Anyone else turned abusive after they turned /fit/?
I finally found a qt and we moved in together 4 months ago after dating for almost a year. Problem is I get annoyed by most of the things she does and I've ended up smacking her a couple of times because she did things wrong.
I've never been aggressive before, not that it's an excuse. I know I'm being an asshole. How to fix? I don't want to be the abusive meathead.
>>36579928
I found a sub who begs to get hit.
>>36579928
kill her before she steals your gains!
>>36579928
well i hit my gf regularely,
never without a reason though. if she did something wrong and gets in my face i slap her or roundhouse kick her in the ribs.
most of them are insects and should be treated as such.
dont let society give you a wrong image about how you should act around women.
>>36579928
If anything I've been more passive since working out, it helps me release a lot of pent up anger and anxiety
>>36579928
Fuck man, hard to answer honestly.
Maybe try relaxation?
But really, don't be that kind of prick man, that's just the lowest kind of scum.
>>36579928
What sort of shit are you hitting her for?
>>36579977
Is that what your mom's husband taught you?
>>36579928
Strengh probably got to your head. Get into some boxing/BJJ/whatever you feel like practice. Getting your shit handed to you by guys shorter and half your weight will definitely cool you down.
Just find a girl whose down for getting hit. As a cherry on top, those girls tend to call you "Daddy" too. My penis can barely handle it.
>>36579963
I was hoping for this too, but I guess the opposite is happening.
>>36579977
I know, man. I know. I'm gonna try to find ways to chill. Any tips?
>>36579980
She made me look weak in front of friends once. Told them I cried about something this one time, and it triggered me. After that it's been small stuff, like using the wrong coffee cup. Stupid thing that shouldn't matter.
>>36579991
It's what being a decent human bean is, silly billy.
I mean come on, hitting a woman? One that trusts and love you? That's just low.
>>36579961
oh hey muhammed
>>36579963
This desu lads.
I used to be on edge all the time. Angry as fuck for almost any reason. Always looking for a fight.
Now I'm FUCKING HUGE and nothing seems to bother me anymore. It's almost impossible to make me mad. I also shot up in height from around 5'5 to 6'3 from age 16 to 21 (now), so maybe not being a manlet helps.
OP is probably small benis or something :^)
>>36579961
t. virgin fedora
>>36580010
Sounds like a good idea. I'll look into it.
>getting /fit/
>used to be extremely passive as fuck
>recognized as being too calm for every situation
>have become borderline roid rager, not even on roids ( yet :^) )
>extremely angered by any trivial thing gone wrong
>laid my brother out for dropping a bottle of jaeger
>threw (read: threw) table saw across the garage because I was cutting wood without realizing someone set it to 5 degrees
>friends have began to distance themselves from me
>upside is finally releasing my dominant side
>never realized girlfriend was sub and now we're very satisfied with our sex life
I don't want to live my life and die angry, but I can't give up making it
>>36580020
Made you look weak by telling the truth
>>36580020
Lmao are you on anything dude? The friend story I can understand but wrong coffee cup? I laughed out loud.
>>36580020
why were you crying bitch?
>>36580034
Just take it all out on your gf lad.
>>36580020
You have anger issues and should seek help. No respectable man would abuse a child or woman. Assuming this isn't b8
>>36580020
Come one bro, those are pretty poor reasons. At least you know you're wrong but if you really care you should go to your doctor and get counselling
>>36579928
It'snot lifting, it's imageboard culture. The internet is the best brainwashing device ever invented.
>>36579928
>squating
>2000+15+1 not resting on heels
cmon
>>36580053
I was watching a Kung-Fu movie called Ip Man with a female friend of mine and just started karating her when she stood up. Hitting a woman isn't the end of the world.
>>36579928
Shoot yourself in the face.
>>36579928
Maybe stay away from 4chan in general. The level of misogyny probably doesn't help.
>tfw I am actually a massive misogynist but I don't beat women so it's okay
>>36580074
>karating
>>36579961
>ribs are insects
...the fuck?
>dont let society give you a wrong image
>wrong image
...says the guy who wants you to imagine that his girlfriend's ribs are insects.
>>36580053
>>36580056
Yeah I guess. But don't they put it on records though? I don't want any files saying I have anger management issues. Who can I talk to that doesn't record stuff?
>>36580039
Not on anything. Idn. I just get irritated for no reason.
>>36579928
You were always a dick, you just weren't confident enough to do anything about it.
Just work on becoming a less shitty person you dumbass.
>>36580030
Sounds more like you grew up mate, and you stopped being an angsty teen
>>36580103
A priest maybe
>>36580083
Noted
>>36580087
I respect women and I love her to bits. I don't know why I do this.
>>36580094
Do you even know how to read you stupid fuck?
That faggot was saying women are insects, not his gf's ribs.
>>36580110
That's what I'm working on.
>>36580120
Not religious and don't really get along with people who are.
>>36579961
I hope someone roundhouse kicks you in your insects.
>>36579928
If this isn't bate...
Turn it into a sexual thing.
Spanks instead of smacks.
And if you really can't get your frustration out. Sex helps. You never feel angry after blowing a load. Never... Of course sometimes she won't be in the mood for it because it's an argument or something and she's being emotional. But I find the spanking reverses the situation most times.
Violence towards your girlfriend is never OK, bro... But I do understand where you are coming from. Since I became "enhanced" I have became easy to irritate and things that usually I would shrug off get me fired up.
One day I just turned the gf (of 4 years) around and spanked her until she said sorry for whatever stupid thing she did. I forget...
It sort of became routine whenever she tried to start an argument or got really annoying about something. Been working for the past 6 months with no complaints.
She says it stops her from being pissed off at me for whatever reason it was because it turns her on. But says it also stops her from getting argumentative sometimes in the first place because she knows it hurts.
Idk man. Try it.
If you can't do that and you really are just an abusive kunt though.. You should probably break it off with her and seek anger management help.
>>36580094
no offence but you are super retarded
>>36580010
This. You need to be made humble.
I imagine the guys who makes threads like these are the same ones I see in the gym carrying around their 5% water jugs and wearing stringers.
Except that they've only been lifting for a month. You never smacked your GF, you're probably some scrawny little kunt who just wishes he had the balls to ever win a fight in his entire pathetic life, but instead of taking on the bullies you kicked your ass for so long, you come to an anime image board and pretend like you're some psycho.
ayo senpai, i feel u real talk. Sometimes u got to put them in their place you feel cause they be actin up sometimes not taking care of the children. She from da rich family, but her entitlement getz to her so u got to put her in place
>>36580147
Maybe you should go to church instead of beating your girlfriend.
>>36579928
Yes
>>36580034
Enjoy your heart attack at 40. Either that or you get ran off the road by a
"dominant " person in a bigger vehicle.
>>36580103
>irritated for no reason.
she probably not the right match for you then.
>>36580212
>heart attack at 40
Joke's on you, I've vowed to kill myself if I live to 40 and haven't found a reason to live by then and everybody I know knows it.
>>36580245
lol
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enjoy looking like a backpedalling faggot
>>36580103
Tell a dooctor about the anger issues but not the violence, they can't tell anyone shit unless they think you're seriously gonna hurt her
![photo[1].jpg](https://i.imgur.com/Z5GDSCP.jpg "photo[1].jpg")
>and I've ended up smacking her a couple of times
That just alpha, OP. Women want to get dominated, it's common in monkey communities for example.
Mirin. alphaness.
>>36580199
The last priest we had here raped his 14 year old baby sitter. The guy who replaced him is an alcoholic asshole. So no.
>>36580218
We match pretty good, actually. She deserves better than me though.
>>36580291
Good idea. I think I'll do that.
>>36580074
Idk what this means, but I would maybe hit a woman if she was attacking me and I couldn't restrain her. That's probably it.
>>36580124
>I respect women and I love her to bits
No you dont fuck off. Slap yourself for lying like that.
>>36579928
Honestly, just an hero. You don't deserve to live anymore, and FFS don't take anybody with you, they didn't do anything wrong. This is 100% your fault.
>>36579928
>>36579928
It's just your real personality coming out to the surface.
>Nearly all men can stand adversity, but if you want to test a man's character, give him power
It's just that /fit/ is insecure and looking /fit/ just made them more insecure but with muscles.
>>36580328
obvi bait. Why would a priest need a fucking baby sitter you fucking moron.
>>36579961
>i was raped by my step dad and my mom watched
>tfw went on nofap for 112 days
>was like a ticking bomb 24/7
>get so frustrated at how all my relationships are going to shit because I'm boiling with anger 24/7
>get so frustrated I break my nofap and spray the bathroom walls with loads
>rage literally being blown away at the tip of my dick
>tfw fapping woke me up from hulk mode
>tfw still have the same energy as before
Nofap memers should be hanged, just fap once a week and your life is back on track.
>>36580608
It's not about her being a woman. It would make no difference if she was a man. The problem is me not her.
>>36580706
Noted
>>36580709
This is probably true. Just means I need to work on it.
>>36580795
The Church is Lutheran. He's married with three kids.
>>36579928
You sound like a very unintelligent person
>I don't want to be the abusive meathead.
kek
>>36579961
> roundhouse kick her in the ribs
post is obvious bait but that bit made me laugh
>>36579928
Its not because of lifting its because of your retarded disrespectfull shitattitude
The question is, do you have a temper problem, or is this just a thing with your gf?
Your girl humiliating you in public sounds like she is trying to get you under her thumb, and it further sounds like she is way more emotionally intelligent than you. This could be a self esteem thing on her part, and maybe she doesn't even realize she's doing it. You know better than to let yourself get subjugated, and so we have your current problem. You can't play in her league and you're reacting the only way you know how in order to defend yourself. I don't have to tell you that society frowns on men hitting women pretty much for any reason, and from what you've described you could be looking at domestic abuse charges if you don't change your ways.
I am guessing the qt gf is your problem because you didn't mention wanting to smack the pizza guy, your boss, or the chick working the front desk at your gym. You have already taken the bait and are now in an abusive relationship both ways. You need to stop it on your end.
Unless you are madly in love with this chick, you need to walk. If you plan on staying, sit down with her and talk it out, and make arrangements for couples counseling.
In the future if you find a partner trying to one-up you to make themselves feel better, stand up for yourself. Either laugh it off, or tell them when it's convenient that you're not cool with it. If they don't understand or keep doing it, move on. It's better to be on your own than to live in a relationship where someone makes you feel like shit.
>>36579943
how?
ac
>>36579961
would've been believable without the roundhouse part
>>36579928
be fit - not /fit/
there's your problem
Has anyone ever been to those anger managment somethings? I tame my anger and its invisible to people around me but its still burning me from inside.
>>36579961
You fucked up your bait with the roundhouse part. 1/10 made me comment.
>>36579928
Maybe you are just into ryona, embrace it.
>>36580030
>I was angry during puberty
STOP THE FUCKING PRESSES RIGHT FUCKING NOW HOLY FUCKING SHIT DUDE
>>36579928
means you were just coward to hit before
>>36580020
If you are smacking your gf because she used the wrong coffee cup, you are a sangnigger mudslime and should spent the rest of your life in prison.
>>36579928
Are you a shitskin?
>>36579928
What the fuck?
You're not hitting her because /fit/, you're hitting her because you're a controlling shithead. You're probably gonna end up in jail if you don't fix your shit.
>>36580094
ignore the others, you're nice
>>36580094
> ribs are insects
>>36579928
Check your thyroid.
>>36579961
>people are believing this
>>36580029
Cuck
>>36579991
Yes
>>36582823
If he was hwhite, you'd say he's being a proud aryan alpha male "instead of being a cuck"
I've always hated women. /r9k/ through and through. Contrary to what the Internet said getting a gf only made things worse. The funny thing is I got her before I got bigger. The more I lift the less patience I have for her bullshit. She pretty regularly tells me I'm a horrible boyfriend and shit, I fuck her halfway against her will(she says no but doesn't really mean it). What's funny is she sometimes cries begging me not to leave her, usually after she really acts super bitchy.
You're pathetic OP
Hitting a woman is like hitting a child or small animal, if you were actually strong inside and outside you wouldn't be insecure enough to hit her or think you look weak over some tears.
You're a shitty human being bruh
>>36581460
Telling someone your boyfriend cried once isn't humiliating. If you're the type of 'man' to feel ashmed about crying, you're a fucking immature idiot to begin with.
>>36580034
Hmmm... Your 'dominant' side is your weakest side. Leave it or spiral down to death and sadness.
>>36583747
If you were actually strong you'd feel secure enough in yourself to hit a woman and not fear social repercussions over breaking a taboo. White knights are the weakest pussies around. Just look in the mirror if you don't believe me.
>>36583764
A woman is supposed to never say anything bad about the man she's with. If she does it means she doesn't respect you. This is what makes it embarrassing. Not that he cried, but that his gf said that he cried.
Jesus Christ, you're such a bitch. You get stronger so you can hit women who love you, dude. You're truly a roid rage bitch, man. "Because she made you look weak?" You are weak, bro. No man hits a woman. I used to manage escorts and I didn't even have to hit them. Clearly you're an insecure, daddy issue having, can't express yourself with words so you hit people fucking child. Learn to express yourself and not hit others who have no chance of a fair fight, you faggot. Come hit me for using what you deem to be the wrong coffee mug and see how that works out bro.
>>36580127
How can insect have ribs? They are invertebrates, meaning they have no skeleton.
>>36580885
>Lutheran
Catholic is the only way to go my friend.
Wow you are like a child. Hitting someone when they annoy you or they're not doing what you want. Sound like you get some relief hitting someone weaker then you. You're a faggot. If you don't like how she's acting then leave. You're doing her a favor.
>>36583836
I see that you did your best, but let me fix that for you
>A partner isn't supposed to say purposefully hurtful things to/about their partner. If they do, it means they doesn't respect you.
>This thread
>>36583836
>wahh my gf made fun of me, better show how much it bothers me, encouraging her to do it more rather than laugh it off.
>>36579928
You gotta realise that whatever the reason for arguing, whether it's her or not, doesn't give you permission to act violent. It's sometimes really hard to use words and see something from someone elses point of view if someone or something infuriates you, but you have to do that.
>>36579928
Break up with her and become a monk you fucking moron
>>36579928
>i never learned self control but now that lifting boosted my test and confidence my inability to regulate my own emotions is making me look like a shitty person because i am.
>>36583836
dump her for a superior chick then instead of beating a shitty chick into submission.
People that hit the weak are just weak people trying to feel strong. You'd get the shit kicked out of you by any real man and you'd be a complete joke to anyone that knows the truth about you
>>36579928
Learn to control your emotions. It's not easy and there isn't one clear way to do it, everything from meditating, to therapy, to just finding something to use as a punching bag that isn't a human being.
>>36581830
If you want a woman to be more submissive/feminine, you have to be more dominant/masculine. Our genders are a teeter-totter.
>Be me young child
>Have anger issues
>Not doing well in school because I'm lazy and parents don't push me
>Get sent to psychologist
>Diagnosed with ADD and put on ADD medication that doubles as antidepressants
>Anger issues go away
>Be me: Junior year of highscool
>I'm a big boy now, I don't need medication to do well in school right?
>Taken off of meds
>Be me 19 present day, childhood anger issues have come back, get depressed from time to time probably because of not being on antidepressants that I shouldn't have been on
It's pretty fucked up that in today's society that when a someone has a brain problem the psychologist gives out a prescription rather than figuring out the underlying cause of the problem and trying to solve the problem by enacting a lifestyle change
>>36583946
I'm not the guy with the disrespectful gf. Try to follow the conversation here.
>>36584232
Sorry to hear that man. It's easier and it pays off. Same thing with ADHD.
Try to find a good psychologist, there are lot of things that can be worked on regardless of age. Speaking from experience.
Dump her. If you hit her and she's fine with it, you've broken her for the rest of your relationship. She's not gonna be any less annoying either. Also kill yourself for fucking over us guys who aren't so subhuman that we have to hit a girl to make them listen
>>36580020
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N0Uin2sINdQ
Lmao this is you
>>36579928
This has nothing to do with you getting in shape and more to do with you being a piece of shit. Great job, keep it up!
>>36579928
>>36579928
if you dont want to be the abusive meathead, stop eating meat
>>36581830
I've found most girls enjoy rougher sex it's not to far off from there
>>36583814
>If you were actually strong you'd feel secure enough in yourself to hit a woman
Yeah if you were actually strong you'd beat up on somebody weaker than you who can't fight back
You're a jerk
Best answer OP
Nothing happened here that changed yourself.
You were always one, but finally realized it.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M4goUqiOL44
>>36584232
read philosophy and find God.
start with the greeks
>>36579943
Jelly. Mine likes almost everything we try but the one time we tried face slapping she hated it.
@OP, it's not much of a mystery. Testosterone makes you aggressive, impulsive and dominant, and lifting increases your testosterone.
If you're not okay with how you're behaving, learn to keep it in check.
If you are okay with how you're behaving, find a girl who's okay with it too.
The terms of a relationship are for the people in the relationship to decide. If the participating parties are all happy, nobody else's opinion matters.
>>36579928
for real bro, join a gym, like a mma gym or some shit, I had this problem coming back from a deployment and all I wanted to do was kick faces in, regardless if it was a random or family, helped wonders with my aggression and hostile nature
>>36579928
girls like guys that treat them like shit. you're a true alpha male.
>>36579928
>has the self control to become /fit/
>cant control himself in typical day to day situations
I dont get it.
>>36579991
>Hey guys look I didn't have a dad and grew up in a trailer
>>36580885
Lutheran is trash
>>36579928
Sorry brah, that has nothing to do with becoming /fit. You're just a shitty person and have trouble empathizing. Well adjusted adults can keep themselves from physically assaulting others If you truly have a desire to change, join a competitive sport as a release and seek counseling.
>>36579928
When I was natty and lifting, no. But anavar and Primo made me want to seriously choke someone till they drown in their own blood. I've never punched someone in my life but most of my coworkers are shady gossipers and I literally wanted to follow one of them home and punch them out.
>>36584324
Hnng
>>36581830
just be forceful with your women, if they don't like it, they'll be pretty clear about it
>>36586944
i know that feeling buddy, anything except the old facial slaperoo :[
>>36580183
Anyone else want to see these self-righteous superheroes get casually squashed by even more powerful extraterrestial entities?
>>36588250
>anavar
I dont think you grasp how the compound works if you are blaming it for your mood swings faggit.
>>36580020
why do you keep wrong coffee cups in the house then?
>>36579928
There's nothing wrong with slapping women around a bit if they go on a temper tantrum.
It ties her emotionally to you, serves as display of strength and dominance and adds a bit of fear into the relationship which makes them wet.
