>friday night
>not going out to a club/bar/with friends to pick up sloots
What's the point of getting /fit/ if you're not going to use it where it is the most advantageous???
to keep it fit related: post the reason you lift if it isn't for grills.
My friends don't like going out. I need to find new friends but I don't know how.
European here. I'm at night work making fat money sitting on my phone shitposting.
>>37768352
>throwing away all your progress in one night
>>37768352
Going out wont make up for not growing up and having a shit early 20s or teenage years. Grow up, get a career, get a stable relationship, achieve financial success, achieve the physique you want for yourself, and grow up. Sick of this shit its degenerate.
>cant get women
>start lifting thinking it will help you get women
>get fit
>cant get women because it will hurt your gains
its a vicious cycle
>>37768381
Are you competing? If not, stop being so retarded that one night out will hurt your gains.
>>37768379
>Going out wont make up for not growing up and having a shit early 20s or teenage years
Sorry gramps but most of the people that go on 4chan ARE in their early 20s :^PPPP
>>37768373
>implying you lose all your gains if you have a couple drinks on the weekend
>implying you need to get shitfaced if you go out
>implying you even get any gains
log out
>>37768373
>>37768381
are you guys fucking retarded? You don't have to get hammered to enjoy a club. You could get high, have a shot or two, or just be sober
>>37768406
>You don't have to get hammered to enjoy a club.
Top kek fucking normie
>>37768352
>with friends
if i had friends OP, i would.
>tfw no friends
>tfw kissless virgin
>>37768379
NO GOING OUT, WORK, PAY YOUR TAXES THEN FUCKING DIE
>>37768416
>normie
what does this mean to you? Anybody who doesn't do things exactly the way you would have done them? You have autism mate
>>37768420
im sure that'll all change when you break your deadlift PR :)
>>37768352
>post the reason you lift if it isn't for grills.
i like looking at myself in the mirror without wanting to puke
>>37768406
>>37768403
>not getting completely fucking shithouse wasted
you guys are missing out on the fun
>>37768429
>You have autism mate
Of course, I wouldn't be here otherwise, would I?
>>37768420
don't be a neet and study or work
find hobbies you can do with others
if you want ofc
>>37768454
>being that guy who always gets really fucked up and can't drive himself home and gets annoying to deal with when he's too drunk
nobody wants to tell you anon because they are your friends and don't want to hurt your feelings, but you need to cut back.
Also my best nights have been when I was only slightly buzzed, the worst nights have been when I got shitfaced
>>37768352
Why not just find a house party or hold one of your own instead of going to a bar or club where you'd spend a stupid amount of money on weak drinks and maybe meet a girl that will fuck you and give you chlamydia.
>>37768406
>enjoy
>club
Because I'm short and live in Sweden.
>>37768429
You're a normie if you can go to a club not hammered. Like what you don't even have social anxiety ?
>>37768352
>clubs
im not a pleb anon, maybe thats why
>>37768352
I lift because I would kill myself if I didnt. I have a purpose in life because of it.
>>37768559
you don't need to be shitfaced to get the liquid courage mate it starts to come on after a buzz
I'm getting fit for these reasons
a) allows me to justify being a shut in
b) I want to run and do triathlons with my dad, maybe a half marathon if I can achieve that within a year or two
c) I DON'T want to follow the path of the male relatives in my family (blood related) and become a fatass
d) boost my self esteem and not hate myself... so far thats been slowly progressing.
e) inspire my overweight probably obese friend to make the change needed, even though he's dropped some weight.
f) have already established fitness when I get a job
>>37768532
Sverigefag här
>>37768379
Brutal dude. You sound like the living dead. Dancing and getting fucked up and meeting strangers is fun.
My dad died buried under rubble I couldn't lift back when a tree fell on our house a couple of years back
One of the last things he said was "son can you lift this off me?"
I couldn't
So yeah guess that sparked it
>>37768464
i do work
i have no hobbies though. i tried rock climbing a year ago, didn't make any friends there after a few months
>>37768725
clubs are shit
overpriced drinks and stuck up whores, woo fun
>>37769022
Go to different clubs, or go to bars instead? Chances are you've never been to a club so you are just making assumptions
>>37769031
ive already gone through my club phase
in retrospect, they are pretty shit. the only "fun" is getting drunk if you dont have to drive.
>>37769022
Predrink a bit and then go and dance. I find it to be a lot of fun if you choose the right place and I've met some really cool people.
If you don't enjoy dancing or meeting people then yeah a club sucks. But that's like saying a gym sucks if you don't like working out.
>>37769075
also most people dont want to go out, they just want to hang out with their gf and not drink
sucks when people get whipped, cant go by yourself cause that blows
>>37769087
>just want to hang out with their gf and not drink
I fucking laugh at my mate, as his new gf makes him go out and get wasted every weekend even though he rarely did beforehand
>tfw tonight is the first time I've ever been invited to a club
Gettin my good vibes goin
>>37769122
exception to the norm
most guys pick pussy over friendship sadly
i lift so i have a reason to eat, otherwise i'd starve myself to death.
i also don't get any pleasure from fucking sluts. i feel so empty inside afterwords. how does nobody else feel this. how can you enjoy making love to somebody you don't care about?
>>37768379
>I'm terrified of social interaction and disguise it by telling others to "grow up"
used to be all about that. i'm 25 now and over it.
went from going out 3-4 nights a week to not going out even once anymore. last time i went out was over 2 months ago and i don't miss it one bit.
enjoy it and live it up while you can brahs.
>>37768464
I don't want to spend money on hobbies.
I work online shilling in /pol/ and programming I don't really go outside unless it's for lifting.
>>37769153
I have a ton of fun whether I hook up or not. Dancing with girls is fun, dancing with friends is fun etc etc.
>all these flyover state americans thinking they know anything about clubbing
wew lad
protip: those shitty things you call "clubs", filled with wannabe celebrity whore and coked up bros wanting to fight everyone they see, arent actually clubs
wasnt fit during my club years, feels bad man
now im older and have noone to do stuff with
getting older blows, hard
I work night shift at a warehouse job. Make good money and it eats my nights but that's OK. Besides I'm not a people person really. I'm overweight so I always think people are looking at me. Easier for me to keep to myself
>24
>more money than I know what to do with
>nice car (paid off in full)
>great personality (so I'm told)
>still clueless about women, no action whatsoever.
>my interests are different from the standard party goers so can't even just hang with others
Yea I'll probably just drink alone again this Saturday. Maybe play some more call of duty. Getting rather good with that shotgun.
>>37769182
this sounds retarded i know, but how is dancing fun? i've never understood it either. not trying to talk down or criticize, just don't get the appeal.
its so weird to see people at clubs completely lose themselves into the music while i just nod my head with it.
>>37768823
Don't just go out and do your hobby by yourself. Go join a club for somrthing that interests you. It can even be anime or games but at least it makes you meet new people
I don't have friends here.
>>37769230
when you actually like the music playing and might possibly be cooked out of your mind
>>37769252
What possesses people to make these images?
>>37769241
not him
but there are no clubs for adults
maybe in college but yeah
>>37769273
>>37769175
>>37768823
Join a gym that has basketball courts or racket ball or something along those lines. Make friends that way.
Or just don't, friends are usually cancerous anyway.
I lift for the guys lmao
>>37769314
"friends" are just people that want to use you for their benefit
acquaintances is probably a better word. real friends are hard to find.
>>37769330
You're an idiot. You were probably that guy who goes way too far out of his way to try to get accepted into a group that never liked you to begin with
>>37769345
no I mean good friends are hard to find, most people are just looking after their own interests
>>37769261
autism
>>37769330
i'll be your friend.
>>37769380
im just saying, people throw the word friend around too casually
friends call you up to do stuff. if you hang out with people that doesnt make them friends.
>tfw hate clubs
>tfw only non-club bars where i live are all redneck dive pieces of shit
>tfw no friends
It's ok. I've accepted the fact that I'll die alone with my corpse discovered days after my passing, half eaten by my dog(s)
>>37769230
If you've ever had a runner's high it's like that but better.
>>37769214
Lift instead of vidya
>>37770215
>>37768454
>alcohol
>fun
pick one normie.
fucking numbwits enjoying fermented fruit drinks instead of doing something more fun
parties and booze vs raves and drugs.
if fatties only knew how much do amphetamines help on cut.
let's do some math.
booze and parties
3h of dancing cardio - 500kcals, provided you dance, not sit there..
4 shots, 2 beers and one cocktail - 1200kcal
food on way home cuz ur drunk - 400kcal
total: 1100kcal
wake up: hangover
drugs and rave
8h of dancing - 1400kcal
drinks? thanks senpai, ill have water.
eating on way home? no thanks man, my stomach feels stapled.
wake up: what a night.
Pregnant gf controls what i do.
>>mfw trying to fake smiles for everyone around me
>>37771596
>4 shots, 2 beers and one cocktail - 1200kcal
A shot is only like 80-90 calories dumbshit.
>drinking beer
>ever
>cocktail
what did you just drink a big gulp cocktail from 7-11 or something?
a pina colada is like 250-350 cals tops.
>>37771707
still a worse night than cardio rave.
My sex drive is non-existent. If I came home and a girl was lying naked on my bed I'm not sure I could even be bothered fucking her.
>>37771681
> why i dont play with that, just dont go out, have some beers to myself and realize shes not the one
I don't rightly like going out if there isn't a particularly good reason for it, i.e. a company celebration or representation dinners, birthdays (aka bro it's just once a year so you're drinking this meter of vodka), the national Great Liquor Day, or the local festival.
For the most part I'll just chill with my one friend and do something fun, maybe have a few drinks of good liquor.
>>37768352
I lift because I want to be on the other side of the spectrum now (used to be borderline morbidly obese) and also because lifting feels amazing, the gym is truly a temple of gains and serenity. The sloots and mires are just icing on the cake that is self-improvement.
>>37769230
its not, its an excuse to sexually present.
>>37768352
I hate clubs.
>>37768406
>being sober in a place full of drunk people
I honestly can't think of a worse way to spend the night.
>>37768352
because i could take some days without taking drugs otherwise..but if i go running 8-10 km and go to gym straight after my head is empty and i can deal with my shit
>not playing Overwatch during his free time
It's like you don't even want to make it m8.
>>37772319
>playing overwatch
kys
>>37768559
I hardly get hammered anymore. I had my experimental year when I turned 18. Got all sorts of fucked up.
>cocaine+DXM=Bad, mkay?
Nowdays I only drink enough to get that euphoria and reduced inhibitions.
>also, I saved that Pepe
>>37772359
wow musta got hella fucked up on dxm and coke:^)
>>37768352
Can't stand 3D.
Even after getting /fit/ they're boring as fuck to talk to. I focus on my hobbies and my waifu.
Gonna get that glorious VR future someday.
>>37772481
> tfw getting fitter but becoming more and more obsessed with anime
>>37768352
>picking up sloots
Gains are my mistress
>>37772517
It's only natural.
When you compare the narcissistic disingenuous nature of 3D to the glorious incarnation of femininity that is 2D there can be no doubt.
The age of "real women" is over.
The age of the Waifu has begun.
>>37772578
already have potential waifu
>>37768352
For myself.
Neglated myself for to long.
Body felt like shit, looked like shit, worked like shit. Finally realised i need to show my body some love and work out.
And it loves me back for it, and for a long time i feel actual appriciation for who i am and what i do.
>tl;dr who needs sloots when you can /fit/everalone
>>37769376
Yep pretty much. I didn't make it btw
>>37768352
>with friends
I'd go anywhere at this point
but I don't have friends
how do I get friends
>>37771596
full autism
>>37773365
whats so autistic about raving?
>>37768352
I end up going out once a fortnight/month and go hard.
It's more fun and I don't get bored of going to the same place over and over, along with that my gains aren't affected.
There's a whole world outside and y'all're arguing about how to best compartmentalize your living between shifts.
Default on your lease and walk to Argentina.
I hate loud places
>>37768352
I don't lift but I'm in good shape. But when I do it's not gunna be for girls. It'll be for me. Men have grown into such huge fucking pussies doing everything for girls. That's why they're taking over. That's why they get all your money in divorce and now in politics and everything else. This is why the world is falling apart.
>for girls
>>37768403
Lol you can't log out of 4chan retard it's anonymous
Friends don't go out that much, don't like clubbing, feel uncomfortable, not even sure if my friends are my friends anymore.
>>37768357
go out alone and be social
you can be honest when you meet people and say shit like "my friends don't like going out and I don't feel like staying at home so here I am."
>>37768352
I try to maintain a good body image for myself most of all.
I've been out to bars and clubbing a lot in college and I honestly think I've gotten most of it out of my system. The one thing I regret missing out on is dropping acid once just to see what it was like, but I don't have regrets about not going to clubs at night because a lot of the people you see are the same, and to be perfectly honest a lot of the girls that go to these types of parties are girls I have literally no interest in.
Then again I have a low libido so that might be the reason
>>37768591
I believe in you anon. Good luck
>>37768591
Jose?
>>37768769
I kekd
>>37776157
I go clubbing when a DJ I like is playing cause I'm into underground dance music. Definitely not the scene to pick up girls or guys, sadly, or I'm just oblivious to it; it's just a place to listen to good music and dance.
I'm impressed by people who go out and meet new people at clubs and shit. I'm a complete autist who doesn't mind being alone desu.
>>37768406
It's pretty fun being sober in a club. If you're with your gf of course :^)
>>37768352
my friends are all fags and i'm putting off making new ones
>>37769261
i really wanted a copy of some spaghetti
>>37771784
stop jacking off so much
i would literally be terrified to go to a club. im a 24 year old autistic permavirgin and ive never even been to a bar let alone a club
>>37772257
Don't go to a place full of drunk people?
>>37769022
I'm wondering, what do you like to do for fun?
>>37768769
if only you'd done some more bloody push ups
>>37768352
>What's the point of getting /fit/ if you're not going to use it where it is the most advantageous???
>Implying girls care if youre fit
>Implying the club isnt jam packed with guys already trying to do the same thing
Sex is good but girls in bars/clubs and whatever are very stuck up and your chances of getting them to fuck you are slim to none so why waste your fucking time?
>>37768352
to make goku proud
>lifting for girls...pfft
>>37768379
this , only women/men you're getting at bars are quick "wham , bam , thank you mam".
>>37768368
Same here except I work night shift in Amerifat
>went to a club last night
>legitimately went not to pick up chicks but because a good house artist was DJing there
>everyone looks so uncomfortable and insecure that I can't just enjoy the music
>guys trying to start fights, girls loudly talking and falling onto guys
I know I'm an autist but I should just stick with festivals
>girl drives an hour to hangout and "watch movies"
>disregard movie aquire cunny
>unbuckle belt and rub vagoo
>"I hope you don't think I'm gonna let you take my pants off I'm not like that"
>my rage is infinite
>not because she won't fuck but because every girl does this and they'll actually be begging for the D soon enough
>sure enough she's dry humping me like a fucking yorkie moments later
>know damn well I could horizontal monster mash if I was so inclined at this point
>but it's too late her behavior has made me indifferent to her existence
>send her home and ignore her
I know that's not /fit/ related but why the fuck does every girl do that? They make it seem like you talked them into fucking even though it's clear they came over for one reason. Especially since I've improved my situation if life. It's like they want to prove I'm chasing them or some dumb shit
>>37783633
because if they blame you they feel less slutty, and that's almost all that matters to a woman
also
>cunny
>>37783633
had a similar experience, girl was flirting like crazy and then suddenly turned around and said "I dont want to go home with you" like i fucking even asked
girls man, they think and talk their way out of a good thing all the time
>>37768532
RAM ANSIKTE LÄNGD
>>37783694
better than going home with them only for them to fucking enter a drunken coma in a cab. know your limits and don't invite me back if you're going to go comatose and i have to somehow make sure you don't get raped and die possibly not even in that order.
>>37783920
I cant hit on drunk girls, its an instant boner-kill for me...i mean i can flirt but taking her home is way out of question
Which is sad because girls when drunk seem to loosen up and arent as bitchy as they normally are
Ive hit a gate brehs, i can go out dance, suck faces and get their number.
But i cant into endgame and take them home/fuck, think im scared t b h
wat do
>>37776948
I did that once and my spaghetti was all over the floor. Haven't been out since and that was 2 years ago.
>>37783497
Pretty much this. It's just full of people that hunger for attention and want to get noticed. Such is the situation here where I live.
>>37768352
i live in a 50k city and i there is only one bullshit club where only married people in 30s and 40s goes. Fuck that clubbing shit
Because I'm deployed sitting in a gun truck outside of a diplomatic villa lurking /fit/ before shift change and we convoy back to our compound so I can workout for the second time today. I call it cocoon mode, it's really just a lack of options
Because I'm 30 and I had all the clubbing fun I needed when I was in my 20s. Eventually you grow out of it and chase other things, same reason why I don't lift for girls, I have other things I want to do instead of chasing pussy like a hungry street dog.
>>37768352
My reason to lift is so that I can eat like shit at still stay in shape for the most part.
>>37772481
>holo
It's Horo, faggot.
>>37768454
>shithouse wasted
>fun
are you 15?
>>37768352
no friends.
I dont want to come home alone at 1am after getting rejected a bunch of times
i lift for guys desu
>>37768532
Jag är 185cm och typ kortast på ställena här i Skåne. Bruningar exkluderade förstås.
>>37785480
Do you pick up guys at clubs
>>37783104
I enjoy high literature readings by my fireplace and supporting my favorite female indie devs on patreon
>>37783633
Most immature young women do this. "I told him not to but he was all over me and i couldnt resist anymore". If you keep going with 2nd/3rd base stuff they can't control themselves.
>>37768428
Choked on my food reading this
>>37769252
copypasta xDDDDD
>>37769153
sexual intercouse =/= making love
a lesson all young anons must learn.
>>37776157
lol these are obviously forced fake naivety but i can't help but laugh every time.
>tfw you'll never make someone think to themselves: "I can't wait to see anon today"
unrelated to thread but I'm a 21 yo KV talking to 2 6.5/10 and I've been stalling on asking to meet up
I think I'll be fine hanging with them. I just dont wanna fuck up the eventual hookup. I have no idea how to escalate from chilling to fucking. Any tips, bros?
>>37768352
I just like to lift...
>>37787101
:'(
>>37768352
I hate clubs and my closest friends are introverts so I won't be dragged to any
also I'm asexual so I don't dig the whole casual sex thing, I'd only fuck someone I can see myself with in a relationship
I lift because I want to be able to look in the mirror and not hate myself. I want to be able to see the hard work I put in to fix my mind and body. just to see what it feels like to be proud of myself
>>37769273
Look around for a kicboxing/boxing/bjj/wrestling/judo gym
I train at a Muay Thai/BJJ gym and have made quite a few buddies there.
>>37785480
God I admire that flexibility. I can't get within 6" of touching my toes.
i lift because i hate myself
>>37772584
You're waifu already a shit
You'll /fit/ right in, anon.
>Friday night
>Perfect gym time
Seriously, all the posers are at clubs, the parents are with their families.
My gym is quite empty and I can just get on with my workout.
>>37787243
bump
