>before working out
>thought every "meaty" guy was absolutely ripped
>easily impressed, wanted very little to be happy
>after working out
>no one looks good anymore
>if it's not 100% physical perfection, incredible aesthetics and strength it's not good enough
When did you realize you could never be happy anymore?
>When did you realize you could never be happy anymore?
When I realized I was stuck with my height and race.
>>35343937
What is your height and race?
>>35343937
>"precious privilege to love"
>"to love"
>implying i have ever loved anyone
>>35344054
i love you anon
merry christmas
>>35344054
>implying it has to be loving anyone and you cannot love life
>When did you realize you could never be happy anymore?
When I realized that I care too much about the opinions of others and can never change that fact about myself.
>>35344141
>>35344149
moar like dis
>>35344149
Thanks.
Just have a lot on my plate right now. Girl I'm talking to isn't responding, so that's the main thing on my mind rn. Any anon's wanna share their burden?
>>35344181
oh for fucks sakes
you're going to let yourself feel like shit for some cunt? man the fuck up.
WHO
CARES
she is going to cheat on you anyway, just find a new hole to stick your dick in.
>>35344194
Ik that, so I've been trying to talk to other girls in the meantime.
Is it wrong to show weakness? To feel dejected because you feel like you're not wanted?
>>35344181
If she doesn't reply to you, don't reply to her.
That sort of behavior is going to be consistent. It took me a while to learn you should just drop them when that shit happens.
aurelius best emperor
>>35344230
this
>>35344181
at least you are talking to a girl
>>35344227
listen
girls make EVERYONE feel unwanted. they are unloyal cunts that will stab you in the back the INSTANT they can find a "better" man.
don't feel that it is your fault, it's their fault for being selfish, inconsiderate bitches.
>>35344230
>>35344267
>>35344287
Thanks guys, I appreciate your words. She's not really that important to me desu, I'm just looking for someone to fool around with. I guess she picked up on that or something. Onto greener pastures I suppose.
Rejection is a part of life, I guess I'm not used to it yet. Any words of wisdom from any older anons in the field of picking up girls?
>>35343916
Are you me anon?
5 years lifting and it only get wore.
I've toned it down a lot in my convos among friends, gf's and family but inside my head...the storm rages.
>>35344305
What are you talking about, Anon? Do you mean you're drifting away from them, or not talking to them as much as you'd like? If you can, please clarify.
focus on yourself
lifting should make you happy cause you are improving yourself, and you dont have to rely on anyone: no bullshit, just you.
dont let other people bring you down.
>>35344100
You don't even know me.
>>35343916
Why are 80% of bodybuilders faggots who care more about other guys' bodies than their own?
>>35344287
>girls make EVERYONE feel unwanted. they are unloyal cunts that will stab you in the back the INSTANT they can find a "better" man.
Guys do the exact same thing
>>35344352
no
guys dont do this cause unlike girls, we dont have an army of people trying to get into our pants.
girls cheat cause there is no punishment for cheating as a girl. you just get a new dick/wallet to use.
>>35344325
No no, not drifting away really but increasingly unable to voice my /fit/ opinions on others bodies, physiques or ideas of "strength" without sounding like a sheltered know it all asshole. Gotta keep things in perspective and remember that after this long you're very far down the rabbit hole in comparison to what the average joe knows about lifting/exercise in general.
>>35344345
But their bodybuilders anon..ofcourse they're going to care alot about their bodies and others. Hopefully more about theirs than others but still.
You're not making sense son.
>>35344364
You're deluding yourself, go out and see how people operate irl. Its all the same swirl of vain bullshit
>>35344388
guys are far more likely to stay loyal cause they dont have pussy on demand like girls have dick on demand.
>>35343916
The day i was born
>>35344395
That's true. Its much easier for women to get dick. But finding a person to have a healthy relationship with is just as difficult for them.
>>35344369
I have no doubt what you're saying is true, Anon, but you should remember that you cannot save everyone.
Are you uncomfortable with the people around you? Are your friends and family not healthy? Are you struggling between the choice making them healthy but sounding like a evangelist or keeping silent but letting them die an early death?
Sorry for the questions Anon, I'm just trying to understand your situation better.
>>35344181
Thing you got to remember, and this shit is hard to remember, is that there are tons of girls out there who are gorgeous, smart, funny, etc. This girl isn't totally unique. You'll meet many in your lifetime. Don't get hung-up on this one. If it works out, great, but there is nothing you can do to force it, so why try?
>>35344149
Should've butchered the Germans while you had the chance, Marius
>>35344406
guys have to work their ass off to get dates
girls dont
it's easier to hit a target if you have more shots, isnt it?
>>35343937
Oh fuck off with that shit you can still make up for it in many other ways.
Zyzz was a sandnigger. Frank Yang is a chink. Yet they live/d much happier lives than anyone on this board.
Fucking sadcunts.
>>35344420
If you're some Average Andy who wants to wife every girl you get a whiff of thenof course itll he hard
But observe the guys who actually get girls and youll see very clearly they have no problem passing up one broad for the latest model.
>>35344444
even if you are a 10/10 guy, life will never be as easy for you, as it is for a girl.
that's just how it is.
>>35344407
Well my dad is morbidly obese but I haven't lived with him for years, he's already gave himself diabetes and a host of other medical problems on top of gout so he's gonna go here soon.
I've got a fat little sister who needs to get her health together but it's tough to control things at 16 and when she lives so far away.
My mom has always struggled with her weight and never progresses but at least tries and doesn't eat shit.
Weird family dynamics given that both my brothers and my other sister are fitness fanatics pretty much created by watching our dad eat himself to an early grave. Thanks for asking anon, writing this is actually making me feel better truth be told.
>>35344458
are you a girl?
>>35344149
FUAAAAAAK anon that helped me a lot, thanks.
>>35344467
no
but you have to admit, girls have life on easy mode when it comes to dating, no?
guys always have to work harder, even if they are attractive or wealthy. compared to
>hi, I have a vagina. worship me!
life is easy for a girl.
>>35343916
>when i got acne at 19 and still have it at 31 on the face a little and the back/shoulders a little more
>when i left college without my qt3.14 and meeting people as an adult is stupid hard
>when i got banned from tinder 3x for being too alpha
>when i let the one get away to get back with a succubus of an ex
>>35344410
Ha, thanks Anon. You're right about the fact that it's hard to remember what you just said. Is there a way you keep yourself from straying from that creed?
I know that THAT specific girl isn't really special, but I just can't help feeling something for her.
I appreciate your advice. Thanks Anon.
>>35343916
>tfw if someone isn't fridgemode I can't mire at all
>tfw I'll see a bodybuilder or someone with a perfect V-taper and recognize it as the aesthetic standard and a ton of work went into it, but I just don't find it aesthetically pleasing
>tfw I have a natural taper with a crazy shoulder to waist ratio and am struggling to reach fridge mode, squandering what many would consider to be great potential
>>35344481
>>when i got banned from tinder 3x for being too alpha
> being too alpha
Maybe you were just ugly? I've seen plenty of good-looking people say creepy shit but they've never been banned.
>>35344478
girls can get fucked easier, sure, but also manipulated & discarded much easier too, especially in the early years.
Its not really better or worse for them, its just desperate guys that make it seem that way.
>>35343916
>implying l was happy to begin with
>>35344504
>men
>manipulating more than girls
oh im laughing.
>>35344498
gaymode enabled
>>35344522
like i said, if you''re coming from a background where you got no play, its hard to see how this shit really works.
>>35344502
nah f@m. bitches just think theyre better than they are because they have 3,000 guys spamming their fat asses
>>35344478
I think Vsauce said it best
Because men can have a virtually limitless number of offspring, and women can only have about 20
One side will naturally become competitive- males
One will naturally become picky- females
>>35344498
did someone order a fridge?
>>35343916
13, my first kiss and best friend of 4 years died of cancer. I asked her to marry me the summer before she died.
I've been lifting ever since, and have felt content with my life twice, only seconds.
Last year i met someone at a party who looked like her, a body what i imagined she would have grown into. 5 years after she died and i'm still having dreams about her, after the dream is over i am forced to open my eyes and discover a nightmare where nobody cares or remembers her. Her sister became a whore, her parents drug addicts, and nobody else to remember the girl who died but could have been, but me.
In times like this, where i think back to the sad things, it helps to remember that there are gay people dying of HIV as we speak.
>>35343916
>tfw hardly any women (that you can get) meet your standards anymore
>tfw some of the handsome male rascals posted in /fit/ are more attractive to you now
>nohomo
>>35344444
is no one really checking these quints?
>>35344444
>>35344466
I'm glad to be of help, Anon. Do you think any of your larger family members can be saved?
Not to be rude, but I think that you should have a sort of intervention for your parents. With your brothers and sister as your comrade, force your parents to recognize how unhealthy their lifestyles are.
I realize that I am overstepping boundaries by telling you what to do, Anon, and I know that I am in no position to give advice, but I think that family and friends are a vital part of life. I think that you should do what you can to save them, but if they are beyond redemption, then make memories with them while you still can.
Godspeed, Anon.
>>35344181
What do you do if a dude doesnt respond?
brush it off
should be the same with a girl
>>35344227
Dont listen to >>35344287
youre going to meet many people in life and you cant possibly make a connection with all of them
the feeling has to be mutual and if she isnt feeling it, youll have to move on and find someone who is
>>35343937
until your son cucks you because you're dumb and weak
>>35344481
Awkward and ugly must be tough. I'm sorry, dude. That's not fair.
>>35344576
>sister became a whore, her parents drug addicts
Cancer did you a favor. You fell in love with trailer trash, dude.
>>35343958
6'2 and white
>>35344421
Zyss was aesthetic in every way possible though, like even white guys would give up their faces to have that face
>>35344149
That's because to know if you're good you first need to know who else is good and who's bad. For something like lifting its just a number so its easy but for aesthetics and shit its a lot more complicated, since theres no absolute you end up valuing the opinions of others more than yours.
>>35344444
>>35345363
Zyzz had surgery on his nose.
He just had an amazing personality/confidence.
>>35344277
No one has noticed this lonely anon? Fuck okay.
>>35343916
Congrats on your body dysmorphia
