>ctrl+f
>no feels thread
Whats wrong with you guys are your problems all resolved?
Ill start
>tfw another Friday night eating alone eating Panda Express after lifting
>tfw your lifting partner is moving to a different country across the world
Fuck off.
>>37596558
>tfw can't stop procrastinating when this is when you need to work the hardest
JUST
Gonna isolate myself with my textbooks tomorrow.
Also
>tfw lonely aside from a pet roach you keep in your room
>tfw poor
Is having a lifting partner really that great? Always lifted alone myself.
>>37596558
>on week 2 of self imposed sobriety
>got off work to go to a bbq fest alone
>all my friends are at EDC or out of town
> felt weird and awkward especially since no drinking
>left after 40mins
> only grill i talked to was a nerdy asian chick telling people to recycle
>just said ok and thank you then we stare at each other for 6 long secs
>drove home now i am at home talking to you guys
>fuck
>>37596582
>Is having a lifting partner really that great?
had one was pretty great then he got lazy and went back to drinking everyday fuck mang
>tfw you have two whole rest days with no lifting, wirk, or school to look forward to
Guess a shitload of cardio, anime and read are in my near future. Thinking about picking up a martial art for a little extra something on the side. Thoughts?
>tfw video games no longer fill the void
>going to spend entire weekend listening to music, refreshing /fit/ and two gym sessions.
holy shit, kill me now, I need a gf...
>playing softball last night
>center field
>their first hit is a liner to me
>my initial burst towards the ball caused a very sharp pain in my left quad
>feels ok when walking or jogging but full out sprinting isn't possible due to the pain
>finish the game and play another, somehow
>very light dull pain today. Feels fine when walking but crouching kinda hurts and I haven't tried sprinting with it
Fucking kill me. Not really sure what happened but I hope it's ok in a week or so. That's all I got for feels.
>going to bed early
>might storm tomorrow around noon so I'm getting up early to do some target shooting before the heat or storm sets in.
>>37596558
depressing as fuck friday at work. This job has turned into a cancerous mole on my ass.
I want to get a new job but I've been here less than a year so I'll probably just keep bitching for another 3 months until I can get a new one.
It has been helping my lifts though. Today I snapped off on my lead because he tried pulling some bs. Angry lifts are the best lifts
>>37596771
are you me?
>>37596753
kick boxing and boxing are fun
>>37596771
>I need a gf
You'd spend your time watching shitty movies, shitty Netflix shows and maybe getting some mediocre sex. It gets old really fast.
>>37596787
what do you do for work?
>>37596771
Are you me?
I get so bored playing anything anymore.
> no motivation to learn anything
> no friends to go out with
Life is dull lately
Spending the weekend alone crew reporting in
>>37596799
im a software dev
>>37596582
OP here, my partner was my best friend from high school. We both powerlift and were planning on attempting to go to the national USAPL meet together in a few years.
If you have a goal its very motivating, but unfortunately hes also a retard and wants to move to a europoor country, so ill have to train alone.
>>37596558
My Bretheren, you guys are making gains, thats all that matters, you're all gonna make it.That being said, heres my death core ultimate feels...
>Be me 19
>Yesterday mom comes home
>Go to kitchen, just see mom start crying
>My dad hugs her from the back and starts comforting her
>My motherfucking face when doc says she might have "C" dont even wanna type it makes me cry dude
>Repressing all feels at the thought of an existence with the woman that raised me
>Lifting home alone but can't hold it in cry telling myself I don't want to lose my mom.
>Been crying whole day and just hope her tests say it isn't what they think it is
>Anxious and hopeless feeling all day, I love you mom please dont leave us
>>37596798
Sounds like what i do now but alone
Also the sex part depends on the person if you are lazy and have a lazy gf the sex is gonna be shit
>>37596808
Bully that nerd lead friendo
>>37596805
Sad boi reporting in
>tfw social life always goes to shit in the summer
Everyone's on vacation, fuck
>>37596558
>mfw another friday night in my parents basement
Hey atleast theres a fuck ton of esports playing right now
>>37596798
That's fine
All I want is to feel a warm body next to me
>>37596875
I do. almost everyone there is an overweight beta. insecure people hate conflicts and getting into arguments. its easy to control those conversations
>ftw another lonely friday night
>ftw 5'6 asian manlet
>tfw 20 and still a kissless virgin
>tfw I tell myself every night that lifting will land me a gf
>tfw I know its just lies to keep me from killing myself
Least I got you guys
>tfw 19th birthday
>kissless virgin
>lifting for 2 months but still skeleton
>>37596945
Happy birthday anon
>>37596924
Just keep lifting
>>37597033
thanks breh
>>37596920
Well then don't let them fucking nerds get to you bro remember they are your bitches
>>37596924
Yeah bro at least we got each other what city you in? Why not get a FOB gf?
>>37596860
Just cause it might be cancer doesn't mean it's a death sentence. There are different kinds of cancers, for example pancreatic cancer is waaaay worse than breast cancer. So hopefully this was helpful cause that's what I was going for.
>>37596945
Happy birthday baby boi you still got time to get laid things are going to be alright
>>37596945
Happy birthday!
https://soundcloud.com/user-736055505/it-will-never-be-you-wav
https://soundcloud.com/user-736055505/relearning-how-to-breathe
>>37597045
>Yeah bro at least we got each other what city you in? Why not get a FOB gf?
shit man thats for when I get really desperate, im going to wait till I finish school
>>37597122
Whats wrong with FOB asians mang i love them and im mexican
Do you keep running into the crazy ones that expect you to be a doctor?
>>37596753
You could also pick up an instrument. I play guitar and bass and theyre both fun as hell to play when im bored, just dont let the initial learning curve throw you off if you do, its really rewarding.
>>37596771
>>37596792
>>37596803
Are we all the same person?
>>37596924
>>37596945
>tfw 20 also
>tfw lifting for almost 2 years and still handholdless virgin
I still have hope anons, dont you lose it.
>>37596860
Do it for her anon. Never give up, and tell her to never give up too.
>>37597051
thanks yeah that was helpful, gives me hope thanks senpai stay up
>>37597130
Honestly I just prefer white girls tbqh
>>37596860
I hope everything turns out ok for you, good luck mayne.
>>37597136
Ive played guitar, bass, drums, piano, mandolin, ukelele, hell ive even sung. Nothing quenches that emtiness like lifting cardio and sport. Which is why i want to try martial arts, or writing. My work buddy teaches bjj and says his dojo has a free open mat on sundays so ill probably check that out.
>been going out to bars every Friday/Saturday night for the last couple weeks
>finally get to spend a night alone
Feels good
>>37597136
maybe different universes
I miss her brehs. But I also don't.
>>37597272
>>37597136
>>37596803
>>37596792
>>37596771
Shit man, this is me too.
>tfw this has been my situation for 1.5 years now
I just feel like it's never going to get better.
>>37596558
I get to see my bf tonight I havent seen him in months!! Beyond stoked right now
Why is this board so obsessed with empty sex? Seems like every other post on this board is about banging sluts
I don't understand
>my new gunpla kits didn't come in today
>>37596558
>visiting home for the weekend pretty much every weekend this summer
>whenever I visit home I remember my ex gf of 4 years
>I was a skinny skelly cunt when I was with her
>hoping I run into her so she can see how fucking swole I got and how well I'm doing
>hoping she feels bad about me doing better
>even though I know she's probably fucking 2 chads a week at her college
>tfw I have no game with any girls of any sort and the only thing I got going for me is weightlifting and kinda school
>I wish I could just forget her and visit home without feeling paranoid everywhere I go around town that I'll run into her
when will this fucking ride end
>tfw your friends are assholes
Fuck em, I'll go back to being alone. Can't trust anyone in this world
>>37596771
100% me
I'm in serious chest pain after this routine, can't sleep now.
Inclined bench: 135lbs x15, 185lbs x15, 225x15, 325x12
Flat bench: 135lbs x15, 225x15, 315x10, 225x15, 135x15
Declined bench: 135lbs x15, 225x15, 315x12, 365x8, 225x15
Inclined dumbell Flys: 30 lbsx 15+ 15 press, 40x15+15 press, 50x15+10 press
Inclined dumbell press: 50x15, 60x15, 70x15
On to tris (don't worry,we come back to chest)
Rope tricep pull down: 95lbsx 20, 80 lbsx 25, 70x30
Super setted with,
Single arm pull downs: 20lbsx 30,25x25, 30x20
Then more tricep pull down static : 50x15x2, 95x15
Then overhead tricep press: 40lbs x35, 50x15, 60x15
Dips x 70
Tricep pushups X 60
Tricep pull up x 30
Then we moved on to shoulders
Started with shrugs: 460lbs X 50, 410x50, 360x75, 270x 100
Then side arm raises: 20lbsx 15,14,13,12...1 (120)
Front arm raises: 20lbsx15x3
Moved on to abs:
Did 500 reps of various weighted ab movements
+ 100 leg raises
Then back to chest:
Machine Flys: 280lbs x15, 250 x15, 225x15
Cable Flys: 140lbs x15, 150 x15
Flat bench: 135lbs x15, 185x15, 225x10
Inclined bench: 135lbs x15, 225x10
Declined: 135x15, 225x15, 275x8
Machine press: 240x 15, 220x 15, 200x 8
>>37596785
Are you in TX? I have the same weather situation tomorrow.
>>37597465
it gets boring mang and need some company other than just fucking
>I'm a good DJ but can't play an instrument for shit
How do I become a real musician or should I just keep Djing?
>>37597542
At least your wife didn't just have a kid and can't bang because that shit is still wrecked and it hurts when you even put your dink halfway in. But I watched the Bellator fights and did some dishes so my Friday was pretty chill.
>>37597470
>>37597470
>ordered three gunpla kits last year
>they take forever to get to my shitty 3rd world country
>they come a month ago
>I no longer have any time to actually build them
>>37596771
Me too, bra. At least in 10mins ill be in the gym. Fuck... vidya used to make me so damn happy
>>37597547
DJ here
What the fuck kind of question is this m8
Playing an instrument and DJing are barely related, so why the comparison
I always wanted ot make my own music
I thought djing would be a good stepping stone to making music because I had no previous musical knowledge
>>37597594
>>37597612
Ah okay.
I think in that case, maybe get into digitally based production first, depending on what kind of music you want to make.
>>37597594
>plays music
>cant play music
I assume that's the comparison...
>>37596945
Happy birthday man. I turned 22 a couple days ago, things can get better.
>Cut going well for 4 months but stalled and I feel like shit
>start a planned diet break
>binge uncontrollably
>be good throughout rest of week
>binge again yesterday
>gained 3 lbs
FUCK it's so much harder for me to lose weight than to gain it, and I was a weak bitch and couldn't control myself and fucked up my cut. Fuck me I'm never gonna make it
>met girl online
>cool
>adores me
>lives in murrica and I'm in Australia
Should I visit her bro's?
>>37597649
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>>37597649
Anon
I see that you've neglected to answer one very important question
You said 'she adores me' but you never said 'I adore her', be careful not to fall into the 'Wow this is the first girl to ever seem interested in me' trap and move too quickly, relationships moving quickly are always a bad sign (I learned this the hard way, I have a few experiences with 'online gfs')
How long have you known her? How do you feel about her?
>>37596558
I can't lift for a while because my wrist hurts. W-What can I do in the meantime? I don't want to fuck them up further by lifting anyway. People said it can last 2-3 weeks.
Why are you such betas? Seriously, you sound like little girls.
Having a gf won't magically make your life better. If it does, it's just an indicator that your self-esteem is non-excistental and you need constant validation from a female since you can't suck your mother's tits anymore.
Build your own life and don't need anyone. Be independent. I'm 22 and I have no intentions to settle down anywhere near future. Possibly never.
>>37597713
Settling down isn't the same as fucking. I just want to have sex but not with a hooker that I have to pay.
>>37597713
>22 years old
Babby thinks he understands the world
You'll be entirely different in 10 years son
>>37597509
Doesn't end Anon. I have a very similar story. That was 3 years ago. Now I'm a swole manlet beast with Viking hair. Really confident with great job. But everyone I go to my home town, paranoid if running into her at bars and clubs.
Tfw thought I saw her at bar last night.
Almost ditched my friends and ran home.
Tfw gains don't help facing your evil ex. Breh.
>>37597790
Just saying that being desperate over "no gf" at young age is nothing but pathetic. You can think about that later.
I don't see myself ever having a serious relationship cause I'm basically an asexual. Nothing edgy here though.
>>37596676
lol
>just woke up
>dated a beautiful girl for about 2 years
>we broke up last thanksgiving because she moved across the country for school
>usually im fine, not thinking about her
>some nights like last night though I dream about her
>wake up feeling like shit for the rest of the day
I dreamt that I met a girl in a dark club, and we went out to my car and started kissin/fooling around etc, and then she called me a pet name that only she would know. I looked at her face and saw that it was her. In that moment, even though it was a dream, i felt happier than i have in so long.
Now she has a new hotter bf, she goes to a nice school, and i dropped out because im so mentally fucked up, and im basically a loser.
i woke up choking back tears when i realized it wasnt real. After dream feels are the worst feels.
>>37596558
>got drunk with some friends a few weeks ago
>virgin
>end up fucking a friend of a friend
>first grill to act interested in me
>haven't seen her since, feels bad
>>37597844
pleas no bully
>>37597872
its okay anon. hookup culture is the norm. don't expect girls you put your dick in to care about you. sex is like a handshake now.
What you saw her experiencing was pure sexual attraction. She wanted some dick, she got it, now she doesn't care anymore.
Women are simple creatures. Don't ever think harder than a woman does about relationships or you're just stressing yourself out.
>can't stop thinking about her
>>37596582
>pet roach
You probably have like 100 of them.
>>37597940
Thanks, that helps. Too thirsty for affection, better to focus on liftan.
>>37596924
Eat the sticky, read more food
>>37597675
Kill yourself
>>37597713
This guy get it
>>37596558
>tfw 25
>tfw girll u like tagged someone else on FB
>tfw too poor to take her out on a date
>tfw no job and no car
>tfw ragging inside
>tfw /fit/ taught me better so I will use all this feelz to hit PRs, keep getting leaner, get a job, and FUCK HER FUCKING BRAINS OUT while I laugh at the dyel that's been spending time with her
JUST WATCH MOTHERFUCKER. Doesn't matter if it takes me 6 months of a year. I will hit that harder than anyone else will ever will...
>>37597972
top lel
>>37597790
>Oldass thinks he will ever understand anything
Age is not equal to understanding
dumbass, you will die less or even dummber than what you are right now
>just 2 more work days until I get to go to a camping electronic/jam music festival in the woods
>cut is progressing decently, finally seeing a little progress
>moved to a new city for my job so not many friends but making good money
Life is decent and on an upwards trajectory due to my own efforts, which is a great feeling
>>37598057
good job anon. there are people like me who would kill to be in an independant position like you. keep it up.
>tfw you switch one eating disorder for another
>tfw you only feel good about yourself when you're starving
>>37598141
>who would kill to be in an independant position like you
same here breh
>>37597806
Shit breh. You think our exes also feel that way? The whole paranoia of running into us?
I mean at this point we probably look drastically different from before so maybe they'd barely recognize us, but fuck man. My only wish is that she also feels like shit about the whole ordeal.
>>37598141
Thanks breh, you can make it too if you keep trying
>>37597851
Holy fuck breh, the same shit happens to me. I haven't spoken to or seen anything about my ex on social media in over a year, and yet I still have dreams about her super often
>dreams about her ignoring me
>dreams about me denying her obvious attempts at baiting me back into worshipping her
>dreams about her trying to get back with me, me wanting to, but then I force myself to deny her because I know it will be bad for me
>dreams about seeing her with other guys
>dreams about us being in conflict
>dreams about her being present in the same room and both of us trying our best to ignore each other even though it's obvious we just want to speak
>dreams of her being a cunt to me
And yet no dream whatsoever about us actually just being happy together. Guess my brain is just really against the fucking thought of ever being back together with that cunt. I mean I guess that's a good thing, but shit. I can't even escape her wrath in my fucking sleep
>>37596558
Most of the time sitting at home playing vidya /watching netflix and lifting
Decided to go to festival with my friends
>Everyone is very kind and sharing
>People actually come up to me and talk to me for a bit
>Have random talks with drunks
Feels good man
>tfw everything is alright once you give up on the idea that you deserve things in life that you don't have
Feels good man.
>>37596771
>boot up video game
>it's one I used to play with my ex
>their shit is still all around it with stuff we traded each other
>decide to clean instead
>find papers where I list them as my emergency contact
not a good fucking day
>>37597292
same here m8
>>37597851
25 here .. never had a gf... i feel pity for myself
>>37597851
>>37598046
same ;(
>>37598360
and how does one achieve this?
wouldn't that make you less ambitious?
>>37596558
Go from having bad experiences with women to having a great boyfriend
>passed all my uni assignments
>birthday soon
Life is good senpai
>>37596860
Same situation here Anon.. Mom diagnosed with cancer 2 months ago, currently in chemotherapy.
Stay strong and lift some more weights. Remember that things like this in life makes us stronger. Perhaps it makes us even more stronger than lifting does
>always have the day off from work on Fridays
>always end up cheating on my cut on Fridays
I'm never going to make it...
>>37597851
> Sitting next to gf on the couch
> Her mom yells something from the kitchen
> I look at how pretty she looks while she says something back to her mom
> She looks at me, giggling because she caught me staring
> Go in for a kiss
> Right before our lips touch she says: 'You do know this is a dream right?'
> Wake up and realise it's been almost 2 years
Fucked me up for weeks senpai, wish you the best breh.
>>37597961
Went out yesterday and at one point the convo turned to ex-gfs, it occured to me that I spend the last 2 years of my life thinking about her every fucking day, I don't feel like I'm living anymore.
>>37599079
Been over 2 years for me breh and shit is sill feeling the same as you descibed. I constantly dream so she makes it in there a lot and it really fucks up my day. Still lifting though so we still got that going for us r-right?
>>37599155
Fuck man, hope this will end soon for us both.
I wish, been slacking a lot this past year and a half, getting drunk almost daily, really fucks up my motivation and gains. But it's the only thing I enjoy apart from lifting.
>>37599079
Jesus bro. My heart literally fell in my chest after reading that.
>>37596924
It's not as bad as you think. Was seeing a girl about a year ago and the only thing it gave me was panic attacks, shitty sex and unstable mental health. Just try to get yourself in line before pulling someone else into the toilet.
>>37599203
I hope it does breh I really do. I quit my job about two months ago because of some health issues and my stress level at work only made everything worse. Now the only thing I have to look forward to are my lifts and hopefully signing up for school this fall. I've made a good cushion of money to support myself for a good while but now that I don't have any real responsibility I feel like I'm falling back into the same hole I was in when the hurt was fresh. I've been in bed for 6 hours now trying to sleep but my thoughts always lead me back to the same dead end. Just glad to know I'm not the only one feeling this way. Ive cut all social media in the hopes I don't ever get reminded of her and have her creep into my thoughts and it's helps a bit. Anywheys much love breh I believe we'll overcome it eventually. Occupying my time with lifts and friends helps but they say I've become bitter about it and I honestly can't disagree. My family always says I was a much happier person at one point but I don't speak to them about why because it just brings back the bad feels. My minds just all over the place as you can probably tell but hopefully school will return me to my normal thought processes and sleeping schedule. Goodluck m8 we can do this
>>37596915
That's also all I really want, anon.
>>37599358
Goddamn, hit the nail on the head, the family stuff is the same here. Also thinking about going to school again just to get more structure in my life and maybe sometimes it'll force me to make friends, be more social and make me less of a loser.
I'm curious, did removing her have a good effect in the long run for you? After removing her, I still look(ed) at her profile from time to time when it got bad, it just made me miss her more for some reason.
>>37599410
It's helped a lot I'd say. I used to always be online and even trying to find somebody else if I put that fateful letter into the search bar I'd instantly be filled with regret as her face is at the top of the list just staring right at me. I still have urges every now and then to lurk her but it's definitely subsided from what it once was. Its really helped me with my relationships with my friends who went off to different cities for jobs/school because I'll text them from time to time asking how things are and when/if they're coming back into town. Also helps with my friends in town because I no longer contact them via social media and am forced into calling or texting them to make plans. Gets the ball rolling much faster.
>>37597675
wrist wraps
>>37596771
>>37596792
was about to reply "are you me?", but then I saw the first reply was "are you me?", so are you both me or what now
>>37596945
nothing worng with being an kv at 19, I lost my virginity at 21
ahppy Bday mate
>>37597646
it's just water weight anon.
you'll be alright.
>>37597851
I've let this girl live in my head rent free for nearly a year now. I know she doesn't even think about me but my thoughts always turn to her. I feel so dead inside and over a girl. I cannot believe that I allowed myself to become this pathetic
>>37596558
>recently turned 18 but most "freinds" are still 17 so can't go out yet
>very few opportunities to meet people especially girls because didn't get invited to parties or social events in the past
>invited to second party ever last week through freinds of freinds
>looking forward to it because i know there will be people i know there and some girls i've been meaning to meet but have not had the chance yet
>yesterday ask "freinds" if we are going tommorow but they seem kind of indifferant so i tell them to text me if we do.
>no text today
Makes me realise that i don't really even like these people and i don't really have a say in what we do or where we go. I really don't give a shit anymore i just want this next year to pass so i can go to uni in another city and make some real freinds
Didn't expect this thread to still be up, hope all of you have a great saturday night.
Gonna go out now and get shitfaced drunk so I'll at least forget about all my problems even if it's just for a little while.
>>37597826
>asexual
>calling other people beta
Pick one
>break up with gf of 3 years
>I would have to do it eventually because my job would take me away
>Both parents died in same year
>Literally filled with boiling anger 24/7 from the entire situtation
>Have to workout twice a die with cardio just to be able to get to sleep from all the anger and boredom from having nothing to do
>Friends all have qt girlfriends they are marrying and having kids with
>The girl i broke up with was a 5/10 at best and kept walking all over because she was my only gf ever
>Now that i'm alone i remember all the countless nights spent on worthless clubs trying to impress sluts so i can get laid and thinking i have to do it all over again, it's the same dread you got as a kid when your videogame saves got deleted
Can anyone help me with all these feels? At least i have the job i wanted which i'm grateful for but the fact i have to grind for a gf all over again(took me only 24 years) FUCKING PISSES ME OFF SO MUCH
I don't care about anything right now. I know my anger is giving off bad vibes to women and everyone around me so i'm applying to my country's naval commando unit this winter which has a 98% drop out rate and if i fail i'll just do my job and play videogames and drink myself to death.
I think i have a good chance at making it, i can do 25 m underwater swims, 1.25 100m swimming , 20 min 5 km ,250 pushups and 25 pullups
>>37603243
I can relate to this. My girlfriend of 2 and a half years just broke up with me (like an hour ago) and I'm just sitting here refreshing /fit/ and crying like a bitch. I feel like I have a void inside me and I don't know what to do. I'm 24 and still in college and I have finals this week and it's already 8 pm and I ate 2 pieces of toast today. Please make me feel better.
>get off work last night
>raining pretty hard
>some girl standing outside our awning, never seen her before and I'm the last guy in the building locking up
>ask her if she's waiting for someone
>she says she's waiting for the rain to let up so she can keep going to her destination
>Tell her I have an extra umbrella and I can get if for her if she waits a few seconds
>"Fuck off."
>she stomps off in the pouring rain
What the fuck was that, bros? I was going to give her one of the cheap emergency umbrellas our boss keeps in the lobby. Was I being creepy? She was standing next to my workplace I have every right to ask her why.
>>37597806
>>37598211
I feel the same way about running into my ex also. She's friendly so she wouldn't hesitate to speak to me and id rather avoid that kek
>>37603395
Unless something about the way you said it was off, no mate you sound like a cool guy. Fuck that bitch, she isn't even worth wasting mental energy on.
>>37597646
>be me eternal skeleton
>get into good routine, 3 big meals a day, lots of milk
>revising for exams and shit
>make loads of cool plans for the summer holidays
>finish exams, did meh
>all motivation gone, relapse in my diet, sit in bed all day hardly eat
>sleep routine fucked
>all my almost friends have gone home
>cant seem to care about anything
Help me bros how do i get my life back on track
>>37603395
This made me laugh, thanks for that
Don't worry about it she sounds like a bitch
>>37603484
You tell me you just described me, except I can't even pass exams
>>37597080
Holy fuck, that hit me so hard
I realized that I literally haven't talked to a human female in about a month.
> Work as software engineer in silicon valley
> On the team that has the lowest ratio of female engineers at my company, at about 15%
> Everyone around my office is male
> Everyone I work with regularly is male. It just sort of ... happened to be this way. I see females in the coffee room sometimes, but never talk to them
> All of my friends are male
Yeah, so it didn't actually bother me until I realized it was happening. Now it's just kind of sad.
>>37603885
>Came to uni hoping to get laid
>Mechanical engineering so like 95% male
>Barely any friends so I barely go out
>Still virgin
>One time I did actually go out, went home with a girl afterwards
>Pass out on her floor
kill me
>>37603885
>I see females in the coffee room sometimes, but never talk to them
welp
>>37596860
Dude that fucking blows.
I hope she is ok, but I don't think it has to be said that if she isn't we're here for you and you have to be there for her.
>>37603983
hm.. touche
This is gonna sound like a humblebrag
>Spent last 7 years (12->19 yo) obsessing over my appearance
>Mostly bc I have bitch tits and was bullied for them (+ being fat) in hs
>They fucking suck man
>Pretty much the only physical deformity that nobody else will properly take seriously, because lmao boobs
>Lost most of the fat, started lifting
>6'3" now, pretty good facial aesthetics
>Not gonna post a pic
>Over time notice everyone starts to treat me differently
>People rarely talk shit to my face anymore
>Much more respect, decent nubmer of mires
>People are fucking shallow
>Lonely as fuck
>Maybe money will solve my problems
>Start small company in spare time, make about 15k gbp, notbad.tiff
>Parents seem pretty proud
>I'm proud too
>Lonely as fuck
>Start uni, determined to sort out my social anxiety
>Really don't want to fuck up my uni experience
>Awkwardly bang a 3-4 girls in freshman year, kiss a whole bunch more
>Brain always finds a reason to dismiss them as ugly or boring etc
>Lonely as fuck
>Decide to fix my social skills, read How to Win Friends & Influnce People etc etc, as well as study a bunch of youtube vids
>Realize it's easy to carry a conversation by just properly listening, and stroking their ego subtly
>Suddenly all my conversations feel empty as fuck, as soon as I realize most people only want to talk about themselves
>Still maintain plenty of friendships, but it turns into a chore
>Lonely as fuck
>Decide to try tinder a couple days ago
>148 matches
>Some superlikes and legit messages too
>Don't want to talk to any of them
>Lonely as fuck
>Spent most of my spare time the past few years either working, working out, or looking in the mirror
>Feels like I missed out on a social life, but objectively it's above average
>The problem is me
>Stuck in a mindset of "I'll be happy when..."
>Life is objectively pretty freaking good
>Future is bright, can't wait to do all this shit
>Lonely as fuck
>>37596558
>22
>in college
>have no idea what I want to do with my life
>studying accounting, but I hate it
>want to just switch to business admin, but I know I won't get any job with that degree
>family is having money problems
>losing friends year by year
>all of them are moving on with their lives and I'm just stuck here
>qt lesbian girl I had feels for is moving away(not like I would have a chance with her).
>all my co workers are leaving
>feel like I'll be working at the restaurant for life
>everyday I feel more depressed and lonely.
All I've been doing this summer is working and trying to get better at excel and forming spreed sheets. I do feel a little more productive while I'm doing them, but then the bad feels come back and it just goes down hill from there.
drinking, smoking weed, jerking off doesn't take the pain away. Even working out doesn't help most of them time. I've tried therapy and also herbal supplements, but that shit doen't do much either.
Sometimes I feel like I was put on this earth just to be a sad cunt.
>>37596805
hey hey
>>37596945
Happy birthday Anon
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GtcWmlOzzF8
We're all gonna make it bro, hang in there
>>37597524
Same, except I couldn't go to the gym today and my next session is on tuesday. I forgot my gear at a friends house so I had nothing to work out in and no keycard
>>37597713
I'm just lonely man, and by definition having someone to spend time with would make me not lonely- seeing as we would be 2.
>be deployed
>qt3.14 female invites me to the USO
>"sure thing, be there in 20 mins"
>"we'll pick you up, we got a vehicle" she says
>ohshit.png
>go inside the barracks and text her "its kinda late, see you tomorrow"
>tfw autism
>>37603285
Sometimes shit hits the fan man.
Don't bother trying to work for your finals, just cry and eat a bit. You'll only feel better if you process the sadness, at least in my experience.
Don't try to avoid it, don't distract yourself, don't get high, don't get drink. Just be sad for a little while man. Sadness isn't always worse than happiness.
Tomorrow start hitting your finals and gently push yourself back towards your goals.
I believe in you dude.
>>37596860
Lifting heavy as possible today for this anon's momma. Never give up anon.
>>37601269
yes
>>37597530
never gonna make it
>>37596558
>no job
>no gf
>shitty friends
>lifting no longer fills the void
>>37596676
was she like a hot nerdy asian chick or what?
>>37596945
have a good one skelebro!
Mfw bf is working a double, and still hasn't gotten home yet-- or replied.
Did he meet a qt3.14 at work and abandon me?
>>37607047
Probably, but that's what you get for dating a guy who unloads the huge boxes of sexy underwear at Victoria Secret.
>>37607080
RIP
>mother passed away in 2011
>still wake up now and again with nightmares of her falling or slipping or otherwise getting hurt or about to be hurt
>can move up until that moment then i'm stuck in place
>wake up a mix of enraged and depressed
it's hard to focus that anger into my exercise sometimes m8s
>>37604372
holy fuck bro the qt lesbian girl feels hit me hard.
at least you haven't secretly loved her for 7 years until one drunk night you confessed to her and she said how much she values your friendship and now wont make eye contact and leaves parties when she realizes youre there and is probably getting with huge muscular guys right now but you cant do anything about it because no matter how hard you work out shell always be attracted to your good friend.
>at least he said he wouldnt do anything with her
>>37598252
>And yet no dream whatsoever about us actually just being happy together. Guess my brain is just really against the fucking thought of ever being back together with that cunt.
Holy fuck brother.. This hits way too close to home right now.
>dreams about her being present in the same room and both of us trying our best to ignore each other even though it's obvious we just want to speak
Add the fact that we both still go to the same gym and see each other at least once a week.
>meet qt white girl
>been talking for 2 months
>creampied her multiple times
>I can tell she likes me
>invites me over we fuck and then cuddle
>say really gay shit to eachother when we cuddle
>she's ontop riding me and puts her forehead on mine
>we go and fuck in her shower
>tell her I'll go home she says no I want you to stay and cuddle with me
>we end up telling Eachother that we both like eachother a lot
>she admits that she really likes me
>she's going for a job interview in a different state and if she gets it she will be moving
>she said she'd miss me if she left
>Mfw I think she'll get the job and move
What should I do Bros should I just wait to see if she gets this job or cut it off now?? Like we both like eachother and she told me she really enjoys the way I make her feel and shit..
>>37596558
>tfw you spilled you spaghetti way to early in front if her
>tfw she knows you are into her
>you still have to meet her occasinally through friends
>she geta hit on by several guys that night
>yet she avoid being close to you
>when she catches you staring she looks away in disgust
Literally my love life right now. And not just with one girl, but several.
>>37596945
Happy birthday bud! You'll be alright.
>>37596913
What esports do you watch anon? What's your favourite team?
>>37607305
Wait and see what happens. Enjoy your time together and take it for what it is.
My ex is getting married even though we broke up 6 months ago.
I'm having a great night.
>>37607419
Thank you bro.. Idk she today she's been like hitting me
With an "ok" and short texts and shit
>tfw bored literally waiting for time to pass by
>maybe play video games when wow legion comes out on aug 30
>just waiting for MCM manchester on july 30 while im on a strong cut
Bored out of my fucking mind.
feels like i should just work 7 days a week and get even more dosh than sitting here literally looking at the clock on 4chan.
>Have a qt 10/10 gf
>supportive
>loves me
>accepts me for all my flaws
>redpilled
>I was her first, she was mine
>Will be happy just watching me play vidya and loves to cook for me.
>I'm starting to lose interest and want to go fuck other chics
Why. I just want to feel happy with my grill. I don't want to break up with her then two years later of meaningless sex wish I hadn't and then spend time shifting through all the sloots to find a decent gf.
But I'm having a hard time staying faithful, even though I love her. I haven't cheated but I feel like I will.
hold me brehs
Should I just break up with her?
>>37607441
Do you have a reason why u can't move with her?
>>37607448
talk to her about it but watch your words. plan it out beforehand.
>>37597670
4 days, i think I'm falling for her
>>37596860
Mine passed away a month ago, but I have no regrets. I spent every moment I could with her to make her happy even in her last moments. And if you can't spend time with her at least call her. Stay strong big guy.
>inb4 "for you"
>>37597988
Kek
>>37607498
She'll break up with me on the spot. She's really loyal where she won't even hug her male friends and hang out with them unless it's a big group out of respect for me. Otherwise I would.
>>37606987
cute nerdy asian chick
looks like book worm no glasses
>>37607524
Isn't that what you want
>>37596924
>tfw I'm pretty much you
I don't even think it's that we're asian. My asian bros who are tall always get tail when they go out. It's literally just me who's left alone or turned down.
>>37607541
Yeah but I find myself wanting to fuck other girls to the point I have to actively stop myself from cheating. It's suffering
>>37597130
also the FOB asians in my city are all rich; they probably expect you to buy them a new bmw for their birthday or something.
>>37607569
dude im poor as fuck and pulled qt fob chicks all the time
>T. mexican from ealier
>>37607487
I mean no I don't have a reaosn but we aren't even boyfriend and girlfriend.. Like despite her saying she really likes me a lot and loves the way I make her feel and how she can act around me. Idk breh maybe if we had been dating but as up to now we are just a FWB type deal even tho I know we have more than that.. I'll just wait it out.. If she does leave its in a suck cause I stopped talking to a few qts for her and stuff but ohh well bitches come and go
Fuck my threads still up. I guess its time for Saturday night feels.
>tfw another night at home eating alone
>tfw want to jerk off but attempting nofap for the 30th time this year
>>37607524
>loyal
>will break up with you on the spot
Anon if she was really loved you and was loyal she'd listen to your problem and help you mend your relationship.
You know I dont have any experience with this but you should just quit bitching and tell her your problems and if she wants to dump you after all you said youve been through then she wasnt right for you anyway.
Then you can go fuck some sloots
>in good shape
>cant meet people cause im by myself
kinda grew apart from people as they settled down, how the fuck do you meet people when you are done school?
>>37603395
not creepy, seems like a cool thing to do
>lift for a year
>get a qt gf
>fall in love with her
Now every time I'm away from her I feel horrible and I miss her. I thought I was autistic before but now I literally analyze every single interaction I have with her. I think I'm better off now than I was but I don't know, this relationship shit is stressful.
Also, I can't cum when I'm with her and I lose my boner all the time, even if I do nofap for a week. I think I broke my dick by watching porn pretty much every day for the last 10 years.
>>37607305
Help a bro out. Roll for her not getting the job. Dubs
>rolling
>>37604372
Relax dude, you're still young. Keep lifting, keep studying. Take whatever opportunities come your way and make the best of everything.
>>37607524
No, she won't. She might start going to the gym and try harder for you.
>>37607569
anyone from their rich asian clique can give them money, not a lot of them can give them good dick
>>37607704
>she's just fat
>but really get her to beg for your cum, works for me when I have a tough time cumming
>>37599240
Brehs...
>>37607444
Lifting for wow right know. Left, hit some PRs, going back
>>37607524
Bro your a faggot. If you cheat, you'll NVR make it. No matter what, you'll feel like shit afterwards because pussy is the same. Stop listening to your dick or just keep creampieing her whenever you get the urge
Ya manlet
>>37607184
>7 years
Fuck man. I've had feels for her for only a year now. I kinda want to tell her how I felt about her, but I think it will just make things weird. We don't really talk anymore and the whole reason why shes moving is because she wants to move in with her gf.
fucking kill me m8
>>37607755
I know I'm still young, but I've been working at the restaurant for 4 years now. A few people I went to high school with have come in and they're always asking me how I'm doing in life. I always have to lie and say great, because I dont want them to know how bad my life really is.
Having little to no friends, no gf, no idea what I want to do in life really fucks you up. I'm trying to push through the bs ans pain, but its really killing me.
>>37607849
she tells me she is a lesbian but then talks about how she gets with black dudes.
i lift for her with the knowledge that ill never have her, but use those feelings to push harder.
>>37607448
You must be pretty young maybe early 20s or even younger. Either way you have a gf anyone would want to wife and a situation that is like one in a million. You need to step outside yourself for a minute and really think about what it would be like to be without her very possibly forever. If you honestly imagine that really well, chances are you won't be as happy. Maybe for a couple weeks maybe months you'll fuck other girls and it'll be cool but then you'll only realize how special she is compared to most dumb bitches and then regret your decision for the rest of your life. There's also a chance that's not the case and you'll feel more fulfilled leaving her but in my experience that's very unlikely. Either way don't take it lightly and really think that shit through... I mean REALLY think about it.
>8 months ago
>skinny skelly asian 5'11 with no confidence with women
>join gym
>teeny tiny powerlifting girl at 165cm sees i'm struggling on that lmao not even 1 plate bench
>asks if I need a spotter
>n-n-n-n-no pls
>awkward as fuck
>want to die
>super friendly and responsive though
>teaches me forms and exercises and just a few pro tips whenever she sees me
>become a regular
>she's a regular too
>exchange a few niceties
>dropping hints that she's available
>too beta to ask her out plus have weird thoughts that she'd never want to date me because I lift less than her
>asks if I want to come to her next powerlifting meet in a week
>watch her deadlift 145kg at 55kg
>doesn't come first but still extremely impressed since I could only deadlift 100 at the time
>see her talking to her coaches and friends
>about to leave
>"Anon! Are you leaving?"
>sort of that pouty looking face
>yeah I've got work I need to do
>"Aww that's too bad. It meant a lot to me that you came today. I'll see you tomorrow?"
>yeah definitely
>5 months pass
>definitely making progress
>muscle definition is there
>gained 10kg to put me to 80
>feeling confident about how I look
>lifts are at a decent mark
>feeling a little down though
>haven't seen powerlifter girl for over a month
>ask gym manager if he knows of her
>lets me know she's from out of state
>feel bummed
>"Hey man, I saw you guys work out a lot together, she'll be back for the next powerlifting meet. Don't miss out this time."
>never miss a day at the gym since
>>37607639
Bitches come and go but 2pl8's will always be 2pl8s
>>37607849
The only things I live for anymore are lifting, music, and bros.
I know I'll never get over her and it really sucks.
I try to think of flaws but I can't think of any that I don't like about her.
>>37607873
Yeah I kinda know how you feel. The lesbian girl I liked would flirt with me and tease me. She would also kinda do it to other guys and some girls too. She didn't fuck any of them though.
I think she just liked the attention because in high school she was kind of a loser.
>>37599079
We need to move on... We're holding on to the past which is preventing us from seeing what lies ahead.
>>37596558
Relevant /gymfeel/ video for anyone who hasn't seen it.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9mbp0DugfCA
>>37598046
Do you have a degree? Have you been unemployed long?
>>37607908
>I know I'll never get over her and it really sucks
Naw senpai I'm sure you'll get over her. There is still a part of me that has feels for the lesbian chick, but I think those are slowly going away.
Since shes madly in love with her fg and since she also moving away I just gotta accept it. I know I'm going to probably go full /rk9/ mode for a while, but once thats over I'm go back to being normal.
Hope things get better for you bro
>It's Saturday night
>My advisor just found out I got a shit grade in manifold theory last semester
>I'm listening to videos of Shinji screaming angrily while shitposting on 4chan and contemplating making an OKCupid account because fuck it's lonely having no friends or intimate relationships
How's everyone else's night going
>>37608031
online "dating" just seems so crappy
actual good girls dont need to use that stuff
>>37608048
I find it a bit difficult to relate to socially well adjusted people, so in a sense that's not necessarily a bad thing. And not everyone on the website is a social leper, you'd be surprised the number of PhD students / post-docs on dating websites who spent their 20s on school and didn't really put any time into dating.
But also about 1/3rd of the site are bisexual girls in open relationships and another 1/3rd of the site is 'live laugh love my hobbies include netflix and chill and traveling also I'm a HUGE foodie' so meh
>>37607642
She'd listen but she'd be really hurt, hence why she'd break up on the spot.
Thanks for all the advice brehs.
>>37608098
think about it though
girls have social stuff on easy mode: why would a good girl need to use dating apps?
It's a mixed kind of feels
>text girl constantly morning till night the past 2 weeks
>work with her on occasion also
>crushing on her hard, pretty sure it's the same for her
>she had bf
>they broke up 2 days ago
>since then havent heard from her
>pretty sure she just wants time alone and told her to text me whenever she wants a chat
>haven't said much since then.
Should I be doing more or do I wait for her to get back to me? Not good with being the rebound guy
Should I try to
>went to gym
>worked on math homework for 6 hours
>have Skype date with SO who is 2200 miles away.
Pretty normal Saturday for me.
>>37608119
Well, aside from schooling/PhD/Post-docs, it could mean either she has serious emotional issues, she's desperate for attention, she's extremely picky about who she dates, or she's a social autist and struggles in face to face interaction.
I suppose it also depends on what you mean by 'good girl'.
For all I know maybe there's a girl on that site who I'd get along great with, so I don't see any harm in trying.
>>37596808
>>37596787
>tfw in school for software engineering and read this
>>37596860
i know you dont believe in god and i dont either but im praying for your mom anyways anon
noone deserves that feel
>>37596924
would love to gym buddy you anon
>>37597080
>you'll never be able to speak without feeling like you're just bothering someone
I started thinking when I was 13 or 14 and now I can never shake it. I try to push it out of my head but it still keeps me from making almost any friends at all.
>>37607902
add her on facebook anon
>>37608147
What kind of math you doing anon?
My friend's cousin committed suicide, and I feel really bad and it made me think about my friend that committed suicide. And my baby brother that died when he was 18 months old. Fuck man it has been 2/4 years and I still cry when I think about them..
>>37608169
>I still cry when I think about them..
Nothing wrong with that man. Don't believe that just because you're a guy your not allowed to cry.
fucking let it out nigga. Don't push your feels down or else your just doing damage to yourself.
>>37604360
I'm in the same place. Good job, good social life, accomplished, but nothing feels genuine nor worthwhile. Not even interested in dating because it just seems like I'd be doing it because I'm bored. Just focusing on making money and getting swole. Then I'll be happy, r-right guys?
>>37607379
NA'VI SwiftRage
not him but whatever
>>37608289
What game? I know navi has a csgo and Dota team but that doesn't sound like it comes from either
>>37608305
Dota
>>37608350
Oh swiftrage is the emote, I only know Kappa my bad
>>37604360
Are you me?
>muh feelings
>>37602644
Similar. Realized how selfish and shitty my friends were my senior year of hs ladt year, they just wanted to party and trip get high all day every day. I did drugs every once in a while, but man, fuck those guys.
>Finish my first year of uni
>Top twenty school
>Physics
>Three close "friends" who seem like they genuinely like and care about me
>Two pretty alt/goth girls
>One cute and weirdly promiscuous lesbian
Uni sucks. Fuck this place fuck the people. All the guys try to one up each other, girls only look for guys to fuck and "have adventures" with and "experience life" with. I'm really, consistently unhappy for the first time in my life. University sucks. The one person I knew from hs here wants nothing to do with me. Used to be cool. Now he parties every night with brogrammers. Focus on studies. Focus on lifting. It doesn't get better.
University is fine, but I miss my shitty fake hs friends. At least they didn't treat my like some weirdo to laugh at like everyone here. i hate this place. Maybe look for friends outside of uni.
>>37604360
What are you currently doing about your situation, anon? I ask because.... Reasons.
>>37608644
Try joining clubs or looking for meetups. You find more friends in a room full of people with similiar interests than a classroom or hust meeting randos on campus.
>be me
>perfect life
>fit, rich, qt3.14gf, went to ivy undergrad
>dislike life enough to constantly think about blowing my brains out
>don't dislike it strongly enough to actually do it
Just another day m9s, just another day
>>37609009
m8
come on
like you said, you have a perfect life. so either
your depression is chemical, in which case this can be remedied by medication
your depression is situational, and you're being a bitch and not changing things
>no matter how much you lift you still have scoliosis from years of laying in bed all day
>>37609021
It's chemical, without a doubt. I really should try the meds but I'm worried about them because I'm not too great with drugs. I have it under control now and drink in moderation but I'm an alcoholic. Used to be into coke, too. Still smoke pot a couple times a week but that shit is cash.
There's plenty of situational too but that's a work in progress I don't care to bore this Cherokee lego enthusiast image board with.
Lost 75 lbs but hit a plattue. Decided to start cutting at 600-800 instead of 1000-1200. Losing weight quick now but on Thursday I blacked out walking into the bathroom and bashed my head on the tub and my husband freaked the fuck out and wont let me leave the bed. Every time I even get up to get water he asks what Im doing and if I need help or if he should call the Dr. He said it was the scariest moment of his life and Im afraid hes going to coddle me because of it. When will I be able to get my own glass of water without him thinking Im a fragile baby who needs help with everything? Jesus fucking take me now, I just wanted to finish this cut so I can start lifting more seriously and now Im banned from lifting, cardio, and apparently getting off my ass to do anything at all until he decides I wont die the second I get up.
>tell buddy I want to hang out tonight
>says cool, at solstice parade, will be around later
>doesn't text or anything
>walk by bar, see buddy in there with friends
>come back home to watch people play video games and browse /fit/
I have it all.
I'm finally jacked.
I have a great job.
I'm 6'0/white/attractive/confident.
I get pretty much any girl I want. I've plowed at least 50 girls this year alone, all HB7+.
Except I'm still in love with my Ex for no good reason, as her personality was awful in pretty much every single way. Since we broke up/Without her toxicity, my life has been amazing in every possible aspect, I'm happy, driven, successful, confident, etc.
But I'd give it all up to go back and be miserable with her again. I never wanted to be successful/happy/confident. I just wanted her.
>>37597851
>i just want the nightmares to stop
>>37596753
I did Tae Kwon Do for a while when I was younger. Wish I would've stuck with it, you meet a lot of fun people
>>37604696
I've been there. The hesitation, the nervousness. The feeling that it'll just be better to stay back.
I'm still there. I still do these things, avoid situations, just so I won't have to endure certain stresses. It feels terrible, made worse by the fact that it's such a gut reaction for me, such an instinct to be shy, but also such an instinct to regret it.
>>37596860
Hope your mom stays with you anon
>Lost 90 pounds over the last two years
>Still fat (not teenage girl fat, but actually fat - 250 pounds at 5'7")
>Bf of five years fantasies about Chris Hemsworth and one of our chick friends and won't touch me except for cuddling
>At least I still get that
>Struggling to get down enough food to work out and work
>Getting bitched at by friends who think I'm developing anorexia
I'm in school, have a job, and a small handful of good friends who actually care about me, so I shouldn't complain too much, but losing the weight the right way is killing me because it's taking so long. Though I finally have a friend who wants to go to the gym with me and actually work out, unlike that chick friend who just wants to complain about her weight to fish for compliments and won't do bunk about it no matter how many times I offer to go to the gym with her. He can't go at my usual time, so it looks like I'm going twice some days now. Hopefully this will accelerate the process and give me the ability to eat more.
>>37596945
Happy birthday anon, you're gonna make it
>broke up with gf a few weeks ago
>today i hung out with an old female friend
>it went really well
>lots of smiles and touching
fuck yea lads
>>37596771
It isn't that great breh. I just got out of a relationship and I feel like I can breathe now. Vidya isn't too great, fapping isn't too great, but I'll find something to fill the void, and so should you.
>>37610251
dump your bf you fucking beta bitch.
holy shit you're getting C U C K E D
>>37610268
Fuck yeah bro!!
Kinda in the same boat bro.
How good is it to just hang out with other chicks/dudes or old friends after so long?
Especially after breaking up with someone.
>>37610268
Good job anon! Ask her out
>>37596676
Come on, don't be this pathetic. You could of talked to anyone there about BBQ; it's really not that hard.
>>37607448
I don't know if you'll read this or if anyone else will that might be in a similar situation but for fuck's sake don't do it. I had the exact same thing going on and I cheated on her multiple times and then some and broke it off and I'm now looking for a qt of the same caliber and I really do not think there's a chance anytime soon. Its not worth it, trust me.
I've been on 4chan for longer than half a decade and this is my 4th post because your situation reminded me of mine. Not worth it brother, keep your girl and learn from my mistakes, even though I'm just a random guy on a paraguayan ovenmit knitting board.
>>37611663
Not him but how is it possible that someone in the 5 years they spent on here only manage 4 posts?
>>37604360
I don't know if this will help you, but if you really think about it, your very desire towards achieving perfection is the cause of your suffering.
There's a very simple reason for that. It's because our egos are never satisfied.
>>37611807
Never felt inclined to post, except for situations like these.
>>37611255
Was concentrating on not drinking and everyone there had a beer in their hand and came in groups i would have looked like a weird lonely junkie
>Find a 30 years old QT3,14 (I'm 31)
>She lost a ton of weight, like me.
>First date is going so well. Kissing, perfect, all is good.
>«You know anon you are my first guy, I only dated girls before»
>I'm really ok with this.
>But she wants to make it reaaaal slow, with tons of doubt about everything.
I don't know how to feel, I really like her but I want a normal gf that wants to build something with me.
>>37597713
>>37597713
because i have no friends and i'm a virgin
if i get a gf then i'd have a friend plus sex. it would make my life better
>>37612109
You're the betabux she's going to ride out the rest of her life on after having realised that her true sexuality will only lead her to unstable crazy bitches.
She will pretend to love you but always come off lacklustre and give you a shitty sex life that she forces herself to go through once a month to keep you around so she can keep her safety net.
She will probably have an affair with a woman behind your back several times throughout the relationship.
>>37607885
this this this this this this this
>>37609149
you have NPD mate
>>37612667
The best disorder there is.
>>37609059
>alcoholic
theres your problem m8
>>37607448
if you can, stay with her. ive been in that situation and broke up with them, and it ends up being shit. sometimes years later you think back about how it might have been. sleeping with random girls is fun, but having an awesome girlfriend that you can hang out with is more fun in the end, plus its fufilling.
if you cant stop yourself from cheating, then i guess break up with her... but really really think about it. its the shittier option.
>>37596924
i know a guy who was like 22 or somethign when he got his first kiss. lost his virginity that night to that girl.
banged like 10 girls that year.
all the chicks dig him now.
20 isnt that bad for kv, one day you will be glorious pussy slayer like him.
>>37597940
>its okay anon. hookup culture is the norm.
This sentence makes me want to off myself.
Seriously, how did society fall part so quickly?
>>37597940
>hookup culture is the norm
>tfw 32 year old kissless virgin
;_;
>cuddle with girlfriend
>snuggles her booty into me
>massage her boobie
>stop massaging
>she wiggles her butt until i start again
>>37615410
Fuck you
Get fucked
Get the fuck out of here
