>My roommate brings home several girls a week and fucks them in the room right above me
>I havnt been laid in 3 years and yet I abstains from fapping [savage mode].
>I feel empty and depressed when I both initiate and perform one night stands.
>Just want to have spontaneous, passionate, natural sex with a woman I love
>But I'm 22 and women my age seem atrocious to be around
>But extreme fetish for goth girls
>But tfw when tradition
Please help.
All criticism will be evaluated
[also post goth qts]
>>34961798
It sounds like you want a girlfriend. Have you tried talking to women?
I know, they're 90% shit. And I don't mean in a robot way, I mean in a "why don't you have any genuine interests or personality" kinda way.
desu I didn't meet a woman I actually loved being with other than sex until I was fuckin' 27.
I do want a girlfriend. However the only women who seem to hold the same values and mindset as me are found in churches. For a while I was convinced that I had social problems.because I didnt know how to communicate with them. Then I started to realize most of them have nothing to talk about outside of what they see on their phones.
Do you have any advice? I feel very alone in my thinking.
>>34961798
Good luck finding a goth girl, if you even know what that really is. I think what you really want is an alternative girl, which isn't hard to get. Go hang around hot topic or go to industrial raves/festivals if they are near, or just use dating apps/sites.
>>34962031
These girls are usually complete shit tho, speaking from experience
If you're traditional you just want a traditional qt, you just don't know it yet
I probably don't know what it truly is outside of my own idealizations. I would like to think of them as having a sense of humility and appreciation for closeness.
>>34962069
Well, again, OP is confused. Goth and alternative are two different things that pretty much nobody knows the difference between because Google is difficult to use and they assume others to be correct when saying someone is goth.
Goth girls = usually fine (it's literally just a punk scene culture from the 70s and 80s and doesn't have to include a dark aesthetic, but often does)
Alternative girls like the pics in this thread =
major mental issues you'll not want to deal with (these are hot topic girls)
My roommate is a 6'5 master race Tom Brady look alike and could get any girl he wants, but always brings 4/10 chubby drunk girls home. He doesn't even lift, but has an ottermode body with god tier genetics. Why is his standards so low? I get being a chubby chaser, but these fat chicks aren't hot at all.
>>34962119
>goth girls
>humility
Are you retarded? Subcultures with non standard aesthetics are all about the "look at me" aspect.
>>34961798
>[SAVAGE MODE]
DESIGNATED
DEACTIVATED
>>34962150
Its possible that Im just being childish.
>>34961798
>the room
>right above me
Are you saying you guys have bunk beds?
Anybody who thinks that all grills are shit just doesn't talk to grills. You're going based on the media's portrayal of women, and the women that you notice reflect this portrayal (because their entire lives scream "notice me!"). Just go out in the groups and to the events that you feel connected to, and some of the people that you meet there will be women. Interact with them. Get closer over time. Boom, you have yourself a grill with similar interests.
cool, the 'tradition' (whatever the fuck that means) and your dislike of vapid women sounds like a great excuse for why you don't get laid.
have fun.
>>34961798
>>I feel empty and depressed when I both initiate and perform one night stands.
>>34961974
I would date that chick, however I would feel slightly weird in public because goths just have no fashion sense.
>tfw you're a bottom bitch
>tfw every girl you meet wants to be the bottom bitch
goddamn it why?
I was waiting for that one.
You sound much more boring than those "vapid" girls you talk about, OP.
Fact: socialize with enough women and you WILL encounter those who are actually smart/worthwhile. On the other hand, if you spend all day listening to your roommate get laid instead, you won't meet anyone.
>>34961798
Go to local dark wave shows
>>34961798
>>Just want to have spontaneous, passionate, natural sex with a woman I love
Get over yourself and just go bang some broads. One of them will turn out to be more.
Here you go m8s
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0kaR6-MIV8k
Not op but what if what keeps me from dating/hooking up is the fact that im a manlet and want to kill myself?
>>34961953
I feel you son, I'm so disappointed by almost every woman I meet. Recently met a Russian qt who is hard working, she cares deeply for her family too, and she's so fucking sweet, I like her, I recommend hitting up every Russian in your area
>>34961798
I'm going to be honest with you, OP.
The worthwhile women that: were raised in a proper household, are worthy of marriage, are not sluts, are interesting, are attractive- might be out of your league. These are extremely rare creatures and the families that raise them (often upper middle class) have semi-arranged marriages with other families.
This is mostly true for the south where the gap is more noticeable between the plebs and the modern slaves.
>>34963060
Jesus Christ this is sad dude. Nothing wrong with short guys unless they're dicks about their height. Stop falling for the manlet meme and live your life.
>>34961798
ASK YOUR ROOM MATE FOR HELP ON HOW TO APPROACH WOMEN. YOU DON'T HAVE TO HAVE A ONE NIGHT STAND WITH THEM BUT YOU DO HAVE TO TALK TO THEM.
I don't get how this isn't totally obvious. It's like you're living with rippletits and instead of asking him how to squat, you're shitposting on 4chan.
>>34961953
SOCIALIZE WITH WOMEN AT CHURCH FUNCTIONS.
You already know the kind of women you want. You know exactly where to find them. Go talk to them.
>>34962362
YES, OBVIOUSLY. WOMAN ARE PEOPLE.
If you think all women are X, you are an idiot. Some women are X and some women are not. There are literally billions of them. They aren't all the same.
>>34961798
>wants 22 year old goth girl
>wants traditional relationship
>pick one
10 years ago, maybe, this might have been do-able. But now a bonafide goth girl is a needle in a haystack. And I can almost guarantee that a younger one at that age isn't likely to be the type to mate for life. Or into vanilla sex. Maybe you can go to a fet night and be a sub for one. Closest advice I can give you, cereal.
>>34963139
This nigga. Tfw actually regected for being too short, laughed at for being too short, actually quite 'handsome', but of course, too short. Its happened my whole life m8. Anecdotal of course but you know, no one gives a fuck so why not vent here
>>34963237
Find a woman shorter than you or become more attractive. These are your options. Pick one or be sad and alone.
i am a pretty high level oly lifter, maybe make the national team in my country
i am a big guy 188cm, and always get looked at in college and gym but have no feeling to for these girls it is obvious they don't like me other than my body
i just want finish school and make my country special forces, i live with parents they always tell me to go outside with friends it makes me feel bad. i like being alone
does anyone else have this? i don't feel ill find get right girl ever
>>34963352
Yeah, I know that feeling.
I feel like people don't even like me. And that if they got to know me, they would think I'm a loser like my mom does.
Just put yourself out there more. Internet dating may seem kind of desperate, but it really is the best way for two lonely people to find each other.
The loneliness is just a feeling though. I mostly go day-to-day pursuing what makes me happy, and that's all we can really ask for in life.
Keep trying man. I believe in you.
>>34962388
I know where he's coming from. I started feeling that way once when I was 26. Still haven't grown out of it.
I suppose it's because my long-term gf dumped me when I was 25, then I spent about 6 months slaying puss left and right. Then I just wanted a decent girl I could connect with and stop feeling so lonely all the time.
But tinder ruined women for me. They're all whores. And I can't ignore it anymore, because it's not just a suspicion, but affirmative knowledge.
Guh.
>tfw. . . just when.
>>34964047
>I use an app made for people who want to hook up to hook up
>I hook up with women on the app
>the women are bad because they hook up with me
>all women are bad like the women on the hook up app
I don't get guys like you.
>>34961953
Hit up them european bitches. For American girls stick to the ones that value family and traditional values over everything else.
>>34964093
I never used tinder. But every girl I meet around town has.
>>34961798
Why don't you ask him for some help and advice?
>>34963078
Take it from me, Eastern Euros are always looking for the next upgrade, especially if it concerns more money.
>>34961864
Why is it that girls almost never have any interest besides, you know, "having fun"
>>34961798
considering how fat her face is, she has shooped her belly, right?
>>34963091
This is a load of shit
>>34961798
seriously just go bang a 9/10 escort to get your feet wet and your appetite for pussy back
>>34961798
Protip: nofap is bullshit. As is noporn. As is any other no[thing] puritan zealots will dream up.
>>34963265
>tfw 6'4
>tfw gf is 5'3
>>34961798
Not all girls are shit. I mean, yes, a relationship won't work out in the long run with 99% of the girls in the world, but that's after quite a long while. If you honestly can't form even a basic connection with any woman around your age, at least enough to enjoy their company for a while, then the only common denominator is you. Sorry dude, you're just boring. The "all women are unworthy of my sensitive and sophisticated self, also having sex only for fun is for plebs" shtick is just typical of fedora-neckbeard-gentleman guys who suck at being a person.
tldr: work on yourself and stop looking for excuses to resent everybody, nobody cares and even if they do, nobody's buying it
>>34963265
>tfw would have to find 4'11" or 5'0" girl to be in the good zone.
>>34962274
Nice
>>34962138
>Why is his standards so low?
I don't know, why don't you ask him?
>>34962362
>>34962387
>>34962626
>>34962726
>>34966817
>taking women's side
I didn't know /fit/ was full of beta white knight feminazi manginas.
Guys help me. I've been involved with this chick for a year now and I want to be single again but I can't let her go. She's just comfy to be around.
>>34968670
It's because reddit has invaded.
>>34966005
>I don't have enough willpower to do it therefore I'll tell everyone it's useless and bigoted so I feel better about myself
>>34961953
>However the only women who seem to hold the same values and mindset as me are found in churches
So what's the issue?
Go to church and socialize with people there. Christians are pretty welcoming people.
>>34968715
Well you already know you can't have it both ways, so time to weigh up the options of single vs attached. I imagine she's not a good match for you if you want rid of her, but maybe that you like the routine of it, or the benefits of having a gf? In which case you're only wasting your own time and opportunities by staying with her.
>>34968670
>taking women's side
Literally none of the posts you linked do that. Same for feminazi white-knighting.
The point is you can't control how women will behave, you only have control over yourself. If you're a sad sack because you can't get women, then you have to do something in order to get women. All the posts you linked literally told the guy to nut up and take responsibility for himself. The alternative is doing nothing and whining because society refuses to change to accommodate you. That's what the HAES/SJW tumblerinas do and this board mocks them for it constantly. The beta manginas are the guys like you and OP who fail at one of the most fundamental aspects of life (socializing, communication) and are mad at the world for it. Telling you to stop whining and face reality isn't white-knighting, but I guess real men like you can't process an uncomfortable truth except through the lens of an ebin maymay.
Keep doing you.
>>34961798
You do know goth gitls are notorious for being total whores, right?
Ive banged 3 at uni. They werent 10s but fuck bordrlerline all I did was ask "wanna blow me?"
>>34968850
ssshhhh, you're gonna wake him up from his dream of the quirky lovable pixie princess who's gonna swoop in and solve all his problems
>>34962138
It's easy and it strokes his ego. Also cock.
>>34963265
>average difference is 5-6 inches
>get taller
Since most people on /fit/ are over 6'4 the most likely reason they aren't getting laid is that there aren't enough 5'11+ women out there for all of us.
Jokes aside, the average female height is what, 5'5? This chart really goes to show that the whole manlet thing is butthurt from lanklets and vice versa. Average master race. The average boyfriend seems to be 5'10-6' with both manlets and lanklets losing out on their respective ends of the spectrum.
