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Whats a normal, non-autistic way to respond to someone who compliments
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Whats a normal, non-autistic way to respond to someone who compliments you on your gains?

"Thanks.. y-you too" apparently isn't.
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Thnx m8
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>>35248816

just say thank you, you fucking retard
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>>35248856
This.

That way, you'll have made it appearent, at least in words, that you acknowledge their compliment.
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>These gains are for you. No Homo
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For social bs you can often imitate what grills do.

just say "Thank you!"
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>>35248816
Give them two tickets to the gun show.
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>>35248816

"Hey, thanks! Hard work does pay off."
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>"thanks. I earned it, every step of the way"
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>>35248816
For you
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>>35248816
It may look like its a good time to show off since someone else started it, but don't. A lot of people fall into the trap of acknowledging how great they re indirectly when answering, which other people see as vain. NEVER say things like 'thanks'. Always brush it off, it shows the other person that you are humble and didn't do it just for the attention. Some example are
>Nah bro, im still small
>Its nothing, anyone who isnt lazy can do it
>You think this is good gains? what the hell man, this is shit.

Always stress how the complement is unnecessary because its not good enough to be complemented.
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>>35249043
plsbtroll
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>>35249043
If you refuse a compliment, you don't seem like you're being humble, it seems like you're fishing for more compliments. Just be gracious and accept it.
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>>35248856
>>35248889
>>35248893
>>35248900
no problem when i talk to a guy, normally the conversation just leads to liftin' related stuff.

when it's a grill, i just splutter 't-thank you' and it's all spaghetti..
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>>35249043
Insincere humility is the most insulting response to compliments. Just say thanks. Don't be a prick like this cunt.
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>>35249131
>>35249115
>>35249058
cant tell if you guys are joking, or autistic
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"Thanks brah," if it's your homie. Either "You mirin?" or "Thanks, now you flex," if it's a grill. Take the last one as an opportunity to feel her up a little.
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>>35249043
There's nothing wrong with 'Thanks' and a smile like a fucking human being lad.

>>35249126
...well yeah. Again, just 'Thanks' and give her your best "I'm a shy boy" smile
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>>35248816
Thanks.

OP, how socially inept are you?
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>>35249191
You're autistic if you accept a compliment?
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>>35248928
this is corrrct
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>>35248816

"thanks, I work out regularly: anyone that puts the time in can do the same."
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>>35248816
"Thanks, but I still have a long way to go." Or some variation of that,
This is probably shit advice but that's what I honestly feel so it's what I say. Am I autistic?
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person you want to fuck:
>thanks, you look really good too

person you don't wanna fuck - female
>thanks, you too

person you don't wanna fuck - male
>thanks bro
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>tfw teacher compliments my body in front of the class all the time
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>>35248816
say "thanks! I've been ________"

1. Losing some weight lately
2. Making alot of progress lately
3. Getting alot stronger lately
4. Working out more often lately
5. Trying my best lately

If the other person isn't autistic, they will continue the conversation with a follow up question or comment. Hey, look at that, you just had a social interaction.
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>>35249221
That last one is a good way to goof around a bit, good for girls that like jokes.

"Thanks, how are you guns comin'?" Then throw up your arm next to her, if she retorts with a flex, you found someone with a sense of humor especially if she doesn't even lift and makes the joke she does
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>>35251417
>losing some weight lately
never again
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>>35248816
>be me
>lost 20 + kilos in 4 months
>see wife's freind who hasn't seen me for like 4 months
> oh wow anon your so skinny now
>me: I know ( smile)
>wife's little sister " your supposed to say thank you, your so rude"

I never understood why I should thank somebody for noticing me..
like wtf have you done for me to be thankful.
wow you noticed I lost weight ? I suppose you want a compliment too right? oh wait you didn't complement me you just noticed I've lost weight...
Thank you I guess.
Thank you for all of the hard hours of blood sweat and tears that I MYSELF have suffered for.
fuck you and your fucking "noticing me is a complement mind set" .

it's equal to somebody saying " oh the sun is bright" or " the grass is green" yes its true because it is true but shouldn't expect a 'thank you" from pointing out facts .

>bumping with a picture of this sick moth I found yesterday .
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>>35248816
tell them that you are flattered but you would rather not be put on the spot light because you have an inferiority complex that needs healing before you are able to accept compliments like a functioning human being.
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"Wow you look good!"
>I know
Every time I say this the person gets mad
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>>35251578
I just discovered from my own post that I am literally an autist with social problems .
I find large insects more interesting than a social conversation.
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>>35251626
Yes you are, most people like compliments and you are thankful for them because they are appreciative of your skills/personality/body/whatever.
Try giving compliments to others sometime, they generally like it.
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>>35251417

Fucking LOL
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I don't acknowledge it..

Just 'uhu' and continue the conversation/change the point

I don't care for compliments, not in the slightest bit. I also never compliment people myself. And I have a large group of friends and a gf - so no fedora edgy neckbeard
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>>35249126
Flex a bicep and say "bang bang"

Usually makes girls laugh
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>>35251626
Nah mate that moth is pretty cool ngl
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>>35249043
Literally the worst response imaginable.
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>>35251741
it is pretty cool.
biggest moth I've ever held, I've seen these other moths that are about the size of a small bird flying around but I have yet to catch one.

thinking about setting up a lamp and some white bed sheets tonight to see what I can catch.
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>>35251417

>"Thanks! I've been trying my best lately"
>"..pardon?"
>"haha, y-yeah I've been uh, trying my best?"

/adv/ is the place to ask about not being an assburger.
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>>35251870
Except you don't say "Trying my best lately" Like an asspie. You say "Thanks, you know I've just been trying my best, doing what I can. Sort of new to the gym" (if new)

Can't imagine anyone saying "Pardon"? when you give a perfectly legitimate response.
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>>35248816
Learn to accept compliments. Show that it means sth to you (it's called smiling) and then thank them.
Nothing wrong with adding a little humor at or after the "thank you" part, see >>35251453.


>>35249043
This advice is complete horseshit. It will make you feel bad and the guy/girl who complimented you feel bad as well.
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>>35251843
I took an entomology class and we had to collect bugs and pin them. It was a really cool class. The moths youre talking about sound like lunar moths.
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>>35251843
Let them go and live free afterwards please Anon
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>>35251606
alright han
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"Nice muscles."

"Thanks. I grew them myself."

Gets a laff almost every time. Also works for "nice beard/hair"
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>>35252029
>tfw don't care for star wars
>know that line from the movies though
>a girl who is a huge star wars fan, star wars purse, t-shirt, everything, says she thinks I'm really cool
>I say "I know"
>she doesn't get it
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>>35248816
Thank you! I really appreciate your comment!


Afterwords give them a Postive comment
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>>35251950
they had long curly tongues.
>if you can call it a tongue.

I want one.
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>>35252096
its a proboscis. Im telling you, you should take that ento class. Youll learn a lot
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>>35252104
I'd love to but I wouldn't know where to start, apart from fitness wildlife is one of my biggest interests .

insects (especially beetles ) and reptiles being my fave.

>tfw you are probably my lifting soul mate.
>We could discuss the fall of bee populations while we lift.
>a rep for every colony destroyed
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>>35252166
lol. are you in college? I went with bio and so i got to take a lot of nature type classes. One of the fieldtrips for my ento class was to a bee colony. I got to put on a suit, get a smoker thing, and harvest honey. It was cool as hell. Also got to collect bombardier beetles.
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>>35252194
man that's my dream to play with one of them acid squirting little Basterds.
no I'm not in college >>35252194
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