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Found some sexts between my girl and her abusive ex from before we met. It's affecting my gains to the point I've put on a couple of pounds and skipped the gym. I can't see anything she does without thinking of her doing sexual shit to that guy. How do I remove the cuck thoughts and get back to my gains /fit/?
>cuck meme
Use a shotgun
>>36092818
Dominate her in the bed room
>>36092832
how? my dick gets soft when I try to dominate her like I don't even believe in myself
>>36092818
you have to demote her to the status of occasional hookup. if you stay in the relationship it will sap your masculinity and turn you into a boy
>>36092836
Don't make it about getting off, make it about establishing dominance
>>36092840
yeah or gay
>>36092840
we live together pretty much. well not really since she pays for nothing
>>36092858
have I gone too deep? I get hard thinking about someone else fucking her. I don't like these thoughts I want them to leave
>>36092873
o fuk
might be time to end it buddy
>>36092879
can I even come back from it? I don't want the same thing happening to my next relationship either. It sucks because I get so demotivated from improving myself that I fulfill my fears of being inadequate.
>>36092892
yeah you can come back from it. this happened to me when I was 20. 24 now and its a distant memory. take control of your life and chuck her out. also, don't go straight into another relationship, play the field for a year
>>36092910
you just seem insecure. work on that and maybe dump this girl. she's stupid enough to stay in an abusive relationship anyway
>>36092818
You need to change your perspective on sexual control. I would recommend reading a book called sex at dawn. What your feeling is a societal based guilt. I would prescribe fucking her extra hard to forget about it.
>>36092892
Every girl you will ever bang will have gotten an orgasm from another man. She found him sexy and desirable. She needed his powerful cock.
>>36092927
I know she has. It's just that this guy abused her and he went back to her one time to sext. I feel emasculated. Plus she's a total bitch sometimes taht even her family tells me I'm so patient with her. Why don't I just leave her? She's crazy. I sometimes want her to just leave me for someone else.
>>36092920
I think I should just fuck her hard. She has had more sexual experience than me.
>>36092910
can you tell me more about your relationship? I wanna compare
>>36092968
Met her in a bar, instantly entranced by her magnetism. I was inexperienced and she was extremely experienced even though we were same age, but she hid it. Not maliciously but she played down the fact she was a party girl. We dated for a while but she got bored of me because I was sexually boring and not outgoing, but she was a good person so didn't want to cheat. But it turned out she did cheat on me a load of times with various exes, sometimes just for free drugs. When I found out it tore me apart for about a year but eventually I matured and saw that I couldn't be angry at her for being who she is. Now I like to stay single out of choice, but have 3 women I'm seeing on a casual basis. I still love her and will always have a soft spot for her even though she is a cheating bitch and we could never be together again. It's like a zen feeling of acceptance
>>36093015
as an addendum, my experience tells me she is almost certainly cheating on you. but in time youll realise its not a big deal. one day in the future you will be the guy the hot slut is cheating with. the cycle continues etc
>>36093025
I doubt she is. I just think she wants something more than me (bigger dick, fitter body)
>>36092968
girls always exaggerate their abusive boyfriend. The more of a monster he is, the more she is not over him.
>>36092818
>Found some sexts between my girl and her abusive ex from before we met
Literally ultimate beta.
Wtf did the texts say that shook you so bad?
Also, once these fears and doubts creep into your mind there is no way to get rid of them. You must terminate the relationship. I hate to be the voice of reason here, but your relationship isn't going to work out.
Any girl who was once in an abusive relationship is damaged goods and there's almost no potential for long term dating.
>>36092818
Go whoop his ass and tell the bitch shes next if you see that shit again
I fell for a girl. Too open between us. Told each other about our past relationships, sex, orgasms, every thing. Couldn't look at her the same knowing another guy made her hot, horny, & orgasmed.
I know I'm insecure. Just realizing I can't be open with anyone about our pasts.
>>36092968
I have a bitch who's been texting my friend 3 times now after I told her to stop each time. Girls just do that shit. I stopped dating after I went to the UK with some buds, and a girl literally told me sleeping with other people is "ok" overseas
>>36092818
Dump her.
>>36092818
your gf has taken tons of dick before you
now how do you feel? cause thats just the truth.
>>36092873
>we live together pretty much. well not really since she pays for nothing
>she pays for nothing
So you are a cuck literally and figuratively
>>36094652
Because she slept with other men before meeting him? Total cuck /s
>>36092818
Feel ya OP, got cucked myself, worst feeling ever
Get rid of the slag and remind yourself you'll die someday
>>36094672
because he's letting some dumb slut(apparently, still his gf) stay at his place while sexting her ex
I once had a gf (who had just broken up with her ex for me) who was hanging out with me at my place. saw her get a text from her ex, and she didnt want me to see, so i told her it's fine, but we can't be together anymore, and broke up with her
>>36093904
I was curious about her past life. I wanted to make sure I knew who I was dating. Is this beta?
>>36093929
She just sent him dirty pics and dirty talk. One of the sexts was about how she liked cum in her and I know she doesn't like swallowing my cum. She says she rather have me cum insider her pussy so that's where I end up cumming. There's no chance of her getting pregnant so I don't mind.
>>36094380
He's more muscular than I am and I have an actual career to think about then to waste my time fighting some dick.
>>36094601
Did you leave her?
>>36094627
bad, but hasn't everyone had sex with someone else?
>>36094652
I feel like one. I'm a full time student who works and she's a NEET. I've been trying to get her a job but she used to have a "I shouldn't work I'm a girl" mentality. I put up with it for a few months but now that I'm trying to get my future together I told her to find some work, so she's been looking.
>>36094704
I want her to leave me honestly.
>>36094754
She's not sexting him or anyone as far as I know.
>>36092818
You fucked up so bad kek
It's never ever ever going away.
What if his dick was better, brah, and when she closes her eyes when you fuck she's thinking of it?
>>36092818
Dump the bitch.
If she's sexting, it's likely that she's done other stuff.
Don't give her a lecture or explanation, tell her it isn't working and she has to find her own place within two weeks.
>>36096645
>From before we met
Never mind then.
Still if you can't handle it, get out
>>36092818
if i were you i would drop her
>>36096686
why? wouldn't it be the same problem for my other relationships?
>>36092818
Kick her out.
>not cutting all contact apart from a single "I'm breaking up" text
>not stonewalling her
>not replying eventually in a few months for a hatefuck and then cutting contact again
You beta frog fuck.
>>36096613
Are you a fucking retard? You're dating this girl and she doesn't have a job? Do you pay all the bills?
She use to like her ex cumming in her mouth but doesn't like you doing the same? Her ex was "abusive"? No dude, her ex was alpha and now she's an alpha widow. She's using you as a safe bet because you're acting like a chump financing her life.
Fuck her hard and lay down some new rules about how it's going to be or dump her and move on
>women
>>36092818
>abusive ex
lmao, I bet he's "Crazy" too.
If you can't be first, be best.
If you can't be best, don't ever bother trying to be last.
The fact every, single, one, of humanities cultures across the world prized virgins isn't a coincidence Anon and it's not just for child bearing.
Women are a bundle of poorly controlled emotions, and sex is a huge source of emotion for them. You'll never meet a woman emotionally intelligent enough to detangle the sex emotions from the person.
>>36096713
>why? wouldn't it be the same problem for my other relationships?
Why? Because i dont want to be a cuck.
i dont know, try to find not whore. This thread is bate.
Ok OP, im only posting because i had the exact same problem before i got past it so heres the thing.
Not all girls you fuck/date are all gonna be virgins.
In this life, we need to think about the present and future, not the past. It was hard for me to get past this cuck meme but the thing is, it only applies if shes fucking someone else in the present or in the future.
Not from the past.
So you have to make a "ok im over it" mentallity about her ex dicks or it will keep eating at you. Trust me, it took me a long ass time to get past this feeling, but i said "fuck it" finally and ive felt so much better from it.
Its time to let her past go OP.
This thread is
Beta people complaining about Beta problems.
Be like me instead:
> Be 26
> Have qt3.14 gf that is 21
> Have qt3.14 fuckbuddy that is 16 (legal in my country)
I'm not even joking
>>36096909
OP doesn't have the stones to do any of this
>>36097088
See, I even get trips when I post kek.
My gf had one sexual partner before me. My fb was a virgin. Nothing to complain, nothing to compare
>>36097060
Dont listen to this retard. The fact that she's already cheated on you MULTIPLE times means she will probably do it again and should be the sign to move on. Quit being cucked you fool.
>>36097111
>cheated on you
>she was obligated to be monogamous to you before she even knew of your existance
Wt f
>>36092836
then you're a beta faggot and she should get back with her ex
>>36097088
>26 year old giving life advice
Think back to when you were 19 and thought you had everything figured out for real this time.
I hope your good luck lasts Anon but shit will fuck up.
My recommendation is to build more redundancy into your system. One main and one side girl is good, but have an orbit of beta shy girls into you too. That way if something goes wrong you have a ready built support network to fuck, who otherwise won't make the first move.
Likewise, have avenues lined up for replacements for both the main and side girl. Girls you meet on nights out, in the gym, at work, wherever, keep their numbers, keep them at arms reach.
Otherwise good job, bruh, you're well on your way.
Also big ups for the teen pussy. My last fwb was 17 (legal here and in her home country) and shit was cash. Hard to go back to 20 somethings after it, so I haven't.
>>36094601
I did this, but I have a larger than average dick, and nothing she has hard can compare to me. It's a real confidence booster.
>>36097119
Oh sorry senpai I didn't know they weren't together at that time
> Still though that fact she lived in his home and didn't even bother paying shows how much she cares about the relationship kek
>>36097161
>tfw you are perpetually the biggest cock a girl has ever had
>>36097088
33 y-o here
your relationship with your gf is shit because you can't be 100% honest with her. Dump her or quit sleeping with another grill.
Pussy's pussy. You should know that by now since you're 26
>>36097242
>your relationship with your gf is shit because you can't be 100% honest with her.
Bullshit. You're projecting pop culture relationship analysis onto him.
>>36092836
>I don't even believe in myself
Holy shit my sides
>Took a girl home
>Can't get hard
JUST
>if a girl even touches me I'm immediately half chub
I'm always ready to fucking rock
>>36097400
I was once 16 as well.
>>36097386
>Finally get myself hard
>Time to put on a condom
>By the time I put it on I'm soft
>>36097152
You know your shit compadre.
All younglings in this thread (including me) should take this advice to heart.
When you're young you can fool around and have fun. Only when YOU yourself are ready to settle down, then you can cut down the side bitches
>>36097415
im 22 I just have healthy T levels boyo
>>36097485
Getting hard from a girl putting her hand on you at 22 is not "healthy T levels", bro...
>>36097503
>what is exaggeration
obviously im not diamonds shaking hands. but im not everyone else in this thread who can't get hard while getting blown
>be in a really nice relationship with a girl who lives an hour away
>always drive to come see her every weekend
>we have sex, play vidya and give each other massages, even invites me to her parents house for Christmas
>wanna marry this girl
>her birthday rolls around
>says shes going to her parents house for the weekend cus they wanna hang
>believe her
>she comes back sunday afternoon, we talk on the phone and shes getting mad over everything for no fucking reason
>immediately know somethings up
>go on her fb
>picture of fat mexican guy (not saying this out of anger or jealousy, legit 3/10 guy) holding a cake
>"thank you for the amazing birthday weekend, dear" commented from said girl
>destroyed, crushed, devastated, rekt
>call her and confront her, she tries to lie and there isnt a shred of guilt in her tone
>tell her I know shes dating him as a fact because it says it on his fb
>"we werent technically dating anyways and you never listen to me"
>tell her Ill never talk to her again
>delete all of my social media, block her on everything, change my phone number, throw away everything she bought for me
>100% dead inside
>will never recover
I seriously want to fucking die. Nothing was even wrong. I dont even know how she found time to find another boyfriend. We were always together.
>>36097536
ON
TO
THE
NEXT
ONE
>>36097574
what if there isnt a next one bro? Im not the best looking guy, and I find it really hard to get along with people. I genuinelly considered her perfect. What if Im alone for the rest of my life?
>>36097103
>trips
Those were dubs though anon
>>36097615
>I genuinelly considered her perfect
well obviously not because she cheated on you with a fat beaner. She's clearly prone to rash, poorly thought out decisions and this trait will haunt her until she either matures or dies.
>what if there isnt a next one bro?
fear is the mind killer bro
>What if Im alone for the rest of my life?
you probably won't be, and certainly won't be if you leave your self pity wallowing cocoon mode and get out there. It's a big, beautiful world full of beautiful people and you would be shocked how many want to put your cock in their mouth.
>>36097615
Then that's too fucking bad. You have family right? How about friends? You honestly don't need a bitch. Get comfy being alone and never trust womyn. They're all hoors.
If you find a good one, then that's nice. But don't trust her until you're 5 years into marriage with a kid.
>letting a woman ruin your life
Women are a fun hobby you pursue on the side, like restoring classic cars or riding motorcycles. They're fun, but you can't let it consume your life.
If you feel that bad about it, just cuck her and fuck an escort to get even.
>>36097686
UNWARRANTED
SELF
IMPORTANCE
>>36094672
>/s
Holy shit go back to your containment website
>>36097536
Look You need to realize that females will always have other options because other desperate thirsty guys are constantly talking to them waiting for any opportunity to appeal to her feelings.
Nothing you can do abt that.Move on find a new girl who's healthy and doesn't fall for that shit
god bless
>>36097686
aren't u the ugly black guy from /tv/
>>36097750
That's Krager
I'm the cool funny handsome guy
>>36097674
>>36097677
I-I can still make it?
>>36096613
You guys both sound like fucking losers destined for each other, holy fuck
Bros i love that girl... Havent seen her for a while now and it sucks. I was never an emotional guy and never treated or thought about girls this way but this one is different. She makes my feelings come back and im no longer dead inside. Shes my light and holding her in my arms is the best feeling in the world. She feels different, she tastes different, even sex is meaningful with her. Cant wait to see her again
>>36097386
>>36097434
Fucking this.
Guess I'll have to stop jerking with death grip, and drink less when taking someone home.
