Will taking test help me get rid of my femdom fetish?
I tried to stop fapping to femdom porn, then tried nofap completely. It just made me want it more. I've been attracted to this shit since I first started having sexual thoughts.
I will never be able to have a normal, healthy relationship with a woman with this fetish. It is too strong. It takes me 20-30 min to cum from normal sex and I don't even enjoy it. I can cum in like 30 seconds by fapping to femdom porn though, and I look forward to it every day. In my daily life I am otherwise pretty dominant and alpha.
I am at my wit's end here - something so stupid is causing me so much distress and I can't fix the problem. Would taking test help?
>>36552161
No it won't. Talk to a therapist.
stop watching porn, now. start lifting and running to keep your mind clear. read the sticky.
Shotgun to head x F
>>36552161
How do you have trouble differentiating fetishes/porn and normal sex.
The feeling on your dick should be enough to make you cum in 5 minutes, Test won't fix that, you gotta get your shit together yourself >>36552200 fuck therapy
>>36552161
you need to go back
you can't therapy your way out of a fetish. it is a part of you and it's not going to change. best course of action is finding a gril who enjoys sharing in your fetish.
>>36552423
>You can learn a fetish but you can't unlearn it.
Now that doesn't sound plausible.
>>36552431
Not him but you can pretty easily
Don't fap for a week or so and you'll find candid ass pics fapworthy, keep doing it till you forget about all the deviant shit you once jerked it to
>>36552431
Some things you can't undo.
Like unsuck dick.
>>36552449
You can't unsuck a dick but you can stop chocking on big black fat schlongs every minute of every hour, all day every day, even if that sounds unthinkable to you.
>>36552449
and? more than 50% of the planet sucks dick, it's weird not too faggot
>>36552431
a fetish is hard coded into your sexual instincts, you can try to not indulge it but that will only lead to a life of unfulfilling sex. you can't remove it any more than you can turn yourself gay or straight.
>>36552480
So you think he was born to have his dick stepped on by angry women?
Dude nothing wrong with fetishes. Find the chick that's into it and once that doors closed have at it. Once the door opens you're back into the world more alpha than when you left.
Fuck these beta haters, beating off to MLP porn
>>36552514
But you can't get a chick if you like some fetishes. The majority kill self confidence and you spend half your fucking paycheck on a CB-6000 instead of clothes
>>36552514
I'd gladly embrace it but I doubt I'll ever find a woman who can be into that shit in the bedroom but respect me in normal life. The best chance I have is being in a switch relationship but I don't know how to find a girl into it.
>>36552480
This is what I'm thinking. I tried nofap for a few weeks and it didn't work. I just wanted to be dominated more than I already do.
I can try seeing a therapist, but if that doesn't work, what options do I have? Trying nofap again?
I already lift and run pretty often.
>>36552535
There are plenty of women who like to be dominate. Granted most fit women like to be subs in relationships. Which is the reason they like hanging out in a gym with a bunch of perceived alphas.
>>36552535
There are websites for everything.
>>36552547
I'll gladly have a skinnyfat bitch dominate me. How would I find one though? Using the internet seems kind of sketchy but if it's my only option I'll do it.
>>36552542
try getting into dominating the women
spread your fetish out evenly, find a chick that likes being dominated, and in turn can take turns in dominating you, then you're sexual deviancy is not a part of a healthy relationship
Most chicks like being dominated lmao shouldn't be too hard
>>36552535
> you spend half your fucking paycheck on a CB-6000 instead of clothes
>>36552566
then your sexual deviancy is now a part of a healthy relationship*
autocorrect
>>36552161
Embrace Islam so that Allah (swt) can guide you in the right direction, brother.
>>36552563
Date women.
When you date women the goal is to find a match to your personality and lifestyle. Now a match differs from person to person. But if being a sub is something you really want you need to throw those feelers out there.
Now im not saying tell a woman you want to be tied and gagged on the first date but at a certain point fetishes come up and you explain yours. Most women are open to anything they just need to feel comfortable around you.
Women love to satisfy their man my girl gets off at times when she gets me off. So women will try things they aren't used to for the one they want to be with.
>>36552606
Will do. Thanks mang
>>36552599
>implying op is a pedo
go fuck a goat
>>36552161
The only T you need is *Mistress* T, you soft, baby-faced, pathetic little worm.
>>36552655
Hnnnnng
English mansion and kink are god tier
>>36552615
Just out of curiosity
What type of femdom are we talking about?
because there seem to be several - humiliation and abuse, one where the woman uses the man like a toy to get herself off(slavery i guess?), one where the woman has all of the control and the guy just sits there while she teases/make him cum as hard as she wants, or maybe just normal sex where she leads.
Im probably missing a few, but they all feel like different fantasies for different people that get merged into femdom. I like pretty much all of them except for the humiliation stuff, but maybe im just a normie with vanilla taste.
[spoiler]tfw you've teared up while fapping to humiliation joi because the insults hit close to home[/spoiler]
>>36552161
>im pretty alpha and confident
>guys help me how can i stop liking what i like people are gonna think its weird guys cmon help this is fucked up
>>36552804
>spoiler]tfw you've teared up while fapping to humiliation joi because the insults hit close to home[/spoiler]
tfw its never close enough, those videos can be so akward if all you think is
>no my dick is normal sized actually
>im not a middle aged man with a fat wife cmon
>>36552871
This lol.
>>36552161
Stop being such a beta and fap to what you like.
>I'm dominant and alpha
That tells me you're either lying, or you get off to the taboo of wanking over stuff that is taboo for you to wank over. Just accept the fetish, and you'll probably get bored of it.
>>36552871
Well congrats on being a functional human being who's confident in himself I guess.
What got me was some older woman talking about how worthless you are and how you'll never amount to anything.
And im a 3rd year student, looking for internships/starting positions while living at home, jobless, because im too lazy to find a crappy job somewhere to at least help with bills and such. Actually where i live its not that uncommon to stay with your parents until you get married but it still feels bad.
>>36552480
Not true my friend. I used to have legitimate homosexual desires but I hrew out of them. Same for my weird incest fetish. What creates weird sexual interests is pornography. Cut that garbage out of your life.
Toastin in top quality bread
>>36552958
there's a difference between fetishes and sexual interests that are a result of porn. fetishes are created in childhood and can't be got rid of.
>>36552161
So I was talking with my own therapist about fetishes and he was telling me about one of his other patients, who was male, who had a fetish. His fetish was that he couldn't cum unless he was wearing women's lingerie. Turns out with more therapy, he realized it was because he was raised by his mother and aunt who used to walk around the house in bra and panties. This patient then grew out of his fetish and fucks the Shit out his wife now without having to wear a thong.
Fetishes grow from experience. What happened to you op
You don't want that fetish? Be proactive and work against it and stop giving into it.
>>36552161
>Muh test
You have a mental illness, not a hormone imbalance.
>>36553437
t: Too lazy to change
>>36553761
not really, i just don't see any reason to. i mean, unless your fetish is illegal or something, why wouldn't you want something that gets your dick super hard?
