>tfw finished today's workout
>have to spend the next 40 hours staring at my ceiling before i can go work out again
Would be swell with a friend or gf so I could get out of the house from time to time.
>>37777660
I know it fucking sucks, I really need some hobbies besides lifting or I'll go fucking insane
>>37777660
Stop bitching about being lonely and go meet people
>>37777739
its not as easy as it seems
>>37777739
>>37777756
HOW TO? they all appear to go out in groups and it would be random to just show up and introduce myself
>>37777660
Post more pics like these
>>37777660
Same here my man. It'd usually be prime time to play some vidya for me, but I just can't seem to sit down and enjoy it anymore.
It sucks because it used to the only hobby I enjoyed. Now working out is the only time I'm happy anymore
>>37777795
Got my first number ever since i was 15 and texted her after a couple of days, but it's been 30 min and im getting scared ill be a lonely loser forever
>>37777728
could paint little toy soldiers
>>37777820
I went from playing alot, to barely any, to nothing in the span of 1 year.
Just thinking about starting up portal 2 or anything just makes me want to shoot myself in the dick.
>>37777927
Don't worry anon, she'll text back. Try again tomorrow. If not then I dunno lol
>>37777927
>he fell for the 'wait a couple days' meme
>>37777660
I joined and got into RSD and it's forums. Met some cool people and we are all socially awkward and push each other to talk to girls. It's helped a lot, especially overcoming social anxiety and makes working out much more meaningful.
Bu-bump
>>37777927
Never wait for days, text her later the same day. Around the time you would go to bed. Chicks love to lay in bed and text.
>>37777927
>ima wait a couple of days so she thinks im not desperate
kek
>>37778723
better than >>37778716
>>37778716
t. high school player
>Lift M/W/F
>Tu/Th I do cardio before work and shoot my bow after
>Saturdays are for housekeeping including meal prep in the AM and other hobbies in the PM
Sunday is rest day and when I'm likeliest to sleep in and spend most of the day cooking up a nice dinner and watching a movie after or something, then early to bed to get a nice start on the new week.
Tomorrow I'm picking up my SCUBA gear, hoping I get to test it next Saturday.
>>37778271
>>37778293
>>37778716
>>37778723
4 hours and still radio silence.
m-maybe she's asleep, r-right?
>>37777927
should have started setting up a date the very next day. women are usually being courted by multiple guys at any given moment.
>>37779604
if you established that you were exclusive then yes, bail
I have a short question for my /fit/ bro's.
>GF breaks up with me because of some dumb fuck reason.
>I refuse to apologize for something i've not done and we end up doing shit freely for a month.
>Then decide to give it a second chance and we're back together.
>Two weeks later
today, i found out she was hitting on several guys on tinder and even had sex with one of them during the first two weeks we broke up.
It's obvious i should bail out and tell her to fuck off right? my feelings are making me do beta decisions.
>>37779631
No. You guys were broken up. She can do what she wants.
>>37779669
Yeh fair though, but she lied however, saying she didn't do anything during that time.
But still would you take her back?
I find it kind of difficult now.
>>37779682
I would just fuck her off...there's only 3 billion other women on the planet. You won't get over it...I mean she forgot you within 2 weeks.
>>37779682
Is it normal for girls to go out and bang the first and best dude right after a break up?
>>37779682
>>37779631
don't get back with her
the fact that she evens hits on guys via tinder and fucks them is a massive red flag
>>37779631
She was probably talking with them before you broke up and made up a reason to break up with you so she could fuck them guilt-free. Dump that bitch.
>>37779713
Yes...women need verification at all times. They are insecure creatures, they will fuck anything for validation regardless of how much you mean to them...not all but an awful lot and certainly not the ones I'd like to be with.
>>37779724
>>37779631
exactly this
she does not respect you and will hurt you sooner or later
>>37779682
She didn't want to hurt your feelings or ego, just let it go
is it bad to do like an hour of cardio everyday?
>>37779759
no point in doing that if you want optimal muscle gains
>>37779716
>>37779724
>>37779739
She apologized several times, but when i read her old chat shit hit the fan, especially that she's finding random guys on tinder and fucking one of them bothered me a lot.
But i will most definitely tell her to fuck off now thx.
if lifting weights isn't just something that you do in spare time and if you think about it all day instead of focusing on serious things you're doing it all fucking wrong and will never get anywhere
>>37779789
Serious things like how i cant find a job or how im a friendless loser who have no way to make my parents proud?
>>37777660
Start reading some philosophy. Or anything really. Buy a book, go to a coffeeshop or a library and you can even meet som qt bookworm grills
>>37779811
sounds like those are literally the only things that should be on your mind
yeah, go to the gym instead, that sure will help with anything LOL
>>37779778
that's fucked anon, tinder is for degenerates.
Shutin who became normie here.
The truth is that you never become a normie. Interaction with people ends up being bothersome. For the people I care, I overthink what to do, and for the people I don't give a shit, it's difficult to make it seem like you care.
Got some girls, dated for a while. While it's true that knowing that you can get girls it's good, I just got desillusioned when I learnt all the bullshit that comes with them. The ideal I thought of them will never be achieved. I guess that's what "putting pussy in a pedestal" means.
Friends are nice, but my best friend of all times lived away for 3 years. He came back to town and hasn't even bothered to reach for me. Most of the friends left I almost have no contact with and I'm surrounded by a superficial layer of hedonism everytime I meet most of the people I hang out with.
I'm going back to coccoon mode. There wasn't a feel that couldn't get away with masturbating when I was in coccoon mode. Anyone could come and hang out, but I hardly think they will.
Just stay strong anon. Try reading, music, art. It will certainly fullfill you more than partying with a bunch of sluts or qts who never cared for you until you became /fit/
>>37777660
drive around friend.it works for me
>>37777660
It will get better bro
>>37779913
Never got my license and now im scared of cars and driving
>>37779631
one rule you need to have your whole life. If a bitch fucks anyone after you've fucked her then you need to dump that bitch.
>>37777777
WHo?
>>37779930
I was once young and optimistic like you too
>>37780363
No reason you can't be again, What went wrong?
>>37780455
All my friends moved away, failed to make any new friends in university, took ages to finish my degree (still not finished actually)
So now I sit around all week waiting for the days where I have training and shitpost on /fit/
It's not horribly bad but it isn't great and it hasn't gotten better in years and there's no reason to believe it will anytime soon.
>>37780503
Who's fault is it that you didn't make any freinds at uni? There are hundreds of people who were desperate to make freinds and you couldn't capitalise.
Get some hobbies bro, i'm sure your uni has a shit tonne of clubs you could join, you could join a sports team, start talking to some guys at your gym.
You have it in you anon, just stop being a sad cunt
It's been two days since I spoke to her /fit/. I worked out shoulders and back today. I assume with all my free time I'll make mad gains.
>>37777660
this image is too familiar
way too familiar :|
>>37780592
Whats some decent hobbies that dont cost too much money?
>>37779930
>that haircut and pants over shoes
>working out is the highlight of my day
>girl I like lives in the southern park of my state I live in North
>want to get a job but scared I'll fuck up on interviews
>got 3 real friends and 2 fiend/friends
/fit/ hurts and the only reason I come back is because others get the hurt, I just wanna feel happy
>>37777756
>>37777773
>>37777660
As someone that has been playing WoW in isolation for 5 years as a NEET and litteraly lived as a hermit almost had to puke out of anxiousness for talking to a girl and crawled out of his dungeon i will give you this advice.
Be confident even if you're not, don't be afraid to fail but don't expect to fail either, people will dislike or like you no matter what you do, and being kind isn't a sign of betaness, you're not an alpha if you act like an asshole.
What makes you an alpha is doing things you want to do and love without caring what other people think of it, even if you're a massive ponyloving autist if that makes you happy then do it there will always be people with the same interest as you so you'll never be alone.
I do sometimes go to the bar alone these days and scout for other lonefags, offer them a drink and have a chat or try to gateway into someone their group.
You'll notice that most people in bars are just talking about random bullshit anyway duo to the alcohol so it doesn't matter.
And as a last tip, talk about about stuff everyone can relate with, nobody wants to hear about your scat or ponyloving fetishes since their is a a major chance nobody will approve that shit there.
>>37784456
just be yourself ;)
>>37784486
Be yourself and don't give a fuck.
And if you're not too much of an autist you have basic understandings of what is socially acceptable and what not.
