Are there really any fit/muscular men here who have difficulties getting a girl ?
I honestly don't believe this, because a lot of women adore strong/physically fit men.
>>36710387
What most of /fit/ doesn't realize is that lifting does not cure autism.
Unless you can bench like 315 women aren't talking about you when they say they want muscles. Most people on fit can't bench 315. Even fewer can do it natty.
Most of /fit/ is socially inept, so gains won't help them.
A good body is the foot in the door. A quick wit and being good at speaking seals the deal
yes lifting 3.25 years and I'm a kissless virgin still
>Recently hit 1/2/3/4
My gf should have arrived in the mail by now, hope they got the right address
>>36710387
you underestimate the power of spaghetti and autismo. if you go to a gym regularly you'll soon realise a lot of the regulars are spergs who work, lift and that's usually it. most of them (us) don't have a social life to speak of, so obviously that means we're going to be shit at getting girls.
there's a lot of memeing on here about "lifting for girls", but the truth is a lot of people lift because it's the only form of physical exercise they don't mind doing.
>>36710387
>Guy on the left
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bBPRFLhZw8E
98 million views!
>>36710750
prepare to be disappointed lad, your free gf only arrives when you hit 2/3/4/5 for reps
>>36710577
This, plus the fact that not everybody on /fit/ is fit.
>>36710387
No I am not joking.
I am 5'5 at 19 and also borderline autistic. I have literally never held hands with a girl in a romantic manner.
most people here are also either DYELs or just fat as fuck
>>36710719
shit grandpa, get it together
>>36710387
>because a lot of women adore strong/physically fit men
Is...Is this a joke?
Women don't give a FUCK about muscles. It's HEIGHT, FACE and FRAME they want. Hell, if anything lifting turns women off, as they prefer their partners to be in shape naturally.
women have noticed and complimented me but it never goes beyond that. Not that i pursue since i have a gf but its not a golden ticket to pussy if you dont ask to redeem it time to time
>>36710719
post bodyshot
>>36710604
>this delusion
When women talk about muscles they mean BARELY ottermode
Keep in mind the average man is skinnyfat with no mass
>>36710758
breeeeeh wtf lolololololololololololololololol
them views tho...and his boner
>>36710604
Benching 260, 6'1, decent face. Kissless at 31.
Lifting weights hasn't done jack shit for me in terms of women because women don't approach me and I'm too terrified of approaching them. I mainly just go at this point because it feels nice to lift when I'm pissed off at the world.
>>36710798
I don't take pictures. 6'3 190lbs 12%
Being fit doesn't make you not ugly or fix social retardation. Getting women is 50% looking good and 50% attitude and charm.
If looking good is your limiting factor then it will help
>>36710816
Damn, if what you're saying is true then just say 'fuck it' and go talk to some women.
Just talk to them or ask a simple question and go about your business (don't flirt nor ask for her number, etc).
If you're just really bad with women, maybe you should fuck an attractive escort.
Fucking an escort could help you 'loosen up' ,get rid of any anxiety.
t.l d.r: Just talk to more women.
5'10 170lbs, above ottermode, and still a virgin at 24.
Pretty big group of friends and social circle and I can talk to girls just fine.
It's all about the face.
/Fit/ =\= Real Life
IRL girls think ottermode or just a lean physique is "jacked" they don't spend their days looking at guys with perfect physiques. Normies view fitness in a wholenother perspective bruh. You also have to realize a lot of these guys with great physiques(especially on /fit/) have them thinking it'll cure their social autism. 9/10 beautiful women I know have DYEL BFs, while everyone I know that is a serious lifter is usually pretty fucking awkward.
>>36710781
As a woman (cause it's relevant) fit guys are the best. As for height, yeah girls want guys taller than them. I think lots of woman are intimated by fit guys because it makes them feel inadequate, which is unfortunate because the best couples work out together.
>>36710755
keyword=you can do alone
My other hobby besides lift is surf two things I can do by myself.
and yes I autistic as fuck.
I might be stronk AF but no self esteem=no ladies
>tfw 6'4 225lbs lanky 25yo KV
>23
>/fit/
>only older women notice me
>tfw I unlocked my fetish
>>36710387
It would actually be really easy for me to get a gf, I have many female friends and coworkers, plus I'm not autistic. I don't have a gf because my I'm not financially stable enough, in my opinion, and one of parents is dying slowly. I don't want to bring someone into that situation causing more stress for myself and them. It's also hard to find women I feel I can connect with beyond a physical relationship. I want to be in a good place in life and find a genuine partner, I'm sick of one night stands and being poor.
>>36710920
Nice. 10 lbs away from being an adult male.
>>36710387
You gotta realize most people on here are socially inept.
It's literally someone with muscles who can't hold a conversation with women.
So much spaghetti
>>36710387
I havent had sex since I started lifting
more than 5 years have passed, and my penis still screams
>>36710577
Cured up my social anxiety a treat though
>>36711238
>>36711391
>>36710920
Be direct-
Are you virgins because you will only bang or date above a 7 or 8 or because you're ugly motherfucks?
>>36710803
This
Brad Pitt in fight club is muscular to women
>>36711350
suck me off
>>36711423
Rippletits pls
>>36711470
I'm not one of the virgins, but if they are only willing to bang 7+s I have some bad news for them... Personally been with 47 women, solid 60% being under 7s.
>>36711470
Dont listen to this guy whatever you do don't lower your standards. Wanting to bang a 7 and above is not the reason you guys are virgins. Plenty of fuck ugly dudes who have 10s
>>36711533
>>36711552
Two guys with different life experience obviously.
Choose who you want to be
>>36710387
Do you think women poking your muscles like you're a circus freak constitutes getting women?
>>36711350
>cause its relevant
No it isn't you stupid cunt. Anecdotes don't matter. Just because you have a vagina doesn't mean you have insider knowledge you stupid bitch.
Either be an anon or go to reddit.
>>36710604
bitch most of /fit/ cant even bench 225
hell i saw a thread earlier today makin me think most of /fit/ barely bench 135
>>36710387
Girls are attracted to status/money, charisma, face, and leaness in that order. Having a good body is a bonus.
>>36710604
Dude I bench 350 and I haven't had a gf in over a year.
>>36710387
>be me
>pretty /fit/
>out at the library
>just got done studying
>6PM, dinner time. it's dark out.
>leave library
>both feet out of the door girl recognizes me
>"anon?"
>"?"
>"it's me, anon-ina! from high school?"
>"oh, hey what's up!"
>share awkward hug, i don't remember this girl immediately.
>"not much just finishing studying, how are you?"
>"doing well! i've gotta go, see you around"
>walk to car, go get a burrito, alone.
>>36710764
Lies. I've been liting for 8 years and I've got 2/3.5/5/6. No gf in sight.
>>36710758
>>36711641
>be me
>at the gym
>girl gently taps me on the head with her barbell
>unable to get a bj
>>36711726
why... what?
>>36710920
Well, your loss. You could've gotten an honest assessment.
>>36711630
You probably weigh like 300lbs so it doesn't really count
>>36710758
This is too much for me, I am on a nofap, god dammit
>>36711726
Maybe you should drink banana juice, that's a guaranteed BJ :^)
I was at the gym a couple days ago and I overheard some alpha chads in the gym speaking about how their friend shouldnt be skipping going to the gym and how he's gonna regret it when it's summer time and theyre drowning in pussy.
Admit it /fit/, women don't only care about a personality, but it obviously does help
>>36711790
>>36711829
i'm so autistic, it literally just hurts
>>36710758
>>36711881
The "wat" here is not you being autistic but why she put a barbell on your head?!?
I don't think that is a legit type of flirting.
>>36712039
He ran into her and hit his head on her barbell while she was squatting.
This is all a joke
>>36711594
It's like everyone on this board is a raging homo
I never kissed a girl until I was 21. She was fucking wasted at a show we were at. First kiss and first time I held hands. Was magical.
I was 22 before a phatty let me fuck her. It sucked.
28 now and 10 grills later (how the fuck did I even manage to do that?) and I don't want anything to do with those cum dumpsters.
Ignore wimminz and acquire gains and currency.
I wish I had a gf.
>>36711109
I know the methods, but obviously have trouble applying them. I had my opportunities, but I autismoed out of them. But thanks for your concern, man.
>>36712250
Look, I'm 5'7" with a mediocre face, voice and am very shy.
I went up to a group of high school seniors at a park, a few guys and a few girls, and asked if they knew where a water fountain was.
The cutest girl in the group came forward and offered me her water. I small talked with the group a while and then diverted my attention to the girl.
I got her number and made out/3rd base with her several times.
>>36710387
girls adore men who are confident
and you are on 4chan
>>36710387
If you are fit and not autistic, you will not have a hard time meeting someone
>>36710775
Try fat girl
>>36712374
not true
i am /fit/, not autistic (but not that confident), and above average looking
sure women approach, but only 6/10s, or sluts. good looking women who are not sluts will never approach a man, IME
>>36712413
Must be your "vibe", I get offered drinks regularly
>Hey have you been hitting the gym?
>Yeah
>It shows!
>th-th-than-th-thanklk=thanaks thanks
Whats with gorillas like the OP pic and the fucking awful "shaved but not bald" haircut?
It looks like fucking shit 101% of the times
>>36710960
Being aesthetic makes you a lot less ugly.
Be lean, take care of your skin, have a respectable hairstyle, dress well. For most guys this will be enough to make you more than attractive enough to bag a descent girl. If you are still plain ugly you must have something pretty obviously wrong with your facial structure and might want to consider plastic surgery.
>>36712430
by hot girls? post pic of kind of girl who offers you drinks
also, this is boardshorts isn't it
>>36711552
Fucking 10s without being attractive requires confidence and game that virgins are never going to have. Besides, who fucking cares past 7, they're nicer to look at but pussy is pussy at that point. Chemistry ends up mattering a lot more in terms of actually enjoying yourself.
>>36710387
Muscles hardly matter when you're a shut-in m8. You still have to make the effort of going out and meeting girls.
>>36712453
Lmfao
Yep
>>36710387
Being muscular can get girls to talk to you, but it still doesn't compensate for your lack of personality. You need to be interesting enough for girls to talk with you.
>>36710604
You can bench 10lbs for all women care, as long as you look attractive
>>36712541
knew it
I've seen your idea of hot chicks. also, you're deluded
my point remains
>>36710605
This. Had a girl falling all over me yesterday and nothing came from it.
>>36710577
Help a lot with self-esteem and that usually translates into better social life if you're not retarded
>>36712326
That doesn't sound very shy to me, lol. Good for you tho. I can't even imagine walking up to a group of strangers.
>>36710387
>any fit/muscular men here who have difficulties getting a girl ?
>I honestly don't believe this
AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
>>36712326
So? That's high school no one cares.
>>36710387
Why don't you try OP? You're on /fit/, so I assume you at least lift or do some sort of sport. Unless you're a dyel shitposting on /fit/ because you have nothing better to do. Go outside and try getting girls, let's see how far that'll take you.
>>36711822
198lb actually.
>>36712792
I'm 20 and look like I'm in my mid to late 20s
And these kids were all 17-18, grill was 18
Pretty Rarely do people guess my age
>>36710632
>a quick wit
>>36712793
>You're on /fit/, so I assume you at least lift
>>36712432
this.
>>36713405
That's the whole 'not being autistic' thing-
Of course, a truly autistic/aspie person can still be extremely eloquent and charming.
Confidence shows that you are of high-value and that you have nothing to hide. These are attractive traits.
>>36713383
>be 22
>go to family reunion, meet up with aunts and uncles i haven't seen since i was 5 or 6
>get mistaken for being 15
injecting test is starting to seem pretty attractive at this point
>>36713483
I'd still be totally jelly of you if you have a deep voice and are tall, even if you only look 15
>>36710387
>>36710387
The problem is I don't want women who likes fit men. I want GIRLS in their 16-20 and I'm 27. That's difficult.
>>36713541
I have both of those things but I'm like permanently stuck at 180 pounds
Not a lot of reasons to be jelly senpai
>>36711350
Tits or gtfo.
The potential looks gains from lifitng are overrated as fuck and basically non existent after 6 months of proper lifting.
6 months of SS (and then the next compound routine if necessary) and curls (and fixing diet if fatty or skinny) = 99 % of the gains right there.
And if you live in a cold country then lmao at walking about shirtless or whatever /fit/ talks about.
>>36715574
how weird i was just watching a brostream
>>36711480
Brad Pitt in fight club was more muscular than most men in the 90s m8
We've had a tapering of the extremes with fatter fatties and swoler bodybuilders than ever before, but to the energyless, doughy, pallid flabby average man today and in the 90s, being able to count your abs is something only fitness models do
Also this is /fit/ where the body dysmorphia is a black hole that shifts our perception of average to something the public find excessive
>>36710387
I think there's a surprising amount of crossover from boards like r9k, so you get a lot of people that, even if they do start lifting and become fit, they still have all these insecurities, lack of experience, and misinformation about women coupled with this strange paradoxical expectation that as a man they can just sit around and wait for attention to come to them.
>>36713543
I'm 29 and only started lifting two years ago, and I have literally never had an easier time picking up 18-22 year olds in my life. 16-17 might be trickier because they rarely hang out in the same social circles as I do, but I doubt they'd be any more of a challenge as girls a few years older if I ever decided to actively seek them out.
>>36710816
I've. Promised myself that if I'm still kissless by 30 I will just kill myself.
>>36710775
I am not surprised, you're 5'5''. Damn manlet.
>>36710816
You can have an epic comeback m8 just try talking to grills
>>36710387
I don't have much of a problem finding and fucking sluts especially with the internet but >tfw no gf.
Why can't I find a decent woman who wants to stick around ;_;
>>36717758
I got dropped by a girl who was subtly very DTF whom I met online and she played the first cards in our initial, virtual interaction- asking me when I could hang out, if I had cindoms, etc. She was a very intelligent out of state college student. We facetimed and texted a lot prior to meeting and had good conversation.
We fucked twice on two different occasions and I slept over with her at her request (bad choice, ultimately).
We enjoyed some amazing moments conversationally, sexually, intimately.
After a day with her, I began to develop feels and she would consume my thoughts. I wanted to date her.
Then after our second extended date, she denied that she had ever wanted any of it or that she was attracted to me. Clearly she has issues but I got drop kicked by these feels anyway, and I still feel for her.
She isn't a mean person- she seems genuinely conflicted and didn't/doesn't intend to hurt me, but she waited a little bit too long to tell me how she felt. Christ.
>>36718602
You slept with her twice and got clingy. Now she's not interested.
Unfortunately nowadays having sex with someone is like a handshake and it's lost its meaning. So somehow you have to remain emotionally unattached for the first 10 times you have sex with them before it's "cool" to like them.
Do you even mechanical feelings?
>>36718644
I'm weird, man.
I have high test and am brutal in the sack.
Then I get clingy like a little bitch
I was a kiss less, dance less virgin before last June, age 19. I was on /fit/ for a year before I had my first sexual experience.
As ravenously sexual as I am, and while I saw all the bad signs about this girl in advance, and despite knowing that I would over invest myself- I did it anyway, and got fucked.
And here I am continuing to message her like a friend. But she liked my FB profile pic 10 minutes after putting it up!
She sends me snaps!
What the fuck!?
>>36718644
>I kissed her once and I'm already developing feels
>>36718644
I realize in retrospect how many shit tests she gave me. I should haven't slept over with her the first time, I should have refused the second time before she broke up with me at dinner.
>>36718744
Trust me senpai, push her out of your life, it isn't worth it. There are so many other girls out there, and it's so fucking easy once you've had just a little experience. Just try to move past it and take it easy, opportunities present themselves all the fucking time.
>>36710781
>naturally
Women don't know shit. Women think guys look like Zac Efran from jogging and playng basketball on the weekends.
>>36718847
Thing is, I'm NEET right now. I had a shitty semester in college and needed a break.
I'm surprised this girl even got with me for a second, being a friendless NEET cunt.
I did pick up a cute girl recently and hooked up a few times but she isn't date worthy material IMO
I don't just get that many opportunities, and this one girl was just so perfect in a lot of ways. She even knew who Zyzz was.
>>36710387
You better believe it man, I'm a 19 year old kissless virgin
>>36718907
Bro, any girl you have intimate relations with is going to seem perfect I one aspect or more. That's pretty much guaranteed. The fact is they aren't. And that isn't some sort of mysoginistic bullshit, you will genuinely just have feelings like that for girls you fuck or "fall in love with" or whatever it may be.
Just do what you can to get out more, Im guessing you live in America because you said college and not university. If you can get a job you're somewhat comfortable to do, you'll have an easier time meeting people too.
There's always options, and you don't need to do a hell of a lot to make them yourself.
You guys told me when I hit 405 deadlift my waifu will come to life. Why did you guys lie to me ;-;
>>36712432
>do you like it? [while grabbing her waist
>yes
>and i like you
its that simple fags
>>36719734
Nice
I'm schizoid and have a hard time mustering interest in anyone in the first place. At work I just work. At home I have no reason to go out.
>>36715574
Margaret's a qt. Shame about the ostomy.
>>36720212
U make a reason, anon
>>36710775
I'm 6ft 2 and 21, and I've never help hands with a girl either.
It doesnt matter unless you are like roider who has perfect body like zyzz.
I have been lifting for 2 years now, average height, average face, not wealthy not poor.. Had some gfs nothing spectacular.
Now this dude from my class, has really nice face, he has a lot of money, skinny, acts like a douche all time. I shit you not he fucked more than like 100 girls in 4 years of hs.
Unbelieveble I simply couldnt believe when I heard all the girls he fucked( found that one at drunk talking)
It doesnt matter brehs for real.
My face is fucked. I'm very ugly
>>36722338
Hes bullshitting you obviously
>>36711480
He actually is muscular there. You're just delusional.
>6'1
>but overweight
>also shaved head from hair loss that started at age 20
>good face, good smile, straight white teeth
>doesn't matter how much I lift though I'll always be bald
Is there any hope for me? I refuse to do some fucked up horseshoe hair and hair transplant surgery is totally fucked. We can make self driving cars but theres still no realistic cure for baldness what is this bullshit.
>>36722724
>overweight
>good face
What? Are you one of those fatasses who somehow manage to keep their jaws even when fat?
>>36722739
Most of the fatness has gone from my face from most of my weight loss, I think when I hit my goal weight my features will be a little more defined. I've been told I have a nice nose and my face is symmetrical and I have a decent jawline.
So kinda I guess?
