Guys, I had a gf for years and the sex was amazing, I could cum tree or six times Everytime, I didn't lift for shit nor did any kind of physical activity, we broke up, I started lifting and many months later I got a new gf. Yesterday we had sex for the first time and I was confident that it'd be awesome since now I've improved my body and health but I cummed after 2-3 mins and didn't go back up again.
I thought lifting would make me better at that, what's going on /fit/? And how to last more or make it go up again?
start eating raw potatoes. JUST the skins though, peel them and grate into your meals, probably around 30-60 grams a day depending on how much you want...
this boosts my sex drive
>tfw can't stop thinking of fucking your ex
>ruins hookups and new relationship
Well, I do love her, she'd be great as a mother and as a wife, she loves me too.
I'd loves to be able to fuck other girls though, some girls I see on the street do more for my dick than her in bed, but I'm never going to cheat so I just deal with it.
I can't quite put a finger on it
Maybe it's because she has a round (even though it's not fat), face and I usually like girls with very narrow faces
Maybe it's because I (my dick) usually like "bad girls", and she is innocent as fuck (I'm her first at everything), which is cute but not very sexy
Maybe it's that I just can't help but wish I'd met her in 5-10 years when Id wanted a wife, right now I just want to bang randoms and have fun
Attraction is important to a relationship dude. It's like you haven't seen the cheat/cuck stories that happen all the time.
It's not the most important part, but there has to be something.
>Yesterday we had sex for the first time
Sometimes the first time is not good because you have to find a rhythm with that person. If it doesn't go back up it might be due to a lot of factors, like how much time you have without sex, how nervous you were, etc.
It has happened to me with a few girls, but it gets better as we continue to have sex, we are more comfortable with each other, and such. I have had one night stands and most of the time i can go for plenty of rounds, and i had cases were i couln't get it up for the second.
The only thing that makes you good at having sex is actually having sex. If you are not attracted to your girl it will show, because from what i've read, that is part of your problem. It might be mentally taxing.
>tfw I have never cum tree
there's also more to life than settling
not saying it's bad to genuinely love someone, but if you're venting on 4chan at this stage of the relationship, i can't imagine what it'll be like in 10 years
>The people telling it to my face
>The obviously lie about it because ???
>On the other hand I got this research which wasn't a survey but we actually had detectives follow people around and watch through windows (????)
Who elses girlfriends/ex girlfriends look pretty much the same ? All pale, with a big butt, not much tits, big eyes and brown hair
I don't think you quite understand me senpai, might want to reread my post
It might all be in your head bro.
Your mind is a powerful thing.
When I was younger my sex life was all right, would go for rounds and cum when I wanted to.
But then once by accident I got a girl preggo, had to get rid of it cause we were 17 at the time and not ready to be parents.
And this put up a mental block in my head.
After that I started to have problems with getting and staying up and I couldn't cum while having sex for 7 years. It was fun for the girls, sometimes could go for hours. But took a toll on me. Even tho sex was fun, it felt kind of pointless sometimes cause I knew there would be no happy ending.
Jerking off myself was the only way.
But now I got myself a qt gf with who I finally felt comfortable enough to finally cum.
And now I can cum when I want to and go for a couple rounds.
Work out your mind as well, try to not everthink things.