>tfw gf is cutting hard so her libido is zero
>gonna be cutting till July
>tfw bulkan and lifting heavy so test higher than normal
>tfw feeling testy all the time
I feel like my sex drive is clouding my judgement all the time, making me angrier about petty things, not just at home but also at work
what do /fit/ =(
>>37306241
JACK OFF!
>>37306241
Problem?
>Step 1: Eat
>Step 2: Masturbate
>Step 3: Re-assess(wot) the situation
>masturbate
>sneak up behind her
>cum on her
is this a thing people might do in a relationship?
>>37306241
Use her
>>37306247
>>37306256
I've tried that but it's just not the same. It makes me resent the fact that she's working on a gorgeous body but I can't have it... sounds shallow, but we live together, so it almost feels like she's a walking cake and I'm a starving African child.
>>37306274
I hadn't tried that, maybe this will solve my problem
>>37306241
>tfw I'm cutting hard and my libido sky rocketed and my boyfriend can't keep up with me
>>37306241
iktfb
Gonna have to jack it multiple times a day or you're gonna rage on people with your new found fat dad strength.
>>37306309
Tell her to deal even if she's not in the mood, are you always in the mood to mow the lawn or listen to her talk about her day or go to the gym? No but you still do it for her...
>>37306241
She's lying. She should feel more sexy if she's cutting, when I started birth control my doctor/ppl told me my libido would die aaaand you know what, it didn't, I grew boobs and felt hotter, also my bf loved it and that was a huge turn on for me. Just tell her she's looking really good, let her know you REALLY want to fuck her and you'll be getting a blowjob in no time
>>37306241
Fuck her anyway. don't be a beta.
>>37306339
I've tried channeling it into my lifts, and it does work - my lifts are stronger, but I'm just meaner and less patient in general, which is the opposite of what I normally am.
>>37306341
>>37306288
The issue with the ultimatum approach is that it's not fair - especially in this case. I mean, let's be honest, if we reversed it and I couldn't get it up I dont think it'd be fair for her to say I should just do it anyways like a chore. LTR stuff, I guess.
>>37306343
I tell her that she looks good all the time, but it doesn't change much. Cutting out most fats from your diet will heavily affect hormones, and I'm pretty sure that's what's happening right now. Normally we're fine together.
>>37306241
dude in my honest opinion if your gf refuses to have sex with you then she's using you for one thing on the other. Start looking for other options.
Even if she isn't cheating now, she will when she gets the chance
>>37306410
>/pol/ pls go
>>37306386
If you couldn't perform you wouldn't even throw a courtesy finger blast her way?
>>37306386
Is she cutting with a balanced diet? At least 25% of the calories should be from fat or at least 1g per kg of bodyweight IIRC.
It's really weird that she doesn't feel hotter and hornier.
For how long will she cut?
She's fucking someone else mate.
>>37306465
well she's like 40kg so...40gs? I think her macros say 30/32gs though. Cutting until July (bikini comp). Hotter is true but I think it's about general energy levels, she's either working out, doing cardio, or meal prepping. Maybe it's just cuz she's tired af.
>>37306704
>I think it's about general energy levels, she's either working out, doing cardio, or meal prepping. Maybe it's just cuz she's tired af.
That probably makes sense. It seems like having sex is not a priorityf for her tho.
Also, 40kg AND cutting? Holy shit, how tall is she?
>>37306898
closer to 45kg (100lbs), 4'11
I just wanted to know if other people have dealt with similar situations, I guess. I've talked to her about it, and she agrees its probably due to the change in diet and energy (as opposed to, say, me getting fat, etc). The easy answer seems to just be to jerk off more, but I wanted to see if there were other options. I can't get off without PiV with her though, so just hjs or bjs are not really on the table
>>37306241
Are you asking for permission? Escalate non verbally on her, MAKE HER HORNY! If a girl is essentially saying "I don't want to fuck you because I'm on a diet" then you're almost certainly gonna have to get a new girl soon enough.
>>37306241
Maybe have her blow you or jerk you off? It ain't gonna be the same but it's much better than jerking yourself off. Other than that, just use her man. Tell her you want it badly, need it almost. All she has to do is lay there get wet and wait for you to cum in close to 2 minutes so what's the deal?
>>37307011
>as opposed to, say, me getting fat
Bulking guys are the best. Husbando mode is ideal
>The easy answer seems to just be to jerk off more
It seems like. Good luck senpai
>>37306241
Maybe you should, I don't know, talk to her about it; you know, like a normal person in any relationship. Tell her how it's making you feel and that you need to get your rocks off. It doesn't have to be an ultimatum or an argument. Tell her sex at least once a week is necessary- or at least a bj. I mean fuck, a man needs that shit to function in a relationship.
>>37307096
>>37307042
see
>>37307011
>>37307073
Thanks famalam I'ma do my best. In the meantime I guess I can keep ragelifting, it makes me feel like how I used to when I first started lifting with no gf... an angry little person lifting heavy weights to shrug off some feels.
>>37306241
Gf is mad at me.
I sometimes try to have late night sex and dont even notice it. Like sleepwalking for sex. So i guess i was trying to grab my girlfriend last night for what seemed like "an incredibly long time." That she got so pissed had to get up and lay on the couch for a bit.
I dont remember any of this. She was piiiiiissed this morning.
Ya Id just talk to her. Youre a fucking guy I assume young and /fit/ you cant really get by just not having sex. Girls can do it easily but guys almost need it. If she isnt gonna put out to help you or at least help you get off fuck her. Hopefully youd do it for her like most guys. Fuck her in that case you dont have to put up with that shit.
>>37307119
If a woman starts witholding sex from you for arbitrary reasons, it's not because she has headaches or she's on a diet. She's either with someone else, or you've fallen so much into the deep end of complacency that she's losing sexual interest for you because you're not that interesting to her anymore, as you got too comfortable in the relationship...
>>37307119
Wow this thread was so refreshing. Thanks for being mature OP and being considerate of others, as well as yourself. So used to /fit/ being a bunch of misogynist assholes lol
>>37306241
Sex is cardio, retard. Get her to eat a bit extra so she has the energy to do some cardio with you.
>>37307139
Not trolling but I have sexsomnia. Despite having sex on tap I try and fuck when I'm asleep. Sometimes I slightly remember but usually not. Always happens in the middle of the night. My gf doesn't mind and will just roll me over and tell me to sleep.
>>37307119
Lift for the swimming doge anon
>>37306386
>>37306462
I've gotten my gf off with fingers when I've had whiskey dick, and she's blown me when she's too tired for sex.
It's called love, faggot. Experience it.
>>37307179
>Misogynist
Reddit plz go
>>37307184
She's usually pretty nice about it. She'll grab me and tell me "baby, no. Go to bed." And in my drunken sleepy state I'll mumble something and roll over and pass out. I don't knoa what i did last night but it pissed her off. I think i may have slipped a finger in and she wasn't happy about it.
>>37307220
You would think blowjobs are more tasking then letting someone plow their dick into you for a few minutes
lmao
If you're gf isn't fucking you then that means she is either:
A) Cheating
B) Doesn't find you attractive
C) You're a C U C K
Don't waste your time
>>37307179
well /fit is where I've gotten most of my decent advice, from lifting to general relationships. Sure it's deteriorated a little over the years, but the core of it's still the same - a community of lifters of all sizes. Sometimes there's shit flung around but often you'll find good advice here and there, which is why I stick around. If we all do our part to sometimes help each other out we'll keep the core of what /fit is
>>37307212
always.
>>37307011
Is your gf 14 years old?
