Have your gains helped you pull?
>>36506882
My dick, yes
>>36506882
it's given me a reason to go out in public (gym), and sometimes I see cuties there and later fap thinking about them. Does that count?
pull sluts? yes
but they haven't helped out my mental issues preventing me from having a healthy long term relationship with another human
so no, no gf gains
>>36506906
Does it count? Nigga, you've made it.
>>36506888
top qoq nice trips
>>36506882
This happened a couple of weeks ago
>Been lifting for about a year
>gym has pool
>never use it
>decide to start swimming for cardio
>swimming laps
>8/10 sitting in hot tub by the pool
>she is facing me, but on her phone
>Looks like she is pretending to look at phone and actually just looking at me
>Doubt it
>she gets out of hot tub
>sits on the steps of the pool at the end of my lane
>keep swimming laps
>stop to catch breath on the side she is at
>She then asks
>"are you a swimmer?"
>"n-no, just doing cardio, haha..."
"Oh, well you have a body like a swimmer" She was literally biting her lip when she said this, and looking me up and down, making it realyl obvious
>talk for a couple minutes
>she asks for my number
>She texts me that night
>"I was so turned on watching you swim"
>text her back and forth for a bit
>Fuck her a week later
I should really swim some laps again, that was the first time I did and I got some girls number.
Nup, lifting for 3+ years and not a single mire. Still virgin
>>36506882
started lifting after getting a gf, not really.
I get more mires though than ever before.
when i begun lifting i pulled about 60 kg, now i pull 3plaet + change
>>36507014
>things that didn't happen
Enough with these bs stories.
>>36506882
When I first started date my gf a year and half ago, my 1RM were 182kg DL, 104kg bench, 55kg OHP and 75kg squat (knee injury, shit flexibility)
My current 1RM are like 150kg DL, 92kg bench, 42kg OHP and 75kg squat.
GFs are worse than you think. Going to dump mine and go back to FWB/one night stands. No wasting your days off watching movies in bed and other boring shit.
>Start lifting
>Get Fit
>Meet a tinder qt and turn her into a LTR
>Now we live together and I feel like I'm not living up to my full sloot smashing potential
Such is life
>>36507107
NEVER STOP BELIEVING
IF YOU BELIEVE YOUR OWN BULLSHIT SLUTS WILL DO AS WELL
>>36507014
>things that never happened
>be autistic with women
>still score qt girl
>been together for 6 years now
>get fit in the meantime
>no other female attention whatsoever
>sometimes I feel like if other women made advances Im just to autistic to notice
>>36507121
No way. I love that girl pictured. We don't spend days watching Netflix, we spend days working out, riding motorcycles, cooking, walking around the city. And even if we are spending days watching Netflix I'm still enjoying myself. Gotta find a girl who makes you feel the same way anon.
>>36506882
Barely got any attention last year, decided to square up and thanks to good genetics and some black magic shit I've become pretty ripped and swole in a year. Anyways when I go to club I get a lot more attention, sometimes girls just stare, sometimes girls come up to me, try to dance with me, hold my hand and take me places. Although only had sex with 1 girl and that was before I started lifting, haha as I'm not going to fuck a club slut and too autistic to get a real girlfriend XD.
>>36507295
Yeah that's it man. My girl is a good chick but just boring AF, has no real hobbies.
You have to find someone who has the same hobbies/interests as you. Problem is that's kinda hard for me because apart from one, barely any girls like the shit I do for fun.
I honestly don't mind being single, I like being able to lift/party/do whatever I want whenever, and then try to set up a booty call if I really want.
>>36507350
Club sluts are good practice bro, you've gotta get experience somewhere. Best thing is, if you just see them as 'club sluts' then you can fuck them and sneak out while they sleep and not deal with their shit in the morning.
Autist here
>get haircut
>qt cuts hair, skinny w a fat ass
>says I could be a personal trainer, we get along well and talk the entire time
>gives me a business card w her name and number at the end
Does she want the D or just more business and tips? I've never gotten a business card from a hair stylist from a cheap little place like that, why is that even a thing
>>36506882
my gains helped me to get "woahh you look awesome" from my regular prostitutes and now im allowed to cum in their mouth everytime (they said no in the past). same prize.
>>36507401
Are you me?
My gf works and that's it. She has all these things she "wants" to do, but it's always excuse after excuse as to why she can't.
>>36507350
why not date a 'club slut' to see if she's nice as a person?
got more girls when i wasnt /fit/, but thats because i was just in situations where i could pull. I think thats the most important factor in pulling
Being in places where its possible. I used to be in uni with normal friends so we'd go out and have people over for parties every weekend. This means I was around drunk girls 2 a week 50 weeks a year. So yeah I could occasionally pull
Now I'm more /fit/, have a full time job, my own place and never pull.
>>36506882
Nope, /fit/ but still an autist.
I don't date anymore.
>>36507014
More deets on how you fugged her. I'm autistic so I have to take notes
>>36507107
>>36507165
This actually happened bruhs, It's not that unbelievable.
I've been lifting since I was 18/19
I'm 28 now
I never really was able to get any girls when I was younger. Lost my virginity to a club slut when I was almost 22. Started getting tons of girls when I was 24-25
>Be 28 now
>Tons of women I can text/call up to come over to fuck
>Girls literally texting me constantly
>They're all relatively cute/attractive
>One of them is a 38 y/o milf
>I met all of them through hobbies/mutual friends, one of them I met at a club
>Don't feel any sort of attraction to them besides sexual
>All of them are massive whores, not even close to being girlfriend/wife material
>All the women my age are garbage tier
>The only younger women I can get are used up sluts or uggos
>tfw regretting not getting a qt gf when I was young and dating her up until now
brehs... these sluts are overrated. Honestly, if you're able to get a cute, wholesome girl who isn't a slut, do so now. When you get old life is literally shit and all of the women your age are going to be garbage tier/leftovers that nobody wants
I only had one girlfriend, when I was 24-25. I fucked up and treated her poorly, she was the only girl I ever loved or forsaw any sort of "future" with. Now she's hanging out with a bunch of sluts and is probably one now as well.
>that feel when you have the money and the career, the nice car and the dope apartment, your best physique to date and tons of confidence and suave, but you're life still sucks and you're constantly regretting your youth.
>>36507489
didnt read
>>36507438
Haha holy shit I am you.
I hear all the plans and never see any execution. Also the same in regards to the last 10kg she's been 'trying' to loss for over a year.
>>36507489
This hit home bruv, I'm 23 with an awesome girlfriend but I want to bang sluts even though I know it is out of vanity and will lead nowhere, and I will likely never find a girl as good as the one I have now
>>36507489
You'll be fine cunt, you'll find a decent one.
>>36507489
Time to import an 18yr old from somewhere else nigga.
>>36507525
What's the point of finding someone "decent"? Most women past 21 are garbage dude. They're sluts, tons of emotional baggage and tons of issues. And of course, not all of them are like that - only the attractive, social, intelligent ones are.
>>36507515
I am exactly in the same spot. I am 21, we have been together for two years and I still get the desire fuck non-existant sluts. I am sort of hoping that carrying on like I don't want anything else will push the feeling away but some times, it is not easy.
>>36507587
I know this sounds fucked, but go to a strip club some time and get a private dance, they'll ask you if you want to fuck, pay her to fuck (with condom ofc) and then leave. It will really open up your mind as to whether you want to be with your gf or have mindless sex with strangers. Obviously don't tell ANYONE.
>>36507515
This so much
Got an amazing, cute girlfriend a while ago, but my inner vanity fucked it up
I have this retarded dream of being some alpha stud with a harem of chicks, I think it's just to compensate for my shitty childhood.
One beatiful gf should be enough to keep me happy, but I always mess it up by shooting bigger
I got all my girls through social skills
Most didn't even see my body until we were about to fuck anyway.
For me what works is just
>Go to party
>Talk to EVERYONE
>Be generally loud and noticeable (but not in an annoying way)
>Watch as girls gradually switch all their attention to you
>>36507619
I might rather hook up with some dude on tinder and kill two birds with one stone, honestly.
This ho is dtf right? I can just ask her if she wants the ole dickerooni?
>>36506912
This
>Intermediate/ proficient strength
>6'2 195lbs, not bad
>Can occasionally score a gf every now and then
>Always break it off after a few months
I don't know if it's because I don't really care or if I just think that all women are fuck portals
>>36507425
>>36507689
>halv black
>my lower half that is
cuck
>>36507689
Or she just wants to flirt and is looking for validation.
Keep trying to escalate, say things that give her an opportunity to flirt and see how she reacts.
>>36507676
>>36507619
Just for reference, I did this with my current GF and as I was asked to bang with a naked old MILF all over me, I politely asked her to stop, gave her the money for the dance, and left. It helped reassure me that I want to be with my GF and that what I have is valuable.
>>36507740
I have an 8 incher breh
>>36507882
me too but I don't claim nigger
>>36507124
Same here, I think I could be banging more sloots but I really love her
>>36507124
>tinder
>LTR
lmao
>>36507489
Yep, once you reach a certain age, regardless of how successful you are, your options become:
1. Submit to being a cuck and raising Tyrone's son
2. Bang sluts but feel it's not much different than just fapping to porn
3. Attain wizardry powers and dedicate all your energy to your career / hobby
The traditional happy marriage ship has sailed for you, so it's best to embrace your inner cuck, chad, or death knight
>>36507908
Pics faggot.
>>36507425
95% chance she's at least somewhat interested. Try texting her a bit and ask her out worst case you misunderstood and never speak to her again.
>>36507689
My father and my grandma are half blacks. Does this mean that I am "half half half black"?
Yes. Haven't been natty for years, and I honestly don't think my sex life could be better at this time. I have a lifelong lesbian friend who not only has an impossibly endless rotating list of sluts somehow, but is willing to double-team them with me which composes about 100% of the top ten days of my life.
So I have a way to be swole and a way to meet girls constantly. Until I die or we have a falling out, I can pretty much get what I want entirely because I got swole and follow the /fa/ sticky.
>>36507882
No you do not. That's literally bigger than most pornstars.
>>36507232
We all wish to be you man
>>36508189
Hey. Some of us really do have 8 inch dicks.
>>36507489
Once you reach a certain age your best direction is to try to take a divorcee. Hopefully she has been loyal and only fucked the one guy for her entire life and was a dedicated wife. Something unexpected happened in the relationship and they broke up (pre-children). Basically all other women will be garbage.
She will be used goods, but not 20th hand, and with quality to last a lifetime.
>>36507882
>>36506882
>tfw no interest in random sex
>just want a caring gf
>>36506882
I only go out for the gym, store or work, and I don't work with people.
So no.
>>36507124
>tinder qt
>Now we live together
C'mon dude
>>36507124
>dating a tinder whore
jesus christ, why
>>36508174
>I have a lifelong lesbian friend who not only has an impossibly endless rotating list of sluts somehow, but is willing to double-team them with me
you think someone would do that? just lie on the internet?
>>36509154
oh?
Come again I'm sorry?
I thought they had bagged me a qt
>invites me back to hers saturday rather than me getting a bus home
>okay.jpg
>she cuddles up in bed, start passionately making out
>no sex because period
>instead just cuddle, talk, sleep, analyze each other's body
>agree to do something this weekend
>ask her tonight if she's free to play pool or something
>tells me shes uncomfortable about what happened last saturday, she doesn't want a relationship right now and we should maybe stop
>i'm first person she dated since she broke up with last bf who is a creepy, stalking jealous fuck who tried intimidating me when I first started talking to her and spied on her throughout their relationship. very controlling.
>guy has been injecting himself into her life since september every so often
>last thursday stole her phone, read our chatlogs then smashed the phone up
>she says she can't trust men, she doesn't want to do a relationship right now because of it. is afraid I will fall in love with her and she won't reciprocate due to trust issues. she feels bad when she has to shoot down my suggestions for dates due to her schedule etc. etc.
I am trying to damage control this. I have suggested we take a few steps back and take it slow. She agrees we get along really well and enjoyed what we did on saturday but hasn't responded to last message.
Any advice /fit/? I know it's kinda a meme but I really like this girl. I have really connected with her and the dates are so much fucking fun.
>>36507489
go to church, you will find one
>>36509241
Stop talking to her. It's a waste of time.
She sounds like a nightmare with a million red flags, and you're not noticing them AT ALL.
Let me tell you a story about a wimpy kid. I was 17 at the time, I was in the popular group of my school because i was good at sports but I wasn't popular amongst girls, I had a nerdy gf during my senior year. I joined medical school and decided that I wasn't gonna be one of the underdogs anymore. I began lifting hard, I studied hard, I made a ton of friends. By the end of my second semester I found myself surrounded by options. I finally dumped my high school gf and got together with an awesome girl. So far its been 4 years. I'm still with that cutie and I'm currently working in a hospital. The only downside is I haven't lifted in 4 months, the hospital is slowly killing me and I'm currently struggling in between being faithful or sleeping around.
>>36509241
You are hardcore honeymooning. You need to leave it alone, because it's very obvious that she doesn't feel as strongly about you as you feel about her.
>>36509328
Don't sleep around. You don't want to throw 4 years down the drain. Imagine if you walked in on your girl being railed by some dude. If you feel like cheating, do her a courtesy and just end the relationship.
>>36507014
>this happened a couple weeks ago
>be sitting in the hot tub at the gym
>this fat guy floating in the pool keeps eyeing me
>he waves at me
>I was on my phone, but he kept waving
>get out of hot tub and go to the end of the pool
>he asks for my number
>I laugh, and walk out of the gym
>>36507232
she's really cute anon, congrats
>>36509348
This.
>>36506882
nofap is the only thing that has ever helped me with girls.
Also, avoiding the internet (4chan, reddit, social media) and focusing on goals.
>>36509400
>>36509348
Thank you anons, you're right. But its just the curiosity what's killing me.
It gained me a lot of sluts, gave me the confidence to go up to my gf too
Almost been together for six years now too
Ayyy lmao
>>36509424
I can understand that. I haven't been with many women but when I see my GF naked it still drives me insane how sexy she is. Makes me realize that there is no point sleeping around if I have the perfect girl right in front of me.
But eeeeeeevery now and then I think about it. Do I really want to spend the rest of my life having sex with only this girl... forever?
She treats me good though. I think i'm gonna stick around.
>>36509335
>>36509305
fuck sake
this is fucking shit
fuckfuckfuckfuckfuckfuckfuckfuckfuckfuck
>>36509486
It helps me to see I'm not the only one with a similar situation.
>>36506882
>start lifting to get pussy
>now that im desirable, never feel like it cause busy liftin or preparing my tupperware grule
>>36509540
Sorry to crush your dreams anon. But you don't want to get really invested in the relationship just for her to walk out on you. There's tons of girls out there, and trust me, any girl you start being interested in seems fucking amazing and makes you feel on top of the world for the first couple months.
>>36509562
I just slow cooked some shredded buffalo chicken. Got enough to last me for days, pretty hype honestly.
>>36507232
Je let pas op wat anderen over je denken wanneer je single bent. Wel een kjoetie hoor.
T-thanks /fit/
>>36509621
i get more hyped about cooking than fucking, desu
>>36506882
>wife don't give a shit about me going to the gym (actually complaints).
>women at work and when I hang out with friends do not come closer.
So the answer would be NOPE.
>>36509704
Fuck yes. Cooking is my shit. Trying to figure out a good recipe for the turkey breast i've got in the freezer.
>>36507489
>Honestly, if you're able to get a cute, wholesome girl who isn't a slut, do so now.
what does this mean?
>>36507425
Call/Text her.....if not you'll never know.
>>36507419
>Club sluts are good practice bro, you've gotta get experience somewhere. Best thing is, if you just see them as 'club sluts' then you can fuck them and sneak out while they sleep and not deal with their shit in the morning.
The problem is that I have some of these "club sluts" as friends, and I kid you not it's the most off turning thing ever when you know they've kissed/gotten fingered by multiple guys on the same night and take some sleaze bag in the end. I know that not all of them are like that but it's not like I'm going to ask that them in the club now am I? I might as well not take the chance. Heck I only go with my friends to dance and have a good time not to get laid.
>>36509712
>women at work and when I hang out with friends do not come closer.
you fucking retard what are you trying to say stupid
>>36508189
>be eurocuck
>convert 8 freedom units to cm
>20 fucking centimeters
If that's big for you I understand why your girls are craving for that bbc
>>36506882
kinda
my autism is now perceived as "cute"
>>36509792
Chill, mate.....
Saying that even if I try to hook up at the office or when I'm out for a drink I cannot make it
>>36506906
>making it this good
fuck yea
>>36509912
Making myself more clear.....
>even if I WOULD try to hook up at the office or when I'm out for a drink I cannot make it.
>>36509699
>pls respond
pls get me a julie
>>36508131
no you're full negro if you don't know that half of half of half is one eigth
>>36509909
Ever met a really hot girl who was just dumb and ditzy as hell? That's basically you now.
threads like these never make me fail in going from totally happy to wanting to kill myself asap
>>36509841
That's big everywhere. Only on the Internet does an average man have an 8x6 penor
>>36509788
That's why you gotta get a club slut early. Went out for a friends birthday and one of her friends was a club slut. Talked her up at dinner, grinded and groped her the entire time we went out dancing, went back to her place after.
Just her and I the entire night, 1 on 1
>>36510095
Did you sex each other too?!?!
>>36506882
Hypothetical question:
>talk to grill
>she has bf
>we hang out a few times
>she wants the d
>we bang
>week later, tells me she has a lot of shit going on in her life "but will never take me for granted"
>she withdrawals big time, but still texts / calls me on occasion
>can't get over over her
Is it really worth keeping her around as a friend, or should i just cut her off? I'm tired of feeling bummed out.
>>36510132
Do not gf a cheater
>>36510132
Cut her off. "lot of shit going on" is code for "I had fun but now I want to move on."
Also, if that girl cheated on her bf with you, why would she not just cheat on you with another dude if you two got together?
>>36510132
>Is it really worth keeping her around as a friend
why? srsly why?
she's a shit person, would you treat people you care about the way she does? she obviously doesn't give a fuck about you, you're just her confidence boost and time killer
>>36508131
The scientific term is octoroon.
>>36510148
I know, terrible idea.
>>36510194
>"lot of shit going on" is code for "I had fun but now I want to move on"
This makes sense.
>>36510281
>you're just her confidence boost and time killer
Pretty much nailed it i think. She said on multiple occasions, "youre so fucking hot. You know that youre hot, dont you?" Fuck.
Thanks for the help brehs. As i was drafting this on my phone, she was blowing up my phone about wanting to see me. Fucking women, i'm so exhausted.
I think I've got an average qt Korean, lads
Imma fuck her when I see her in June
Pretty excited, trying to cut a bit before I see her for more definition
Gonna bust real fast, I think
>>36507031
Dyel though?
A qt3.14 Muslim girl at my job likes me, I got her number and regularly snap her. The only thing is how I'm gonna just get me and her together alone? She might be dtf but I like her for more than just fucking
>>36509599
I went full retard, I am sorry.
I basically laid it all out for her. I pointed out we get on incredibly well and are both so relaxed around each other that maybe that shows something is working. I said some sappy shit about how I am not like her ex and that I don't think breaking it off so suddenly is the right thing to do.
I just thought #yolo. Maybe once in history a sappy message will turn it all around and even if it doesn't, we have no friends in common so there will be no public shame.
She's already asleep so I guess I get to wake-up to it when my alarm goes before I head to gym.
Girls are way more touchy and flirty now but none of em want anything serious. shit's weird
>>36506882
I get comments from people, but it's been kind of weird because a man I work with confessed to having a case of the feelios for me when I was in the middle of losing weight. The more I lose, the more he tells me to please not lose too much.
So now I sort of feel stuck trying to be the weight I want and making him happy.
I don't get why a skinny guy who takes care of himself wants a fatty.
Hey guys, I'm a girl and I matched with a guy from my gym about a month ago on tinder.
I asked him if he went to my gym and he said yes, and he told me next time I was there and if I saw him to say hi.
Anyway, so I didn't see him for ages because we go at different times but then I recently saw him, and when he noticed me he tried to ignore me so so hard. I tried smiling at him but every time he saw me, he tried to look away so aggressively.
I'm not even sure if he recognised that I was the girl from tinder? I'm realy not sure but maybe he just isn't into me at all.
Then I saw him again recently and same thing... What went wrong ? :( lol
Should I try say hi or just leave it because he's obviously not interested ?
>>36510729
Lmao roider confirmed
Had a gf before I started liftin, still goin strong
>>36510749
He's embarrassed because he still remembers you and thinks you forgot by now. go talk to him you dumbass
>>36510749
do you have a really pretty face pic on tinder and a lot of misleading pics?
and are you fat irl?
this means he doesn't want to talk to you
if you're hot, then go talk to him, dumbass
>>36510783
He seems so angry and scary though, not a friendly dude at all... And on tinder he didn't initiate conversation or continue it or anything ? I just don't wanna make him feel uncomfortable or embarrass myself.
>>36510800
I'm just average honestly.
I'm skinny and a little bit toned.
He's so much hotter than me though, I'm so out of their league, but I think he might be super shy because I never see him talk to anyone else anyway.
Oh well I think we are just gonna awkwardly ignore each other forever lol
>>36510831
sometimes guys like it when you remember them. i know personally i think girls don't think about me, so it might make him feel good if you approached him
>>36510749
>I tried smiling at him
as a full blown former beta autismo I tell you smiling at autists is mockery
Advice on getting laid/a gf, guys?
How important is it to leave home and move out? I'll be doing that in August hopefully.
On the other hand I always catch girls checking out guys who are either tall, huge (from roids etc.), non-white or just very good looking. In my mind, if they can fuck them why would they fuck me? wat do
>>36510892
seconded
also, whenever I talk to grills they either ignore me or straight up make fun of me and I seriously have no idea why
(neither a manlet nor fat/skelle and average looks)
>>36510892
Go after high school girls. They like older men, even when they have absolutely nothing going for them.
>>36510923
Autism: The Post
>>36507425
Ask her if she wants the D or just more business and tips. If she wants the D you win. If she doesn't but thinks that's funny you could still score with one of her friends. If she doesn't respond just never talk to her again, who cares.
>>36510923
Hmm ok thank you for the advice guys.
I thought smiling was like signalling hey I like you etc
From his tinder profile he seems pretty confident though and he's like 6'4 and super built so I thought he probably has no issues getting girls and girls probably smile at him all the time??
But yeah maybe it would make him feel nice if he thought I remembered him, but at the same time I don't want him to feel trapped that some gross stalker at the gym has a crush on him and is gonna talk to him every time he's there now lmao
>>36510942
>>36510968
are you replying to the right post g-guys?
>>36510941
I do have things going for me: self employed and make £60k a year, am quite /fit/ and /fa/. I don't know what it is, the one thing I've never cracked is women
I wouldn't gf a girl under about 19 I don't think (am 22). Had issues in the past with younger girls
>about to have tinder date
>mention that I'm 5'7"
>she agrees do come anyway
>2 hours before the date: "sorry I don't feel like it today"
>offer to message me whenever she's up for it
>never hear from her again
>>36510882
go fucking talk to him then
do you not see all of us losers on fit qqing all the time? nobody here has balls
he's probably from here, insecure fucks
>>36510891
this
>dont' really deal with girls in the gym but notice them mirin
>out of nowhere guess because spring break a real young girl comes in and I can't take my eyes off her
>nothing special but she is young and I don't know why I'm attracted to her
>whatever just focus on workout
>start squatting in corner and just forget about her
>she starts squatting and the only girl in my gym that actually squats decently 1 plate
>she keeps inching closer to me in the corner with different workouts of hers until finally she catches my attention
>I put a bench behind me since it was empty just to sit down between sets..well I just got done and went to sit down when I basically sit in her lap
>she sat down on the bench to ask me something and didn't know I was going ot sit down..after all the sorry she asks for help on squats
>she's wearing shit shoes so I tell her I have my moms powerlifts in my bag if she wants to try
>between helping her squat start learning more about her
>she's a senior in hs, a cheerleader, and is 18 but has the body of a much younger person...blurts out she's underdeveloped and was embarrassed to go to the beach for spring break and wanted to tone up for next year
>guess she noticed that I kinda didn't believe she was 18 so she just threw that out there
>starts asking me for tips and wants to workout with me now, forces me to text her so if she has any questions out of the gym
>starts sending me selfies of her in school and at practice, asks if I have any tips for equipment like shoes and stuff
I've been in cocoon mode for so long this shit feels awkward. Tomorrow we are working out and her parents already agreed that it'd be ok for me to drop her off at her place afterwards. I told her I was a PTA so I think her parents are pushing her to me since I have my shit together....what do /fit"?
>>36510994
Nah sorry I fucked up my post was to those other ones lmao soz thread
the feel when girls make the first move but you self depreciate instead
>inb4 wrong plural
>be skinny insecure beta
>start lifting
>start taking care of my apperance
>get waay more attention from girls
>get more confident
>talk with girls more
>got gf
yeah lifting by itself didnt help but it was the first and an essential step.
>>36511008
similarly
>have funny description in tinder profile
>~5-10 matches a day
>add height to the description (still 5'7")
>literally zero matches a day
the pain is real
>>36511046
chick in pic looks a bit like a dolled up smeralda
>>36511046
lel
did she respond?
>>36511046
Come on that was fucking funny. This will make her like you more not less. Except you really have a tiny penis.
>>36507515
Are you me?
Girlfriend of 7 years. High school sweet heart. She's going to med school in a year. Discussing couples housing. Have decided for years won't get married til we can afford a proper wedding.
> tfw want to bang some hot sluts with 10/10 ass and tots
> want to experience the adult dating life
> too afraid because she's compatible with me in every way
>afraid I'll get "traveling businessman" syndrome years from now and cheat anyway
>>36509070
iktf
>>36511104
>med school in a year
How serious is she about it? If she's serious get ready for the hardest relationship you've ever been in bruh. kek you think you're ready but you won't be.
> tfw 26 y/o kissless virgin
Get on my level plebs
>>36511082
>>36511102
sabotaged
still think girls who show interest playing a joke on me
>>36507439
Seriously. Not every chick in a club or bar is vapid and whorish.
I am sure there are some laid back and interesting girls if you take the time to look for them.
Grocery stores, camping trips, and connections through mutual friends are best in my opinion.
>>36511129
Very serious. She feels guilty that she won't be around much. I've stated multiple times I'm fine with it and it gives me spare time to work at home.
I'm aware how difficult it will be. We've talked to multiple couples about it. I feel my clock is ticking though to have a last hurrah before it happens though.
>>36509473
ayyyy
>>36511148
Haha you seem like a funny guy and she doesn't really seem to get it. Well remember to give her the old lickaroo
>>36511039
set her straight, if she still pushes, nail her.
>Start Lifting
>Get tons of 7/10 matches on tinder
>too autistic
>Get scared talking to them.
>>36511039
Eat her pussy and ass. God bless you.
>>36509241
Honestly, try to fix the problem w/ her old bf. Let her know you're there for support, but don't be overbearing. Just my take
>>36506882
>tfw no visible gains
My problem was I had to quit lifting for a little over 3 months cause of a surgery I had. I gained like 30 pounds cause I did my watch my diet.
And it's hard as fuck to get back into it cause no motivation.
So no, not yet.
>>36507459
Idk what you want deetz on. i literally just snapped chatted her, back and forth. And than one day when I was at work she started sending me nudes, and I asked her "why now when I'm at work?" and she told me "its more fun this way". So yea sent her some dick pics at work and than after work went over to her house and fucked. Fucked her a few more times since than too. Idk what advice to give you m8, just be yourself mang.
>>36509376
lol, i'm a former Auschwitz prisoner bruh, I still only have around 9%bf
My wife is way hornier than she used to be since I've lost a ton of weight and gone ottermode.
So that's nice.
>>36509217
>It's expensive
>$25
>little pricey
>>36511104
In similar situation, but
>We actually never have sex, not in months
>She's ok with me having sex or short term relationships with girls
It's a complicated relationship but really stable, we're more like best friends that plan on living together and having children later in life. I just don't know how to pickup other girls, how to explain that I am in a serious relationship and just want sex, and how I can't use our apartment (we live together).
![CUEwJFDWwAAZAYw[1].jpg](https://i.imgur.com/ZKEOrqc.jpg "CUEwJFDWwAAZAYw[1].jpg")
>be fat fuck
>used to be much fatter fuck
>5'11, 200lbs, noob gainz, down from 350
>actually halfway attractive thanks to a former chad father and a blonde haired blue eyed mother
>actually halfway charasmatic to boot, when I'm in the right mood and among the right people
>girls so much friendlier than they used to be
>I can get away with so much more bullshit than I used to be able to
>feels good
>however..
>tfw still fat fuck on the inside
>tfw always assume girls want nothing to do with me
>any signs that could be interpreted as them being interested, such as them coming up to talk to me
>or a girl telling me she was thinking about me mentioning my cat when she was getting dressed, so that's why she wore this cat shirt
>or a girl who I haven't seen in 20-30lbs seeing me in passing in the hallways and texting me directly after, for the first time in months
>are all ignored or explained away
>tfw kissless virgin who's never done anything with anyone
>tfw have no idea where to even fucking start
dear god someone send help
I'm a manlet so if anything they've probably hindered me.
>>36511104
Oh hey, it's more or less me.
>tfw forever cutting
When will it be mine turn to bulk..h-hold me /fit/ ;;
>>36511213
I read that cock
>>36509841
>>36509979
That's above the top 1% of men. It can happen, but it's extremely statistically unlikely.
>>36510749
Oh god pls no, what area do you live in?
>>36508016
2.5 years since I've been with a woman; how longer till I attain full wizard powers
>>36512352
You first !!!!!
>>36506882
Girlfriend? Hahahhahhahahahhahhahhahha o boi I am laffin. As I will never be good enough for my own standards, nor will I be for anyone else's. Girls can wait. Forever.
>>36513019
Fuck. The feels
>>36507489
You're me without the success at life.
I'm 28, was a drug addict from 16-25, got clean but relapsed into marijuana, so even though I work and shit, and lift, I keep dropping all my other pursuits.
>>36512238
And yet somehow ever /fit/izen is in the 99th percentile.
>tfw when 1st anniversary is coming up soon
>I'm at college and was drowning in sl00ts before I met her
>She's pretty cool but not great looking and her family a shit
>I've mostly maintained gainz in the last year but put on like 5kg mostly in fat and I've forgotten how to chat bitches up
One part of me wants to leave her, but on the other hand it would shrek her and she doesn't deserve that. Wat do?
>>36513955
I'm 4 years in this August.
I'm 22
Fucking run bro.
>>36511213
If she's already feeling bad about it then it's going to be worse just because she's going ot put all the pressure on you and all this shit about her holding you back blah blah blah.
Then she's going to get super close to her co workers at the hospital she isn't getting paid to be at, then she's going ot go drinking when their shift is up, then she's going to fight wiht you.
lol you're going to enjoy it bruh
>>36513955
I've pretty much got the same situation.
It's hard when I get hit on when I'm out with her and just have to walk away.
You gotta do what makes you happy, bro. The most important person in your life is you. That's why I've decided I've gotta dump my gf.
>>36509776
As you age, the chances of you finding a woman who isn't insane, already had someone else's child, or ballooned into an unfuckable mess in your own age range becomes increasingly slim.
And while you can dip down to fuck younger women, most of them are just too fucking stupid/flighty/ingrained in party culture to have a real relationship with.
I would kill for a woman around my own age (28) who doesn't have any baggage. If she's cool she's already had a child, of she's childless she's a fatass, and if she's hot she's insane, etc. Having all 3 boxes unchecked is very hard to find.
>>36511252
>>36511271
What do I even say? I don't know how to interact with her just becasue were from different gens. I don't care for instgram/twitter shit but damn every time we are together she wants to take pics of us together.
Like no lie my phone hasn't had this much action in years and it's only her blowing up my text inbox
>>36513019
>I will never be good enough for my own standards,
are you me?
Should I date a girl even if shes unfashionable and not that cute, but skinny and nice?
I'm seriously just sick of being lonely. Only thing that gives me hesitation is that I don't want to be tied up if a hot girl comes along and shows interest but the honest truth is it's been a few years and I've gotten nothing but a few random hookups with cute girls.
I guess I already know my answer huh
>>36510132
Sounds pretty hypothetical dawg
>>36510415
>she was blowing up my phone about wanting to see me.
Might as well bang her, I mean, now that theres nothing to lose you must be curious if shes down for anal or s&m
>>36511148
u r 1 cheeky cunt m8
>>36507489
Same here except long term monogamous relationship instead of sluts. 28, even. Damn. And I'm saying the exact opposite--fuck this stifling monogamous relationship, get sluts now.
The grass remains greener on the other side, famalam.
>>36514277
Wrong
who cares what girls want
as long as I make progress individually, im happy. whether it's my body getting more fit, or learning new stuff.
never change who you are, or abandon your goals, for pussy.
>>36507489
is everyone just too retarded to date younger or something
>>36507689
>someone else uses the 'black from the waist down' line I do
fuck i thought i was being clever
>>36507489
BUT IM ALMOST 27, ANON, WHY DIDNT YOU WARN ME SOONER
>>36511104
Hold up, anon. Med school? Disregard sluts. This relationship is now a major investment. You could be married to a doctor. Odds are slim that she'd ditch you while in med school--it's time-consuming enough, and adding the turmoil of breaking off a long term relationship just ain't doable for most people. Just be patient and supportive and you'll be married to one of the most respected members of society. Also there'll be copious money.
So stick it out. Maybe you'll cheat later, but console yourself with the fact that there's cheating in most marriages. Literally most. Plus if you divorce, you're probably the one getting alimony. (In a similar situation here, as you can probably tell, so I've thought this through a bit.)
>>36514079
Said me, six years ago. Still with GF.
>>36514097
Women without children around our age (also 28) start getting crazy real soon. Unless they're cloistered in grad school or a professional career, the baby craziness kicks into overdrive around 30. Not just like "I NEED A BABY" kind of crazy, but other varieties of psychosis attendant to neglecting a major biological impulse. Strap in, my man.
>>36514301
Yeah, this is a pretty simple concept, dudes.
>>36511148
top lel
>>36514420
I'm the guy he was responding to, and I've decided to leave her a few times but we're going well now again. Do you regret not doing it?
>>36514493
>>36514420
because hes fucking comfortable
its a hole to fuck
someone to feel "not lonely" with
a joke
>>36514394
wrong. Nigga she's going to find easy as fuck reasons to break up and make it seem like she's doing HIM a favor.
>just be patient and supportive
lel niggas going to crash and burn with that advice
>>36507014
Even if this happened
>entitled hoe thinks she can get any guy just by talking to them
>fucking a whore
You should have rejected her and put her in her place
>>36514493
Yes. But only with the benefit of hindsight. She's turned out to be dysfunctional because of rapidly worsening depression. Runs in her family, it turns out. And she refuses treatment. So the once highly capable GF, better grades than me, smarter, far more potential, is basically just a burden.
So I regret not getting out before an overwhelming sense of pity and responsibility prevented me from breaking it off. Would seem utterly heartless to do so now.
Were she healthy, however, dumping her would have seemed like the biggest mistake of my life. She's practically perfect, in that special subjective way, except for the debilitating mental illness.
So shit, man. It's rough.
>>36514512
Yeah, no. I'm in the inverse situation. Getting a professional degree, GF is just sitting tight. I want to break it off, basically upgrade, but I know that doing so would be a logistical nightmare and majorly detrimental to schoolwork.
So thanks for your retarded and uninformed opinions.
>>36514079
>The most important person in your life is you
underrated
>>36514520
Fugg. I don't think mine is going that way, she's only improved since we started going out - she's started going to the gym even though it's not with me since we live ~90 minutes apart. Even so, I definitely wouldn't describe her as perfect, just as somewhat better in a few ways than most girls. She's probably a little above average in intelligence and looks, but more prone to stress freakouts and more jealous than most. I'm on my way into med school and have plenty of opportunity for other girls before then, but leaving her is just so hard.
>>36511690
I can help you. I was a 300 lb kissless virgin.
I'm not even /fit/ now. I'm just a not-as-fat-as-I-used-to-be-guy. I know I can help you, though. I lost my virginity at 210 lbs or so having never worked out. I'm the same height at you.
I'm feeling generous and would take time to hear your plight and return with sound advice.
If you'd like to talk, I have a throwaway email you could send your questions/concerns to.
[email protected]
Go for it.
Anyone else who's a kissless virgin and wants some advice can email me too. I want to help.
>>36514520
>So I regret not getting out before an overwhelming sense of pity and responsibility prevented me from break
Are you me?
Mines finally agreed to get help after 9 months of me asking. Week two of anti-depressants. Still crying for no reason.
>>36506882
>gf broke up with me
>cortisol goes down, as well belly fat
women are stressful
>>36507697
maybe because you treat yourself better than any girl could do
>>36514557
If it works now, leave it be. Just my opinion. But if you see any definite red flags, don't disregard them. My GF's problems didn't become truly, undeniably apparent until about 8 years in (just over 10 now), but I saw the warning signs as early as 3 years in. Just make a well-considered choice. Because there will be consequences either way.
Congrats on med school, by the way. You are now like 500% more desirable to the opposite sex. (Which is also worth considering, anon.)
>>36514617
OK. Lay it on me. How did you convince her?
>>36514625
Even with loses, you're making gains
Well done, dude
>>36514654
Thanks brah, now i'm recovering from a De quervain's injury, gonna hit the gym soon
>>36511039
There must be something wrong with this girl.It all sounds perfect anon.
>>36514648
Basically told her I was going to leave her if she didn't get help. She's obsessed with me and convinced I'm the perfect guy for her. Though so that's probably. She's needy AF and starts crying if I don't pay enough attention to her.
Used to weightlift when I was 17. Fucked up my hip flexor trying to get a state squat record for 17 year olds in my weight class. Gave up on lifting for a while. Focused on school, met up with girls on OKcupid (keep in mind at this point I deflated in size a lot). LTR'd one of the girls to this day. Slowly went back to lifting until now where I've been going ham at the gym. Gaining all my strength back and I look amazing. More working out = more testosterone = more libido and I feel confident as fuck. I started lifting seriously again a year into the relationship because I was becoming insecure fag and I didn't like being like that as It wasn't me. I feel amazing now. School's good, lifting's good, girlfriend's amazing. I feel like I made it. I'm stressed the fuck out and my time management leaves me not much free time to relax but I made it
>>36513295
>relapsed into marijuana
Pls elaborate.
>>36511039
Smash your dick
Into that chick
>Had gf for 18 months
>we didn't have much in common besides getting along really wel
>She had a really low sex drive, was a virgin when we met and wasn't very adventurous
>Start having issues this year, her best friend is in some allegedly fairytale relationship where they do everything together and have all the same interests and world view
>gf is jealous, starts bitching about non issues with me
>She explains she is extremely busy with her dissertation, exams, masters applications and work but she feels the spark is gone and she isn't sure why
>Break up but decide to meet up in a month to see how we feel
>During this month I meet someone else
>Hit it off really well
>Sunday sleep together
>Girl wants to upload a pic but I stop her as I should tell ex first
>I explain my reasoning, say my POV is our relationship doomed anyway due to her moving to Europe in a few months etc. etc.
>She goes mental about how she loves me etc.
>never ever expessed it and rarely wanted to do anything but eat cake/hot chocolate at a cafe
>Blocks me on fb, deletes my number
>Last night
>New girl tells me we moved too fast, she is not ready due to trust issues and is now really uncomfortable about sleeping with me despite assuring me she enjoyed doing it
>Suggests we call it all off
Why I can't i just be a MGTOW fag and not care about this shit. God fucking damn how is it fair? Two days ago I am genuinely happy.
>>36507489
holy shit men you are me
I'm even 28 like you
sometimes I am tired to wrtie back to the whores
I just turn them back until I take a shit or so and write back then...
fuck
>>36515459
>>Girl wants to upload a pic but I stop her as I should tell ex first
hahaha actually getting this cucked jesus christ lmao
>>36507489
maybe if you didn't stray so far from God's light you wouldn't have this problem. Nothing in the world quite like a virgin church qt
>>36515459
>She had a really low sex drive, was a virgin when we met and wasn't very adventurous
>Start having issues this year, her best friend is in some allegedly fairytale relationship where they do everything together and have all the same interests and world view
Runaway
>>36507232
Good for u m8
>>36515459
Nigga, are you joking? You dodged not one, but two bullets! You're in a good position now, but you really have some terrible judgement when it comes to women.
>>36515879
But the new one was good fun ;_; plus great body. Weird kisser though.
>>36507124
Tinder
AIDS
Same thing
>>36507014
>>36515879
this
>>36515891
Yeah i know that feel, my ex have same musical tastes, it was fun to be around, long deep conversations, but bitch was unstable, and the sex was awful, then broke up with me, some months later my resolution is:
DODED BULLET.
>>36506882
If anything its the reverse
I gained a GF when I was fat as fuck and a month after we started dating I decided to not die at 40 and go gym.
A year later I'm much more slim thanks to strict cutting plan and I've never felt more confident. Yet my GF complains I'm no longer "cuddly" and says muscles are gross yet is always feeling for growth in my biceps.
Hopefully she'll snap out of this bullshit when I hit my goal cut weight and go on a clean bulk. Either that or I'll truly have to leave humanity behind to pierce the heavens.
I outsource tech work like data entry to indians, 4-5 years I got tired of copying and pasting my "80% success rate, well studied and tested POF and OKcupid message" so I asked my indian guy to send it for me. 100 message for like $5.
The message is very eloquent, thoughtful, respectful and leaves nothing to the imagination as to what i want to do to her.
So since then I have just been coming home and browsing the replies and choosing who I want to golden shower, master sex slave with, ass worship, tie to a bed, 3somes.
I live in a large city and this desensitized me from whatever human feelings I had left.
>>36516240
Sounds like a pretty crappy life familia
How the fuck do you know if a tsundere tomboy likes you?
>picked her from her uni like 2 times and we hung out at a library once
>she wanted to come over to my place to watch movies
>she is a bit feminist (like real feminism not that tumblr tier shit)
>she is a really smart sociologist
>I'm /fit/ STEM master race
>She said that I'm the smartest guy she's ever met (and even admited to be a little intimidated because she is a "strong woman" and those things")
>We talked about our exes and I mention that I've had some "special friends" but never a real girlfriend
>She said "that's good, you shouldn't fall in love"
>fug, is she friendzoning me?
>fuck this, the other day I invite her to watch Zootopia
>"I don't like new disney movies"
>the next day "Someone invited me to watch Batman vs Superman, I need an excuse to tell him no, wanna watch that movie or no?"
Sorry for my shitty english but srsly guys, I don't really get this shit, sometimes I feel like she is giving me hints but then she talks some shit like "falling in love is for fools"
pic related?
>>36516163
she's insecure that your smv is getting higher.
You'll either have to let her go or have her keep pulling you down
>>36516524
just fuck her dude
wtf
wtf
>>36512701
4.5 years here, still waiting on lightning from the fingers.
Though to be fair the last time I had sex was enough to put me off it for a while.
Like... a long while.
>>36509241
I can guarantee you, if you keep distance from her, she will sooner or later crawl back to you.
That doesnt mean completely ignoring her, but you know no more invites and dates and such.
Its obvious she is thirsty. She is a woman, she cant control her desires like we men can do, she WILL crawl back to you
Ye got this fatty and there's nothing you can do about it.
>>36516677
You can't do better.
>>36516677
good on you
>>36516524
Pull away from a lil bit and she'll chase you
>>36516786
I need this hat
>>36506906
Livin the dream
>>36516865
Damn, that's actually a good advice.I'll try this, thanks my good man.
>>36511039
tricky situation bro. There might be a chance she just wants to work out with you.
I mean dont forget that its easy for girls to have dude friends.
Maybe wait a bit and see if she pushes more
>>36516677
>sausage fingers
>punchable face
>acdc poster
Yeah basically kill yourself my friend
>>36507489
i feel for you brah
ive been on like 3 dates in 3 weeks got 2 more next week, i cant handle it all this talking and being conversational is draining i just want to lift and be by my self most of the time, but it gets lonely and i want to eventually have a family so i know i have to stay after it.
making social gains is harder than lifting by a long shot.
>>36509699
> pls respond
>>36511148
christ is this how normies flirt
>>36514107
Put something in her inbox.
By something I mean your dick.
By inbox I mean hear pussy.
In effect, put your dick in her pussy.
>>36511253
>>36516524
In my experience "tomboys" are some of the worst girls you can date. They aren't as cool as some of your guy friends, and they lack the feminine warmth of any girlfriend. I dated a tomboy and I only got a lukewarm relationship experience out of it. I asked myself, am I really dating this girl? Am I just dating the idea of a tomboy?
Look, man, take this with a grain of salt. I'm just a guy on the internet sharing his opinions.
