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hi, i'm an 18 year old male who used to fap a lot. My main problem is not being aroused by real girls, I am definitely attracted to girls, but making out\sex is not exciting to me like porn is. I can't cum from sex nor from blowjobs due to lack of excitment and increased sensitivity. my question is: should i stop fapping altogether, or should i fap like once a week or something like that? my goal is not to stop fapping, but to become more horny irl.
>>35460450
Use lotion you cutfag wanker
>>35460499
still doesn't solve the psychological damage, but anyway, what type of lotion should i use?
>>35460450
Your problem's probably the porn rather than the fapping. It's over-stimulating. Cut that out and you'll start masturbating less automatically.
>>35460624
Yeah prob this. Just had the same problem not too long ago. I mean it took like 2 hours. She had a good enough time, but I was getting frustrated, and tired.
She was a 6/7 out of 10. I conditioned myself to gap to 10/10's.
>>35460450
I've stopped jerking off and looking at porn since I start dating my current gf. I used to last like six years when we were fucking and could barely get off at all from blowjobs. I went a week without seeing her (visiting family for the holidays) and didn't jerk off the entire time. I nearly destroyed her when she finally came over to my place. I still lasted pretty long but it was much better than before and I could actually enjoy feeling her.
So I recommend not jerking it or looking at porn for a while to get your shit back together.
>>35460450
definitely avoid all porn and softcore stuff (naked women and the like)
fappingwise I would recommend to try out a diffrent approach, then the usual " three minute wankoff with 10 porn tabs open and a deathgrip"
Take your time, discover your body, vary your technique and train your Imagination
also look into meditation and yoga
are you guys sure not fapping at all is the best solution? after some time without fapping i kinda feel a decrease in sexual drive.. isn't "use it or lose it" a thing?
>fap everyday
>see cutie in gym, talk to her
>pop a boner on the drive home just thinking about her
I'm also 23. I think youre just low test OP. It's not your fault, blame your mom for ingesting GMO hormones while pregnant.
>>35461021
Maybe like once a week is best? I've definitely experienced a kind of "flat line" after not jerking for like a week.
It gets easier Anon. But you gotta do it everyday.
Was browsing backpage & found some 50yr old lady who gives tantra sessions. Calls hrself a sexual healer not an escort, can claim to cure premature ejaculation or delayed ejaculation. Kind of seems like a scam, but I'll be fucked if getting teased & denied by a 50yr old tantra sexual healer isn't one of my fetishes.
this doesn't belong on this board
jacking it is fine, just keep away from porn
>>35461419
Fucking hell man.
If those weak-ass "how are you holding up mentally" threads belong on /fit/, these threads do too.
I have like the exact opposite problem, I'm assuming because when I was jacking off very often it would be like a 5-10 minute wank session just to get it over with, now I'm not able to last long at all, I've been doing kegels and reverse kegels and trying to wank for longer and longer (edging and shit), anything else I should consider?
It's not like PE, I can last like 10-15 minutes but I would like to last a lot longer lol
