How do you deal with your feels, /fit/?
I don't drink, drug or masturbate and right now I feel inflamed. I'm sitting here all alone at home and can't deal with the way I am feeling.
You should drink, do drugs, or masturbate baka desu senpai
>>35350990
I use to, but back then I felt even more worthless than I am now
>>35350981
go outside
>>35351025
I did, I walked to the park across my home. Sat around for abit, drank some water and came back in. I saw a couple of people down the street having a party and greeting their friends outside. I honestly didn't feel like staying there much longer after that.
>>35350981
You could try running a few miles or lifting. If that doesn't work weed might be the safest bet or maybe have 5 drinks and go to bed. Alcohol and feeling bad don't mix well for me, but I don't really have bad experiences with weed. Have you checked out meditation or something though? Maybe spending times with friends/family? Even just going on a long walk or drive with music without a set destination may help.
>>35351057
I use to abuse weed, so I stay clear of that and if I drink I begrudge it afterwards. It's night time now. I'm actually quite into meditation, have been doing it for the past couple of months, but I'm taking a break to the new year.
>>35351051
read book
watch movie
whatever hobby
see what friends are up to
do house chores
>>35351093
Shot mate, I am reading now.
smoke cigarettes to numb those feels breh
kills your appetite too, good for cutting
>>35351154
Gave that up to brother. The path of health is hard as fuck and lonely.
>>35351154
>smoke cigarettes
Do you even vape
>>35350981
I go really long walks in the forest/out on my boat. Sometimes drink a little while I'm wandering because I'm not a machine.
There's tons of neat crap out there just go wandering on the water/forest.
I left my gf because I found out she cheated on her last bf of 8 years.
It might have been stupid of me but I don't want to risk it.
>>35351277
>I drink a little because I'm not a machine
...
Step one is to identify the feel. Check what characteristics it has then look it up in your feel book. In the feel you will also see listed it's place of origin and what spells you can use to banish it
After researching and familiarising yourself thoroughly with the feel, you can prepare the ceremonial space and recite the appropriate spells ending with the traditional 'Get yee gone feel'. Then you can sit back and relax
But really have you thought about writing down the way you feel?
>>35351298
I am not.
>>35351319
Sounds like something out of a terry prachet book.
>>35351342
Implying all those that don't drink are?
>>35351295
cheat once they'll do it again
I tell myself something good will inexplicably happen to me one day.
Maybe a brilliant job will land on my lap or I win a load of money somehow. Maybe I'll find the perfect girl and live happily.
I'm 24 now and wonder what age these thoughts become unreachable.
>>35350981
+1 for drugs
>>35351405
I'm 24 too mate. Still waiting.
>>35351359
Well you're not human/organic if you don't.
>>35351435
Implying I need alcohol to be an actualized individual.
>>35351457
I never once mentioned alcohol.
>>35351405
after a while you become numb to it all
friends
girls
whatever
I can focus on training and myself 100%. it's like being a monk, almost.
>>35351500
Kek, I thought it was a given mate. Fair enough. I use to do the walks thing too, was good for me, but I got too 'busy'.
>>35351405
What about this... While youre waiting you take steps yourself to make it happen, just in case it doesn't happen all by itself
>>35351537
Then make some times. Everyone has a spare eleven hours somewhere. Buy a horse.
>>35351583
Yeah I should. Not that I could afford a fucking horse.
>>35351652
Is cheap enough if you're in the right area. Good whey to clear the mind.
>>35352034
Nah bro, a horse is not cheap where I come from haha
>>35352196
get a dog then senpai, pretty much the same thing
>>35352196
Then move. There are two kinds of people in the world and they're both terrible.
>>35352211
Can't wait to ride my dog
>>35352211
Dogs are just horse manlets.
>>35352268
Every time I get sad I listen to Nujabes, for example:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wGfguhnvECc
And it makes me feel better. Life isn't so bad
>>35352293
Not bad.
>>35351003
This
I don't get how people can deny that masturbating and porn is bad and an addiction. I'm close to cutting all addictions out and i feel better now.
>>35350981
Run, do some situps if your furious/too much energy(happens to me when i don't lift for 3days)
If you few like shit READ A BOOK. It's like a Rollercoaster ride of emotions (and shit/lonely isn't one of them). SF is good.
>>35352415
SF?
>>35352293
>Nujabes
never heard of him, I'm digging into this author.. thank you for the suggestion
>>35352427
Straight Fuckin'
>>35352432
Haven't had that in a while desu, the thing is I don't just want any skank anymore. Since I've started lifting.. I've been the one to get standards...
>>35351198
> do you even mouth fedora
fixed that for you friend
>>35352465
Maybe you're looking for love in all the wrong places.
>>35352516
Nah, I had two chicks I was fucking on the regular. Dropped them both cause I knew I was just using them and it was hurting them. Gay I know.
>>35352427
science-fiction, people come up with some interesting shit. Try Ringworld by Larry Niven
I play mind numbing games like oldschool runescape because im a huge faggot with like 3 friends.
>>35352586
Yeah, let go of video games too... just play chess and go online now.
>>35352601
damn nig that commitment. yeah idk man im miserable and kind of just deal with it.
>>35352615
Yet I'm on 4chan.. facepalm.
>>35352601
Do you have any friends? I'm 18 and have no good friends. I dunno what gives, maybe i can't trust people or i'm bad at showing that i care, but nobody seems to want to be good friends w m.
It worries me a bit that if school is over in 2or4years that i might not ever get/learn to have friends.
Got any tips on that?
>>35350981
I KNOW THIS FEELING OP
I am with you, I (not anymore) smoke or do drugs or drink. I know what feeling you are talking about. For me it strikes hard after I hang out with a girl but I don't hook up or anything. Suddenly I feel so worthless at home and video games aren't fun anymore. It's like I have a massive itch to go outside and do something but I don't know what
What I've realized is that, along with most things, as more time passes the feeling subsides and things feel different. It's the worst answer to hear but you just need to wait it out. I really enjoy doing cardio now since it totally frees you from your thoughts. Push yourself harder than ever and you start to feel different, naturally
Just my 2 cents!!! hang in there brother it's never as bad as it seems
>>35352674
I'm 24. When I was in school I had a fuck load of friends, but my social life dwindled. Back then I use to party and drug and what not, now I'm like the soberest kid around and I have no true friends to speak off. If anything I'm more awkward now than ever, so I guess it would be unfair for me to give you advice - but I've really been tryharding with getting my life together and people don't like it for some reason. But if I had to give advice it would be this: don't try and conform to what others want you to be in order for them to like you, do what you truly want in the moment, don't fear rejection and *be yourself* - not what you think you should be, but rather who you are. Easier said than done though. Oh and people can be shallow mother fuckers, might as well prepare yourself for that.
>>35352732
Nailed it bro, I actually stopped running recently because I was scared it was going to affect my gains, but my mind has just been in a whole different zone since then.
>>35350981
Do you have a job? I pour myself into work, that helps when you accomplish things and better yourself. Also, I read my Bible and pray. When I pray I try to relax my whole body and fight the urge to move around.
>>35351405
You control your future you nigger. If you want those things go out and get them. Do not be afraid of failure
>>35351405
> Maybe a brilliant job will land in my lap
Nothing will ever land in your lap. The good things that happen to you will be a direct result of the work you put in to earn them.
>>35352905
Please try meditating instead as a form of self-discipline, control and better focus and concentration. Brainwashing/indoctrinating yourself with unproven/invalidated 'truths' is not the way forward breh.
>>35352958
I believe in those truths though. I think it is the answer to all the emptiness.
I believe humanity is flawed so a focus on myself doesn't really do me any good.
>>35351092
You may like smoking a regular cigarillo and going on a drive. It will have some of the satisfaction of smoking weed without you being stuck with leftover weed, alcohol, or cigs. Just don't do any more beyond that since you don't want a nicotine addiction.
>>35352773
Hmm i have been getting more and more impulses to open myself to others, this might sound weird but i more and more get the need to praise, get to know and protect others. I'd probably even be down to hug some friends.
I get what yours saying, with "be yourself"
I can feel how my personality changing. i've been a cunt in elementary school, got mobbed in guess you'd call it highschool which fucked me over, made me cynical enclosed and a downer. I recovered nicely thought.
Isn't growing up fucking weird?
I guess i'll have enough time in my life to figure stuff out. thanks for cheering me up anon!
i ordered a 40" pizza just for myself
winter bulk am i right guise...
>>35353087
Serve yourself mate
>>35353087
On a sidenote noone seems to want me as a (true) friend right now, maybe i just have to get the hang of expressing myself/communicating and then it'll work, right?
>>35353170
A true friend being what exactly?
>>35353180
Someone i meet/talk to out of school/work i guess, i don't go out drinking with anyone so contact just ceases after my we both aren't forced to go in the same building. ( i don't use facebook)
>>35353228
What are your interests?
>>35350981
masturbate then run
>>35353241
That might be a problem, yeah. My interests are SF-books(in english), lifting (/fit/), anime and vidya (touhou), (all in english not the native language of my country).
I find myself having to translate words from english to my mother language quite often. Maybe all of that alienates me a bit to my peers?
>>35353390
I have to go to sleep soon it's 01:00 in the night were i live. I don't think this thread will be up tomorrow.
>>35353439
ill bump as much as possible
>>35350981
I lift nigger.
The fuck do you expect.
>>35353439
It's very possible bro. But listen here, it doesn't matter. Don't take too much offence that other people don't want to hang with you. Just keep going with what you feel is right. Serve your own ego man, you will never please other people. You might find some guys who like you, if you don't at least you were true to yourself and that is all that really matters. Peace.
>>35353451
Thanks
>>35351405
I'm 24. Great things happen all the time, you just gotta be accepting of opportunities or put yourself in positions where things will happen.
>>35353480
True words.
>tfw still want to stay in contact with her
>tfw she's probably hitting up her ex or god knows who
>>35352467
>> do you even mouth fedora
>asserting my autism
fixed that for you friend
>>35352560
>science-fiction
>people come up with some interesting shit
Oh, fit, you crack me up
>>35352674
Keep meeting people. It's like finding a girl friend. Eventually you'll find the right one. It'll just click. It can be like falling in love (no homo). I only have one real friend, but I love him and he loves me so it's pretty dope.
>>35353577
Only one thing's for sure: she's not thinking about you.
