How ya holdin' up /fit/?
>>35293340
I realized this evening that I can't fuck virgins because I'm 'too big'. So, I don't really know what it is I should feel.
>>35293369
How big are you?
I'm 8"x5.7", and it can be tough. Cannot even get a blowjob without teeth :(. This sucks because blowjobs are my fetish.
>>35293373
Im 5.5" long dunno girth, how do I break to my gf she uses teeth, it fucking cains
>>35293369
>can't fuck virgins
stop fucking 16 year olds and thai boipussi lol.
>>35293373
No clue, m8. I haven't measured myself since I was around 15 (I'm 21 now). All I know is that everytime I try I can only fit in the head and the rest won't go no matter how much I try. And don't even get me started on how difficult it is for the chick to get on top.
>>35293369
>>35293373
serious? im 5' 7, 5 and1/2 inches do u think i could satisfy 6 ft girls?
>tfw i have a crazy fetish for beautiful skinny girls that are taller than me
>>35293377
You're below average when it comes to length, and since your gf uses teeth when giving a bj you probably have an above-average girth.
Measure the circumfrence of the thicket part of your schlong. 4.7" circumfrence is what is considered average. You start having issues with blowjobs when you get to around 5" girth.
>>35293387
post dick pics.
For science.
no homo.
19 year old Jew girl stopped having sex with me cuz I came on too strong, really poured out my heart for her too
Now that I'm with a Korean girl that just wants to be my fuck buddy, she seems interested in me, and the Korean girl wants to be friends with her, thinking about calling them both over and watching them eat eat other out on my futon, good idea?
I've also been plateauing at bench
>>35293396
>5.5
>below average
>>35293404
Bruh i'm the 5.5 incher and I know its below average, stay misinformed pleb
>>35293340
>3 days with no porn
>getting really agitated
>end up fapping to my javfu
>feel completely fine
I'm not going to make it
>>35293400
If you can swing it, go for it brah. Live the dream.
>>35293408
5 inches has been the world average for a long time now Anon. Be proud of your 1/2 in.
>>35293397
I'll only post dick pics of other anons do it. I-I don't wanna be the only dick in the thread, familia.
>>35293413You are too kind about my dongger buddo
>>35293369
My girlfriend of a year recently dumped me because she couldn't hack long distance after three months.
Of course, I blame myself - I didn't visit because I thought we could make it three months, and I'd visit in the next term she's away, which is six months.
On top of that, I've been barely human in the last three months. Job hunting, no social life (all my friends are too far away and I didn't want to take up a hobby or anything).
Today's the day she and I were meant to go to Prague together. Instead, her sister bought my ticket and they're going.
So kind of shitty, emotion-wise. But in other respects... Good. Her breaking up with me means I'm in constant emotional pain unless I keep my mind distracted. Which means playing vidya doesn't work for me anymore. In the last week I've completely fixed my diet for the gym, started learning how to code apps, started playing piano and guitar again, and reconnected with a lot of old friends I've been ignoring for a while.
So I'm becoming a far better person at the expense of my own sanity. Can never slow down or I start getting depressed. Evenings suck, I've started going to bed early to avoid them.
>>35293423
http://i.imgur.com/vo5kDSQ.jpg
Your turn big guy.
Everyone I meet tells me they like me and that I'm fun to hang out with, but when I'm alone I hate myself and I can't figure out why
My life isn't even shit anymore but I keep feeling like I'm going to fail or let everyone down
Good. Kind of nervous though shipping out to basic on Jan 12 so I'm trying to get mentally ready and keep /fit/
>>35293423
>>35293440
I'm >>35293373
NSFW IMAGE (obviously). DO NOT OPEN IF YOU DO NOT WANT TO SEE ANYTHING.
http://i.imgur.com/Tr7LcL6.jpg
>>35293433
>going to prague with her sister
Well I hope you like fapping to the thought of ronaldo thundercock plowing your girl.
Other than that, le fight club quote about when we have nothing we are truly free to do something.
hang in there bud
Qt3.14 that I had feels for left my town to go back home, but said if she stops by my town she would "hit me up" (which I doubt). Got a hug from a co-worker (women don't hug me often) and it made me forget about qt3.14
>>35293412
Not with that attitude you won't make it.
>>35293452
Fuckin' jooicy brah. You look pretty big, some girls might have an issue fitting that sucker.
Find a chick into anal or a femboi.
Split up with my partner of 3 years last month and have only just gotten over it really, she fucked me bad but even so it's not a nice experience cutting your best friend out.
I went out with another girl who is nice, we went to her Uni club and had a great time. Our group left early but we stayed and danced from 2am - 6am just the two of us. I pussied out and didn't make a move.
One hand it might feel like I'm on the rebound if I jump into something else early, other hand I really like her. Not sure what to do guys.
>>35293472
Take it slow. Especially if this other girl knows you're on the rebound. If she wants the D badly, she'll make it known. No rush brah.
>>35293472
Take it slow my man
Just, take it slow. Make a move only if it's blatantly obvious she wants some action
Also I know your feels
>tfw gf for 8 years
>also best friend
>she wants to break up
>suddenly no gf or best friend anymore
It's quite literally like losing the other half of your being, sounds cheesy but damn it sucks and creates a void
>>35293440
>>35293452
yey post more dicks
http://i.imgur.com/MovyJGK.jpg
>>35293482
Yeah the main thing for me was realizing I didn't have anyone to confide to, you know? Any problems I had with my family I'd talk to her. Really weird not having that.
Also raised a bunch of trust issues, having a girl that you give 100% to and her back, only for her to one day drop you makes me never want to put any effort into another relationship again really.
>>35293482
>>35293476
My problem is this- she's a shy girl, never makes her relationship feelings known and has never been in a relationship. (22 by the way, not a kiddy fiddler)
My friends have said that she digs me, but it's not worth fucking stuff up and making the jump. I'll probably wait until next year when she finishes Uni.
How are your two relationships going?
Bad
Recovering from a fatty relapse that has lasted since haloween, in the last 60 days probably had 15-20 eating 1k+ above TDEE as dirty as humanly possible. 3 days back on my cut now. It's so easy to reset my brain back to no willpower fatty. I really try to focus on the feeling of candy cravings and it's almost palpable at times.
>>35293499
Alright I guess, been with a girl for a little under 2 years now. We seem to be in it for the long haul through thick or thin. We bicker a lot, but through some combination of stubbornness and love we've stuck together. The sex could be a lot better. That's really my only complaint.
I miss playing the field sometimes, you think girls can be sluts? Holy shit, dudes are cock hungry.
>>35293499
The day after my breakup I started getting /fit/, that was in March. I've lose 110lbs, made crazy social and mental gains, my ex is doing nothing with herself and I have girls willingly coming up to me at bars or giving me their numbers without me asking. But I still feel like the fat guy nobody wants around even though everyone says I'm hilarious and wants to hang out all the time.
Can't lift the self hatred away. I dunno didn't mean to vent but thanks for asking man it means more than you probably know
>>35293499
Also wait as long as you need, it never hurts to just forge a good friendship prior to asking her out on real dates and such. If she likes you enough, that means she'll just like you more as you become good friends, then you can date her easily after Uni or whenever you feel the time is right
Also being shy doesn't mean you can't ask her upfront how she feels about things. An deceivingly effective method
>>35293508
Keep going anon. If you fall of the track, just get back on and don't worry about that lost time.
>>35293483
Nice grub worm brah
Struggling to be honest.
>>35293514
If you aren't enjoying the sex now after 2 years I'd bail honestly. It is a big part of a relationship.
Not that I'd recommend being single either, I haven't been on the pull since I was fucking 18. Most of the girls I was chatting to before I got with my ex (3 years ago now) are in love with my physique, but I've never enjoyed one night stands and always feel empty as fuck afterwards.
Also if you do want to just get laid use Bumblr. Basically it's Tinder but the girls have to talk first. Every single one just wants a one night stand.
>>35293515
Seriously I think you should remove yourself from whatever social group doesn't want you around, or whatever. I've got loads of groups of friends that I hang around, and the only ones I would genuinely spend time with are the ones who are in no way judgmental and have my back 100%. I've got friends that couldn't give a fuck what a wear, dress and we stayed up until 4am drinking and playing Undertale together. I've also got another that when we go out, completely drop me if another girl enters the room.
Make time for the people that make time for you, dude. I learned that a few months back and it's been the best decision I have made in a long time.
>>35293526
I'm out tonight with a huge group and will probably get smashed. After reading this I'm tempted to drunk call her tonight and just flat out ask. What is there to lose?
>>35293423
We're waiting on your picture anon...
See:
>>35293440
>>35293452
>>35293483
>>35293508
I feel ya man, I got home tonight and binge-ate 2000 calories of food after already eating 2000 calories today. I want to slit my throat
I chew trident gum to curb sweetness cravings. Dunno if that would help you or not but it's kept me off candy for almost a year
>>35293564
I feel the same way, but the relationship is fulfilling in every other way. I said I'd give it another year, but I am happy. If horny. Thoughts of infidelity plague me.
>>35293561
What happened Anon?
>>35293564
Don't do it drunk. Flat out asking her is fine, but don't do it drunk man. She'll probably view it as somewhat obnoxious or that you're only asking because you need to be drunk to do so
>>35293565
And I'm over here watching porn trying to get hard, m8.
>>35293574
>not hard at the sight of your fellow /fit/izens meaty cock
what are you gay?
>>35293564
It's tough to find a group that I can rely on, my interests differ greatly now that my appearance doesn't reflect my hobbies. Everyone thinks I'm this musical, athletic hipster looking dude but I still like to sit around and paint my Warmachine figures and play Magic or D&D... the people I attract now don't quite mesh, but when I try and hang with people that I do have stuff in common with they all treat me like an outcast
Sometimes I truly miss being a fat neckbeard, if only because I felt like I had a definitive place of belonging. and a fat gf that didn't care I was fat
>>35293472
>>35293482
>>35293499
Yeah, I'm >>35293433 I get what you guys mean.
Like, you're used to being half of a couple, not being yourself. The only person you want to talk to about losing your relationship is your girlfriend, who is now your ex. Suddenly realise you don't have that support you've been effectively training yourself to need.
>>35293565
not him but tfw
http://imgur.com/c8qiXE2
>>35293590
Dude, I literally do all of the nerdy shit and more since I started training properly. I think the key thing is to be open about it, most people nowadays (that I know, anyway) couldn't give a fuck if I read manga or paint warhammer. I'm a Personal Trainer, weirdly my job is filled with nerds. My past 3 co workers have all had Gamertags with 90k+ gamerscore and are all currently trying to clear Nuclear Throne the fastest.
I think the key is to take one or two people to a club, or social event that has a bunch of people like that and mingle. Where do you live? In the UK there are gaming bars in reachable locations everywhere, pubs that are filled with fucking nerds that are easy to hang around with. I'm sure even going to a match night in Warhammer will point you in the right direction.
>>35293566
Went to the gym today even though it is a rest day (Binged yesterday) and did 5 miles on the bike in 20 minutes i felt so guilty.
>>35293626
Precisely. My actual best friend moved 5 years ago so my gf became my literal other half, especially since we lived together for 4 years. We broke up, I went home, picked up my phone, and almost texted her about what happened without realizing that it was her I was about to text. That's just how symbiotic we became
Talked to her a few months ago to catch up, she said she felt the same way. So strange how people make themselves suffer and hope things get better for them. Unfortunately now she's not doing well, so it's like watching your best friend shoot themselves in the foot and just fail in general
Live is chaotic and horrendously confusing sometimes
>Looked in the mirror right now and I look prego.
>I'm sure I'll wake up tomorrow and think I look fine, but what if I don't?
>I need to start rethinking my diet.
>B-but... I didn't progress on my bench last workout and that bummed me out. If I'm not progressing and I'm also getting fat, maybe my hormones are shit.
>Time to think about juicing.
Fuck my life... this is me at least once a week.
Found out the little lady of my life might have Feline Leukemia, and used up most of my christmas bonus at the vet.
Eesh.
Went to the park and did bodyweight stuff, it was fun enough but they didnt really have anything for proper pullups which sucked.
Was nice just being out through, thinking of actually hitting a normal gym or taking a sport like boxing maybe. I think really I want to have a sort of social aspect while getting /fit/, hit two birds with one stone.
>>35293638
Timeframe of filename?
Had binge days last week and my lifts went down this week.
Any white bros think the cold weather fucking us up because ancestors living in cold conditions/hungry etc?
>>35293638
Oh I'm totally open about my hobbies, but that's the problem. I get approached by attractive people now and when I tell them what I do, most of them aren't interested whatsoever. They aren't bad people, but it really does open my eyes to see the stereotypes in place between what generally attractive people do and what the sort of heavier, less social people like to do. I'm in the U.S., but in a mountainous region with a very low population. Planning on moving soon to expand my horizons a bit, too much history where I live
>>35293644
Gonna have to do that myself on the treadmill tomorrow, blast some heavy fucking music and run until I pass out. I usually freak out if I even eat 100calories over my limit, but tonight was a fucking disgraceful circus of binging
I'm so mad at life right now, I just want someone to tell me it's alright and then play Diablo with me on the couch
>>35293671
3 years
>>35293674
You can do it anon
>>35293672
I know the cold can fuck my joints up a bit and that makes it harder to finish final reps on bench and such
>>35293662
That's rough man, I'm sorry about your cat. Sick pets are like having sick family members
>>35293688
>cold can fuck my joints
Yeah and shit like this can have rippling effects on every gain you make including mental.
MN here, saving to move out west.
I give up. Life can't be real, god could never hate me so much.
I give up. Life can't be real, god could never hate me so much.
Not great, not awful. Making good life-goal progress is tough.
End of the semester today, just scraped through all my classes. Not a good feeling, but I at least know how to fix it next semester. Also going to cut it off with GF of 1.5 years, which is gonna fucking suck because I'm still attached to her, but there's just no way around it. Marble and the sculptor, man.
>>35293694
MT here, don't blame you at all
atleast it's been a relatively warm winter
>>35293714
Why you breaking up
>>35293340
Honestly? I think I'm Ok. I'm not where I wanna be right now, but I think I'm on my way there.
>>35293708
>>35293709
Life is real. God isn't. Take control.
>>35293741
But what if god is real? (I am god)
>>35293741
I've been trying the last 4 years. I don't have energy anymore.
>>35293653
I've got to say, I'm living in hope that mine realises that life is awful without me. That she turns around and asks for me back.
In the meantime I'm improving everything about myself. I want to win her back, she made me happy, it was just the long distance that screwed it.
I figure if I'm as close to perfect as possible when she's back for good, I can repair it.
Perhaps dumb to get hung up on her, but it gives me a clearcut set of goals to work towards. This weight by this date, achieve this by then, etc.
>>35293778
It's good to have goals anon, absolutely. But don't use her as your motivation, it could and probably will end up biting you in the ass down the road. Hoping someone turns and asks for you back is the worst thing you can do to yourself, if it never happens you'll just feel like shit in the future.
Please be careful, for real. You need to become entirely self sufficient and don't rely on anything involving her to make you happy. Then, you become your own creation of happiness, and if she does eventually want you back, it's like extra credit
Trust me on this
>>35293778
If she dropped you in the first place don't go trying to win her back. If she doesn't like you, fuck her. You don't exist to try and make one person approve of you.
Go and surround yourself with people that like you for who you are.
>>35293827
>>35293807
>fuck her
i think that's the problem, he can't
>>35293840
Nature finds a way
>>35293840
>>35293725
We've just grown apart. Nothing special given we got together in highschool, but the fact that she doesn't see the issue makes it tough. It's gonna blindside the fuck out of her imediately after her birthday and just before Christmas. I'm the bad guy, and that's just how its gonna have to be.
not good, feel like I'm done. I've lost 70lbs, fixed up my complexion, got my teeth on point too, and start college in january all for a girl that I loved so much, sent flowers, gifts everything, poured my fucking heart out and she post up that she hot a boyfriend and now I just wanna die, I couldn't even finish some lame fucking cardio today.
>>35293846
>>35293804
>>35293807
My motivation largely is survival. If I stop doing anything, I get depressed very quickly. So my day is filled with gym, coding, musical instruments, hanging out with people. Night is less good, I try to get to bed early before I start thinking too much.
I'm not living to impress her, I'm doing things to survive without her. But that doesn't mean I don't want to win her back.
Right at the start, I was improving myself because I needed her to want me back. Now I'm improving myself so I'll be the sort of person she would want again.
Does that make sense? I'm doing it for me, but I still want her back in the long run. I'm not reliant on her, but she is my goal.
>>35293853
>>35293852
*got
that dude ain't shit
>>35293861
>>35293851
damn anon you cold as ice
>>35293852
thats what you get for being a ridiculous romantic at such a young age, anon. You can't just do stuff like that when you aren't even 21, it's not a movie. real life is tough
now pull yourself up out of the dirt, hit college with all you've got (make sure you are studying something YOU are interested in) and disregard women until you find one that appreciates you
>>35293864
>>35293865
I'm 24, I was a obese loser for a long time. I'm trying to make it bro.
>>35293868
>>35293855
She shouldn't be your goal
If that does keep you from being depressed and all that jazz, then so be it. But the end of this road is not going to be healthy for you. 9/10 times the girls don't take a guy back because they don't need to, they can meet tons of guys by doing literally nothing spectacular
>>35293833
>>35293868
>>35293840
>>35293861
Gee, I wonder why she doesn't have a dude.
>>35293869
I understand anon, I'm 25 and was also obese for a long time. If my ex didn't leave me first I probably would have left her by now
Just don't be unnecessarily cruel with the breakup, unless she absolutely deserves it. If she doesn't notice what's wrong with your relationship, make sure you explain it to her so she understands for her next boyfriend. It's not fair to leave someone in the dark. It's exactly what happened to me and finding out the reasons was very painful and exhausting
Havnt been able to lift properly due to sickness the last 3 weeks, today I woke up fucking pisssed. Im breathing like a bull and want to punch something, a good sign for lifting?
>>35293913
>enraged with explosive anger
>should I throw some heavy ass weights around
yes
>>35293340
Just got back from a company drink up. Had a bit of fun. Have a consistent FWB that I do everyother day, get with a new chick each week. Really not feeling like I've made it /fit/. Doesn't help that I have a hole in my heart that feels like it can only be filled by this one chick I was with for a long time
>>35293874
missed one lmao
>>35293928
FWB?
My ex fucked me over so we split, she offered to be my fuck buddy instead and I took her up on it.
I go back to hers once a week and fuck her, I absolutely hate her but I love spending the brief time with her as if it never happened. How do I just drop the cunt and move on
I'm 22 and been neet for a year since dropping out of college.
Parent's are now done with my shit.
I either go work in an IT department again as the sys admin or helpdesk guy, or go to college for 3 years for computer Engineering.
Just today I was thinking about all the chances I've had with multiple girls and how I fucked them all up
21,still a virgin. I seriously feel like killing myself
>>35294027
>21,still a virgin. I seriously feel like killing myself
My best friend is 21 and a virgin. I know multiple girls that are virgins too. It's not that big of a deal.
Go join a few groups and mingle, it'll happen at some point.
>>35293865
Legit man, what else am I supposed to do? I wait any longer and then I have New Years and Valentines Day to deal with. The person she used to be would've preferred the hard truth, and that's who I started dating. I don't hate her or anything, we just have no similar interests anymore, and barely any similar views. I haven't had a conversation with her that didn't consists almost entirely of pet talk and weak, repeated affirmations of affection in months.
I don't like leaving my fucking DD 5'11" ballerina gf, but its that or continue this shell of a relationship that's based entirely on me telling her that I love her when I don't and playing emotional janitor.
I'm a bastard, but not enough of a bastard to let both of us live a lie. Needs must.
I lost around 4,4 kg of weight since mid November.
But I still got to start lifting weights to get some strength. The gym is too expensive in my area (35 Euro per month + 20 Euro administration fee). I've got some dumbbells lying around. I should start with them and find a proper job I guess, but got some massive procrastination.
>>35294010
>work either as a sys admin or as helpdesk
I can't see how that would be possible. Good luck to you anyhow.
>>35294051
hey man, I read all your previous post
I went through the same thing recently man, broke off with gf of 1 year. I had to be the bastard in the situation, i know i did. The way i see it It wasnt fair for me to waste her time and my time continuing something that i didn't want.
I held it off more and more (oh birthday, oh we got that one event, or freakin christmas). Dont hold it off ma, just get it over with. There's never a good time to breakup, you just gotta take care of it when you know you have to.
As other anon said, be honest with her and explain why you're breaking it off. Godspeed anon
>Wake up to the doorbell ringing
>The door opener is broken in my apartment building so you have to go to the front and open the main door if someone wants in
>Think ah fuck it's probably a neighbour who forgot his keys
>Suddenly remember I ordered protein powder and it might be there already but it should be there later today
>Rush to take on pants and take a shirt with me but it's inside out so I can't put it on before I reach the main door
>Neighbour woman reaches the door before me
>Sees me shirtless and laughs at my ass
>I see it's just the post guy
>I walk back to my flat
>She isn't even hot
>tfw never gonna make it
>>35293340
shitty
>>35293566
Call that the cheat day and work extra hard tomorrow
>>35293758
Caffeine and melatonin
>Best friend leaving for Japan
>Other mate is getting more and more down each week
>Only got one female friend left and think I'm starting to get feelings for her
I'm always the happy one of the group but I don't think I can do it anymore
>22, live with family because cheap rent
>Been planning on moving out sometime next year
>Last night sister and father fighting over something retarded again
>mfw I just want to wrap Christmas gifts I got earlier
>Everyone explodes at each other over stupid shit
>Mother crying
>Neighbors call cops because they think there's a domestic dispute
>mfw I just want to wrap Christmas gifts I got earlier
>Everyone finally settles down
>Wrap gifts
>Go out drinking to clear my mind
>Come back home late
>Sleep in
>Wake up an hour ago to find that my mother snapped because of how stupid my sister and father are and is currently gone and cleared the bank account
>Father is taking my 4 year old brother to his parents since he's been unemployed for 3 fucking years
>Sister will probably move in with my aunt
>mfw I have to find a place to live within a month or two before landlord evicts me
>mfw I have no idea what happened but I know it was over the dumbest shit
>mfw I got looking at my Christmas tree filled with shit I bought for everyone
>>Was gonna go out with missues of three years tonight for christmas outting
>>Now I'm attending an aikido seminar all day tommorow so I can't crash on someones couch (would be next town over, ect, ect.)
>>She's off out clubbing w/ friends
Tell me /fit/ is she gonna be grinding on chad all night?
>>35294812
Your goal should be to go out and establish a family of your own. And make sure your child/children never have to do deal with that same shit.
I don't care about her anymore.
I don't care about any of them anymore.
Is this what making it feels like?
>>35294832
I'm not married, so take it with a grain of salt, but I wouldn't be too suspicious desu. I mean, its definitely not looking legit if its not at least a semi-regular thing for her to go out with friends like this, but I doubt one outing definitely means chad cock. DW about it and keep an eye on her, man.
Worry a little bit if most of the friends are unmarried though.
>>35294812
Yikes dude. I don't know what to say other than that I'm feeling for you. Nobody deserves that.
Just know that you're gonna make it through this. Do your best to stay positive. Start looking on Craigslist for cheap apartments, studios or roommates.
Good luck friend. You're still gonna make it.
very happy with my gym progress
not so happy with social life
oh well. at least im bettering myself. most people are shit anyways so I might as well focus on my own needs.
>>35293340
Awful.
Met a girl in college that I really clicked with from the start. She's cute, smart and we have the same interests. There was this connection, I flirted with her and she flirted back, laughing, teasing, everything. The problem is that she has a bf.
We went to the same party few days ago and we danced a lot, she was grinding on me, I was spinning her. I then took her out and tried to kiss her but she refused because she has a boyfriend. She said that she really likes me and would be with me if she didn't have a boyfriend. I said that I respect her for her decision but that I can't talk to her anymore because I like her too much and it hurts me. She then ran after me and told me that she loves me, but she has a bf and that she doesn't know for how long they will stay together but she can't cheat on him. I walked away and she started crying.
Today she texts me that she thought I was angry and wants to meet. We went for a coffee and I explained to her that I'm not angry with her or anything, just disappointed. She said that she's really sorry but she loves her boyfriend. I said that that's ok and that I respect her decision and that she deserves to be happy. I said that she must understand that I can't talk to her so much from now on, because it hurts my feelings to be near the girl I like, knowing that I can't do anything. She said that she doesn't know whether she should say it or not, but that she would like me to be her bf if she wasn't taken. We then chatted for a little bit and we went separate ways.
I'm fucking destroyed guys. I love her, she loves me too, but loves her boyfriend that she's had for 2 years more, which I understand.
I deleted my facebook account today, so I can get my mind straight without any drama.
>>35294873
desu most the friends are female
thanks senpai
>>35294886
She "loves" you after not even a whole semester?
Sorry bruh, but this girl is full of shit and you're better off without. And besides, she'd be shit anyway because she grinded on you despite having a bf, she'd do the same thing to you.
Finally moved out, 3 plate deadlift, got me into a great uni, got me a great gf and lost my virginity
But my motivation is all gone
I really hate being the guy that just settles
>>35294917
If you're going to one of Canada's top business schools and getting really good grades, that's not just "settling".
>>35294910
I'm a cool guy. We really had this connection from the start, trust me, I know when I feel it. We clicked right away and I'm sure that she really loves me.
But this guy was her only partner (she's not bs, that's true) in her life, we've just started college. She had her first kiss with him, he took her virgnity, so I understand that he is special to her.
I told her that it's shame that we two met at the wrong time in our lives.
I think I handled it pretty well with her, not in a beta way. Just told her how it is and now I stop contacting her.
I really love her tho. I can get a lot of girls to fuck, but every girl that I truly like, there is always something that comes in between us. Fuck my life.
>>35293340
Making gains, getting comments on it as well and strength is progressing well. Hit a 2x bodyweight deadlift a week ago. No social life, got friendzoned this week and family is being shitty. Overall, terribly. I want to find a gf soon but i'm not making it obvious by being desperate but I just want someone to be mine already, fuck friends.
>>35294886
I'll be real with you man, this girl would absolutely cuck you. I feel bad for her boyfriend because her behavior is clearly over the line and is emotionally unfaithful even if she didn't fuck you.
Girls that leave a relationship for you will 9/10 times do the same to you. Don't do it.
>>35294933
I don't live in Canada eh, but I meant to say my gym motivation is gone. I can see my gainz fading away.
I have always hated the idea of losing your shape once you find a SO
>>35294942
Oh and I also found out that I got a 90 atar on Monday for you ausfags, i'm probably going to get into my dream uni (Monash for you melb fags) but that's besides the point, I feel lonely, I feel depressed and insignificant and everyone in my life so far has made this clear to me.
>>35294957
Here's some motivation:
If you don't go hard on every rep, you'll get cucked by someone who does.
This one works because it's true.
>>35294946
Probably, tho maybe not. There were a lot of guys hitting on her, but she stayed faithful to her bf all the time. She's a sweet girl, innocent one, but it's true that you should still expect worst things from every girl. Although, I don't think she's that way, she was drunk as fuck and didn't cheat on her bf with anyone. Most she did was grinding (which is not cool but still most drunk girls would grind & then kiss or fuck, she didn't).
>>35294885
Are we shit too desu senpai?
>>35293340
I fucked up my knee and couldn't squat for 2 months. Physio said its because I have weak glutes and even after 3 months of this shit I am still hella scared ill injure it again.
I have tried, I have really tried, but I can't fix the thing and it's all broken. What do guys?
When do you know when it's time to hero?
Stopped taking my antidepressants but the obsessive, negative thoughts are back. For a while I was starting to think I was making up the whole depressed thing but I guess not. The thought of blowing a hole through my head is so relieving. I haven't lifted in months... I haven't had a job in longer.
>>35295047
By taking it one step at a time. Just do your part.
I have two friends at university but I barely see them.
I feel like I'm drowning in work but I can't motivate myself to do it.
Since my break up all my other friends sided with my ex so I now don't even have people to go drink with anymore.
Back home I have maybe 3 friends but only 1 of whom I see somewhat regularly.
I'm alone and life is suffering.
>>35294973
The lack of control is incredibly bad. Being drunk is not an excuse.
>>35295101
>By taking it one step at a time. Just do your part.
But why not just stop? If the steps don't take you anywhere why take them?
>>35293340
Not good at all.
Thought I worked really hard and I still failed.
Feeling incredibly lonely.
At this point I am really reconsidering my life choices.
>>35293864
For some reason this hit pretty hard.
>>35294812
Where you living brah? I got a spare room famalam
I stopped lifting for a few months and started playing vidya again way too much. I felt like shit. Picked up lifting again, gained a few kg and I look noticeably better again. 2 week christmas break too.
>feels good man
>>35293340
Feeling kinda shitty man. Making some decent gains in the gym but making no gains outside it.
Tried cold approaching a couple girls at the mall this past week and got shot down.
My boss just said fuck it and quit yesterday, I am worried about who they are going to replace him with as we had a good thing and he let me get away with a lot of shit.
>>35293852
You guys what else can I do, my heart is pounding so fast and I felt so sick lately. I know it's all in my head but fuck man I even dream of this girl. Everything just hurts.
>>35295239
First off, masturbate, and then think of what your priorities really are.
I'm at the point where I just don't care about anything. I should get tattoos and stuff and enjoy what little I have left of youth. All I've done in life is stay home afraid. It's time I live life
>>35295302
Tattoos label you as a tool.
I advise against them.
>>35293738
Me too man. It's better than before but I can't use the tools on anything yet. I realized I really want a relationship but there are no girls around. (no homo)
>>35295302
Don't listen to >>35295328 but play it smart. Go do crazy stuff and live life mate.
>gf broke up with me monday
>today is rest day
>Cutting, so hungry.
>PC is too shit to play SF5 beta
Not so good mate, but I'll probably watch some stuff and try to not get too upset. I'll be spending 20 days in the beach starting next week. Just lifting, reading and chilling. So I just need to get through this weekend...
>>35293340
I was diagnosed with MS yesterday
Never gonna make it now
>>35295351
You should play Downwell, it's $3 and it's a lot of fun.
Took me 7 hours to complete it.
http://store.steampowered.com/app/360740/
>>35295328
better to be a tool than being nothing is what I'm currently thinking. I've met plenty of tools happier than me
>>35295363
exercise is a good way to deal with MS. Keep fighting mate.
>>35295368
Thanks dude, I'm gonna look that up.
I've had 2 knives pulled on me in the last week, one time the money from my wallet was taken, only $50 and not worth getting shanked by a junkie over and the other time my bag which had my passport and a few other things in.. At work a payment didn't clean properly thru the atm machine cause the person working before me fucked around with it so now I gotta take $60 out of my pay to cover the lost stock. It's too fucking hot and I have no aircon in my apartment and there's a lot of family issues that are Christmas related. Not doing too well desu senpai
>>35293340
Nowhere to go for a New Years Party. Damn.
>>35293472
>>35293482
Split up with my gf of 3 years a couple of months ago. If anything the feels get worse, she was my best friend and I have no one to talk to anymore. It is like losing your other half.
Been single for as long as i can remember but that hasn't really bothered me much, achieving my own personal goals, doing my own thing, being true to myself.
Still a virgin though.
I'm 25
Everything is a okay. Everything is fire.
>>35295135
halp
>>35295424
Why did you split?
got news that my insurance will cover surgery to cover my gynoplasty and i may be coveredon getting my loose skin on my stomach removed too. shit is looking up
I'm skipping my workout today. I tried to do chin ups, and I got one shitty set of eight. I went for my second set and my arms gave out at four. I can normally hit three sets with no issue. I don't know what's up. Finals are over, I got plenty of sleep last night, I've drank enough water, its been two whole days since my last workout, and up until this morning I was in relatively high spirits.
>>35295503
Moving to different countries for a couple of years, and I thought it would be impossible to maintain a relationship across that distance. Looking back I wish that id tried. She was such a rare person and I have let her go
>>35295527
A lot of us have rare people we let go.
Never being able to find a suitable replacement builds character.
>>35295567
>Never being able to find a suitable replacement builds character.
Ow.
That one hurt, Anon
>>35295517
You lucky bastard. Awesome man.
>>35295496
;_;
>>35295517
Sometimes that one good news can do so much good. Happy for you m8
>>35295590
Better to tear the band-aid off now.
>>35295527
You should tell her that. You have nothing to lose dude, just tell her what you just told us. Maybe by yourself you think that the problem is impossible to get through, but together it becomes easier. Good relationships take a lot of work, you should try. I mean, you lift right? You know how that last set seems to be impossible, but then you continue and collect gains. Thats a lesson for everything in life dude.
Its better to try and fuck up than regret not having tried at all.
>on the verge of suicide on a daily basis
Not gonna lie, Star Wars was all that was keeping me alive. As good as it was, dunno if I can wait for Episode VIII.
>>35295602
Actually I'm a different guy, I've got something truly special with a girl right now, but we've got to separate ways in a year and half.
Doubt we're ever going to be in a life situation where we're near each other ever again.
The idea of not having her in my life and never being able to find someone like her again is really fucking scary
>>35293387
Take shit slow, lots of lube, give her the lickeroo, etc.
Took nearly a month before I could fuck my gf without hurting her and we still can't do doggy 'cause I end up pounding her cervix.
>>35295623
Just enjoy it while it lasts, because you're right.
You will never be able to find someone like her again, and you can either restart the cycle by getting into shitty relationships that go nowhere or you can learn to be content with loneliness.
I recommend the latter, I think it's healthier.
>>35295591
>>35295601
thanks bro's im fucking stoked too
What do when even drugs won't make you feel warmth? I just want a hug and someone to tell me it will be ok
My uncle just died, he used to be a lifter and was massive. He left behind two kids. Sad shit.
A very sweet guy I work with online told me he had feelings for me about six months ago.
I told him everything wrong with myself, that I think he'd be able to find himself a nice girl in the time it takes me to lose weight and everything I could think of to make him turn and run, but it didn't work. He kept talking to me, wanting to play games together, being a goofy romantic and I fell in love with him completely.
The problem is the more I lose weight, the more I'm realizing how fucked up my body is from being a landwhale since childhood. I feel selfish for even liking him and I want to tell him this, but I don't know how to bring it up that I'm going to look like I stepped on a mine. I know the longer I wait, the more he's just going to be hurt and I'm completely terrified of what's going to happen.
>>35295716
it will be ok
>>35295716
IKTFB
>made some decent back and shoulder gains
>just want a gf to hug me while fondling and miring my back gains
>tfw no gf
>>35295728
you should post your current body with bf%
What the fuck is the point of me going to the gym if women still don't give a fuck?
>>35295755
You go for yourself.
Eh, alright I guess.
Insanely many people been noticing my gains and I had fellows and professors literally catcalling me because of the size of arms and all other gains I made in a half month. Been working out for one and a half year but I kinda just fucked around the first year and gained to much knowledge and put it into Action to burst like crazy. I'm a recovering skelly at gained 25kgs since my journey and my arms literally gained 10cm in circumfence.
Also my autismo has decreased, I can present myself to anyone I like, hold presentations and be social and succeed many times. Got a new awesome friend circle with whom I do things on a weekly Basis and enjoy my life.
In other news a very good friend fucked a girl I have a crush on despite knowing about it. Can't have everything in life I guess. The show must go on.
It's storming like crazy outside and I just saw Slenderman. What do?
>>35295764
Every damn day I consider suicide, and end up not going through with it because I'm a coward, which leads me to just staying here alone every single night. I don't see the point.
Today I lifted weights, having a post gym shit, about to have a shower, some food is cooking.
>>35295774
the point is you're making progress toward not being a useless piece of shit
>tfw you will never be like pic related
>>35295774
You are me. I have no solution for you.
>>35295771
Tell him about SS + GOMAD
We need to save every lanklet
>>35295774
I'm the same. I go outside for food or gym and that's it. No job no friends no nothing. I don't know why I still bother sometimes
>>35295786
>making jack shit
>fucked up my degree choice because i wanted to chase my dreams
>any chance for a career in my degree field is a joke
>work part time for a church of all places
>still live at home because can't afford anything else
>losing all the jobs around here to students
>mfw 23 years old and on the road to being Chris Chan status
>>35295787
Don't worry, I'm sure you'll find a hunky asian guy to buttfuck you some day.
>>35295737
Can bros hug bros?
>>35295803
become a creator of art
>>35293340
im sick right now.
noob gainz probably already sweated out.
plus the girl im in love with can't decide wether to try it with me or not.
shit sucks yo
Need help bros
>work party last night
>I'm the quiet fit guy apparently (no one at work knows but seeing therapist for anxiety and depression)
>have qt3.14 for 2 years
>end up part way through the night sitting with girls who work in accounts
>one is legit desi milf
>she's flirting hard, I'm enjoying myself but not drinking as I drive from far away, and didn't expect anyone to drink much anyway
>she's giving me her number, telling me we'll meet up out of work
>few colleagues get really drunk so leave quite early, I drive her home
>she invites me in, says husband is working late
>I'm shitting it thinking he's coming home any minute
>chat for a bit but leave quite quickly
Today
>flirting hard again and texting too
>lots of thirsty middle aged guys are getting jelly
So I don't want anything to happen, planning to waifu qt3.14 soon.
BUT, it's awesome having someone to mess about with at work as everyone else is so dry, so don't want to blow her off and mess it up. Also suspect if I did that she'd start rumours anyway.
What do bros? I'm inadvertently playing hard to get which I think she likes, and she was holding my hand, touching body and butt last night. Again don't want anything to happen but in such a crappy atmosphere office it's cool having fun!
Awful. Absolutely awful.
There's just so much shit going on in my life, I'm literally going to have to face being alone for at least 2 more years because I just don't have the time for girls, and all I do is work out and study and work and christ it's not easy
>>35296127
>inb4 beta etc
If you want to marry this qt3.14, don't do it anon.
You'll mess everything up if she finds out, which she probably would.
>>35296127
Don't be an asshole, anon.
>>35296127
>wants to cheat
man
your gf doesn't deserve a shitty guy like you
>>35296127
this time last year I was 210lbs
got to 140 at my lowest, currently 150. im 5'7 so for my height im doing ok. size 36 to 29 waist, getting cut and vascular now, built up some good mass too (did a small bulk after hitting 140)
you can all do it, never give up. if you want something bad enough, work hard and I promise you can achieve it. we'll all make it, you just have to put the time in.
>>35296210
>tfw ED
>tfw being on Day 110 of no Porn&Fap
2016 will be the year of gf for me.
Experiencing my post workout comedown
I don't know why this happens
Hold me brahs
>>35295617
Keep going bro! You stand to lose everything if you quit living, but you stand to win everything you ever wanted if you keep going. Don't become another depressing statistic, become the person you were meant to be
>>35296262
embrace it
>>35296269
what if the person I was meant to be is a corpse?
>>35296274
How do I embrace sadness like this half an hour after every workout, I don't even understand it
>>35293674
Ah, I was about to say if you're living in a pretty big city it really shouldn't be hard to find groups that you can click with. That isn't to say that you will have an easy time in finding that group but you have options.
If anything, cali, chicago, and new york are some of the common hotspots where all subcultures gather and whatnot.
>>35296127
The question isn't should I cheat, I ain't doing that so put your swords away white Knights.
>>35296150
>>35296170
>>35296190
The question is, as the quiet anxiety ridden guy who generally hates work, and is actually enjoying talking to someone there, do I put up with her flirting or just shut it down before she thinks there's something?
2016 is gonna be my big year. Especially since the last 4 years were exactly the same.
>>35294886
>>35294939
>>35294973
I'm this guy.
I feel better. I'm not that sad anymore, going for a beer with my mate later this evening. I still love this girl, it really is a shame how the things turned out to be.
Anyone was in the same situation? Has any advice?
>>35296299
think about your next workout and smile because youll lift even more
>>35296299
Have a cup of coffee and some fruit. Trust me. It works.
>>35296302
> it down before she thinks there's something?
she already does.
by flirting with her you gave her the "yup my dicks available" sign
stop it now
or see your gf one day , surprising you at work with lunch and seeing the milf flirting with you and you flirting back
>>35296302
be clear with her that you just want a (work)friend? of course, that might just sink her interest in you, but yeah shut it down.
>>35293440
You miring my 5 incher?
http://imgur.com/gDZKEyq
>>35295249
I do, but only finish when thinking of her. Literally bust so hard with her on the mind. I feel so broken.
>>35296405
mirin the aesthetics of your cock. N-No h-homo.
>tfw 5.7 inch
>tfw ex gf never complimented me on size but said my cock was beautiful
>tfw your cock looks similar to mine
>>35296443
Thanks man
Also
>be talking with ex about sex related things(she was still my gf)
>talking about my dick and her pussy
>I imply that I dont like how her pussy looks
>she tells me that she thinks the same about my schlong
Felt bad man
![giphy[1].gif](https://i.imgur.com/nc2LJFT.gif "giphy[1].gif")
>>35293483
You should seriously consider cutting that thing off. It looks dead and diseased
>>35293340
I'm not. But each day I get an hour or two at the gym; a brief reprieve. it keeps me going.
And it's not the endorphins or being too exhausted to think about my problems. When I push that weight, I'm pushing away the weight that I carry around inside. The desperation, unspeakable burden of my responsibilities and my personal insufficiencies, all the dark feelings. Each rep a triumph over life itself.
When I pull, it's a clinging desperate reaching up for life, like a baby reaching up towards mother. Each successful rep gives life, as a pulling in of sustenance or a breath of air. Every lift a bear hug for my inner self.
Some see the gymfolk as shallow, vein or superficial. The gym is a theater for the struggle between life and death. I face that struggle head on every day; the alternative is resignation and defeat.
>>35293861
I met a girl on a dating site who posted this on her Facebook (lol use a more random username next time bitch) and I felt so sorry for her that I've been pretending to be into her for like 2 weeks now. I told her I was interested in all the weird shit she likes because I just wanted her to feel better and gain some confidence because I know how that feels.
She's so happy...what have I done?
>>35296568
Let her down easy, desu. She's a humen bean too.
>>35296605
I just wanted to make someone happy :(
Fuuuuuuuuuuuuck
>>35296640
Become genuinly interested in her wierd shit.
>>35296568
What "weird shit" is she into?
This is an important question.
>>35296559
That was beautiful, anon
>>35296722
nah, more like is she attractive enough.
>>35296752
If that's the dilemma than pics are necessary.
>>35296722
i guess it's anime weeb shit and fag metal/ alt rock
>>35295600
I'll bite, tell me what's wrong.
>>35296722
>I am so weird girls
Biggest hoax there is, I dated one.
>I am not like other girls
>Iam pretty weird
Her ''weirdness'' was making some weird faces sometimes, then being generic girl #891114
>>35297025
Thank you based desu senpai.
When do you know it is time to hero?
>>35297048
Right now.
>>35295617
You've seen starwars i take it then.
Does luke give up after having his hand chopped up? Is it a story about overcoming an overwhelmingly bad situation?
You don't even have to put the burden of being a jedi on your shoulders, you can be a simple member of the rebellion. Just do what is right, destroy the empire by starting with baby steps.
>>35294886
>>35297057
Ok then ;_;. How should I do it?
>>35297048
it's never, fag
>>35297090
I'm confused now :(
>>35293444
Same.
I apparently am a bery likable guy. Everyone likes me. I'm great.
And I am.
Just not good enough to love I guess.
Added forearms to workout. Dl 3 plate for reps. Finally bought a squat rack.
>>35297109
lmao it's better to suffer than not feel anything at all
because the former is temporary, while the latter is permanent
just pick up drawing or some shit lmao topcuck
>>35297087
In the worst fucking way possible, you're gonna die of old age.
>>35297048
I don't think it ever is, you're not giving me anything though. Apart from the fact that you're considering suicide. what is it that makes you think your only way out is this cowardly move?
>>35293875
> 9/10 times the girls don't take a guy back because they don't need to, they can meet tons of guys by doing literally nothing spectacular
This. Women literally only need to be alive and free from any noticeable disabilities in order to have men interested in them.
If you can't get her out of your head, stop for a minute and realize she hasn't thought of you once since the last time you two have met or spoken on the phone. She already has someone else on her mind, and will never, ever run back to you, or so much as contact you in any way shape or form.
It sucks when it happens to you, and it's OK to struggle to realize she's gone for good, but you owe it to yourself to move the fuck on. Cry yourself to sleep if you have to, but don't even think about trying to win her back. It's not going to happen, and by focusing on her you're missing out on what could be your companion for years to come.
Move on. It's hard, but you've got no choice.
>>35297170
What is more cowardly than to continue an existence that hurts the people I love? Ending it is better.
>>35297165
No desu senpai. That won't work.
>>35297160
No desu senpai
>>35297175
>tfw disabled
No one will ever love me and I just can't grasp it. No one cares if you're buff if you're not even sane
>>35297194
Ok, go hang yourself then family.
We won't remember you, so our opinion of what you do is useless.
>>35297057
What a meanie, senpai
>>35297207
Good point. That's a decent suggestion too. I've got rope. No need to buy stuff.
>>35297194
Now i regret asking what it was about in the first place. You're giving us nothing, you're fishing for the attention of anons on a Cambodian fapping board. You're probably gonna cut like a fourteen yea old emo girl.
>>35297244
I'm sorry you feel that way desu. Do you have a suggestion on how I can do it?
Feeling depressed. Been on many dates, one person I really like but being ghosted, unable to see my therapist anymore because insurance will no longer cover it, feel very empty inside, hate my job, and my mom is dying of terminal cancer.
>>35293390
MANLETMANLETMANLETMANLETMANLET
>>35297261
Yes, grab your head from both sides and push until you decapitate yourself.
If you can't, make it your Overhead Press goal. This is the only way a fitizen should a hero
>>35297261
No more suggestions?
>>35297292
>>35297347
That sounds unpractical. Wouldn't it be easier to use free weights some way instead?
I've been a normie for a year and I'm still a virgin. Still no one has said anything good about my appearance. I want to go back desu but I'm in too deep
My housemates are the most unthankful people ever. So, the other week my housemates begged me to come to this basketball tournament, where we had to pay $3 for entry. It was a fun costume based tournament, so everyone had to wear a costume. I didn't want to go, but fuck it, I wanted to play some basketball. My other housemate was let me use his costume. When I got there, a housemate of mine paid for my entry, because he owed me some money. We played for a couple hours, and my team one (we were separated into different teams), and I was apparently the best player of the tournament and won the prize. The prize was a beer case with 18 beers, and the team gave me the whole case of beer.
When I got home, I put the case on the table and went to bed. My housemate took the case and put it in his fridge, thinking it is the house's beer now. I haven't said a word about sharing, but I was thinking I am going to give them a couple beers, just because I am nice person. So, the next day I told them that they will each get 2 beers each (4 housemates get 2 beers each), and I would get 10. They were really angry that they ONLY got 2 beers, and wanted to share the beer equally. I won the prize, and I gave beer to them for free, as a gift, and they demanded more. They argued that they should have more because they invited me to the tournament, they lend me a costume, and paid my entry (which was my money anyway). I thought first that they were joking, but they were really serious and got really angry because they didn't get many beers. They have been treating me like shit since.
I have never met as unthankful people as them before. I have never met people who get something for free, and would demand more because they weren't happy with the gift.
