Who else here is going to spend the rest of their lives alone?
/fit/ feels time. Go on. It's okay. Let's feel brahs
>Put maximum effort into finding gf
>No luck
>Try working out
>no luck
I'm nearly 26 and I will remain single for at least the forseeable future
NO.
>>37136477
>tfw coming up on 4 years of natty gains
>completely burnt out with lifting so only lift 3 days a week to maintain
>no gf in sight
only option is to roid or give up at this point
>>37136459
/foreveralone/ here
It used to bother me but I've reached a point of apathy.
The dream would be to live in a cabin out in nature with a home gym.
Something is strange
If there is an equal amount of women to men(i.e the ratio is 1:1) how come so many guys are having trouble finding a gf?
>>37136499
That is the coziest picture
>>37136516
I'm just getting started
>>37136505
So are the some girls though
>tfw no qt asian gf
>>37136477
>>37136493
Do you actually leave the house and do stuff other than lifting?
>>37136526
Please don't let me stop you
>>37136535
well i leave my house to go to work and ride my motorcycle random places
>>37136536
I'm running out of comfy pepes real fast
>>37136505
Because 20% of men get 80% of the pussy
>>37136505
feminists whales etc
I would kill to live in a place like this.
>>37136459
>Just want to keep entirely to myself
>Just want to focus on lifting, work and learning to drive
>tfw its been two years since I spooke to her and I'm still angry and feel like I need to discuss why I said I didn't want to talk to her again fully, despite her knowing the main reasons why...
Well, at least I have lifting to keep me company in a minute, right /fit/?
>>37136527
W-what?
>>37136559
Well yes, but i doubt these make up like half of the female population of any country
maybe im guessing like 5-10% will fall out because of this
>>37136560
Holy fuck that's cozy
>>37136554
By that logic 8-10/10 guys are fucking 2-4/10 girls
>>37136505
Women date above themselves. There should be an equal ratio of men and women, and enough to go around that a man can get a woman that's roughly as attractive as he is, but this is no longer the case due to high standards.
>>37136580
You never online dated in America I see. When you rule out feminist, whales, has bf, over 30 or has kid, there is none left.
>>37136598
I fucking know..
>tfw you will never lift far out in nature in your cozy cabin.
>>37136630
You're doing gods work anon
>>37136630
>implying
>>37136616
But wouldnt this fail at some point? sheer numbers should dictate that a few guys would make it with girls in their own class or one step below it
>>37136624
1. Im not american so no, i havent
2. Online dating is a fucking joke man, everyone knows this
Girls who find dates IRL dont need online dating, why bother? where do you think those who only get hit on by guys they dont want go? yep, online
Kind of feels like it.. I burgered every relationship when I was younger(+10 years ago) because i was just too shy. Now I don't even consider dating an option and I put 0 effort in.
Now that I rarely leave my house chances of finding someone are very close to 0.
>>37136647
Thank you
>>37136652
What?
>>37136459
I feel like I have a fair chance of actually finding a gf, despite being a lanket, but I admittedly pussy out all the time. I really have no excuses, I am just a coward.
I had so many opportunities to start conversation in university, but I blew it every time.
I just dont know man, I am not ugly, can hold my own in conversations, have a ton of things I occupy myself with, but something inside of me locks up really hard every time I even think of approaching a girl.
I think it is the commitment which is connected with seeing a girl regularily and actually speaking to her, maybe doing stuff with her. It is something I can not handle over a long time, there are days where random conversation simply kills me. I simply know that I will start avoiding everyone I know after some time, always did.
Am I broken?
>>37136735
For fuck's sake, you're just shy. Stop being so overly dramatic.
>>37136664
The answer is at hand it seems.
Depending on how old you are, start something new. A new job, maybe start at some school.
I heavily doubt that any of you guys here would have trouble finding some girl caused by your looks, or even social competence. I am an engineering student, I have seen couples at my uni which only cause the question of "How did this happen?", so do not roast yourself constantly over how you look or act. It is really more about actively seeking contact, showing other people that you are actually open.
The avoidant nature is where it all begins and despite thinking that nobody notices, everyone, including my autistic self, can smell the insecurity and soical reluctance of other people.
>tfw use lifting as a depression treatment
>tfw it stopped working
>tfw now during my workouts all I think is about killing myself
Why do we have to suffer brehs?
>>37136785
>A new job, maybe start at some school.
How does this help?
Im in college and its the lonliest ive ever been
God, why are all of you so fucking feminine and pathetic? Feeling sad over being a loner? Really now? You are a disgrace to the male gender, mate. You are a weak willed child who probably still lives with their parents. Establish your own business. Make your own money. Use the money to fuck worthless hookers / escorts. There, now you literally have ZERO reason to care about having nobody in your life. You have your own means of income. You have your sexual release. That's all you need. If you feel the need for anything else, such as a girlfriend, you are BETA as FUCK. Feeling the need of others in your life means that you are either a female or a faggot. Are you a female or a faggot? You must be. A real man, such as myself, makes their own money, chooses the pussy of their liking, and does not experience pathetic womanly emotions.
>tfw no gf
>TFW never even held a girls hand
>TFW never even kisses a girl
>fucked 10 hookers at 25 yrs old
You can't make this up.
>>37137959
whats the process to fucking a hooker? do you drive down to the ghetto and approach any chick standing around? or do you call up escorts? do you discuss what you wanna do up front or what?
>>37136540
get a hobby that involves people, aren't there motorcycle people
>>37136610
they are....
>>37138025
I use backpage for hookers. Haven't been arrested or butt raped by pimps yet.
Lately I've had luck fucking girls at asian massage parlors.
>>37136493
Your own fault for lifting for girls, you idiot.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dokkōdō
thank me later lads
>>37136459
Probably. After
>her
I have a hard time even pretending to care about other women.
>i dont know these feels anymore
>probably gonna end up marrying my gf
>i miss being autistic and a virgin
trust me, the chase for pussy is not worth it in the end, its just long sad and full of lies and manipulations
Me. Bf broke up with me Saturday and I can't see myself ever enjoying anyone else the way I did him. I feel so crushed. On the brightside I haven't eaten all week so still losing weight.
>>37136459
Got a date today. Tryna fug her but we both live with our parents. Fucking sucks.
>>37137104
woah bro :)
I miss being shy. At least when I was young and didn't lift I could justify my
>tfw no gf
>"I don't put myself out there so girls don't see how great I am"
Now I've dated a bunch of girls and got numbers and what have you but it ends the same way everytime; unsatisfied, alone and still a virgin.
>girl ghosts me after a handful of dates
>girl tells me she'd rather be friends after a couple of dates
>girl doesn't want to date me
I just lift to have the strength to carry myself through a long and lonely life.
>>37136459
jsut got friendzoned.
guess i'm just gonna keep lifting.
cut is aproaching, propably in two weeks, i'm gonna go from 20% bf to something like 15 or less.
should make a decent change.
i'm lucky i already have large shoulder.
>>37136549
>>37136800
also in the >always thinking of suicide club
Got a great job recently though, hopefully I can finally pay off all my debt by mid September and end my miserable existence
>>37138230
You dumb fuck stop being autistic. If a bitch agreed to go on a date with you it's done deal. There is no reason you shouldn't fuck her withing 4 dates. When you're with each other talk, be funny, touch her. Go in for the kiss, she won't. Don't be shy around these hoes you fucking faggot.
>>37138230
Also, if they're cutting you off after a couple of dates it's because you're a boring cunt. Stop being boring. Take risks.
I fucking wish
Everyone close to me is a burden, i would be better off alone
I just never fell for anyone. I haven't had a crush in 10 years. If you wait for some miraculous happening to happen that some random hottie comes to talk to you, it isn't gonna happen.
I'm a borderline fat woman.
That's it. I don't wanna cut cause I'm not dangerously obese (5'7, 154lbs) and honestly, eating is the biggest pleasure I got in my life. I've cut many times but the weight always comes back and is stuck with the current numbers. I've given up and just trying to be happy now.
So just dating weights and my fridge nowadays. Today I actually Googled sperm banks and took a look at the door profiles. I'll have a family on my own one day.
>>37138392
It happens. Female chads are out there. They just leave you worse than when you started.
>>37138392
This is what I'm saying. I fell for one person within three years. And I go out and meet a lot of people. Literally one. It's over now and it's hopeless.
>>37138472
why are you on /fit/ then? Seems like the worst place in the world for you to be
>you fat fuck with no willpower
>>37138535
I lift 5 times a week, I've lifted for my entire adult life. I can run 5km in 20 minutes and I live an active lifestyle. I'm not literally fat-fat, meaning that my bf estimate is like 20. I'm starting my first cycle somewhere in the future too.
>>37138200
Why'd he break up with you? Please tell me. My gf broke up with me last week and I want to know someone else is suffering.
I fucking love the single life. Been that way even since I moved out of my parents' home and started living on my own far, far away. No relatives, no siblings, no friends, literally nobody to ever bother me. This is the greatest way to live, just by yourself, and only for yourself. I feel sorry for you anons who crave attention to the point where it impedes your life and makes it worse.
>mfw i thought i would end up alone
>Find a girl
>Meeting her parents this weekend
>>37136505
There is actually more males in the lower age brackets, see: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC102777/table/TN0x9872ab8.0x9b1e448/
The ratio is close to 1:1 when you calculate it for the whole population since men tend to die younger.
>>37138623
Got too drunk Friday night. I was bored and it was 8 pm an he had already fallen asleep and I was just sitting around the apartment watching tv. Decided to go have two beers across the street and took the dog because she had surgery and kept following me around the apt and jumping off shit. I didn't want to be cruel and force her to be in the crate so I figured it would be fine if I just took her with me and just held her the whole time. I didn't think I was that drunk but he said I was hammered when I came home. I drank like two gin and tonics before I'd left but I a a only gone for an hour. He thought something bad could have happened with the dog. Which is strange to me because when he was "watching her" she kept jumping off the bed to sleep then he whined to me to take care of her. He is a lazy as shit person desu. He would just get home and play video games all evening and get annoyed that I'd get home late (would go straight to gym after work) and cook dinner kinda late. He could have been nice and cooked for me but no his stupid video games and anime came first. I complain about him a lot but I have strong feelings for him for some reason. Like I said it's rare for me to feel like that about anyone so I'm forever alone.
i'm in the same boat with you guys
had a big crush last year and it would have gone further but i was scared to have sex with her because of my small penis and now i still think about her everyday and live in absolute solitude
>tfw my body will always be inferior no matter how ripped i am because of my small penis
>>37138699
Wait so he broke up with you cause you went across the street with your dog and got drunk without telling him? I'm not sure I follow. In any case, use the pain as a motivator to lift moar. We're all gonna make it breh.
>>37138591
Just control your alimentation and you will make it
You can eat shit food once youre... eh, not fat
>>37138746
I know this feel all too well.
>>37138802
It's his dog. But when you put the story like that yeah that's what happened. I was starting to resent him though. I specifically told him on Friday I was going to the gym right after work (as usual) and he called me at 5 begging me to go home to take care of the dog so he could go out to happy hour with his coworkers. In retrospect I wish I would have just told him no and let's just be separate for awhile. Once I actually got serious and consistent with diet and exercise and started seeing some changes I started feeling resentment towards him for being lazy.
Hey guys this is my first time here and this was the first thread. Idk how you roll over here but a guess a board is a board, a thread is a thread and this is my post. Sorry I'm on my phone.
So I'm 21 and my little sister has a gf and her little sister is 120% my type. Since the first time I saw her I was crushing. But she's only 15!
I have honestly tried getting her out of my head because I'm a moralfag and the situation behind it all is to much for me, it's just the fact that she's the first person to make me spaghetti at first glance and now I have to deal with her in my life without showing my feelings, I've got nothing but age on her. I don't know what to do, came here because I'm close to 6 foot and weigh less than 70kgs. I need to change... Am I just being beta? Is this girl worth the risk? I don't usually care for chasing girls. Either way I will most likely visit here more.
>>37138746
This makes me feel better about being a manlet. You can't hide being a manlet, so if a grill likes you, she likes you despite your manletness. But if you have a small dick, nobody knows so you have to constantly live with that anxiety. You meet a girl, she likes you, but you're gonna be dreading the thought of her seeing your junk. Fuck man, that sucks. At least you can try jelqing. I can't jelq my body.
>>37139065
Protip: don't ever date a man who watches anime and plays a lot of video games. I'm sure you know this by now but they usually lack motivation and you're gonna feel like you're doing all the work in the relationship. Good luck breh, at least your weights will never leave you.
>Atleast i have all the time in the world to get fit since i have no social things affecting me and taking my free time
>>37136630
You might make it someday you know. Never give up, never afraid
>>37139089
Bro don't do it she 15 you're 21. When you're lonely you you're irrational and will catch feels with any female who shows you some attention
>>37139140
Yeah pretty much what I got from this whole thing. I've decided I'm not going to date anyone in the future if they don't take their health seriously and are okay with just sitting around the whole time. Also what I gained from this is gonna cut down my alcohol intake and really push it a lot harder. I wanna take up muay thai as well. Goal is to be happy and satisfied with self.
Okay /fit/, which one of you features in any of these videos?
https://www.youtube.com/user/WizeMan94/videos
I know one of you here does.
>>37136459
cant force people to like you
but if you like what you see in the mirror, that's all that matters
>>37139176
No no no you misunderstand. But after seeing what I wrote... It's a bit all over the place. Like I said she is my type (a rare type in nz), over the past 3-4 years she is the only person to make my heart skip a beat, I'll have to interact with her like once a week for awhile, I've done everything I can to keep my feelings at bay, and I'm not the type of person to satisfy my urges.
I honestly am trying to get over her and act more like an older brother, she comes from a mildly broken family. It saddens me on what the world is going to do to her...
>>37138746
Stop watching too much porn, you fucking degenerate.
>>37136459
>very inexperienced with females
>notice this girl at my college when we are both walking trough the doors at the same time and she smiles at me, not sure what it meant probably just being freindly
>start to see her around college every now and then and sometimes one of our classes are merged together
>crush hard on her for like 2 months don't talk to her because no opportunities etc..
>find her on IG and look at her posts every now and then
>with some guys I met at college just talking general bants etc..
>said girl comes up in the conversation as she went the same high school as some of the guys
>one of the guys tells us he's freinds with her and I joke "freinds" implying he's trying to get into her pants, he goes silent
I can't explain why but I felt this huge sinking feeling. I built up this girl in my head over many weeks and then reality struck me at that moment.
I'm just being a desperate beta right? How to fix this?
>>37139320
And the rare type I'm talking about is Maori (indigenous people of nz) with blue eyes. It's not uncommon for Maori to have blue/green eyes
>>37139397
Stop letting your dreams be dreams
>>37139426
But how?
>>37138135
>https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dokkōdō
Cool stuff, I agree with most of these except for the ones that imply you shouldn't chase things brought by wealth
>>37139242
I wish I were a girl doing muay thai, you'll be able to do some nice high kicks assuming you have that grill flexibility. I'm stuck working on split flexibility
>>37139426
haha no fucking idea. There's the typical advice of treating social situations like lifting and slowly progress from casual conversations with cute service workers to eventually talking to any woman but let's be real that shits hard
>>37138676
Time to get a granny gf so I can help her with washing herself.
>>37136459
Probably. I'm getting to the age where the depression of feeling like a fuck up for not having wife and kids is soul crushing.
Never even had a gf, should probably kill myself soon.
Open the pic in another tab, didn't feel like doing a legit crop until anon finishes the saga so until then we wait.
In /feels/ news, feeling awful today. The first time in a long time really.
I just met a nice girl but I haven't finished my post winter cut fuark. Feels like of beta but I'm nervous to take my shirt off
I find girls lookin at me and smiling. I feel so insecure from before that I don't really even know whether they are laughing at me for being ugly or mirin.
Can't approach them because I'm not sure what it even is
Ffs I've lost without even fighting
>>37139649
I'm pretty good at socialising I have a main group of freinds who I hang with most and I have many other dudes who are casual freinds. I'm not even bad at talking to girls, I hold my spaghetti and can make them laugh. Problem is I have no opportunities to meet females without cold approaching like some creepy PUA autist, which isn't an option because the girl more that likely knows some of my freinds. I'm pretty much just waiting for an opportunity to be introduced via freinds of freinds but it hasn't happened.
>>37136540
Join a club or organization that has a lot of sociable people. It's the best way to meet women outside of dating services.
>>37137013
If you're on your computer or playing video games a lot, put an end to it best you can. Go to an org fair or see if their is an outdoor pursuits center or related clubs at your Uni. There are plenty of people you will click with if you just put yourself out there. You may feel like an outsider at first, but that's a natural consequence of any transition period. Just keep on trying until you fit in.
>>37137104
Paying for sex is fucked up. Having a woman you can love and be yourself around is one of the great joys of life. Don't let your bitterness prevent you from seeking it out.
>>37138206
Back of a car man. Not the ideal situation, but it gets the job done and can be a little thrilling.
its definitely looking that way. during early teens I was not really sociable but still got laid very frequently, after high school I became a recluse and have not touched a girl in 5+ years since. lost contact with all my friends and only live to work out and shitpost now, depressing af
>>37138699
He sounds like a manchild. If you are in decent shape, you can definitely do a lot better than him.
Read Pook.
Stop being a faggot.
>>37136735
I feel you brah
>>37139397
Start talking to her, but don't get oneitus. Sometimes a good opportunity doesn't present itself, so you have to create one.
I talk to nobody in real life anymore. At this point I might as well go back to living with family to have people are but I don't want to be a dependent life sucker.
>>37140009
Refer to this
>>37139816
There are a lot of people out there. The best way to make friends is meeting people with similair interests.
I'm still having feels for my lesbian friend. We would used to chill a lot and then we just kinda lost contact with each other. I started texting her again and she said she would love to hang out with me. I'm happy that we are talking again, but I'm kinda sad too because she will never be mine.Also she's in a ldr with some chick and I know that they are deeply in love with each other.
so I guess I just gotta move on or stop being friends with her.
the funny thing is at this point I'm not sure if I'm really "in love" with her or not. I tend to "fall in love" with pretty much any girl who gives me attention.
so my mind, heart and dick gets all confused.
lol fml bros.
>>37140003
I will definitely bro. I really need to stop overthinking stupid shit and just start taking action. +now that I've built it up in my head I'm sure if the opportunity does come there will be spaghetti all over the place
>>37140104
It's a shitty situation, but if you can't get over her, it will prbably be a lot better for you to just stop hanging out with her. Otherwise you're just setting yourself up for heartbreak.
>>37140104
I would end up settling for the friendship desu. I supposed it would seem torturous, but it would be more torture to never see the love of my life again.
>tfw bf has cut off all contact. I will never see him again.
It feels so weird and I can't handle it.
>>37140197
If you spaghetti, just move on. You're only human, so mistakes will happen, especially with something your new at. The only way to prevent it is to make mistakes in the first place, so you can learn from them and become better from it.
I made the move, it worked I think, we had that moment when I could've kissed her.
I didn't.
It's been 5 months and she's still the only thing I can think of. This is literal obsession
>>37140239
I wouldn't mind spaghetti-ing if it was some random girl but it's not, the stakes are much higher. I can take being rejected, but coming across as a nervous , insecure wreck I don't think I can.
Not your personal blog.
>>37136459
I'll always feel alone. Even when I am with someone, I'm too autistic to actually bond with them at any meaningful level like I see other people doing. The best case scenario I'll ever be able to achieve is basically a permanent, ongoing hookup with the same person, who I don't just totally despise being around.
>>37140472
Fuck off faggot
Why does every girl I initially find cute turn out to be the basic bitch.
They all have 0 general knowledge, 0 practical knowledge, like all the same shit on IG, are super boring but expect you to entertain them so you can get some pussy.
>set out do break lmao2plaet diddly PR
>black out from the exertion
>wake up looking at the ceiling and two very concerned faces
>turns out I fell on the back of my head, leaving a nice puddle of blood
>concussion
>lots of vomiting for days
>bedridden for a week
>slowly recovering for another week
>it'll be several more weeks before I can full on start lifting again
>can't even do more than mild cardio
>muh gainz
On the bright side, I did set a new PR and it turns out my doctor is familiar with powerlifting.
>accept being foreveralone
>start lifting because it makes me feel like Im accomplishing something
>genuinely enjoy it and it helps with my insomnia
>start getting mires from females
I don't know what to do. I'm too spergy to flirt so maybe they'll think I'm some weirdo and leave me alone
>tfw nobody cared who you were until you put on the mass
>>37140706
You fuck off sadfag. Go to a therapist if you want to talk about your feelings. Or better yet invest in a diary.
>>37140982
Seems like you're new around here
28 year old kissless virgin here
i'm done
>>37142113
Why are you done?
Is having sex your one life goal?
>>37142124
no i have other goals, just that i'm done with that part of life. i was not meant to breed or even have sex
>>37136459
>friends growing appart
>no contact at all with girls i've dated
>mid 20s
>feel alone as fuck because no girl to share life with
yeah i guess ima just off myself with 40 or something
>>37136666
Checked
i've had plenty of relationships and more than my fair share of women, but i'm not really intrigued by long-term relationships anymore. i love women and i love their company, but i just don't trust them anymore. we're living in a poisonous sexual world where sex comes cheap, people are disposable, and relationships are distractions. it's not just women, it's men too.
i'm not a romanticist who wants a hardcore committed relationship, but i've seen too many crash and burn because of unabashed selfishness and overflowing sexual availability. it's not like i'm looking for perfection, but trustworthy people seem to be thinning out in a time when we can have every desire satisfied in a matter of seconds.
>>37139603
attachment is the source of feels senpai
>>37136459
Gosh anon we had this thread before. Everybody knows that loners make the best friends.
Im 21 and I have done various stuff pretty much everything. I am single for a while now but you know what I dont care and I am actually starting to feel like a king, I am starting to feel like woman dont deserve me at all sooo I dont knowww whats going on with me loool
>>37136577
I know the feeling anon, we're going to make it.
>>37136666
Unabomber was the top pepe
Hey off-topic but does anyone have the picture where Wojak is sitting in a dark messy bedroom with a half-empty milk jug on the ground? It's important
>get gf
>terribly insecure, like I'm sure many of us are
>never feel "comfortable" around her
>always have one foot out the door
>eventually break up
>get new gf
>repeat
Im moving to China in September and I'm pessimistic about finding anything there. At least it's a break from the cycle. Maybe I should settle for someone I feel above so I can have some self confidence, but then I would just judge myself for not getting the best girl I can
>>37140267
Are you me?
>>37144829
Lmao kek'd
>but seriously, this is the majority of marriages now :^(
>>37136530
Mynigga.jpg
>>37136477
>Try working out
>no luck
>luck
It's about discipline and commitment, not luck, you waste of meat.
>>37138699
>complains on a fucking week I anime forum about vidya and animu
Somehow I feel like there's more to this story, senpai. Could it be that you have a drinking problem and your bf finally got sick of your shit? Or maybe you go out to bars alone like that constantly for outside male attention or even take it further with some cheating?
I'm not worried about my ability to get a gf, I've got good height, will have a nice body in time, am white, OK face, and not too stupid to realize when girls are flirting with me.
I have two main problems though
>I am extremely insecure and read into people's actions and expect a grill to leave any second
>I only like to approach girls at work
It's so easy this way but fucks my life up when I have to go back and work with them cause I'm way too lonely to have a successful relationship and not give a fuck when they leave
>>37136459
My dog has flees. I need to give him a bath.
>>37145283
At least you don't keep trying to date lesbians like I do.
>>37145315
Kek how the fuck does that keep happening?
>>37144816
>>37144816
colored
>>37145329
They keep coming in my life. And sometimes I come in them.
>>37145797
Nice
>>37144829
DELETE THIS
>>37138746
> blessed with big dick
> only last 30 seconds in bed.
I would trade in my giant schlong to be able to properly pleasure a girl any day.
>>37145991
>normal dick
>can last like 30 seconds with no condom
Wanna trade??
>>37136459
I probably should to be fair. Too many people confide their secrets in me and I can't be bothered to be there when people need me. Maybe I'm better off alone. Who knows
>>37145991
just jerk off beforehand?
>>37145991
Antidepressants brah. I fucked a girl for an hour straight.
As a 23 yo khv, I'm pretty sure that I'm broken from entering a normal relationship
>>37146161
How did you go about getting them. Can I just tell my primary doc. I'm depressed?
>try to reconcile with ex after 2 years
>we meet this summer
>first date goes well, talk for 4 hours, we kiss before parting
>feeling good
>second date comes
>long silences everywhere
>try to hold her hand hand but she clearly isn't into it
>she tells me she's not sure how she feels about us
>tells me she feels like we're strangers now
>don't see her again after that
Where can I make out with the girls I've been dating? My car is pretty small so I think that might be awkward. Tomorrow we're hanging out at my uni for a while and I know there will be a completely empty room that almost no one ever goes in.
>haven't been making time to work out because of academics
>lost two pounds
>jaw more defined but chest noticeably smaller and ribs more visible
It's a mixed feel.
>tfw the qt you have your eyes on is always quiet around you and it's hard to make conversation with her
>>37146257
Make shit up. Be creative. Just tell him tfw no gf.
>>37146678
Jeez man, how virgin are you?
Just go anywhere empty.
>>37136459
Well this might and might not happen depending. Most of my problems can be fix/help I just need the money to be able to afford it.
>>37146678
Why does it have to be empty? Lay out on a grass lawn and have a smooch, lifes not a porno where you have to suck on her face for 20 minutes
>>37136459
Yes, because I have the misfortune of having these scars that dont seem to be going away, and I'm a black slightly autistic guy so shit sucks ass.
>>37147907
Keloid scars can go away with treatment. I had the most horrible one on my neck and they made it disappear in like a month. Chin up bro
fuck you and your self-defeatist attitude
Some guy on here told me a couple weeks ago to google "reddit how to talk to anyone" (inb4 leddit). If you read this I want to thank you for fundamentally changing my outlook on life for the better. In the few weeks after reading that I have lost all social anxiety, I've lost my virginity, gained new friends and perhaps most importantly, I've started enjoying human interactions. Quite much so actually. The only thing I regret is not stumbling over it this piece sooner.
Thank you anon, wherever you are. You changed a life.
>>37136459
I've learned sometimes that being a friend is more important than any other role in a relationship.
>>37147907
those are keloids
they are only going to get bigger if you fuck with them
had 2 on my ears, had to get them cut off but some doctors can give you steroid shots for them
>moved countries when I hit puberty
>never made friends, at first because of language barrier
>language barrier disappears after 12 years
>lone wolf mentality firmly established
>chicken out every time a girl has ever shown interest
I just recently started lifting. All of my problems will go away once I hit 1/2/3/4...
>>37148157
>All of my problems will go away once I hit 1/2/3/4...
They won't.
They'll go away when you address them and tackle them head on.
>tfw shoulder injury for some reason
>tfw lower back injury because sedentary lifestyle by playing vidya and being too tall in a manlet country
I wish there was some kind of magic to make them go away. I wish I can go back to the past and tell myself to take care of my body.
I'm already going to be 29 this year and it's not getting any better.
HOLD ME BROS
>there will never be a feels thread for people who actually get bitches
>tfw i'm a normie by 4chan standards but i still have a lot of anxiety about everything I do
>>37148213
>File
i feel you mane
they ever get attached to you and you never feel for them in return and have to just cut them out and feel like an asshole and go search for the next nut?
>>37139416
>he has a 'type'
>>37148225
Thank you for feeling with me. I've had over 10 gfs in my life and i'm only 21. I've broken up with all of them and broken their hearts, along with a couple girls i mess with on the side.
I feel like a monster but i'm just doing what my heart wants me to do.
On the flip side, it's fun meeting a girl for the first time and my appearance and confidence intimidates her and she gets all shy and quiet.
>>37136459
I'm planning to have enough capital that I can retirey in my 40s and start subsistance farming.
I'm prepared that I'm probably not going to have friends (isolated and all that), and won't probably find a wife that wants to move to bumm-fuck nowhere.
I'm actually kind of used to the thought, if I manage to get some friends to move with me or get a wife I'll be pleasantly surprised.
>>37136459
Why do ye faggots always make " being single" sound like the worse thing in the world.. Its not. Sex is only a small part of the relationship, the other part is boring and annoying. I love being single, do what you want, eat what you want, wear what you want. Focus on yourself, improve who you are. Become the best YOU can be and fuck everyone else !
>>37148250
>I've had over 10 gfs in my life and i'm only 21
I've had 0 and im 28. You don't even know feels, normie.
>>37148265
I dont know your feels and you dont know mine. different positions in life have a lot of different feels, anon.
>>37148273
my feels are more feely
>>37148250
i'm 24 and i've only had 2, but that's cause i avoid getting into committed relationships with em. i just fuck em desu.
honestly, you have to embrace the "monster" that yo feel you are. the best you can do is love yourself, have your fun and not be a total dick.
>>37148250
>i'm just doing what my heart wants me to do.
I think that takes the cake for the worst justification I've ever read. It's one thing to recognize when you're toxic to other people but it's probably not the healthiest to revel in that and write it off as "oh well."
>>37148283
I will concede that you do have lonelier feels anon. but this feel happened to me not too long ago:
>be going after french exchange girl for a while
>see her every few weekends
>finally last weekend I flirt her up and get her engine going
>we drink and talk and eventually we're alone together
>start undressing, foreplay etc
>incredible anxiety, boner wont go up
>lie and tell her i have to pee
>go and wiggle my dick in the bathroom a couple more minutes
>still cant get fully hard
>tell her I have to leave because my friends need me
>leave
>havent talked to her since
Shit doesn't suddenly get happy and easy just because you're good looking anon
i have a feeling i will die an alone virgin as i value my alone time and just cant hold conversations with girls for shit but i'm sorta okay with it at this point
>tfw getting stronger and stronger
>no aesthetic changes
>only aesthetic changes I get are if I fast, even then it's incredibly slow
Lifting is a meme. Spend so much time thinking about it, it's suffering sometimes.
>24
>kind of scared of girls
>been approached/asked out a few times but i always drop the ball because id rather be doing something less terrifying
im not even as old as some of the lads in this thread and i still feel like its too late for me
>hit 3/4/5
>still twinkmode
>>37136459
Was playing Uncharted 4 and god damn that scene made me feel lonely.
>tfw not a virgin anymore :^)
thx fit
>>37148410
https://youtu.be/6eM-F_ydSJ4
>a video game character is happier than you
>>37138135
Thanks based anon. My life has more meaning now.
I kind of managed to slip into a limbo of mental illness where I have enough gender dysphoria to be disgusted by my body and gender (even after I got /fit/ and objectively attractive), but not enough dysphoria to be crazy enough to attempt a transition at my age.
So I'm stuck in this rut where women aren't attractive to me because being with one would mean having to be a 'man' in the relationship, and men aren't attractive because I'm not a fag.
I've kind of resigned myself to the fact that I'll always be alone, since even when someone shows interest in me I'm not able to reciprocate.
And it hurts every time, being offered the chance at a relationship, only to be forced to turn it down.
It's like being at an all-you-can-eat buffet, but with your mouth sewn shut.
>tfw you're cutting and it's the first time you notice you're weaker
>tfw you can't lift the same weight you lifted last week
>tfw it's push day
>>37148103
Could you share the link, please?
>>37140801
There is no way you would blackout from a DL, of all exercises, if you followed proper progression.
It's an execise where you can just let go of the weight with no consequences in an emergency situation.
You probably tried to 2pl8 when your previous PR was like 1pl8, and got what you deserved for trying to rush things.
>>37136459
>Walk home one night
> drunk woman from presumeably Greenland (live in Denmark) asks if I have a ligther
>Say sorry, I don't smoke
>she drunkenly smiles to me
>I walk past and she starts mumbling stuff
>"Yeah, you are pretty ugly"
>"fucking loser"
>she might be talking about me
>start saying I look like a woman
>I have an ass like a woman
>I walk like a woman
>mfw Candito mode
>>37148612
If you like it you should read the novel on Musashi by Eiji Yoshikawa, on of my all time favorite books bro...
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Musashi_%28novel%29
>>37148860
Nah m8, 2,5kg increments. Don't you ever get lightheaded from deadlifts?
Maybe I just black out easily. I once blacked out from pooping too hard. I also fainted in a brewery.
>>37146257
>Take dangerous psychomedication
>Known side effects include becoming literally insane
>It's a 100% chance that taking them without being depressed will make you need them
How many levels or retarded are you
This is beyond chad
This is what horny teenagers do when they head "Hey guys, if you snort chalk your dick gets like SUPER HARD!!!"
This is what a dumb stereotypical gym neanderthal, the archetype of dumb muscle, does when they tell him he can fuck girls if he only does that thing
You're seriously considering taking depression medication to treat your erection
Goddamn
Wow
I'm really repeating myself in this post but I haven't been astounded by someone's stupidity this hard in a long time, and I spend my day on this site
>>37146161
>>37148975
This man is correct.
Stay the hell away from antidepressants, even if you're depressed.
>>37149003
>even if you're depressed.
Yeah, listen to the random internet user instead of your psychiatrist with a 15-year PhD
He may be a doctor, but this guy read on a blog once that antidepressants are the devil
The only reason why there's so many people thinking AD are evil is because America's bottom of the barrel healthcare lets people who don't need AD get it. Then those retards take psychomeds they don't need, they get the well deserved side effects, and go around shouting that the evil meds ruined their lives.
I seriously wish the side effect for taking AD without having actual medical depression was death, so at least your shitty doctors would stop ruining the name of an entire branch of medicine just so that they can get a few bucks.
>>37149019
>America
Yeah no I don't live there mate, so so much for that argument. And the reason I don't like AD is because I've taken them when I was depressed and it only made matters worse. I lost all my energy, apetite and libido.
And now for the speculations: I do believe they are designed to make you docile. After all, you don't want people with nothing to lose to have the energy to go out and fulfil their fantasies and fetishes before offing themselves. Because hell, I've thought about that.
The reason I'm doing better now is because I got to rearrange my life, not becasuse of some chemical change in the brain. Symptoms vs. cause and all that.
>>37148804
You're not too smart are you
http://lmgtfy.com/?q=how+to+talk+to+anyone+redpill
>>37136459
>in class to get my drivers license
>there is this girl sitting opposite to me
>looks like a total bimbo
>huge (but natural looking) tits
>way to much makeup
>eyes look big
>these high heels where the heel is one part
>looks like an 8/10 porn skank
>very shy posture somehow
>catch her looking over to me like 5 times
>as soon as I look she looks away
The thing is I'm not really fit so the question is what the fuck was up with that?
I felt like she was checking me out and even planned on going up to her right after the lesson but I didn't know what to say. Also it'd have been embarassing if she looked at me 'cause she thought I look weird.
What do in those situations?
Autismo has held me back too many times, I want to overcome it though.
>be /middlechild/
>don't fit in with the rest of my family
>popular as a kid, but troubled teens lead to almost no friends by the end of school
>get first gf at 18
>fall fucking head over heels - obsession is the best description
>so excited at the time to finally open myself up to someone for the first moment in my life
>get dumped a couple years later
I genuinely can't even imagine myself ever having another gf, I get uncomfortable just thinking about ever being that close to anyone ever again.
>>37145135
All of that yes. But I never cheated on him.
>>37148410
>>37148570
I mean, technically they are real people behind that. motion capture and shit
>>37136459
Always assumed no one wanted me in high school cause I was obese. Now I'm 22 and and fit and people still don't. Turns out my personality just sucks.
>matched with cute chick on tinder
>don't know what to say
>don't want to sperg out
What do?
>>37149125
>The reason I'm doing better now is because I got to rearrange my life, not becasuse of some chemical change in the brain
That doesn't change the fact that anyone that is prescribed medical depression should shut up and take their fucking meds
You had psychological depression, that's why AD didn't do shit for you
Someone with psychiatric depression won't be fixed by "going out more and working out", they wouldn't be able to feel happy even if they won the lottery and became president in the same day
>>37136477
what do you mean you tried lifting and had no luck you stupid motherfucker
>>37138193
>marry
shiggydiggy
I got several matching results and was not sure which one to read. You obviously are aware of that because you don't use the key words of the original post. Search restults differ between searches form different countries too, so I just asked for the specific link. I am deeply sorry for insulting your intelligence.
I don't care about sex. I just want friends.
Just give up on finding a gf if it makes you depressed. Earn money, live life for yourself and enjoy it. Maybe take up travelling or some other hobbies. Etc.
I had this thought as soon as saw the post. Whatever Wil be will be. Enjoy your time with your friends even if they are guys.
Also no no no, listen to this song que sera sera
>>37138135
Where can I find a poster of this? I tried googling but found nothing.
>>37152364
I know this feel all to well brah.
>have no friends in school
>hang out with edgy kids because we have a similar sense of humour.
>we get along well for years
>Suddenly they find a big group of edgy kids like them
>Ditch me and never talk to me again.
>Fine I'll try to make friends with normalfags
>Manage to small talk with a popular normalfag
>Introduces me to friends
>They find me funny but I guess I never fully integrate because I'm a robot at heart.
>After a few months they just stop talking to me and hanging out with me altogether
I managed to make one friend towards the end of school, but in the last year he got a gf, she and her friends didn't like me so he ditches me. I feel like I've never had an actual friend. I tell myself I lift for myself, to feel good. But I know subconsciously the real reason is I just want to be liked by somebody
>>37136459
>"satisfied" with fucking random tinder and POF broads
>realize I want to raise a famalam someday
>quest for "the one" begins
>tfw I don't share any hobbies with women
>tfw I can't discuss my passions with women
>tfw even if I can, they're not going to be the fun, nuanced discussions I have with my bros
I don't understand it guys. You can't talk to them without restraint because it'll hurt their feelings, most of them aren't smart enough to hold a conversation about anything, and they're financial burdens a majority of the time.
Why do we do this to ourselves? Where is my qt3.14 who likes philosophy and helicopter mechanics/piloting and computer engineering and studying behavior in micro economies etc ad nauseam.
I mean, what is the point of keeping a woman around? I've met maybe two women who fit my standards for good conversation and company and they've both been professors. Am I gonna be alone forever guys? Should I settle for a chick with an ass and a decently not-retarded demeanor and pretend to be happy?
>>37154613
not to sound like an edgy /r9k/ beta but at least youve realized this now. Have your best, deepest convos with a few close bros. Get somewhat deep with your girl and make sure you can connect on an emotional level with her. Women are great for reasons other than deep convos. Youll find one that you actually fall truly in love with and youll understand.
>get rejected by girl in class
>month later still scared shitless around girl
why is this happening
i thought it only got better after rejection
>>37136477
>put maximum effort into finding gf
that's why you're not having luck senpai
>>37144816
the other 2 posted didn't have the milk
>>37138472
Oh my god please god please do not have a child.
>"I would have totally dated you if i didn't have a boyfriend"
this stings
>>37138699
>video games and anime come first
Literally in this situation right now except with videogames and Magic The Gathering.
Fuck you, Dark Souls 3
>>37154844
>mfw it's my fetish to seduce women with boyfriends/fiances
I have a relatively high success rate, but obviously I'm only pursuing women who show interest.
>>37139089
How the fuck is this blog post fitness related?
Also
>don't do it breh. Start liftan and meeting people your own age
>>37154844
>work at a retail store doing physical labor
>have a few girls in my group who i hang with all the time, at work and out of work
>one is super cute
>take her out for drinks
>she has a boyfriend but he gives her a lot of free roam
>as usual, convo with a girl leads to sex and sex related things
>start talking about anal
>mention ive never had it (this was 3 years ago)
>she says shes had it a few times and its not that bad actually
>says that if we are ever both single, she would totally have anal with me
>date girl for 2 years
>things start going south about 3 months before we eventually break up
>i tried to save the relationship
>single now
>found out that when things started getting bad between ex and i, that the other "anal" girl broke up for 2 months
>they are back together now and except for that 2 months, theyve been together for 6 years
>that couldve been my chance
>>37136459
TFW happily married to qt3.14 redhead.
TFW she lifts with me.
TFW she's mirin muhgainz.
TFW boning your lifting buddy after massaging sore muscles.
TFW comfy rest days with her.
There's hope guys, inb4 robots shitting all over women and marriage.
>21
>have never had any significant interactions with a girl ever (not even a full conversation)
>did all the "put yourself out there" stuff and joined societies but didnt make any lasting friendships
i spent my entire childhood alone, in a very silent and closed off family, i feel like my entire psychology is adapted to being alone in a room all day reading books and anything else is beyond me
to an extent im ok with it, i know id be much happier with nice friends and a partner, but im so used to being alone and depressed that i dont notice it, after going to therapy my therapist bluntly told me she saw no reason why i was completely alone, but i dont see a way out, maybe i just dont care enough
>>37149125
not him but AD and other medication affecting the mind aren't a walk in the park and the individual response to a certain medication based on it's accuracy and the very different number and strength of substance receptors, again in the individual, is huge
you literally can't make a med that fits everyone
it's proper practice for psychiatrists to, together with you, figure out what medication and dosage works best for you
maybe your issue wasn't rooted in missing substances in your head so obviously you got sides when you were prescribed a medication that affected them
doesn't mean they're bad for everyone
>>37139089
rape her and post pics
>see women miring me sometimes
>only talk to men
>my guy friends think I'm an autist
>know that if I would talk to women my autism wouldn't be covered by my gains
>>37145018
>moving to China in September
Where senpai? If it's not a large city with a lot of foreigners you could be still exotic (assuming you're tall and white). You just have to overcome your autism and go to a club and pick up women. They'll find your naïveté about the language cute, and they'll want to try banging someone they don't get the chance to often
>>37154952
Are you me?
I'm in the exact same situation, except I'm 24.
I've come to realize I'm comfortable in this "depressed" state. Despite being told by numerous psychologists and doctors that things can change for the better, I don't see it. I don't feel any discomfort with the idea of killing myself.
>>37137104
trying tooo hard
2/10
>>37136630
>>37136598
>>37136560
Bumbing with comfyness
>>37155167
Please continue, I'm the original "comfy poster", but I need to expand my folder.
>24yo
>fat fuck in rehab for the third time
>99% chance of loose skin
>look like a retard because my deadbeat mom dropped me as a baby
>parents and brother made it a habit years ago to bully me
>losing friends because I'm going out less
>never had a gf
>exclusively had sex with prostitutes
>below average benis
>school is going terrible
>nightly panic attacks are back
>self-loathing at level cap
I just keep spiraling down, where do I even start to get some confidence.
Send help I'm gonna go to a party where I don't know anyone
First time that I'm in this kind of situation
>>37155313
how did you get invited? You literally dont know one person?
What kind of party is it? Huge college party with like 50 ppl, or some chill laid back 8-10 gathering?
Whats the location?
>>37138066
that's why all girls say all guys are liars cheaters never give them enough attention yada yada.Becuse they only date fuccboi chads, /niceguys/ dont even exist for them
>>37138135
>You may abandon your own body but you must preserve your honor.
That was a good line to use in war. Hope I will never have to use it.
>>37138135
Wow man. I should just adopt this for the rest of my life.
>>37155360
I'm in this residence for uni students for since the 4 of this month...there are many people at this party at the cafeteria
>>37145991
just go for a round 2 after you finish
just make her blow you until you get hard
then you can last way longer on round #2
>>37155476
if everyones kinda newish there, hopefully you can find others like you. Are you gonna be drinking? If so, it should be easier. If not, id imagine there are some sort of events set up for you to do. pick one you like the most and try to get involved. Be friendly and just let yourself go.
>>37143793
Thanks anon, I just wonder whether having friends is worth it anymore...
>last gf
>degenerate, brash, 19, rude
>pussy like a vice grip, constantly horny
>current gf
>sweet, personal, loving relationship
>loose roomy roastie pussy, sex rarely
Just fuck my shit up
>>37155532
not him but it definitely is. Youd be amazed how many people out there have very similar thoughts and ideas as you but with a slightly different flavor. Im a weird dude and always been an outcast until around 5 years ago. Super introverted. Now id almost classify myself as an extrovert and i have 5 really close friends who i could share jsut about anything with.
>>37155506
I'm the only one newish sadly
went on my first date at 24 years old,every moment was magical it was the happiest I ever been in my life we even held hands it was amazing,but now she keeps ignoring my messages and wont go out on a second date with me Fuck how do I get over this crippling depression?going to the gym only remedies me for 2 hours
>>37148250
>im just doing what my heart wants me to do
thats why you're getting the girls anon
>>37155546
oh well good luck. Just keep in mind most people there are going to be pretty social. Should be easy enough to find someone to talk to. Just find an event and have fun with it. dont have resting bitch face, uncross your arms, unclench your asshole.
>>37155556
Get your mind focused on something else. Read a magazine or book.
