>tfw old oneitis just used to use me as a beta
>queue three years of serious lifting
>got ripped and all of a sudden she wanted me to fuck her
>completely over her and going for hotter girls at this point
>still fuck her on the reg when I'm bored
>last night she was bitching that I'm not as nice as I used to be to her
>flipped out cause I was done with her shit and told her that her only job right now in life was to service my cock when I'm bored and if she keeps being annoying she's gonna lose that
>she just gets really wide eyed and says she knows
>next day wake up to snap chats of nudes from her
>she tells me she's not going to be hooking up with other guys and she gonna save herself for whenever I need to use her
>didn't respond
Hahaha guess I made it right bros?
No fuck that maybe I have made it but is this what making it is?
Why am I acting this way.
All I wanted when I was skinny was to get big so a qt 3.14 and treat her with the respect she deserves.
Now I treat every girl like dogshit and they love me for it.
But I feel so shit deep down for what I do.
How do I stop viewing women as people?
>women
When will this meme end?
>>37237791
You don't, you just hide your actual feelings and the love you feel deep inside until you die.
>>37237791
You convert to homosexuality
>>37237791
Either give us the nudes or gtfo. I have no idea why this keeps needing to be repeated.
>>37237791
>>flipped out cause I was done with her shit and told her that her only job right now in life was to service my cock when I'm bored and if she keeps being annoying she's gonna lose that
You need to take 10 scoops with that.
>>37237905
This tbqh family
>>37237791
I'll take made up story for 1000.
Stop viewing them all as 'women' accept that people aren't equal. Some deserve to be treated like shit so you can stop feeling bad about it. Treat the people who deserve to be treated well, well. Maybe this one deserves it, idk that's your call.
>>37237905
show us since you dont care about her
>>37237791
>Hahaha guess I made it right bros?
totally
>>37237791
Congrats. You've found out women are trash, you're on your way to making it
>>37237791
Fake
>>37237791
Respond to her?
Idk bro but I seem to be in a similar pickle (minus the oneitis) and I just say Fuck her. She's a vain bitch sounds like, and she'll just get more and more depressed until she attempts suicide. Lemme put it this way, if you make her happier, she'll try to kill your gains, if you make her sadder, she'll try to kill herself.
Like I said, pickle.
ITT degenerates support each other's misogynistic views, confounding the problem.
Good luck when you drive one to Suicide.
>>37238016
Suicide is a million times better than dying of old age in a health care system that doesn't care.
>>37237956
>>37237928
>Snapchat
>>37237791
>Next time, on "Shit that really happenned and isn't some nerds fantasy"
Lol for real I think I seen this porn
>>37238043
>2016
>Doesn't know how to save snapchat pics
>>37237791
some girls will ONLY want you if you're mean
some really lose the interest when you're good
this is most certainly the kind of personality you want to avoid, trust me
>>37237886
>tfw no bearmode bf
>>37238016
>misogynistic
i wondered how many replies it would take for this word to arrive
>>37238035
So treating a woman like shit and driving her to Suicide, is actually an act of kindness, and advanced euthanasia in case dying of old age sucks?
I don't think so.
>>37237939
>Treat the people who deserve to be treated well, well
some native speaker around? this looks correct but sounds weird, is it ok to say it like this?
I really don't know what to say dude. I haven't even made it yet, barely 165 and had similar shit happen to me. I don't know if there is an answer anymore. Used to think the sexes were equal, not equivalent, but I just dont know anymore. My personal experience has led me to believe that men are naturally dominant and that women effectively always fall into line after men when they understand the man holds the power in the relationship.
This isn't a new idea, but it would completely and utterly destroy the idea of a romance between equals. Most other relationships I've seen have had the opposite balance of power, or a kind of mediocre balance between two people who didn't have any particular passion or ability about them. From this I've concluded that without further evidence, the best theory to work off of is that the dominant personality will always win out, with the caveat that men are inherently more likely to be dominant if they're healthy and have an actual reason to live. Hope my autistic analysis helps, man. We're all gonna make it brah.
>>37238111
This. OP is looking at girls through a filter, as we all are. I've been where OP is right now, and the best thing he can do if he wants to meet women he respects is to step up his career game and stop being a huge douche to leave the door open for girls who water totally trash.
>>37237791
You're not the man you set out to be yet. You've made it in the /fit/ sense, but you can go even further.
>>37238126
"A misogynist is a person who hates or doesn't trust women. Misogynist is from Greek misogynḗs, from the prefix miso- "hatred" plus gynḗ "a woman." The English suffix -ist means "person who does something."
>women are trash
>her only job is to service my cock
Seems appropriate.
>>37238139
Well well well
I suppose "if someone deserves to be treated well, treat them well."
Or
"Some people are worthy of proper treatment, so treat them as such"
The original sentence makes sense to me, but strunk and white may disagree.
Oh well.
>>37237865
>>37238201
thank you man
>>37237791
>did i make it?
No.
Would your dad be proud of the way you are treating her? What about your mom? In a few years, when you have kids, would you be proud to tell them about this? About how you are taking advantage of a weaker person due to some insecurity-based revenge plot?
Making it is about fostering genuine, loving human relationships.
>>37237791
Not fit related, fuck off the board.
>>37238016
Implying women ever actually go through with suicide. They just use it as a ploy to get attention and make people feel bad for them for preferential treatment.
>>37238111
>>37238160
These guys get it.
Personal development, do you want to spend your time dominating a weaker individual? Because you'll get really good at dominating weaker individuals, you'll have a niche skill in treating women like shit.
Or you can try and find a woman who will lift you up, and you lift up.
She might cook you fit meals, you might help her lift. You might have common interests to talk about. You might be able to introduce her to your friend/family/business associates and people will think more of you for being with her. You may be able to talk about your problems and know you can value her judgement.
This kind of woman will walk right past you if she sees your dominating the feeble like a parasite. She'll see that you have to grind women down, assume it's because you are weak, and that you'd do the same to her. Opportunities will pass you by, and you'll become bitter and nasty.
OP you've reached a turning point. You've realised you've become a relationship curlbro and you could carry on curling or ditch the ez bar and do some compound exercises.
Who would you rather be? Ned Stark or Joffrey?
Good luck dude. Lots of guys grow up and realise meaningless casual sex with vulnerable women isnt worth it. I hope you ditch relationships that make you into a person you don't want to become.
>>37238320
I couldn't have said it better
>>37238283
Dude she is fucking him because she is horny not because she loves him.
She is just a bitch.
>>37237791
Op leave that bitch and only love the people who really loves you.
>>37238318
>implying people of both genders don't complete suicide
https://afsp.org/about-suicide/suicide-statistics/
I'm not saying women should be given attention and 'preferential treatment' just incase they commit suicide.
I'm saying if you grind someone into the dirt, break their spirit and make them feel worthless and hopeless on a daily basis, at least consider the consequences.
I think the less extreme options are a worse fate.
>She becomes super attached to you and scared away potential meaningful relationships
>she believes you thoroughly and you get everything you want from this shell of a relationship, not realising the potential for meaningful relationships
>she becomes an alcoholic/ starts abusing substances and you feel responsible/ don't feel responsible
>She finds someone better and exposes the hateful things you've done.
>you think she's worthless but she has your baby
>>37238320
well said anon
>>37238320
Implying you can't have both.
>protip you can, I do
>>37238320
Very well said. A person as described by OP is respected by others like him and by people who want to be like him, but arent (i.e. betafags). Any person of standing would disrespect a person like that immensely.
>>37238383
They're contradictory. How can you have both unless you're cheating on someone? And if you are your not really the guy he was talking about, bro.
>>37237865
fuck you how do you understand me better than i understand myself
get out of my mind
>>37238479
The girl I'm with currently helps with my nutrition, motivates me at gym, and has met my parents. However I still sometimes choke her, spank her ect. I'm the dominate one in the relationship.
How can you not have the best of both worlds?
>>37237905
this x1000000 familia. we don't need to read any of that bullshit
>>37237791
post photos to prove she's not a fat sack of crap
>>37238515
I do this in a consentual fashion and consider myself to be in a wholesome relationship.
This is different to 'your only role is to service me, that is the extent of our relstionship and I can have sex with other women, put up or shut up'.
>>37238543
True, however it isn't sexual choking. Just when I get angry at her or board
> Start lifting & take it really seriously; see good results.
> Apply this dedication to everything, save up loads of money and leave shitty job I hate so i can start studying full time in my own time - get offer to study chemical engineering at prestigious university in the fall
> Get gf along the way - all she ever does is complain about how seriously I take training and how all I ever do is study and how I'm no longer fun
> Don't want to watch shitty TV/go out drinking/eat shitty food she complains about this too
> Tell her I don't give a fuck what she thinks and I will do what I want/won't do what I won't - act's like I'm some sort of prick.
Don't get a fucking gf lads, they are the ultimate gains goblin - they'll sap your gains, your money and your drive to get shit done. 4chan doesn't make you misogynistic it makes you question why women can act like such cunts all of the time and how men aren't supposed to call them out on that shit because "That's what women do" - I blame society with it's putting pussy on the pedestal mentality that drills into bitches heads that they're all princesses and should be treated accordingly from infancy well into their 30's.
Focus on your lifting, careers and hobbies bros - don't ever let a vagina life support system convince you otherwise.
>>37237791
things that didn't happen right here, no one can be that dim, are women truly a meme?
>>37237791
you eventually come full circle when you get your heart broken by a good girl who you treated like shit, seems like youre half way at this point
>>37238141
>that pic
Fugg..
>>37238554
>I choke my girlfriend when I am angry with her or bored
You are an asshole.
>>37238320
Ned Stark got played by everyone because muh honor and ended up losing his head. Yeah, I'd rather by Joffrey, you fucking weakling.
>>37237865
This.
I met my highschool crush 2-3 years after I started lifting. She kept hitting on me so I responded accordingly. I had her at the palm of my hands but I was so fucking impatient that I spilled fucking everything like a moron. Then obviously she got scared and that was that.
Never making that fucking mistake again, I'll just force myself to be an emotionless robot because that's what girls want.
>>37239007
Is Joffrey any less dead?
Why does everyone on this site have trouble interacting with women in a normal, meaningful fashion?
Is the autism thing not a meme? Are you all really on the spectrum?
I don't get it.
>>37237791
This happened
Don't treat women poorly just because you can get away with it. You're just finding self validation through dominating others.
>>37238560
Having just left a relationship I see things similarly, but you can't paint a whole gender with the same stroke. There are people who make great life partners and see the bigger picture, that chick just isn't one.
>>37239060
That happened to me, but the genders were reversed.
You need to understand not every single person is like this and you'll eventually find someone who feels the way you do and aren't retarded. Why would you change yourself like that and close off your feelings? That sounds fucking terrible to alter yourself that way for someone you want to spend much of your life with.
>>37239150
That's true, but you have to understand it would be extremely hard to find somebody like that. I'm 6 feet of muscle now, I doubt any girl would want an "Emotional muscly guy". It's basic human instinct to expect something of someone by looks, when you see a small girl you wouldn't think she'd be dominant and emotionless. What I'm saying is, if a girl saw me and fell for me, it's high chance that she'd be turned off if I acted emotional. And if I liked that girl as well it would be bad for me.
>>37238560
Broke up with a girl who basically like this several months ago. By the end, I'd stopped going to the gym and lost all discipline. And then one day I just remember looking in the mirror and thinking 'I am not happy with what I have become' and it took me a while to realise what the cause was, she really blinded me.
It was a hard decision to make, I really did love her. Hell, I still do, but at the end of the day I just wasn't happy with the direction my life was going after I worked so hard to turn it around once already, so I had to leave her.
Its been about 4 months since then, and I've already made a lot of progress again in all areas of my life and I'm much happier.
>>37238560
Bruh, my gf is lazy as fuck too. But instead of complaining she supports me and mires me hard.
She doesnt have disciplin, but I get her ass into the gym and now I started Kickboxing so she goes to that too. (She kickboxed before and was really good, shes just a lazy fuck)
>>37237791
Some people deserve to be treated like shit, maybe you just need to find the right girl, a girl that appreciates your caring mentality and that you're not some hardend asshole but a good guy who wants to be seen as such.
I think depriving people of respect and dignity works well regardless if you're a guy or a girl or if the relationship is sexual or not, people want to please, it's natural because we're social beings and when we see that our efforts are met with ignorance we try to dig deeper to find something that will make them like us.
You will find yourself in both situations probably more than once in life.
>>37238320
>Who would you rather be? Ned Stark or Joffrey?
You lost me there, solid up until there, Game of thrones as a reference is truly pathetic and plebeian. Don't you know some actual literature or film?
>>37238320
Oi,mate how about kill yaself, fucking cunt.
>>37238626
stfu you pussy, you don't smack your girl around like disobedient avocado?
>>37238320
yikes
>>37237791
You have become Chad muh nigga. I lift to become like you
>>37237791
I don't know dude, but watching this vid made me realize that a lot of women (people) aren't loyal nor marriage material:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pzx1mBcoUrY&oref=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.youtube.com%2Fwatch%3Fv%3Dpzx1mBcoUrY&has_verified=1=em [Embed]
I wish I wasn't so foolish.
>>37237791
>implying that OP isn't just in a sub/dom FWB relationship with this girl.
You don't need to be mean to her, you just have to treat her like a servant. It's entirely a sexual thing. Think less of you bullying her and see it as what it exactly is
>>37238560
>chemical engineering
wew lad
>>37237939
It's fine l. Nothing wrong about it. It could be worded better. Like I would have said treat people with respect who deserve it
>>37237791
If this actually happened op doesnt deserve to be around other people. Let alone try and have real relationships.
>gets first gf. Shes shit.
>loses shit gf and gets fit
>has that fake alpha state of mind
>like a retard tries to fuck hotter girls and his oneitis and treating oneitis like shit
>she prolly knows shes a bitch but hangs on for shitty self esteem issues
>op decides to be a cunt and get revenge on his oneitis because he, like a bitch, harbors resentment from shit that happened years ago
>acts like an asshole to oneitis and has fucked up life revolving around this oneitis bullshit instead of lifting becoming a decent human being and instead looks for reinforcement for his shitty behavior on a fitnes board on the internet.
So no op. Yous a bitch. A big fat bumbly bitch. Being a woman doesnt make you a bitch, your shitty character as a person makes you a bitch cause your doing bitch things so do me a favor and apologize to all your low self esteem hoes and become a better person before you darken anyone elses life with your miserable bitch state of mind.
>>37245613
I can get behind this.
Let go OP. There's no point in spreading hate and misery just because you have the power to now. Be the person you know you can be.
>>37238016
women actually have a low chance of going through with their suicidal idealizations. also it is quite clear that these relationships described are two way streets. she wants to be treated like shit. this makes me sad
>>37239144
The other anon says women, but he really means relationships. And it's true. Regardless of your sex, don't get into a relationship with another person unless both you and the other person are capable mature adults. If you're hooking up with another person because you need attention, want sex, can't make money, compensating for childhood problems, trying to rescue someone, complying to peer pressure, etc., you're going to waste your time, lose your gains, and wind up worse off than being alone
>>37239335
Look who's talking about being pathetic lol
>pic related
>>37238560
I'm glad there are still men out there like us. So many spineless guys out there would have easily caved.
>>37239167
>being female and not wanting that
Why?
It seems so much better than some emotionally void robot of a bf as long as it doesnt go into bitch status like crying at everything or in front of bro friends its legit
>>37237936
>he doesnt believe women get manipulated like this
I use to do similar things when I was /fit/ (I got /fat/ but im workin on it senpai). I never went to the point of "your only job in life was servicing my cock" but I would have qt's bone me and then leave within 10 minutes of me cumming without giving them any attention whatsoever. Nothing horrible but when they'd want to go out i'd just ignore them and the next day tell them to come over again. Shit like that.
>>37239194
I literally let this ruin me. Im /fat/ now but got back in the lifting game last month senpai
>>37239007
he got played, but at least he didn't die choking on his own spittle like the little cunt he was like Jeoffrey
>>37237791
>All I wanted when I was skinny was to get big so a qt 3.14 and treat her with the respect she deserves.
You've abused your gains, anon.
>>37239194
You're pretty weak minded if you can't balance time with a girl you love with your career and fitness.
>>37237791
its because you never got any action when you were a skinnyfag
so now any women that is into you, you instantly view her as shallow and worthless because she is not into you just your body
the real you is still that skinnyfag
your body may have changed but your personality is sitll that quiet little boy who just wants to be loved
only solution is to move to a new city where no one knows who you were and just start from there
just remember when you were that skinnyfag even you wanted a qt3.14
no one wants joe average
Women worth treating with respect wouldn't put up with that. Right now you're involved with a loser.
I'm going to guess she doesn't have a lot going for her.
You need to date a woman that you would enjoy having as the mother of your child. If you can't see a woman doing this, then you won't treat her respectfully.
Being able to crush pussy is supposed to allow you to learn the behavior patters of the best potential suitor.
>The woman you are fucking right now isn't the right one
>You will know the right one because she won't debase herself in a way that allows you to show disrespect.
>Traditional woman
>>37237791
You evolved.
>>37237791
Women want men that other women want... pretty simple. That's all you need. Coupled with your bitterness, this was expected.
OP isn't alpha he just realized that his crush was a worthless human being, and thus deserved to be treated like such
>>37237961
this desu
>>37238512
We're all one collective hive-mind on this Bulgarian upholstery trading board.
>>37247912
wait I thought this was a Belizian cactus enthusiast board
>>37238035
>>37238126
>>37238318
>>37245817
I hope you fuckers realize your taking prime grade-A b8 in your asses cuz the poster behind it is guaranteed a london.
>>37238320
Or you could've just shortened it to
>Women are cunts, but some are lesser cunts, stop being a insecure cuck and go out and fug.
wewewewerqewewerwew.
>>37237791
Just b urself
>>37238141
>Might makes right
Tons of people would disagree but in the animal kingdom i suppose it's true.
You would think that after centuries of living as a society to better every gen that follows. the future would look good but right now it's plummeting.
>>37237791
Give nudes or gtfo with ur bullshit stories
