you have shit going on in life. cause we all know that this is a great way to condition how you market yourself in the mating pool. it's all about making yourself feel good, not meeting realistic goals or bettering yourself.
tl;dr
>op with this female logic you can't fail at life.
>>37957682
Remember to stay smooth and not fuck it up anon.
>>37957532
"do this exact thing" "if not work, you ugly"
>>37948724
>start tindering to not be a 22 year old kissless
>4 dates this week
>all they wanted to do is eat or get drinks
Women are gains killers, fuck this shit.
>>37957801
well yeah they have a fantasy mentality.
>>37957731
hentai isn't real
>>37957289
>>37957330
>>37957571
>>37957751
What's the name of the film?
>>37954225
Yet most guys would love to get approached by an average girl. You see the hypocrisy?
>>37958503
there's no hypocrisy, men and women are different
>>37948724
>if i go to a farm will i get better quality food than if i search through a dumpster?
>>37958330
DELET THIS !111
>>37949214
I tried meetup.com and after trying to slog through like seven hundred million "nude male bonding" groups, I figured it wasn't the site for me.
>>37949538
This, nothing wrong with doing shit alone. Lone wolf is goat for meeting chicks. That way your autie bruh bruhs don't ruin it.
>>37956261
Best advice i've seen in this thread. All this "picking up" girls is bullshit. Go in with the intention of just making freinds and meeting new people and you will have so much fun.
Also OP you said you don't have freinds yet you're looking for a GF. Pathetic. Get some real freinds first then everything will fall into place. No matter what they say no girl wants a guy with no freinds. But you're not getting freinds to impress any girls you want freinds because it's fun and you can do shit with them like go to bars, parties, play sports, have barbeques, whatever floats your boat.
>>37958717
>just make friends
yeah i'll just snap my fingers and poof, friends!
you are probably 18, you have no idea how hard it is to meet people after you are done school.
>>37958764
>making freinds is more difficult than finding a GF
Find people you have shit in common with around your area and spend tine with them
>>37958866
the older you get the more antisocial people get
not to mention the pussy whip effect
Go out to the beach/street fairs/malls/etc and just approach girls. Online dating is trash.
>>37948771
fpbp
>>37948798
>not fucking qt religious korean grills
>>37958884
How old are you just to be clear? It's never too late to make freinds though
>>37958455
Her with Joaquin Phoenix, it's a movie that sums up most of us here. Very well directed and emotional, if a little too short.
Watch it anon, you won't regret ir
>>37958938
it doesnt matter
im just saying the older you get the less people want to hang out and the more they want to hang with their gf/wife/whatever
pussy whip is a very real thing
>>37959061
>it doesnt matter
Asks us for help, won't even tell us what we are working with. Good luck i'm out
>>37959083
He's right you underaged faggot
Once you finish high school you'll see for yourself how "easy" it is to get so called friends
>>37953319
>>37953359
This is why you go to clubs, not bars.
I just moved to NYC from the West Coast, and have literally no friends here at all, but I still manage to fuck girls I meet at clubs nearly every time I go.
What I usually do is I go to the club relatively early, like at 9:30 or 10 when the place opens, and before they start playing the music too loud. And then, what I do is I look around, not at the girls, but at the guys. I try to find guys who are also there alone, and then walk over and chat with them, grab a few drinks with them, etc.. Other guys who go to clubs alone will be grateful for the company, and for someone to talk to so they don't look like loners themselves.
Then the two of you go to the dance floor, dance around, have fun, and before you know it, chances are a group of girls will join you. One of the girls will make eye contact, and you'll go over to her and start dancing. Gradually get closer, grab her by the lower back, and move your face really close to hers. Proceed to make out.
Last Saturday, I made out with 2 different girls during the evening, before taking one home. I think the key here is to just look as though you're enjoying yourself, and then girls will approach you.
Also go to places where they play music you actually enjoy.. for me this is is underground industrial/aggrotech/EBM. That way you have something in common with the people there.
>>37959304
>just be yourself, the post
>>37959304
>>37959319
you're right that he just says "dance," which is obviously not going to just work for anyone
but the first bit about meeting a buddy at the start of the night really isn't a terrible idea
>>37956974
The regular-sized girl won't have hot as hell ratios, meaning the thighs and hips would look less impressive than on the womanlet.
You're retarded.
>>37959350
Well, it doesn't work every time. Last night I went out a little later, and got no action at all. I wasn't as drunk, so maybe that has something to do with it
I've also found that as a straight guy, going to gay or semi-gay clubs is actually a great way to meet girls. Most of the girls there will be there with their gay best friend, so there's an extremely high number of horny, straight girls and almost no straight guys for them to hook up with. It's amazing!
You just have to deal with getting hit on by gay men all the time, but you can usually get a lot of free drinks out of it.
>>37954205
t. low-carb dieter
>>37959406
my point is, you are attractive whether you realize it or not yet.
an ugly or average guy with the same strategy as you wont have as much success going to a club solo.
>>37959406
>deal with getting hit on by gay men all the time
see >>37959511
you're good looking, and so your advice is shit
>>37958330
Well you might not believe me but many of my sexual encounters felt like they were straight out of hentai family. I even said some stupid shit during getting my dick sucked.
>"If..you do that i'll cum....HNNNGH"
She just laughed it off.
>>37956707
>church chicks love broken man
>they think can fix them through God
>instead, you fix them with your dickerino
>mfw
>>37956845
This is the best advice yet all the beta shit posters get the attention. Fuck 4chan, youre the hero this board doesnt deserve.
Im doing it the sane way and always pull some dumb bitch
>>37956845
Please there must be more! Real talk I've never seen such a quality post on this shit ass board. Like, this is actual gold advice.
>save the picture boiiiiis
>>37949107
This.
Find the places where you think the type of women are that you would like to date. Also, make sure to be social with everyone in the place where you'd like to find someone. I used to go to a climbing wall in my city and get social with the regulars, mostly young men and a few older women. Then after a few months one of the older women invited her niece who is /fit/ but from one city over to come to our climbing wall and introduced me to her. Worked great and I wasn't even fishing for dates. If you are a nice guy in a broader social group and word gets out that you're single people will actually find the girls for you. This way you can also get more of a feel for what kind of person she is without having the pressure of obviously trying to date her.
DONT go to bars or clubs or online dating.
Bars are mostly slobs, drunks and desperates after 25. Only good for a quick and barely satisfactory fuck. Online dating is shit. Tried it. Pictures are too carefully chosen, skills and interests are overstated, people chronically lie about stuff like smoking and drinking habits, children/unhealthy relationships with exes/psychological troubles are hidden until they "hooked" you. Its a shit. I also wouldn't necessarily recommend the fitness gym since they attract too many types of girls that are flakey etc. My experience is that real sports attract better quality girls overall and especially girls for whom being/getting fit isnt a chore to keep off the fat but a side effect of doing things that are fun to her.
I would also not recommend that you just play the numbers game and ask as many decent looking girls as you can find for their phone number. The type of girl that responds to this (in Europe at least) is usually slutty, superficial and financially dependent. If you're looking for love, dont look for it. Just get social and become *someone* within a *community* and oppertunity will come to you.
>>37962382
PS: Dont read books on dating. Dont use "alpha dater bro" advice. Dont believe the neckbeard autists that have a "trick" for picking up "chicks".
>>37962252
This is the only thing resembling actionable advice ITT.
>>37962382
>>37962382
ZOOOEEEMGEE
>>37962382
This man has taken the real redpill
>>37953319
we should create a thread where some people are girls and others are guys. practice talking & not being autistic. everyone can respond apprpriately & conversation mapping will be beautiful. we probaly have some cucks who would do a good job
>>37951643
how do I meet women at university? I have 0 female friends
>>37955999
not him but personally I see god and science go hand in hand. my old chemistry teacher who had a phd in microbiology said the same thing when he would get asked how he's a science man but also goes to church and preaches and stuff
>>37956261
>notorious for being pessimistic and hating everything
my nigga
>>37958632
Thirded, I've gone out on a whim a few times.. few drinks later I'm having a laugh with strangers doing all sorts of stupid shit. Can really let your inner self go crazy when you're anon IRL + the drink helps.
>>37956707
Seconded by practical experience
quality women dont hang around in bars and clubs
>>37951481
why always with the fucking donuts
>>37959304
Literally only works if you are hot
>>37962941
This is quite regular among scientist I've found. However I prefer to see it that we are alone in a cold universe and we learn in a very hard way the rules and nature of it. The universe wasn't created, it was discovered, and we are it's explorers and hopefully there are some other explorers out there to find.
But is mostly the mathematicians/physicists I've talked to that sees it this way. It is a beautiful world with many discoveries. It's a shame to attribute it to someone or something.
>>37963303
>However I prefer to see it that we are alone in a cold universe and we learn in a very hard way the rules and nature of it. The universe wasn't created, it was discovered, and we are it's explorers and hopefully there are some other explorers out there to find.
Yeah I know that's a lot more comforting and easy, which is why so many also follow Nietzsche for example
free pussy is only reserved for alpha chads if you are not alpha the only thing you can do is to kill yourself
>>37959304
>Brodude's Ultimate Guide to Getting STDs.
>>37963219
Sales professionals call that "knowing your target audience".
>>37962382
>make sure to be social with everyone in the place where you'd like to find someone
how do i be social? people are always in groups with their friends, what would i say to them?
>Find the places where you think the type of women are that you would like to date
rock climbing is the only one i see consistently posted, what are other examples? the gym?
>>37951481
Fucking hell she should have acid thrown in her face the disgusting whore
>>37951422
There is nothing shittier than going to a nightclub sober. Bar is fine, but nightclubs are unbearable.
>>37948724
Wow what a dissapointment, pic related from her instagram.
>>37957369
No u dumb fuq. Its how women see you. How you take the rejection has nothing to do with the fact that u indeed got rejected.
Women are always fond of men with the company of beautiful women. If she sees you with 1-2 hot chicks, even if they re your friends, she ll start wondering what you got that got a beautiful/cute woman's attention. (man-woman friendship doesnt exist)
Getting rejected is exactl ythe opposite.
>>37963603
Bump
>>37958894
Easier said than done anon
>>37949307
This made me kek
>>37962382
Basing you life advice on one nice experience from climbing club... mmh yeah no ty
>>37957801
and they all want you to pay
>>37951481
She'll get obese with all of those donuts.
You think it's about a woman in her physical prime cockteasing you while eating donuts. But it isn't. It's about a woman who has discovered donuts, and has allowed donuts to take away her beauty. Such is her list for donuts that she is sacrificing her physical beauty for more donuts.
It is an indirect warning. Hedonistic lust compels us to sacrifice our greatest strengths for short-term satisfaction. Pay heed to this lesson, and do not let lust take over.
OP take salsa lessons. Better yet, join a soccer team. You'll end up playing with international guys, who'll invite you to parties with European and Arab qts. Don't go to Church, Korean Christians are more fundie than Southern rednecks can ever dream of being.
>>37948724
Ask out someone you know. They'll be more willing to put up with your autism.
>>37966553
What if you have no friends? How do I get friends?
>>37965711
>salsa
>tfw see pics of dance studios near me, full of people twice my age
Can you really meet girls there?
>soccer
Im terrible at all sports
>online dating is horrible
What is with this meme
You can find someone you find attractive AND have a similar interests with
In person feels like settling plus the fact you have no idea if they're single or what kinda person they're like
As long as you're not an autist and avoid the red flags, online is the way to go
>>37949323
I did this once and wound up running into the men's room, jerked off on to the toilet and ran out of there. Never again.
>>37967770
ay wtf lol, there is nothing more disgusting than a nightclub toilet and there's people banging at the door every 30 sec.
