I'm soon to be 29. I was a player and smahed over 40 girls. Been in total 9 serious relationships. Used to be easier getting over your ex but as you grow older shit starts to get real. I'm 7-7.5/10 and get grills easily.
Currently my vital organs are damaged from the loss of my last love affair. It lasted a year and we haven't spoken for the past 2 months but yearning for her embrace has rendered me to a position where I've stopped looking at other women and all boners fail. Other women dont attract me anymore (no homo) andthey just give me a sinking feeling in my chest because ex is the only woman I want to see. Porn doesn't work. It's literally like somebody takes a massive shit inside your heart and then sets it to a medium fire to burn for an unexpected lifespan.
Worst part is I helped shape the breakup and parted ways with her whilst doing everything I can to make her realize how I'm not the one.
Please. Don't fall in love especially if you're getting older. Women will fuck with your life and crush your soul. Make no mistake I'm tall af and jacked af and I'm literally dying over a girl that may be 5/10 at best. Less according to /fit/s meme ratings
Correction; don't fall in love with somebody's soul *tips fedora*
Lol wtf is wrong with you? This pasta is filled with bad carbs.
>>37021260
Not a pasta its my life story. I am quite the writer, granted full of shortcomings but I simply want to share with fit brehs the cost of falling madly in love with your supposed "Soulmate"
Only I know how I've survived and endured the last two months. The pain and psychological torture could put Guantanamo to shame.
Damn dude
>>37021287
OK
Just to make it clear, making a thread out of something you used to reply with is extremely egocentric and autistic.
>>37021334
I'm a /fit/izen and I believe this belongs here since 99% of people lift here to get a gf they should know the reality of its cost thats all
>>37021248
Thats karma, you stupid fucking faggot.
>>37021377
My hearts on fire with a massive pile of shit in it and I can't make my own thread to aware brehs on the outcomes of falling in love? gooby pls
>>37021378
Fuck off
>>37021398
Tbh senpai I know its karma and paying the price. Nobody's perfect.
>>37021400
Stfu virgin, men are talking go back to your anime buttplugs and body pillows
>>37021400
Is she fucking someone else? Maybe several someones?
>>37021464
She isn't the sort I took her V-Card
>>37021464
Based Peter Steele
>>37021287
>>37021313
There's an example of REAL good writing.
>>37021248
You are just another faggot who made the mistake of making a woman his life and not sharing his life with a woman.
>>37021248
Doc pls ;_;
>>37021399
If you're not lying about about this then the only thing left for you to do now is to commit sodoku.
>>37021535
Hold me kik breh pls
>posted on fit a few years ago about mildly abusive BF
>he genuinely got better, as he had a lot of mental issues and I began trying to break up with him
>this past year was awesome
>December he cheats
>I take him back because we had been dating for 5 years and he was my first love, I have separation anxiety, and I had been living with him for two years in a place that was all the way across the country from my family and anyone I knew
>Constantly paranoid
>always checking his email multiple times a day
>shaking while I sleep
>February he cheats again
>I take him back lmao.why
>April marks our 6 year anniversary
>leave to see family towards end of month
>found out about new email of his just before I left
>Decide to check on it the day before I'm due to fly back
>he's CHEATING AGAIN HAHA YEAH
>fly back with father, pack shit into my car, and finally leave him
I'm on the drive back home now. Shit's so dumb. I'm exhausted the second I wake, but I've barely cried or processed these emotions in any way so that's probably why. His mental shit is why he cheated, so I guess I can't be too upset. I'm really not to blame at all, outside of not leaving his ass sooner. I hate to talk myself up but I'm pretty perfect. Always supportive, loving, forgiving, appreciative, intelligent, enthusiastic for life, I cook and bake very well, I clean, I've gone to school, my sex drive is higher than his, and /fit/ has rated me a 10/10 in the past.
All he talks about now is how he's going to change and get better and be the man I deserve. Like BRUH, I have you 6 years to do that. I was open with what I needed- I didn't expect you to read my mind.
Sorry for the blog post, I haven't really talked to anyone about this so yeah
>>37021628
>/fit/ has rated me 10/10
pics
>>37021628
>>37021810
That's where you fuck up with your pastas robot-kun. You NEVER write anything that provokes people to ask for proof.
>>37021248
pussy
>>37021810
Check the archive and guess
READ THE STICKY
>>37021248
at least you got to be with her.
i loved a grill tt was 5/10, 6/10 at most. and she rejected me. im not shredded, but i do have my gains.
>>37021248
nice blog faggot
>>37021520
This
>>37021248
we tried to warn you but you wouldn't listen you god dammed fool and look what has happened
>>37021520
quality post
>>37021248
So many words and not a single thing was conveyed
>>37021971
>mfw op has secret brethren clan of autistic /fit/izens
>>37021248
This is real.
Now I'm old the feels creep up and dominate you.
I also know that feel where you're just not interested in anyone but the ex. I'm there right now.
The way I'm living now is to accept that love and feels as the way the world is for you. If they're true feels, the love won't fade. Don't fight it. Don't struggle. Accept you love this person but that they're not in your life. Once you accept your feelings, you learn to live with them and not let them hurt you anymore. Surrender and accept. Let the feels exist but not harm you.
>>37021248
>Correction
You don't need to include this on your post, you can just go back and make the correction in your post. The "correction" just makes you look like a poor writer that can't present their thesis without forced drama
>>37021248
This is why I turned gay.
It's so much easier than dealing with women.
T-Thanks /fit/.
>>37021248
Just in case you're still around, I have a few things to say to you after reading this. I'm somewhat similar in the key aspects of what you describe, although I used to get more open attention before I got /fit/ (I was normie-fit before, people are more intimidated now). I had several serious relationships where I learned that I have the ability to actually and deeply fall in love with any girl I make my girlfriend. Obviously for that they have to have certain qualities, not talking about sex here, that includes both physical and mental aspects of their personality. I still have that one who could have been the one, but I somewhat got over it. By getting over it I don't mean the childish thing of not crying about her or thinking about her but not feeling the sadness and disappointment all the time anymore. It stayed with me but the edge of it is gone. It's just that one chance that didn't happen but won't wreck your life and your personality.
In my personal opinion you should build your life around yourself, your goals and ideals, unless those include creating a family and having kids, in which case my advice is not for you. Of course there is always room for a serious relationship and a good companion, but unless you build your life around it, you can always move on. Keep or regain the ability to be open-minded and love again - in another way, love another woman.
He who has loved and lost that love and can still love again is truly strong. Those who harden themselves because they can't take the pain of being hurt are the ones who will regret that weakness.
No matter how much I love my woman and her exquisite body and the way she does certain things, I will never allow myself to be shaped by losing her in a negative way. I hope the day does not come, but when it does, I will be ready to take on that challenge and I hope I will be able to love yet again.
Regards, your fellow Anonymous, brother in Lifting Iron and Breaking Hearts. *tips barbell*
>Chad finds out that his actions have consequences
Keep suffering, fambulance. Your pain nourishes me.
Fuck, why has age made me emotional
love is a joke
kids are a joke
just have fun and then die, that's all you can do.
There's no such thing as romantic love. You've been duped into believing a fallacy created to stop your natural instinct to have sexual relations with as many women as possible before you die.
Those feelings of loneliness and the belief one female is perfect for are designed to keep you confined in a box and controlled. Don't fall for it. Resist.
>>37021248
well i'm 34, not much older but I can give You some advice. I was once on your position.
Learn to live with yourself. lift, live a day at a time. pick up a new hobby.
you need to learn to be alone. then you can be with someone. honest breh.
>>37021628
>I hate to talk myself up but I'm pretty perfect.
Yet you stayed with a loser for this long. Nice bait.
>>37021628
>cheats
>take him back
you deserve it for being an idiot
>>37021628
this is why you NEVER EVER NO FUCKING MATTER WHAT SHITTY REASON go back with an ex
NEVER
FUCKING
EVER
jesus christ you people
>>37021628
It's hard for me to even get a single chick to fuck me. Yet there are people on this planet, that have a gf and still casually fuck on the side.
>>37021378
Fuck off
Why do people STILL go back to an ex in this day and age?
>>37021628
>I hate to talk myself up but I'm pretty perfect
>intelligent
kek'd
>dating guy with mental issues
>lets him cheat on u 3 times
>blames his mental issues for the reason why he cheat
3/10
I replied
nice b8te m8te
>>37021248
This makes me sick, it's not even /fit/ related, go to /r9k/ and bitch there, seems like more your thing.
>>37021248
>40+ Women
>Player
Mate I'm a 5/10 ex super fatty with gyno and have been with 15 women.
You need to smash more fitties. Legit players are like 100+ by 30.
>>37023709
Thank you breh. Read it twice, means a lot *tips no homo*
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>>37025204
Basement dwelling virgin berniecucks detected
>>37021628
B E R N
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>>37025298
>im gonna post a political bait so the thread might go on a bit
>tfw you're with a subpar girl hooking up and she asks you to describe your ideal woman
>struggle to not say features that are her opposite
>>37024256
Have hobbies. Love solitude and crave isolation. However, tables have turned in this scenario but thank you for understanding where I'm coming from, most anons on fit are border-line sociopathic virgins. Gotta count blessings
>>37021628
This has to be bait
