Has anyone tried Bumble, I got a specific question no one here probably knows but how active are the matches you see? Like a day or two ago or is it from weeks back and not active at all
shill somewhere else
>>35620507
>women have to message first
only the top 20% of men on tinder actually get with women. and even then most of them have to make a decent effort to get their girls attention.
unless you're a goddamn supermodel don't expect anything
>>35621223
what if you've got abs
>>35620507
I use bumble.
>>35621223
girls message me all the time.
Im not sure what your question is.
Some of my matches are pretty active, depends where you are.
Bumble is pretty popular where I live.
>>35621259
you actually meet with any of these girls?
>>35621244
Skelly abs don't count.
>>35621277
no a little above skelly abs.
>>35621272
Yes?
Ive been on a couple of bumble dates, but honestly most girls on those apps are a bit nuts.
I have a gf now(only couple months) so i dont use them anymore
>>35621286
post pics of girls you've gone out with or talking to right now please
>>35620507
>an app exclusive to less than 40% of all smartphone in the market
Call me when there is an android version and even then don't call me because this shit is dead in the water until women grow some balls.
>>35621334
Scratch that. I see they finally made it.
>>35621305
I dont really have any?
I deleted my apps and I'm not posting a pic of my gf here.
Heres some random screencaps
>>35621364
are you 10/10 and how well did tinder work for you
>>35621305
Heres another one?
idk pretty much all the girls ive met on dating apps have been fucking nuts, but thats only because I only respond to the crazy ones who look like I could fuck easy.
Having a gf you actually like is way better.
>>35621377
Im objectively a pretty good looking guy yes.
uhh tinder worked ok? I got tons and tons of matches but I didn't bother messaging that many of them. Too much effort, and I don't really like casual sex that much. Mostly just used tinder because it was fun matching girls.
>>35621379
>Having a gf you actually like is way better.
y-yea totally b-bro
>>35621387
lemme ask you this, did casual sex get boring after a while then? Do you not crave nice girls anymore?
>>35621396
I just focused on myself, focused on being friendly and outgoing to people, and eventually it happened. Start talking to a random girl at the gym, convo wasnt forced at all, wasnt even hitting on her, she just seemed cool. She offers me her number. We text, i dont have to try and spit game, before I know it we are dating.
Just focus on you and itll happen.
>>35621414
you realize you're giving the "just be yourself and look like bradd pitt" advice here
You fucking idiots this is an obvious SHILL THREAD
Op is a fake ass SHILL
Everything he's posting screams marketing material.
"Tell em you got a gf now and don't even use it no more, that'll make em trust you're not a shill. They all dream of gfs, this will make the dumb fish believe they can get gfs thru my bullshit"
-Jews
>>35621398
Yes it did and I didnt like fuck tons of girls, like 10-15.
Idk I dont drink or use drugs anymore so casual sober sex is just weird to me, like the whole process of it is just weird and it's never that good because you don't know how the girl is in bed yet.
>>35621432
but I'm op and that wasn't me and he got a gf from the gym no through the app, you're all wrong here
>>35621436
DAMAGE CONTROL DAMAGE CONTROL
DONT LET THE GOYIM CATCH ON SCHLOMO
>>35621432
I didnt meet my gf on bumble jesus christ.
but bumble is very popular, its seen as less pervy and more professional that tinder.
>>35621429
I mean whatever, i don't really give a fuck if you get a GF or not, this isn't r9k.
What I am saying is girls can sense desperation. Focus on being like the best version of you that you can be, that might not be that much, but that's all you can do. Then being outgoing and friendly to everyone, not just girls.
You don't have to take my advice, I could give a fuck.
>>35621447
bumble is free you fucking tard, im not even sure how they monetize it.
Op, you could also check out Hinge. I had one of those for a while as well. Never met a girl on there, but matched a lot, and apparently its good. A lot of my friends like it.
>>35621364
>let me buy you dinner
you fucking cuck
>>35621485
lol
A.
im rich. so i dont care.
B. I bought her dinner, she let me put it in her ass.
so like whatever?
>>35621467
i have no facebook friends so no
>>35621499
did you mention being rich on your profile?
>>35621504
Ahh then yeah it wont work.
>>35621499
you're still acting like a beta
if you want to pay for pussy just get an escort and avoid all the pointless conversation
>>35621514
no?
It doesnt really matter anyway, all the girls ive dated even from dating apps have been uppermiddle class to very wealthy(more so then me).
>>35621522
yeah ok man.
let me know how your life goes.
Im doing pretty good.
>>35621545
you're here, bragging on a cambodian sewing forum
I doubt your life is as great as you claim it is
>>35621522
Also as to why I offered to buy that girl dinner specifically.
I dont drink anymore, but I go to a huge party school and this girl is obviously a party girl so i don't want to lead with me not drinking. Instead I just offered to buy her dinner instead of meeting her at a bar.
>>35621558
you're letting people use you
rich or not, that makes you the bitch of the relationship
>>35621364
Damn. I wish I lived in a city big enough for these apps to actually work
I also wish I was attractive ;_;
>>35621549
no it is.
It wasn't always good. I started browsing 4chan as a wierdo 8th grader. Got into playing sports in HS, learned not to wear black all the time or talk about the internet. Made tons of friends, drank all the time and got fat, then moved over to /fit/ freshman year of college and now i look fucking aesthetic.
I'm just bored waiting to go to sleep and im a narcissist, I like bragging but just because I'm bragging doesnt mean im not right.
>>35621586
you're trying to impress autists on 4chan
you're not only not special, you are also insecure.
but hey, whatever you say.
>>35621593
you seem to be the insecure one if you were so offended by his bragging.
>>35621499
ALPHA
L
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A
srsly tho why are you on this beta ass site? This is a place for sad cunts and edgelords. Once you make it your're not suppose to come back here
>>35621566
No lol. You spend money to have fun.
Going to a nice restaurant with a pretty girl is fun, I will pay for the pleasure of that and it's a gesture. It's chivalrous or whatever. Sure, she could afford to pay, she could pay for both of us, or at least her daddy would but it's the gesture thats important.
I probably spend like 60 max on that dinner, that's not exactly a lot and I had sex after which was good. But she was also fucking crazy, so it was a one time thing.
>>35621605
just saying
you know the difference between old money and new money?
people with old money dont need to brag, they know they are good. people with new money need to show off or brag, cause they are insecure.
besides, ever see the people posting in CBT threads? they are 6/10's that claim to be fucking 10/10 qts. reality is, they are ugly people fucking ugly girls, they are naturally biased.
so I really dont care when people "brag" on /fit/.
>>35621608
cuz its funny man.
and I am also like into fitness. I mostly just lurk plg. I was a weird kid, I can relate but I changed myself and i do think others can as well.
ITT: BETAS JELLY AS FUCK CUZ A RICH GUY GETS LAID AND THEY DON'T
BOOHOO DAMAGE CONTROL INC
>>35621627
>spending money to get laid
>jealousy
it's called prostitution, anon
>>35621499
But she never gave her number
>>35621618
This is anonymous. I would never speak like this in public, mostly because these things are already understood by the people I associate myself with.
I would never have to explain how you pay for dinner to someone I know in real life.
>>35621646
I was actually friends with her already on facebook. we continued our convo there.
I have some other screen caps, but they are of me actively trying to avoid going out with this girl(although she eventually convinces me) because I knew she was gonna be nuts and i was correct.
>>35621648
why spend any money at all on a tinder whore?
a girl you date, sure. but a slut? what for? have some standards at least.
>>35621660
Lol sure brah sure
>>35621662
because its just fucking money. jesus.
who cares?
>>35621670
here i guess?
>>35621679
>having integrity means nothing
k, enjoy paying for whores then
>>35621618
You sound like a retard, dude. Reread the thread, the guy got pressured like four times to show his matches and discuss the girls. He honestly didn't even want to. Then, assuming you're the same anon, you say "buying a girl dinner is beta"...like, lol... I know /fit/ fancies themselves experts on women despite their lack of success, but this is some pretty heavy retardation. Taking a girl out to dinner is pretty common for getting to know each other, especially with a couple of drinks thrown in. If you vibe it's very easy to transition into sex that same night. What's your plan, whip off your shirt in public and let your "lol 10/10 facial aesthetics" just have every girl in a ten mile radius show up to suck your dick?
>>35621642
>not getting laid
>ever
It's called you. And you're salty as fuck.
>>35621692
Shit son, you just played your hand. 6/10 for making people respond.
>>35621694
no, it's called having standards
enjoy being used by women though, you cuck.
>>35621642
but buying a girl dinner isn't paying for sex
and even if it were, you sound like you couldn't get a girl to sleep with you if you bought her a car
>>35621660
>>35621646
Bahaha right on anon, I've fucked a girl without ever getting her number as well. Good ol spur of the moment after work with the hot front desk chick
>>35621717
spending money with the intention of getting laid != spending money to get laid?
interesting logic
let me guess, you bought her dinner just for the good conversation
LOL
stop bullshitting.
>>35621690
part 2?
>>35621693
thank you. I really dont get the big deal. I'm not saying im particularly good with women, I'm not terrible but a lot of my friends are better. plus these girls arent even hot, I only saved screen caps from the crazy ones and I deleted my apps now that I'm in a relationship.
>>35621662
>>35621692
>>35621715
IS THIS YOU?
>>35621733
Wait, are you not a troll?
Dude, get some friends. You sound jaded as fuck. Yes, you can buy somebody dinner for *gasp*, the experience. You're trying too hard to sound alpha with this "I only use girls for sex" shit. Nobody is really like that. I really doubt you experience any success at all with women.
>>35621736
Fuck dude, what do you look like?
This girl sounds like I sound trying to get a date, desperate as fuck
>I've literally said, "come on, an hour won't ruin your studying"
>>35621733
That isnt me.
and honestly yeah, I would have gone to dinner with her and paid and been ok with not having had sex if it was a fun date.
Getting dinner with a pretty girl is fun, talking to them is fun, being around them and being seen with them is fun.
There is more to being with women than just sex dude. Sex isnt that big of a deal.
>>35621733
Tell me more about how to get women anon. You sound Sooooo experienced.
>>35621747
I see, i'm a fedora cause I think it's bad that you let girls use you for free dinners.
cool logic, bro.
well hey, that's your choice. enjoy being a wallet for girls, I guess? I mean, some people don't mind being exploited. ignorance is bliss, right? :)
>>35621758
Obviously my tinder profile doesnt have this picture on it, but it does have a couple beach pics. and a shirtless pic from when I was backpacking in the desert.
>>35621748
stop projecting, please.
>the experience
you're telling me with a straight face you go to dinner with stupid girls, without the intention of sleeping with them?
doesn't make much sense. that's like investing money without getting a return on your investment.
>>35621778
oh hey I've seen you post that pic many times, maybe I've been here too long on my tour of 4chan
>>35621764
No, you're a fedora because you think most, or even a lot, of women are out looking to "use men for dinner". If the date's not interesting, you fucking bail. Ideally you find someone interesting and attractive and get to know them better. You have this autistic exchange concept for interaction with women and it's not going to end well for you, Elliot.
>>35621778
less arm day
more chest and lat day
sorry about those insertions
>>35621778
okay yeah that makes sense, looking joocy mate, I need another year or so to reach your level
>>35621764
Did you crawl out of /r9k/ just to shitpost here or do you actually lift?
>>35621779
Yes.
I am the guy you are so butthurt about.
That is exactly what I am telling you.
I dont get why that is so hard to fathom.
I even have female friends, while I dont pay for them, i still do things for them because they matter to me. Some of them are even quite attractive, but i wouldnt ever want to sleep with them.
There is more to women than just sex. Sorry to burst your little r9k view, but women are interesting because they arent men.
Yes they can be stupid and vapid, but they can be charming and sweet and funny, and just like different then how men are, and I like that.
>>35621778
Also why do you say obviously, I think that pic would attract just as many girls
>>35621779
Who said anything about stupid girls? No, I don't date stupid girls, I would never offer to take a stupid person to dinner. Are you just assuming all women are below your intellect by default?
>>35621794
Believe it or not, these are both me lol.
honestly my arms are my weakest bodypart, but they are vascular and I had just finished doing biceps in that pic but yes, lats and chest are my current biggest priority. Just started cutting now, gonna take a new pic in a couple months.
>>35620507
HOW THE FUCK IS THIS SHIT RELATED TO FIT
>>35621820
this is by far not the worst unrelated shit on /fit/ right now
despite my reports it appears the mods are fine with this being "/r9k/ with weightlifting"
>>35621819
nice hips
hourglass figures on males are quite aesthetic
>>35621779
>>35621764
Not the rich guy here. Usually dates start as a sexual desire for BOTH parties in my experience. Then you become actual friends that give a shit about each other. A good girlfriend is also your best friend. You'll never know this feel tho from what I've read.
>>35621810
nah man, you have to be subtle with it.
Only tools post gym pics to tinder, or shirtless pics, or selfies in general. I have like one pic of me deadlifting.
You post pics of you doing things. The key is to find a "candid" pic, that shows off the gains.
shills, fucking reported
>>35621846
>friends
>with someone that puts out on the first date
I hope you don't do this anon
>>35621847
this will be difficult for me as I don't go out and do shirtless things, I guess I can use a tripod and pretend to be doing something.
>>35621286
FUCK OFF WITH THE SHILLING
>>35621856
rich guy here.
Some of my female friends are whores. whores make the best female friends.
They are hilarious.
Who cares.
>>35621377
He's 10/10 in marketing
>>35621872
jesus go back to /pol/ im not fucking shilling.
I used the app, it was cool i guess.
went on like a couple of dates, girls were all a bit nuts.
Met my gf at the gym like 2 months later.
Hardly a ringing endorsement.
>>35621890
you really think faggots market on 4chan? THEY DON'T, there might be 1000 people who sees this which equals nothing in terms of advertising.
>>35621908
>1000 people
dude this dead thread is like the same three guys arguing with each other
I can't believe the arrogance of people thinking somebody would bother to shill on /fit/. We're not relevant. MAYBE bb.com forums or something, but come on boys.
>>35621856
No of course not they have to be virgins and listen to my music and not do drugs and hate their parents just like reeeeeeee
>>35621908
And your straight up defensive stance
Did I hit a nerve?
>>35621919
still there are probably 1000 people over the span of 2 hours on fit
>>35621921
you're thinking in terms of black and white
my point is, why would you want to be around a slut. sluts cheat, you know. unless you pump and dump and never speak to them again, or whatever.
>>35621908
Your a bit too late to be forking tinder clones mate
>>35621933
Just because a girl who is single likes to have sex doesnt mean she will cheat.
I hate to break something to you champ, but most women like having sex. Most women have had a good amount of sexual partners in their life. Casual sex isnt that big of a deal.
You would know this if you would have had it.
>>35621933
ugh.. I'm done with this thread. U can live a fun life or a lonely one anon I really don't give a shit
>>35621949
sure
just cause she slept with 50 guys doesnt mean she is a slut or will be unfaithful!
...cmon
>>35621957
I didnt say I dont like fun, im saying dont date the town bike.
>>35621957
You forgot to post your referral links
:^)
Is the app for real? Literally almost every woman on here is like an 8 or 9 out of 10. Seems to good to be true.
>>35621980
Im the "rich guy" who keeps being accused of shilling.
They show you all the hot girls first, they will get less hot but yeah in general hotter girls are on bumble because there are less creepy guys. It's harder to get a match+message of course.
>>35621980
Kek
>>35621989
Makes sense
>>35621974
I literally know girls who have slept with 50+ guys when single, and also been in committed long term relationships and havnt even considered cheating.
My best female friend has like 75+ bodies on her, and has never cheated on a guy she was in a relationship with.
>>35622005
Don't bother with logic, he will just say some shit like, "oh she told you that, how cute that you believed her"
The guy has serious issues with women
>>35622005
>>35621974
I don't think you date at all buddy
I just want r9k to leave.
Hey guys I just made a tinder account and I wanted you guys to judge my bio.
Is it funny or even a little cool?
I haven't added a picture yet because I'm ugly and desu the only reason why I made tinder was just to mess with people I knew.....
>>35621434
L-L-L
LOW TEST
>>35622165
Ditch the thing about the friends.
>>35622165
Seems a little off putting in that first sentance. Go a little bit lighter on the self deprecation
>>35622189
>>35622193
Would you guys wanna chill with me if you saw this?
I've pretty much lost all my friends, so I got to learn how to make new ones. The thing since I'm not some HS faggot, it's a lot harder for me.
>>35622165
try adding a picture or people will assume you are ugly or not real
>>35622236
Beers and Always is a good pick. Just keep it simple senpai
>>35621286
>>35621364
>>35621379
>>35621499
>>35621535
>>35621690
>>35621736
why are you using question marks in that manner you fucking sperg
>>35622005
>75 guys
sure her vagina isnt a black hole?
>>35620507
where to find girls who are not just looking for free meals/hookups? seems like tinder is just for hookups
>>35622236
>I'm a social retard on a fuck n chuck app
>pls respond
Do you really need a serious answer?
>>35622546
>seems like a hookup app is just for hookups
I think you're on to something my man
>>35622567
>
lol just looking for non-sluts man fuck me right
>>35622582
>I just want to be a slut but not fuck sluts
what?
>>35622616
never said i want to be a slut senpai
>>35622582
Well what do non-sluts do with their time? Maybe give to charities or some shit. Go do charity work anon.
>>35621820
boning builds core strength?
>>35622636
well then why the fuck are you on tinder, grasshopper-kun?
>>35623473
not on tinder gentlesir-san, looking for non-tinder places for nonsluts
>>35622341
Can't see. Richfag is acting like a closet fag
>>35623490
i think the idea selecting for sluts or nonsluts through activity and medium might cripple you in terms of finding friends and lovers (and your capacity to experience joy longterm but that's a separate question.)
If you aren't looking for hookups, you aren't (or shouldn't be) looking to 'find girls,' you should be looking to make friends. Join a mixed (therefore only semi-competitive) sports team and make friends, go to the same cafe for brunch every Saturday and make friends with the staff, go to a casual pub trivia night by yourself and ask if you can join the team that's closest to you when you 'realise' it's trivia night.
As a man who came late to the whole sex thing but has mostly been in 3-6 month, didn't-work-but-no-hard-feelings relationships, you get laid by making friends, getting introduced to their friends, and making friends with their friends and so forth.
I'll be back in a couple hours for more ranting
>>35623574
that was actually really insightful and is generally my approach too. i'm not worried about this whole "not getting laid" thing
i guess my "petpeeve" is meeting people through these mixed groups and still meeting girls who are also into hookups(maybe i'm too naive)
>>35623574
thx btw
>>35621693
Quality post anon
>>35623598
ok grasshopper, i'm back, full of lentils and rice.
so you want a $RELATIONSHIP rather than $CASUAL_SEX, yeah? That's a reasonable goal to have but it doesn't happen overnight. I've got a three-part rant coming atcha.
>being desirable to someone worth dating
>how relationships emerge
>lifting is a metaphor for everything
(cont.)
>>35623598
>>35624117
>bing desirable to someone worth dating
What is a slut? I choose: person (man or woman, for simplicity's sake) who is having lots of sex in non-relationship contexts.
More specifically, it's a person who is CURRENTLY, rather than NECESSARILY having lots of non-relationship sex. Someone is BEING a slut rather than IS a slut.
A person who is in this kind of non-settled state is either discovering a lot about themselves or is not in a great place. Each of these makes them undesirable candidates for a productive, mutually supportive relationship, whether for reasons of rapid change or emotional burden.
At the other end of the spectrum is the person who really really wants to be in love and in a relationship but doesn't actually know how it works so thinks that by wanting it, things will just sort of happen.
The best advice I ever got was that this is the opposite of true. Relationships are not a gift bestowed upon one, they are not static, they are not generic or interchangeable.
women don't want to date boys who want $A_GIRL. Sure, if you're fuckable, random women might fuck you, but if you're pining for lack of the abstract $A_GIRL then you aren't going to attract $SPECIFIC_BABE. More accurately, anyone with their shit together enough to be a desirable partner for a $RELATIONSHIP isn't going to be entranced by anon in the corner being diffusely thirsty.
The tragedy of the red pill and man-o-sphere in general is that they get so tragically close to this truth but miss it entirely. Improve yourself. Get your shit sorted and become a more high-functioning version of yourself, get happy about the life you live and suddenly people want to date this stable, content, productive version of you.
>>35623574
>>35624117
>how relationships emerge
this idea that maybe i'm projecting onto you that there's a wall between casual sex and relationships that is absolute and clear is bunk.
you don't kiss someone at a party or on a date knowing that you're going to date for nine weeks then you'll both have assignments due and not see each other and then it fizzles. you kiss them because you like them and want to see where it goes.
there will inevitably be a lot of false starts and failures, but in those failures and false starts will be lessons.
>>35623598
>>35623574
>>35624117
>lifting is a metaphor for everything
you will always fail but you will always get better.
this applies to relationships and being in love, this applies to making new friends, this applies to being your best self and it applies to raising and lowering lumps of metal.
obviously, you dummy.
have a nice night and a good (virtuous) life
>>35620507
Reported, how is this shit fitness related?
>>35624375
There's a grey area for those of us that want to discuss life goals and topics with a community we respect. Shit like this is self-improvement, fostered some excellent discussion, and is leagues better than some animu shitposting.
holy shit nothing but 8/10 educated teachers and nurses on this app
deleted that shit. in a minute wayyyyyyyyyyyyyy out of my league.
>>35624468
league is in your mind bro, trust an asian manlet who tells you this
>>35624407
I think the area you are referring to is 'scam marketing' friend. Go start a pyramid scheme while you're at it eh?
>>35626559
Why in gods name would anyone market a dating app on 4chan.
The whole point of bumble is that its supposed to have better looking girls and because they have to message first, only hot guys make accounts. It's a dating app for people who already did well on other dating apps.
As the "rich guy" people were bitching about earlier, I know i'm not shilling and I highly doubt OP is either. I think he just had a question about bumble and posted it on /fit/.
>>35624358
>>35624346
>>35624318
This is all true.
Exactly what I was trying to say here>>35621457
but way better put.
A girl wont make you happy, getting a GF wont solve your "feels". You have to try and solve your "feels" first, and then the GF thing will happen.
Lifting is an awesome way to do this. Not just because it makes you look better, but because lifting makes you, or at least me, happy.
I also recommend getting into other physical activities, god even something like crossfit can be good for that.
>>35626953
having 4 out of a 100 matches is pretty good?
R-right???
>>35626979
On tinder?
depends how long.
either way man, it's not a competition. There is no standard for what is good and what isn't.
Don't worry so much about how you stack up with others.
Just be better than YOU were yesterday. If you do that, good things will come to you.
Happiness is a state of mind, it's not a place.
You can be happy and fulfilled tomorrow, but you have to choose to be.
>>35627014
>>35627036
I'm really being serious man.
I know I was bragging earlier with all the rich guy shit, but I was really fucking unhappy like 4 years ago. I had really fucked my life up, partying and drinking. I was fat, almost got kicked outa school, was looking at going to jail for drinking related stuff. I was desperate around girls and an all around shitty person.
4 years later, I'm super super happy and the last piece of the puzzle was being in a good relationship but that only happened when I stopped worrying about getting in one so much and just focused on being positive and happy and lifting was a big part of that.
I really believe everyone on this board can solve their problems. Yes, there are always guys who will be cooler or bigger or better looking, whatever. Yes, there are always girls that will be out of your league. That shit doesnt matter. It's not a contest between you and others, it's between you and prior versions of you.
