I used to have it good with myself – great men showed interest in me and I used to think that I was quite a catch. I heard often that I looked good, not just from my friends and relatives but even random people complimented me every now and then. My self-esteem was great.
Then shit happened, I got dumbed twice and ditched few more times. It just totally crushed me and I started to doubt myself. I became careful and ashamed of myself, constantly thinking that if I was good enough, I wouldn’t have gotten dumbed. I don’t understand where the magic disappeared, I have been taken care of my body for years and nowadays I’m studying in a good university. I dress well and got long hair. But for some reason, men doesn’t find me attractive anymore.
I’ve gotten to a point where I don’t want approval anymore. I don’t wanna date anyone or form romantical relationships. I just wanna be absolutely positive, that when I look in the mirror, I can like myself and be sure that it’s not an illusion, but that I actually do look damn great. And those guys who ditched me, having them looking at me and thinking what they lost is bonus too. I’m already putting extra effort on other factors of my life; working on an appreciated degree, training and eating right 7 days a week, competing rather successfully in my own sport and so on.
Has any of you considered plastic surgery? Should I go for it? Will it fix me?
How old are you? As a woman you are in the situation that after a certain age your attractiveness will get lower every year until no man will look at you anymore. Surgery can make you look more attractive for some time, but in the end you have to accept that the time when great men gave you a special treatment is over.
Post pic
>>34929495
Why bother going to university tho? It's a waste of time if you're a grill, men don't find Phds and careergirls with six figure incomes attractive
>>34929495
>dumped
If you have the money, I don´t see a problem. It would be better to ask your close friends and family. I would only consider surgery for something really bad.
>>34929495
You got dumped because you considered yourself "quite a catch" and probably acted like an entiteled bitch. Guess what, just looking good isnt enough to keep a partner, you also have to be a nice person.
>>34929530
I'm 21. So I don't worry about aging quite yet.
>>34929537
Well I wanna have a career of my own, fulfil my dreams and I don't think that men would be interested in women without a good education. Also, I enjoy "using my brain" so to say and intellectual stimulation. Making a better future for my kids&family motivates me too.
>>34929552
Oh right, my bad. (English isn't my first language.)
>>34929495
Idgaf about you, just know that this is justice porn and my penis is fully erect.
>>34929495
>I’ve gotten to a point where I don’t want approval anymore
> And those guys who ditched me, having them looking at me and thinking what they lost is bonus too
Don't lie to yourself, Everybody wants approval. You just had your easy approval in your youth and are depressed that it will never be the same anymore until you die.
>>34929495
Why is /cgl/ wandering on /fit/ today?
Post a picture at least
>>34929590
Facts
>>34929495
You should have enjoyed while it last
I never had approval to begin with so I'd call this justice and feel no pity for you
>>34929572
If you are 21, being dumped is normal. You just need to give some time. You don´t have to be in a relationship to be happy. Just jumping from bf to bf is a really bad idea. Try to enjoy more yourself and your friends.
Surgery because your relationships aren´t working is a really bad idea.
>>34929590
Well yeah, but what I meant with that is just I'm not into men anymore in that sense. Haven't changed my sexual orientation (lol), but I don't feel like dating anyone or bonding close relationships. Having them drooling after me is enough and fulfils the desire. I know that I sound exactly as same as so many man on this board,but it is what it is.
>>34929610
I just got his thought on my mind that no one will ever like me as the way I am. I got disgusting features which I don't like and it's unreasonable to ask others like them either.
If I don't make it in my youth years, it's damn sure that I won't do it later either. Career-wise maybe yes, as a good mother, yes, relationship- and family-wise, no.
Bigger tits, ass implants, bleached asshole and fucking remove your beef curtains. Fake nails, fake hair, fake lashes, maybe some liposuction and get a tan. Also botox so you won't even get wrinkles. That will show these assholes who got rid of you.
>>34929638
POST THE FUCKING PICTURE
>>34929638
>Well yeah, but what I meant with that is just I'm not into men anymore in that sense. Haven't changed my sexual orientation (lol), but I don't feel like dating anyone or bonding close relationships. Having them drooling after me is enough and fulfils the desire. I know that I sound exactly as same as so many man on this board,but it is what it is.
That is just your insecruity. So when you fail to find another man you can say to yourself that you didn't want that anyway. When a great guy wants a relationship you will suddenly change you mind.
>>34929638
What the hell. First you feel beautiful and right after being dumped you feel horrible? You are probably just down like many lonely people who post on the feel threads.
This is when I have to agree with the others. If you don´t post a picture of yourself, we can´t help much. The girls on the other thread >>34928448 seemed fine despite them thinking little of themselves.
>>34929649
I don't think so.
And a picture tells nothing really. I can take a picture which causes the same reaction as in this pic, or I can show my passport picture where I look like utter shit. Worst thing really is that when I look to mirror myself, I often like what I see. But it's obviously not true and has caused me to doubt myself and generally destroyed my self-confidence. Lifting and sports generally helps a lot though.
>>34929495
Nobody dumped you because they thought you were ugly. If you were ugly, they wouldnt have tried in the first place.
Your problem is that you are most likely a vapid, insufferable, useless cunt with no value beyond the hole between your legs. This will get you dumped/ditched far quicker and far more often than your perceived ugliness.
>>34929682
Then shut the fuck up and go away, what type of retard wants to know what they should do to their face but won't let other people see their face
Guys probably dumped you not because you're ugly but because you're a boring self absorbed rambling attention whore as we can see in this thread
Is posting as insecure girls the new bait thread?
>>34929707
I think people are getting lost on their way to /adv/ and ending up here
Or maybe because /fit/ is home to so many insecure fags and miscellaneous muh feelings related shitposting that people can't tell these places apart anymore
>>34929682
You sound like that whore from /soc/ who killed herself recently: have a fuckton of mental issues that turn guys off but think guys don't like you because you're ugly when in reality being not-ugly is the only thing you have going for you
>>34929698
I never made any guys happy when I did the right things. I've noticed that no amount of education, training or helping takes you anywhere, it's all about looks, sexiness and social status. Men say that women are like that, but it's the exact same thing for men too. I don't blame them though. But I think that my looks are the easiest thing to improve in myself and a key to gain more success on other fields of my life too.
I can't post a pic. Maybe if I lived in America with hundreds of millions of people that could be taken into consideration, but I live in Europe and the thing is that due my athlete background and other things such as working in a student union, I can not take the risk that someone would actually recognize me. Or that I'd be the insecure grill meme for the rest of my life.
>>34929745
I don't have any diagnosed issues, but yeah, I've been acting a little crazy many times. But aren't all of the gurls like that anyways?
>>34929757
>I can't post a pic.
Then /thread.
Go talk to your colleagues and friends. They can look at you and they can give you proper advice.
If we can´t see you, we won´t massage your ego.
>>34929572
>Well I wanna have a career of my own
>my kids&family
Kek, you can't have both OP, one will end up get neglected like crazy, pick whichever one is more important to you and pursue it with 100% of your energy
>>34929757
>But aren't all of the gurls like that anyways?
No you dumb slut
It's just you and others like you that suck so much you end up dragging down your whole gender with you
>>34929757
>Maybe if I lived in America with hundreds of millions of people that could be taken into consideration, but I live in Europe
Europe has a bigger population than the USA.
>>34929757
Post a timestamped picture of your hand then, grill hands look very different to man hands so it'll prove that you're not just a troll
>>34929495
fuck you and everyone in this thread responding to you. either this is great bait or your are all a bunch of pussywhipped motherfuckers answering to this bitch. no wonder you fags that post tfw nogf threads are losers in real life if you fucking white knight shit even on a papermache manufacturing mongolese buletin board.
this is not fit related, this is attentionwhoring
also
>muh self esteem
>muh looks
won't post picture though :^)
fucking cringeworthy faggots
>>34929707
Not entirely, they do occasionally post timestamps proving that they're not trolls
I sincerely hope this is a troll thread because even though I only read the OP and OP's first lot of replies I think if this is real she is one of the most deluded people on this board (and that is really saying something)
>>34929801
Wouldn't be the highest form of attention whoring if I actually posted a pic? Trust me senpai, I can post a pic of my body or face which would make 90% of you go "pls be my gf" I'm not sure if I look like that IRL though. Maybe I got a weird face which can look good in a pic but actually looks disgusting. At this point, I honestly don't know. And I don't want anyone to rate my looks. People I meet everyday are doing the judging for me already.
The post isn't about my personal issues, but plastic surgery. Read the last sentence, I asked if anyone has tried or considered plastic surgery in their "making it" process. The personal background view was shared just to reason why I been considering enhancing my looks that way. And I know this board is full of people who lift and take care of their looks cause of very similar reasons that I do.
>>34929495
fucking gay
only really small amount of people need it
i rather have someone look normal through their lives than some fag who turns into freak when old
>>34929841
>Wouldn't be the highest form of attention whoring if I actually posted a pic?
No, it really wouldn't
It would be relevant to the discussion
Talking about yourself nonstop and ignoring what everyone is asking tho, that's an attention whore
>>34929841
>Wouldn't be the highest form of attention whoring if I actually posted a pic? Trust me senpai, I can post a pic of my body or face which would make 90% of you go "pls be my gf" I'm not sure if I look like that IRL though.
and now we know its a troll thread.
>>34929841
Then you derailed your own thread.
>>34929841
Go to the fucking therapist
>>34929841
you sound self absorbed. seriously, no wonder you were 'dumbed'.
>>34929841
implying I would want some self absorbed pathetic bitch as my girlfriend. I already have a girlfriend you stupid piece of shit now get the fuck out of here and go fuck yourself back to /adv/ or /soc/ or whichever the fuck board will have you
>>34929841
There is literally no fucking way any one of us can give you advice about plastic surgery having not being able to objectify your face from an aesthetic point of view.
I read your original post and noticed multiple points of retardation, I wanted to hope they were just typos, but apparently they're not.
>>34931582
>, I wanted to hope they were just typos, but apparently they're not.
Well what did you expect? Poor girl got dumbed multiple times. It probably took it's toll on her iq
