Who /gave up on woman and just lifts/ here?
Fed up with getting lied to behind my back, getting shit on and disappointed from woman.
I'm 25 and i doubt that girls in my age are done with playing mind games.
>>37173726
>It's one of these threads again
>>37173726
I always hear this and the truth is do you manipulate women cause you think you need to do that to attract them? So many guys out there say they hate when girls play game while they're doing the same thing to them. Don't be surprised cause you attract what you are.
>>37173739
Wut. All women manipulate.
You must play the game if you want to even interact with them
>get home
>see this
w-what do?
>>37173739
This.
People love to make fun of the "bbbbb urslf" slogan over here but if you get a girl with a facade, she's gonna love your facade and most probably dump your ass when she meets the "real" you.
>>37173726
I pretty much gave up on getting ever a gf in my life..human body,robot mind
>>37173765
>bbbbb urslf
What the fuck do you even mean? what on earth are you talking about?
>>37173760
Wonder why the fuck my boyfriend is with a woman, I thought he was homo not bi
>>37173759
you're not any better than them, then
>>37173759
You're too afraid and ignorant to be yourself and the sad thing is you'll disregard what I'm saying as bullshit, you'll go to bed tonight thinking "that guys an idiot he doesn't know anything". Yea I've fucked those types of chicks too but that was when I was equally as manipulative. If you have lots of Facebook friends or look with your eyes you'll see theirs lots of men who express love to their girlfriends and do sweet things for them who don't think less of them for doing those things. Their isn't alpha and beta(aggressive insecure control freak vs timid insecure control freak) their is a healthy middle where you let go of the bullshit and express who you are in the moment from a place of courage and truth.
>>37173771
The Be Yourself meme.
>>37173796
Uhm...i have questions about this
Its incredibly hard to get a woman to even notice you unless you do something spectacular and even then its a craps shoot at best
Thats part one of the problem, part two is that most girls who are even anything resembling interested in having a relationship is in one already.
How do you suggest one is to succeed in this type of market when all good prospects are gone and even the somewhat bad ones are gone, all thats left are the ones who openly admit they arent into having a bf or the ones who have a list long as fuck over this that disqualify guys
>>37173796
>>in the moment from a place of courage and strength, like my fedora collection, I use big words and I am not creepy on women and when I whtieknight like this I get points towards my someday get laid card.
rofl dude seriously you sound autistic as fuck, this is some cringe shit.
No one talks like that, it is the kind of shit for cringe threads, you are literally, a fucking cringe post right now.
Just stop lying to, "fucked those type of chicks" by chicks you mean hands.
>>37173840
Let go of all the shit in your head. Look at all those beliefs you have, I'm not saying those thoughts are bad but you obviously identify with them. Just stop looking for things to center yourself around. Most people aren't willing to do that, believing in something is safe but holds you back. Let go of it it all and let it all be. I might sound like a hippie but if you don't wanna change I don't give a shit. Life is easier when you don't try and let everything happen without your control. Not my problem. Goodnight.
>>37173874
>>Goodnight I must run from this thread cause I tried to sound deep but cringed the fuck out of it.
>>Goodnight, tomorrow I have to go be creepy around women and use big words while wearing my fedora and slacks.
>>Goodnight, I need to go tell my hand about how wise I am on /fit/ before I strangle my dong.
rofl fuck off creep
>>37173874
You answered none of my questions and made a faulty judgement that i do not try
Good night indeed
>>37173760
Stop using free contacts from shutterstock
>>37173726
>Who /gave up on woman
that's called being gay.
You're gay.
>>37173840
If all the top tier and mid tier women are already taken and you're still single, what does that say about you?
>>37173945
I recently got back on the market, i had a gf and havent been single in 11 years
You tell me what that says about me mate
>>37173965
It says you're not quite the catch you think you are pal
My condolences for your girlfriend leaving you
>lose weight
>make some gains
>look a lot better
>still don't get laid
>make unreasonable efforts
>somehow get a girl into bed
>sex was not nearly as fun as I imagined it
I feel like life has been cheating me. That was nowhere near worth the effort.
>>37173760
>Chad enters YOUR HOUSE without ASKING PERMISSION
>he EATS that PIZZA you lovingly crafted and put to rest to cook after doing some chores outside
>his FUCKBUDDY drank YOUR WINE as well
>>37173985
So if i was then...what girls would leave their bf to be with me?
That doesnt make sense bro
>>37173933
No you fag, he is asexual
>>37173985
Good day fellow white knight. Hath any fair maidens given you the clam of cuntington yet?
NO!? But you defend them all hours of the day, you offer no advice or logical reasoning in any of your posts and defend them blindly without question!
Well, worry not fellow white knight for that is why you have your hand.
>>37173869
>strength
>courage
>big words
Yours must be a life of rapacious endeavors to achieve a semblance of normalcy in your otherwise small, jejune existence. I pity you
>>37174009
There are plenty of intelligent, relationship-minded girls that are single at my uni
I've even dated a couple
>Its incredibly hard to get a woman to even notice you unless you do something spectacular and even then its a craps shoot at best
If you don't get noticed, you're not as interesting and worthwhile as you think you are
That's all
>>37174015
Okay pal
>>37173840
Stop worrying about them and work on yourself obviously. This isn't a tale of fiction, this is fucking real life. No one goes with a script.
>>37174054
Didnt you say goodnight?
rofl that you responded with more cringe shows the level of autist you are. Leave like you said you would cringe man fu.
>>37174056
"I get tons of attention at my uni with my 24 inch dick that I do cock push ups with" rofl ok
Better run op, the cringe autist have come to try to tell you have wise they are and how much pussy they get.
trolls
>>37174056
>There are plenty of intelligent, relationship-minded girls that are single at my uni
Why in the everloving fuck would i want a girl who goes to college/university level? I said good prospects, not bad you mong
Anyway, you sound pretentious as fuck mate. Im sure girls love that
Gave up because I had to
I don't wanna be miserable all the time from getting laughed at and being rejected all the time
fuck it, I'm doing my own shit and maybe someday I will kill myself because I chipped away from my soul a bit too much, I am already on the path to total apathy beyond the point of return
might as well walk the whole 100 yards on my own
>>37174062
Ofc i work on myself but this alone doesnt get you girls/a gf or whatever
>>37173928
You hit the GYM HARD while CHAD MODELS being HOME eating PIZZA
You just CAN'T win against HIM
>>37174094
Not op, but I see my words scare you. I still pity you
>>37174140
and? do you want any old girl or do you want to be able to choose a woman? think about it. your self-sabotage is holding you back
>>37174196
>do you want any old girl or do you want to be able to choose a woman?
Alright, ill go full autist and ask
How does one achieve this? What must i let go of or embrace to be able to choose?
>>37174213
"one" doesn't achieve this. you do. play to your strengths and start small. take lots of girls out just to practice conversation and who knows? and let go of your preconceived notions, bro. do sit-ups every night and soon enough, you'll have what you need. it just takes time. be patient
>>37173739
>>37173765
You get the girls that you deserve or the ones that have almost the same life value as yourself
>>37174094
>rofl
Can you just cut to the chase and kill yourself already?
>>37173800
Be yourself meme is true, but only if you're a Chad or anything close to it.
>>37173760
dudes got a horrible lazy eye, he probably can't even see me walk in and take his girl
>>37174342
Im good at talking to people, its one of my strong points actually but its always good to practice
however all girls who are even close to passable or above are taken, there is no one i can ask out to get more practice in dating
And i want to be that guy who women come to, not have to chase them (i.e choose)
>>37174439
don't worry about that, you'll be ok, I promise. You're still a young man with a lot of maturing to do. Once you can separate conversation from infatuation from lust from love, then you'll be ok. just talk to women about shit that's interesting to you, not them. (barring fitness and animu. open your horizon and you will find your golden isle.)
>>37174565
Oh, you'll never be that guy if you WANT to be that guy. that is the dichotomy of manhood, real manhood, not this alpha/beta/epsilon/tau bullshit. love yourself as a man and the rest is history(don't forget the sit-ups)
>>37174565
I think youre way off senpai, im 27...
>>37174624
so am I, we're still young and maturation process has starts and stops depending on bad experiences. just let the pain of loneliness set you straight.
>>37174633
I guess, does kind of suck that you need to go chase around 17-19 to find girls who are single though and those girls arent exactly easy to get either
>>37173796
This is just called "build a better beta". Ultimately your weakness betrays you, well, your girl betrays you. It will be fine at first, but the pathetic behaviors you display to be 'in the middle' will build up in her mind. She will become so disgusted she eventually cheats. This is why so many relationships fail, women remember beta behavior, but forget alpha behavior you have shown.
Does this mean that /fit/ is becoming a MGTOW board?
[spoiler]men going there own way[/spoiler]
>>37174159
I love this pic. I think I'm falling for chad...
>>37173999
This was my experience. Like I get it, if you have a girlfriend it must be nice to just fuck and get it out of your system whenever you feel like it. But if you don't, putting all that effort into seems unworth it to me.
My old room mates basically made it his mission to sleep with women, he would come home and start preparing for some random women he had been messaging and grooming for a couple of weeks, get the house ready for her, spend a couple hours watching netflix with her and chatting shit he clearly didn't care about with her, then finally he would bang her, then come down stairs with an empty look on his face knowing he had to keep her entertained for a couple hours until she went home again, because she can't just leave straight away or she would feel like a slut. And that was his entire night gone, you put your entire night into this for half an hour of sex and you didn't even care at the end.
>>37173726
That would be me, Anon. Women suck. It's funny that naive virgins think women could love them like how Mommy did. NO woman will love a man in the way he wants to be loved. If you have value as a man you'll be loved despite everything and if you do not, women will only exploit you. I have good women in my circle. Decent, sweet and attractive girls who have successful careers. They're full-on oneitis material for many men. Yet, they're ruthless when it comes to the mating game. They always try to extract the most value for least effort, they string guys along and treat them like shit. Even the best women pull bullshit, now imagine a feminist, overweight slut and how fucked up in the head she'd be.
I'm sorry for betas. I'm sorry for virgin /fit/izens who think getting a gf would solve all of their problems. I pity the PUAs because they're constantly talking themselves into a delusion, every fucking day. Women ain't shit. I'm grateful I know it.
I use escorts if my urges to have sex gets unbearable. Easy, no strings attached sex, and she actually puts in her best to please you. Sounds fine to me.
Pic very unrelated.
>>37174159
this dude's skull is beyond deformed, think he's just an ayylium dressed as a chad to breed with human women
>>37174435
>not keeping one eye on the titties and one eye on the pizza
Are you even trying to make it?
Be me 5 years ago, do all the pick up shit, get shit on by girls, get rejected, get manipulated, was being cucked in a short 3 month relationship with a girl.
Got into uni and decide to break it off and just do me. Got good grades, worked out, bought all the things i like and want, spend my time learning to play the piano and jiu jitsu. Played games with the guys in my class, having a blast.
I treated all women like equals, they didn't like that they wanted me to put them on a pedestal but i resisted. I never tried anything, didn't date, didn't use tinder/okcupid/etc
All kind of girls seem obviously interested, but once they ask me what i do and like i never lied to them like i used to. I told them i like playing league of legends, programming, math, piano and doing martial arts, i told them that i was a closeted bisexual and that i hate dating. Most women walked away, until i met this one chick, she likes everything i like, both of us were in stem, i never tried getting into her pants, i gave her my number and she contacted me, i never tried being anything im not and neither did she. Now 5 years later im in the best relationship of my life. She started MMA with me, she plays league with me and my friends, she plays the violin i play the piano, she got me into horseback riding so we help out at a stable once a week.
This would have never happened if i still tried altering myself in order to pick up sluts. I was myself and let the girl of my dreams come to me instead. Proposing on our 6 year anniversary on the 14th of September this year.
If you act like a douche and build a relationship on lies, don't act surprised when the girls do the same thing.
>>37174095
>complains about lack of quality women
>complains a quality woman needs to not be educated
yeah, you're not that great of catch yourself, obviously youre missing some marbles
>>37173726
I have never been motivated to lift for women.I wanna look good for my self primarily doesn't mean if girl sees that and likes it I won't take advantage of it.
>>37174015
>replies with a completely irrelevant small wall of text about memes
Damn son you sound mad.
>>37176188
>getting cucked by the vaginal jew
enjoy having half your shit being taken away
and lets say you do procreate
your kids will be taken as well
not to mention child support, alimony etc
dont do it anon
marriage is not worth it
>>37174439
The real reason behind your misery is because you want to be treated like a princess and have everything fall in your lap for you. You don't deserve happiness
>>37176324
Yeah, i don't live in merica m8. I live in sweden, our laws are different. And we're both in stem, we both make as much (around 80k a year) And her parent bought our apartment, so i would get half that if we did happen to split.
>>37174681
Sounds like you're probably pretty immature/underdeveloped yourself and can't attract girls your own age because they're on a more advanced maturity level. Girls your Age probably avoid you, girls can pick up on things like that and will choose to ignore you, or tell you they have a bf so you'll leave them alone
>>37176324
>vaginal Jew
Oh /fit/, never change. Couldn't have thought a better name for women.
>>37175578
>think they love them like how mommy did
Wow, stopped right there because that's enough information from you. You have some serious Freudian issues you need to work out before trying to hate on half the worlds population that you apparently know so well. Seriously boys, your gfs is not your mommy, nor is she supposed to be. If your looking for a replacement for your mommy, you have no business in a relationship ; go fix your mommy isaues
>>37176434
> cherry picking this much
> gets triggered immediately
I said that's what other men want, you vaginal Jew. They're looking for that maternal love. Which is fucked up. I don't have any (((Freudian))) issue.
As a side-note; Freud was a self-shitting edgy kike cokehead.
>>37176259
>complains a quality woman needs to not be educated
Not what he said.
And college/university level chicks aren't any less slutty than dumb bimbos. They just have their heads up their asses from constantly being told their "strong and independent" and "smart" while they take their SJW bullshit laden classes like gender/women's studies, etc. They couldn't actually tell you a damn thing about anything that actually existed or mattered
>>37174009
>what girls would leave their bf to be with me?
The ones that aren't worth an ltr; just a pump and dump. If she leaves him, she'll leave you
>>37174134
I gave up a couple months ago. Somehow a decent looking girl to date me fell jnto my lap and I feel completely hollow about everything with it.
>>37177743
>If she leaves him, she'll leave you
Found this out the hard way friend
But stealing a girl from someone else is the only way to get a gf, all the ones who want an LTR are taken
Enjoy the ride while it lasts, right?
