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Has anyone here successfully overcome premature ejaculation?
>girl literally bent over and begging me to keep fucking her last night
>couldn't last more than two min
Honestly one of the worst experiences of my life
>>37939364
>having sex
Fuck off normalfag youre not welcome here
>>37939364
Why cant you just keep going after cumming?
Thats what I do
>>37939380
Fuck off robot, you're not welcome here.
>>37939384
>what is refractory period?
I don't know about you, but as soon as I cum my erection goes away and my whole penis becomes extremely sensitive to the touch, and not in a good way.
>>37939384
I get soft for a couple min after cumming, no matter what.
We had "sex" twice, but after the second time we were both getting pretty frustrated.
Getting fit has helped my get girls in the bedroom, so I was hoping you guys would know how to keep them there.
>>37939364
Rub your dick on the hole a bit before you stick it in to give it a taste.
Works for me at least.
>>37939404
>>37939409
Can you train yourself to last longer by timed masturbation?
Like setting a goal of 5min before ejaculating, then 10min, 15min, etc?
>>37939404
>>37939407
>>37939364
They sell condoms with numbing agent on the inside. By the Durex ones. Don't go with Trojan. Those dumbasses put numbing agent on both sides so you'll end up numbing her pussy, in a bad way.
>>37939364
>sex with a girl
Are you some kind of faggot or something?
>>37939404
>>37939407
Lol are guys fucking with me? I thought that only happened to old people and fatties
If I cum early I keep fucking for a few minutes until it starts feeling good again, I dont lose my erection at all
>>37939426
Yes, it's called edging. Search that shit.
>>37939364
Think about your grandma naked, or baseball or something
>>37939445
>https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Refractory_period_(sex)
>the recovery phase after orgasm during which it is physiologically impossible for a man to have additional orgasms due to increase in the penile sensory threshold
> the refractory period varies widely among individuals, ranging from minutes to days, most men cannot achieve or maintain an erection during this time
>>37939460
Thanks I'll check it out
>>37939471
yea mate I kept repeating the quadratic formula in my head to no avail
>>37939364
Pleasure her with your head and hand whenever you don't have an erection.
>>37939471
then he ends up having images of his grandmother during his money shot, orgasm ruined
>>37939487
>tfw I lost my virginity 3 months ago and am already a sex god
I started masturbating when I was 8 and did it frequently so maybe I got rid of this ailment? I dont remember going soft but I remember it use to be really sensitive in a bad way afterwards... not any more though
The shortest time I had between ejaculations was 15-20 seconds but that was with jerking off
>tfw jerking off for 10 years improved my sex life
I have the opposite problem
>tfw no matter how long we go I can't never cum wth my gf
>mfw I have no face
Seriously anon, jack off more. Dry hand it, no lubricant. It sounds a bit sad and pathetic, but you can sand down your sensitivity in no time.
Have fun, I guess.
>>37939555
Curtail masturbation, use coconut oil when you do masturbate (and consider moisturizing your dick head with it daily). You'll regain your sensitivity in about a month.
God this is the gayest thread over.
>tfw both erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation
>afraid of fapping more to help premature ejaculation because it will just make erectile dysfunction worse
>afraid of excessive foreplay because it will just make premature ejaculation worse
Feels good knowing I'll never leave a sexual interaction without extreme feelings of shame
just fuck her slow and hard instead. switch positions when you're almost about to cum. when you have more sex you won't be such a two pump chump
>>37939540
Consider yourself lucky, that's all. Sex or masturbation, my refractory period is a couple hours at least before I can even think about touching my penis.
>>37939409
Wear a rubber, use de sensitizing gel, keep at it
>>37939487
>days
WTF my longest refractory period was like 20 mins, I couldn't imagine going days without being able to get an erection. I would call my doctor if it was more than 4 hours without a boner.
>>37939592
How do people even have sex like this? Only being able to cum once seems like sex wouldnt even be worth it lol
I cum once usually 5 minutes in and a second time 15 minutes later maybe a 3rd another 15 minutes later if im super horny
>>37939582
Fapping is good for ED you retard
>>37939623
All it does is reduces my sensitivity further and makes it even more difficult to get erect.
Find something to distract you like reading.
A few minutes after the first time my boyfriend and I had sex he asked if I knew that Danny DeVito was a producer for Pulp Fiction, and I realized he was trying to read his Pulp Fiction movie poster to last longer.
>>37939632
dude if you cant get hard there is somthing seriously wrong with you physically
Getting hard and ejaculating = #1 most important objective biologically
>>37939617
Virgin detected
I nutted 10-12 times in one day with my ex of a few years ago. Damn my balls were fucked up.
Refractory period is really nothing but a mental barrier for me. If I'm anxious it will hard as fuck to get hard.
Condom just makes it even harder, I need to feel some sugar walls to keep nutting
>>37939364
>mfw dick hasn't so much as twitched since my heart was broken
Still waking up with morning wood so test isn't the issue. This shit just sucks, lads.
>>37939364
Bite your tongue.
Or keep going after coming.
Take your pick.
>>37939649
lol ok bro, just because my sex organs seem impossible to you doesn't mean im a virgin, i lost my virginity 3 months ago kiddo
you must be a 2 pump chump with a 24 hour refractory period
>>37939364
Trojan extra strength. most condoms are .06mm thick.... Trojan extra strength is .09mm thick which should stop sensitivity. There's thicker condoms but different brands(I never heard of). Also yohimbe pills tend to help if taken 30-60mins before fucking , they will give you a strong boner and help you fuck over n over. Use lotion on your dick so it doesn't rash up quick to last longer and doing cardio helps out aswell. I hear kegels work....
>>37939560
>Dry hand it, no lubricant
thats how i always fap
is that bad
>>37939364
>be me
>got a gf 1 month ago
>plow her hard almost every day
>tfw I can't cum
>tfw she thinks I'm a sex god
I wish I had premature ejaculation, it would be less frustrating
please help lads
>>37939815
Only if you start to lose sensation in your dick (have difficulties staying hard, or fucking in condoms, or lasting forever). I'm not a doctor, but allegedly, this is surprisingly common.
>>37939491
Try actually doing math instead. Like do the square root of each number until you can't do the mental math anymore, then do every number times 3, then 4, then 5 and so on. Remembering a formula takes minimal effort. Actually doing calculations takes brain power and can help keep you from cumming. But don't et too distracted! Remember, youre supposed to be having fun!
>>37939843
Stop watching porn and deathgripsing
Not really a sexual health issue, but my girl wants to be dominated more. I've got slapping, choking, wall fucking, and hair pulling down pretty well, but she wants me to "demand she do things" more and I'm not sure how to proceed.
Now I'm not about to ask her to shit on my chest or eat my ass or some shit like that, but what do you guys think are some more normal things to tell her to do?
Thanks famalam
>>37939426
yup it's edging
and here is some SOLID advice for you faggots
buy a fucking fleshlight endurance since those fuckers are MADE to help increase your performance in the bedroom
god speed OP
>>37939540
>mfw exact same thing happened to me
edging even increased performance and now after cumming i can have a rock hard dick in 5mins
>>37939364
Think of something else while thrusting slower. You're in control, just pause or slow down for a bit. Then go all the way in...assuming your pener isn't small.. I love hearing when they tell me not all the way in, I still do it and they like it. They always say it hurts in a good way.
Every girl I have sex with I can't come. I'm scared to death of rejection and talking to hot girls. I furiously Jerk off to porn even bbc stuff which is incredibly disgraceful but can't seem to help myself when I'm on drugs. When I go out I talk to many girls and get rejected which only fuels my self hatred / masterbation problem. Is there any way out? I don't want to live the rest of my life like this
>>37940342
STOP
FUCKING
JERKING
OFF
that will fix you not being able to cum
>>37940342
next time when you are in missionary position reach down to her ass and pick it up towards you while you thrust. Concentrate on the thrusting and her movements.
>>37940359
>>37940369
Maybe it's because I find my gf repulsive but I can't get anyone else?
>>37940382
you didn't mention that she was repulsive
in that case dump her ass and get a nice looking one
>>37940390
I can't. I get rejected like crazy. Also I'm too much of a fag to talk to chicks
>>37940408
then work on self confidence and be proud of yourself
and i would start by dropping that bitches ass
good self confidence exercise if you ask me
>>37940420
do this >>37940408 You don't actually believe you wont find another girl? Dude just go out, you'll find one. I feel like slapping the shit out of you.
>>37939437
whats going on big guy? you tripped my wife
>>37940445
this
lucky for me a went through a shit childhood and learned LOTS of important life skills including how not to give a fuck what other people think and feeling good about my choices
>>37940420
>>37940445
Thanks for helping me. I appreciate you guys being nice to me when I'm so low.
>>37940197
make her eat your ass
>>37939364
Cum during foreplay if you can, always get my gril to give a quick blow job, I cum then I tease her till im hard again and then have sex.
Its a gamble though, sometimes I cant finish twice
>>37940463
this, you have to get over what people think about you. Just stop caring, it's not like they are going to be around you 24/7..fuck em
>>37940465
Everyone hits that point, it's all on you. Keep feeling like shit or change yourself.
>>37939687
I was the same, it gets worse over time, its still new to you
>>37940197
jesus man it's not that hard to work out
i would kill for a GF who was into that shit
just tell her to get on her knees then whip out your cock and force her to suck it
maybe pull her air at the same time
maybe tell her to get on her stomach and surprise her by fucking her from behind
and if she is into it then force her down and cum on her face then make her lick it up etc
>>37940516
pull her hair*
How do I eat pussy without feeling like a beta cuck? I find it degrading.
>>37940625
use your fingers more than your mouth. Rub the right spots (the clit) and finger her a bit. If you have to lick a bit then go ahead.
>>37940625
>I find it degrading.
I don't get this. Why do you find it degrading exactly?
>>37939364
Cocaine on your dick.
>>37940707
I don't understand it either, just feels that way. Submissive position, subservient task which doesn't make me feel good, she says she's thoroughly satisfied with my penis and fingers but still wants me to do this other thing so I guess that's making me insecure about it, and I kind of have some hang-ups about hygiene.
>>37939364
>>girl literally bent over and begging me to keep fucking her last night
>>couldn't last more than two min
>Honestly one of the worst experiences of my life
Sounds like you've had a pretty nice life.
Meanwhile WWIII is on the brink. China wants to invade fucking Australia. 84 people were murdered in France, 60 in Turkey, ISIS is spreading across the world like a disease, The USA is on the brink of a civil war.
>>37940772
I still don't get it. I assume you don't feel like that when she sucks you off?
>>37940795
Get a grip. Quit consuming sensationalized media every day.
>>37940795
>China wants to invade Australia
Gonna need a source
You can get condoms with a gel that sedated your dick just a little and male you last longer.
And start doing kegel exersises and using to stop and go thing when you fap. This will train you to last longer and control your orgasms more.
>>37939432
>have homofag friend
>tells me about this one time he and his bf tried those numbing condoms
>he put the condom on his bf with his mouth
>ended up being like Kramer in that Seinfeld episode after he went to the dentist.
>>37940810
Sure, that's why I'm asking for help. How do guys enjoy it?
>>37940858
I personally love it. But then again I don't mind it if she wants to lead and be dominant in bed. I'm not that preoccupied with who's leading, who's on top and all that dominating/submissive bullshit.
How does it feel to know Ive had sex with over 1000+ women?
>>37940511
No you probably just fuck ugly girls
Seems like the place to ask this,
>I fap
>Wait a minute
>Pull long cum strands out of my dick and it feels awesome, not orgasm but a feeling of cleanliness
Is this normal guys?
>>37940197
Next time she's blowing you, grab her head and hold it while you go in deep. Wait until she's gagging before you let go. Then smack her and tell her to hold it longer.
>>37942927
>>37939487
It didn't say anything about not being able to maintain an erection.
>>37942746
>pull long cum strands out
>is this normal
This is unrelated to thread but....
How do I get better at flirting/expressing my sexuality? Specifically, in a school setting or even a bar setting. I feel being able to do that adequately is my biggest barrier between myself and sex.
>>37939437
>>37940456
https://youtu.be/HtRZFGUJnOA
this is now MDE/ samuel J hyde thread
>>37939843
I would gladly switch with you
>>37939409
kek.
>>37939426
This probably. I've never had a problem personally but whenever I do fap I don't strive for speed. I just always edged for a good long while, like maybe 45 minutes. I don't know but maybe that has something to do with my staying power.
Also, if you think you're going to get laid - like you have a date coming up - have a fap the night before or even the morning of. The few times I haven't lasted as long as I wanted (say 10 minutes instead of 20) it was because my dick hadn't gotten wet in over a week.
heres what solved it for me: dont give a fuck. cum in her after 5 secs and be loud about it. say "fuck that was good". be nice to her afterwards, cuddle, fuck again some time later. i did this for 2 weeks with a girl and then we fucked for 10min +, hard.
>>37940858
Tie her up or restrain her. Take her panties and bind her wrists behind her back with them. If you wear a tie, use it to trap one of her ankles. Put her into a powerless position so you control the pleasure.
Then tease the fuck out of her for as long as you want. Don't just go at it like a Saint Bernard for however long you do it, stop every so often and kiss her thighs and belly. Those suckling love-bites, mang. Find your pleasure in pushing her to the edge, drawing back, then pushing her over, then finding the next edge and repeating it.
The ultimate mind-fuck is turning her into a quivering, shaking mess then just getting up and leaving her bound and shivering.
Go make a cup of coffee. Iron a fucking shirt. Just leave her there. After 10 or so minutes, after she's cooled down, come back, let her loose, and then dominate the shit out of her. Literally.
>>37945377
Damn, do you people actually care this much about making your bitch cum and put this much effort into this shti
can't even tell if that's beta or not
>>37939364
>Been with gf for years
>Discover weird fetish porn about two months ago
>Can only last a few minutes
>She wants me to "ruin her pussy"
>Wants me to choke and face fuck her
God damnit lads do I need to quit the porn? I never used to cum this fast
>>37945413
making bitches cum is hot
>>37939364
yeah, experience, had a GF who was experienced and knew how to fix it. lots of sex = experience = last longer. like jogging.
Also, distraction helps, when i really wanna go all out, i bite my bottom lip to feel pain to distract myself.
>>37945404
>>37945413
I guess you could call it 'beta' - the thing is a little bit of beta once in a while goes a long way.
>>37945413
well anon, its called having a lover. You see when two adults enjoy each other, they strive to make each other feel good.
You'll figure it out when you're older.
>>37939364
Get a cock ring, and/or wear a condom
>>37939432
I tried these before and they smell horrible when you're done.
>>37939437
ma nigga samthony hydetano
>>37940197
She sounds like she might want to try bdsm, talk to her about it and if she's down look up the nearest club/dungeon that teaches dom 101
>>37945457
>implying I'll ever love a bitch again
>>37945451
>>37945435
No, now I'm just gonan wear headphones, listen to podcasts and vape meanwhile, like leo
>>37940625
69 it, dude. Just tell her to get on top, so you're not the subservient one.
>>37939582
erectile dysfunction and heart disease are linked, get that shit checked out.
>>37939364
Its all about breathing. When I breath deeply and calmly I can last as long as i want
I dont know if anyone here can do this but i can basically flex my penis so when im about to cum i flex it so hard so it wont and then i keep going. Only done it by myself though dont know how it works with a vagina.
>>37939445
Because you're probably a cutfag. You lost most of your sensitivity, therefore it takes an act of god for you to feel anything worthwhile down there. Non cut fags have extremely sensitive tips. Therefore, sex feels way better.
>>37939432
Kills my boner. Sadly.
>>37940867
This mang. This mang has had sex before and he knows what's up.
>>37945275
Wow, 10 minutes? You fucking STUD!
>>37945928
No Im not, my parents didnt fall for Jewish tricks
>>37945521
>>37945413
gr8 b8 m8 8/8
>>37939364
yep
you have to stop thinking of masturbation as pleasure and start thinking of it as training. work on edging, getting comfortable being close to the point of no return but not going over. try a fleshlight if you really need extra help. but focus on being able to undergo constant stimulation while still keeping in control mentally. if you cum quickly during training, you'll cum quickly during the big game.
work on your breathing. if you start panting you'll bust quicker. take a deep, full breath slowly, hold it until you start to feel air hunger, then slowly exhale. think of your breathing like an inverted triangle, might not make sense but it works for me. inhale, hold, exhale. when you have control of your breathing, it gives you a sense of control over your body. again, it's all about feeling in control. plus the mental diversion will help you from getting too lost in the moment.
changing positions is a good way to give yourself a few seconds of recovery time. don't do it too often but in a pinch it can be a non-awkward way of pausing. HOWEVER, do not be afraid to pause. if she's worth putting your penis in, she'll understand and would much rather take a brief time-out than call the whole thing game-over.
try shallow strokes rather than balls-deep every time. all women are different, but most are only really sensitive in the first 2-4 inches of their vagina. short strokes can give you some interesting angles to rub your head against these sensitive spots while also reducing your risk of blowing too soon. if it helps, slow down your strokes as well. a good slow, consistent rhythm in the right spot will have her shaking like michael j fox on adderall.
wearing a condom helps in severe cases. say you're paranoid about pregnancy if she wants to go bareback.
>>37940795
>you can't have problems because some people have it worse
>>37940197
I made it into a game for my ex to deepthroat me. She almost did it in the end but never took all of it. Ontop of all the slapping/spanking/choking/tying down hands etc it did it for her. She wasnt into degrading but more into submissiveness.
Facefucking is nice too, take a nice grip around her hair and steer her head.
Fuck i miss her.
>>37947002
>edge for ~6 hours at least once a week
>almost a wizard
did i obtain the wrong kind of powers?
>lose 150lbs to join the military
>almost look like a regular guy
>probably ever regular-looking enough to maybe not be a kissless virgin anymore
>haha oh wait
>I'm stuck on base
>and no way am I going to sudoku my military career by making the wrong move on some bitch who decides to take it up the chain of command
>tfw stuck as a kissless virgin for as long as I'm stuck on this base
k i l l m e
>going to an escort in a few minutes
>heart is beating like fuck
hopefully I dont cum in two strokes
gonna try to eat her ass brehs
>>37949349
>escort
>gonna try to eat her ass
Top beta.
>>37939540
>sex god
>doesn't cum instantly
Hmmm lol faggot
>tfw hard as a rock while shes sucking me off but go limp with in a few minutes once i put a condom on an put it inside her
Wtf do i do /fit/? This shit ruins my sex life
>>37949349
>gonna try to eat her ass brehs
please dont
>>37949482
Stop masturbating
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=wSF82AwSDiU
I have the opposite problem, I can fuck for an hour without Cumming. I jerked it waaaay too much when I was younger.
>tfw could've fugged girl last night, but I walked around with an erection pretty much all night so by the time we got down to it I wasn't fully hard
>tfw couldn't even stick it in properly because her underwear kept getting in the way
I also have a huge problem with how girls touch my dick. Like, if I fap it's all fine but when a girl does it I just don't feel shit even if I'm into it. It just feels really weird and uncomfortable, my dick is still sore from this girl jerking me off basically all night
>>37939409
hahahahahahahhaha. omg anon, never change
>>37949349
>eating an escorts ass
enjoy the aids
train your dick not to cum
How?
Every morning do an edging session, for maybe 20-25, but don't cum
Slowly you'll gain power over your dick
yeah its a part of bein a first timer.
theres not much more to it, you're going to be overwhelmed.
kegels or use delaying condoms.
this one time i fucked this girl and came in 5 seconds. nofap without kegels, not even once.
>>37949536
>couldn't even stick it in properly because her underwear kept getting in the way
bruh you're supposed to take the clothes off first
>>37939555
You and i are one in the same anon, were gonna make it brah
>>37939569
Ima try dis
>>37949724
Do you cum eventually? Blue balls?
>>37950110
Cum twice a week
you're training your dick and blue balls is part of that process
>>37939843
> first few months with gf
> sex sessions last between 40-60m of solid fucking before i finish
> 1.5 years in
> she's gained some weight
> i can't fuck her for more than a few minutes before finishing
No idea if it's her weight gain or being more comfortable with her that makes me finish faster.
>>37940795
who says china wants to invade stralia?
>>37949349
just whack it up don't worry about anything else dont waste your time
>>37939471
does this actually work for anyone?
I don't cum from the mental stimulation, it just feels too good when I'm inside. I've never been to replicate the feeling other than with a vagina, it just feels like I'm completely and perfectly gripped. it's hard to describe but no kind of hand masturbation will ever come close for me. "death gripping" doesn't even do anything for me, but a vagina just makes me cum in 10 seconds flat
Got the exact opposite problem
Fapping takes a minimum of 5 minutes and i cant actually cum during sex unless i jack myself off. I can literally go hours without busting.
feelsbadman, just want a qt to finish me off.
>>37939364
Rub out the easy one like 30 mins beforehand
>>37939569
Ty anon. Going to try this out.
>>37951786
And enjoy having no sex drive at all when you actually get to fucking.
WHY THE FUCK CAN'T I GET AN ERECTION WITH AN ACTUAL GIRL?
I got no probs getting it up when jacking off by myself, but when I'm with a woman it just doesn't happen. It's completely fucking with my self esteem and the girls don't enjoy themselves either.
what the fuck should I do /fit/? should I go see a doctor about this? I need to get this shit sorted out pronto
>have gf
>she wants to be controlled and wants me to do stuff to her
>not really that type of person but it turns into facefucking, ass eating and some unexpected pounding sometimes
>since I'm not that type of guy sexually, I just kind of go with the flow and she likes it
>she mentions she wants to have a captive like session where she is cuffed with no chance of escaping
>tied her up with hand cuffs and told her i'd fuck her afterwards in ways she has never imagined to build suspension, she agrees
>eat and go on /b/ and see the webm of the guy who pours an entire jugg of chocolate milk in the sink
>fugg her and tell her she must drink half a jugg of choc milk to be released
>she looks at me like i'm weird but she does it
>use handcuffs more often and make her drink more chocolate milk, even left her for 4 hours because she couldn't finish the jugg
>raise the stakes and told her this time she would have to finish two juggs before I released her, she got mad and told me it was impossible and this chocolate milk thing has gone too far
>try to keep in character and demand she drinks it all, come back 4 hours later and there still aound 75% of the chocolate milk left
>fugg her again and warn her of the consequences
>I did bring her some dinner, since prisoners do get to eat a little
>she realizes that I'm dead serious about the chocolate milk and after a total of 7 hours in caption, she has finished around 90% and I "pardoned" her, which is another way of saying she could blowjob her way of of it
>told me the day afterwards this was the kinkiest thing ever
>fridge always full of chocolate milk
This is how I created my own hi test
>>37939364
>On /fit/
>PE problems
>No one suggests the one workout that actually helps with this
Kegals man, kegals.
Find the muscle that helps you stop pissing mid stream.
>Inb4 unhealthy
I'm not saying constantly stopping pissflow, just find the muscle and understand how to flex it.
Work it like a normal workout. I actually superset all my other lift sets with 3 sets of 10 second kegals.
>Portion, this is a great way to kill time between sets
You will learn to control the whole muscle range during sex and will increase your endurance.
>>37951893
stop jacking, no more porn.
>>37951893
Have the same problem. Issue is likely 50% death grip 50% psychological, luckily first one is easily fixed by less chicken choking.
>>37951925
What do you mean find it? Are there people who cannot naturally contract the muscle?
>>37939364
PC muscle exercise before going to sleep and practicing more.
>>37945404
LOL
>>37951893
>too much porn
>death grip desensitized you
>circumcision desensitized you
>you don't love her because she's typical western whore
>hormonal issues
Pick as many as you need.
>>37952182
Stop making up excuses for him. It's his compulsive jerking off.
>>37952182
>you don't love her
A U T I S M
L
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>>37950519
This so much. First few months fucking her like a behemoth for hours straight multiple times a day.
Now it's like 5-10min and and I need hours before I can even think of having sex again.
>>37939380
When did this fucking place get so pathetic?
>>37942176
How do you have sex with over 1000+ women? That's an inifinite amount of women
>>37949283
where you at homie
>>37952301
>>37950519
Yeah same here....
Feels fucking annoying too because it feels as though my performance has gotten alot worse.
What do brehs?
>>37952396
Fresh outta boot, A school at Pensacola.
>>37951786
>not blasting her with a super load
>not ravaging her with your blue balls
good way to SUCK at sex
>>37939364
I've had a really random drop in my sex drive lately, like I'll still get morning wood and the odd random boner during the day but they're not as frequent and I only fap a couple times a week if that, and sometimes when I do it takes me a while to get into it.
Doesn't seem to be effecting me with grills for the most part, was stuffing around changing positions with one the other day and randomly lost it but managed to get it back a bit later after fingering her and cuddling up for a bit. Got the job done and had another round a bit later but it still worried me since I've had one or two instances in the past where I couldn't get it up, but I put that down to mental reasons since I was going through a breakup at the time.
Don't quite know how to explain it but it's like I'm nowhere near as horny as I used to be and my energy levels are all over the shop. Have times where I'm horny/full of energy for a few days and then a few days later I'm not horny at all and exhausted for like a week.
Any advice appreciated please brehs
>>37939364
>all these people complaining about porn desensitizing you
>tfw after having sex with women and actually getting gf's my standards for porn have shot up dramatically
>wont watch 95% of the porn
>the pornstar has to be pretty for me to even want to watch the video
>love BJ scenes because I get to see her face
>hate positions where I can't see the face
>the male also has to be in shape
Feels good to have ascended
>>37949482
Maybe you need bigger condoms?
Idk about you faggots but i can always keep going after i cum once
>>37949349
>>37949349
>>37949349
>>37949349
Escort fucker here
I was surprised she actually let me eat her ass out kek also ate her hairy pussy out for a few minutes
Chubby latina I had seen once before. Kinda complained that the last time i saw her I left her sore for days and to go easy on her this time. she made it awkward because I didn't finish inside her and she kept asking what was wrong. Took way too long to cum. This sucks brehs
Ive been with like 15 hookers and ive never been able to finish inside any even by doing no fap and no porn.
Guess I'm just broken
>>37952953
>I was surprised she actually let me eat her ass out kek also ate her hairy pussy out for a few minutes
>Ive been with like 15 hookers and ive never been able to finish inside any even by doing no fap and no porn.
How many AIDS candies did you get?How far from evolving are you lad?
>>37939364
>gf
kill yourself normies
>>37952888
Your grammar and sentence structure sucks m8. No reply evarz
>>37939404
nofap helped me with this, i can cum like 2-3 times till lose erection
>>37940316
Wait are you serious or did I just waste my money
So what do you guys do when you bottom? Im very meticulous and will practically fast for the entire day, only have liquids and no carbs, if i know im gonna get fucked at night
>>37951895
>>37940486
>>37940486
>>37940486
This my brodies. One time I jacked off while I was eating a bitch out, she was laying on her bed and I was off the bed on the floor. Bitch was moaning and looking up at the ceiling didn't know I bust a nut on her floor then wiped it up with a shirt that was laying next to me lmao
Ate that bitch for another 20 minutes before suiting up and ramming
>>37939555
I too have this problem. And my wife has the female version of ED. She orgasms in 1-2 minutes leaving me to try and finish myself.
>>37951895
>chocolate milk
>not bowls of eggs
>>37939392
>>37952354
GET THE FUCK OUT
>>37951895
hahahahahah
>>37940342
>Is there any way out? I don't want to live the rest of my life like this
there is anon, there is always a way out
>>37939380
leave
>>37952888
Happens to me as well. One day I'm a horny demon and the next day I'm apathetic as fuck. I guess it's just hormones. Do you smoke/smoke up a lot?
I only had sex 2 times and having trouble with the missionary position. Basically I feel like I can't get my dick fully inside my gf because of the angle. Plus I sweat like a mofo after 2 minutes even though I run a few miles every second day. Am I doing something wrong?
>>37951895
kek. Never change /fit/
>>37953073
Go back to 9gag, faggot.
>>37951895
underrated
>>37939364
>Has anyone here successfully overcome premature ejaculation?
Wear a condom, it takes all the pleasure away and you'll last for hours.
It's her fault she can't keep up with you, OP. Tell her to cum faster.
Yup , cum in her mouth first cum.
Thenyou will be relaxed enough to realy fuck her. Also never use a condom.
>>37958904
But then I have to wait ~20 minutes before I can go at it again.
>>37939364
That shit is easy, I have opposite problem. Can't finish.
Watch fucking depraved ass porn (try to find borderline illegal) and masturbate with a pretty heavy grip (not painful).
You won't jizz fast anymore
I guess this is the place to post this
>Incredibly talented/smart asian girl from my college
>she is pretty cute maybe a solid 8/10
>I'm not attracted to asians unless they are are extraordinarily beautiful, and this girl is just above average
>My asian buddy is like totally in love with this girl
>he thinks that she is a 10/10
>he tries to hit her up in real life and on social media, but gets ignored
>I tell him that she really isnt that great and that there are plenty of fish in the sea, he seems to move on
>a while ago this girl messages me on facebook at like 2 in the morning
> I feel like she is totally hitting on me so I decide to entertain her even though I'm not too attracted to her
>she ends up being really interesting
> I havn't had any in a while so I think "Fuck it."
>Tell her we should hang out, she immediately says yes
> I text my buddy the whole story
>He responds with "Thats cool."
>Hasnt responded since
>He is clearly butthurt
Should I feel bad guys? He was interested in the girl but they never dated or anything, they never even talked really. Am I cucking my friend?
BTW since this I'm sure you guys care about this
>Buddy: 5'4"
>Gril:l 5'7"
>Me: 6'0"
>>37939445
I have to always take at least a couple of minutes minimum before I go at it again, you're an outlier, most guys lose their erection.
I dunno, it works out because a lot of women like playing around when you're that intimate. Usually they try to wrestle/bite/cuddle and having a bit of downtime is pretty good for that.
Jerk off a few hours before you sleep with her. You'll last much longer.
>>37939843
are you me?!!?
>>37960773
you are cucking your friend but he clearly never made a move or she didn't like him so why do you care?
>>37939487
wait is this a thing for everyone?
cause i can ejaculate, keep going for ~20 seconds, albeit slowly, and then go back to normal fucking.
sometimes i can keep going for 3 or 4 rounds without stopping.
downside is that orgasms get progressively shittier.
>>37939364
Try to adapt the mindset of a psychopath who needs to keep his act together.
Shit is cash when you act like Bateman. Just be prepared for the consequences. In murica this could be considered rape.
>>37939364
when you are on the verge of cumming, stop.
What worked for me was relaxing myself and not thinking about myself cumming, but my girl cumming first. I wouldn't focus on my dick feeling sensitive as fuck, just stare at the body I was fucking and playing with that Shit watching it moan and bounce. It's pretty great when you can actually enjoy it and not worry. I personally think it's all mental and you're too worried about it making it the biggest issue and focus. If it's truly just sensitivity for you disregard all my advice and take my luck.
When you squeeze your dick really hard, it slows your ejaculation sorta. Maybe try that?
>>37960773
you should only feel bad if you valued his friendship. If not, fuck it.
>>37960773
Depends on how much you value your friend vs pussy.
>>37961279
>>37961396
>>37961416
I value his friendship highly, but should my friend really expect me to turn down a cute girl simply because he likes her? It isnt as though they had a relationship in real life.
I mean it is an issue bros, my buddy is pretty insecure and I'm worried that this will make him feel even more insecure. What do?
>>37961487
if he expects you to turn a girl down just because he jerks it to her then you are retarded to do it
>>37957503
I do smoke a socially sometimes with the people I live with but not as much as I used to. Also just started a new work schedule so that could have something to do with it.
Gonna drop the smokes and up the cardio and I think that'll help
>>37961487
I'd say bros before hoes.
You can get pussy elsewhere.
And yeah, your friend is cleary insecure about this and hurting.
Could be that he still has feelings for the girl and wasn't only thinking about plowing her ass.
So in this regard, you're about to have fun with something he cares about and that's why it hurts him.
Really, you can get pussy elsewhere anon, and rejecting this hoe might even feel good.
And if she feels rejected, she might give your friend a chance DESU.
So you can actually nail two birds with one stone.
Why'd you hurt your bro for a piece of pussy man?
>>37939432
Wouldnt be able to use them without humming CYE's theme song and thinking about Cheryl's numb cunt
>>37961487
It's not really your fault that she doesn't like your friend or that he hasn't made a move.
But unless you actually want a relationship with her, I wouldn't use her for a quick fuck when your friend is into her.
Even if your friend never goes for her, you can get pussy elsewhere without making your friend feel bad.
>>37939384
This, though it's hard with a condom because you lose a bit of hardness and it gets all slippery from the jiz. I go raw with my gf and can keep going so long as by slug stays inside her. If it slips out, usually it's not hard enough and it's like trying to feed rope into her.
>>37940197
My girlfriend does this too, sometimes it's a bit off putting when I'm trying to fuck and she wants to be slapped and choked but not to hard etc. definitely get her to eat your ass though, it feels so good. I usually sit on her face so she can tongue my ass and balls while I nut on her forehead. It's godly.
