Sexual Health Question
So I'm a 21 yo virgin. Not kissless, got pretty close a couple of times, but a combination of a lack of motivation and anxiety always fucked it up. A few months ago, I made a dating profile because I wanted to find a nice girl that I could start a relationship with. I wasn't necessarily interested in sex, but I want a few kids when I'm older, and my value as a sexual partner is quickly declining. So this girl and I match up. She says that she's 18, and I believe after talking to her that she's not underage. We have brief conversation, and I decide that she's a little too immature, and I tell her gingerly. She gets all pissy, and then pic related.
I made plans to meet her yesterday, but I couldn't make it because she lives across town and my car is in the shop.
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>>36187891
She's clearly insane, but she's an ebony goddess, and she wants my white meat staff. Would you?
tl;dr
>crazy black girl wants anal
>I'm a virgin
>not too autistic, might be able to lose it in the future
>is it worth it?
Sex is overrated but you need to get your vcard out of the way. Without much more context just go through with it, she sounds down. Once you've had sex you will be able to focus on more important things in life
>>36187898
What's the point of waiting? Your first time is gonna be a shit show no matter what, might as well get it over with. Unless it's for religious or moral reasons but judging by your conversation I'm gonna assume that isn't the case. Who gives a fuck if a hole is mature or not good lord what is your dick a scholar?
>>36187926
>sex is overrated
Okay low test lol
OP should be banned for this thread.
>>36187898
It's not, you might get some shit STD which may cause issues for you, or your future gf/wife.
>>36187926
>>36187936
I'm not waiting, I understand that I should get it out of the way. I'm just really worried about getting stabbed, robbed, or my dick bitten off.
>>36187956
Shit son bring a gun or a knife or something. You're a man, if you can't overpower a woman you shouldn't be worried about fuckin' em anyway.
>>36187942
>Okay low test lol
virgin detected. sex is good but is well overhyped
>>36187956
Meet her in public first then. You should do that anyway to sus her out
>>36187968
I have a CCP, I was going to bring a gun. But this whole scenario is just insane. She called me and we talked for a half hour yesterday. She seems way too obsessed with a guy that she first talked to on Friday.
>>36187997
Motherfucker life is insane. Embrace it. Bring your gun, meet in public, leave if you feel sketched out at any point. It's not that hard of a situation to figure out. Just don't be stupid.
Also you're gonna find a lot more insane girls in your life, this is just the tip of the iceberg son. Especially if you're aesthetic/attractive.
>>36187891
18 is a perfect age for a girl to fool around with.
Get your car and meet up with her, wear a rubber and get your dick wet anon. Have fun. Give away that v card.
It's intense your first time, but you'll realize that the way hollywood and porn plays it up is not the same as it is between two real people and don't try to imitate either, just be in the moment and do what comes natural.
Just remember to wear a condom during casual sex anon and don't ever listen to a girl who tells you "you don't have to wear one just pull out" and don't trust a girl who tells you shes on birth control unless you are committed to each other and know for sure.
>>36187898
really bad idea my friend
>>36188044
Listen to this guy. My ex told me 'not to worry about it' and now I have a 14 months old daughter.
>>36188026
>>36188044
Good advice, guys. Thanks. Should I treat her like a prostitute? Should I put my mouth on her vagina?
>>36188072
Assess the situation when you meet her. And no. Definitely not. Herpes is forever and eating a girl out is not worth that shit.
>>36188072
Do not out mouth on vagina
I repeat.
DO NOT PUT MOUTH ON VAGINA!!!
>>36188091
>>36188127
Isn't kissing a girl about the same amount of risk?
>>36188140
Dude if you're as hot as she says you are and this worried just go find another girl who doesn't spook you so much.
>>36188171
I'm the blue.
>>36188186
PSA guys. I'm the blue.
>>36188186
Shit my bad. Kissing does hold risk but not nearly as much as the genital area.
Personally, I wouldn't do it. Don't trust these hoes. Getting your v card out the way is neat, but not if the cost is some nasty ass disease. If you're not too autistic why not find someone who doesn't seem so shady and just fuck em? Not necessarily a relationship, more like a fwb.
>>36188228
But this has no work involved. Damn. My brain says no, my dick says fuck yeah.
>>36188283
There's gonna be a lot of that in life man. Follow your brain, it was made for thinking. Your dick wasn't. After you bang for the first time you're gonna wonder why anyone gives a fuck about who's still a virgin.
>>36187898
Bad idea. Don't stick your dick in crazy.
>>36189076
I've heard the mantra. She lives an hour away from me, doesn't know my full name, and only has my phone number. Is it really that bad?
like you do relise that you must eat her ass out right. and if you have no experience i wouldnt recommend jumpstarting to anal. ask her or fool her into just fucking a few times and you better learn quick otherwise she will catch on and you will either be in jail or in your basement again masturbaiting.
Does ZMA help with morning wood?
>>36187891
you started the conversation with "You're hot as fuck" and you're calling her immature? bro she is 18, and you're 21. With that being said do you really think you're super mature? you're 21.
>>36187898
>black girl
>anal
>redundantly mentioning crazy as if any nigger isn't crazy
You're gonna catch an STD and you're gonna have nigger shit dick.
>>36189653
I don't want to start off with anal. I know that it takes a lot of preperation.
>>36189677
That was midway through the conversation. I told her that I didn't want a relationship with her, and she asked why. She didn't believe me when I said it was because she was too young.
>>36189733
I'm seriously considering calling it off at this point.
>>36189659
A little bit. It mostly improves the volume of your load. That pic of anon who explained how to increase your cum is true
21yo kissless virgin but I've been lifting for ages.
Trying tinder but I've got no clue what I would do if I actually met up with a girl. I can't even remember the last I spoke to a girl my age for more than 10seconds, let alone kissed.
Anyone had similar predicament and came out other end?
>>36187891
Not him but also virgin: What condom size should I buy if a girl ever touches my dick?
6x5 inches dicklet here. I-Is that enough for a girl not to laugh?
>>36189957
You're fine anon. Just buy regular. Practice putting them on so you don't look like a sperge lord tho. Muh dick is 6" and not a complaint yet. It's more about girth unless you're like 3" long.
what in the fuckin world???
How to get random erections again? My test is fine.
>>36187981
>sex is good but is well overhyped
Idk what you were expecting m8, but I think sex is pretty damn awesome
>>36189821
I was an 18 year old virgin with absolutely zero "game." Very bad social anxiety, especially with girls. It just took me finding a slut who would do most of the work for me. Just had to contain spaghetti and follow along. drugs and alcohol are a viable option at first.
How much would it cost to hire a pornstar?
Im not a virgin, but I got diagnosed with lung cancer (dad was a heavy smoker, second hand got me) and fucking a pornstar is on my bucket list
>>36190142
Varies alot. Sorry to hear you are sic, m8.
>>36190142
Tbh senpai you can get it for free if you play it right.
Make your way to soacil media, publish the list, sooner or later someone should contact you, or you do so. Maybe let them film it, the porn star would get her share of fame from fucking a dude with death sentence,
Think about it, kind of like a movie star visiting a dying kid and inviting a flock of journalists.
>>36188072
Never eat a random girl out anon, reserve that shit for girlfriends whom you know are clean
>>36189653
>mfw my first sexual experience was anal with my cousin when I was 14
Wasn't very good, but it wasn't bad either I suppose
>>36190234
tell us more
>>36190262
nothing special desu m8, just experimenting teens
no homo tho
>>36190005
>girth
Yeah about that. Mine looks so fucking thin. And I'm a tall skinnyfag...
>>36187898
>ebony
>goddess
Stop tricking yourself into thinking the only girl that ever gave you attention is actually hot, don't be a fucking degenerate anon
How to do NoPorn?
I try to walk without it but I can't think of any good shit.
>So I'm a 21 yo virgin
After reading those texts, yeah, I wonder why.
>>36190565
Fuck her right in the pussy
>>36190335
>c-can someone comment on my girth?
>>36190535
Personal correspondence is always weird to read third second hand. It's all about context.
>>36187898
She's not insane, your background is just different than hers. Get with her, black bitches love, love fit white men
>>36190335
It's a penis. Stop worrying. Gosh kids these days think too much. You got 6 inches, now get in there and wiggle that worm. If it doesn't work jam a finger in there. Most girls don't get off with just a dick, some don't ever even get off with sex at all. Just find what gets her off and do it, stop stressin brah.
>>36190882
nah it's not. You sound really fucking cringe-worthy over text.
You should never lay it out like that cause she'll feel like a slut. Best is to use any blanket excuse to bring her to your place. Ya'll both know what that means.
Honestly I have no idea besides her being crazy and desperate why she even continues to respond to you
>>36191046
I thought it was pretty clear from the thread that I'm trying to not fuck her, and let her down easy.
>>36191080
Not him but why? You barely know her. Tell her to fuck off and block her number problem solved. It's not like ya'll developed a deep and intense relationship. Or just ghost her. You don't owe her jack shit man don't let her emotionally stress you out.
>>36191040
S-so I take that as my girth is alright?
Th-thanks familiar
>>36187898
>ebony goddess
enjoy herpes
>>36191040
Also vibrators are goat for notches that can't get off through penetration
>>36191173
Make her cum and I promise you she won't give a fuck less about your dick girth. Also listen to >>36191194 there's a lot more to be done than thrust in and out. Go get you sum boi. But make sure she gets it too.
>>36191242
Thanks brah. I'll make you proud
what you have to do when you are a virgin is pretend like you aren't and don't tell her unless she asks you point blank. You may make a fool of yourself your first time but who cares, you won't be a virgin anymore and you'll finally have some calm feelings about the whole sex situation. Just go for it.
>>36191103
You're right, but she's nuts. She's trying to sex me into a relationship. She's nuts and I'm naive.
I haven't responded to her text in 4 hours. I'll probably just ghost her.
>>36191307
>calm feelings about the whole sex situation
Ha! that's a joke.
>>36191312
If you have yourself a bit of conscience and ghosting seems rough, let me tell you she seems like a fuckin maneater. I'd bet money that you're not the only guys she's tryna dick ride no matter what she tells you.
>>36187891
I dont care how far in text you were but this is the most desperate shit i have seen i can smell your desperation right now no wonder u dont get laid you got no game
>>36191327
emphasis on SOME, the first time is always the worst. I held a friend lose his v card last summer and he banged like 3 girls the year after so it does help.
post pic so i can see this ebony goddess and i'll tell everything u need
>>36191493
sigh...it was too nice wihtout /pol/ but welp..
>>36191519
this
>>36187891
SOMEONE POST MORE TINDR PICS PLSSS
>>36191846
Should I see a doctor if my balls gone black?
>>36192184
What do you think?
Guys I cant seem to cum when a girl is doing anything to my peepee. I maintain an erection but no matter how close I get i never finish. I (kinda) had sex for the first time last night but I only got the head in and she started bleeding all over the place.
I jack off like once a day but it doesn't seem unhealthy or like an addiction. My girl does a damn good job too, but my darn willy won't die. Is there something I can do/take to make me super horny?
>>36192240
stop watching porn.
How to get through the flatline without wanting to off myself?
>>36192240
>peepee
are you 12?
>>36192130
never knew people who don't know each other actually talk like this
>hi dtw
>lol k whats ur numb?
>>36192423
>>36192130
looks like a north american/canadian thing. No way this would work in europe sadly
rofl do you really want to be with a girl that is so willing to give up anal? have some respect bruh.
>>36192240
It's subconscious shit. I went through that with 5 or 6 chicks before my current gf.
Figure out what's fucking with you and deal with it. In my case it was worry about making a mess and being less experienced
>>36192423
>>36192508
It only works if you're aesthetic as fuark
>>36193338
>too dumb to realize you're getting catfished.
/fit/ makes so many of you delusional.
>>36192184
That just means you are a nigger
