>she doesn't need you
> no amount of lifting will ever fix your shattered soul
Fit feels thread
save my image please i spent like 10 minutes on it
>>36837621
>implying i know any women
normie get out
REEEEEEEE
>>36837647
Congratulations, you are a shitty meme and you are worthless. Go shitpost on /b/ faggot.
>>36837621
A 9mm to the temple will take your troubles away. I recommend ignoring the iron pill for the lead pill
>>36837621
Haha, jokes on you
I'm gonna go get her back, God is on my side
Fuck you, once I reach 170 with 10% bf she will love me.
>>36837633
at least r9k kinda liked it
>>36837669
I wish i could get her back
>she's miles away
>>36837688
those LDR feels, im here for you anon
>>36837633
>mfw i made the original of this but yours is way better
>>36837776
i made it based on yours :)
tfw you have bipolar depressive episode and she leaves. tfw no matter what all your relationships are doomed to fail because you are eternally and internally broken.
Can r9k just fuck off, you fags are cancer go back to where you belong
>>36837788
youre too kind anon
Too tired to bother with green text.
What the fuck is wrong with women, really?
I meet a perfect girl (for me at least). We date, we have a great time together, there's chemistry. We are passionate, we laugh. Then she ignores me, I get pissed, I send her a text, she cuts contact. Obviously I feel like shit but whatever, she's in my social circle so man the fuck up.
I'm a depressed idiot who's only reason why I haven't thrown myself from my roof is because I lift every fucking day. And I'm not bullshitting when I say that I have the best body of everyone I know and everyone she knows too.
Fast forward 4 months since the text. Before she just ignored me, now she's mean as fuck. She suddenly starts talking about her dates every time I'm near. I'm chilling and smoking with our friends, she recieves a call, looks at me and says "I'm not answering" while laughing. Now I know what she did every time I called and recieved no answer.
Last Friday she flirts with a dumbass, right in front of me. I laugh and turn back were all my friends are. Next day I find out that she did it "just to check if Anon still feels something" and that supposedly I had an "I want to kill you" look.
What the fuck is this bullshit.
I'm the best man she can have. I know it. Everyone else knows it. I'm pretty fucking sure she knows it. But because I told her how I felt 4 fucking months ago everything is fucked up somehow.
Holy shit I even got light headed from thinking about it again.
>>36837810
If you want a pure fitness board. Goto /r/fitness you faggot.
>>36837818
sick
>>36837811
anytime senpai
>>36837818
Are you me?
>>36837818
Dude drop her she's clearly a bitch
>>36837818
find yourself another girl
one prettier than her
introduce this new girl to the old one
let the jealousy ensue
Anyone else starting to find themselves more and more attracted to penises and the male physique over vaginas the more they get into lifting?
Not like a homo thing, I would never have a crush on a guy, it's just penises seem a lot more sexy that they used to. It's not like I'm gay or anything, but when I watch porn I mostly focus on the penis
>>36837818
most of us know this feeling dude. and it's gonna suck if you keep letting it fuck you in the ass
drop contact and ignore her when she is around you. she CLEARLY is looking for your validation for whatever devil witch reason, the sooner you ignore her the better. seriously if you have the mindset of not caring even if you actually care, you will begin to not care because you act like you dont care all the time! it's crazy magic. also once you meet a new girl you will realize how blind you were. be patient nigga
>>36837884
>"I'm not gay I just love cocks"
Fuck off
>>36837884
Lol I don't know if you're trolling or something but I feel you senpai. I'm deadened to seeing big titted bimbos but when I see a buff guy with a shredded core and big dick I just think "nice man, good for you and that ho you fucking". Like I get mad when I see a fit guy with a small dick
>>36837863
>>36837866
>>36837905
Forgot to add that I'm probably a normie for /fit/ standards.
I don't have problems with women, in fact I get legit 8's most of the times and 9's ocasionally. She won't stop nagging me when I'm with women and there's been times when she just grabs me and starts making out HARD, out of pure jealousy I suppose.
Other time after the same old story of placing herself right behind my back and talking about her new guy, turns me around and tells me (while being super drunk) "You know anon? I'm very good at manipulating people, that's why I always get what I want." Left me baffled. And this is all after the good old advice of ignoring her. Because that's what I've been doing for the last month. I know what she's doing and why she's doing it (kind of) but...
Where the fuck is that passionate and caring girl I dated? Now I just see a bitch who only wants my attention because she doesn't have it.
>>36837621
>we were together, both fit
>my body started shaping into an hour glass because of her gains goblin antics. She became chunky too
>become 20% bf
>lose the girl, regain aesthetics and high wilks
>fuck many girls after the relationship is over
>its been little over a year now
>nothing will fill the void of her. Not even my other ex grillfriend who I use to have feelings for
>hope that one day we'll run into each other, somewhere. At a bar, or maybe just in the city. So that she can notice my aesthetics and possibly want me back, even though I crushed her feelings
>You don't know what you got until its gone /fit/
>can ohp 160lbs
>can't pick up qt's
>use digital scales for a year because there's one at walmart
>5ft 11 , 179 cm
>go to nutritionist today
>i'm actually 6ft, 183cm
This feel is a good feel
>>36837966
> where the fuck is that passionate and caring girl I dated?
remember when she said she's really good at manipulating people just to get what she wants?...yeah.
honestly anon, I'm a kissless loser virgin so feel free to discard what I say, but I would personally continue to ignore her and just cut contact with her as much as you can. Sounds like a complete bitch that is just going to waste your time. Don't play her games.
>>36837884
>tfw you are watching porn and keep getting distracted because you are judging the fitness of the skinnyfat dude
Only recently I'm getting taken out of the moment by these out of shape fuckers banging these 9-10/10 chicks, I never used to care
Wtf is happening?
> be 5'9 163lbs aesthetics and goals reached
> meet 6/10 gf
> she's sweet, supportive, and amazing in bed
> family and friends love her
> buys me gifts and let's me know im loved
> feelsgoodman.img
Here's where it goes sour
> has a negro "adopted" brother
> fat and smells bad
> total neet
> has no family left and lives with her family
> incredibly sensitive
> anything I say, he gets offended
> anything I do, he gets offended
> causes me and gf to fight
> we fight over his feelings
> she doesn't even kiss me at night because of him
> dedicating more time to fitness
> getting mirin' by milfs and other sloots
> gf is always upset cus butthurt negro
> love her enough where I stay, but it feels like I should give up
Feels bad mong.
>tfw always in shitty relationships with the wrong women and drive away the right ones
>now you bench press to have the strength to push toxic women out of sight
>but you will never be stronk enough to push the feels out of mind
>and you will never have a truly good woman
>because you always push when you should have been pulling
>>36838868
diddylift
skwaat
kek
>>36838533
try sitting down with her and have a very calm, serious, and adult talk about how fighting of someone elses feelings is bringing alot of negativity into your relationship and think of ways to fix that, maybe you can have a chat with her brother to. remember to assure her that you want this to work. GL bro
>>36838030
wow thats impressive Ily anon
>>36837966
she's a borderline psycho whore
better keep her at a safe distance
>>36837818
All women love suicidal, depressed, physically intimidating men, don't you know
Christ you guys are deep in the hole
>wake up
>be sick
>throat burns like hell
>tfw can't work out today, probably won't until thursday
>try fapping less, like twice a week
>been two days since last fap
>meet qt high test chick, talk a bit
>fantasize before bed
>get horny as fuck, cant sleep
>finally fall asleep
>wet dream
JUST
It can happen.
>Broke up with GF of 4 years, real sad
>Tried to fix it with lifting and dating around
>Worked on myself a lot, learned to be more outgoing and fun
>Lifted a lot, made some gains. Bulked too much and added too much fat so my confidence went down for a while
>Cut for a few months and started getting better looking girls
>Date 8.75/10 for a short while and feels like I made it
>she starts ignoring me
>feel shitty again and hook up with about 7 or 8 girls on tinder
>Get real tired of tinder girls and start missing ex again
>She calls me a week or 2 after that
>Been together year and a half now, things going better than ever
>Still making good gains
>Texting girl from class night before exam
Me: Yo, light rail's gonna be closed so you're gonna have to drive to campus to avoid being late
Her: Wtf really? Damn it
Me: Yeah gay. I wish we could carpool though. I hate driving to campus
Her: Well I can come pick you up anon
--she picks me up the next morning--
After class she takes me home. We build rapport in the car.
Her: I really enjoyed carpooling with you anon. Thanks for keeping me company, I hope we can do this again soon!
---Long conversation in the car---
Me: Look, I gotta go. I'm hungry so I'm gonna have to let you go. I'll see you next week.
Does this have potential anons?
>>36838261
You became a faggot. Not like "OP is a faggot" faggot. I mean "meet me in the last shower stall" faggot.
>>36837818
Had a similiar situation only that i'm not fit as fuark. Drop contact(She being a part of you social circle is no excuse) or enjoy the rage, your choice.
>>36839070
Peter?
>>36839158
Fucking kek
>>36839143
You know it fucking has. Why would you ask unless you want us to say yes. Fuck you.
>>36839143
next time you carpool, suggest that you get food together. It sometimes is that simple, familia
>>36839132
I dont understand this to be frank
Whenever guys tells me about hooking up with their exes i dont think "Boy thats stupid, you broke up for a reason" instead i think "Why hasnt she moved on yet?"
i mean every girl i ever met who dumped their bf (including my own ex) has had a new bf litterally days after, why does she break up with him?
>>36839309
We were both pretty hung up on each other but we cut all contact so I didn't know she still wanted anything to do with me.
We started dating when we were both young so I did a lot of stupid shit young guys do, which caused some rifts.
It wasn't like our personalities didn't match. I just wanted to bang tons of girls (which most guys do) but after you hook up with enough you realize having one good girl is better even if it gets boring sometimes.
>>36837621
>i like you a lot
>she replies "oh really..."
atleast she didnt fake an i like you back
>>36839328
I didnt mean your relationship to be specific, sorry mate
Its great and i respect your opinion, ive also found that one girl is better than 100 randoms
I could never hook up with an ex again since they all got new bfs, and that was my point
Girls tend to find "fresh meat" rather quickly
>>36839294
I live in a world of self-doubt and taking things at the surface, anon
>>36839297
I hope so... We're in a group project together and everytime I've suggested we meet up to work on it she flakes.
>stomach ache on saturday night
>throw up chicken
>pretty sure i fucked it up in a rush
>feel like shit the next day
>monday comes around, not sure how to feel
>begin first set of dead lifts
>warm up with plates
>instantly feel like shit
>rerack
>go home to rest
im not gonna make it lads, least not the way im feeling right now. time to rest
>>36839351
yeah I think that makes break ups harder for dudes, the thought that your ex could be out banging a bunch of douchebags at any given moment.
I got a bit self destructive at times because of it, some of that energy I just tried to be a better person and some of it I put into lifting.
>>36837966
drop the bitch. tell her to fuck off. it would be painful (4u)...but damn it feels fucking good after like ripping of a bandaid
>>36839378
Yeah i dont know which is worse, her banging random assholes or finding a new bf within days after a breakup...its litterally killing me knowing she broke up with me to move in with her new bf and over a year later im still single
>>36837818
Don't waste your time on someone who plays games, they do it intentionally for their own enjoyment and sense of pleasure. Surround yourself with people that respects you, not a cocky cunt.
>lose weight and build muscle
>she wants you now
>hate her for being shallow and not loving you as you were
>>36839410
Healthy people should take some time off between relationships. People that jump right back into one normally have problems being alone and feel like the need someone. I've been in a long term relationship for most of my adult life and it was really hard to adjust to being single.
>>36837621
>whenever she hears your first name, she thinks of another dude with that same name
>>36837818
you're pathetic anon
>>36839446
Yeah i have been in a relationship for seven years prior to this last breakup...i knew being single was gonna be hard and lonely but it was worse than i thought
I think healthy people can feel like they dont want to be alone either and if youre lucky enough to have the option why not take it?
>>36839446
agreed: being single is fucking awesome
you get to do what you want when you want, how you want.
want to stunt drive your car, drink whiskey, go dancing alone, smoke weed, swim at 2 am, make an ass of yourself talking to random girls, eat tacos, stare at an empty beach, be unshaven and unkempt and in general not giving a fuck? now you can, asshole. No fucks given. No annoying girlfriend to nag while you drink some beers with co-workers and go dead lift at some god forsaken hours instead of brunch. Fuck brunch. In the whole whirlwind of craziness and micro self-destruction I hope you find a glimmer of yourself that no one can take away, and love yourself for it. Even if you think you are shit.
Disclaimer: don't do hard drugs
Also, not saying that doing all of the above in a relationship is impossible, just harder. More attachments. Hard to free yourself
>>36839410
shut the fuck up normalfag
you had a gf before
how the fuck can you still find a way to complain about that
>>36839488
>being single is fucking awesome
not that guy
Our definition of awesome differs alot mate, i mean whats to awesome about being lonely as balls? sure you can do dumb shit but the important things? yeah no, cant do those
>>36839446
This very much, also, being single isn't all that bad. It's peaceful.
>>36839489
>how the fuck can you still find a way to complain about that
You do realize a gf is like water or food right? you cant just eat and drink once a life and be happy for the rest of it
>>36839512
solitude is awesome m8: no distraction, no trappings, no excuses
yeah it hurts like hell sometimes but it's all good, pain makes us strong. Maybe I was born into loneliness (only child mainly raised by great-grandmother) but I just embrace it. Pussy's awesome but it ain't everything
>>36839512
If you can't be happy with yourself, how can you expect other people to be happy with you?
Become comfortable with loneliness and recognize that self-worth doesn't come from the validation of romantic partners.
>>36839482
>>36839488
Yeah I miss being single sometimes. The highs are higher and the lows are lower.
Why not take the option? It really depends on what you want out of life. If you need another human being for validation then you should probably work on yourself. If you find a girl that you want to make happy and you feel like you each make each other want to be better people then its a good match.
My GF and I can get drunk together and be total trainwrecks and laugh about it the next day. She's cool with the occasional threesome (MFF) and we have a lot of the same interests and have fun together. It's not all great though, everything takes work. There's no formula for 'winning' at life or relationships, and a lot of the people that seem like they're happy all the time secretly hate life or fight all the time with their significant others.
>>36839008
>>36838533
This, except don't leave the brother out, he's clearly more concerned with his own feelings to give a shit about yours, why the fuck would he listen to you about anything?
Calmly and seriously, like an adult, let he know that you're fighting because of her oversensitive brother and that it would be unreasonable for her to pick you over her brother, so she either needs to just calm down about him or you don't see yourselves being happy with each other.
Makes this less about you and more about your relationship, if you sound like a whiny asshole, she won't care, but if you include her in it, she might.
>>36839111
Fap when you're actually horny, rather than fapping habitually, you'll fap a lot less, but keep in mind becoming horny from looking at porn isn't good, avoid porn and then wait until you're naturally horny. If you get horny all the time, then I suppose only fap when you feel you absolutely must. Doing this I just fap way less and they're way more fun.
>>36839424
At least you realised instead of getting suckered in. There's hope yet.
>>36839557
Do leave the brother out* Don't include him in the relationship. Damn that was a bad typo... Also, let her*
>>36839521
>You do realize a gf is like water or food right?
You're pathetic, and it's sad that people like you legitimately think like this.
>>36839564
He's redpilled af brah, he's read the entire subreddit and everything.
>>36837667
>9mm
>not .45 acp
Pffdt
>>36839538
>solitude is awesome m8: no distraction, no trappings, no excuses
Certainly more productive up until the point where you break
>>36839541
This is bullshit, no offence but i never understood this
I dont want to be alone but im supposed to be alone so i can not be alone?
>>36839544
>Why not take the option?
What option?
and today im having a shit day(well more of a shit day) and i can only think of how much better being in even the most sucky of relationships is to being single but i digress
I just...want life to be better and nothing i do right now makes life better
Friends, school, work, workouts, hobbies...nothing improves the quality of life when i think back to how fucking awesome sitting on the couch watching GoT with my gf in my arms
I just...dont fucking know
>>36839615
>This is bullshit, no offence but i never understood this
>I dont want to be alone but im supposed to be alone so i can not be alone?
The point is that everyone is lonely. You are going to be alone for much of your life. You are going to die alone. You need to learn how to accept loneliness, and be at peace with yourself.
If you dislike yourself so much that you need company to provide a distraction, how can you expect your company to enjoy being with you? If you want people to like you, you need to like yourself. As such, if you are comfortable and at peace with yourself, others will be comfortable around you.
>>36839615
Hitting rock bottom is a good foundation.
Also if you're happy alone, you will be happy regardless, whether in or out of the relationship.
>Friends, school, work, workouts, hobbies...nothing improves the quality of life when i think back to how fucking awesome sitting on the couch watching GoT with my gf in my arms
Move forward, don't be a needy person grasping at the past anon. Here's your chance to be great, for yourself
>>36839644
>>36839645
Youre both right, but reality is kind of hard to face sometimes and i guess i just miss the good old days when life was better
I know its not really an argument but it makes me feel shitty when i know my ex litterally hasnt been single in over 15 years since she moved from relationship to relationship ever since she was 14 with no interruption and i cant even find a date
>>36839615
You said why not take the option if there was one to have a gf I was just reiterating.
I know that feeling, I didn't even watch TV for almost 2 years cause I watched a lot of shows with my ex. The uncertainty is the hardest part of break ups- not knowing if you'll ever find another girl that makes you truly happy again. Short answer, you will. Like I said before just focus on yourself. Take up some new hobbies, be outgoing, dress better, eat better, lift harder, get more money. Take it one day at a time. Millions of people have been there before and everyone turns out OK.
>>36838533
Ask her to move to your place?
>>36839111
Wet dreams is best dreams
>>36839663
as cringy as this sounds... take yourself on a date/treat yourself. Find out shit about yourself. Who the fuck are you? What do you want to do with your given time? How do you like to have fun? What is a skill that you've always wanted but never practiced? What brings you joy? What makes you go 'ooo shit son that was awesome'? (not talking about drugs, too easy, just another dependency)
Example: If you've always liked to draw, find some way to do that, find some other people to share that with. Rock climbing? Hiking? You're on the chans. Anons, myself included, are introspective and lonely... but that's a gift too. Fucking do something. Find some bros, like really connect, cuz they're dudes and they go thru a lot of the same woman bullshit
> i just miss the good old days when life was better
this is literally a fucking logical fallacy. Life's fucking awesome and you're too busy looking backwards to see it
>>36837818
>I'm the best man she can have
Lifting doesn't make you a nice person.
>>36839488
neverhadagf.jpg
>>36839743
Ill find new things to do, its dumb to think ive done everything there is in life
>>36839664
Gotta keep the faith alive, and do stuff meanwhile i guess
Time for school bros, but i want to say thank you both
>>36839763
you can believe what you want anon
>>36839663
Get on Tinder, man, and lower your standards. You don't have to commit to some sloot you pick up and take out, and it'll still do the confidence great. I'm still extremely obese and even I can pull Tinder dates.
>>36837818
Dont waste your time on her. Shes just shit-testing you too see you how you react to her flirting with other guys.
>I don't need her
It's the best feel
>>36839333
I said that to a 6/10 grill that was craving my dick back in my high school years (because i was a sperg virgin, of course)
>>36837688
>I wish I never left her but I moved too far away
Hold me brahs
>>36838086
Fucking autist, 179cm is 5ft 9
>tfw lifting will never fix the crippling feeling of emptiness and loneliness that I feel
>>36837621
No
Do you know what the worst fucking feel is? I'm sure quite a few of you know it all too well
The worst fucking feel is knowing that you're capable of great things but being to fucking lazy and undisciplined to do them
No fucking joke
You know damn well that you are far more capable than 95% of the retarded mother fuckers around you and yet you do fucking nothing with it
You know that you're in control and yet you've yet to absorb it and make it your own
Nigga I am 100% fed up with just being blown along with life
How do we move forward? How do we man the fuck up? Why is every day so fucking numb?
I don't give a single shit about 90% of the things in my life and only entertain them because It's expected or obligatory. How do we handle our shit and join the vanguard of life?
I feel as though every ounce of my being is being digested by daily mediocrity. It fucking hurts man.
>>36839969
>muh lazy apathetic genius
Literally every fedoralord believes this of themselves. Unless you're actually proving yourself to be the extremely capable person you claim to be, you should keep quiet about it. Nobody cares about who you say you are, only what you can contribute through your actions.
>>36839981
Nigga everyone is capable of great things. Maybe if you got over your beta ass self pity crab mentality you'd be able to do them rather than memeing in a feel thread on a Moroccan flute making board
>>36840004
>telling you to take action to prove yourself
>crab mentality
Not sure you used that phrase correctly.
>>36840009
My whole post was about how to pull the trigger in life. The implication was that I was a fedoralord who thought he was a genius because *tips fedora* when I just wanna figure out how to man the fuck up and take control of my life in an actual genuine way. Showing what your'e capable of comes after maning the fuck up anon
>>36840046
After re-reading, I see that's what you were going for. I missed that the first time around.
Sorry anon, I was wrong.
>>36840054
It's okay anon, you weren't wrong really. It wasn't really crab mentality on his part so much as a generalization. But if I was apathetic I wouldn't be so heated at myself for being a bitch about life.
>>36837621
>she liked me when I was fat
>now she looks at my transformation with amusement, sometimes complementing my dedication or form
nobody cares about lifting but lifters, honestly.
>>36839333
>faking 'i like you's'
Why do they do this?
>>36839328
One good girl is worth a thousand bitches - Yee
>>36839277
nah
>>36839823
Girls don't shit-test guys they're not interested in.
