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Anyone here from a fat family? It is a great source of misery for me. Right now I can hear my obese grandfather shambling up the stairs. His moans of pain make me cringe. All other family members insult my lifestyle and keep buying me chocolates and sweets.
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My mother is fat, because she stopped caring about keeping fit in her late 30s.
She's not fat-american fat, but she's now on a scooter because her health has gone to shit, her bones are weak, she has gout, and her cholesterol is fucked.
I've been trying to get her to fix her diet, but its impossible when her mentality is to drink loads of sugary fruit juice, because fruit is healthy.
Getting her to eat fibre is impossible, and I just gave up, and told her to buy dietary fibre supplements, because its easier to get her to take them than hope she just stops eating shit.
She also thinks that everyone who goes to a gym is a psychopath due to all the steroids they're taking, so telling her to get off her ass and into a gym would never have helped even before she lost the ability to walk anything beyond a short distance.
My brother is also fat, because he dated a few fat girls, and their eating habits turned him from chubby but sporty person, to fat depressed ball of lard that keeps going on about trying to lose weight so he can play rugby again, then takes retarded cheat days like eating several thousand calories of doughnuts.
One of my cousins is foot-loss-diabetes fat, but tries hard at the gym to stop herself getting worse, and actually lifts weights (mainly as she can't shift her fat ass fast enough to do cardio)
Thankfully the rest of my family are reasonably normal, and I have (female) cousins and an uncle who is serious about fitness.
>>35475707
>to drink loads of sugary fruit juice, because fruit is healthy.
Did you show her scooby's videos?
>>35475542
>COUNT STEP EVERY MAKE
>>35475798
see filename
>>35475542
I would say about 50% of my family is fat, almost nobody does any kind of sport, shit sucks man.
>>35475542
Would crawl up in that ass and die.
>>35475811
rekt
>>35475773
It's been so long since I watched that, I forgot it existed.
I'm going to bookmark it, and show it to her when I visit them later this month.
"Here's a half naked gay dude with muscles who's almost the same age as you, listen to him"
>>35475835
ikr
What kinda tag I should search for to find porns with chicks like this?
>>35475869
Man Dies In Asshole Porn
>>35475869
Most women willing to putting actual effort into looking good aren't the type who do porn unfortunately. Porn is for lazy whores.
>>35475542
Please give me a name anon
>>35475915
Her name is Googelim Ajserch.
>>35475915
https://instagram.com/thelaurakopel/
>>35475887
This so fucking much, ever since I started liking fit chicks pornstars just dont cut it anymore they're either roid monkey women or just muh hightest you never have a natty lifter as a pornstar shit sucks.
>>35475969
She needs to ease up on the makeup 2bh familia. Looks fine in the OP pic.
>>35475969
She seems fucking insufferable. We get it, you love your body.
I mean, woodburry, but would leave shortly after and wouldn't call later.
Yep OP, my parents are fat as fuck.
My parents try all sorts of things to make me like them, its insane. I am down 80lbs since I started (from 320). Here are some of their attempts to stop me being healthy
>Stole all of my water bottles and photoshopped new labels, exactly the same as the old one but with the word 'years' below '160 years' indicating the length of time the company has existed to say calories so I would think the water was 160 calories and drink a coke instead
>Bought 4 memberships each at my local gym when I was about to renew my membership so they would run out before I could get a new one
>Put ants in my gym shorts so I would think working out was giving me a rash
>Left taps on overnight so I would wet myself and they could blame sports drinks (heard them talking about the last 2 the other week)
Whatever man. Fuck them, I don't need them. Hopefully when they die young I can use the inheritance to get a new blender.
>>35475542
It's like she's wondering
Hmmm what will I do? keep my absurdly voluptuous ass by reading these books or make every step count?
>>35476521
that's some denace the menace teir shit
>>35475542
>Count Step Every MAke
What does this mean?
>>35476521
what the fuck man, my dad says bullshit like "i know a dude that took protein and died" but hes overall supportive
leave home as soon as you can anon
>>35476676
File name.
>>35475542
Just had this happen now
>Live near senpai
>Over visiting
>Dad looks like pic related but with a little less weight in the chest and a little more around the belly
>Mention how I'm running out of weight in my home gym
>Mom: "There's a good gym down the street, you two should go workout together!"
>Dad: *scoffs* "Yeah, then we could be gay too..."
I just feel bad for them both. I know they're dead bedroom as fuck because of how little he takes care of himself physically. I offer to go to the gym with him but I know if I push at all he'll just get defensively upset.
>>35475707
>She's not fat-american fat
>she's now on a scooter because her health has gone to shit
The cognitive dissonance is real
>>35475542
count step every make?
Nope, thank god. My family is all pretty fit
>sister is one who got me into lifting and she has/had BBer bf
>mom is fairly fit now, used to be a miss Colorado contestant and used to lift a lot
>dad is very sporty and great at tennis and other sports
Feels gr8 coming from such a supportive family
>>35476521
What the fuck
>have fat family
>never been fat
It's ez
My dad is the one who encouraged me to start working out in the first place, then on the other end of the spectrum I have my mum saying stupid shit like lifting weights will "rip my tendons" or I will "slip a disk" etc etc
Luckily I stopped listening to her a long time ago.
My grandmother says stuff like 'I could never imagine myself wasting my time with weights'. But she has no problem playing candy crush for hours on end. My workouts last about 30 mins. I also informed her that I am not an old woman.
>Tfw fat family
>All of them have been pretty supportive and based about my weight loss
Can't say I know this feel
The worst I got was from the skinny side of the family. A few of them told me "I hope you're not planning on dropping any further, you'll be anorexic" or something to that effect. But they left it at that
>see mom for the holidays
"You're widdling away to nothing, anon"
>>35477048
30 mins? thats not long enough for any type of workout
>>35476850
Bad joints, bone health, and gout, anon, not just on a scooter because she's too fat to move.
She's not spilling over the seat yet.
Sadly, the main reason she got one was because I was taking the piss, and she thought I was serious.
>>35477119
It is. I've been making gains, I don't really time them, but I don't have long breaks between sets. It may be longer. The cardio adds about 20 mins tho.
>>35477176
>better off if you were vegan.
>do you actually still drink soda and eat at fast food joints
You're a retard.
>>35476521
Your family has some serious psychological issues
>>35477176
I'm not fat. Kill yourself.
>>35477125
>Bad joints, bone health, and gout have nothing to do with weight
Your mom is fat as shit.
>>35477230
Bad joints due to bone deteriation from piss poor diet, combined with arthritis.
I posted about her in a thread about fat cunts, I know she's fat, so I'm not sure why you feel the need to tell me that, but it's her diet devoid of any reasonable nutrition, not being Walmart fat that's fucked her up.
Give it time with the scooter, and I'm sure she'll be a 300lb waste of oxygen in no time.
>>35477176
But then they'll be vegan AND fat, and their lives will be twice as shitty.
My mom is hamplanet mode and I've had her tell me not to buy whole milk since it's unhealthy.
baka desu I'm not gonna take nutrition advice from someone who doesn't know what a calorie is baka
I'm not moving out either mom, you're gonna keep paying my gym fees and the gas for the car. My NEET ass is staying right here.
Parents were always fat growing up, I was obese. Brother and sister were always thin. Dad now does a lot running and is just a bit chubby, can run marathons and mum did keto and got down to a normal weight, put a bit back on but she looks a lot better than before.
Feels good we pretty much lost weight as a family.
>>35477356
>so I'm not sure why you feel the need to tell me that
Because she's fat as shit with health problems and riding a scooter but not "american fat". I'm helping you break down the cognitive dissonance you've created about your american fat mother.
>>35477176
Goddamn, if that's not photoshop/lighting/filters I'm seriously mirin his tris and delts
My mom is fat but she is also homeless so right now I am trying to solve that issue before the other.
>>35477176
Mine is and with the exception of my grandfather (has cancer) everyone is chubby or fat (mostly chubby). So veganism is stupid because stupid people do it because they believe meat is the only unhealthy thing in this world. >>35477199
>>35475542
Her whole fucking leg and ass is shopped you fat fucking imbecile. You'll never make it.
>>35477125
>Bad joints, bone health, and gout, anon
all of these problems can be longterm effects of bad diet. and most often they are. ... and most often these kind of diets also lead to weight problems.
>>35478293
she's thick tho
>>35475707
the fuck is foot-loss-diabetes fat? Like so fat they have to chop your feet off?
>>35476837
thats pretty hilarious
>>35475542
I'm from a fat family. Both my brother and I are recovering fats. At the very least our parents recognize how shitty obesity is and support us trying to get fit. I just wish I could convince them to take better care of themselves. They're not even delusional, just too lazy or stubborn to change their ways.
>>35478740
Diabetes can cause circulation issues, so no blood to the foot = foot dies and needs to be cut off.
>>35475880
kek
>>35475542
My mothers an anchor. She wants me to fail and stay down with her.
>Left me when I was 6
>Moved in with her at 13
>didn't know she was a loud emotional hoarder and had no room for me
>Abusive af broke my guitar on my side
>Denied me food until I was skelly
>stole food at school
>sports turned my body into a fucking machine
>abuse got worse because I look like my father
>she used child support to fund pyramid schemes and fun nights out
>was gone for days at a time so I survived off of free lunch at school
>got a job at 16 and have been eating like a goddamn king since
>fucked up now a fatty so she bitches about my weight to anything with ears
>tears me down about my appearance so much it hurts when I think about her
>she's very short and almost 300 lbs
>bitches about body aches while slurping food off her plate
>bitches about cleanliness but is a hoarder
>bitches about money but spends majority of paychecks on magical diet pills and food
>calls me asking me to teach her how to diet then insults me for thinking I'm better than her
Literally every time I see her she's eating. She waddles and can't breathe well if she walks too fast. I can't deal with this reality. My main goal this year is to make her understand I want absolutely nothing to do with her anymore.
>>35476837
I kek'd
>>35479271
Shit. That sucks anon.
Call her a penguin whenever you talk to her.
>>35478574
But none are fat
>>35476837
Your dad is hilarious.
My girlfriend is getting fat as fuck.
She used to come to the gym with me all the time and was pretty damn fit. Now she's chubby at best. She ate 35 mini oh Henry bars in one day.
I heard her open her door at 3am and rustling around. I went out and saw her shoving a bunch of massive chocolate bar wrappers into the garbage. The huge cadbury ones. Like bigger than your head.
I try to get her to drink water (she used to only drink water) now she lives on coca-cola.
And her mom just makes it worse. Constantly giving her kraft dinner and buying her even more candy.
Her older sister is a butterball, 5'4" 210. Disgusting. Gf used to be 5'3" 110 with a 115 squat and 85 bench now she's 135 and can squat 55 and can't bench 60
Fucking stupid girls can't shut their fucking mouth. Constantly shovelling sugar and fat down their yaps.
>>35475542
>Sunday lunch, my family goes to a self service restaurant
>Cutting, so I got 200g of grilled salmon and some salad
>My father, who's getting chubby, says I'm anorexic and I shouldn't be dieting
>I'm still 10kg overweight
>>35479271
>want her to know you want nothing to do with her
Just cut all contact. Easier than dealing with her again. Move on
>>35479607
Get oooout
>Mom didnt give a shit when i was young and mostly used me as a check from my dad
>Over weight as fuck because she doesnt want to cook, fast food and sugery cereal was probably 880 of my diet
>When she did cook it was 70% lean beef meatloaf or whatever garbage she could get in a premade box
>Age l3 and almost 220lbs
>Finally get away and move to dads
>Do the sports
>Drop to 115
>Age 25
>Hover arund 215lbs at 6ft 1
>Languish over the fact that i had a shit childhood
>>35475853
Kek
>>35479689
I'm considering it. It's pissing me the fuck off and sapping my motivation
>>35479517
pretty sure that's a weeks worth of food, it was showcasing what people all over the world eat in one week and had families from various countries with their weekly shopping. They aren't hamplanets who go and eat that in one day.
>>35479607
She's giving you the courtesy of being her true self before you're married or locked down with crotchfruit.
Thank her, and ABANDON THE FUCKING SHIP!
>>35478740
It can also lead to nerve damage in the extremities. If you can't feel a cut on your foot, and it get's infected...
Both of my parents are like acceptable fat. Dad played college football is still athletic and plays sports but is like 30-40 lbs overweight. Mom is the same thing, and I'd imagine by the time I'm in my 50s I'll be the same thing
>>35479704
But you don't have a crappy time being an adult. That matters more than your childhood. Just keep going.
>>35475542
Mum and dad are fat
Mum doesn't force anything on me put she does a fair amount of baking and buys a lot of sweets and stuff
Stay strong, brother. Honestly, the best way to prevent them from negatively affecting your health is to move away. My family, which is literally 100% fatties except for me, used to constantly make passive aggressive comments about my lifestyle, claiming that I was anorexic or that I was likely to injure myself by working out daily. They would only by unhealthy food, and make snide comments when I only took healthy portion sizes and only drank water.
After I moved away, I realized how codependent they were and how my lifestyle threatened them by showing how unhealthy their behavior was. Removing myself from that situation was the best thing I could have done.
>>35480271
>I'd imagine by the time I'm in my 50s I'll be the same thing
You're an idiot if you think it's an inevitability. Older people are just lazier, plain and simple. You're never going to make it with that attitude.
>>35480827
Both of my parents aren't fat. My mom carries about 5-10 extra pounds than she should and my dad is a skeleton with a beer belly. The issue is the people on my dad's side of the family, there are a lot of hamplanets. I am currently visiting my paternal grandmother who supports my fitness, but my grandfather is a dumb pig who only thinks about stuffing his stupid fat face.
My mother has severe emotional problems and is dependent on comfort eating. She's obese, about BMI 32. My father is also overweight, BMI 29, because she only buys garbage and he's too depressed to do anything but eat what she gives him.
>>all of childhood discouraged from any extra curricular activities that would make her go out of her way
>>few events I remember- school plays or concerts - were always rushed and treated like a hassle, because she wanted to leave quickly to go to a restaurant
>>family trips were always disappointing. The few times we could afford to visit other states, it always revolved around which restaurants to go to. Trips to parks or mountain/camping spots always involved a 3+ hour car ride, followed by ~20 minutes of hiking, and then her complaining she was hungry and it was time to go home.
>>at my college graduation, she made a fuss about climbing the stairs to the seats, although my 90 year old grandparents were fine. As soon as I got my diploma and sat down, I got insistent phone calls on my cell saying she was dizzy and needed to eat, and so I needed to leave ASAP.
She recently got colon cancer and tried to argue with me that it was genetic and not diet, even though we have no family history of colon cancer, and I got my degree in genetics and did a senior thesis on cancer and obesity taught by a colorectal specialist.
I paid for her to have a surgery to remove 1 foot of tumor ridden intestine 4 months ago, but she still hasn't started eating right.
>>35478574
Which is the point I was trying to make. Her weight is sliding fast, especially as she becomes less active, but currently she's still a dumpy little shit, and won't become an amorphous blob for a good few years yet.
Thankfully I've been feeding myself since I was 14 because she can't cook for shit, so I've never fallen into the fat trap.
>>35478740
She has gotten so fat (now this one is fat American fat. Belly touching legs, gender has disappeared under rolls of fat etc) that her choked up organs have given herself type 2 diabetes so severe that her doctor has told her on two occasions she may lose a foot due to the circulation problems other anons described.
Her mother was a vegan, so she used to slip out and eat junk food constantly, by the time she was 16 I'm pretty sure her dress sizes were in the 20s.
>>35481867
Some more-
>>father has family history of diabetes, his mother had it, and his grandfather had to have both legs amputated only to die a month later.
>>he works in construction so was never more than chubby despite eating mom's foods, but now with old age and decreased activity it's catching up.
>>he's diagnosed as diabetic a year ago. I can see he's scared. Already has foot pains and severe urinary problems.
>>encourage him and my mother explicitly to eat better, low sugar diet, and lose weight so father can get rid of diabetes.
Even give them extra $500 for groceries. Mother actually bysu better for a whole month. He loses about 15 pounds.
>>then suddenly, once he mentions wanting to get to a certain goal weight - a lower weight than my mother (180lb)- the healthy food stops.
The money I've been giving suddenly disappears, and fancy new household items mom wanted appear instead.
>>dad regains weight, now on metaformin twice daily with foot pain and mood swings.
My mom mostly feeds him box mix pancakes and maple flavored syrup anymore.
My whole family was fat except my dad. He would sometimes fuck with me and my brothers because of our weight. I remember him calling us "Lardello Boys," which I think was a reference to something, but I have no idea what. He died back in 2012. I wish he were still around so I could show him the progress I've made(I can actually fit into his clothes now).
My mom was one of those people that made weight loss seem impossible. The typical Weight Watchers, muh genetics, type. She did all the shopping and cooking, and since she only shopped at Sam's Club we always ate huge meals and had plenty of food to eat in between. When trying to lose weight, she would try any low-fat/low-carb/low-sodium bullshit that promised weight loss. She died of colon cancer a few years ago, and I imagine her food choices were the cause.
I now live with my younger brother(5'7 350+ lbs), and he eats whatever he wants, whenever he wants. He'll sometimes give me a hard time when I won't eat some food/candy he bought, or when I mention how cold it is in the house. He says I don't need to lose any more weight(5'7 currently 160), and that I'd be warmer if I had some meat on my bones. He also believes all kinds of broscience/momscience and loves to "correct" me when I say anything about nutrition. He's the person that simultaneously holds me back and motivates me to never go back to what I was.
Thankfully my family is pretty chill and I enjoy spending time with them, but my mom and dad are both total enablers. I had some issues with depression as a kid which left me susceptible to overeating. My mom rarely questioned giving me as much food as I wanted and my dad has as wicked a sweet tooth as mine so he was always bringing home sweets.
Thankfully I've gotten much better and they've been very supportive. I've lost about 110 lbs since I was at my worst, and something like 70 of that was after I moved out and came into full control of my diet. Unfortunately I fall back into bad habits while they are around, which makes the holidays tough. I still have trouble controlling myself when bad food is available, so I try not to buy it myself.
>>35475811
top kek
>>35482254
Think of your dad when you lift.
>>35481940
Anon, you need to stop this. She's killing him. Sit down with both of them and tell them the harsh truth.
>>35482284
At least you know. I'm the same way, although I've never been more than skinnyfat. I can't have it in the house, I will eat it.
When my dad got fat I would eat all the snacks in the house so he wouldn't. That was so stressful. Thank god both mom and dad are eating healthy now and dad is back to a normal weight.
>COUNT STEP EVERY MAKE
>COUNT STEP EVERY MAKE
>COUNT STEP EVERY MAKE
>COUNT STEP EVERY MAKE
>COUNT STEP EVERY MAKE
WHO RETARD MADE THIS POSTER LOL!
>>35475811
BTFO
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>>35475542
My mum is a little chubby but for her age, she's definitely doing well. She eats healthy and cooks healthy for the family and I've learned a lot from her.
My dad is unhealthy as fuck but he isn't very fat. He's got a pot belly from drinking too much beer but he seems to have held on to his metabolism from his younger years. He also eats what my mum cooks so that definitely helps minimize the damage he's doing to himself.
My brother is a skelly and started going to the gym a few months back. Hopefully I can get him to an acceptable level however he's got a long way to go (he leg presses 30kg and struggles)
Australians seem to me to be far less fat than Americans. I think our portion sizes are smaller.
>>35476521
kill your parents anon
>>35475773
gooby would obviously be on steroids if he showed her his videos
>>35482476
I honestly had to look at the picture for 30 seconds to see what it's actually saying. What a dumb fucking retard writes like that?
>>35482476
see op file name
>>35482603
>calm, gentle voice of a history professor while explaining exercise.
"oooh, you can see the roid rage just brimming in him! He's going to crack any minute and beat his wife."
>>35482554
>I think our portion sizes are smaller.
For sure.
Portion sizes in the UK are huge too, every time I visit I am suprised by how much food I get.
>omg you are so thin
>"I'm really worry about anon he looks like a twig"
>Are you ok? is everything all right
I'm trying to recover from skinnyfat and i'm just now approaching <20% BF. One time i blew up on my mom because i was tired of hearing it, she never talked about it again.
>>35477119
haha look at this fat weak shit telling other people they dont know what they are doing. if you lift heavy for 30 minutes a day you can get pretty strong. of course cardio is a whole extra thing but you probably havent lifted 30 minutes total in your whole life
>>35482692
That's the culture we live in. Everyone is so determined to fight anorexia and fatness is so normal that anyone trying to get thin gets bombarded with worried comments.
Just don't actually be anorexic. Put on some muscle.
>>35477119
Lifting or HIIT. That's plenty of time. Hell, I used to do HIIT for 15 minutes in the morning and it worked like a charm. You don't have to spend hours and hours in the gym, anon.
My dad has been fat for what seems like my whole lost, and he remarried to another planetoid. I can hear either of them just breathing, it's so disgusting. It has given me the motivation to get in shape, although my doing so seems to have made them worse. It's unbelievable.
I fucking hate it family.
>>35481867
>She recently got colon cancer and tried to argue with me that it was genetic and not diet, even though we have no family history of colon cancer, and I got my degree in genetics and did a senior thesis on cancer and obesity taught by a colorectal specialist.
I doubt you could've told her even harder. This is the legit 'I happen to be an expert on this topic'.
>>35482694
>30 minutes total in
30 mins enough
do warmup for squat takes 5mins moving plates lifting putting them back
3x5 set 5 minutes break
20 of your 30 minutes gone.
Feel free to stop making an arse of yourself
>>35482692
I know that feeling well. Both my parents have a troubled history with eating and especially my mother is quick to project some kind of disorder on me.
"Are you wearing a belt? You're getting so skinny your clothes don't fit. Are you losing weight?"
At 177 cm 70 kg I'm at my heaviest I've ever been, finally packing on some gains.
I've been a skelly at 56 kg at one point, ironically because I was so tired of being harassed every meal the act of eating didn't interest me anymore.
Not to advocate 'intuitive eating' but some people just need to chill the fuck out at dinnertime.
>>35476023
>lmao her insta name @THElaurakopel
>>35479746
The minute you start feeling like shit due to someones reckless behavior its time to back away.
>>35475542
Who is that boner toner?
>>35478808
:O That's shit man!
>>35475542
>count step every make
>>35476521
Hang in there bro.
>>35475542
nope
all of my family members are fit
its not about going to the Gym 24/7
just good food habits from parents
>>35484038
Well that's just wonderful.
My parents are both quite overweight.
I never really knew too much about nutrition growing up, parents just fed me as much as I would eat, which was a lot because it was available and it was delicious.
Dad has always been a bad influence, every time he goes to the supermarket he will bring home all sorts of chocolate, chips, icecream and so forth. Having a meal with him he will eat quicker than everyone and have at least three serves if there's enough left and if there's not a large amount of food he will make sure he gets as much of it as he can.
>I think this behaviour was learnt during his childhood where my grandparents didn't have very much money and had to feed eleven people (lol catholics) so he had to compete with the others for food.
My mum yo-yo diets, tries all the meme shit, all the shakes and diet companies food but always ends up supplementing with the bs that dad brings home. He will buy her favourite chocolate bars when she's dieting and either offer 'just a little bit' or leave them in front of her diet food in the fridge...such a sabotaging cunt.
When I still lived with them I got in shape on a ketogenic diet, mum wanted to try it so I helped her buy the right things and taught her to cook and what to buy when she's out etc, that was going quite well and she was the lowest weight she had been for years. Since I started eating a fairly isocaloric diet again, and therefore not doing as much low carb cooking she hasn't gone on with it, coupled with moving out completely and dad buying the groceries and their enabling/lack of willpower she has just gained it back.
Christmas was quite interesting, usually there are a couple of people that have become fat as hell since the last time you see them, this year nobody had seemed to have gained too much weight, maybe just my cousin but it's not too bad and he had been injured and is rehabilitating.
>I suppose those who didn't show up to Christmas lunch were the ones who were the planets of the year
>>35475811
Legit kek. Thanks.
