I work out at my uni gym every morning at 6 am and have gotten pretty friendly with a lot of the other dudes that come in at that time. I'm a relative newbie at the gym and I have a lot of respect for how strong these guys are. Five plate deadlift, 3 plate bench, 225 clean and snatch, etc. A lot of them have great physiques too.
So why the fuck do I see these guys all clinging on to ugly as fuck, chubby girls outside of the gym? I was walking to class one afternoon and I see a guy who can DL over 500 pounds hanging onto some fat chick in a romantic way and I lost all respect for him. Why the fuck do you genuinely handsome guys date and fall in love with fat, disgusting girls? Is this my future?
>>36432254
If you cant see anything beyond physical appearance, you are an imbecile and are doomed to be unhappy for your whole life.
>>36432279
Good luck with Helga
>>36432279
That's partially true.
>>36432254
idk OP, maybe she gives a great head or loves anal?
Or maybe she's a good cook? There are many possibilities.
this reminds me of the curb your enthusiasm episode where larry invests in the car periscope because the inventor has an ugly wife. It shows character OP, you shouldn't be so shallow
>>36432279
Wouldn't it be ideal to have a woman who is beautiful, intelligent, unique, and interesting? Rather than just the personality?
>>36432254
It's because most dudes have shit standards. One of my friends genuinely swipes right on over half the girls he sees on tinder. I try to point out to him that they just aren't good looking, but he doesn't get it. He says I'm too picky
>>36432315
>women
>inteligent
bluepilled as fuck
Women don't think, they act on impulses and muh feelings.
>>36432327
Spoken like a true autist
>>36432317
Or he just likes to dick em.
What's wrong with dicking ugly chicks? Pussy is a pussy.
>>36432332
Experience, my young m'lady.
>>36432315
meh, you are just a kid. Dont worry, with time you will realize you are wrong.
>>36432315
Hahahaha
That's good
Fucking teenagers man
>>36432337
He doesn't though. All girls tell him he's too nice. He's a really good looking dude but he's just not the pipe laying type
>>36432254
pic related
>>36432254
i used to want a partner as gf, with dreams and personal goals, not a parasite
now i fuck anything with a hole in it
>>36432424
nothing wrong with being a homo
>>36432424
>>36432439
>having sex with human beings
>>36432254
you know, there are plenty of fit good looking guys but the vast majority of women are just UGLY FAT BITCHES. There just arent enough pretty girls for us all
>>36432254
V v strong yellow fever
>>36432406
>Fucking without the lights
Pleb, I want to watch my dick go inside my girl, that gets me off
>>36432254
Having dated a handful of extremely hot girls in college, I've got to say that it's true that they don't have as much personality as a less stunning-looking girl who was raised well and isn't just bitter about not being a ten.
Too many hot girls have lived their lives bouncing from man to man as the man's trophy and whole validation in life, with other men constantly trying to steal her off him. They live for the roller coaster of emotions that come along with this, and are basically addicted, always looking for the next thrill, even when they say they love you. That's a weird way to live and tends to focus your attention away from things like connecting on a more intimate level with a partner or developing skills and interests that don't have to do with men.
A lot of men with some life experience don't think this is worth it, EVEN IF THEY CAN DATE THE 10/10 because they will never trust her to calm down. Loyalty is far more important than looks.
>>36432254
It's like a hot lazy girl dating a rich guy
But the other way around
>>36432254
>fat disgusting ugly girls
Do you actually mean fat, disgusting, and ugly, or are you being hyperbolic to get inflammatory reactions?
You understand most normal and well adjusted men have their own tastes, and there aren't many looks that are "100% universally attractive". There are common themes that stem from evolutionary psychology, but you will never produce an image of a woman that makes literally every man say "that is exactly what I want. The idea that there is a universal golden standard for attractiveness comes with a simple mob mentality. I think a lot of things are attractive, but when I post my "ideals" here, I only show the most conventional one so that it doesn't start a shit storm. Most other men do this, which creates the illusion that there is this narrow criteria for what's attractive.
Why can't you just accept that other people make choices that not only maximize their happiness, but do not minimize yours?
>>36432505
>>36432254
Because being muscular doesn't do ANYTHING for men, looks wise. Not in the eyes of women anyway.
Most of those guys probably lack the things that matter; i.e. HEIGHT, FACE and FRAME. Sure, they may be covered in muscle, but unless that's not on top of a good base it doesn't do SHIT. Having said that, women would rather share Chad than each have one low/mid value man, so as a result it's harder for a guy to get a looksmatched girlfriend. If you're a 7/10 in 2016, you can at best expect a LTR with a 5/10.
>>36432702
Okay, trying to be as unbiased as possible, I'd say some of these girls are a 5 and most are a 3 or 4. I'm no great catch, I'm just surprised that these guys are dating beneath them.
>>36432337
>Pussy is a pussy
On the fast lane towards std's and child support.
>>36432315
Lol you sound like a teenage girl looking for her prince charming. That's cute
>>36432374
Wrong about wanting both looks and personality as opposed to just personality? They do exist, albeit rarely.
>>36432733
I appreciate that you wrote a reasonable response. This doesn't happen here that often any more.
I guess what I am saying is that this numerical system is a lot more subjective than people realize. What you consider a 3 or 4 might be a 6 or 7 to another man, based on what he wants in a woman. Not to mention, more mature men tend to look for more diversified women, and not just exlcusively looks. Having a gf who you can't have an intelligent conversation with is actually pretty boring to me (but may not be for some).
Again, what's important is that these men are making choices that (hopefully) make them happy. Sure, some guys get themselves trapped with someone they don't want, but that's their choice to deal with.
>>36432453
CMON
>>36432702
>Why can't you just accept that other people make choices that not only maximize their happiness, but do not minimize yours?
Teenage angst
>>36432625
>They live for the roller coaster of emotions that come along with this
fucking this
>>36432254
Because women don't give a fuck about how much you can lift. Being jacked or strong doesn't mean you'll get a qt 3.14 gf.
>>36432733
Dunno what you'd rather her, but my gf is far less glamorously hot than other girls I've dated, and yet she makes me feel the best, doesn't play games, goes to an elite medical school and shares a ton of my values and just enough of my tastes to keep interesting, and is down to try anything once both in and out of bed.
I wouldn't trade that loyalty and chill for ANY of the smokeshows I've known.
That's the best case though. I know a lot of fit guys who are just losers and can't get anywhere near hot girls if they want to.
>>36432315
>>36432254
Maybe these guys, although they are strong and big, have an introverted, awkward personality.
Or, in otherwords, spaghetti spilling autistic cucks.
For instance, most of /fit/
Social skills override everything OP
You can be a perfect chad and still not pull hot bitches because you're just too awkward.
>>36432254
>i lost all respect for him
Im pretty sure he isnt worried about what some DYEL thinks of him. Why are you so worried about where these man put their dicks?
>>36432254
Getting girls is all about social circle.
>>36432854
>You can be a perfect chad and still not pull hot bitches because you're just too awkward.
Do... Do you actually believe this?
No good looking guy is held back by "being socially awkward", because IF HE'S GOOD LOOKING ENOUGH THEN IT LITERALLY DOESN'T MATTER AT ALL.
Chad sits in the corner saying nothing, girls think he's "mysterious". You do the same and they call the police. LMAO. Face it, "personality" or "charisma" is DETERMINED ENTIRELY BY LOOKS.
Look at pic related. Which is the confident one?
>>>36432315
>>women
>>inteligent
>bluepilled as fuck
>Women don't think, they act on impulses and muh feelings.
Words of wisdom anons...never forget
>>36432933
I believe it. I've seen way to many hot girls with ugly dudes, and I've seen too many attractive dudes with mediocre or even ugly gfs.
>>36432933
>You do the same and they call the police
fucking LOL'd
>>36432315
Little bit of column A, little bit of column B
>>36432984
Hello 911, there's a weird guy who looks like the sandy hook shooter hanging out near the school
>>36432327
Lol it's time to leave the crusted tissues and go outside
when will /r9k/ stop ruining this board?
It sounds great to have a 10/10 but it usually comes at a price. Keeping a 10/10 is a fucking chore unless she's a unicorn. even if you are a 10/10 Chad, there's a host of other chads looking to steal your bitch and she knows that she can have them if she wants them. Less of a gamble getting with a 5/10.
>>36433066
What if he's a fit robot?
>>36432702
>Why can't you just accept that other people make choices that not only maximize their happiness
I agree with your post except for the last statement. If there's one thing I've learned about people it's that they do not try to achieve maximal happiness, but rather maximal happiness for minimal effort. At a certain point just about everyone believes that the small amount of extra happiness is not worth the metric fucktons of work you might need to do.
>>36432254
A woman who is a 10/10 in looks department and has a great personality and who is a good person is rare. A great personality and being a good person is more important than a pretty face or a fantastic booty to drown in.
Granted dating a hamplanet is a no-no.
Another thing to consider is that some of these guys you're attracted to have low self esteem, they don't seem themselves as being worth that hot gril or they are to scared to ask out a hot gril, for fear of getting burned.
Don't worry op, as you get older you'll become more wise maybe or you'll stay dumb forever.
>>36432933
>because IF HE'S GOOD LOOKING ENOUGH THEN IT LITERALLY DOESN'T MATTER AT ALL.
t. Ugly DYEL dude
>>36432315
lol what a dumb faggot, good luck finding a unicorn in the cabbage patch
>>36432717
>things that matter; i.e. HEIGHT, FACE and FRAME
Actually it's: face, dick size, wallet, ass
sorry to bring you back to reality
>>36432933
As long as you're attractive and actually approach women you will find a woman to sex. Just like how a retarded hot woman will always have dicks at the door.
>>36432505
This. Why would you fuck with the lights out? Unless I'm killing time during a blackout, I'm fucking with the lights on.
>>36432406
why would I fuck with the lights off? Is this some Al Bundy shit? I want to see her face as she blushes and moans from ecstasy and see her breasts gently go up and down.
>>36432979
Isn't that his mother?
>>36432254
>implying being a fat powerlifter is attractive to good looking girls
bitch they want someone lean with abs, not some fatass who can deadlift 600 lbs.
>>36433294
Nope. That's his wife.
>>36433281
Because I feel self-conscious and I don't like sex, really. Rather just masturbate to them when they're sleeping and stuffing it in their mouths when I'm ready to blow.
Lifting doesn't mean jack shit as far as getting quaility women. Money, status, personality and facial aesthetics are all more important.
>>36433331
Talk about Oedipus complex
>>36433352
This dude must be a poor janitor with the worst game in the world.
>>36433028
>>36433352
>>36433380
>living in america
>your girl is not morbidly obese
well technically speaking he got an above average chick right there m8s
>>36433380
is this bait? that's elliott hulse
>>36433392
>your girl is not morbidly obese
they call them "thick" or "high test" these days
>>36433352
He's ugly yo
>>36432717
None of that shit you listed matters if you don't have CONFIDENCE/CHARISMA.
"Chad" is successful because nothing gets in the way of his confidence and charisma.
>>36432315
Wouldn't it be ideal to be perfect? Yeah sure.
>>36433352
dude im pretty sure that's his mom
>>36433374
>>36433331
>be handsome up and coming young star
>marry a woman 22 years your senior who has two kids
>take her last name aswell
I think we found a new king of cuck.
>>36433331
ya blew it
>>36433950
do you newfags not know elliott or something? his ugly wife has been a meme here for years
From /arse/ with love
>>36432254
i'm a good looking fit guy and my wife is less attractive than i am. she isn't ugly or fat, but i could easily find a more attractive woman. but i don't want a more attractive woman. my wife treats me like a god because she knows she could never do better than me.
if you enter a relationship with someone who can do better than you, they will never stop trying to find someone better than you.
>>36432933
no, he's right anon
I look a lot like the guy on the right. I have straight autistic social skills though. While girls usually do think I'm the strong smysterious type, and no matter how creepy/ weird I feel like I'm acting people dont notice, I dont pull bitches. Literally none. Fuckin sucks.
>>36437415
i think you're either not as attractive as you say, or you don't actually want females as much as you think you may
When you're attractive you have a shit load of confidence, there is no "how do i know if im attractive", you know that you are. This then translate to your interactions with the opposite gender, unless you're
A. gay
B. not as confident (attractive) as you think are you
I can literally say any random ass autist shit to females and they will still fawn over me, i can be the biggest autist, mumble, stutter, and girls will think its adorable. That's just my experience/opinion, though
>>36437561
How does one know if they're attractive though? + attractiveness is very subjective for females
>>36433533
Can confirm.
It goes charisma>face>money>body for me
>>36432785
kek
>>36432933
I beg to differ I am a recovering fatty and I've had plenty of girls show interest . You know why ? Because I am funny, I'm straightforward , I don't let others people mindsets dictate how I behave, I am original, I am not shallow, I make them feel comfortable around me and I know how to listen. Alas, I've never had a gf why and I turned all the girls down be it in a subtle, awkward or hars way. You know why ? Because I have precisely 0 confidence and I am terrified of opening up emotionally to someone. The most important thing literally is confidence. Being a 10/10 across the board and not having confidence is like having a 10 incher and you can nevee get it hard.
>>36437415
Same here, people rate me 8/10 usually and call me attractive. It's really weird as there's girls who wave at me in clubs, girls try to hold my hand and take me places but I'm so fucked in the head I have no idea how to respond, I usually think along the lines of the girl is probably waving to someone behind me or some shit and it's stupid. I did somehow miraculously ask a girl out in a pretty decent way, wasn't nervous, was charming and confident and got the date easy, it's just from that point on I fucked up majorly haha.
>>36433388
seriously, are we not doing 'phrasing' anymore?
>>36432406
>lights out
>it just depends on how she feels and moves
Is that how fat tumblrinas imagine sex is like? Kek
>>36432315
you will never find a perfect woman, bro. if she's 10/10 she's probably fucked in the head and crazy
6-8/10 is where all the prime-gf material is, i hope you can accept that.
>>36432254
Some guys dicks get hard for great personalities
>>36432979
That shit is crazy.
Knocker her up with 2 kids.
>>36433380
she's white so in his mind he scored big time
>>36433352
nice try but thats gotta be his mom
Personally I'm pretty fit with not the best looking gf, don't get me wrong I obviously still find her attractive as fuck, has the cutest face in the world, it's just that her body could use a little work and she refuses to exercise. But I don't care THAT much as long as she doesn't balloon up too much, we click perfectly and read each others minds, that's hard to find, also the hotter a girl is usually the more batshit they prob are and less likely to be loyal, so I'm okay w not dating a 10/10
>>36432254
No, op if you want a hot chick you will have to devote time to find one (clubs, parties, network events, online dating ect..). If that is what you want then do it.
It sounds like your pro lifters are either tired of fing certain types of women or they want a deeper connection, the "fat" girls probably make them feel better.
ITT:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qh9ZZgDqzAg
>>36432406
Found the whale
>>36432254
Sexual Degradation.
/thread
>>36432327
this
>this thread
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wfxcihRDtpY
Enjoy
