>tfw sex is less about enjoying the other person's body and more about enjoying the attention of someone enjoying your own body
Is this what fitness narcissism feels like? I no longer deeply care about the features of women and instead care for the attention and admiration that comes from someone else touching me and complimenting me.
I don't know how to feel about this.
>>35296478
As long as you get off who cares?
>>35296478
If that were true your peepee would get hard when fatties mire
But it doesnt does it
>>35296622
Not fatties but definitely still with girls I know are not all that attractive.
Just because your sexual enjoyment stem from narcissism, doesn't mean everyone's does. For me, I can't even get going until my partner is enjoying herself.
But part of sex is selfish, just by definition. Having someone crave your bare features, and be attracted to your essence is what sex is all about. That's why it's so meaningful, and why it's so deeply rooted in our society.
>>35296645
well put anon
you are a poet
>>35296645
So people crave sex not to bust a nut but to feel validated?
Holy shit this is quote fucking true senpai
>>35296478
I've been fucking my wife for 20 years and she doesn't get this. Tbh I meet up with Craigslist guys when I'm out of town on business because it is so fucking nice to have someone with that look of craving in their eyes as they stroke or suck me. They act like my pleasure is their own and my cum is some sort of life exlier. I can't even cum with my wife because she is so selfish in bed and cannot even see it.
You know when I think about it, I don't enjoy myself that much during sex, I spend most of my effort on getting the girl to cum. But I'm not doing it for her enjoyment, but because I want to get her adoration. I want to be agknowledged as good in bed, that gets me off more than the act itself.
I gotta work through these issues some day.
>>35296666
>So people crave sex not to bust a nut but to feel validated?
Yes. Women especially. Some people genuinely do fuck purely for the physical pleasure, but in all honesty like 95% of the time masturbation physically feels better than sex. It's just the emotional aspect of sex and connecting with another human being on a physical and chemical level that makes sex superior to masturbation.
>>35296699
/Fit/
>>35296478
I have better faps when I'm looking at myself in the mirror fapping.
Idk man,I think its normal and not bad,narcisism isnt bad as long as you dont go overboard with it
>>35296717
I agree
>>35296717
>What is oxytocin
>>35296717
>masturbation feels better than sex
Depends, sex can be worse because of the other person, or better because of the other person
Also because nothing feels quite like a warm wet pussy
>tfw you pound a prostitute and feel good that she touches your chest,abs and glutes and don't give a fuk about the pounding
>>35296666
That's why most people start having sex regularly after they lose their virginity. After you lose your virginity, you realize that people DO find you attractive, and the only person holding you back is yourself.
>>35296717
I also agree, that's why foreplay is so important for girls.
>>35296713
literally me 100%
I agree with the OP for the most part. I'm constantly watching my GF for signs of her enjoyment of what I'm doing.
>>35296478
wow ive never put words to this but yes, yes this is it
I cant get into it unless the girl is.
>>35296713
>>35296860
That's why sex with men and traps is much better. Easy as fuck to make them cum, sex becomes much more enjoyable and much less of a chore.
N-no homo tho
>>35296860
>>35296713
I'm guessing that neither of you communicate it bed that much. I think realizing that talking to your girl while having sex gets her off just as much as the actual sex, is important. Don't compliment them, but communicate how you feel, and tell them how they feel.
In my experience, stuff like "Yeah I know you like that" or telling them they're dirty really gets them off.
>>35296699
Kill yourself
>>35296713
This kinda, my goal is to make the girl cum and then go to pound town
>>35296834
>most people start having sex regularly after they lose their virginity
Do you know where we are?
>>35296976
>Do you know where we are?
We aren't most people.
>>35296834
>you realize that people DO find you attractive
>>35296976
Since this thread is about sex I would assume most people here aren't virgins, and accept this as truth.
>>35296959
thats true, I don't. Porn really turned me off of dirty talk. It all just sounds so fucking cheesy and fake
>>35297065
I was implying that there are a lot of guys on /fit/ who've only had sex with 1-3 girls. Steamrolan is a good example
>>35297049
There is a very very slim portion of the populus that is so unattractive that no one would sleep with them. For most people however, even on 4chan, their inability to get laid stems from personality issues.
>>35296478
Sex is boring with my gf ;_;
>I wanna go back to dat fresh puss
>>35296478
Youre insecure with yourself, perhaps even more so as you work out and realize it doesn't fix the mental. People who are the moat insecure are the ones that require constant external reassurance about said insecurities. Healthy individuals that are secure with themselves are able to generate this security because they have internal motivation and logic that keeps them going;they don't need to be told they're pretty to feel temporarily okay with themselves because internally they know that they're competent and have self efficacy.
>>35296717
Agree with this 100%. Whole thread is gold, someone save this chit.
>>35296645
What am I if I am particularly turned on by my partner not enjoying herself?
>>35297308
Terror crying gets me sexually excited. I feel like a monster.
>>35296717
>95% of the time masturbation phtsically feels better than sex
You are either trying to justify your virginity or youve been fucking some rotten, dried out pussy.
Slipping your dick into a wet pussy or mouth is one of the greatest feelings on earth. Sometimes it feels so good that you bust immediately. Never happens with masturbation.
Masturbation is easier and more convenient, thats the only thing it has going for it.
>>35297363
Nah, I agree with the other guy. I can get off way quicker masturbating than I can sex.
I know it's a different picture with a different girl, but I still looked for the bottle with the label
>>35296806
>mfw lost 30 pounds and banging a prostitute tomorrow to reward myself for being in what is considered a healthy non-overweight weight range
>mfw probably will get one again right before summer to reward myself if I lean bulk hard
>>35297099
It doesn't have to be dirty talk, just acknowledge her feelings, and explain them to her. Girls are usually overwhelmed physically during sex, and talking to them adds that mental aspect that pushes them over the top.
This is just experience, but fingering a girl and having her taste your fingers after gets them hot as fuck. For some reason they like to taste themselves.
>>35297308
This pleases the Ted
>>35297849
Was Ted Bundy at large before or after Married with Children was on the air?
>mfw this thread is dying because all 4 people on /fit/ that aren't virgins already contributed
so I realized today that I may have nice girth
I've never been happy about my size (about 5.9 inches long) and figured I was just mediocre, but I've made 3 girls bleed now and I know they weren't on their period
This last one I didn't even realize until I got home and there was blood on my underwear from where it had rubbed against her during/after, it dawned on me
>>35296478
Same here OP. I really get off on being used as a sex object.
Though I'm worried about what will happen to my libido when I get older and out of shape.
Actually I think that's what turns me on the most, getting mired like that
That, and how it feels
>>35298488
when did that faggot got gyno
>>35298478
He was at large during different periods around 76-79 if I recall correctly.
I'm 23 and I don't really enjoy sex. I absolutely enjoy getting off, but I don't care for the mechanics and headache of the sexual act itself.
I didn't actually have any sexual experience until after I lost about 100lbs at 19, then I lost my virginity at 20.
To me it's more about proving to myself that I can make it with someone I find myself attracted to. It's a validation thing. I think it might have something to do with my mother to be completely honest. I want to prove to her / the general feminine populace that I'm worth it and not disgusting anymore.
I can't really even enjoy it for the most part, because of my fucked up skin after the weight loss. My stomach and ass flap around and it makes me feel horrible. There are some positions I can't enjoy entirely because of this.
If I never had actual preventative intercourse for the rest of my life that would be fine. Vaginas are kinda nasty. Maybe I feel that way because I never had any healthy formative exploration when I was of a more normal age for that sort of thing. I find myself attracted to underage girls a lot.
I had a girlfriend for about a year and a half, she was my tenth partner, six if you're counting only penetration. I broke up with her because I wanted to keep seeking validation from new partners, and her love alone wasn't enough.
I felt like shit about it, and it caused a huge upheaval in both our lives, but we still fuck, because apparently I'm that good, and she has a crazy libedo. She's a monogamous type, and still is faithful to me, even though I'm now technically able to persue others (and have been with one other since the event). The whole thing makes me feel like a shit, but what am I supposed to do? I'm so lost here, and I can't find any internal validation.
She browses here to, so if you see this: I love you. But you already know this.
Thanks for listening, /fit/. I'm trying to work up the courage to start seeing a therapist again. Sorry for the blog post.
>>35298670
>she
For me I'm addicted to seeing what every girl is really like underneath their public face - what turns them on, how they like to be fucked, the noises they make, how they get themselves off etc. I don't know if I can ever settle down because of this.
I don't enjoy sex. I like masturbating though and I do it every now and then. But sex with men (no homo, I'm a grill) does nothing to me, no matter how they finger or lick or what ever.) It just feels good if someone is crazy over your body, but that's about it.
I've only been with 2 men, but we had sex many times so you would think it would get better. But I haven't had sex that many times though. I've been in celibacy for like 10 months now and it's totally fine.
>>35296478
Everything in life is about sex except for sex. Sex is about power.
>>35298766
For some reason, I find girls dressed in lingerie more seductive than girls naked.
>>35298862
This x100000
Gunna text the hooker i'm seeing tomorrow asking her to wear some
>>35296478
I understand where you're coming from.
16 year old me
>touch a girls butt, sniff her, taste her, omg my mind is fucking going crazy
26 year old me
>bitch stick both my balls and dick in your mouth and 360helicopter spin while touching my muscles
I miss the innocence of just being happy to touch a girls body and become aroused.
>>35298515
If you literally teared their vagina during sex, you'd know it and sex would instantly stop. You've just been having sex with them immidiately before or after their period.
What's your girth?
Best thread on /fit/ in a while. Thanks, pal!
Personally I love watching myself in the mirror when fucking. American Psycho style.
>>35298862
And yes, lingerie, skirts, anything that'll reveal something, but not everything is, and makes me, solid.
>>35297099
Exactly. Porn dirty talk is shit. Don't use humiliation unless they are into it. Telling them that they are a good girl with a smirk while you slip your wet finger in their mouth (like anon said) will get them going.
If you want to cash in on fit narcissism you better be using your words to make girls horny. They love the psych component. It turns them into animals
>>35298794
My girlfriend was with one guy before me. After we started fucking regularly she told me when she was with him she didn't enjoy sex and wondered why people would get addicted to it. She said now she knows because the sex between us is amazing and I make her cum a ton every time we fug. She even will wake me up in the middle of the night occasionally for a quickie.
Tldr: you may need to just find the right guy
>>35299258
how bigs your dick though
>>35298922
I don't know, somewhere between 5 and 6 inches I'd guess
my last girlfriend said I was pretty girthy but I thought it was just lip service, said I made her bleed but I figured that was covering up for a period
I know it didn't make much sense but I think I connected the dots today, when I lost my virginity a few years ago the girl asked me to slow down because it hurt a bit, then I found some bloody spots on my underwear that time as well
>>35296478
>>35296834
>be self-confident
>don't get external validation
>bust nuts by fapping
>no motivation for women
Or I'm just telling myself all this
>D E L U S I O N A L
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>>35298794
I agree with anon, you need to find the right guy. A guy who connects with you deeper than any physical or mental connections. A connection that makes you just feel weird inside. They exist, no matter what you think. I wa disillusioned for the longest time, until I found that connection in a girl I'd known for 2 years.
We had been friends, and I'd actually taken her best friend on a couple dates. Then one night, we ended up just talking for hours. I couldn't get her out of my head for a week after. She ended up giving me Chlamydia and never talking to me again, but she still made me believe in girls again.
>>35299277
No idea. Maybe a full 7 inches? If not no shorter than 6.5. Been told I have extremely nice girth. I get off to her getting off so I focus on doing motions and angles and speeds she really likes while watching and feeling her for feedback. I don't absolutely lose myself and go to town until she's asking me to fill her full of cum.
I don't know if I ever gonna make use of all these tips in this thread.
>>35299150
>tfw you find a girl's psychological hot button
>>35299359
But are you truly confident? I felt this way for a while, confident in myself and my actions. But deep inside, I wasn't confident. I was deflecting the fact that I hadn't had a relationship in years, with over confidence and a superiority complex.
Maybe you are confident and happy, but are you as happy as you could be?
>>35299258
Is me
>>35299324
Yea I love this girl. What reeled me into her isn't her body but her personality and outlook on life. I would go into detail but I'd rather just say we want the exact same life. We are just lucky we found one another and I connect to her on a level I've never connected to anyone before.
>>35298670
Try not being such an insecure faggot.
OH wait... you're on /fit/, where everyone is an insecure faggot.
When I was little I was home-schooled until 7th grade. I think this resulted in a lot of peculiar psychology. Every once in a while I would meet a girl and just fall in complete love, even as a 4th grader, and being isolated mostly at my house it became a problem of over-romanticism. I continued to do this thing all through high school, getting hung up on one girl but not having the social skills to seal the deal past friendliness. The last one especially, kind of strung me along from sophomore to senior year, then freshman year of college a bit. She wasn't anything special but in my mind I'd created a serious, romantic object of affection that was essentially fantasy.
In college I shaped up my look, got progressively more confident, and hooked up often. Any time I'll have those romantic feelings again they are extremely fleeting and all it takes is one hook-up to turn off my affection entirely. I haven't "loved" anyone since I was 18 and I'm 21 now. Hooking up has become somewhat uninteresting and in a lot of cases I prefer masturbation because I don't have to deal with a girl I have no feelings for hogging my bed. I kind of want to know if I've really just "not found" the right person or if my mind is broken.
Sorry for the blogpost but I'd hate to be that weird 35 year old bachelor uncle at the rate things are going.
>>35299490
This might be a unique solution to your problem, but try taking acid. It sounds like home schooling has nurtured that romanticism aspect, and as you grew older, you started to resent commitment because you were never able to achieve it. As confident as you feel, when you think of your past romantic objects, what stopped you from talking to them? Was it truly the separation of your home schooling, or was an innate feeling of inferiority towards your "idol"?
If you do find the right girl, it would achieve the same result, but I think you need to do some serious soul searching before you can love someone else.
>>35299490
> I was 18 and I'm 21 now
WATCH OUT EVERYONE HE DIDN'T FALL IN LOVE FOR THREE WHOLE YEARS HE WILL NEVER LOVE AGAIN
POOR GUY GIVE HIM SOME MONEY
>>35298670
good on ya for being in touch with your thoughts and feelings. Do you write your stuff down elsewhere just for the sake of writing it down? I find that just getting it out of me is enough to get the thoughts going, and through this I can reach new conflusions about my thinking which can help me.
I enjoyed reading your post and you sound interesting
>>35299623
I have a journal that I haven't touched in about a year. I should get back on that. Thanks for listening friend.
>>35299305
me and my ex broke up because I'd tear her everytime we had sex
It's a combination of girth, how tight her opening is, how intensely you're fucking and how wet she gets
somehow we couldn't make it work because she'd be in pain after everytime we had sex, gf of three years and I drifted apart and it ruined everything. 8 months ago now
>>35299572
Not him, but good advice. I'm interested in taking acid so I might be a bit biased towards it.
How would you describe hitting acid when it comes to realisations about oneself?
>>35299597
It's been a repetitive cycle and the process has been the same every time, no matter how "good" of a girlfriend she might have been
>>35299572
That is pretty unique. I think I am resentful and I did used to feel somewhat inferior. Also incapable, the idea of actually "attaining" her was usually something I wrote off entirely. Easily discouraged as well.
At this point I usually just avoid opening lines of communication with a girl because, even if I'm really interested in her, I know in the course of talking/build up to dating a switch is going to go off in my head and I'll lose all interest while she'll just be confused.
It's like I have some sort of autism where I view "getting" a girl as an achievement as opposed to a step in a lifetime process. I'm not unempathetic, that's exactly why I'm fairly avoidant now, I'm very empathetic and I hate hurting people because I feel it but I simply can't force my dumb brain to be satisfied and adequately affectionate.
I have to wonder what my parents think because I haven't ever really been in what I'd consider a stable relationship and I'm going to graduate college in a year, where it only gets harder to find people.
>>35299700
The first step in healing yourself is forgetting your ego. This is where I think acid might help you. Forget what you mean to others, and forget what you mean to yourself. You don't need to start from scratch, but try and find out who you are and who you want to be. Then merge the two. As adolescent as this sounds, fuck what your parents think. I haven't been in a meaningful relationship since sophomore year of high school, and I'm a junior in college. If you don't want to be in a relationship then you don't have to be, you don't owe your parents that.
>>35299684
It's something that's different for everyone, and hard to explain. To be fair, I've never actually taken acid, but I've seen what it's done for my friends, and it can be life changing. I experimented with Salvia a year ago, which definitely humbled me, but didn't affect me in any major ways.
>>35299490
You have deep-rooted self-loathing issues and probably have Mommy issues due to emotional neglect, abuse, or other maternal bonding problems while growing up.
Your self-esteem is super low (you seem to feel yourself to be a loser of sorts due to this 'problem') and so have an inherent sense of self-worthlessness.
How can a woman be attracted to a PoS like me (you)?
There must be something wrong with them.
How can I love someone who loves something gross/damaged/flawed (like me(you)?).
Damaged mothers often hate to see their sons grow to become attached to other women - be it a wet-nurse, a babysitter, a teacher, a girlfriend, a fiancee, a wife. They 'replace' her, and you become less dependent on her. They resent this and will hurt you for it. If it makes you feel any better, you leaving homeschooling had this impact on her.
>>35296478
You seem to like underage girls based on your picture.
>tfw I don't enjoy sex at all, busting nut is the only thing that feels good.
I don't tell my gf that because shes moaning and enjoying it while I don't feel anything during sex.
>condom lyf
>>35300260
Get better condoms
>>35300777
Which ones?
>tfw lose 110lbs
>lookin good
>been hooking up with this chick for the past month or so
>realize the other day, true epiphany-style, that I don't even find her attractive
>the thought had literally not crossed my mind
>i just love the attention I get now that I'm not overweight
I don't know how to feel either OP
>>35300783
sheepskin nigga
>>35300783
Ultrathins, "skin", whatever ones advertise not feeling like you're wearing a condom. It's pretty great desu senpai
>>35297396
>>35297363
I agree that slipping your dick into a wet pussy or mouth feels 100 times better
I prefer bjs though because I don't actually have to do anything..
But I prefer fucking a girl to jerking off because girls have boobs and butts to grab
>tfw knowing this girls feel
>>35298670
>has sex at 20
>hadn't had sex in my formative years
There are millions of guys who lost it after 20 who are perfectly fine and don't come up with tragic self-psycho-analyses
>>35300829
>getting mad about something you don't have
How immature. Just go out and fix it then, jesus christ stop sitting on 4chan and bitching about it. It's a fucking Friday night.
>>35300811
I'll have to try those. I've been using some crap durex ones that were cheap.
>>35297308
>when you skip foreplay and jam your cock into her ultratight vagoo causing her to wince
>>35300846
I'm well aware of that
>>35300848
>complains about shitty condoms not feeling great
>>35296713
>>35296860
Learn to relax boys
>>35296622
But it do
>>35296976
>Do you know where we are?
this is /fit/ not /b/
Sex, and all the little things that come along with it, are much less appealing when you stop caring about external validation and stimulation. I swear every person I meet is a stimulus junkie.
That being said, the noise a girl makes when you pop your thumb in her ass is priceless every single time.
Especially when she likes it.
>>35299795
Mommy abuse, I don't think so, my mom's great. My self-esteem is fairly low but getting better.
I think you're on point with the "how can a woman be attracted to me" thing, I immediately "don't trust" or value someone who's into me because I might latently disvalue myself. That's something I hadn't considered as a factor.
I guess more maturity with time could help.
>>35300833
Who said it was tragic? Why does my story upset you? I'm just explaining my conflict in a relevant thread. Take your negativity elsewhere.
>>35300927
>nihilism is the best!
There's a evolutionary reason why sex feels so good. Being nihilistic about it is just unnecessary. Enjoy yourself, brother.
>>35300833
I think his post was a good contribution to this thread.
>>35300991
how is that even nihilism
>>35300991
It's not like I'm saying that I don't want sex, or that it isn't appealing. It just isn't American Pie Mode important anymore.
I get through that day by sheer force of narcissism, the true America dream.
>>35296478
You sound like a woman
>>35301069
But you're saying that you don't really want the emotional aspect of sex, to which I would say, then what's the point? If you just want to get off then wack yourself off.
>>35301113
When I said "and all the little things that come along with it" I was referring more to having to interact with women, sharing my bed, interacting with women, texting, interacting with women, my apartment smelling different, interacting with women, and unsecured feelings in either direction.
I love fucking when in a great relationship, but at that point it's not really about sex.
>>35301166
Definitely meant unreturned, which I guess isn't a word.
Let's go with unrequited.
>>35298515
>but I've made 3 girls bleed now and I know they weren't on their period
Holy shit you clueless fucking semi-virgin.
>>35297363
>slipping your dick into mouth is one of the greatest feelings on earth.
dropped, blowjobs are overrated as fuck, they only make you feel like god if it's your oneitis that you craved for months the one sucking your dick, and it isn't physical pleasure but a emotional one
>>35301205
Not him but how do they bleed if not on their periods?
Cus the ones I've been with have said they were not on their periods but what happened? Did I scratch them? Or puncture something?
>>35298670
god lord my life is beyond fucked compared to you and i don't even get self-hate mad about it
>>35301240
That's actually the most retarded thing I've ever read. there's good blowjobs and bad blowjobs, but a truly good blowjob is better than vaginal sex could ever be. Having a girl deepthroat, lick your balls, and the whole 9 yards is just out of this world.
>>35300850
I can't do this because my cock fucking hurts when it's so tight the foreskin pulls down ultra far or its so tight that after fucking my foreskin has rub marks. I def canNOT ever go in dry because of this, and so often I've just wanted to jam it into her without getting her wet
>>35297111
Dont breakup with her over boring sex. Enjoy your gf. Try new things with her and be open about it. Tell her its not her whos the problem but you want to experience stuff with her.
Source: made this mistake and ended up missing gf
>>35300912
Which are both boards on 4chan. What sort of point are you even thinking of making? Because we're all fucking losers, and don't you even dare try and refute what I've said cunt; the fact you were even here to post in this thread says you and your shit are all fucked up.
We're here forever because we will never change.
>>35301205
quality post
>>35301288
I must have had shitty blowjobs for the past 2 years, My gf only does it for like 20 sec then makes me go down on her for 5 mins. it's not fair.
>>35301288
holy shit i will give you benefit of doubt but i still find it bullshit
maybe i'm desentitized so fuck you
>>35298838
So true
Kevin Spacey
>>35296478
your mother raised you to be the self-centered human you are today, just b urself :)
>>35296478
oh shut the fuck up you fucking child
>>35301309
You can't jam it all in (also non-jew.amerifat dick), usually she's already bit wet enough to get half an inch/inch in. Then you just work it in with strokes, you can almost feel the rings in her pussy ping open one by one.
>>35296622
>>>35296478 (OP)
but its not satisfying to get approval from them so ur post doesnt contradict OP's
I love sex but absolutely HATE how much fucking work it takes to finally get a girl interested and willing to fuck.
I really wonder sometimes if it's the area I live in, that I have no drive, or that I have no game that keeps me from getting laid. Because it is way too hard to get some pussy where I'm at.
>>35296645
>For me, I can't even get going until my partner is enjoying herself.
isnt that the same thing OP is saying?
Sex is all about being emotionally close to my girlfriend. If I just want to feel good, I'll jerk it
>>35301437
OPs sexual enjoyment comes from others being attracted to him, while mine comes from pleasuring and being close to whomever I'm having sex with.
>>35301428
You probably have bad game, or you're not using your location to your advantage. For instance, if you're in the south, play the southern man. If you're in the north, play the sports man. If you're in the west, play the well put together smart man. And etc. If you're in college, play any of those, but make sure the girl you're talking to is from one of those regions.
>>35299490
>I haven't "loved" anyone since I was 18
A villain is born.
>>35299572
You need to form attachments with your neocortex.
>>35299684
It's different for everyone because it's an affect on your brain. You'll probably have a lot of thoughts about how you think and thinking about this will make it obvious how the thoughts you have lead you to the same conclusions and actions repeatedly.
>>35299764
You don't need acid to achieve any of the long-term beneficial mental effects of acid.
>>35300827
The things that are enjoyable about sex are not the physical parts. It's about you you two relate to each other with your bodies.
>>35301992
This, pick up mindfulness meditation. Same benefits without the haphazard jumps into altered states.
>>35301205
>Assuming the virginal status of an anonymous poster on a Chinese cartoon imageboard.
>>35301288
You should read more.
>>35301428
If you are attractive enough the only thing that will stop some women from having sex with you is the implicit social code of conduct to not fuck in public.
>>35302016
You don't need to mindfully meditate to achieve any of the long-term beneficial mental effects of acid either. If you study the neuropharmacology of LSD you will find that all of its mechanisms can be more or less replicated without the drug.
>>35301723
You might be a sociopath if you don't play "yourself" as a role in public.
Healthy sex blends both together. Enjoying the sexiness of your partner and feeling sexy yourself.
>>35302047
Meditation in general is good for your health m8
>>35301288
>have headache from a few all nighters at the computer
>gf says she read cumming is good for headaches
>gives me a blowjob right at my computer desk
>headache is gone but I came so hard my body has melted into that chair
Nothing beats a well timed blowjob
>>35302051
Ok. And?
>>35302051
who actually does though, srs
Everyone has different faces for different occasions, especially females.
>>35302051
Let me rephrase, you don't have to "play" a role like an actor plays a character, but you can appeal to the community stereotypes to your advantage. For instance, if you walk into a bar in Boston with a lip in, cowboy boots, and a golden cross necklace, you'll be at a significant disadvantage to the other good looking guy at the bar wearing a North face and Red Sox hat.
>>35302047
Which are? Enlighten me. I always wanted to take acid just for self exploration that I thought I would unable to achieve by myself.
>>35296478
>tfw so insecure that sex is my least favorite part of having a gf
I just want to cuddle and kiss.
What does being loved back feel like /fit/? I've never felt it.
>>35302261
It feels like... being safe. It's hard to explain, but there's a reason why the word love evokes emotion in every culture.
>>35296478
I feel sick looking at that food, is that a sign of making it brehs?
>>35302368
Not really, just a sign of changing tastes
>>35302287
>checkems
You mean twoers, right?
>>35302473
I wanted to say dubs but there were some trips and quads in there
>>35299368
>gave you Chlamydia
>believe in girls
like.....what?
>>35296478
>>35296645
yeah but what if you're so narcissistic you get on the next level?
level 1: I am selfish so I only seek my own sexual pleasure
level 2: I am so narcissistic I only get turn on if she desires me
desu It turns on more getting mired or desired that a really hot girl.
for me for example:
7/10 obsessed with me and my dick>10/10 who just likes me
>>35302597
Just because she gave me chlamydia doesn't mean I didn't feel an indescribable connection to her. Never before had I been able to just talk to a girl for hours and hours. It was almost as if we were the same person. Before, I could hang out with girls, and have sex with them, but this girl was different. I felt innately comfortable and light headed at the same time.
>>35302634
Well sure, having sex with someone who isn't into you is awful.
>>35296478
who is this creme queen?
>>35297015
>>35300912
You faggots are still on an anime inspired image board
How melodramatic.
>>35303142
And yet, you're not, somehow. How is that possible?
> mind blown
>>35296834
But I used to have sex all the time with 2 prior gfs, I still can't approach a girl. Wat do?
>>35303265
Next time you see a girl you want to fuck, ask her if she'd like to fuck.
>>35300846
oh my gosh you're right! I will just go out and fix it! thank u!
>>35303614
dont be a shitter, i was just venting with that post but he's right enough. no room for complaints when it all roots in how i approach things.
>>35297607
This is so far from universal it's painful to read.
You only fuck one kind of basic bitch or what?
>want to get laid
>cba to put in the effort to get to the point of fucking
>>35302114
I live in Utah, so the only people who get laid here that aren't dating are hamplanets, the people who will fuck hamplanets, and the Chadiest of Chads. And I'm quite tired of being in a relationship
>>35299490
>Sorry for the blogpost but I'd hate to be that weird 35 year old bachelor uncle at the rate things are going.
You could avoid being this person if you killed your siblings. No need to bother trying to get along with girls.
>lost virginity at age 16 to gf
>2 years later we finally broke up after very infrequent sex due to long distance complications
>tfw i just want pussy, 6'2 200lb handsome and 7in penis but dunno how to speak to women
>>35300850
>not ramming it straight in her ass
>>35303368
No. Wrong.
>>35303692
Yes it does work, and if you think it doesn't work, then you aren't doing enough in bed. Or your dick is too small.
>>35303912
You're 18, stop being a pussy and just talk to girls. It's not like you're at a point when you're running out of girls to talk to, you could fuck up 100 times in a row and still have tons more opportunities. You just have to get over the fact that you're going to strike out a couple times.
>fine with being 100% introverted and playing video games all day erryday
>want a hot gf solely for the fact that others will think more highly of me
are you niggers gay
i fucking love staring at a womens body while i smash, none of my sexal gratification comes from the attention she gives me
>>35300850
>causing her to wince
having such a small dick that an untratight vagoo only makes her wince
>topkek
>>35296478
OP, I think you've been having sex the wrong way.
