New Years Eve
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What are you doing on NYE, fit?
>waking up, going to gym
>going to attempt to 2pl8 bench for the first time
>volunteering at SPCA
>going to sit there and hope that I get an invite to something
>probably won't because all of my old "friends" would rather hang out with my ex that cheated on me because she's an attractive white girl
>cry self to sleep because my life is worth nothing to anyone
I just need one reason not to end it all and I still haven't found one in the past 11 months. What can I do alone tomorrow?
One good reason is you are alive.It means anything is within the realm of possibility so long as you work towards your goal.
>inb4 excuses
Then you might have misclicked /fit/ instead of /r9k/
Just get drunk and watch TV, prepare to put 2015 behind you and work out a plan for better things in 2016. That's what I'm doing.
>>35433661
>>35433853
same
gonna get drunk .. might end up in fucking a hooker and spending more than i want to but oh well
>Be me
>Fit, attractive, young
>Get invited to two different parties and a qt coworker asked me to come to her place to just hang out and drink
>Mfw my wife simply refuses to watch the kids for the evening so I have to spend the night at home with my kids while she sits on the couch and watches tv
>Mfw she probably invites her boring as fuck mom to watch boring as fuck tv with her
>Mfw I'm jelly of terminal cancer patients, at least they know the ride is going to end soon
>>35433867
Your wife knows that you'll probably get a lot of attention at parties so she's making sure you don't go to any.
>>35433867
>>Be me
>>Fit, attractive, young
>>Get invited to two different parties and a qt coworker asked me to come to her place to just hang out and drink
>>Mfw my wife simply refuses to watch her kids for the evening so I have to spend the night at home with her kids while she sits on the couch and watches tv
>>Mfw she probably invites her boring as fuck mom to watch boring as fuck tv with her
>>Mfw I'm jelly of terminal cancer patients, at least they know the ride is going to end soon
fixed for ya
>>35433884
I know, but at the same time she doesn't want to fuck me, so I'm basically not any better off than some cocoon mode basement dweller. Fuck this gay earth.
>>35433867
>married with kids
>Young
tell me what happened so I can avoid your life
>>35433891
Nah m8, I know my boys are mine, not a kek. And I don't even mind spending time with the kids, its just that it would be fun to go to a party or something at least once a year...
>>35433908
Well I'm 27 so I may have streched that "young" part a bit. But I've been married since 24 so...
Life happened, I thought she was the one, man. Fucking idiot that I was.
Take an advice, never think any woman no matter how much you love them is your soul mate and companion for life. People change, always.
>>35433661
>>probably won't because all of my old "friends" would rather hang out with my ex that cheated on me because she's an attractive white girl"
ANONNNNN
>>35433661
Hey dude, having been cheated on for several months (which I only found out after we had ended the relationship when a friend told me what he found out I know your feels. Shared circle of friends makes this difficult to process.
Treat yourself to a good steak, buy a nice beer and think about what you want to do next year before it starts tomorrow. Do you want to try living in a foreign country? Learn a new sport? Language? Dancing? Whatever, the world is your oyster. Don't focus on the stuff you don't have but on what you do have and where you'll go in the future. And you won't get invites by sitting around at home hoping for them to magically fly in if you've not been keeping in touch with people. Reach out, check what people are up to and if you can join. Just don't hype up NYE too much. Good luck
>>35433923
tell us what changed
Being with family, eating steak and salmon while popping fireworks.
>>35433661
Going to a club with my friends and staying at a hotel downtown. Hopefully I get laid. One last big event before I die
>>35433661
>waking up, going to the gym
>go home
>stay home and watch tv because I don't have any friends
>go to bed early and not drink a lot of alcohol for maximum gains
I had a whole plan of busting through PRs over the christmas break, and then I went and got injured and I've been doing literally nothing. Fuck my life. This was supposed to be a good time.
Am I the only one who despises holidays because I have no one to spend them with?
>>35433923
This is so fucking true.
Women are fucking awful.
>>35433661
Going to a wedding reception for a bit then my buddies shop for a kegger. Gonna take it easy and probably switch to N/A beer after a couple drinks so I will be sober enough to drive home. Not supposed to drink excessively anyways.
>no friends
>no one's invited me to a party
>never been to a new years party in the first place
>never kissed grills when the clock hits 12
>gonna spend it alone in my room
I'm so lonely bros
>tfw getting ready for a tuxedo party tonight
>tfw still got a delt pump from shoulder workout today so tuxedo fits snug as fuk
>tfw girl i made out with last weekend is going to the party
feels god brahs
take care of yourself and happy new year
>Parents and senpai
>fireworks
>maybe a movie (Sicario or The Martian maybe Her)
got my rest day tomorrow :3 so back in the gym at 2 Jan
I'm going to my sisters.
In a way, it's worse than staying home alone.
When she invited me, i wasn't quick witted enough to fabricate an alternative, so now i need to go.
>applied for a PhD I'm really interested in
>been to gym to get my pump on
>currently having luxurious bath
>going to soul club night after dinner with my qt gf
Life is good.
>>35433661
Home alone, fourth year in a row. Feels kind of good.
>>35433661
Probably end up getting the most shitfaced I've ever been.
>Best friend is with his brother and his friends. I don't know them, they had no place for me (They're 2 hours from here)
>2 best friend is at a party with the bitch that looked me in my eyes, lied to me and now is fucking with some weird faggot
>Some other friends have something laidback. Will probably be boring but better than being alone
>howdoigreentext.jpg
>I just need one reason not to end it all and I still haven't found one in the past 11 months. What can I do alone tomorrow?
Search help. That bitch that lied to me was the the straw that broke the camel's back for me. I hit the rock bottom but never accepted that I've had strong signs of depression since I was like 14. The only reason I've left my bed is because I got a job to go to and I have a dream that I need to reach. But when the goals and dreams just didn't matter to me I realized I have some problems.
Called yesterday and got a time to meet a counselor to determine how bad of a case I'm. Felt a lot better just getting it.
>>35435966
Good on you. Too many people on this board are too proud to get help.
>>35433661
I don't know. I'll probably go driving. I don't have much friends to invite me out to shit either, and even if they did I don't have my ID on me.
That said it'll be school soon and I've been away for a bit. It'll be good to get back on my Chem degree. I'll probably hit up some old spots in the city I remember from when I was a kid and just chill. Either that or find some place to meditate. Maybe go into the city center and observe all of the happenings.
>>35435966
I looked for help back in August, first available counselor is in february. feels really shitty since everything has just been worse since then.
>went on ski trip with these friends and realized one of them had a lockscreen with just him and her in the picture
He kept showing it to me and it honestly gave me mild panic attacks just seeing her. This isn't norrmal
>volunteering at SPCA
that was the worst experience of my life. Besides helping in the adoption process it is so depressing.
I got invited to a house party by a gay guy who I made out with once and like 10 hot girls are going and like 2 other guys.
No homo but that's a hell of a lot of women.
Should I just get drunk as fuck and start touching them up?
>>35433661
If you live in Plymouth UK or anywhere nearby, I'll take you out for a beer and a weird and wonderful all night adventure.
Your life is always worth something to someone, even if its only yourself sometimes.
If you end up alone. Go and do something you've never done before.
Happy new years.
I used to feel bad about having no plans, now im going to have a nice meal and rest up for tomorrow. had a great workout today, but I cant rest on friday.
cause tomorrow is leg day.
>want to leave house and do anything just so my family doesn't think I'm spending NYE lonely
>can't even do that because there's nothing I can do and nowhere I can go in my town and it's cold as fuck
>laying on the couch all day
>going to my last AA meeting so I don't get fucked by the long dick of the law
>hitting legs
>picking up my gf from work and going to a party
don't drink and drive anons
I don't drink so,
> went clothes (no homo) shopping with m8's 8pm - 3pm.
> played nerd station for a bit, ate.
> going gym.
> coming home, going to fuck some milf while her husband sits down stairs and listens through a baby monitor. He's a cuck.
Start the year as you mean to go on la ds!!
>>35436679
Happened to me last year. Was to late to get to my place in time, so I was still at my parents. Told them I was meeting up with some old friends, I just walked around some fields in complete darkness, listening to music, trying to think of things my "old friends" could have told me if they existed. Kept walking for seven hours, didn't even realize it. I'm not exactly sure about the distance I walked, but it was about 30 km and my feet hurt like hell. My shoes were super dirty afterwards, so I just poured some water over them and told my parents someone spilled beer over them.
The firework in the city was actually beautiful from the hills.
>>35436849
>coming home, going to fuck some milf while her husband sits down stairs and listens through a baby monitor. He's a cuck.
That's fucking pathetic.
>>35436905
Stay mad lad
Might go out for some beers
But got a pretty intense bit if lifting today and have to get up way early tomorrow for this volunteer thing I'm doing
Might skip going out altogether idk advice me /fit/
>>35433661
Op I feel for you, I was in the same boat like six months ago
>ex gets promotion around about the same time that I had a very bad month or two at work and was very poor (self employed)
>drops bomb that she doesn't love me, hasn't for a while and wants me gone, she can afford rent by herself
>tell her no fuck off its my flat
>she says she'll tell police and family I beat her up (which I don't)
>okay then guess I'm gone
>can only afford to move two suitcases leave a lot of stuff behind
>have to move back with parents in hometown 500 miles away while she sends me Snapchats of her getting drunk
>lose my business, all my friends and my flat and most of my possessions.
>get very drunk and cut my face up with a carving knife.
>think i probably might just kill myself for a laugh and get it over with
>don't quite do it
BUT THEN
>Say "We will not go quietly into the night"
>start working on a hotdog stand
>"we're going to live on...."
>scrape together some savings for tools and a rusty pushbike
>"We're going to survive...."
>push and push and push until I've gotten into a really incredible position working in demolition earning big bucks and smashing/blowing things up
>"Today we celebrate our independence day"
NOW
>Best shape of my life
>job I love
>looking like I'll be owning my own house very soon
>dating a hilarious and charming girl who is also a lingerie model (not big leagues but still)
Did all that in 6 months. I feel pretty smug.
Don't give up, you're not beaten yet.
I'm going to spend the night here and read some chinese pornographic powerpoints.
The best way to spend new year's eve is to be with your friends, that's why I don't regret anything.
>>35433661
Nothing, but on Monday I will be going to the gym for the first time.
>>35433867
If your wife is home how is she not able to watch the kids?
>>35435860
Bruh you gonna make it, keep lifting
>>35436465
Hahaha. Kek.
My girlfriend fucked me over last night, so I'm going to spend this night at whatever party she is least likely to be at, and find a qt.
It is now my turn to do the fucking.
>>35436531
Hell yah. This shit is motivational for me. Tunx bruh. We gonna make it!!!
I'm DJing at a bar on 6th street in austin tx
>>35433923
I will lift in your name, brother.
>>35436465
Anon this might be your only shot at a busexual orgy you only get one shot do not miss your chance to blow
>>35433923
This. There is absolutely no good reason to get married. It gains you nothing.
>>35437575
Gona play willenium?
>>35433661
>be me
>get invited to club for new years
>too bad I'm sick and it'd be hell for me
Life isn't fair bruhs, just another new years all alone at home.
>>35438173
>all alone
I'd much rather be all alone than with my parents in the next room
>have no friends
>have never gone out on new years
>socially retarded
>kissless virgin
how do i make 2016 the year i get friends and a gf?
>tfw late 20's
is it too late?
>be me
>invited at two parties
>one is far away ~2hours, not gonna drive for a party with people who don't like me even if a childhood friend will be here
>second is a diner at a classmate house, with his friends and his sisters friends, too autist to go because I will know only one person
>at home pretenting I'm studying, mom probably thinking I'm a loser, while dad is lying on his beb, drunk as always
Feel a little bit bad desu, 1hours left from NY, at least I'm regreting to not go
>>35438198
nah its not too late bro
it never is .. dont fall for the meme
im 29 .. i just make my 30-40s the best time of my life and fuck all these hot single women that know how to suck a dick and score some early 20 ones with daddy issues
>best shape of my life; pretty much made it
>attractive, or so I've been told
>no one ever texts and no invites will be given
>going to continue to learn piano on the awesome piano I recently bought
Haven't had sexual contact with a chick since last February. I'm kind of salty but at the same time not really. It is what it is bros. It's weird how I have the best body I've ever had in my life right now (6'2 200 lbs low body fat%) yet I'm in the longest pussy drought since I started having sex.
Fuck it. Imma just perfect this C Major Scale.
>>35438193
Oh did I accidentally imply that I had my own place?
My apologies, I live at home with my parents too.
Brb, killing myself.
>at gym right now
>dogsitting for my mum while she's on vacation
>no friends in this town
>gonna be the whole weekend just me and my gains
>spent whole day playing Shadow of Mordor
>went to family thing with dad's side
>went to another family thing with mom's side
>went home
>played more Shadow of Mordor
>waiting for salary so I can finish my skateboard
>>35438223
>no sex
>made it
Why is fit so delusional
>>35438254
>associating making it with sex, not fitness
why are you such a retard, anon
>got invited to party
>too much autism to go
>instead I'll just sit at home and browse /fit/
>good idea right guys?
>>35433661
Going out with gaybro I met at the gym. Hopefully back to my place after so he can pound my ass raw.
>>35438254
>believes sex constitutes making it
"Making it" in the body department sperg. If you believe you only made it when you are getting pussy on the reg than you won't make it buddy.
>>35438270
No.
It's perfect.
>>35433661
Are you me?
>wake up anxious to work out because I missed 3 days already
>get ready and rush to catch the bus
>after an hour of waiting I finally get to the gym
>it's closed until Saturday because of the holidays
rip my gains
Cozy night ahead:
>gym for a few hours
>make a taco/burrito (gains destroying) feast with boyfriend
>Have a few drinks
>board games with the family
Then go to bed because I'm a loser.
Happy New Year /fit/! We'll all make it.
>>35433867
Rather than hang out with your wife and kids and do like a family game night or get some mutual friends over, you want her to babysit while you fuck your coworker? And you feel sorry for yourself enough to post that here? Are you for real?
>>35433867
Disgusting piece of human garbage. You should kill yourself and free your family of your emotional burden.
>>35434585
same bro
better luck next year
>>35438519
Hi scoobs!
>>35433661
>eating with my family
>posting on an autism board
>going to the gym to work either legs or back/traps/shoulders/biceps
>take a shower
>watch martial arts movies
>cry myself to sleep cuz no gf
I went out in the shed, cooked up some broth of crawfish heads and claws and had a fun overhead party of my own. Worked up to 75 kg for a 1RM, then did dropsets down to 40 kg, then back to 1pl8 until I got tired of it. Wrapped up with some lat raises, set some meat to marinade so I can kickstart the barbecue season tomorrow, got dressed, and am now taking a shit after having dinner with my family. New Year in 18 minutes, gonna pop a bottle of sparkling wine with them, shoot the shit for a while, then go back home and play Battlefield.
>>35433867
"Allow me to whine on 4chan about my poor life choices"
I feel bad for your wife and kids. Hope she drops your ass and finds someone better. Infidelity, or the desire for, is disgusting and cruel.
>>35438653
my man, everything I wanted to say.
>>35435878
good luck brah
make us proud
>>35438728
at least your family loves you anon.
dont worry, focus on your own progress.
>>35436849
>> coming home, going to fuck some milf while her husband sits down stairs and listens through a baby monitor. He's a cuck.
It's not considered making it when you do it at expensive of someone else's fucked up psychology.
You should slap that whore in the face, then give a speech to the man as to why he should divorce that whore and live life anew and cure his mental ailment.
>>35438742
Does your family not love you?
Bros I need help
>be me, 19 sophmore in college
>get invited to first real party for NYE at a friends
>my gym bro cant make it, flying solo
>scared i wont be able to talk to anyone because of autism
What do I do bros? Do I go anyway? Should I just stay home an [spoiler]fap?[/spoiler]
Or do I bet that everyone else getting drunk will make make easier for me to talk to them and give me a shot at getting laid?
>>35438804
no, they do
my point is be grateful for things like family: girls come and go, but family is more important than any pussy.
Just had dinner with my father and his gf. Drank like two glasses of wine. Kind of depressed because I can hear the rave I usually go to from his house - but yeah, sobriety for goals and stuff. Happy new years fuckers. We're all going to make it.
>>35438819
Just go. You have to go, that is the most important thing. The only way to defeat your autism is to hang around with people. Staying home will only dig you further into your hole.
For everyone trying to "make it" whatever that means for anyone here, you have to do something different. You have to work on yourself and push through it to reach your goals. If you sit on this Slovakian chess analyst board and whine "I was invited to a party but I don't want to go because of muh autism," you're basically using the muh genetics excuse for social skills. If you want to get rid of your social anxiety, fucking work on it. 2016 is your year, declare it to yourself that you are not weak, you are not helpless and you're not going to make 2015 excuses. So go out there and make it. You only have one life to live. So you chose how to spend it.
>>35438819
Go lad, be a sick kunt. I'm at home on NYE and its shit
>>35439019
>For everyone trying to "make it" whatever that means for anyone here, you have to do something different. You have to work on yourself and push through it to reach your goals. If you sit on this Slovakian chess analyst board and whine "I was invited to a party but I don't want to go because of muh autism," you're basically using the muh genetics excuse for social skills.
thisssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss
>>35438819
Just do it, that was me my freshman year and I regret it so hard. Even if you barely talk to anyone people will remember you and start inviting you to more events, it just gets easier and easier.
Going to a college party later and the theme is to dress classy. Hopefully I get a new years kiss, wish me luck
>>35438870
>>35439019
>>35439043
>>35439071
Fuck, fine ill go.
Ill report back if the threads still going later
tfw just realized I'd be better off pretending I don't even want to go anywhere than pretending I do but can't for some reason
>>35438819
>I'm also 19
>in college
>in fraternity
Dude fucking go. It helps if you bring your own alcohol. If you have alcohol people are more likely to talk to you so bring a fifth of something or beers if you can. The best way to learn to be social is to throw yourself right into it so do it faggot
staying in for the 3rd year in a row
So bored of this shit
>>35435860
why parties? Does nobody go out to nightclubs? The're a great place to meet girl imo.
>Im alone too, tonight
>>35436513
You sound like a great lad.I would take you up on that, but im over the pond from you tho.
>>35433867
>married
>with children
Abandon all hope of a happy life. Your happiness now belongs to your children and your wife, in that order.
>freshers year of uni
>come home for christmas break
>dont get invited to anything
>spend the new year doing literally nothing while my friends are out having fun
Feels shitty lads.
>>35439556
protip: they are not your friends
going to party but doesn't start till 10. currently 6. looking for weed in the meantime but there is none in this city
Partner is sick in hospital.
Sitting at home looking after small child.
So far he has done 80 squats and a fuck tonne of burpies.
>>35436513
>tfw live in somerset and would happily go out and drive to you if I hadn't already had a few drinks
Sitting at home right now depressed as fuck because a bad break-up and I'm just trying to keep myself together from the feels crushing me. My head hurts /fit/, like a heat in my skull.
My ex basically called me yesterday saying her love for me (which was intense during our time dating) is starting to ebb and fade.
So I'm sitting here in my room drawing trying to distract myself from the crushing loneliness and a depression I haven't felt since my suicidal depression back in 2009/10.
I hate this /fit/. Only reason I haven't killed myself is because of my bros (who were all busy with their families tonight/or generally flopped on any plans we all had), and the will of a dead Australian bodybuilder which I found here, on this board.
/fit/, you've helped me in the past with some heavy shit and you were the ones who got me into lifting. Can I spend new years tonight with you?
I just want this night to end so I can go back to the gym (assuming it's even open) tomorrow morning.
>>35439852
I'll share a drink with you. It's morning but fuck it
>>35440083
Thanks bro, I appreciate it.
I'm not drinking but I am drawing. I'll share that with you.
Pic related
>>35440083
grinding your own coffee... Niall is this you?
>>35440287
that looks awesome
>>35440287
breh that looks cool. post the full image?
>>35440287
I should commission you
>>35440287
Thats awesome
>>35440326
If you pay me i can be
>>35440351
>>35440354
>>35440399
>>35440421
Thanks guys, i really appreciate it, especially today of all days.
Here's the (part of) full image so far brahs.
Want to finish this before 11:59
>>35441072
fuarkin mirin. Fellow d/ic/k here, how long you been drawing for? i've got to where I am just through life studies but im wondering if its worth actually looking at loomis, what books did you use to learn (if any?)
>>35439088
WELL?
>>35442695
bumpin' for results
>>35441072
Draw oryx the taken king with a big foreskin in his mouth
>>35436864
This made me smile for some reason
>most attractive friend mired me in front of her fiancee and felt my muscles
>lifted 2 of my largest friends in a hug and floor pressed another friend for reps to see if I could
Happy New Years' fuckers
We're all gonna make it
I love you assholes
>>35441210
>wondering if its worth actually looking at loomis
Nigger what
Get on that shit, Loomis is amazing.
>>35439556
Exact same thing here
>>35434022
Don't kill yourself anon. I care
>>35436513
What a lad
>>35436513
>Plymouth UK
Thanks. At least I know where to find you. I hate your fucking guts man.
>>35435860
Parties, nightclubs and such are shit. I remember back in highschool, people forced themselves to go, and l'd usually be the only one in the circle of friends to get really drunk, while the other ones followed the entire night. Never went with them ever again
>>35433661
spent new years having a couple of beers with my old man around the fire, pretty good would recommend lads
>>35443895
Oh really? Whys that? Have I crossed you before?
>>35444860
Guess
>>35436966
I don't believe you but I want to.
So I'm just going to act like you're telling the truth, regardless of whether or not you actually are.
>>35445104
Did you come into one of my self help threads and not like the advice given?
>>35445140
Hey, ive no real reason to lie to complete strangers. That's just how things worked out for me, itsvnot exactly the biggest change in the world but for me its like evolving into a completely different entity.
Im just telling it so you know there's hope even when you think you're all on your own and your backs against the wall.
You'll be okay just keep fighting, then you too will make sick life gains and be dating a high test qt who can make you laugh like mad.
I hope things come round for you I really do.
>>35445781
No. Guess again.
>>35445952
Fresh out of inspiration brother.
>>35435957
I hope, one day, to know this feel...
>>35446282
Kill yourself
>>35446346
Afraid I can't help you there angry little man.
>>35446505
I guess I have to go to Plymouth then
>>35446528
Not sure what's gotten your goat but try not to have a stroke over it
