> first of all I'm very happy that I give her a pure alpha vibe
> she complained how I'm never jealous and tries to push my limits
But:
She keeps saying things she'd like to change on me like:
1) my style (apparently she's into hipsters)
2) my hair
3) tattos (have none)
4) fucking earplugs
5) im not sensitive...
6) bla bla bla
Says things like
'I love you but you can't have great hair like THIS.' shows me some faggot with curly hair.
If I'd say something similar I'd hurt her immensely.
So is it time to step in and say something or just don't give a fuck like I usually do?
I mean 1 or 2 things are alright, no one is perfect but sometimes it does get annoying...
yfw she turns you into a disgusting hipster faggot and leaves you for Chad
don't let that happen OP
>>36840897
>complained how I'm never jealous
Sounds mental.
>>36840917
Never gonna happen - but still how does a grown up Person deal with this Kind of talk?
Sounds like she wants drama,and that's never good. Better to nip this in the bud, anon.
That shits too much. I pester my boyfriend to change in some ways too but that sounds like excessive. Be careful but I think you should mention exactly what you said here. She wouldn't like it if you told her to change all that so it's unreasonable.
>>36840917
This.
My gf tries to make me have my hair and beard both in that shit state between long and short. If I did this I'd basically have a wispy neckbeard and a poofy round haircut. Basically making my head look round and undefined.
She pouts and moans when I shave down to an aesthetic stubble and get a short decent haircut. But IDGAF, I'm pretty sure she's just trying to keep me from being attractive.
Also tries to tell me to stop getting bigger, and stop getting leaner when I cut.
I just don't listen to her about it.
Giving women the power in a relationship is the one thing that will inevitably lead to her leaving you.
Keep on not giving a fuck, it'll drive her crazy but in the long run will essentially make her loyal as fuck to you.
>>36840897
"How come you're never jealous anon?"
"Why do you expect me to expect the worst of you?"
Works every time
>>36840897
continue not giving a fuck, she can either deal with it or she can fuck off. never let a woman have any control over your life.
>>36840897
Post pics of faggot with curly hair
I've got curly hair and I've got no clue what to do with it.
>>36840897
What the fuck?
I hope you're 16. She sounds retarded. Please dump her.
>>36840975
So how'd you deal with it when she's compare your beard to some other guys or something simar?
Would you tell her to fuck off or just laugh it off?
>>36840897
She will either try to change you as she thinks your out of her league or change you as she thinks she can. Don't let her change you at all otherwise she'll tell people you're under the thumb and most likely leave you
>>36840975
So how'd you deal with it if your GF would compare your beard/hair to some other guys saying his is better.
Laugh it off?
>>36840943
>sorry babe, I need to look like a professional to exist in the professional world
>>36841008
Im 23 she's 19....
>>36840975
Sounds like a terrible gf senpai. Get one that lifts with you and supports you getting as big and lean as possible
>>36840945
I'm with this guy.
>>36840897
She sounds the kind of girl that cheats on you and doesn't even bother to make an excuse because
>DUH, IT'S 2016
>>36841066
Well I already expect that so that wouldn't worry me too much.
>>36841040
Okay Scott Pilgrim, slow down
>>36840983
Nice... Will use
>letting anyone, even your girlfriend, dictate everything you do
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>>36840897
DO NOT let her change you, OP. All those things she mentioned is cancer in its purest form.
>>36841099
Kekd
If she dosen't like you for who you are, it's time to break up
BREAK UP
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Here's exactly how this plays out if you fall into her trap
>"anon change this anon change that"
>you change this and you change that
>"anon we need to talk "
>"you aren't the person you were when we first met
>your girlfriend breaks up with you
But hey all of this is just advice do whatever the FUCK you wanna do
>you read that in Keith's voice
>>36840897
Did she step out of a time portal to 2009? Who still wears ear plugs and tattoos?
>>36840897
>Complains that I'm never jealous
She's fucking other guys behind your back anon
>>36840897
Treat her like a child, literally behave around her like she is a 12 year old
Bitches love that shit, they love when you get them mad, they love to yell and be put in their place because they don't care what emotion they feel as long as they FEEL AN EMOTION STRONGLY
I tell my bitch "we'll see" whenever she wants to do something she wants and it's hilarious last time she said "that's something my parents always told me when I was a kid" and sat pouting, arms crossed on her bed for a minute then basically super-glued herself to me for the next hour
Honestly, if it's a simple change, you like her and want to make her happy, why not do it? My wife told me she prefers suits, now I wear more button-up shirts. I don't care either way and she likes it.
As for things like tattoos, piercings and all that shit: That's your own decision and while telling you she would like it is totally OK pestering you about it is not. Seriously, ask her if she wants to be with you or with the guy she styled you to be in her head. Then again she is only 19...
>>36840897
stop dating a 14 yo
>>36841204
PUSSY
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>>36841174
I srsly doubt that, I fucked her so hard a while back, there was so much blood it looked like'd have taken her virginity.
She has been having really Bad pains in her vag since then, crying while sex (;
On way to secure loyalty i suppose. Just break her pussy...
>>36841040
> dating girls under 20
As usual, the real answer is somewhere between the two:
>>36841199
>>36841204
Not everything your gf (or really whoever) says is automatically right or wrong. Use your judgement and heed or ignore their suggestions as the situation demands.
I mean, if your career path is pushing you to be some edgy artist type, then you should listen to your gf when she tells you to get tattoos and become faggot.
If your career path demands you be clean cut and sharp, then just put your foot down and say "no". Women prefer not getting what she immediately wants infinitely more than getting what she immediately wants but having to permanently take responsibility for ruining things for you. I swear to God, a woman will tolerate being beaten, raped, and enslaved more than she will tolerate being blamed and yelled at for stuff
>>36840897
>gf wants you to get tattoos
>gf wants you to mutilate your ears
Drop her now ffs
>>36840897
lol you're dating a scene bitch
get better taste in girls, faggot
>>36843272
This has to be bait tho.... Do girls now really want this and act like pouty babby cunts?
>>36843775
In my experience, yes, many younger ones do. Remember that the only one who will always be with you is yourself and don't bend to anyone's will. Pussy comes and goes and is readily available, your own body is not worth sacrificing for it.
>>36841092
She sounds like a terrible girl to be with. Why haven't you left her?
Why the fuck would you date a 19 year old who tells you what to do with your body? These aren't even valid complaints. Dump her and find someone who likes you for you- not the person they want you to become.
>>36841045
Doubt the neckbeard even has a gf none of what he says makes sense
they will shit test you and try to change you for their power games. do not give in. the more you resist them the less power they have over you
>>36840897
Never change for woman. They like having people as projects and once they're near completion they dump you
Trust an oldfag (39, married): Never change, because a woman wants you to. She WILL leave you afterwards for a guy that is like you were before. She might tell you that she likes the kind of guy she tries to change you into – and maybe even believes that bullshit – but she became your gf because you are the guy you are. Be yourself, be self-confident, do your thing and only adapt, if YOU think it is necessary. And then don't make a big fuzz about it.
>>36841009
she is shittesting you, just laught it off, dont react to it in bad way, be calm and funny about it
Bros what do you do when your GF asks you if a girl is pretty? (When they clearly are)
>>36846125
>taking advice from a 39 year old who browses 4chan
>doesn't even know what an oldfag is
>>36846738
tell her daamn you right, maybe I should approach her if she thinks she is better suit for me right? just mock her and even if you dont like that girl she pointed, lie and still tell her she is pretty
>>36846738
Ask her if she thinks one of your guy friends is handsome. Hopefully she can pick up on the parity there.
>>36846839
Yeah man, she has some slight double standards. She gets all mad if I say yes or calls me a liar if I say no but then she will sometimes say how goodlooking this guy on Vampire Diaries is when she's watching it.
>>36846839
No. If its a random chick out and about your girlfriend is asking you that to see what you find attractive. If shes asking you if you think her chick friends are hot she is testing to see if your attracted to her friends. She doesnt want you around them then if you find her friends attractive cause that means competition. Dont ask her if your guy friends are hot you dumb faggot your asking for jealousy and drama. Girls do that to gain info and weed out competition. Guys dont do that. If your gonna do some middle school switcheroo of "oh well do you think my guy friends are hot?" you may as well let her peg you too you pussy.
If you dont know your spot in your group of dude friends you are prolly the beta one so you should date accordingly.
>>36841199
ugh, woman like that are disgusting
>>36846866
if you are wondering why she does that and want to understand what is she trying to do go read the way of superior man, every guy should read it atleast once in lifetime, also go watch some RSD, preferably from Tyler on youtube, you dont need to get up on all that PUA thing, just to learn basic stuff, it will change your views on girls, relationships and later on it might help you with career/self developing
>inb4 hurr durr PUA faggot it doesnt work, I cant get girls so you cant get girls, it doesnt work dur hurr
>>36846937
So why does she do that? I thought PUA was for guys who don't have a GF and just want to slay random girls?
>>36846912
but he is right, they are emotional, men are logical
basically your a replacement so she can get the similar feeling of something she wants.,
she would dump you in a heartbeat if she found someone who does everything better than you which is a red flag op
its like when you play a knock off version of a game because you dont have extra money to buy it.
>>36846952
go read the book
PUA can be many things to many guys, I got into it over book reviews from julien, I watched some tyler videos, he is very entertaining, even tho my goal never was to slay girls like that since I have other priorities in life
at one point I even thought its disgusting, well things turned out differently and I am happy it got to me, social knowledge is important in life
>>36840897
Normal for a gf to try and make her man better but if she's asking to change a lot about you she doesn't like YOU she has an idea in her head of the perfect guy and wants you to be that man. Its flattering but makes you feel inadequate I'm sure. If she's asking to change a lot I'm pretty sure she'd leave you for someone who IS that person she's dreaming of.
A few things are fine bro but don't change who you are my man.
>>36841172
From my observation most faggots over around 25.
>>36842891
> dating white chicks
Fuck that. im a shitty situation too
>gf broke up with me and moved out 2 months ago
>she finally changed her mailing address
>coming over tmrw to pick up last of her mail that got delivered here
>shes in the area because shes with some guy to go look at her moms car cause its having troubles
>shes told me she thinks hes cute before
>know they are banging
>really dont want to see her with him when she stops by
>>36846937
PUA is the height of faggotry.
> not having a gf and getting hit on by random chicks without having to autistically follow paint by numbers "negs"
Sorry you're a failure as a man and probably grew up with no stable male role model
>>36840897
>Now is not the time for changes. That comes later.
Clearly you aren't satisfying her sexually. Be tough with her: choke her, spank her, pull her hair and force your cock down her throat til she chokes. Then she'll respect you.
>>36847126
Get an escort and be banging the slut bareback when she comes in.
>>36847306
im sleeping with her friend but id still rather her not bring random guys to my house. Shes gonna be the girl that got away from me for the rest of my life. Just hurts to see her with other people. Just want her to grab her shit and disappear from my life if shes not gonna be in it completely.
>>36847143
ok bro, you are on point, I am such a failure
because I like to socialize and have fun, but thats ok, some men like to provide "things", meanwhile I provide fun and D, its win/win situation for everyone peace bro
Women do not fucking know what they want, even most women admit this.
Just follow your instincts OP, fuck what she thinks.
>>36840897
just say the shit you want her to change even if saying it hurts her
you show youre alpha
she knows you're better than her and can do better
>>36840897
She's freaking out because you're better than her and she has no familiarity on how to push/pull you. She's probably doing it to test the waters on what you are and aren't okay with. Fuck with her a little bit back OP.
>what is mail
>what is moving company
please don't be that guy with the rainy face in the door frame.
>>36840897
Scenario 1: you listen to her and change
She is complain about how mich you changed and that you're not the guy you used to be, she'll break up.
Scenario 2: you don't change
She's gonna get bored with you and is gonna cheat with some hipster faggot with curly hair
Scenario 3: ditch her now, save troubles later. She sound like a crazy person. But wich girl isn't, amirite guys :,)
>>36840897
Actually it's not that bad, my wife recently asked me to dress a little nicer and shave my stubble because she wants her son to have a good father figure to look up to so i've been starting to dress a in nice shirts, also been doing more around the house. It's just about keeping the wife happy, and i really want to support her and her son.
>>36847590
Pretty good cuck post until the end. Too obvious there
Somewhat related I guess, but has anyone here had their gf get mad, upset, etc. because you wanted to work out? I've heard of this happening because they don't want you to get mired by other women.
>>36847336
>i like to socialize
>thats why i made a game out of talking to other human beings to the point where i follow rules that i read online so when i behave a certain way i get a certain goal response
You made it, you're the worlds first human computer.
>>36847590
That's a bit less invasive than suggesting you get tattoos or start dressing like a hipster.
>>36840897
Women think they want to be able to change their man. In reality, a man that lets a woman change him is weak and repulsive to their deepest evolutionary programming. Be a mountain: immovable. Do you and nothing else.
If she wants a hipster with tattoos, tell her to go fuck one. You're secure with yourself, you can do better than her, etc.
>>36847724
"Women think they want to be able to change their man."
This. They arent aware of it, but women do it as a sort of shit test. If you change yourself, shes gonna walk all over you, disrespect you, then leave you. That being said, there are a few thing you have to compromise on, but when it comes to completely changing who you are as a person, tell her to fuck off.
>>36847744
>4chan's famous "all women are Machiavellian schemers" meme
>>36847623
following guidelines or behaving in in certain way just to get something in return is exactly the opposite of what I do
this isnt do this or that then this, its more about you and your mindset, as I said earlier, the whole PUA might be different to others, as it might not be exactly what you think it is
as far as I can say, if you think something is missing in your life, or you are just bored, go try to search RSD, I know it helped me and you will be surprised if you give it a chance, have open mind
>>36847772
ive had 3 long term gfs, a sister, and plenty of girls im friends with. Just trying to share my experience.
>>36847772
i think the problem is in not realizing that there are different kinds of girls
i can absolutely believe that many girls, possibly most, do this type of shit without even realizing it because they're fickle and immature, but also keep in mind there are girls who aren't fickle and immature who don't do that kind of shit
that said the girl in the OP sounds very fickle and very immature
>>36847825
It's not really most. The majority of women, especially desirable ones, are looking to date above their standing, not mold some weak-willed man into what they want.
>>36840975
yet again goes to show that women don't know what they want
>>36847842
i agree. which is why i said they are doing it without realizing it.
>>36840983
Daaamn that is good
>>36847160
Actually this works.
My boyfriend started doing that to me and I think it has made me much more of a doormat for him outside of the bedroom also.
I mean it's kind of a strange way of manipulating someone but at least it isn't emotional.
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>>36847772
>facebook's famous "4chan's famous 'all women are Machiavellian schemers' meme" meme
>>36840897
>Says things like
when my old GF said that I replied with "if that's what you like then go find a guy like that"
eventually she stop with that BS
