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>Doesn't matter what I do she doesn't want me back.
Atleast i got the gym and the barbell.
What do to forget your ex, brehs? It really fucks with my mental gains.
>>37855241
I spent 5 years with her, she lived with me for the last 2 before leaving.
It's been just over a year. Nothing helps. Just deal with it. I lift. I drink. I work. Can't wait to die one day.
>>37855241
same boat breh.
I'm gonna stay single for the rest of my life. Not going through this shit ever again.
fuck
>>37855330
Same brah. I feel like I'm gonna die alone... but its okay... after I die it's gonna be alright.
>H-hold me
>>37855241
Threaten to kill yourself if she doesn't take you back Kill yourself
>>37855241
Imagine she's pregnant. It's called the Lolita Ending. Because sooner or later she will be and you'll move on, so you might as well cut your wait time.
Its been 9 years since I last saw her she was my first real love and no one since has ever come close to her. Drinking shots in bed, playing video games, watching cartoons having sex all the time, go out and every guy is jelly that I have her but unfortunately that last one lead me to become extremely jealous and she left. 9 years after we last saw each other and there hasnt been a day since that I dont think about her.
She hated muscle men and she married a 120lb weakling so she wouldnt like me now but I still miss her.
>>37855377
I wish she would be pregnant by me with me by her side. I miss her so much. She's the kind of girl you would marry and spend the rest of your life with.
Bruh its okay, I'm on the same boat but I'm lifting for myself now, not some dumb no-ass bitch.
We gonna make it bruh
Move on and meet another girl you fucking faggot
You don't. You carry that shit with you and it just eventually fades, not completely, It'll always be there, but that strong feeling of sadness will fade. You have to accept that for whatever reason she left, she won't change her mind and there's nothing you can do about it. Lifting won't make her realize "Man I really messed up huh?" because she's just looking at your body not you. You have to look around you and see that each and every one of those women can be a potential mate, you just have to make the effort to see that in them. Of course you don't have to move on quickly, you need time to heal and let that feeling fade, and when it does you try again and again until you find someone better, who cares about you. Here's a bear. Bears make me happy.
>>37855408
Tough shit brah. Keep your eyes open though.
>>37855436
I can't man. Doesn't matter if I fuck a slut or not. If that slut says she loves me. I will never find a girl like my ex again. With someone I can be full autismo with and watch cartoons n shit together. Life is sad.
>>37855412
>I wish she would be pregnant
Kill yourself senpai.
>>37855330
Have you tried to meet new people? Cut all contact forever with the ex and meet a new qt. Its not easy nor fun but eventually you get over it.
>>37855241
You could stop being a bitch
>>>/r9k/
>>37855486
Why don't you wanna fullfill your natural purpose, anon?
>>37855521
You are complaining and whining about a girl who dumped you. You have 0 dignity for yourself I can see why it didn't work out and will probably never work out .
Also remove yourself from the gene pool you needy fuck.
>>37855241
>>37855241
How beta can one become?
I just think about how she told that "we are always going to be together Anon", then, after she dump me, when she messaged me "don't talk to me ever again" and now she is probably getting fucked by some dude and telling him it's the best sex of her life. You can't be sad when you are full of hatred, luckily I feel how the feelings are fading away which is good because when this nightmare started I almost lose my mind.
>>37855466
Thanks for the bear
>>37855241
>tfw girl I'm dating turned into my little sister because I'm afraid to touch her
First gf and first person I truly loved. We were together for a year and it was the best year of my life. I had to leave her to study abroad. She wanted to do an ldr but I knew that wasn't going to work and cut it off completely. She was devastated and I felt like shit.
Fast forward a few months, I thought I was over her. I think about her every other day but it's not so bad. 10 min ago her snap story shows her getting drunk for her 21st. All the feels came rushing back /fit/. Holy shit, it feels like everything that I've done to forget her has been useless. I know I should've deleted her snap but I couldn't do it, I wanted to know how she was doing. It's too late for regret now though. The feels are here to stay...
Thankfully, It's deadlift day today. All I do is lift the shit out of that fucking barbell but I know I will feel better afterwards.
>>37855412
are you some sort of gay
>>37855241
Time fixes everything. Everyday you will feel a little bit better,
Concentrate on getting through each day, then, each time you wake up, it'll be a little bit better... until it hurts no longer.
Once the pain is completely gone, it'll seem funny to look back an remember how silly you were acting (even though it didn't feel silly at the chem) and will take teh vow that I did: NEVER WASTE TIME.
Get your mind off of her by improving yourself; whatever that might mean. Concentrate on school, learning, self-improvement, travel, promotions... whatever.
Don't waste your time wallowing in your shit. Rise above it and you'll forever look back at that time in your life and be happy that you made the most of it.
You. Will. Make. It.
>>37855241
>>37855330
>>37855365
You don't have to change your body or your actions or habits. its all about changing your perspective. Theres the way you look at things then theres the objective reality of situations. She wasnt your soul mate, you weren't star crossed lovers you can live happy without her. If you had never met her she would be just another faceless nobody who you wanted to sling yogurt into. look for happiness in a new place, don't worry about where you last had it. I love you guys, we're all gonna make it.
>>37855241
at least you have a fucking ex
try being a former fatass who lost 100 lbs but even though you are fit as fuck now, you are bitter from all the years of being ignored, that you cant even look at girls without being angry.
it could be worse, OP.
>>37856263
>10 min ago her snap story shows her getting drunk for her 21st.
The bottle is not the only thing she put in her mouth Anon.
>tfw my boyfriend left me for a landwhale manchild who manipulated a 14 y/o into sex
>mfw my ex started dating a guy who's noticeably uglier and chunkier than me (I was a skelebones back then, now ottermode)
>only dating him because his sister is loaded and he likes the same childish hobbies as her
>he ended up distancing her from her friends
I'm not even mad. Looking back, I'm surprised I could stand her as long as I did.
>>37856314
I can cure these feels for you. Find a girl to date, not marriage material in the slightest. Date her for 6 months max. Break up. Now you have real experience and you can move on with your life.
>>37856458
>find a girl to date
sure ill snap my fingers and she will magically appear
meeting people after you are done school is impossible, and I only got fit after school was done
>>37856471
Dude sluts are everywhere. Stop being a bitch.
>tfw no kazakh pro volleyball gf
>>37856494
if it was that easy r9k wouldnt exist
>>37855330
Honestly the trick to forgetting about someone is to
1. Accept that it will never happen
2. Realize that you are worth more than they are. Realize that they are missing out on one of the most unique people ever. Find whats unique about yourself that no other guy has and realize that she wont be able to have access to that anymore. Feel like beyonce actually lol
3. Look foward to giving the next girl those benefits and realize that youll feel the same way towards her. Always be curious about who that person may be, what they look like, and their personality.
Some of those twitter quote accounts is a good start
Usually 2 and 3 lead into 1 and itll transition from her thats not giving you a chance to you not giving her that chance So if she tries and comes back then you can say no chance gg
>>37856501
Is anyone else seeing the kinesiology tape on her leg...would fuck.
>>37855241
Fucking grow up you whiny piece of shit
>some bitch dumps you
so fucking what? Were you going to make babies with her or something? Fucking hell go find some other bimbo at a bar and bang the shit out of her and fucking GET OVER IT so we don't have to endure your whining shit threads
>>37856501
she hot
>>37856314
I disagree, having someone who loved you, and you loved back, disappear from your life is truly one of the worst pain humans can experience.
Just found out, gf of half a year probably just cheated on me while she told she was going to sleep, she actually went out drinking with a friend. I fucking hate her, /fit/. I hate her for making me now stop trusting her at all, things were going so good so far. But I guess if she's like this it was just a matter of time for it to show up. Fucking hell im so mad right now.
I was Young and I loved.
Just Focus on breathing, also what really worked for me was a heavy punching bag and guidance on how to do this and that.
Now I just fuck them, they get old I get young.
Bad advice but that's my heart.
Fuck them all as hard as the first one fucked Me.
>>37859179
how did you find out?
when did you find out? what did you say to her
when you found out?
Someties the heaviest thing we lift in life are our feelz ...
>>37855241
>knowing she'll never be able to forget me because I took her virginity
Music for this feel?
We've known each other since we were kids, we exchanged our ID slings back in highschool when we started dating, we were doing great in college. We got in a fight for no reason, she broke up with me, then wanted me back a week later. I was full of shit and let my pride get the best of me and told her to fuck off.
I'm 22 now, stable job, great gains, and I'm still using the same sling she gave me.
Gets heavier everyday I'm telling you.
>>37859231
>She went on a vacation alone with one of her girl friends.
>Yesterday she told me around night that she was super tired and that she probably would just get to the hotel and go to sleep.
>Around 5 am today I get a voice message from her friend telling me my gf is pretty drunk and blah blah blah and that she wants to sleep now even though it's super early and that she's so boring.
I mean, the fact that she drank does not bother me at all. It's the fact that she told me she was going to do something and she did not. Also the fact that she is underage so I'm wondering how did she get the alcohol, which makes me think she has been meeting people, something she has not told me. So now because of this it is kind of hard to believe that when she tells me something, that thing is actually true.
>I haven't spoken to her yet.
Am I over reacting and being a little insecure perhaps?
>>37859574
>>37859231
Sorry this was meant to
>>37859309
>>37855330
>>37855365
>>37855241
>>37855367
do women feel sad and empty like we do after breakups?
i imagine they do for a short period of time before jumping back on the cock carousel. but there has be some sort of lingering sadness deep down, r-right?
This weekend there is a festival that everyone in my city will go to, but I have no one to go with.
>>37859574
Yeah that's some bullshit. It might be that the decision to drink happened after she had spoken to you though, but that's for you to find out.
Is her friend old enough to buy booze? If she's not you can ask who bought it, and if she doesn't answer you it's most likely a dude, because she wouldn't mind saying a girl bought it for her.
>>37859766
Did she break up with your because you consider women to be some weird alien being that feeds on cocks instead of human, you fucking mongoloid?
>>37856263
Stay strong
I was with my ex for 5 years. It took another 2 to get over it. What made me progress? It was strange, one day I woke up and the sinking feeling in my chest was gone. I laid in silence and couldn't feel that crushing weight any more. So I kept working on bettering myself and eventually met someone way better. We've been together for 3 years now. Meeting someone better makes you forget about your ex really quick. But DO take time off for yourself first.
>>37859766
>do women feel sad and empty like we do after breakups?
In a majority of cases girls emotionally move on while in the relationship and only dump their bf after they found a new one (called monkeybranching)
If a girl does get dumped she feels rejected but its not the same rejection guys feel because she has her girlfriends who support her and maybe a few beta orbiters aswell
Then when she is done feeling sorry for herself she goes out and finds herself a new guy to fuck
Move on guys. I know it's easy to say, but you have to. It is the only way through this.
Take some time. Write down the things you want to do, whether small or big, and go do them. Spend a month doing that. After a while the feelings will feel dull and you'll be healed. Then you are ready for another relationship
>>37859817
>he thinks women don't feed on cocks
>>37859875
>Write down the things you want to do
The only thing i wanted to do was fuck other girls and find a new gf
Thats still on my list after a goddamn year and its making me feel worse
bad tip is bad
>>37859817
Spotted the happy cuck
>>37859179
Dump her ass now bro, do it over atext, call, whatever. In all my experiences, where theres smoke theres fire.
Rhn nigga run.
>>37859560
Dodged a bullet senpai. Chanxes are she tried getting woth anoyher dude and it failed. Chick was the incarnation of hypergamy. When she couldnt swimg up to another branch she came falling back to you.
You saved yourself.
>>37855241
sorry to say but you won't forget about her until you get someone else. good luck m8
>>37856646
>I never had a serious relationship
thx for letting us know
>>37855466
bears are good and all, and dubs, dubs are great but what if the feeling never goes away? my first gf left like 3 or 4 months ago, I can't even remember, it's all a blur. I shudder every time I read something that was written by a guy that 9 years later still has feelings for his ex gf.
what the fuck man, I don't want to end up like that
>>37859766
seriously. do women not have souls, or feelings? what the fuck. why does it seem like guys take this shit way harder than girls?
she was perfect and i fucked up. she was literally everything i wanted. nothing even comes close. now i just chase my dream of becoming the best soccer player in the world just so i can see her again
>kind of want to greentext about my breakup
>realise it's a waste of time, will only make me feel worse, and it's stupid to rant about relationships online
>>37860095
i k t f
it's really hard to deal with this
>>37860102
>finally get to a point where I can last 2 months without talking to my ex or checking her facebook
>she fucking texts me
she always does this whenever she's down, like when she's in pain over a surgery she had, or something.
IF YOU FEEL SO BAD AND GUILTY ABOUT LEAVING ME, THEN YOU SHOULDN'T HAVE DONE IN THE FIRST PLACE
I swear she only talks to me to feel better about herself. But I always reply cause I might want to get back together one day.
Fucking die in my sleep already
>>37859429
>tfw took each other's virginities but she still left you.
wtf, redpill? I thought you said bitches that have had 50+ partners can't form strong bonds but this little girl that never touched a dick in her life(or so she told me) ended it over some stupid shit?
>>37859773
fucking sucks, man.
my best friend moved away. now i have no one to do stuff with. how do i meet new friends, then?
>>37859429
she'll forget all about it once she gets blacked
>>37860095
>>37860102
+1 for them feelirnos. pls kill me
>>37856263
you did the right thing. I tried ldr and instead of wasting 1 year of my youth I ended up wasting 3.
>once chance at life
>born a WMAF happa
>>37856314
you dont know shit, i was like you at one stage of my life and that sadness is nothing compared to truly loving someone and having to cut them out of your life because they no longer feel the same about you, it's about as bad as a loved one dying, except you know they are alive and well getting with other guys and making new memories without you.
>>37860192
>This
If I knew it would hurt so much I would have stayed a kissless virgin
How do i convince myself that im worthy of love, bruhs?
>>37860145
absolutely no idea. I study in a different town and have a good social circle there, but when I am back in my hometown its not that good. I have a few friends, who I mostly just smoke weed with once in a while. One day I will move back to my hometown, but then I will be a complete loner. And if I get a girlfriend and we want to settle down in my hometown, then I am only going to have these weirdo drug dudes to show her.
Worst part is that I can't expand it/maintain it since I am only here a few times in the year.
>>37860210
I'm with my first current gf for 3 years now and it has been a little rocky recently, part of me is incredibly anxious about us ending one day and i fear i will be broken after that, it seems so unlikely that my first will be the one i'm with forever, its almost as if im feeling some break up sadness pre-emptively because i fear the worst.
You guys atleast dated and fucked the girl you're missing.
I literally fell so fucking hard for her, after a bit of going forward and backward I finally went all out and striked out completely, saw her making out with another guy that night.
I didn't sleep at all that night, only slept next night because I was so tired and then 3rd night again I couldn't sleep, just kept rolling in my bed.
It's been 5 months, and I'm only just now starting to forget.
Yes, I'm that pathetic
>>37855412
>and spend the rest of your life with.
lmao you won't even get to spend another minute with her
>>37860337
it would be worse for you if you developed any sort of relationship with her. it sounds dumb.
>>37860337
Do you have someone in your life you can tell this too?
If not, we're here for you. I'm sure you gonna make it, hang tight!
I think all those feels are so heavy because we have to lift them alone. Let's change that!
>>37860260
You attract what you fear
Anon, compose yourself. Trust me. You will begin to show weakness and insecurity consciously or not, and she will pick up on it. Itll drive you two apart. I recommend watching Corey Wayne on youtube. Theres a lot of material he talks about when shes going cold. Hope for the best brah
>>37855330
>can't wait to die one day
It really fucking hurts friend, the moment i dont have something to occupy myself with i start thinking of her
>>37859807
I thought about that and in the moment I got the voice message I decided to shut down everything I was thinking and gave her the benefit of the doubt, so I didn't say anything I might regret afterwards. Her friend is underage too, so definetly it was someone else that gave them the alcohol.
6 months is a very short time to be dating someone but in all that time she never gave me a most small reason to think she might cheat on me.
>>37859998
I thought I found my qt German gf brah, feels bad
>>37855330
>falling for the female jew
It's like you don't even wanna make it
For all the sad cunts here, if you want to get over a girl, just go out and meet other girls. Use every mean you have, at school, at parties with friends, even tinder. But the most important thing you must realize is that eventually you'll get over it and you'll meet someone new that will make you forget everything about past bitches. Fucking hell don't let emotions run you, you are not women.
I'm turning 28 this year and have never had a gf. You guys have nothing to complain about. You don't understand the crushing loneliness I feel during the night or when I wake up. Every time a girl rejects me it makes me doubt whether or not I am even worthy of a girl liking me or even capable of having a gf. I'm trying to make changes but I have no friends so it's nearly impossible. I don't know if I even want a large group of friends, I much rather prefer getting to know and bond with one or two people.
>>37860175
You motherfuckers are pathetic. Millions of years of evolution and you spend your years in this magnificent, wonderful and amazing world full of wonders sulking because of some slut that bangs chad on the daily basis? Fuck you.
>>37861618
nah breh you are full of worth familia. women literally are subhuman cocksuckers 2bh they're only good for sex and labour in the household fucking their soft body and ejaculatng in them is their only purpose theres nothing to worry about them persuade yourself that your fuckable and then go out talk to them look them in their eyes and s m i l e thats really important
>>37859766
Bf and I of 2.5 years just split a month ago after living together for a year. Yes we do feel deep sadness, but most women don't internalize the sadness or learn from their mistakes because they have 10 other satellite dicks ready to pounce. So instead of being sad they just distract themselves. I'm sure some men do this as well, but they aren't the ones sitting in a thread crying about their broken hearts. For me, I just focus on school or working out, any other alone time I put on a movie. Otherwise I sit here and wallow that I'll never meet anyone as good again, which statistically isn't true. Plus the relationship was not ideal anyway, so I should appreciate that I'm not wasting any more effort trying to fix something that can't be fixed. It'll get better.
>>37861970
do you happen to live in the city of L O N D O N ?
>>37861970
>It'll get better.
>because they have 10 other satellite dicks ready to pounce
I agree, these two are related
For guys, we dont have this. There arent tons of chicks willing to comfort us with vaginal hugs when we get brokenhearted
>>37858686
Fuck off. Do you know how absolutely soul-crushing it is to go your entire life without ever experiencing any kind of intimacy?
>>37862106
>Do you know how absolutely soul-crushing it is to go your entire life without ever experiencing any kind of intimacy?
No, and you don't either because you'r not dead. We were all fucking single once so we get it. You, however, can never get how soul crushing it is to lose someone who you love and who loved you. Fuck you.
>>37862072
Exactly. But for those of us who don't, it sucks replacing your old priority of talking/hanging with your SO every day to nothing, seemingly. So naturally you just fester in sadness and want to go back to that comfort of talking to someone, ESPECIALLY now that you have all these heavy feelings. But, I bought headphones, and zoned out listening to music for two weeks. Now I am getting back into cooking and socializing, things I couldn't do before cuz ex didn't like it. Just appreciating my freedom and how lucky I am to have all the opportunities I do. Trying not to blame/be angry at ex and instead focusing on my own mentalities. Small steps. We will all make it.
>>37862440
Its been a year and im no closer to getting what i want out of life and every time i stop and think about it i cant help but feel like the best part of life is behind me
I aint angry at my ex but i sure as fuck wish i could find a new gf
>>37858686
You naive idiot.
>Nipples tingling all the time
>Not sure if gyno is going away or getting worse
If you stupid fucks hate being alone with yourselves so much, why are you surprise when someone else doesn't want to be in your company either? If you hate yourselves and your lives so much, it's your responsibility to figure out how to course correct. It's no one's job to fix you.
>>37862545
I hate this so goddamn much
If i had a girl i could date id do lots of shit with her, hell just watching a movie that turns into sex is great
Being single sucks because you cant do these things, its fucking retarded to say you must be comfortable alone to get a girl
>>37855241
Who /goodfeels/ here?
>saw woman dragging a bench at the gym
>decide to not be an autist and offer help
>later hit a front squat PR
>got dog to put on a muzzle that night(she is always a bit of a cunt when it comes to muzzles but i figured out a way to get her to comply)
>be fat as hell
>lose weight
>will have a floppy skin body and be too ugly to ever pursue a relationship
>tfw you will never be even remotely comfortable in your own skin
>Meet this girl online last November
>Hit it off, it's great
>She tells me that she's spending a year studying abroad in Europe
>So we meet the night before she leaves
>It was great, etc.
>She tells me she wants to continue this when she gets back
>First couple months while she's away is great
>Can tell she is really into me(She even tells me) and I start developing major feelings for her
>Then she starts to get distant, and I get a little worried
>Ask her if she still wants this when she gets back and she says yes
>She posts pics of her with guys(Could be platonic, w/e)
>Fast forward to now
>She is blatantly ignoring my messages(Since 4th of July)
>I am really stressing over this
>I have feelings for this girl that I haven't ever had for someone, and it pisses me off
>Can't eat, can't sleep, spend all day thinking about her
>Snapchat her asking her to call me
>Opens it, Doesn't respond
>Message her on facebook saying "Look, we talked for 8 months, the least I deserve is an explanation"
>She tells me that I don't own her and I made this bigger than what it actually is
>She said that she knows what romanticizing stuff does to a person, and that's why she stops herself from caring too much because she always gets hurt from it
>Tell her that she doesn't have to worry about that with me, these feelings are so new to me that I'm not experienced enough to break someone's heart
>I tell her that telling me she wants to keep things going and then ignoring me, is a mixed signal
>"It just makes me feel like you don't give a shit anymore. And maybe you don't, but you gotta be straight up with me."
>"I don't give a shit"
>"About me, right"
>"Yup"
That one fucking hurts brehs. First girl I had strong feelings for and she told me that to my face.
She told me that she is perfectly okay with hanging with me as friends when she gets back, and seeing where it goes. But she's not okay with me expecting things from her(Like constant communication and if she's with other guys).
Cont
>>37862722
I want to be mad at her guys. But she's right. I did romanticize and it was worng for me to expect shit out of her, when we are literally nothing. We hung out once and she hasn't seen me in 8 months.
I want to forget about her, but I saw that gushy, emotional side of her. I know it's there. She is just protecting herself by pushing me away.
I want to see her when she gets back, so that I an get that side of her back again.
I feel like such a fucking chump. But, my gut is telling me to try when she gets back. Not hard though, no expectations.
>>37862756
Im so fucking sorry for you bro, that shit really fucking hurts
Christ girls suck major ass
>>37862722
>>37862756
Our generation is kind of retarded. There's no such thing as a relationship anymore really. You just have friendships with girls that sometimes (often) involve sex.
You can have as many "friendships" as you want if that helps. In fact always be on the lookout for more girls, if you try to keep only one you will be lonely. It's just how shit works. Can't be helped.
Don't feel to bad/cucked, she was romantically interested in you, but she kind of expected you to move on to without telling her, that way if she gets back and you're both alone you can keep it going.
>>37862795
Thank you man. That shit pierced my heart.
And, I am mad at how she was heartless as fuck like that, but maybe I needed it. And like I said, I want to be mad at her, but everything she said was right.
Would I be stupid for hanging out with her when she gets back? Just as friends, no ass kissing or any of that shit. I just miss her so much man. I can't wait to hug her.
But I'm not even in a relationship with her, so I feel like my feelings are invalid.
>>37862836
That makes a lot of sense dude.
She even told me, "I thought if I ignore you, you'd just forget about me which is desu the best thing you can do for yourself right now before you get hurt"
Fuck, so I get it now. I was being clingy and weird, while she was out in Europe having fun and shit. It's just timing I guess. But would I be a beta bitch for trying again when she gets back?
>>37855241
Every female ive had a thing for has ended up fucking me over.
I don't like women.
I wish I was gay.
Unfortunally im not so ive still got to put up with them.
>>37862850
>But I'm not even in a relationship with her, so I feel like my feelings are invalid.
They arent invalid, you feel for this girl because its what guys do. We fall in love with girls.
Id say be careful, meeting her may cause you to feel worse about yourself because you know what she is and how she is
She wont change, never ever believe she will because she may act diffrent but she is the same
Take care of yourself friend, do things you want to do and find happiness
>>37855241
you guys are pathetic. look, 7 odd billion people on the face of the planet, you're delusional and wallowing if you don't think you'll eventually meet someone.
The trick is to not be broken and pathetic when you do. Give it some time, it'll be okay.
>>37862598
I'll join ya man, lots of /goodfeels/ lately despite a bad breakup in April.
>Feel incredible after eating correctly for the past two months, so much energy and confidence every waking day now
>Am ~5 lbs away from my current weight goal, started at +12 (175 target)
>Am able to run almost 3 miles every other day, started at 1. Progressing
>Visibly noticing definition and muscle mass gains in the mirror every week, loving the way I'm looking more thanks to diet + gym
>Dat feel when you now have complete neuromuscular control and are actually seeing results after putting in hard work *bounces pecs for first time*
>New qt3.14 at work and I have been hitting it off great past week after getting her #, she's my type of girl and wants to come over blaze and fuck tonight (her words). That feel when she came onto me not the other way around
To the OP, shit is going to get better dude you're in a funk. I was in a funk for a bit too but now I'm bouncing right back on them bitches like magic.
>>37862888
>But would I be a beta bitch for trying again when she gets back?
Not at all, but ONLY if you are also going out regularly trying to meet other girls. By the time she comes back you might actually only want her as a friend and by that time she might be single etc. It really doesn't matter. Just stop obsessing over it.
>>37862722
Wait you met her online and seen her once wow.. How the fuck did you expect to keep interest over a year through text and you haven't even fucked her yet? You scared her off, you obviously became a needy bitch and plus chicks you meet online are usually crazy the good ones dont need to go online to meet guys. Plus shes living abroad, what would you be doing if you had that opportunity and wearnt being such a bitch? You'd be out chasing poon Chin up get over it stop being such a chick.
Man this place is full of sad cunts.
>>37862892
Yeah, I get that. I've never been touched by heartbreak before(Since I've never felt so strongly for a girl) so I'm coming into this pretty ignorant.
My goal right now, is to lift, take care of my skin, get into my hobbies(Hiking, camping) and when she gets back I can show her what she is missing. It sounds pathetic, but it is kind of therapeutic for me.
>>37862956
Yes i know, I'm fucking pathetic. Which is why I acknowledge that I was in the wrong, and everything she said was right. It just hurt, I guess.
>>37862951
Duly noted.
I don't have many friends, and people to talk to about heavy things, and I really appreciate you guys being here.
I've only been here for a couple months, but /fit/ is a great place. I love you all.
>>37855372
That's the biggest pussy drier of them all. It's not like I'm guilty of it. Shit, ok I am, but I didn't say it explicitly, lol. And I was young and stupid.
Anyway, after saying something "i don't know hwat i'll do" she treated me like I was worse than a bug.
Still, it was a good thing, because she was fucking crazy.
>>37856197
Underrated post
Turn that sadness into hatred and you'll get over that girl really quickly.
>>37862974
>It sounds pathetic, but it is kind of therapeutic for me.
Im gonna level with you, she wont ever "realize" her mistake. She wont ever see you as something good no matter how far you go.
Embrace this and ignore it, fight as fucking hard as you can to improve life for your own sake. Live your own life and do things YOU want.
One day you will look at her and you can never ever imagine being with her, she wont externalize any feelings for you but its a great way to cope
Dont worry about being pathetic on 4chan, most faggots here arent in any position to judge but swallow that shit when youre out IRL mate, trust me
>>37862994
Fuck off nigger. I shit on you and your lousy life.
>>37855241
Personal trainers mix work and gains. Then have the endurance to pipe their gf right and can still spend time with her, especially if they move in together.
>>37862974
Mate we have all been there live and learn. It wont be the last time you go through this but learn from it, my advice delete her contact info else youll be just digging yourself deeper stalking her shit getting more depressed when shes not giving a fuck out having fun. Go attempt to meet chicks irl. Even if you dont no how its all a learning experience that will make you better in the long run.
>>37863023
Can confirm, talked to alot of girls online back in the day and oh boy they were cruel as fuck to guys who threatened with suicide
Sure they reacted if they thought it was real but damn did they laugh afterward at them
>>37856512
It IS that easy, r9k is just a bunch of children who sit at home all day and have nothing going on in their life.
If you never try, you'll never succeed.
>>37856378
did you turn your boyfriend gay or are you gay?
>>37860154
Well, yeah, rape overshadows a lot of things.
>>37859429
Top kek if you believe this
A bunch of girls regret having lost their virginity to the dude they fucked first
>>37863027
Fuck. But she did see me as something good before. So it's impossible for her to see me in that light ever again?
An excerpt from one of her texts in January:
>"Well duh, I wanna see you a million times when I get back, I mean, don't tell anyone but I kinda have a really big crush on u<3333"
Dammit. These feels are heavy guys. Oh well, I must heed your advice and forget about her.
>>37863044
Very true. I considered doing that(I have her fb, instagram, and snapchat) but I decided against it bc I need to learn self control to not pry into her life, and because I wanted her to see me having fun and being with other girls. Maybe she'll miss me then. God I'm so fucking pathetic.
>>37856378
what are you fucking gay?
>>37862578
It's not retarded. If having a relationship is the only thing in your life that can make you happy, you have some serious issues you need to address m8
>tfw i will never have an attractive woman love me because i am a genetically inferior male
>>37862756
>But she's right
No she's not that fucking cunt. Making you hopes and then dropping you is shit. Sure you two weren't together, but going all lovey dovey and then saying I don't owe you a thing is so immature. You don't tell people they are this and that to you and then just drop them. Next time you want a girl to be yours tell her.
>>37863168
>An excerpt from one of her texts in January:
Look mate, i had a huge crush on a girl and last year i had sex with her. Twice. last time was a proper date and you know what she said during this time?
When we were fucking she said she wanted to do this all week, she wanted to meet after work and have me sleep over.
During dinner she wanted to go on vacation with me, we were sitting on her couch later looking at good spots
She sent a snap to her friend bragging with the text "Look what i got at home :P" of us when she was sitting in my arms on the couch watching a movie
She wanted to give me her necklace, to keep me coming back(i didnt take it, she got it from her brother)
you know what happened after all these sweet things were said and done?
I sent a message on FB to her, didnt get a reply and while out with friends i see her making out with another guy
We werent together but fuck it hurt and my point is girls say one thing and they truly, deeply mean it but then they change their mind
Kind of like how you think a girl is hot and wanna fuck her but then you jack off and realize she wasnt hot at all? girls are like that but just generally
A few month ago i forgot her name.
I can vividly recall everything that has happened between us, but i forgot her name.
It made me happy, until i dug up some files in my external HDD and realized that i kept some of her pictures.
I think life got kept me busy enough so i'd focus on other things, I came back to the fatherland, had to deal with quitting one job without a safety net, dying dad, months of unemployment, stress and depression, finding a career path, finding a school and a job to support that, finding a new gf, changing eating habits, get my but to work and exercise, etc..etc..
Now i'm dropping weight, i have a school, a job and a plan for 5 years, i have a new gf, i have 10 thousand things to do because i came back from overseas with next to nothing.
We are all going make it, forgetting her name was a huge step for me, just get busy, it'll come along many rewards OP.
>>37863237
>>37863264
I guess this was my first real brush with how hurtful women can be.
>>37863223
Its not about hating being alone, its about knowing you arent as happy as you could be
I can watch a movie alone, watch series alone, go out alone, go bowling alone and go to the beach alone but id rather do it with a girl i like
having a loving girl makes things better
>>37862106
Don't bother anon, socially well adjusted people will never understand.
>>37859574
>>Am I over reacting and being a little insecure perhaps?
m8 she fucking lied to you.
>>37863304
where the hell are your friends man?
>>37863403
>socially well adjusted people will never understand.
now take a guess at what you sorry fuckers should be aiming for
>>37863530
We don't enjoy being social lepers. We do make active attempts to improve our social skills. It may come naturally for you but not for everyone.
>>37863515
Some moved away, some stayed
Point was i cant cuddle or be affectionate with friends
>>37855241
you forget beloved ones by finding new love
>>37863574
it's not about enjoying it, it's about getting used to it. because when you do, it feels natural. simple as that.
pic retarded but kinda related
Bf closed himself of and slipped into a dark place. He broke up with me and made me look like the enemy in his head. I love him so fucking much, it feels as if someone dear to me was murdered. I just want to help him get out of his confusion and fix his relationships with himself, his family and friends. Years of amazing connection and he got scared and hid away.
>be me
>1.5 years since last GF (2 year relationship)
>tfw cuddling
>tfw she sits on your lap
>tfw you carry her to bed
>tfw even with the spark gone you still have moments where it's like you're dating again
>tfw cooking for her
i don't know where i'm going with this i just wish i had a gf again
>>37864544
This. :(
>>37859877
Honestly this fampai, in middle school i had no clue women were the most rotten race to ever co-exist with another and in this day an age have the gull to say men are the problem.
I hope women get sent off to colonize and in time inevitably fuck everything up, but beta orbit and nu-males enable the worst for these cunts to red carpet everything in their entitled lives.
>be on party
>have a nice talk with a several grills
>one of them is particularly interesting
>she is really qt 3.14, we have good connection it seems
>we laugh at all the grills are falling for that 6'3 blond handsome guy
>moments later he asks her to dance with him
>wtf, she saw how he was obviously going for her busty friend moment ago
>nothing matters
>shes dancing with him gor one hour or so
>forever beta
>kill ke pls
>>37864950
Hold me brother /sister
>>37855241
>Go clubbing w/ your friends
>Rub your dick against some HB8 for 5 mins
>...
>PROFIT!
You don't even have to drink lest you fuck up your macros
>>37865611
>>37865707
You should read this too...
Just got out of my first "real" relationship of two years with her.
Every day gets fucking worse. We're still talking everyday because we want to stay good friends and fuck me if it doesn't kill me to know she's already seeing other guys. I love her so fucking much and I have no idea what to do.
No hobbies, so the only thing that makes me feel okay is lifting which I do almost every fucking day.
Not gonna make it brehs
>>37862951
Fuck what this guy >>37862951 just said, yes.
You want a redder answer?
You'd only be enabling her whore/cunt behavior even further.
Women arn't looking to be saved till they've played out every avenue and only look for commitment only when the chips get low enough.
Just proceed brother, maybe someday there will be a good girl but definitely now ain't the time.
>>37855241
Stop being a pussy and hate her and hate whatever faggot she's dating. It's not hard op the hate will keep you alive
>>37865717
You're fucking retarded for staying friends.
>>37855466
Thanks for the bear senpai 3> (I can't type the backwards 3)
>>37865779
Genuinely curious- we ended everything on good terms, like extremely good terms. Why wouldn't it be okay to stay friends?
>>37865815
Because its going to fuck you up when you see her happy without you.
Still in a relationship but no sex in 3 months. She just lost interest. Im going to kill myself soon. I have nobody to talk to apart from her. If you're reading this, you're the only people that know.
>>37865822
You're right. Most likely going to keep this a temporary thing anyways.
It's been a month and I'm realizing fuck that shit, I would much rather not be involved in anything she's doing.
>>37865717
>Just got out of my first "real" relationship of two years with her.
My condolences.
>No hobbies.
Easy mode then.
I always recommend playing an instrument.
I can personally vouch for buying a drumset.
Being in control of the tempo and playing on time gives you the control you crave.
Plus it's a lot of fun.
>>37855241
You don't want her back. You need to get ahold of your self on this. Fuck her and whatever she's done to you is nothing to the happened you will get with a partner who sati actually loves you.
>Get to know I guy I think is really cute
>first date rolls around and he's a terrible kisser
>just fucking awful
>tell him the next day I didn't feel the earth stop moving and didn't want to see him again delete his number
fuck
>>37863168
Remove her on fb, ig, and snapchat, and delete those texts. It's for the best, and you don't want to get stuck in the past with a bitch like that.
G-guys a gril i met in a wedding called me a sweetie. This is the second time i meet her. What do?
Having a girlfriend atm is driving me insane, every day she wants to hang out, and if I don't she gets all pissy
She's in some butthurt mood at least twice a day
Everyday she goes to work she just texts me and complains
Every day she wants me to come pick her up and go do some stupid shit
Just leave me the fuck alone for 1 goddamn day, sometimes I just like to sit at home instead of going and doing all this shit and spending money
>>37866283
If she is from a state known for southern hospitality, you are looking into it too much.
Although girls get pretty thirsty when they go to weddings.
>>37866339
does she turn into a huge victim if you say no? my ex was like that too.
>>37866357
Sorta I guess, she'll ask for me to come over and I'll say I can't tonight then she just gets really short with her responses and just sulks
>>37856566
You'll make a great mom someday
>>37866344
No, it's Europe and it's not customary here.
She's a 8/10 28yo that was kind of a Stacy a few years back. She had her fair share of dicks in the past
>>37859766
>>37860088
The whole relationship game is just different for women. They are chased, while we chase. It fundamentally changes everything interaction between people in a relationship. It's not even fair to compare.
Women aren't soulless, they just have it easier post-relationship. I wish I could rip through 20 women and not even think or worry about it after a relationship, but it requires a lot of mental effort and I still need to put myself in a vulnerable position to get there. Women don't. They can rebound while keeping their emotional walls up. Men can't.
>>37856566
Th-thanks anon that was pretty great.
>>37866395
>28yo
I dunno how old you are but I don't want a girl 5 years older than me, with mileage.
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>>37860246
Lift heavier objects than other men
>>37856566
>2. Realize that you are worth more than they are. Realize that they are missing out on one of the most unique people ever. Find whats unique about yourself that no other guy has and realize that she wont be able to have access to that anymore. Feel like beyonce actually lol
This is some straight up oprah shit.
>qt girl at work always smiling at me
>finally talk to her, she's chill af
>she is a Lifeguard with a sexy little body (high test)
>always biting her lip and playing with her hair
>always gets close to me in a group
>buys me a milkshake today (gains goblin)
>I have a terrible self-image due to acne scars
>can't think why anyone would like me
>I constantly avoid mirrors because I fucking hate the way my scars look
>even though I think she likes me, I can't wrap my head around it
>doubting everything and bitch out from asking her out
Probably going to avoid her for a while. It's better that way anyways. I'm used to being alone.
>>37862756
Brotha you overplayed your hand. Girls don't want it to be that easy - they want to chase a bit. In the future, try to be a little more distant with the girls you like.
>>37866339
Sounds like a cunt, drop her before it gets to serious
>>37866491
Dude just ask her out fuck sake, if what you said happened its pretty obvious shes keen
>>37866655
and dubs an trips confirm im right
>>37866655
>>37866674
Should I ask for her number first or just ask her out first?
This thread proves that women are emotionless creatures. They don't feel anything that doesn't concern their immediate need and will forget about everything moments after. Women are cruel and despicable. They are not human.
>>37866537
Been dating for 2 years
sigh
And now she is asking me to come bring her a burrito
>>37860350
cruel but underrated
keked
>>37866995
Tell that bitch the only burrito she's getting is the one between your legs
Post results
>>37866339
maybe you need to break up anon...
when you love someone it's not like that...
>>37866698
Ask her out somewhere, and obviously you'll "need" to get her number to coordinate it
>>37866698
Don't "ask" tell/command. Ex. Come over Friday at 8 I'm making steak dinner, bring something good to drink.
Either she'll agree or say no and you've put yourself in a better light by taking control. Hell you don't even need a number. I did this once and this girl decided to play games and was running "late" hoping I'd call etc.
I didn't I started cooking when I said I was going to, after half an hour I called a buddy to come eat her steak. She showed an hour after that to find me broing out, through a his system fit so I just shut the door and kept on playing smash
>>37867037
I know, I think she gets it from her family, her other siblings who are dating go out with their significant others literally every day
Her siblings with SOs are rarely home cause they're usually out at some dumb concert in the park or at a museum, etc. Seriously every day, it's ridiculous
>>37866496
I know, fuck. It's just I never had feelings like this so it was hard t control.
Is there any way I can repair this? Maybe go out and fuck some slots and post on social media.
I forgot to say, about 2 weeks ago, when I first saw a selfie of her with some guy and then a vid of said guy singing to her, I posted a selfie with this girl I was hanging out with.
She replied to me the next morning, after ignoring me for 2 days with a selfie that said "Hey". So she still cares, but maybe I have to make her miss me?
>>37867181
No. She's done. You shouldn't try to make her miss you, you should move on.
>>37867181
Most people have made that mistake brotha. It's a valuable experience and you learn from it. Id advise against it but if youre really keen on trying to reignite something with her, Id ignore her next text and wouldnt open her next snap. Make yourself unavailable.
>>37867254
>>37867199
I'm gonna try.
I'm leading into heartbreak probably. but I'm going to fuck other girls and who knows? Maybe I might meet someone before she gets back and won't be interested in her at all if she hits me up.
>>37867343
Well good luck, man. And even if you don't find a better sloot, do not contact her.
>>37865681
I'm in the same place what should I do?
Ive been cutting since February and have started to get hit on by girls at the bar the last couple times I've gone out. But I start spilling my spaghetti after 5-10 minutes of small talk/banter. I still live with my parents but even if I had my own place I still think I sill my spaghetti. This Colombian qt3.14 told me she wanted to dance and I only know how to hold a girls hips as she grinds on my dick. It's like the longer we talk the less attractive I become. I can get laid if I'm really drunk since I'm not worried about what I'm saying and am funnier but I can't take the hangovers anymore or spend $100+ every time I go out. I need to learn how to transition past the talking and escalate things.
On a positive note everyone can make it. Two years ago I was auchwitz mode with 0 real friends, now I actually look like I lift by normie standards and have a social life.
>>37855241
Jack off every time you think of her, when your test drops, you can think about the important things. Like the gym and gains. You will make it brother
Lately it feels like I don't really have any good friends. I always had a couple real good friends and then a group of good friends, but this summer it just feels like they're always out having fun and hanging out without me. Like yesterday, I shot a text into our groupchat asking if anyone wanted to hang out and shoot the shit, nobody replies. Later I see an instagram post and they're all hanging out getting drunk and doing fun shit. As well, when I hang out with my one buddy who was pretty much my bestfriend since 8th grade (I'm two years outta school now) we just don't get along like we used too. It really bums me out. Last time I saw him was a couple weeks ago, him, another friend of mine and I went to the lake and he was kind of a dick to me the entire time.The rest of my friends all seem to have different best friends that they hang out with.
I've never been in this position before. I've always had a couple bros who I would consider my best friends, but lately it just feels like they're all finding new awesome best friends and leaving me in the dust. I don't know what the fuck to do man...
Is there a drug that is good at making you not care you are lonely?
I am a true foreveralone. I would cut off my balls if that wouldnt make me lose my gains too, cant have that. But still, I dunno what my deal is, I think I'm just ugly in the face but whatever the reason, I cant even get one decent girl to give a shit about me. So I accept this, not everyone gets to experience happiness and that is just the way of it. but how do I get away from feeling bad about it?
Or will I just be miserable until i die? i dunno, maybe castration is the answer, lost gains and all.
>>37867416
just b urself
>>37856250
That's it. Hand in your cock anon.
>>37867671
Ur a pussy m8
>>37865907
Fuck you, i literally met a chick exactly like you. How can you value personality<kissing ?
Literally, being good kisser is just matter of practice, but i guess you are bitch with high standards and only want to go out with chads who already fucked & kissed hundreds of girls before. Good luck being single mother in your 30.
>>37867462
Read Models by Mark Manson.
>>37867705
been trying for a decade. im getting old. eventually you just get tired after trying for so long plus the realization of how truly unlikely it is at this point to 'win'. it is what it is.
>>37865907
cant help but wonder how many awesome relationships never even start because of dipshit thinking like this.
>>37856263
>Her 21st
Some of you guys need to grow up and go through some things. There's hope on the other side and theres still time.
At 21, I was in the middle of a 3 year relationship that didn't work out.
At 25 I was in the middle of a 2.5 year relationship that didn't work out.
At 26, I found the woman who I want to marry, and who wants to marry me.
Sometimes its a long journey, and I know what a lot of you are going through, the pain, the catharsis, the binge drinking. But you can't just give up and be jaded. You won't be successful if you do that.
Work on developing and figuring out yourself, and don't just settle for what comes along, settle for what works with your life. But most of all, learn to accept yourself as you are and work toward who you want to be.
Because if you can't love you, who can? No one else can save or fix you, anon.
Plus, women are fucking stupid.
gf of 2 years broke up with me last week. lost our virginities together. I loved her so fucking much. She's so sweet and I wanted to be with her forever and be the only man for her. Just be her everything
But I fucked it all up guys. I straight fucked it. I let it go and she's the one who got away. I'll never forget her and the pain is so fucking intense right now. There's not a moment I don't think about her and feel the knots in my stomach.
It's been one week and she goes out with a guy on a day trip in his car. She's not like that. This isn't her. We message eachother but she doesn't want to see me in real life. I send her 10 messages and hours later i get a small reply. She says she wants to rekindle our relationship but I have to change. How can I get her back if she won't see me in real life? If she posts pics on facebook like she's having a great time with her friends at places we used to have fun at? When she's going out with a dude alone in his car?
I want to fucking die guys. I don't know what I'm going to do if I don't get her back
here's the song for this thread
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UZkVqLjGM_I
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Fuck you faggots.
I'm a 21 and a half year old kissless virgin.
I've never even been in a relationship.
I was the fat dork "that kid" archetype with very little friends until I was about 19 or 20, when I decided to stop living in mommy's basement because my family were/are toxic people who I want nothing to do with.
So the last two years, I dropped 150lbs and joined the military.
But that didn't make me happy. I still feel as fat as ever. Interacting with people in my division is a chore 90% of the time, because for my entire life people treated me like a burden, and I have literally no experience interacting with people like a regular guy. It's completely alien to me. People try to talk shit like I'm just a regular dude, and I have to stop myself from taking offense because, for the past 20 years, 90% of people(besides my small group of nerd friends) would either completely ignore me, or be bullying/making fun of/disrespecting/looking down on me. There were no in-betweens.
How the fuck am I ever going to get a >gf if I can't even interact with other humans.
I'm basically celibate, and at this point I'm starting to wonder what's the point of even trying to play catch-up when I despise 90% of people my age.
Fuck you normies. REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
>>37855241
I'm 23 and have been with my girlfriend since 17. Did I fuck up? I've only had sex with 7 people but I think I can live with that.
>tfw been on and off obsessing over oneitis for months
Fuck, I just wish I could finally get over her. Every time I'm alone she's the only girl I care about, and she has a long term boyfriend. I keep thinking about all the times we talked and I could have made a move and she'd reconsider me. I keep wishing she'll text me saying she wants to go out but I know it won't happen.
>>37867995
What the fuck did you do?
>>37868148
I was a gf-less virgin until i was 24. Now I got a qt 3.14 sleeping in my arms as i type this. Keep working at it and youll get there one day
Know that feeling. Broke up with first girlfriend mutually 2 years ago. Felt like shit, always sad but hid it from others. Just felt empty inside. Went on a couple Tinder dates that went no where. Randomly ran into ex on campus. Started talking again, few dates, officially back together since last week. Now I never want to lose her. If I lost her again I really don't know how I would handle it. I've never been able to connect with a girl before like I have with her... Feel beta for saying that but fuck it man...
>>37866339
Drop that shit m8
Plenty of girls out there who aren't fucking downer cunts like your gf
>>37855241
I just came back from a night partying. I wanted to wear a pretty tight shirt to show off my gains. Unfortunatly i also danced like an absolute madman. Now my nipples are bleeding slightly and hurt like shit.
PSA: wear loose shirts to raves or tape that shit.
I'm curious, lads. How did it end for you? Did you see it coming? I've been with my gf for 2.5 years now, and I can't imagine how or why it would end. Did you just get blindsided?
>>37868755
you'll notice. usually (in my experience) it's an out of nowhere distance. maybe she slowly stops replying to your texts, or takes longer than usual, something that just feels off.
you'll try and tell yourself that it's nothing, but remember this. 99% of the time, it IS something.
>>37855330
>>37855241
>>37856197
>>37856263
I fucking envy you guys, being able to feel sadness.
>we dated for 6 years
>broke up in November 2015
>when I heard about her dating someone else I felt pain
>every time I saw her after that the pain went away quicker
>ff 2 months and there's no pain, no sadness, no remorse, just emptiness
>get fit
>women are easy
>grown up now and happines eludes me
>>37868782
so much this
>>37867709
Just came back from working on my car, glad to see this thread is still up. Thought I should tell you to calm down anon, I don't ONLY date chads, but it was a terrible experience I don't want to repeat and he didn't have a lot going for him in the personality department. I'm not down to be some guys first love and teacher either lol. I'm also not interested in having kids and I support myself. I made more money than my ex. Clear your head space of that toxic thinking not every girl that gives you the time of day is the one. This is still the best home board.
THESE DAYS ALL I DO IS
WONDER IF YOU'RE BENDING OVER BACKWARDS FOR SOMEONE ELSE
WONDER IF YOU'RE ROLLIN UP A BACKWOODS FOR SOMEONE ELSE
DOIN THINGS I TAUGHT YOU GETTIN NASTY FOR SOMEONE ELSE
YOU DON'T NEED NO ONE ELSE YOU DON'T NEED NOBODY ELSE, NO
YOU SHOULD JUST BE YOURSELF, RIGHT NOW YOU'RE SOMEONE ELSE
No, seriously guys. How do i deal with the inevitable when my ex gets with a new guy and chances are he's better looking than me and fucks her brains out and she sucks his dick and swallows his cum and tells him it's the best sex of her life?
how the FUCK do i deal with that???????
>>37869139
You realize you’re better off not thinking about it and move on with your life. If you let shit like that hold you back you'll never find someone new, you close the door on any future happiness for yourself.
>>37869149
UUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU I CANT HELP IT IT HAUNTS ME MAN
I'm surprised y'all niggas haven't done anything illegal to remove these "feels".
>>37869160
I know but it's not something other people can take away, you're going through a withdrawal but there's always someone better as long as you know how to let go eventually. When your dog dies, get another one it literally works every time unless you're happier being miserable.
>>37869167
Heroine is legal now wtf?
>>37869167
i pop vics that are prescribed to me lol
the pain of our breakup permeates my life so bad that I can't play video games or browse the internet without feeling like shit and just putting it down and thinking about her.
vics make me feel warm and fuzzy just enough to forget her for like 3 hours and enjoy some video games
>>37869203
As long as she's 18
>>37869220
Thats a great crutch anon but try and get better at the same time coping isnt the same as healing. Only a little bitch wallows in misery forever do you want to be Teddy Roosevelt or Edgar Alan Poe?
>>37862756
>But, my gut is telling me to try when she gets back.
Do NOT do that
gingivitis is an std
>>37869139
You just imagined 100% of that shit.
Maybe 25% of it will happen, but it doesn't involve you. So stop being insecure and go do something else.
>>37862850
>Wuld I be stupid for hanging out with her when she gets back? Just as friends, no ass kissing or any of that shit. I just miss her so much man. I can't wait to hug her.
Jesus Christ, no, none of this. If you have ANY contact with her you are a fucking idiot who deserves what you get. She made it perfectly clear where you stand. Please, for the love of all that is holy, do not pursue this girl.
But but but
No not even as friends
no women show interest in me and the only one that did left a year ago after dating briefly
so now i sit at home and masturbate or occasionally go out and get drunk and rarely talk to anyone. even the girls i do try to talk to just put me down
Not love related but still feels. Everytime i am not occupied with something and start thinking, tons of people lost pop into my mind. They were friends and love interests of the past but those relations do not exist anymore. I literally remember the smallest things of these people even from over 10 years ago. I don't remember all the names fro farthest away but i know all the faces, all the memories. They keep coming back again and again and again and those memories will stick with me for my whole life. And it hurts fucking a lot.
Just recently i met some really awesome people, got their phone numbers and shit but they live in another city and will go studying to other countries after graduating.
I will lose them. They will all join the endless list of names in my head and come back to haunt me every single day. As memories with no way to reach them. I don't want to lose them all. I try to keep contact very often but it already feels like we are drifting apart. I know this will keep happening my whole life and keep torturing me. I love cherising these memories, i don't want to forget but it hurts. This feeling really fucking hurts.
>>37869324
Distance yourself from the people putting you down. Go to places you can socialize comfortably where alcohol isn't involved, routines are important and affect your over all mental health change yours.
>>37865843
Killing yourself over pussy? You're better than that, man.
>>37865815
Are you going to like it when you're out as friends and her new bf is grabbing her ass?
Wondering if his dick is bigger than yours? Does she do anal for him?
>>37869345
Get over it and yourself, no relationship comes with a life time guarantee, friends move on or move out of our lives. Friends have kids and get busy if you live in the past or what might have been you're only going to hurt yourself or spend your life trying to mold what is into what you once had and miss out on the good in front of you.
>>37867070
Respect.
>>37866838
I dunno, i cried for 2 month each night after my fiancee left, uncontrollable body heaving cries. About half a year later i got somewhat over it, then he comes back and I still hurt a little but he swears he was an idiot for leaving in the first place.
Been a year since then and he seems legit, getting married soon.
Dated for 2 years, broke and she moved on to another guy within the month. Spent the next year celibate at a shitty warehouse. Drank to black out often. Then one day I met somebody new and just moved on. Turns out in hindsight my ex was a shitty fucking human being. And now she's fat so 2+ points to me.
>>37867670
This is legitimately the worst feeling ITT. It sucks man but they are not your friends anymore. Find new bros through work, the gym, social clubs, etc.
Gonna be a junior in Electrical engineering but I still don't know if this is even what I want to do or if I am even smart enough to finish it. I've already failed several classes and the summer class I'm in now I'm struggling in. If I can't complete this I don't know what I'm gonna do, if I should change my major or just get a part time job. I really don't want to disappoint my parents.
>>37867917
>At 26, I found the woman who I want to marry
I'll bet you said the exact same thing about your two previous relationships.
>she texts me and says she misses me
>I ask her if she means it
>no answer
>>37869736
Shoulda made a date with her right there
dinner and talk about what you've been up to since you last split famalam
