you ever getting married /fit/ ?
I am, she bore me two little manlets. Did I make it?
I was - my fiancee chose a different path, though. I'm better off, still hurts but I can already see my focus shifting from prioritizing family back to myself. Which means even more gainz
Already happily married to unicorn waifu.
I'd like to, but I've not yet kissed a girl and I rarely leave my house so
23, ill wait till im in my late 30s if future gf isnt a major slut.
no
I dont want to lose half my shit
engaged to my girlfriend of 14 months.
we met when I was a builtfat underemployed cashier. we both worked out together, shroomed and smoked together, and long story short are still crazy for each other (she dropped 20lbs and I hit ottermode).
>>37194824
No, I'll never surrender power over my life to another person. The last step is to escape wage slave status.
>>37195220
>14 mo.
hoo boy
>>37194824
>willingly attaching a gainz goblin to your life
SHYGDDT
I have a severe fear of relationships. Every time I get close to anyone I find myself a way to push them away. I have a girl literally begging to get with me and I can't do it. I don't know what to do.
>>37195419
Just do it.
Everyone fears rejection if not pain. but once and a while life is temporarily out of shit to splatter over you, and you get a nice person who genuinely loves you. think that's what it's all about.
>>37194824
Ever is a long time, but if nothing major happens in my life then no.
Once I get old enough it's difficult to maintain my gains I'll either go hard transhumanist life extension like Kurtzweil or get super self-destructive, depending in whether it seems worth living forever.
>>37194824
In about a year and a week
I wasn't raised properly and have some social issues as a result. Women find me too weak and awkward. I'm 25 and will probably die a friendless virgin. Will kill myself in my thirties.
>>37194899
Thinking about marriage with this mentality is like saying
>why lift? I'm not going to make any progress
>>37195449
I think the problem was I was engaged with a girl I loved more than anything. She broke up with me 4 years ago and I h ave not been with anyone since. I just can't do it. I will be attracted to someone but still unable to do it. (that is the case with this girl)
>>37195557
no it isn't you ass, that's a terrible analogy
>>37195568
no no, I hear ya. shit like thst changes your view on everything. hell, my ex prior to my girl was a slut meth heaD that drove me near suicide. took me 2 years to leave that shit behind. and now my girl treats me like a king and supports me regardless of how stupid I may be sometimes.
I am and I love my partner and her children
>>37194824
Probably. Been with my gf 7 years and her family's starting to put on tge pressure. Going to hold out as long as I can though.
>>37195582
Using the assumption that failure is inevitable to not even try? Yes it is.
>>37194824
I want to but I'm a nogf loser and probably always will be.
>>37194824
Marriage is a failed practice in today's world. If I were born 20-30 years earlier I'd love a qt wife to have kids with. Oh well
>>37194890
>if not a slut
Hate to break it to ya senpai...
>>37195220
>>37195377
This so hard lol good luck guy, you guys sound like real winners
>>37195585
Thanks for talking with me anon.
So you are saying to just make myself go through with it even though I think to myself it may be wrong? I think partially to myself "Whats the point" She will be gone in a year anyways.
>>37195600
No, marriage has a 50% failure rate but lifting, if done properly has a 100% success rate in providing gains. They are entirely different things.
>>37195647
someday you're gonna wake up and you feel that level of pain. and in this day and age, a woman who can truly love you is rare. take advantage of what's in front of you, and tune into Doctor Feel next week.
B^)
>>37195651
Tell that to GOMADers, amirite
B^)
>got married
>had 3 kids
>getting divorced
Its not so bad, now i can focus on getting jacked when i don't look after my kids
>>37194824
This June
>>37195739
this is your future if you get married
being a cuck and paying alimony to a bitch
>>37194824
Only if I want kids with the woman and she's tolerable.
There is absolutely ZERO reason to get married otherwise.
Getting married is a meme. There is no reason to outside of tax breaks.
If you have to get married to prove or solidify your love you should end yourself.
There are more downsides than up to getting married.
I'll only consider it once I am in my 40's, decent career, own my own house and have fucked my way through as many different types of women as I possibly can. Even then I will only think about it as an option if I really want to have kids, otherwise I don't see the point.
>>37194824
I hope not. I've managed to avoid all marriage related attire for the last 5.5 years but she is gaining strength I must fight with all of my will power and not be overcome by this suckubus
>>37195847
she's going to "accidentally" get pregnant any day now
>>37195881
Oh shit. I hope my pullout game remains strong
>>37195903
>playing the pullout game
Me too breh. Just remember to pee in between rounds. Precum can get a girl pregnant if there is still sperm in the urethra from the last load.
>>37195606
>today's world
Americuck isn't the world, m8.
>>37195931
Yh bcoz we fuck that often. Not
I try to put on a condom b4 I cum. Need to stop this I don't want a crying sack of shit
>>37195903
>>37195931
>>37195980
>using pulling out as method of birth control
Good luck with your future crying sack of shit
>>37196004
condoms are 98% effective, pulling out is 96% effective.
>>37196004
Kind of works and is fun tho
Like unpluging a kettle right b4 it's boiled
>>37196025
So that's like 1 in 25 fucks then so we're looking within the next 6 months if I don't include the last month
>>37195520
Me too.
Already gearing up for the holidays. Dunno how many more Xmases I have in me.
>>37196039
been doing it for years and I'm fine. I just wrap up or fuck her in the ass on the days when she is most fertile. It's not difficult.
>>37196055
Fucking a hole is no go apparently. But if she gets pregnant she may "fall down a few flights of stairs" until she becomes in pregnant
>>37196100
Not murder if their no born right. Oh yh I don't give a fuck
>>37194824
Married 10 years master race reporting in.
Only if she signs an ironclad prenup and is an emotionally damaged sub.
>>37196150
How does it really feel I imagine lifeless like a slave with a ball chain on their leg. You even believe that it's master race to have a price of paper showing what other human you belong too. Fuck that
>>37196198
>ironclad prenup
doesn't exist.
>>37194824
Been married a few years now. Everything is going great.
Every day is better than the last. I would recommend it bros.
>>37196247
Then I'll never get married.
>>37196247
I agree. Like betting half your stuff it will last
>>37196258
and then one day she fucks the mailman and takes half your money
but good luck
>>37194899
I have nothing, which is ironic, because now that I've got nothing to lose, no woman wants me.
I'll be single til I die. I'm OK with that.
>>37196258
Who the fuck you talking to your not my bro. Fucking brainwashed>>37196258
Prolly not, 30 now so trying to have kids outside of marriage. gf of 10 month wants a kid and I kinda do too, so trying that first and maybe marriage.
>>37194849
You made it Anon.
Now make them manlets /fit MEN who make it.
>>37196226
How does it feel little pleb? Happy.
I mean I could go on about someone who is always there for me, supports me, has my back 100% and a whole heap of other stuff but I'm pretty sure you wouldn't get it so I'll leave it at happy.
>>37195419
I'm the same way. Even when I get a girlfriend, I know they're going to leave me eventually anyway so I always end it abruptly to protect myself. Girls always think I'm more than I am. I'm nothing.
>>37196303
this is what all married people say before the divorce
>>37195963
It is the only one that matters.
>>37196285
>actively trying to destroy your own life
>>37196303
Keep telling yourself that. Brainwashed
Also it makes no difference it's just a piece of paper
>>37196285
10 months u don't even know her yet I've ha constipated shits for longer than that
27 kiss less, handhold less, hug less, virgin here.
>>37196314
>>37196335
You ex must have cucked you pretty bad for this level of butthurt.
Green text the story so I can have a good laugh.
>>37196379
Why.
>>37195843
The older you get the more likely your kids will have bad genes, turd.
All this /r9k/ butthurt. So glad I grew out of that phase.
I've been with my gf for 3 years, and it's pretty much implied that we'll be getting married after we finish up college. Neither of us really say it ("it's supposed to be a surprise") but we've definitely had "future" talks that blatantly imply marriage. Feels good, she's been my best buddy for longer than we've been dating.
Nether of us really had a lot of close friends growing up, and that's still pretty much the case today. We have a lot of acquaintances, but we're each other's only close friends. I prefer it that way. No douchebag friends telling me I'm whipped for wanting to spend time with her, and no bitchy clique telling her that she could do better than me.
>>37196322
how so? I'm 30 and most guys my age have kids. Have house & career and kind of planned for it if that is possible.
>>37196346
True but i don't have any yet and shes 26 so goin thru that baby crazy phase women do. A kid wouldn't hurt and would be kind of cool. Not talking about marriage or anything yet
>>37196385
To be fair a am dead on the inside. No emotion for the last 6 or so years
>>37196385
not butthurt
but the honeymoon will end eventually
question is, will your wife not go for divorce?
>>37196405
>a kid would be cool
this is a terrible reason to have a fucking kid
>>37196405
Kids r cool? What part of not sleeping or going anywhere enjoyable for the next 15 years is fun. I have a dog that is enough trouble
>>37196388
Depressed as teenager, only played vidya all day long and never recovered. I just keep playing vidya. Had some girls lust over me at work, denied all of them. I don't see myself in a relationship, I've been alone my entire life. I don't even have any friends, the last one was like 10 years ago.
>>37196379
28, kiss less, hand holdless, got a hug on a date with a girl, virgin here
It doesn't feel that bad to be honest. I'm actually attracting a senior HS bitch right nwo that goes to the gym though
>>37195651
50% stat skewed by cucks getting married and divorced 30 times
>dont be a cuck, marry the ONE
>>37196416
And you're basing this off what exactly? No marriage in history has ever happily lasted until one of them died of old age?
Seriously, is it that hard to believe that some of us are going to spin the wheel and win?
Nope.
Dobby...is...freee!!
>>37196447
>lost his hug virginess
Damn, we've got Chad in here.
Realistically, no.
My family has had so many divorces it's absurd. My grandma has re-married 5 times. My mom is probably going to get to 3 divorces.
The longest relationship in the family belongs to my uncle who has been with the same woman for many years without actually being married to her.
>>37196472
sure
im saying dont be surprised if your wife fucks around on you and profits off it via divorce
that seems to be trendy these days after all
50 percent of marriages end in divorce
> others end in death.
I hate the mentality of my coworker. He married someone younger.
>so what if she sleeps with someone else? Don't get divorced, she will take half of your stuff.
Is that cuck mentality?
>>37196447
You'll just sperg it up if you do pull her man.
Chicks can sense virgin at 100 yards.
>>37196526
most of the marriages that end in divorce are from older generations. People who were getting married in the 60s through 80s are what's behind that statistic. People in younger generations are waiting longer to get married, but they aren't divorcing as much.
>>37196285
10 months. I had a relationship fo 5 years. She wanted kids. Now been single 10 months.
Be VERY VERY sure this woman is not a closet bitch before you have kids with her. Don't just watch her actions to you. See how she treats other people. If shes a bitch or trys to take advantage of others..... run bro. Tread carefully this isnt the 70s any more men arent safe these days.
>>37196566
do you even realize divorce is MORE likely these days?
in the 60s or whatever, people tried to make it work. but these days, every cunt wants to cash in on the divorce lottery.
it's the age of swiping for dick
>loyal girls
lol
>>37196566
What am I supposed to do with this information
>>37196524
It's always possible. Median length of marriage before divorce is 12 years so it's always a possibility.
I just think if you're in it you may as well go balls deep because surely thinking it's going to fail is creating a self fulfilling prophecy.
And besides if you live thinking of the end, whether by divorce or death you miss all the good feels along the way.
>>37196004
>>37196025
Pull out is 100%effective. How do you imagine a girl would get pregnant if you do not cum inside her? Damn retards falling for the rubber jew.
>>37196560
thankfully I'm from old money so it's not like I give a shit if I sperg it up or not.
>>37196586
>it's the age of swiping for dick
How do we fix that? Getting rid of capitalism?
>>37196150
5 years here, am I gonna make it? We both lift and she is a qt if that helps.
>>37196625
you dont
im just saying women dont value loyalty in 2016 as much as they used to
>>37196625
Fuck knows. Id love to see an age of geniune relationships instead of this marriage as a product deal thing thats going one. "Cash in then trade up" thing alot of girls seem to be doing.
>>37194824
I foresee my late 20's and early 30's... now that I'm finally making some real money, instead of travelling and fucking college chicks and starting a side business and riding motorcycles and otherwise having fun, I spend all my money on a house and raising children.
Fine, that's a valid trade-off. I like kids and want a family just as much as I want that other stuff.
Then I foresee my late 30's and early 40's... bitch divorces me and takes the kids. My youth and chance to enjoy success freely is gone, my money is gone, and I have to comply with a court-ordered schedule to see my own fucking children. And that's if the divorce goes well. Fuck that shit.
I'll get married when I'm in my mid-to-late 30's like my dad did. He and mom are still married, still happy, and enjoying the fruits of a lifetime of hard work now that my sisters and I are moved out. He also enjoyed his youth. Seems like the right idea.
I will, I'm quite happy with my life and family, and would like to have the experience and opportunity to have my own. I want to love and provide for a women, and be loved and provided for in return. I have faced all my insecurities on relationship and sociological dynamics, and am confident in the beauty of the role I will play and my ability to perform it.
I think I've almost made it. I haven't actually been on /fit/ for a while. You should keep in mind 4chan is fun and you can learn a lot of stuff here, but there is considerable negativity and it can have a poor influence on how you think.
>>37196629
Only you can tell man, just do the checklist at the end of the day.
1 Was I the best husband I could be today?
2 Did I improve or maintain my physical fitness today?
3 Did I pay it forward today if given an opportunity?
If I can say yes to all those then I'm content. If not then I make up for it the next day.
In the end you can't control her actions, but if you're the best you can be it gives her no excuses to look elsewhere.
And then if you guys do split you can take solace in the fact that you were always at your best so it wasn't your fault.
Fit has made me afraid of getting a GF
>>37194824
I am. Not sure if I made a mistake or not...
If you don't have kids, and a your wife divorces you, do you still have to give up half your shit? What are the penalties?
>>37196733
This site in general.
>>37196733
they arent just gains goblins
they are financial goblins
>>37196733
im just scared of leaving her alone because she might cheat on me
>>37196654
>girls are at fault here
So are guys. If guys wouldn't fuck random girls there would be no consumers of that behavior and girls would be forced to act different.
Society as a hole is rotten and not just your girls.
>>37196812
guys enable it
but girls are the source of the bad behavior by treating their vaginas like a prize to be won, or whatever.
>>37196786
That can happen whenever. You go out with her? She fucks someone on the toilet. Holiday? She fucks someone in a restaurant. It's impossible to observe her. Trust her and hope for the best. For she ever happens to cheat on you don't be a weakling and dump her. Just dump her, her excuses won't matter. Alcohol? Fuck that, skank shouldn't drink when she's not under control.
>>37196831
Guys orbit around girls to make them feel like that. They couldn't think highly of themselves when no one would give them special treatment.
>>37194824
Only if I join some kind religious commune.
Outside of that fuck no, are you fucking stupid?
no
no kids either
never got the appeal
>>37194849
please do this>>37196300
>>37196831
>by treating their vaginas like a prize to be won, or whatever.
lol who are you kidding, guys do this and project like drive-in theaters
>>37195220
happy for you brah
>>37196403
He doesn't know it yet, doesn't he?
>>37196786
This is the worst approach
>good mate basically locks his girlfriend up
>can't see friends for long
>not allowed out when he's at home
>not allowed to do things without his permission
>I'm at their place
>he goes to sleep
>she has sex with me almost immediately, her prompting without any encouragement from me
Worst thing that ever happened to me desu
>>37197020
even if this is made up I hate you
>>37194824
I do but I have haven't dated anyone yet because my family is very traditional in the sense that a divorce is frowned upon. My mom and dad have been happily married for 40+ years and their parents were basically the same. I just want to find a guy who happens to like the same things I do, not really in it for the looks but I do want them to take care of themselves and not be obese. If he like Star Trek and calls me his T'hyla, then I hit the jackpot.
>>37196733
>>37196786
This >>37196839. Basically there's no use worrying. If it's out of your control and you can't do anything about it and can only hope for the best, then why worry? Otherwise if it's in your control and you can do something about it and make it work for you, then why are you wasting time worrying instead of doing something about it? Worrying has 0 benefit for your mental and physical health, has 0 place in your life and steals your mental gains, which will affect you physically. Also this >>37197020.
Someone post that pasta image about "Control". I always forget where I put it.
>>37197028
All my friends that I've told about it say I'm a dickhead. Some have stopped talking to me.
Live and learn.
>>37194824
If only she had a bubble butt Rihanna would be pretty supreme
marriage is a meme
>>37194824
If I find a good bf maybe. Then we'll have all the hot gay sex in the world
>>37196609
Idk why but "rubber Jew"and your post made me laugh like a mother.
>Tfw I'm batting about 1/2000. Or 1999/2000.. depending how you look at it.
>>37194824
I'm too into escapism like drugs, video games, movies and series too actually think about building my life in a relationship
>tfw finally comfy with escapism + work
truly nirvana
>>37197479
P.s.
The time I didn't was that beatiful "hnnnng I don't care I'm giving 'er all she's got captain" moment. So if you're not it an idiot that's way better than condoms.
But I'm not some sort of pimp. Was just 3 long term relationships.
>>37196609
pull out is so fucking hard, you have to have the strongest will of all earth to do it effectively
>>37194824
Can't get a gf.
Used to think i wanted one but now I just don't know anymore. Starting to hate women because you literally can't be nice and in a relationship at the time. I just want to be nice and in a relationship. Either I give up my soul or my dick.
>>37194824
I'm about to turn 30, still live with my parents and I have never been on a date.
Probably not. But it doesn't matter to me. I just want a job and my own place. I legit do not care about a gf, I just want my own life.
Probably. I'm fucked if we divorce though. My gf is a lawyer specialising in family law.
>>37197629
if you know this why even gamble anon?
>>37197629
>Being a man, marrying a lawyer.
>A lawyer specializing in family law.
I hope you are baiting. Because that is the dumbest idea of all time. You are literally asking for it.
>>37197636
>>37197645
> implying I have assets for her to take 50% of
>>37197667
Then why would she want to marry you?
I was going to but my fiancee died in a car accident.
Struck on the driver side by a drunk driver.
>>37194824
I have been married two years. The marriage is going okay, we never argue and we get along great, but there's this incredible blonde chick that is in love with me, she is so out of my league it is unbelievable. I don't want to cheat, never have, but holy shit this girl is the temptation of the beelzeboss. Trying to stay strong, pray to Zyzz for me /fit/
>>37197723
Nice you should buy that driver a drink
>>37197724
ask for a 3 some
>>37195587
Have you been cucked?
>>37197723
you are a lucky man
>>37195651
>>37195600
>>37195582
>>37195557
>>37194899
>Debating this
Blz nigas.
>>37194824
Yeah I want to get married in my late twenties and have 2-3 shit kickers in my early to mid thirties. Half the reason I want kids is to be their coach in sports cause I know whatever shoots out of my future wife's vagina will be born athletes. Just praying to god I get at least one boy
>>37196616
>old money
What are you in the 50's?
If you have money why aren't you getting laid? If you have money and don't know how to use it to your advantage you're already full autismo
>>37196654
I've had something similar to that. When i started dating for the first time i thought the girl and i were geniunely great together. Only after some time i figured out that i was the only one paying for shit. If it wasn't for my friends asking me why I'm spending so much on everything. Feelsbadman
>>37197724
Don't do it bro, if your relationship was shit then it'd be different but if you've got a good one then don't fuck it up.
Just avoid contact with the blonde, delete her number, avoid being near her as much as possible. It's like food... The temptation is strongest when it's within reach.
I'm around 25 and I haven't been on a date in several years now. I guess it's cause I haven't been putting myself out there and no man will pick me up from home. I just simply don't meet any new men at work or elsewhere so what gives. I tried tinder few years back and found few guys who were good on paper and who were into me, but after a few dates I just stopped replying because I couldn't bring myself into it and the entire dating thing was causing me stress.
>tfw will probably end up being a 30+ single woman posting on 4chan
>>37198169
w-what's your shoe size?
Yeah i am, i've been with my GF for 7 years now. We're both in our late 20s (29,28) so unlike americans who get married when they're 18-24, im not rushing into this just so i can get laid without getting judged by the lord.
Plus marriage laws in my country doesn't fuck over the guy since we're one of the most PC countries out there. Her parent own the apartment we live in plus she is head of HR for a larger bank so even if we did split i would come up on top. But since im not a cuck who married the first girl who showed interest in me within a year im not worried about that
I cant even get a date.
I dated someone for 10 years. Lived with them for 6. We broke because we drifted apart. Now I don't believe in marriage or a happy long term relationship. I am just going to die alone.
>>37194824
No. The idea of marriage and family seems silly to me. Why would I want to waste 20+ years of my life raising some little screaming shit machines?
>>37198237
8,5.
>>37198488
dang girl, I'd marry ya
Theoretically, sure.
In practice, probably not. I've known a beautiful, smart, girl who's dedicated to becoming a surgeon and is really friendly and fun to be around and is really just incredible. Naturally, she has zero (0) romantic interest in me. Which is really not surprising at all.
But it seems like a waste to bother with anything less than a girl like that. I've got other shit to do. And if I don't, I need to goddamn find some other shit to do. Why would I waste time and effort on a girl who's not just amazing? Just do it to fit in with everyone else? I'd have to kick my own ass for something that impotent and stupid. If I've learned anything from the above girls, it's that you don't settle like that. There's no possible way it could make you happier than if you just refused to do it and moved on to something else.
So, unless I meet another girl like that (possible) who would actually be attracted to me (less likely), or I somehow end up with Onetis herself (SO fucking close to truly impossible it's hardly worth worrying about), I will not bother getting married.
>>37198480
>literally only purpose in life
>fml
Ill get married when i am 30, to some 18-21 year old black qt. I will then raise my kids as football super starts.
>>37194824
Maybe, sometime in the future.
Right now I'm focused on getting enough money for basic fucking shit like being able to afford a decent gym subscription of buying a new phone, educating myself / learning some useful skills and preferably moving out of my current third world shithole of a country
Relationships haven't been on my mind for a long time now, the no gf problem seems very unimportant compared to the other areas I'm having problems in.
This had led to some situations where a girl's been obviously flirting with me and it went over my head completely, and I only realized it once I got home. It's like the thought of any sort of relationship doesn't even cross my mind anymore
>>37199102
Good luck m8 x----D
>>37194824
I don't know. Life has been so rediculous and unpredictable so far I don't really make long term plans for anything besides fitness and saving money.
Yeah, her son needs a new dad
>>37199141
Where are you from?
>>37199679
Ukraine
>>37199689
You don't need a gf. Putin is fucking you plenty.
>OP asks a simple question
>the thread quickly turn into a mysoginy circle jerk
U guis I swer
>>37194824
29, already married. Wife is ballet dancer so fit as fuck. I'm part of a riot police squad so fit as fuck.
Lifes good
>>37199717
>Implying the goal of the thread wasn't a women bashing
Come on, man, be reasonable. That's like the advice threads that are like "gf is getting fat and won't workout, wat do"
It's just seeking validation, not actual advice. Everyone knows the outcome before they even post.
>>37195647
Embrace the beauty of transience.
Everything fades away.
Don't be scared because it will be just a year or so, enjoy the hell out of that year.
The pain will fade. Learn to enjoy the pain too, while it lasts.
>>37199720
>Fit as fuck
>Police have extremely high obesity rates
K
Not that you are obese, but the profession is not as closely tied to fitness as you think. Maybe if you were a woodland firefighter or something rather than a stormtrooper
>>37194824
My girlfriend for little over two years now wants it, while I am perfectly happy with my life as it is right now.
>>37199737
Im not in America son, in my squad there are no fatties, the fat ones drop out in training when they faint wearing 20kg+ bodyarmour and equipment.
>>37199763
Australian cops are pretty fit... apart from Western Australia. They are land whales. Even the ones on bicycles. What do they eat to be bicycle cops and still land whales?
Recently broke up with my ex, and have decided to avoid all relationships from now on and just focus on myself. So nope, no marriage.
>>37199798
Buy some cats?
>>37199819
I'm more of a bird and lizard person. Or a dog, but can't have those in my current apartment. One day I'll have a big backyard for one.
I wish I could, but I am a 27 year old virgin with no prospects and an unlikable personality so there is no chance of ever finding my soul-qt.
>>37199689
Well, your president is too busy producing and buying weapons to give a damn about you.
>Married
What is this some kind of gains eater
>>37196694
>probably the most coherent thought on the subject that I've read so far. I'm not a fan of marriage, and I don't think I want to get married, but I like your way of thinking about it.
>underrated brost, anon
Why would I?
>>37199729
I try man, I have gone over to her house and fooled around with her but it all seems so futile. What is the point of being emotionally attached to her if I am not sure I am going to be with her forver.
OR
What is the point of letting her think she has a long term chance with me when I don't know I can last that long.
im already married to the game
>number of women with bf fucked = 3
>i didn't even initiate
i am permanently, utterly and absolutely incapable of trusting women.
>>37196694
The realest shit you ever wrote
>>37200643
The wifes that hit on me is..... :'(.
I bet my ex was like this too. :'(.
I gave up my 20's to an ungrateful fuck and my education.
I've got alot of catching up to do and no woman is in my long term plans for at least 6 more years
>>37200643
You're a shitbag too.
Fuck no.
I have a horrible personality and I'll probably ruin her life.
like father like son
>>37196441
I'm 27 and single, but I already don't sleep and stopped going out anywhere anyway. I might as well have kids to train.
I doubt I ever will. Women really bore me and I have yet to meet someone I would tolerate seeing 360 days of my life. Even the times I had sex were unsatisfying. I guess Im asexual but I'll cum a quart in these high test threads.
One word:
MGTOW
>>37198488
L O N D O N
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yeah
im gonna marry my gf, i'm only 20 but nothing will happen right? we're meant for each other, for life
>>37195520
Read no more nice guy. It may seem like it has nothing to do with your situation but I found it helped with self worth and social issues. Xmas still hurts but it's getting better.
W..we're all gonna make it, right?
I did. I did everything right. We waited, we were older, we were sure, we talked about it endlessly. She still left after only a year. Never again. Complacency kills any passion and marriage is the ultimate complacency.
>>37194849
eat them to get your protein back
>>37200643
this so much, no one said that this was such a double edged sword
I'm married, but we live a fairly traditional lifestyle. As the woman, I work part time and take care of the household. His laundry is cleaned and folded nicely each week, I do all the cleaning, and I make meals 6 days a week. Once a week if we don't do leftovers, he takes me out to dinner, and we have a date night.
I'm probably gonna get a lot of shit from my mom when she finds out, but the truth is that I like it this way. We lift and work out together, so we're both good at motivating each other to eat healthy and get to the gym.
The sex is good, too. The only non-traditional part of our marriage is in the bedroom, as I'm a switch, and I get super excited on days he lets me tie him up and strap-on fuck him. He makes these beautifully helpless expressions, and it makes me pound him harder.
Will the marriage last? I don't know. I know that we're more of a team than a "we married because we love each other so much." My family is fairly conservative, and so is his, so I assume we'll probably be together for a long time, even if we start to hate each other.
>>37196584
true story
>>37199720
Wait 10 years. :)
started official relationship with now gf. one of her/our friends and get along super great and continue to do so. ive known both of them for more than a year now
not sure if grass greener syndrome or what, but im starting to realize that even though things with gf now are good and fun, her friend and I would be a better match for the long term while my gf as friends
anybody ever feel something similar?
>>37203596
it's your delusion. you don't even know how your relationship would ACTUALLY be with the other girl. you're just fantasizing
>>37195220
>14 months together and engaged
>still (STILL) crazy for each other
holy fuck. is this your first gf? it's always like this. you'll get divorced in 2-5 years bro.
And if not you will live the typical american "i don't have sex anymore with my hamplanet wife and I'm only with her because of the kids" life.
>>37196609
>what is precum
Did you watch the movie Idiocracy? holy fuck you are one of those fucking idiots.
>>37195651
That 50% divorce rate is a meme, look that shit up for real senpai
30
>been dating my GF for about 3 years
>nonstop marriage/kids being brought up
I love her to death and I do see a family being brought up with her, but deep down, I just want to fix old cars/play video games/buy cool toys/buy a fast motorcycle + go cart.
Maybe this behavior is due to my poor upbringing? I have the money now, and I just want to have "me" time and indulge on the finer things that are available for guys.
>>37194824
married two years
he just makes me smile all the time and i feel so comfy, goddamn it. to think i feared getting married all those years, and the shit isn't too bad.
They r all sluts
How about this:
>Travel the world
>Gain EXP points
>Meet innocent, fertile 10/10 local qt3.14s
>Impregnate with your godly potent seed
>Live life how you want to.
>Genetic legacy achievement unlocked.
>>37205766
you have to take care of your kid man, or else he might grow up to be :
>a neet
>a fag
>a furry
>a liberal
>a "trans"person
>a beta
>a retard
>sick
>dead
spreading your genes is important, but taking good care and properly educating your offspring is just as important, thats why some families/nations/cultures/races far better than others, because parents invest in the following generation.
who knows what kind of issues missing a father figure might do to your kid.
>>37194824
I don't even think about finding a girl. I'll just lose my virginity to a hooker and then kill myself.
I'll propose to my gf of three years in another 2-3 years.
She's finishing up grad school in a year and then we're traveling around the world, so I want to do it after that when I plan on going back to grad school.
I'm 24 now. I always thought I would want to wait until I'm 30, but sometimes when you know you know.
>>37206263
Just marry and DINK it up till you're ready for that responsibility
>>37206272
We already share a lot of our finances, i.e. rent, car loan, utilities, food, misc.
The reason I'm waiting is mainly a planning thing, we don't foresee being able to have even a small wedding anytime soon.
>>37205143
nah man, you're just too young to settle down when you're coming into your stride. You finally have your own money to blow on fun shit. Go and do that for another 5 years then you'll be ready to settle down if that's what you want.
