So guys, the new year is coming up, curious as to how many of you are looking at bettering your sexual performance.
My question to you guys is...how the fuck do you stop ED at 24. I just went to this chicks house and couldn't stay hard for longer than 3 seconds. It went completely soft even when she was doing everything possible to try and get me hard.
I was completely sober and haven't had this problem before. Usually my dick is very active.
How potent is viagra or cialis? Any OTC stuff I could take that could help?
>>35395985
Porn and masturbation literally rewires your brain into not responding the way it should in a sexual encounter.
>>35395985
Everybody has off periods man, you don't need drugs because you couldn't get an erection once or twice.
Do no porn and only fap once a week.
I did it and my impotence was fixed
>>35395985
happened to me too
i just rationalized it to me not being attracted to her as i thought i would be
>>35396009
>>35396011
I'm actually going to try no porn at least. No fap for this week cause I'm seeing her new years
>>35396014
Fugg she was pretty
>>35395985
I have the complete opposite problem my man, wish i could give you some of my over reaction :/
>>35396066
I had the same problem. Got addicted to the extreme porn. Cut it out COMPLETLY and cut out masterbating too so ur dick is more sensitive. Don't worry I promise the problem Will go away.
>>35396117
Let's trade
>>35396176
I honestly think it's the porn that's got to me. I was watching some vile stuff that broke my dick. The whole way home today I felt sick to my stomach that I even watched that stuff.
OP agreed porn fucks you up hard.
I honestly was about to go watch porn and said to myself "im not gonna jerk off tho so it's okay" then saw this thread and realized how fucking stupid that is
Porn is the enemy, but masturbation isn't
>>35396117
same. Can rarely last longer than a minute or two. I can stay hard after so I have no problem keeping going but it would be great to be able to control it better.
would jerking off more/less/in different ways help at all?
I can have sex for several hours straight and can only finish from fairly aggressive/fast penetration. I don't think it's really a problem per se but I can't help but think that it's slightly unusual. I'm not sure where the line is between good performance and having some kind of ED
>>35396293
I used to be like that. Now I can't nut at all
>>35396293
I was the same way. Just keep having sex and you will get used to it. I found having one sexual partner and doing things that turned me on/ positions I like allow me to cum within a reasonable time. Used to go for like hours now I can enjoy a quickie feels good breh
I have a tight frenulum any tips on stretching it? I had phimosis and have stretched my foreskin enough to notice it's tight now
>>35396293
>Now I can't nut at all
Oh shit. Well I found that over time (I'm with the same girl) it's become easier to finish, like >>35396360 said. Although now I feel bad if I want to try and finish fast because her expectations were set so high
I got a question
is there such a disorder as "overmasturbation"
lately I've been feeling anxious after I masturbate, my chest and arms have also started to hurt.
I get why my arm should hurt, but should there be such a burning sensation in my chest, and should I be feeling anxious? it's not anything super serious, like no bruising, or rash, or anything like that. but I hate feeling anxious.
if the only advice is to not masturbate, what should I do to calm myself down?
>>35395985
How the fuck do I stop being horny all the time.
Sex has done nothing but waste my time and cause misery. I'm leaving sex behind this year.
would using a fleshlight vs jerking it make it better or worse when it comes to sex?
>>35396502
Surgery
>>35396552
Stop jerking off for a while
>>35396556
Have bad sex
>>35396617
Depends
>>35396638
How do I have sex? If I cum it's good.
>>35396654
bad sex*
>>35396511
Same lol sometimes I miss going for hours. But it's kind of a my own beta (I use that word precisely) perception of shortcomings that used to make sex all about the woman's pleasure. Now that I'm more fit I deserve a bit lol
>>35395985
The No Porn thing works wonders, plus reduce the number of times you masturbate. How you masturbate is also important, like don't grip your penis like a vice or you'll get too accustomed to that feeling.
Personally for me, my erections felt harder when I started taking multivitamins and zinc supplements.
>>35396654
Fuck a fatty ugger. Guaranteed bad sex mate.
>>35396638
Any alternatives?
How would I go about getting surgery done?
It really sucks that there isn't any clear-cut way to increase dick size. Its like with the hair-loss stuff where everything is all shady and every method has an inherent downside.
The only thing that seemed to be legit was this one thing i read where the guy said to grab the head of your dick and pull to stretch it in different directions with like reps and sets of each direction. i just started it and it seems feasible but im not sure.
anybody else give what I'm talking about a shot?
>>35397085
m8 just get over your insecurity. Unless you have a microdick or something, it's just about how you use it. Best of luck <3
>>35395985
Breh I'm 24 and have been suffering from ED since I was 15.
>stop watching ANY porn
>only masturbate using a Fleshlight, no more using your hand because deathgrip, and don't fap more than once every 3 days, no fantasizing either
>cardio 5 days a week, hard
>take l-arginine and zinc supps
>lift weights
>eat healthy as fuck
Do this for at least 3 months. I could barely get it up with my exgf, then we broke up, and I just recently saw an escort and was hard the whole time for the first time in literally a decade dude.
>>35397873
L-arginine and zinc legit? What's the dosage?
>she says netflix and chill
>couldn't get it up
Fuck
>>35396066
no porn, fap once a week to your imagination. just trust me anon, if you do anything with information from this board, trust my post.
>>35396713
That's my fetish.
>>35395985
maybe you like dudes
>>35395985
Did you ask her to masturbate herself for you? Or give you a slow lapdance? Why didn't you just make out / wrestle for like 15mins?
I find ED is mostly psychological, if a chick goes directly for my dick, and I know I'm not about to stay hard any time soon, I just grab her arms and play fight with her, cuddle, tease her until I get in the mood. It's weird how people are completely comfortable fucking without just getting close to each other and touching first. Honestly I enjoy teasing and denying penetration more than pounding anyway, if a girl is dripping wet and begging for your dick after you slowly rub it all over her lips and clit that is way hotter than just having to mechanically drill into a semi-bored looking stranger.
You're dick isn't a robot anon, you both need to be in the mood for sex.
If you did extended foreplay and you still couldn't get hard, then maybe that one is on you. Too much jerking off can definitely cause ED in young adults.
>>35396552
reported for penis abuse.
>start taking finasteride
>libido drops like a rock
>don't even give a fuck because I can fuck without libido anyway, and I'll be damned if I go bald before I'm 30
I wouldn't even mind if I lost all sexual motivation anyway. Shit only gets in the way.
bamp
>>35396009
Porn? Maybe.
Masturbation? Nope.
>>35400293
This is good advice, for my cock to really stay hard and for me to have some sexual thirst I'll have to engage in some foreplay or some kissing/cuddling for 10 minutes or so, just relaxes my mind and makes my body comfortable and ready to pound.
Never understood the girls who come over, hop into bed and are asking you to fuck them in 12 seconds, usually their pussy is dry as fuck compared to how wet a lady gets with some proper touching.
Maybe get your head not in the game but OUT of the game, stop focusing on how you need to fuck and need to get your dick hard and this and that and just enjoy the moment bro, best of luck
