May to September of this year, I refrained from ejaculating to porn. I did have some tempting times, but I overcame them all. For 5 months, that's almost 150 days, I was almost completely porn free. That was the happiest, freest, and most euphoric experience of my life. My mind was always feeling good, and I discovered so much about the world, history, philosophy, lifting, etc.
Then, uni came along. The social stigma, as always, was horrible. The workload was often stressful. I was becoming very demotivated in many areas of life. One day, I decided it would be alright to fap just to let off some steam. I mean, I deserve some reward for 5 months right?
Fucking worst mistake of my life. I have not been able to resists porn and fapping for more than 3 weeks since then. It's horrible. And of course, I have very few girls who can distract me from my urge to fap.
Basically, I come to /fit/ with a question: How can I get my life back together and emancipate myself from the sinful, disgusting creation that is 'porn', without relapsing consistently?
Also general no fap/no porn thread (experiences, studies, etc.)
Cut off your arms and remove your internet. Saves money and problems one may face while still having arms.
You're fapping as a pressure release, just find a way to direct it elsewhere. If you're stressed out then figure out a way to solve the issue an get back on track.
Its the same principle as procrastination, actually.
>>35313530
>most euphoric experience of my life
Sounds about right
>>35313530
Fapping is a natural thing, You cant just no fap for 100k years. The balloon will burst eventually. Blow of some steam. Try fap without porn be creative. Like me I bought Illustration Fantasy Art book and fap to aesthetic female body with skimpy armor. lol just anything not porn is good enough.
Yeah most guys hates porn because it promotes man with power, patriarchy, misogyny etc. Woman nowadays lost of femininity, Fertility, Motherhood and whatnot. No wonder the divorce rate is fking high.
Its just sad really, this criminal running the world without anyone opposing them. Allowing them to spread moar chaos.
self discipline u faggot
how desperate are you to never fap again?
here's an idea, every time you feel the urge to fap, burn yourself with a lit match. That will solve that problem real fucking quick.
and yes I'm serious
>>35313843
>The balloon will burst eventually
Actually, if the "balloon" gets too full, you'll just let it all out during the night.
>>35313843
>Yeah most guys hates porn because it promotes man with power, patriarchy, misogyny etc.
kek
>>35313530
I watch porn 4-5 times per week and my life is amazing. You have other problems, anon.
>>35313843
>Yeah most guys hates porn because it promotes man with power, patriarchy, misogyny etc
>actually thinking this
Lel
Food for thought if you watch porn:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aWM4bJNpch0
>>35313843
Fucking gains goblin detected
>>35313843
>Yeah most guys hates porn because it promotes man with power, patriarchy, misogyny etc.
No...
I hate it because it makes guys think that disgusting shit is normal and fucks with their brain. It also causes erectile disfunction, which I'm pretty sure I completely cured myself from during my off time.
Trust me I've been on this site for years and I have seen it all
The only thing nofap/noporn is good for is fixing erectile dysfunction and making your dick more sensitive (some people can't cum with a real person because they fap so much). 20 days is enough to regain your sensitivity.
Everything else is broscience and placebo.
Here's mine, did it a few months ago
Day 1-3
Easy. Nothing bothered me at all, felt exactly the same. Cleared all the porn from my bookmarks and got a small feeling of accomplishment.
Day 4-7
Things got difficult. Dick got hard frequently for no reason. Craved porn, specifically with slutty/trashy girls. Day 5&6 were particularly bad. Dick looked and felt visibly bigger from here onwards.
Day 8-11
Random erections and my desire for porn started to drop but my attraction for curvy/chubby girls in real life went up a lot. Found my standards dropped massively as long as they had a big ass or tits.
Day 12-14
Sex drive completely dropped, zero interest in actively looking for porn but simple softcore images would set me off if they caught my eye. I also stopped having dreams of any kind when I slept, which is strange because I usually dream a lot.
Day 15-23
Massive depression, no sex drive and feel more tired than usual. Feel like if I stroked my dick even for a few seconds, I'd definitely end up blowing my load. Precum occasionally leaking out of my dick when I strain/lift heavy etc.
Day 24-28
Nothing really changed, feel depressed & tired most of the time, more-so than usual. Would without a doubt cum in seconds if I fapped now. Not a single wet dream/sexual dream in the entire 28 days.
Fapped on day 29
Orgasm was longer than usual but nothing super intense, felt more like I was stretching a muscle I hadn't used in a while. Shot 8/9 thick streams of cum. Instant feeling of minor regret afterwards, like 'I could have gone longer' and 'that wasn't worth it'. Mood boosted too, no longer feeling depressed and could not give a fuck about that no gf feel.
All in all, it made me depressed as fuck. I'd recommend weekly faps.
>>35313764
Well I hate to turn this into /adv/, but basically the social scene at my school is like completely against me.
All the friends I make are short lived, and the shit tests girls give me seem unending. The girls that aren't bitches eventually lose interest in me.
To release pressure, I usually text/talk to girls. However, I don't have a good amount to keep me occupied. That's what I've been trying to accomplish at uni: getting to know enough girls in order to distract myself from fapping. However, as stated before, it's not been so easy.
To make this /fit/ related, I am usually forced to distribute pictures of my physique to girls who think I'm "not shit", since I'm a recovering dyel so no one knows I lift when I wear a shirt.
>>35316242
>I'd recommend weekly faps.
I've been doing this.
However, things got bad. I would start looking at porn, but then realize I should do it naturally instead. I couldn't stop though, and I would end up finally stopping at like 1 am.
So how do I stop watching porn and reduce the amount of times I fap to max once a day?
Right now I'm fapping every 2 to 3 hours and get anxious and frustrated if I don't.
I don't want to fap to porn because I think porn is evil and distorts the mind, but what else can I fap to?
Isn't fapping to celebs basically the same shit?
>>35316333
>but what else can I fap to?
Use your imagination.
Just think of you having sex with someone you find attractive.
>>35316332
>Right now I'm fapping every 2 to 3 hours and get anxious and frustrated if I don't
Once you get the urge to fap, go to another room. Play videogames, text like 5 girls, take a jog outside, play an instrument, etc.
Once you start feeling the urge: close your eyes and take 5 long, deep breaths
Most importantly, don't ever touch your dick unless for hygiene.
>>35313530
If you're so unhappy at Uni... WHY did you go?
Seriously, just learn a trade and fuck any 4 year school. Even becoming a medical doctor is NOT worth it these days. Lot of those folks have huge debts and are miserable wage slaves like eveyone else.
Learn something that you can learn to do as a trade skill quickly, like welding. Then if you're unhappy where your at m9ve away. Travel. Just get you independence.
Student debts are rediculous and for what? To get some shit degree and have your world view of truth inverted into an Anti-White Anti-Male social marxist one with a cultural and racial suicidal outlook? - no wonder shit was bothering you!
Get out of THAT system first.
>>35316464
>If you're so unhappy at Uni... WHY did you go?
I'm learning economics and Spanish so that I may go to Latin America and use my physique as a male model while also working as a waiter and shit and investing.
>>35317477
LOL
