Are there any legit kissless virgins here over the age of 21?
I'm finding it hard to believe because I don't know a single one in real life. Personally, I've already fucked 5 girls, let alone kissed and im only 19.
24. kissless, handholdless, hugless
AMA
>>36828726
is this guy still making videos?
>>36828726
Nobody is going to tell you IRL because people just talk shit
>>36828742
My close friends bro. I don't count acquiantences.
>>36828761
your reply doesn't make any fucking sense
>>36828726
lol holy fucking shit i totally forgot about pruane2forever.
>>36828766
Im referring to my friends not every single person i know bro.
21 y/o Sandnigger here actually I will remain Virgin till 35 maybe cause Muslim and have no money to marry
20, have had 2 gf's, but never had the balls to to anything with them, but both asked me for relationship.
Kissless as well i guess, if guys does not count. So that I will be a 21 year old virgin, is prob the case.
>inb4 faggot
>>36828820
Get money and find a Muslim girl to buy from her parents
>>36828828
6'4 225lbs 25yo kissless virgin reporting in
>>36828726
Yep, 23 here.
haha
>>36828726
19 not kissless or foreplayless but I abstained from fucking because i have an anxiety towards losing my v-card. I figure if i die a virgin i get a better shot at going to heaven and this life is too shitty to give up a chance at a perfect after life just for a slut.
>>36828726
yes
i wouldn't tell you IRL either you fucking idiot, being a virgin at over 21 is socially unacceptable in the west. to everyone i know i pull club sluts regularly and pump and dump. i don't, but because i'm pretty good looking people assume that i'm not a virgin. i manage to keep my autismo at bay when i'm talking to people, it just becomes crippling whenever i try to chat up a girl, and not in an endearing way either.
>>36828943
u baiting me u fggt
>>36828726
Not kissless, but 35 y/o virgin
27 but not kissless.
Kissless with my 22nd in 4 months
>>36828984
How?
>>36828726
> got first kiss in 7th grade
> she was my only real girlfriend so far
> almost had sex a few times, but circumstances prevented me from doing the deed, or I chose not to
> glad I didnt have sex with those chicks tbqh fampai
> still a virgin
> holding out for that qt3.14 gf
we're all gonna make it bros
i made out with my sister once but that's it
>tfw love lesbian kissing porn now
>>36828943
>better shot at heaven for being a virgin
Kek.
>>36828943
>foreplayless
>>36829044
>putting sex on a pedestal
Never gonna make it
Met my boyfriend he was 25 and never been with anyone.
I was legit kissless virgin and actually got my first kiss/beej celebrating my 21st.
I was even confirmed not autistic. I just had no social development because I played Runescape for 9 years and posted on GameFAQs almost daily from age 10 even to 23.
Honestly, I forced myself to party in college and it took a few years, but I did become sociable. I'm not an ebin slayer or something now, but I do have a consistent sex life even outside of relationships.
>>36828735
Are you just afraid of women? Have none been attracted to you? Have you ever befriended a girl?
>>36829099
The girls I could have had sex with were either ugly or totally insane or both
Id rather wait to have sex with someone who's physically attractive at the very least, even if it end up being a hooker
No I have lots of sex whenever I want it.
>being attractive
Anyone know that feel?
>tfw I have a friend who is 21 and kissless
He's very charismatic and not bad looking. How do I get my friend laid?
>>36829152
why are hairdressers in the danger zone
>>36829143
there were 2, possibly 3, who were attracted to me during high school. unfortunately each time i realised it about 2 years too late.
it doesn't help that i was fat as fuck and bullied quite a lot
yeah i've had one close female friend, she was one of the ones who wanted the dick. i unintentionally friendzoned her kek
>>36829172
have you never hung out with a hairdresser?
>>36829153
>fat but attractive face
>can actually talk to attractive girls
All you need is to not be autistic and yull end up fucking people's gfs like I have. Not really proud of it but it blows my mind sometimes.
>>36828726
33, kissless virgin
23, kissed a girl as a teen, but noting more.
I just don't leave the house except to get groceries. When I was working in an office I crushed hard on an asian qtp2t but she fucking moved to Canada (from UK).
>>36829206
nah i havent desu tell me about it
>>36828726
>i've already
>let alone
Oh dear god please tell me this isn't how Americans use this phrase.
>>36829209
How are the powers? Worth it?
>>36829241
>OP fucks up his grammar
>the entire US is to blame
27 kissless virgin NEET here.
>>36828726
22 kv. I had severe anxiety growing up which stunted my social gains and now that I'm a NEET living with my mother, there's literally no reason to even consider approaching women.
I feel like the only thing stopping me is my weight, and my sense of shame. I'm 23 right now, KHV, but it's going to take me at least a year to lose all this weight. In which case I'd be well into 24.
25 here
Not kissless, but still a virgin
>>36829241
Im in Hong Kong bro. 852 represent.
22, never have made any contact with a girl. At least I can almost dl 500..
>>36828726
Kissless 19 year old virgin here. Planning on going celibate and innawoods. People who rely on human contact are despicable
>>36828726
Reporting in senpai, enjoy your life of degeneracy. Couldn't care less, I just wanna get yuge as fuck and watch Trump win, win and win.
>Kissless until first GF at 20.
>Virgin until second GF 22.
>Started going back to university.
>All these girls in yoga pants and pencil dresses.
>Still with GF, but long distance.
>Tfw she's wife tier, but wish I got to enjoy myself.
>Tfw been asked out by girls from class, but I'm taken by someone I see a couple times a year.
>>36828726
21 y/o, 1 kiss still a virgin
22. Still a virgin. Got a couple blowjobs my sophomore year of high school though
Got first kiss a few years ago. 30 yr old virgin here, where the fuck are my super powers?
>>36829343
You don't fit in here, go away. I hate you.
>>36828735
>how
Like actually, how. Were you homeschooled? Actually diagnosed with autism? What's your story anon?
>>36829343
Why didn't you fuck your first gf?
>>36828726
>fucked 5 girls and I'm only 19
You say that as if its a good thing to be a whore
>>36829383
nigga he never kissed a girl until he was 20 and didnt have sex until he was 22
thats pretty bad
but at least he's making it now, you dont gotta bring a nigga down
Got first kiss and second base a few years ago but the chick was on her period and we had both been up for 24 hours straight so it was a no go. I cut it off with her the next day because i wasnt really attracted to her and just wanted to trade in the vcard.
Now im a 30 yr old virgin. Where the fuck are my wizard powers?
>>36828741
Yeah he is, he seems almost normal now.
>>36829383
B-but-
In all reality getting /fit/ is a lot of what helped.
>>36829402
Cause you don't stick dick in someone who might slash your tires, even if virgin.
I'm turning 27 soon and I've never kissed a girl.
I am also legitimately autistic. Official diagnosis and everything. I do not enjoy the social game. I do, however, long for the rewards of interaction such as friends and intimacy. It's a tough weigh-off sometimes.
I have had sex with numerous prostitutes. It felt good on my penis. The only difference that it made is how confident I am in telling prostitutes how to service me. I still act like a virgin around womenfolk and they can smell it.
>>36829391
my dad wasn't a very good dad. i mean he provided financially, but that's it. i've learned everything i know about how to be a man from films and the internet.
almost out of beta mode.
These days it's a requirement to be at least 6'2" with 8/10 face if you want to get laid. Probably around 60% of men aged 18-25 in first world countries are virgins.
>>36829152
>that feel when my mom was a redhead hairdresser
She was a manipulative bitch who knew how to play males so well too. I hate redheads and hairdressers now.
But seriously it sounds like you think you're in a higher league than you actually are. Those girls you're talking about "not being good enough" are likely just as good as you, you just have an inflated sense of self. I think this is a common problem with those raised purely in the age of internet
How the fuck do I kiss? How does a 22-year-old even explain that he's a bad kisser because he's pathetic enough to never have experience until now?
I'm about to just abandon any hope for losing my virginity and just join the Monastery.
>>36828726
>23, almost 24
>kissless virgin
>"homeschooled" so no education, no contact with girls
>sexually abused and groomed for several years as an adolescent
>parents hated each other but didn't divorce "for the kids"
>only recently realized how different and difficult my life has been
I'm in therapy and have medication for my panic disorder, ocd, and agoraphobia but it's a slow and steady process. Women have tried showing interest in me in the past however I was always too insecure to think they could possibly want me.
To anymore struggling out there with worthiness my only advice is to start taking steps on learning how to love yourself. Just because you come from a broken home doesn't mean you deserve to live a broken life. Get help.
>>36829265
I thought it might be another one of those "could care less" examples.
>>36829058
W E S T V I R G I N I A
>>36829475
be drunk aand blame it on the alcohol
>>36829475
practice with your computer.
xhamster.com/movies/4069328/virtual_kiss.html
>>36829172
Redhead mom was hairdresser . Hairdressers for one are 99% retarded. I left cosmetology school when the adult females in class were amazed that mixing blue and yellow play dough made green. This was hair coloring basics, these same girls that didn't know yellow+blue=green are handling seriously potentially dangerous chemicals on your body. They also tend to be huuuuugggee attention whores in really insecure pathetic ways, typical redflag hair color + piercings, like doing drugs, typically out of shape despite being on feet all day, and usually end up there because they weren't smart enough to do something better.
>>36828828
wtf
>>36829199
>yeah i've had one close female friend, she was one of the ones who wanted the dick. i unintentionally friendzoned her kek
ikdf breh
and now she won't want to fuck me :(
20, kissless virgin. I eat well, dress well and I'm quite shredded. I've been dating a girl since a few days now so hope I'm gonna make it brahs
>>36828726
I'm asexual and even I have had sex (while drunk, but I have no reason to do it sober). It's amazing how some people manage to live life kissless
>>36829467
Do you honestly believe this or just keep repeating it to feel better about yourself?
>>36828828
2 gfs... when you were what? 10? get it together man
>>36828726
21, kissless. Hugs but nothing more than friendly
>>36829456
Same here, I know it's a bitch move, but I fucking blame my parents for how I ended up this way.
Only child, raised with really strict parents.
Mother is a uber beta, getting walked on by people and thanking them later, she gave me this "always be afraid of speak up" and "I'm less important than other people" mentality.
Father is a rageaholic and borderline alcoholic, extremely touchy, meaning that any little remark towards him he considers it an insult. He taught me how not to express my feelings and live in angst.
Add to that being a only child, watching tv and playing videogames, peobably being an aspie up to 16yo.
Since 12 I played a sport seriously, trying to become a pro: that completely inhibited me from developing a social life, an athlete cant go to parties or go to bed after 10.30pm....weekends are for tourneys around the country, and you gotta train as much as possible.
That and my father guilting me into not even trying socially: he said "so many very promising athletes get lost in teenagehood, girls, booze drugs....you wont do it will ya?"
So I was basically an angry introverted nerd up until 16, then when I tried getting out of this cycle I had no social awareness and I was "that guy", everybody knew me as that.
I've always considered myself ugly (big hawky nose and skelly), and I was, but mostly because I spent no time in my appearance, but now I fear actually finding out if I'm really ugly or I was normal and it was all in my head, I cant ask anybody because I fear their response
28 here - kiss-less, handhold-less.
I was morbidly obese all my life. My senior year of college I managed to drop from 440+ down to 330, social gains and all that, managed to get down to 280 the next year then I was slapped in the face with paranoid schizophrenia.
Spent 3 years deep in psychosis. Managed to claw my way out. Only in the last 8 months have I found solid ground. Slowly dragging myself out of the sea.
this thread
damn guys wtf is wrong with you
>guess im a normal fag now compared to you guys
>>36828828
>Kissless as well i guess, if guys does not count
Welcome to /fit/
22 m here, the wonders being ugly can help you achieve
waiting for my Hagrid now, soon I'll be a wizard too
>>36829152
holy shit yes girls named "Tiffany" what the fuuuuck
>>36828726
22
ugly
so
yeah
>>36828726
When I was a 240lbs ugly autist at 16, I was able to bone my best friend's mother, and then another best friend's cousin. Turned down other chances too, because of some weird autismo impulse.
Both were disappointing desu, but hey drugs and degeneracy are a great way to get layed.
Did everything else with an ex at 18, which was nice, but I think sex is a bit over rated.
Don't get me wrong, it's great, but I'd rather get drunk with friends and joke around than have sex with someone I don't really care about.
>>36828726
Literal autist here: I still somehow managed to get laid at 19. Was no longer lossless at 13.
>>36829207
>tfw attractive and autistic
I once made out with a 8/10 mixed chick who my friends had been hitting on all night but getting nowhere
She literally told me she "hadn't had sex in too long" and "bet I would be great in bed with my body" (she was feeling my chest when we were kissing and brought me back to her house
I got her into bed then thanked her for a good night and took a taxi home
>>36829664
>I know it's a bitch move, but I fucking blame my parents for how I ended up this way
if you're actively trying to change, it's not a bitch move at all to acknowledge why you're a fuckup.
parents are the worst.
>>36829432
>he wasn't preparing his spell book ahead of time
>>36828735
yep same as me
>>36829674
if nothing is wrong with you, why are you here
>>36829239
I have never before done that many drugs in that amount of time. We fucked and then fought about it because I'm pretty gay but yolo drugs.
>>36828735
27, kissless, handholdless, virgin
AMA...
>>36829418
>muh purity
>>36829664
Moreover, despite my raging autism, I think there's a couple of girls I coulda had a chance with, had I not been such an sngry closed off idiot.
That's what kills me.
19 kv here.
Not homeschooled, but pretty similar. I live in the fucking countryside and my parents are fucking asocial autists. Every time someone wanted to leave the house, dad or mum had to be told about it cuz they had to take the car and stuff. They would do a lot of questions, they wanted me to know the day before what time would I meet my friends and what time would I leave them. Didn't leave the house or had socialization out of school until I was 17. Even then, my parents didn't let me stay in the street after 00:30 and one of them would take me back by car. So I used to just get drunk quickly and leave before the girls started getting along with my peeps. As a result, social interaction with strangers is difficult to me when I'm partying and everytime I drink I cannot stop and end up getting shitfaced real quick.
Now I'm in college and it's kinda the opposite. I've been feeling kinda depressed lately so I feel overwhelmed and bored with the class smalltalk socialization. I only socialize with my classmates when I'm drunk, and even in that situation smalltalk ends up boring me after three hours.
I'm worried about how things going in that sense tho. I'm starting to avoid hanging out with groups and I just go out drinking with single close friends, maybe two or three sometimes. Conversation is much more interesting and shit, I go back home satisfied and happy, but there are no girls in the horizon.
>>36829718
Nigga I played DnD for years growing up. I wouldn't have made such a non-virgin mistake.
>>36828735
same, but im 20
>>36829779
Jeez, nobody asked for your life story. Dude, we don't care about all that shit. No wonder you're a virgin.
>>36829664
are you me? holy shit. besides the mother part, everything is the same.
>>36829786
>trying to make it as a wizard when you have less than 10 intelligence
>NOT EVEN CANTRIPS
>get gf when 18
>she dumps me when we are 25
>all friends have gfs and won't go to nightclubs anymore
Any advice on what the fuck to do?
>>36829588
>>36829432
I am 43 and in a similar state. What are my powers?.
>>36829849
You are now the patron of Virgin Airlines™
>>36829817
you dont have to read if you're not interested you dumbfuck
19yo, was khhv until a month or so ago
Now I have a beautiful gf and I'm none of those things anymore
>>36829660
actually 16 and 18, but yeah it's pretty pathetic
>>36828726
21 here. I've come pretty close, but yeah I'm a kissless virgin.
It doesn't bother me that much now, but if I hit 30 I'll probably kill myself.
>>36828726
I had sex twice
once at 21 with a hooker the age of my mom, and once with a fat as fuck and crazy chick semi-hard
I am scared of sex for life dude
>>36829843
>not rolling sorcerer and being a charismatic fukboi
>>36829888
I fucked a 10/10 escort once. I still fap to the memory.
>>36829870
Thanks. My life now has meaning.
>>36829898
why did you reply to me?
I am legit diagnosed with autism.
Lost my virginity at 16.
Have had 4 steady girlfriends and a few flings.
I'm a dyel 6/10
AMA :^)
>>36828726
I used to know some guy who always acted tough and whatnot, but whenever the topic sex/girls/whatever came up, he got really vague and quiet. It was pretty obvious that he got never laid, you just feel that sort of stuff. He got laid when he was 23 I think, some pretty ugly fatty. But he was fat and ugly as well, so it fits.
Personally, I had my first gf when I was 17. I never really had to try, it just sort of happened, I don't know how exactly.
>>36829946
where/how to get ritalin without prescription?
20 and kissless virgin
i've gotten hugs and held hands
i'm so autistic man
>>36829967
>I don't know how exactly.
gee i wonder if it has something to do with being attractive
>>36828735
Post body.
>>36829967
I'm like that too :( my appearance is fine tho, I look good and I'm in shape, but when it comes to sex/girls/this stuff I'm just completely off.
>>36829037
nobody believes in after life its just a meme
>>36828820
Same except 19 and I'm trying to go to med school and probably won't bother till after residency
I took the virginity of a 23 year old and a 27 year old. Not at the same time.
>>36830046
that was not the premise of the thread, homo
is it safe to say its never going to happen if you're over 25 and have no friends?
>>36830074
never say never.
really, 25 is very young still. all you gotta do is act and go do stuff. not saying it's easy, but that's how it is. nothing will happen out of nowhere if you don't look for it you're not gonna have it.
>>36830001
lol, maybe in a year or so.
>>36829920
To maybe make you not scared of sex anymore.
>>36830074
Only if you have that attitude
>>36830098
being ashamed of posting body pic on an anonymous board.
ur not gonna make it
Being a nondrinker + no drugs + pathologically timid makes it virtually impossible even with good looks plus charisma
19 here
>>36830116
never fucking respond to me again if you're not contributing to the thread
>>36830101
at least you could've been honest and say you were blatantly bragging but now you act slimy, cunt
>>36830134
Kill yourself you permavirgin
>>36828828
>Kissless as well i guess, if guys does not count
/fit. in. a. nutshell.
>>36830004
>be me in HS
>everytime sex is a topic they asked me normie tier shit
>either made something up or just said I dunno
>baffled at how fucking is completely casual to everybody
>unsure till today if they were genuinely oblivious that girls scared me or if they were mocking me
people still ask me why I don't have a gf or how many bitches I've fucked on the weekends
>mfw I stilll don't know how to reply
Any tips on how to not fuck up your first time?
22 and virgin here.
Did semi-cocoon mode, lost tons of weight, made nice gains (mostly social) and moved to a new town.
I went out a couple times and found out that Im apparantly very hot and also likeable, so I quickyl got a literal 9.5/10 gf (inb4 bullshitting).
Because ive been "faking it till making" it she thinks im some kind of superconfident and experiebced chad, which im obviously not. We havent fucked yet but its only a matter of time and I'm pretty nervous about it.
Any tips?
20, virging, have made out with 3 girls
I was never social and going out in high school
>>36830134
lmao ur retarded
I turn 21 later this year. When do I start getting wizard powers?
>>36828726
22 y/o student here. Only fucked 1 girl in my life, but I've fucked her a lot of times.
>>36830233
>>36830170
its a meme you dip
>>36829391
23 yo here.
Lack of self confidence, also grew up watching dumbass anime and romcom stuff so my expectations when I hit puberty were fucked
>>36830216
Don't worry and have fun. Make out, finger and eat her out, then put your pee pee in her.
But don't be sad when it turns out to be much less amazing than anticipated.
>>36830194
yeah I mean, I've never had anyone but never really felt the need of. I'm not spending my days thinking how I've never kissed or fucked someone, I just do my shit by myself and live my life. Pretty much never went out for parties or clubs or whatever and the girls I've met in HS or anywhere else I've never had much contact neither felt much attraction anyways, and it's just been like that until this day.
Is being kissless virgin something that bothers you guys and you actually feel the need to have someone but you just don't know how or have no courage to? Or you're like fine like this and doesn't really matter at all?
>>36828726
25 (almost 26) kv.
Not handholdless and hugless, though.
>>36829456
Same here. Only thing that he taught me was how to hide feelings.
He is a weak beta I can't even force to the gym with me. I wish I could say that I'm proud of him but I'm really not.
Still I managed:
>first GF 14
>first drunk kiss 16 (+100more in clubs)
>first sex 18 with qt. gf
> be together until 22 find New GF within 2 months.
There is this anxiety in my head that I'll have erection problems with every girl I'll be with cause that was the cause with the previous ones.
I won't be ever able to>>36829467
have a ONS because of this.
+ fucked like 3 hookers, got only hard with bj. Is this normal?
I'm seriously worried about my dick health.
29 here, just one more year. Probably had several chances despite never leaving the basement, but never recognized them in time or was simply too afraid to try.
If all that wizard powers thing is bullshit I'm off.
>>36830297
dude to me it's kind of a sense on belonging if that makes any sense
never had a functioning family or relationship for that matter and I just want to come home and not have either total silence or having to endure pointless drunk yelling for once. Sounds corny but I basically want someone to treat/love me like a decent being and vice versa. Fuck I just want someone to hold me but trusting people is hard man
>>36829391
Whys that shocking tho? Im a 22yo K/V, I'm not even ugly, short or particularly awkward but I self isolated my way out of having friends for a 10 year period. I wish I hadn't let myself languish socially now that I take the time to enjoy it but the K/V bit hardly phases me desu. It'd be a good metric of recovery but I'm not expecting too much
Whats stopping you guys from having sex with hookers/escorts?
Once you've had sex at least once and know that you can get it whenever you want you wont put it on a pedestal.
>>36830415
Because your mom is much cheaper
>>36830356
yeah trusting people is really fucking hard. I personally have trust issues and don't really tell friends or even my parents a lot of things. Just keep everything inside and even the "best friends" I don't really trust them enough to share things that matter of my life or my feelings, it just feels that no one is as trustworthy as myself, today you can be best friends or marry someone and next week you barely talk to that person anymore. But you'll be with yourself until you die.
>>36829259
it wasnt my choice
Yeah. Just went on the first date of my life saturday and it was honestly the most awkward, embarrassing moment of my life. I knew it was gonna bad, but hey all need to get it over with one day...
I was nervous, had no confidence, and basically before I did anything I asked if it was ok. I was trying not to creep her out. This was a OKC date, and had never done one before, or even been on a dinner date before. we went to dinner at 9:30pm at outback steakhouse.
She looked worse than her photos but was very nice. Whole dinner was small talk, and we had like nothing in common. I kept looking around the restaurant for something to talk about which made me look like an autist.
Even though there was no interest between us at the end I asked if i could kiss, and she looked at me like i was kidding. I went for it anyways and she nervously laughed and turned her face. She said she had a good time and then went to laugh about me to her friends.
Later I got a text that said I was a really nice guy, but too nervous and seemed really uncomfortable and she didnt see it working. i agreed.
When I think about how I acted I feel like I'm gonna vomit and my head starts to ache/get tunnel vision.
but desu, I'm glad I got it out of the way. I have more confidence now and that was pretty much the worst case scenario.
This girl keeps texting me and wants to be friends though, she lives kinda far away though and i dont see it working.
>>36829480
get well bro
Its been 7 years since I had any action. Am I a born again virgin?
>>36830451
>asking if you can kiss.
You seem to have no confidence at all, work on yourself before you go on another date.
kissless hugless 20 year old virgin with boobs but I have BPD so that's why
I was a kissless* virgin until I was 22.
I didn't start college until I was 21. I was a total NEET-lifestyle friendless autist in high school. When I went to college, I cut my weird bowl cut beiber hair, started shopping at urban fagfitters, and acted like I was a chill dude who partied and drank a lot. I did party and drink a lot, and a lot of girls bought into the act and "found me attractive" even though I was a pretentious skellingtonmode lanklet faggot.
Since then I've grown up a lot, don't get stupid drunk anymore, and started working out and lifting consistently. I'd say I've gained about 50lbs since I was 21. I'm still skinny as fuck though.
I'd say I've slept with something around the mid-30 odd women. I still overcompensate for the lost youth I had. I'm needy and insecure, and have a very hard time not fucking a grill if she's a 7+ and DTF, even if I'm in a relationship.
Tl;dr - it's possible to break the cycle but the self-deception, radical lifestyle change, and especially the insecurities from never having a high school relationship will leave you with some issues.
*not counting kissing two girls in kindergarten and playing spin the bottle once in middle school
>>36830559
For information purposes: I'm now in my mid/late twenties.
>>36828726
Holy fuck it's been years since I've seen this YouTube kid. What's his channel, and is he still making videos?
>>36830559
> I'm needy and insecure, and have a very hard time not fucking a grill if she's a 7+ and DTF, even if I'm in a relationship.
wew lad
>>36828735
>hugless
Holy shit
>>36830549
>female
>virgin
>>36830451
that's a good beginning dude.
>>36830451
Dude wtf? I'm SUPER proud of you and you should be aswell.
Your Main issue is that you care way way way to much what she thought of you.
When you're nervous tell a girl you are cause you want to do a good impression on her. She will be flattered. Always be honest especially about your feelings.
Cute girls are no thing like sluts on TV, they are VERY understanding and are willing to forgive you so much cause they believe there is a good guy inside of you (nohomo)
And even if you are awkward, so what? Just laugh at it. Tell her 'wow we are so different but we both like food'
Or 'sorry you are making me forget things to talk about'
And the fact that she still wants to be friends means that she really thinks you are a nice guy deep down.
When I was on my first date with my GF I made her feel bad cause I didn't go in for the kiss. I couldn't care less.
If a girl likes you for who you are she will be always falling for you.
PS: just talk about anything. I told my current GF at the date that I jerk off before big exams and that I won a sc2 tournament. It doesn't fucking matter, of she doesn't like you for who you are she can fuck off...
100%srs
>>36828726
I consider myself a virgin, because even though I have slept with women, I have never had sex but only masturbated using another person.
19. Was kissless, handholdless virgin 6 months ago, but all changed very quickly after meeting my asian qt gf.
I held out for the perfect qt, and found her a couple days after starting uni.
Guess i was lucky but hold out guys, and try to put yourself into as many social circles (not easy i know -,-) to maximise chance of finding one thats worthwhile.
It was so worth the wait.
stay strong
>>36830451
It's not the date itself what puts me off, it's how do you even set it up to begin with. Do you simply chitchat for a while then go "hey we should meet to drink something someday"? This is literally what is preventing me from getting dates.
>>36830549
>don't know what BPD is
>while it's googling I think to myself I bet it's another self diagnosed disorder bitch
>it's a bingo
>22 almost 23 lossless virgin
>already been through uni, no luck there
My issue is the constant feeling of inadequacy followed by a desire to improve myself to some place I'm comfortable with. However, this never ends. I fix one thing, a new one comes up. It's a vicious cycle and I'll be doing this until I die a virgin.
>>36830677
>caring so much to google what BPD is because of some ugly female virgin
bravo
>>36830643
I don't have a face that accurately describes my reaction after reading this but this one comes pretty close
>>36830676
>Do you simply chitchat for a while then go "hey we should meet to drink something someday"?
Yeah pretty much. Bonus points if you are funny and/or confident about it.
>>36830670
that doesnt work if you're a neet with no friends
>>36830699
I'd waste those 2 seconds on you as well
no need to be jealous
>>36830724
its still me bby
ive never seen a vagina age 26 reporting in. i have a facial deformity stacey crushed my spirits at a young age calling me ugly so i went hard with vidya games ultimately never leaving the house. then high school ended and i just hang out in my basement
i should have been aborted
>>36830591
Just want to feel wanted, breh.
>>36830739
here's your (You)
>>36830756
Join OKC
>>36828726
>28
>my dick once touched a pussy but then we realized we didn't have a condom
>tfw she was cute too
29 kissless virgin, was fat still haven't regained confidence after losing weight and lifting.
>>36830756
Blaha please go
>>36828726
Was kissless at 20, got with a girl 10 years older than me and insanely attractive and fun. The catch was she was a stripper. Married after 3 years. Marriage didn't last a year cause she was lying behind my back with some BDSM arrangement at the sugar daddy's house. I found out, she freaked saying it was to put me through school. She begged me to stay, saying she could not live without me, she didn't love him. I left. Now less than a week later, she's been at his house for 3 days straight. I'm a shattered man after this and will save myself for someone truly nurturing, not a stripper, and good. Wish me luck lol.
>>36830494
>>36830494
For me the only way is to keep going out of my comfort zone and do things like this. No way to build confidence sitting behind a computer. Fall down nine times, get up ten.
>>36830620
Thanks man. Only way to go is forward.
>>36830643
Hey anon, thanks. Your reply made my day.
You're totally spot on, I cared way too much about this girl and what she thought. I made it all about what she wanted, instead of what I wanted. I tried to appear too normal and next time I'll just say whatever comes to mind. There's no perfect thing to say, that's what I obsessed over.
>>36830676
I talked to her for a bit then we agreed to meetup. We texted way too much, that's part of the reason we didnt have much to talk about. Also, never do dinner on a first date.
>>36830706
You will make it brah.
And just in case you don't know:
Models - Mark Manson
It will be extremely helpful, more than I ever could on this board.
I wish you the best
I fucked for the first time at 22/23, 25 now. Wish I started sooner so I'd have more initiative to get my dick wet, but years of spending high school days jacking off 4 times a day fucked that up. I feel like I'll turn into a slut before I hit 30 and go hog wild on fresh squeeze.
At least my first time went all night long and couple days after while her husband was away, right guys?
>>36830603
>>36829391
>>36829143
>>36829628
>>36829674
>>36830603
Why is it so hard to believe some guys are virgins?
I'm almost nearing my mid-twenties and I'm kissless, handhold less, and hug-less. Living in New York doesn't help either despite allegedly having so many women.
>>36830810
This nigga let himself get trapped by a stripper
Why would you marry a stripper breh
Why
Why
No one is this stupid.
>>36830810
I do wish you luck bro. I'm in a similar situation as of yesterday though not the same magnitude so I can only imagine.
>>36830782
i made a pof profile (its more popular here) in December. i think i ruined a few chances already but i have a promising one on the line but at this point i assume nothing works on these websites
>>36830810
I really don't see how anyone could see that ending well.
>>36830858
Strippers are master manipulators of men and she didn't have 90% of the stuff associated with strippers. It both hurt me and helped me, like I said, if she is with another man in less than a week. I'm happy I'm not dead
>>36830858
when you have never gotten pussy in 20 years you might understand. as a 26kv i would consider it to nigga
>>36830859
Wish you good vibes bro, trying to start my life again. Love yourself first
>>36830711
>get a job
>get some friends
expecting to meet anyone, let alone girls, let alone a girlfriend whilst being neet with no friends is silly. also is far from your top priority.
>>36828735
i feel you, I'm 23 and the same, though i turned down a crazy chick
>>36830810
i hope you learned a lesson anon.
Nevertheless, no one should be put through that situation. good luck bro
>attractive
>tall (6'2")
>auschwitz mode but decent posture and look good in clothes
>personable and social
>still 25 virgin gfless, only kissed girls when we were both really drunk
goddamn fucking Asperger's
>>36828726
Not kissless but virgin (21). The one kiss I did have was a few months ago. The girl was drunk and founded me attractive so she pursued me. The kiss was nothing more than a couple second peck so it was pretty much nothing. I could have go laid but, I decided not to. My status is probably the way it because I don't get out enough, I was pretty shy in the past, and I have a small group of close friends.
/blog
>>36830845
>I fucked for the first time at 22/23
you don't remember exactly?
>>36830958
Yeah I did, the first week apart I remembered and loved her for the good times, now I see she just wants to be abused and taken care of by some old Fuck. Like I said, I'm gonna love myself now. Wish everyone luck.
6'3", ripped/athletic (been on /fit/ for 6 years), good facial aesthetics, kisless handholdless virgin at almost 21 (in 10 days). Fell for the STEM meme and now there's a whopping 95/5 men-women ratio in my field, also barely time to go out during semester
(just)
I'm 21 and I've only ever made out with one girl that I met at a college party and later started trying to bang but then I realized she was heavier than me and I felt ashamed of myself that I would be that desperate.
I'm probably a faggot (we're on /fit/) but I legitimately just don't know how to talk to girls (I don't really fit in with any of the people I know at my school), probably because I spent the first portion of my college experience in cocoon mode playing league the whole time. I went to an all-boys high school, so I missed a lot of developmental milestones because I was so sheltered.
>>36829377
>where the fuck are my super powers?
it was all a lie. it only gets worse, a lot worse
me>>36830995
>>36830995
Not as aesthetic as you but, it sounds like the both of us need more balance in our lives. You should make time for fun anon.
I >>36831091 meant to reply to >>36831035
>>36829972
Dunno stopped taking the dtugs when I was 8.
25 yr old virgin here. I dont even look bad either lol. Just sort of had fucked up priorities the past few years and never bothered.
>>36830643
>fitizen going out on date
>"I jerk off and play sc2"
Made me laugh thinking about it but you are correct in what you were trying to say
26 virgin, not kissless (had one make out session with a girl who come out that she loved me the day before she left to go across the country), not handholdless (in a drunk stupor held the hand of a close friend of mine while she walked me back home, she already is in a relationship so that is as far as that will go), and not hugless (see make-out session). I am not hideous, overweight (I would consider myself to be a otter mode), and, the few times I do interact with others, people seem to enjoy spending time with me. I think it mainly stems from me genuinely not knowing how to act in these situations, not putting myself in these situations often, and not knowing how to approach women. This is only supported in the fact that the few times I have done anything with a woman I either have been on the verge of blackout drunk or had a someone literally throw themselves at me.
>>36829470
> inflated sense of self
maybe, but I was objectively out of the league of the girls I could have fucked
> fat girl who came onto me when I was drunk and was my friends cousin (tried but my penis literally couldnt fit into her vagina; she never fingered herself or anything before)
> butterface asian girl who had a nice body and a tight, delicious pussy, but was crazy as fuck
> fat girl who I made out with at a party, and then ditched cause she was fat (she still stalks me)
> butterface, psycho cheerleader who begged me to fuck her after I took her home on the first night
> ended up getting blood all over my fucking sheets, gross as fuck
At least I'm fit and have an attractive face. People describe me as looking like the quintessential abercrombie guy (I did for awhile). Pretty funny that I got the job actually. I hate everything that abercrombie stands for, spaghettied all over the place during the job interview, manager was still really excited to hire me saying that I was "perfect" for the brand.
> tfw they always stuck me in the front to greet people even though I had no social skills
>>36830670
>19
>it was worth the wait
Are you trolling you piece of shit?
>>36830262
>also grew up watching dumbass anime and romcom stuff so my expectations when I hit puberty were fucked
lol, so true it hurts
>>36830810
>marrying at 20
>marrying a stripper
>marrying a 30 year old stripper at 20
You come from a broken family don't you?
I'm 6'4", ripped, face well above average, problem is I'm not a very social person. I never go out, I guess I have a couple of friends, but I barely talk to them. I actually like being around people, but somehow I never really bond with them. I can have fun conversations for hours with them, no problem functioning socially, but that's only incidentally because of uni projects for example. Afterwards I never speak with them outside of the "forced" time we are together. I'm also never invited to anything, I have never really learned to go "next level" I guess...Everyone seems to be in contact with each other and it all feels like mystery to me.
I am 24 KV, I held hands with a girl, but I don't know if it was romantic.
I had like 6 girls interested in me in my life that I know of, but as soon as a girl was interested in me I stopped losing interest in her. I really never cared about a relationship, I only cared about being wanted.
When uni started my schizophrenia started developing and it all went to shit. Now I am a 6 year neet, trying to go back to uni with no social life skills, 0 friends and so on.
I don't even care about losing a virginity, if I cared I would get a hooker. I just want to be wanted, but I have a feeling that if a girl would want me I would start hating her like it happened in the past.
>>36831285
>face well above average
I get tired of reading this. Everyone thinks they are above average.
>>36829456
> my dad
stopped reading and feeling any sympathy. you're an adult man you faggot angsty teenage girl acting bitch
>>36831425
Not trying to be a faggot enabler here, but in today's harsh society having no solid father figure is a surefire way to fuck up a kid. It's like letting a dish simmer without supervision, it can turn nasty real fast.
>>36828726
and what to do about it?
>>36831368
You don't have to believe me. I have done one modelling job in the past and several girls told me I look handsome (yes, other than my mom), so I at least look decent enough. I know my problem is partly psychological and I'm trying to see if there are other people who experienced the same and know what to do.
>>36830926
>24 with no resume or references
>get a job
>>36828726
I don't get it either. When I was in HS I hung out with three other nerdy faggots and only one of us had lost our virginity by the end of school.
Fast forward three years, one's married, one's been in a relationship for the past two years, one's bounced between four relationships and one's a NEET still living with his parents.
How to acquire female friends?
How to ask them to hang out? I mean isn't it weird to just message them out of the blue and ask them to do something?
FUCKING NORMALFAGS
Im 19, kissless, hugless virgin
Mainly because im a closet gay and hate playing girls's games
I dont have any real friends by choice ( used to have a few good ones but theyre gone now) because i dont empathise with my colleagues.
I dont go out much, but i know i could get laid super easy if i just get grindr or go to a gay bar ( get approached a lot, i just deny cause std fear)
Mgtow i guess. Im not sad. Im pretty fit and attractive too
>>36829480
brooooooooooo i know that feel except im not taking any medication; stay strong we're all gonna make it
>>36829442
>he seems almost normal now.
not really though with that weirdly nasal voice.
Jawsus will never be normal in my mind.
>>36831035
same here, my nig
>but it pays well
and what do you spend that fucking money on
>>36830129
thank u im not the only one T.T
>>36828782
Your friends could be bullshitting.
27 kissless only
i almost got raped by a girl when i was 11 if that counts. She pinned me down and started to unzip my pants. I was panicking like a faggot. I only realized what she was doing when I was 16
>>36831285
are you me? I'm >>36831035
>>36831705
see my age, not working yet. Physics related field looking to go into tech management further on (as of now)
>>36830559
>*not counting kissing two girls in kindergarten and playing spin the bottle once in middle school
the fact you had to say this makes you a virgrin
>>36828726
some people have standards and dont want to fuck 3/10 whales like you though?
>>36829470
>you have an inflated sense of self- 2016
>“The children now love luxury. They have bad manners, contempt for authority; they show disrespect for elders and love chatter in place of exercise.”
If this isn't the oldest meme out there
23 Virgin. I have kissed but not a serious make out. Oneitis is why. From 6 years ago
>>36831557
I'm in the exact same situation but just as clueless
Also have thoroughly numbed emotions to the point where I can't feel anything for my own family
I'm part of the crowd that was bullied by girls earlier in life and now I don't see my romantic value as a partner so I avoid everything sexual because I think I'm being made fun of. I'm not awkward at all around women or men, I just don't try to do anything sexual and cockblock myself.
>>36829475
Honestly just roll with it. I had no clue what to do, just get stuck in and play along like she does, if she gets rough, respond with rougher kissing.
I'm rather happy I don't know this feel
Started fapping at 9, lost virginity at 15, did the majority of my fucking during 16, and between 20-26. Have only slept with 4 girls, but I don't really share myself with people unless I like them.
23 yo kissless virgin here.
I'm average looking, maybe slightly above average and sort of fit.
I left high school at 15 and secluded myself from society which just made me even more of a sperg than I already was. I've had a few girls show interested in me but I'm way too autistic for any of that shit. I just play vidya and lift, and that's all I want to do. Social stuff just makes me really, really anxious.
18 here.
Had a kiss from 1 girl and head from other at some party.
Throughout the HS I rejected so far 4 girls, last one was month ago at bday party when she wanted a quick fuck in bathroom stall.
The thing is I am not really concerned about fucking, losing v card etc...
I care more about other stuff. Funny I am not even autistic, instead like more mature than people my age, could be the side efect of constant red pilling from this place.
I find more interesting talking about politics, war in iraq and syria the like commenting how dope was the last weekend clubing.
I think of myself that I am not attracted to everyday girls, just the one specials, the "real one". Sadly noz many thesr days.
Honest post.
Lost my virginity and first kiss to my cousin at the age of 10-something. I was to young to remember. Not counting that, my first kiss was 5 months ago with my (college) students.
Had lots of dates before but this is the first time I actually went for the kiss. Dunno, the powerplay might have something to do with it.
>>36832621
>>36832621
Also I was quite shocked what I discovered last weekend when I was getting shitfaced with a few lads from class.
Whhile drunk 3 out of 4 guys admited they were virgins, and I was like wtf they are all average looking better than me, and had gfs throughout the hs.
I plan to lose my v when I get into college, i am fit already and I can see daily mires from girls(but also feel guilty when girls younger few years than me drawl all over me in train, bus...)
Whats the /fit/ approved age gap? I am 18 but it seems that I only attract 16 and 17 year olds.....
>>36832621
> [tipping intensifies]
Seriously though, I feel ya, but you need to take your fedora off every once in awhile. I could talk politics for days, but when it comes to shit like regular normie stuff, its just really boring. Still, you gotta stop putting the pussy on a pedestal. You're in high school, you're still young. Dont waste your youth faggot
>this fucking thread
You losers are trying to turn /fit/ into /r9k/. Go back to your containment board ffs.
28, soon to be 29 and virginal.
Weird, obesefat, no hobbies that are attractive to women, very low SMV, and afraid of women. I've failed at losing weight over the past year. Just no discipline to not overeat. I'll be a wizard soon and have finally begun to stop caring.
21 and I've fucked 10 girls by last count.
