How do I stop myself from not cumming as fast /fit/?
I think I've fucked myself from all the masterbating I did growing up so when I actually have sex I never get past 2 mins
Learn to use your fingers and tongue properly
don't have sex
>He thinks PIV is the important part of sex
>>36713021
The opposite happened to me.
Fapped a ton, never had sex until i was 18. 24 now, and i can last pretty much until i decide i want to cum.
>>36713021
Just beat off before you have sex
how about you stop being a dumb fucking faggot and stop thinking real life is like porn
sex doesnt end when you cum
are you taking test? take test.
stop watching porn and fapping so much, once a week is normie mode.
have a drink or 5, get tipsy, but not so drunk you have problems getting it up.
have her suck your cock first, most girls aren't good at it and you won't even come close to busting a nut, but will maintain erection. then eat her out/finger to give your cock nerves a break. THEN fuck her.
you can try jerking off before meeting up, but i don't really recommend it, sometimes it backfires.
I come pretty fast the first two times, but after that I can go all night, all though it gets les pleasurable for me but seeing a girl in ecstasy is worth it.
>>36713217
also this guy is right, if you came too quick keep pumping until you're really soft. sometimes you'll get an erection back and can keep going without missing a beat. if that doesn't happen, finger her or something until you're good again. my last gf was a huge masochist so I would just choke her and slap the shit out of her while finger popping her until I was ready again.
the being tipsy thing helps a lot, just know when to stop so you don't get whiskey dick because that shit is more embarrassing than busting too fast.
>>36713021
>thinks masturbation makes him cum fast
It's actually the opposite. You just have no willpower at all.
>>36713021
i recently read somewhere that having a dad-bod helps prolong sex, like not joking
obviously not ideal
>>36713021
how about the opposite problem, i just can't finish when wearing a rubber
>inb4 don't wear one.
fuck girl for an hour, get bored; can't finish. they always, always take it personally :(
>>36713021
I'd tell you but...
> not /fit related
Kys
>>36713376
just fake it, I've done it before.
or, ask her to finish you off and then take the condom off
Ever since I started lifting and nofapping I cum stupidly fast, like 3-4 mins if that. Cant hit it hard either because that makes me go instantly. pls help /fit/ it's the worst
>>36713307
good advice, but if she's not on the pill, you need to pull out and change the condom. Increased risk of it bursting and shit spilling if you just keep it in there, also feels bad.
I did at one point have the ability to cum on command but that was a one time thing. How do I learn to train myself to cum whenever I please
missionary with ugly women
works for me
be prepared for horrific ptsd later though
>>36713021
You mean you cum too soon because you used to fap in less than 2 minutes?
look up the three finger tantric method.
>>36713660
>be prepared for horrific ptsd later though
top kek
>>36713191
>he doesn't know that the widespread adaptation of oral and anal sex by the general public is a recent historical development predicated by the hyper-saturation of pornography in our increasingly Internet-dependent society
Studies have constantly shown that 5 mins is the average time for a man to climax from penetration so don't berate yourself too much. Also when masturbating try to control the muscle contractions down below, specifically try to keep your sphincter muscle as relaxed as possible and not clench it. When you feel that part clenching up, it's what usually results in the point of no return, so stop, breathe deeply and try to relax, then continue. This helped me get better control on when I climax, hope it helps.
>>36713021
You young dudes make me kek so hard.
First of all: IT IS NOT A RACE TO THE FINISH. Slow the fuck down. It's your penis, not a weapon, or a hammer, stop using it like it's one.
Second: Focus more on how SHE is reacting to what you're doing, and not how YOU are reacting to what you're doing. You'll find you enjoy it more, and so will she, which is the whole point now isn't it? How are you going to get a 'repeat customer' if she's not feeling satisfied later?
Third: Her 'feeling satisfied' doesn't necessarily mean she HAS to have an orgasm. Did you know that there are women who go through their entire lives never knowing what an orgasm feels like? Interestingly enough that doesn't turn them off to sex; it's still highly enjoyable for them, assuming who they're with isn't completely clueless and actually gives a damn how they're feeling about it.
Fourth: Speaking of orgasms.. vaginal orgasms are much more rare than clitoral orgasms; up your oral sex game and get good at it, and you'll have women seeking YOU out for sex, instead of having to chase THEM. You can get her going with some good oral, fuck her slowly, eventually have an orgasm yourself (which she will enjoy, too), then get HER off with your mouth -- every single time, without fail. Do not underestimate how incredibly valuable this is to women. Like I said: You prove to them that you're good at oral sex, and they will come looking for YOU. They literally won't be able to stay away.
Fifth: Any skill-set takes time and practice to master. This is no different. Also, expect to make mistakes. The quality of your partners will become evident in how they handle mistakes; decent women will be forgiving, bitches will crucify you. This is where having some sort of actual relationship with someone makes a difference: If a woman has an emotional investment in you, she'll be more forgiving of your mistakes due to inexperience. Club sluts you're banging as one-night-stands? Not so much.
>>36713021
You gotta relax fambam
Sounds like you've got no willpower, OP. Try masturbating for longer, stopping just before you cum and then resuming when safe. You'll get better at it with focus and practice.
If you get close during sex, just switch positions or pull out for a moment if you have to. If you've trained yourself well, those few seconds will be all you need to recover. If really struggling, just like look at paintings on the wall, do multiplication tables, think about your form in the gym or whatever and tune out the sex as best you can. If you can make it a proper zen out of body experience you can last forever. Chicks also find it super flattering if you need a few seconds to break, so as long as you can last long enough in between breaks to make them cum, they really won't care.
Also, you poor bastards who think penetrative orgasms are impossible must just have smaller dicks than is necessary. In that case (actually in any case) you should also get good at oral.
>>36714214
Do you realize this is a complete non-sequitor? The comment to which you are replying is about the fact that foreplay and intimacy are the important part of sex, not the penetration.
If you're so incompetent at reading comprehension, you have no place condescending or lecturing. Please take this as a lesson and modify your future behavior: it will improve your life and the lives of those around you.
>>36713465
>>36713021
If its mental, I can't really help. Think about math or disemboweling starving Africans or something. Distract your brain.
If physical, buy the drug dapoxetine. Take it an hour before sex. Pace yourself. If you feel like you're gonna bust nuts, stop yourself and change positions or something. After a few goes of getting to that point of no return feeling, you will be able to last literally forever.
Also, try mouth ulcer gel on your dick, get the highest % of whatever the active ingredient is, you'll figure it if you Google.
>>36715097
There is no "physical" in premature ejaculation. It's all one dude thinking about nothing but himself and not caring about holding back a bit for the girl to get some enjoyment out of it too. Not saying he's doing it on purpose or is being a dick. He just doesn't know any better.
>>36715097
But disemboweling starving Africans would just make me harder
>>36715140
False. Dicks all have variable levels of sensitivity. Uncircumcised dicks are often a bunch more sensitive and receive more intense pleasure. >>36715145
Mein /pol/ neger
>>36715145
/pol/ pls go
>>36714216
This is where you use reverse kegals, aka the same muscle you stop peeing with = kegels, but when you try to push pee out harder that is a reverse kegel.
It can help somewhat.
Practice with jacking off slowly, without a tight as fuck grip (most men are basically pros at orgasming fast via masturbation, you can get just the right grip in the right areas to stimulate the right tissue = stop that shit).
We've basically conditioned ourselves to cum fast to avoid being "found out" by family/friends/partners etc - fuck that, and start edging and knowing your limits.
>>36714219
>normies go through the trouble of doing all this for HER when you can just buy an onahole
Literal cucks
>>36715190
I'm uncircumcised and I don't "suffer" from PE. It's all about not being a weak-willed little bitch.
Pau Yuen Tong is where the real key lies - just be careful, this shit is potent as fuck. Buy some, then practice applying it - I'm talking a sheen of the stuff around the base of penis head.
Avoid peeing after applying it as it'll potentially spread it around the entire head / inside the shaft, numbing it entirely = enjoy no erection. Arguably this stuff is better for close partners who can talk about this stuff, rather than just spontaneous sex with some stranger...
If applied correctly the most sensitive area (around base of penis head) will be numbed just enough you can still get an erection, but it's not sensitive.
Enjoy your 45-60 minute marathon sex sessions - you'll eventually cum, but not till she's cum multiple times too
>>36714219
this man speaks the truth
most girls I've spoken to about sex agree that it's not always about cumming from penetration, but 'the whole affair'. If you do foreplay right an she's dripping wet by the time you start fucking her, then get her off with your fingers/tongue, she won't be complaining
if you put it in, burst in thirty seconds, and then that's it, no shit she's gonna feel blueballed
>>36715307
Plus - wetter she is, the less feeling you have as it just glides in without much friction/stimulation.
>>36715359
It's actually a bit annoying in a way. Current girl can get so wet I actually keep slipping out when behind her
but I guess it's okay as I last twice as long because there's no friction at all. I am not used to raw, I nut in about 2 mins tops when she's not dripping.
>>36715218
this
>>36714219
I don't like eating the box
>>36713376
>tfw can't finish unless turbo deathgripping my own dick for half an hour
>tfw experienced orgasmic anejaculation the other day and it was the weirdest shit ever
>>36713307
This guy knows what's up.
>>36713021
Fap 1 hour before the sex happens.
>>36714829
He's gonna start paying for tuition if you school him any harder
I doubt theres someone whos a bigger premature ejaculater than me.
No matter if sex or fapping. Im ready in seconds.
Literal seconds if i dont edge
>>36713021
Kegels.
Edging.
By not getting so excited.
Masturbate more, or less. Whatever works for you.
>>36718555
Try SSRI drugs?
Or ask your doctor, and get something else from him.
>she cums like crazy with oral and fingering
>doesn't cum from PIV
Feels pretty bad.
>>36718584
Wtf why should I take anti despresiva. This would fuck up my mind even more
>wear condom
>can go for an hour, don't feel anything
>no condom
>last 30 seconds
also I can't go for second rounds because my libido dies for literally days after I have sex. I can do it but I feel literally nothing, plus my dick is only half-hard so I end up losing my erection after about 2-3 minutes
fuck my life
>>36718643
Most SSRIs make it harder to climax for most people.
To the point where some people just can't, in a reasonable amount of time.
>>36718621
The majority of girls are like that man, you just need to figure out positions that work for you and allow you to play with her clit to get her off too.
Don't squese your ass, don't do full in and outs go in then pull back half the distance, and keep your min occupied off the sex I usually think the alphabet with corresponding numbers so like a1, b2, c3, d4.... You will lose track then try and figure out where ur at. Next thing you know it she already came then u go to pound town hard and cum
>>36713021
go slow for about 20-30 seconds so you can get used to her pussy. you should be able to last longer after. dont start with fast pounding.
>>36713021
>tfw dick goes soft as soon as it enters vagina
lol
>>36713215
>get bj and nut before going in the first time
>no need to jack off before
>>36713307
dude i came once from a girl just rubbing her tongue on my tip, i came in 5 seconds
>>36718555
kek
>>36719155
>tfw dick becomes instantly limp after cumming
>>36713376
Oh man, this.
I once fucked this girl who just frankly wasn't into me, and because she was being a complete princess about not enjoying it, I got fed up and got dressed.
She was unbelievably pissed off, and I was all, "UIh, hello? How the fuck do you think I feel?"
Feels bad. I think mines all mental. My current gf can cum from penetration. Every single time. EVERY SINGLE FUCKING TIME she's riding me and says "oh I'm so close. I'm gonna cum" I instantly cum. So many times she's almost came and I ruin it because whenever she gets close to cumming, I think it's so hot and cum instantly and ruin her orgasm. Fucking fuck help.
>>36720088
>"hello? How the fuck do you think I feel?"
Imao
Download Sex God Method from a torrent site
In addition to the book, there's a 1 hour video about lasting longer included
>>36720897
http://www.durexusa.com/products/condoms/performax-intense/
Thank me later.
>>36714214
that's so PG bro
Teach me your secret puss eating techniques, senpais
>>36713021
Kegels
And FFS control your fucking breathing while you're fucking (don't make it obvious tho), proper breathing is a fucking game changer, discovered here on /fit/ a couple of months ago and can testify that it's "lasting a lot: easy mode"
>>36721346
Pretend you're eating an icecream that's starting to melt.
>>36721349
how to go about breathing? be more specific m8
>>36721364
You're on /fit/.
How do you control your breathing when you're working out?
>>36721346
>>36721349
Is there a opposite way aka to cum as fast as possible/without hands?I started doing kegels in hope that it will happen.
>>36714214
You don't know what you are talking about. Ever heard of romans bro? Those things were pretty normal back then. Then the christian church appeared and fucked everything up for centuries, forcing onto everyone their stupid ideas about "only heterosexual vaginal penetration for the sole purpose of procreation after marriage". We are only coming back to our roots, to our very human nature before religion got so much power. Thankfully, there are less and less religious people every day, as the new generations are not so gullible thanks to the internet and democracy.
>>36722391
But the Romans hated the christians
>>36722424
If I were living in a sexual paradise and some retards tried to stop it I would hate them too.
>>36717508
I remember being 8
>>36719230
She was probably hitting your frenulum. It's a legit masturbation technique.
>>36713021
I have the exact opposite problem. I can't fucking cum or stay hard even if im trying unless I start wanking. I think it's a by product of phimosis as a kid (used to hurt to get hard).
it's realyl really embarassing
>>36722535
also thats not a blogpost its a "please someone help"
>>36722535
find a vag that hurts
>>36722569
>vagina dentata
>>36722535
source?
>>36714214
Pretty sure everyone was doing it anyway but the spread of communication technology allows us to know about it.
>>36715097
>dapoxetine
thanks anon. Any side effects?
lmao all these ppl saying to stop watching porn.
I masturbate at least once a day, have sex every other day.
Can control when I want to cum, and cum again with zero refractory period. That sweet sweet Caber.
But then again i'm on test, tren, mast, dbol, anti E's and sustanon.
Natties when will they learn.
>>36722940
what would yer mom say if she found your stash? Does that ever cross your mind? I could never do that to my mom
>>36713021
Easiest way.
Have sex, last 2 mins. Then get it up again as fast as possible, then go again. The second time you will last much much longer. Have sex again later that day and you should be able to go until you get bored.
>>36713021
Nice gyno faggot
1. Relax. Experiment with having a wank, feel how your body tenses before your body climaxes? Try to relax your shoulders and breathe.
2. Make her juicy and loosey. Give her incredible oral, and ideally she will be soaking wet and a little bit easier to penetrate. sometimes this goes the opposite way, and she'll give you a delicious deathgrip, but hey just enjoy it.
3. Distraction techniques. Don't focus on 'OMG my cock is in!'. Porn has also taught you to try to cum by flooding your brain with imagery and imagination. Sometimes if I feel I'm going to cum, I can focus on weird maths things like: count down from 1000 in incriments of seven. Count the number of bars on the bedraill, and multiply by 2.
4. Try different positions. Sometimes you can get in a position that does nothing for you, but she reacts incredibly to. When you get there, keep doing that!
5. Exercise. I find if I've done some big squats etc. I'm more relaxed in general, and my performance increases.
6. Experiment with masturbation/ no masturbation. I found if I was masturbating 3-4 times a day (Don't ask) I didn't last long. If I hadn't masturbated at all for ages I would either explode, or last quite long. If I masturbated 2 days previous I would perform quite well. Daily not so good. Try different things.
7. Time of day. I notice at 1am-2am I am tired and my body just tries to ejaculate and go to sleep.
8. Stop worrying about it so much! It's not that big a deal, and porn fucks with your head that way. Learn to get good at oral, if she really enjoys it/ comes, the rest is play time for you.
>>36713021
White 26yo cis male here.
For me, alcohol usually helps me last longer.
Rewind to about 1,5 weeks ago.
>pound drinks, beer and shoots with gf. Workday next day buttfuckit.
>go home after a night out. Both horny asf.
>in bed, kissing + undressing ensues.
>start pounding snatch 8,3 on imdb.
>cum on her tum tum after about 5-10min.
>she suggests we go into the shower and freshen up.
>kissing, touching and washing.
>head back to bed.
>fuck for about 30-40 mins.
Alcohol is a bro. Usually i extract seaman in less than 2mins. But that night i was a man again.
usually masturbate 7-8 times a day
cant cum from any stimulation that isnt myself jerking
last forever in bed
can make myself cum in a minute every time
feels good and girls love it
>>36713021
I've been here bro. There are various things to help, but in reality you need to start doing kegels (squeezing the muscle that helps you hold back pee, google it), and work on your stamina. You can't walk around drunk all the time to always be ready.
1. alcohol can help, have a few drinks to desensitize a bit.
2. de sensitizing oral gel can help if you rub it on your dick. Lidocaine I think.
3. Get some Kratom. take 6-8 grams 1.5 - 2 hours before sex. It makes you harder but also helps you last longer. You'll have to dial in the dose, people have different sensitivity, you want to delay cumming not stop it.
I've found a good edging masturbation session 3-4 hours prior to sex and either kratom or alcohol is very effective. Make sure you don't go over board though, it can be frustrating to last too long.
As others have said, up your fingering / oral game as well, and most girls won't care if you cum from a blowjob / handjob as long as you can go again in 5-10 min. Make sure you stay hydrated too, it helps a lot.
>>36713021
I have the opposite problem
>jack off at home ez cum
>sex and bj's I go on with no end in sight
SEND HELP
>>36719155
I got some news for ya m8
>>36725025
Are you me
>>36715238
Old post but whatever.
This guy is wrong.
>oral
Fucking disgusting. Only women and cuckolds enjoy doing that.
>>36713193
Same here m8. Sucks when a girl doesn't have enough stamina, but that means lots of blowjobs
>>36725369
>Lil dick low test faggot detected
>>36725369
youre literally gay if you dont rock hard from eating a nice clean pussy
>>36727198
>Sucks when a girl doesn't have enough stamina, but that means lots of blowjobs
>my mouth/jaw is tired
How does one get a strong erection
I have a pencil dick senpai,
But I understand there is no way fixing it without fucking up something else. Any tips on getting natty erections. I'm already 11 days without touching dick, now what
>>36721346
do the alphabet
>>36713021
Learn non ejaculatory orgasms do your kegels and get to a bodyweight of 15 pounds.
Or you can realize that some men would be lucky to cum fairly fast and some of us can go for hours without cumming and will go fucking LIMP or she will simply refuse to take another hard pounding before some of us can unload and we are forced to jack off to bust one mostly unsatisfying nut or "rape" their girfrlend who is luckily into that but I just want tender love making with my old fucking lady..
Get the ladies hot, randy, and go for broke with pounding/find a chick who's looking to get it hard and fast.
>>36727267
well doing cardio helps out a lot. currently my dick is fucked up though and I'm not sure from what. Possibly having a lot of stress at work and stim dick from way way wayy too much caffiene throughout the week.
>>36727267
cardio, less fat in your diet, dont go over 30% of your daily cals in fat, eat veggies and fruits
>>36727283
By get to a bodyweight of 15 pounds I meant get a level of bodyfat that is equal to at least 15% bodyfat.
Having more fat increases your estrogen level which slows your orgasmic response and allows you to have sex for longer.
However you're not going to be going longer because the extra fat mass requires more energy.
>>36727315
Might start jogging, I know my stamina is weak but I don't want to fuck up my knees when older. Shall i just go for low impact like rowing?
Might quit caffeine as well just stick to water.
>>36727349
Any veggies and fruits you recommend without tasting like aids? If not the most beneficial
>>36713021
I have the opposite problem, can't cum at all with a condom on. I have to have women finish me off with their mouths, which isn't necessarily a bad thing. I wish my Jew parents didn't circumcise me.
>>36713021
Keagel exercices
>>36727267
I got diamond dicks after one month of quitting cigarettes
so I guess it's a cardio issue
>>36727381
get a good blender and mix in a cup of kale, cup of spinach, 1 banana, almond milk or regular milk, protein powder of your choice every morning, good way to start the day feeling fresh.
and for meals just add steamed or cooked broccoli/asparagus/carrots/cabbage/cauliflower/brussel sprouts. they go down easy with chicken/rice/beans/turkey, etc.
Go to a doctor and get fluoxetine. Then you can go on for hours.
I actually have the opposite problem. It takes a lot to cum, and after that, my dick stays hard (it's quite painful too) anyone has the same problem?
>>36727699
Is your ejaculation normal in terms of volume?
I mostly experience something like you describe if the urethra is constricted / blocked artificially.
>>36727843
Yes, it is..if i stay two or three days without fapping/sex, it's very painful, i can feel the pain till my leg. Went to the doctor, but he said that everything is alright
>>36717508
I am you, you are me.
Opposite here op, have to bang like for 40mins to cum. I think its good tho
>>36713021
ssri go talk to a doctor
>>36713021
If ur having sex at parties just wank before you get in the shower and if you think youre gonna hook up with a chick go whack one out in the bathroom if possible.
Also im pretty sure numbing condoms exist right?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yPGKlb8hklQ&nohtml5=False
>>36727276
With tongue on pussy or with tongue deep within pussy?
>>36728608
Don't listen to him. Start slow, then faster, then slow again, do some circles. The most important thing is...follow her movements.
The alphabet is a meme.
>>36714759
Not impossible but most girls can't and most girls don't know what a clitorial orgasm feels like so getting good dick is what they think is a orgasm cause they never had anything more and good dick alone is rare to come by for them let alone a clitorial orgasm, ignorance is bliss type of thing. That's why you make her orgasm from her clit then she will be cumming back for more everytime.
